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  1. Volunteers- Making History Now and Then

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Our community has a history of coming together to support each other. I am always inspired when I learn a new piece of history of the volunteer spirit and solidarity that LGBTQIA+ folks have for each other and for other groups fighting for freedom from oppression. The lesbians who supported gay men during the HIV epidemic, organizing the San Diego Blood Sisters who donated blood directly to HIV/AIDS patients and volunteering to sit by their sides when their families and doctors rejected them. Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson’s efforts to house, support and fight for their community with their Street Transvestites Action Revolutionaries (STAR) organization. The first Pride organizers gave their time and energy to stand up for their rights and bring their community together. These examples and many more have had an immense impact on our history and movement, and are all volunteer-led.

    Our community’s volunteers have had a large impact on my personal life as well. When I was first coming out, I didn’t have much of a community, and especially not much of one that I knew would support me wholeheartedly as a queer person. As I was exploring my newfound identity and trying to find my place in a community, I decided to go to She Fest in 2021. When I shyly walked up, not knowing what to expect, I immediately felt welcomed and at home. I surprisingly saw some familiar faces, received many (consensual) hugs, adorned myself with pronoun pins and swag, and left feeling joyful, connected, and free, all because of community members and volunteers giving their time to create that space. Later that year, I saw She Fest was looking for committee members and I again shyly jumped at the chance to join. Since then, I have found a place and people that I can be myself with and explore who I am. I have found lifelong friends and lifelong passions. I am so grateful for the volunteers and community leaders I now get to work with because of those welcoming and warm experiences I had when I was first discovering my queerness.

    I know I am not the only one with a story like this, finding community in volunteering or at Pride events, or finally having a feeling of freedom and belonging due to an experience at an event or with a volunteer. Next week, April 21-27, 2024, is National Volunteer Appreciation Week and April is Global Volunteer Month. Take some time this month to reflect on the volunteers and community members that have impacted your life, and if you know a volunteer, thank them, write them a letter, share your stories of how volunteers have made your life better, or share your appreciation in any way that works best for you.

    I am thinking about the volunteers at She Fest that made me feel at home. The volunteers that put on Light Up the Cathedral to make LGBTQ+ folks from all faith backgrounds feel welcome and supported. The volunteers and awardees at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally that impact our community through every day actions. The volunteers at the Pride Parade that organize over 300 contingents and ensure 300,000 attendees are safe and having fun celebrating our community. The 2,000 shifts covered by volunteers that help us put on the Pride Festival, from setting up to ensuring our event is accessible to supporting our artists to providing enriching workshops to cleaning up when it is all done. I am thinking of the volunteers that run our year-round programs and ensure our community is supported and welcomed in every aspect of their identity all year long. 

    I am so grateful for everyone that gives their time to support all the things that San Diego Pride does, as well as in our community at large. Thank you, volunteers!

    With appreciation,
    Linda Glevy
    she/they
    Volunteer, Event, and Access Coordinator

  2. Join us for the Second Annual Pride Power Summit!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Our community is creating tangible safety, security, and equality here and now, even when we’re bombarded with stories of LGBTQIA+ hate. We’re able to do this work through community building and grassroots organizing. 

    I’m privileged to work in explicit organizing spaces, and I’m constantly motivated by the work my peers are doing here in San Diego. I wanted to share some examples of organizing efforts that fuel my belief in community power and our collective fight for justice. 

    Last year the concept of Pride and our ability to signal acceptance of LGBTQIA+ folks was challenged. 

    Several cities across San Diego challenged our ability to signal acceptance of LGBTQIA+ and attempted to ban Pride Flags. In the South Bay, Chula Vista Elementary School District initially voted with the intent to ban Pride Flags in all schools of the district. Community leaders including leaders at Rainbow Spaces, rallied public support against their action. The following School Board meeting resulted in the board reversing their decision. A similar instance in Carlsbad involved the city council, who failed to allow Pride Flags to be flown in May of last year. After strong community organizing, including an impassioned protest planned by North County LGBTQIA+ Resource Center, and impassioned testimonies at city council, Carlsbad ultimately voted to let the Pride Flag fly the following week.

    Recently, activists in Sacramento worked with city council members to create and unanimously pass a resolution to become a sanctuary city for trans folks.

    Lastly, we’re in collaborative efforts with community leaders and organizations to create a strategic coalition. We’re organizing to take action across SD School Boards to remind them of California’s robust LGBT+ protective policies, and rally support for our community when School Boards or other authorities violate our rights. 

    Grassroots organizing is everywhere, but we acknowledge that it can be challenging to identify the specific, transferable skills of organizing, and difficult to identify how to level up community building efforts, or apply strategy to plans for change. It can also feel intimidating to get involved. 

    That’s why we’re thrilled to host our second annual Pride Power Summit, a crucial initiative aimed at empowering LGBTQIA+ and equality-minded organizers in San Diego. Last year, we engaged over 40 attendees and more than dozen community leaders. Our attendees walked away feeling energized and confident in the transformative power of grassroots activism.

    Our supporters believe in this work and are invested in the community. We are excited to announce that the 2024 Pride Power Summit is free for all registered attendees, ensuring that cost is not a barrier to attendance. Our carefully curated workshops are designed to address key areas of activism and advocacy. Here’s a glimpse of the what’s in store for our workshop tracks:

    WORKSHOP 1:

    • Vol Recruitment & Confirmation Drills 
    • Disability Justice: Making Your Actions Accessible

    WORKSHOP 2:

    • Campaign Action Basics 
    • Campaign Planning: Strategy & Tactics

    WORKSHOP 3:

    • Running a Successful Campaign Event (action or meeting) 
    • Training Your Volunteers

    This conference is designed with every person in mind. It’s for the seasoned grassroots organizing professional, looking to incorporate an LGBTQIA+ lens into their work. It’s for the volunteer who’s participated in every election cycle since before they were able to register to vote. It’s for the high school students who want to advocate for themselves in front of school boards that are seeking to pass transphobic policies. It’s for the ally who wants to learn how to show up for their LGBTQIA+ loved ones beyond words of affirmation and take direct action. 

    But most of all, it’s for the anxious person who’s worried about the state of our democracy and the future of LGBTQIA+ rights in this country, and who doesn’t know where to begin. We got you. 

    You do not need to have experience in political efforts, you just need an interest in learning about justice centered actions, and a free Saturday on May 11. 

    We invite you to join us for the Pride Power Summit and become a part of the movement for lasting positive change. Together, we can create a more inclusive, equitable, and just world for everyone. Together, we can create history now.

    With Pride,

    Jen Hibberts(she/they)
    Organizing & Outreach Coordinator

  3. Two Decades of TDOE

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In 2024, the fight for trans liberation feels omnipresent, especially for those of us who identify as transgender and/or nonbinary. In the past few years alone, we’ve witnessed a disturbing surge in anti-trans legislation across the country. Records for the number of anti-trans bills introduced in state legislatures have been shattered year after year, with 2024 poised to continue this troubling trend. School boards have taken up the mantle, too, with harmful anti-trans policies, even here in San Diego County. This fight goes beyond policy and statehouses; the insidious rhetoric and fear-mongering campaigns that seek to erase trans and nonbinary existence from the public sphere have taken center stage, and are having truly devastating real-life impacts, as in the recent case of Nex Benedict, a trans non-binary Oklahoma teenager that died in February after being bullied and beaten. These are not abstract debates, these are matters of life and death.

    And, to be clear, these are not new fights. As my friend and colleague David Vance noted during our Midday Edition panel on KPBS this week, the The echoes of past discrimination against the LGBTQIA+ community are unmistakable. Similar fear tactics that were once wielded against gay men and lesbians are now being repurposed to target trans and nonbinary individuals. The specter of “but the children!,” once used to target gay men and lesbians, is once again invoked to justify denying trans and nonbinary youth access to gender-affirming healthcare, attacking their social support systems, banning books, and implementing discriminatory and harmful policies in schools. 

    But Transgender Day of Empowerment is not just about the adversity facing our community. This is about trans liberation and the data-informed and history-backed proof that we will get to freedom. We have fought very similar fights before, and we have won. We stand on the right side of history, bolstered by the courage of those who came before us and the determination of those who stand alongside us.

    Two decades ago, Tracie Jada O’Brien founded Transgender Day of Empowerment here in San Diego as a beacon of hope and solidarity, bringing together trans elders and young people in a shared celebration of community. The scholarships awarded in Tracie’s name at the event symbolize not just financial support but a commitment to nurturing the future leaders of our community – this year’s 23 scholarships add to the grand total of 247 scholarships totaling $123,500.

    As we celebrate Trans Day of Visibility and Trans Day of Empowerment, it’s important to focus not just on the hate we’re fighting against, but on the liberation and world we’re fighting for. Trans joy, brilliance, excellence, beauty, survival, thriving, the ability to be our whole selves and the safety to explore all the possibilities that our lives might hold – that is the future that we all deserve, and that is the reality that we are working toward, together. 

    We trans and nonbinary folks are resilient, yes – our elders like Tracie shine as examples of that every day. And we know that a safer and more free world is possible. It is also true that it is beyond exhausting to feel like our existence is called into question nearly every day, it is terrifying that increased visibility can also mean increased danger, and it is hard to keep fighting for the ability to be our whole selves. We can’t do this entirely on our own; we need our cisgender families, friends, colleagues, and neighbors to join us as we dream and create the safer future that we all deserve.

    With Pride,

    Jen LaBarbera(they/them/)
    Interim Co-Executive Director

    A version of this piece was published in the Union-Tribune on Thursday, April 4.

  4. Youth Art Show!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    I have very recently become acquainted with the lives and works of Lesbian artists in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Painters, photographers, writers, poets, and bohemians whose voices have been relinquished to the shadows of history, their names and works largely forgotten or overlooked. Radclyffe Hall, Natalie Barney, Renée Vivien, Colette, the names go on and on. 

    I have never read The Well of Loneliness. Before this week, I had never seen the paintings of Romaine Brooks, whose portraits of women in masculine dress would have deeply resonated with a younger me. I wish that younger me could have seen these portraits, could have found myself in the suits and ties a century gone by, could have seen my reflection etched in 100-year-old paint.

    The work of these trailblazing artists remains both defiant and daring and I wish they could have known how their bravery would be rediscovered and witnessed now, so many years later. 

    Just as these artists painted and wrote their truths in the face of violence and hostility, so too do our LGBTQ+ youth today. They are shaping the landscape of art and expression with their boldness and unwavering authenticity. This year, our Queer Youth Art Show embraces the theme “Making History Now,” inviting young artists to reflect on the legacy of those who came before them and to forge their own path forward.

    As we prepare to showcase the talents of our young artists on April 6, let us also reflect on ourselves. Generations of queer people have endured a life devoid of representation, unseen and lacking connection to art and community. But, this history need not remain lost. Together, we have the power to rewrite history and ensure that the contributions of Queer artists are recognized and celebrated. We can make history now, one brushstroke and one story at a time.

    With Pride,

    Cris Sotomayor (they/them/elle)
    Senior Manager of Programs

    P.S. Speaking of writing and making our own history, we get ready to start April with the holidays of two powerhouse leaders of farmworker, labor, and social justice movements: Monday, April 1 is César Chávez Day, and Wednesday, April 10 is Dolores Huerta Day. These brilliant organizers created a legacy of coalition-building and fearless leadership in the face of brutal conditions and threats – a legacy that Dolores continues to foster, even at age 93! LGBTQIA+ justice IS worker justice, and we encourage you to learn more about César and Dolores: 

    One great way to continue the organizing legacies of César Chávez and Dolores Huerta is to learn organizing and activism skills yourself – come join us at our second annual Pride Power Summit, where organizers and activists can learn and practice tangible organizing skills to increase the power of the LGBTQIA+ movement and community. Learn more and register here!

  5. And the 2024 San Diego Pride Headliners Are…

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    Dear Pride Family,

    It’s been a decade since I joined the team at San Diego Pride supporting our fabulous entertainment. I will never forget the moment I knew this community was home for me. I joined San Diego Pride as a volunteer to create spaces for our community to dance and celebrate their authentic selves. Families and allies celebrating together are among my favorite memories of that first San Diego Pride weekend. The joy and acceptance I saw that first year from community members celebrating their first Pride together reassured me that this is the place where my heart and soul belong.

    The San Diego Pride festival is so much more than a party. We believe LGBTQ artists have always been invaluable torchbearers for the LGBTQ civil rights movements providing life-saving representation of LGBTQ experiences that are still not widely found in public media. As the Director of Entertainment, it is an honor to give a platform to more than 300 LGBTQ+ artists who grace our four entertainment zones each year to help over 55,000 community members celebrate the weekend.

    This work provides an opportunity to honor the icons of the future, particularly BIPOC, women, and trans artists, while remembering those who have come before us. The stages of San Diego Pride serve as a vital platform to elevate artists to explore their craft in the arms of their community. Where else can you find the depth of queer talent on blissful display? Creating this space for the community keeps me coming back.

    The San Diego Pride Festival will feature three iconic headliners July 20-21. LGBTQ+ advocate, performer, producer and Broadway star, Todrick Hall will bring his prolific storytelling to the Stonewall stage. Multi-platinum rapper and singer Rico Nasty will bring her signature style combining rap with punk energy, industrial intensity, and just the right amount of heavy metal attitude. Grammy nominated American singer, drummer, and percussionist Sheila E. will round out the iconic lineup of headliners for this special anniversary year.

    My tenure at San Diego Pride has been defined by collaboration and community.  My most joyful moments almost always come from sharing my talents and knowledge. Yet, this community has been my greatest teacher. There is nothing more rewarding than seeing queer artists take the knowledge I share to new heights by owning their power as not only performers, but businesspeople. We invite you to join us in joyful celebration of the LGBTQ+ artists who are undeniably and unapologetically making history now.

    With Pride,

    Gardenia Partridge (she/her/hers)
    Entertainment Director

    Get your tickets today!

  6. JOY IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Around this time last year, San Diego was making news around the country, because of a so-called “controversy” perpetuated by right-wing media. A young girl cried wolf- calling against the right of a trans woman to use the women’s locker room. Right-wing media stirred itself up into a national frenzy that eventually led to heated protests and a dramatic Santee City Council meeting about who should and shouldn’t be allowed to use public locker rooms. 

    The initial news media didn’t name the transgender woman in question, but she came forward to address the mischaracterizations and stand up for her community.  Christynne (Chrissy) Lili Wrene Wood came forward as the Black transgender woman in the locker room and invited supporters to stand up with her.  At the time that her presence and identity were suddenly called into question, she had been taking that same YMCA aqua aerobics class for years. 

    Chrissy recently told her story –– in her own words, in the Union-Tribune. She reminded us of the weight of the anti-Blackness buried in this allegation and controversy, drawing a clear line between this incident – when the words of a young white girl questioned this Black woman’s right to be in the same locker room – to the events preceding the lynching of Emmett Till in 1955. 

    This not-so-distant history was on many of our minds, and as we’re making our history now, we’re also changing the story we tell about Black trans folks. This includes writing new endings about how we as a community show up for our Black siblings. In this case, Chrissy’s community showed up in force, led with love, strength and joy by Chrissy herself. 

    The image of Chrissy at the Santee City Council meeting will never leave me. She wore a colorful dress and bright makeup. She knew all eyes were on her that night. She was prepared and ready. The energy of the room was dynamic, and the chambers overflowed long before the meeting started. 

    About 80% of attendees that night supported Chrissy. We waved trans flags and held signs (handmade by her aqua-aerobic sisters) declaring our love for her.  Chrissy’s speech was strong, bold, and deeply personal – and centered her joy and her community. She was brave and met that moment with a deep well of strength.

    In the face of considerable hate and manufactured controversy, Chrissy maintained an unshakable strength and never lost her joy.  She infused unwavering faith into the community rallied around her. In 2023, San Diego Pride presented her with the Spirit of Stonewall Champion of Pride Award for her indisputable status as an icon and a pillar in our community. 

    I think about Chrissy a lot as we move forward in our work, especially when it feels impossible. She recognized the fear and moved through it anyway. She continues to stand up not just for herself but for her entire trans community, especially our trans youth. She does all of it with an infectious level of joy and hope. 

    As we hit the midpoint of Women’s History Month, we invite you to join us in celebrating the women who are making history now with us. We have so many phenomenal trans and queer women in our community who transform the fear and hate they face into love, who create spaces for queer and trans joy and celebration. They stare down transphobia and racism and feel called to take action to protect not only themselves but their communities. 

    I don’t experience the same kind of weight and threats that Black queer folks, and especially Black queer trans women experience. As a white woman in organizing spaces, I know that the organizing and power building work that Black femmes do for the community is often unpaid, underappreciated, and co-opted by more visible white folks. That’s unfair. 

    That’s a part of the story we need to actively re-write and correct. I call on my fellow white folks and non Black people of color to actively appreciate the Black folks and Black women in your circles. Search for ways you can pick up some of the burden of fighting homophobia and transphobia. 

    One way you can do that is to support Trans Day of Empowerment (TDOE), an event and scholarship fundraiser formed by another powerful Black trans woman in San Diego, Tracie Jada O’Brien. Donate, attend, and share the word about Trans Day Of Empowerment, and do the same for other community efforts led by Black women. 

    Thank you, Chrissy, and thank you to all the trans, lesbian, bisexual, and queer Black women and women of color that are making history now.

    With Pride,

    Jen Hibberts (she/they)
    Organizing & Outreach Coordinator

  7. In case of an emergency, find a dyke.

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    Dear Pride Family,

    I walked into Lestat’s on Park to find the unmistakable wit and wisdom of She Fest founder Kelcie Parra awaiting me. Fresh off my first year as a San Diego Pride Festival volunteer, I heard there was a squad of 2SLGBTQ+ women and non-binary people assembling to produce what would become one of my most cherished spaces.

    Next thing I knew, I was dispatched to a North Park Community Association meeting to help explain why this one-day, community event, She Fest, was unlikely to devolve into a massive lesbian rager (such a pity). That day, and every day since, has been influenced by the magnificent strength of queer women. 

    Joslyn tabling at She Fest

    We could use some of that big dyke energy for the challenging road ahead. It is not lost on me that there are those among us who may take issue with this word choice. But rest assured, the invocation of this word is intentional to honor a community of queer women who have defiantly reclaimed it from its hateful origins. 

    A decade after that fateful fall meeting, there is nothing I know with greater certainty than this, in case of emergency, find a dyke (thank you Indicatrust). Search your feelings, you know it’s true. Our history is filled with the kind of hope that could only be born from the strength of queer women.

    We kick-off Women’s History Month and International Women’s Day (tomorrow) celebrating the vital role of queer women and nonbinary people in our history making. Look no further than your own backyard to find the architects – often unsung – of modern queer history.

    The Blood Sisters -of the AIDS epidemic, such as Peggy Heathers, Nicolette Ibarra, and Barbara Vick, responded at a time when doctors, scientists, and our government were still dismissing the growing public health crisis. The work of long time San Diego Pride volunteer leader & Board Co-Chair  Phyllis Jackson is remarkable by any standard. Her service to others has impacted countless community members through education on HIV prevention, particularly among people of color and women.

    Christine Kehoe not only became San Diego County’s first openly 2SLGBTQ+ elected official, her long history as a community leader includes her role as co-chair in the forming the Pride 15/20 committee. In Kehoe’s footsteps, California Senate President Pro Tempore Emeritus Toni Atkins became both the first woman and first openly gay person ever to have held both of the Legislature’s top jobs

    Business owners and community leaders like Moe Girton continue to create spaces essential to not only queer women, but our community and economy. Devoted community leader, Tinesia Conwright launched a mentoring program (DETOUR) to increase the amount of college-educated girls of color with viable employment in STEAM careers. The legacy of our late foremother, Jeri Dilno will guide countless generations towards liberation. 

    The list goes on and generations of queer leaders are either waiting in the wings or will remain anonymous…quietly going about the work unsung, but irreplaceable.

    I’m proud to follow in the footsteps of so many dykes and queer women who have been essential to the history of San Diego Pride. You can honor that long line of lesbian, bisexual, queer, and trans women making history at She Fest July 13, 2024. In celebration of the 10 Anniversary of this flagship we are raising $10,000. You can support this work by giving here.

    So as you prepare for what lies ahead, remember this: In case of an emergency, find a dyke

    You’ll be glad you did.

    With Pride,

    Joslyn Hatfield (she/her/hers)
    Director of Marketing & Communications

  8. One EXTRA day to be GAY!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Happy Leap Day! Thanks to math and science we’ve been given the gift of time: one extra day to be gay! 

    I’ve been reflecting on the idea of being “too extra.” This critique is often levied against queer people, particularly related to our expression of gender. As if passing as cis and straight is something to aspire to, when really it’s just choosing safety over authenticity. 

    On the other hand, queer people can also feel the pressure to be more extra. We think we need to accentuate the individual performance of our queerness to prove that we belong in the community.

    This tension between feeling too much and still not enough is, in the words of Edward James Olmos as Abraham Quintanilla, exhausting

    I love Pride season because in those nine days (from She Fest through the Festival) we get to explore and play with those expressions AND be celebrated for it – with the support of community. We get the taste of freedom and liberation that is withheld from us the other 357 days of the year. Seeing queer people take up space is one of the reasons why I continue to do this work.

    Pride is about taking up space. Whether it’s the over 300,000 people that attend the Parade, or the 21-acre Festival site, our community takes up literal, physical space. And, there is nothing our community cannot achieve when we come together in joy to oppose prejudice. 

    Pride is also about taking up intangible space. Sharing our stories reaches hearts and minds, affecting change. We use the fact that all eyes are on the global LGBTQ+ community in June to call attention to issues in our movement. And because San Diego is extra, we extend our celebrations into July

    Take this extra day as permission to BE extra gay, trans, Black, brown, or whoever you are. To be extra YOU. 

    But also know that you are enough. No matter what. 

    With Pride,

    Joe Fejeran (he/him) 
    Community Programs Coordinator

  9. Permission to Create 🎨🎙️🦄

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Every February, our Pride Youth Programs focus on highlighting and celebrating visual and performing arts. I absolutely love this time of year as it is an opportunity to see young people create and tap into some joy. 

    However, as an adult who works with youth, sometimes I find myself having to justify to other adults the importance of giving young people unrestricted access to arts education and experiences. Given the unceasing news of anti-LGBTQ+ violence targeted towards young people, particularly trans and nonbinary folks, I feel the need to share a couple of things with y’all. 

    I need you to know that the youngest members of our community are in pain. I need you to know that they need canvases, stages, and podiums through which they can release this pain. And through the creative process of expression, they can begin to heal. 

    I need you to know that they need community. I need you to know that they need us. 

    Whether we like it or not, we are bound together across generations by the freedoms that we have been denied. As a community, art has always been our boundless unifier. Art allows us to express ourselves authentically, to emote sincerely and without restriction. It is a tool for resistance and a salve for the fires of rage within us. 

    So I ask you, dear friend, to join us over the next few weeks as we give ourselves and each other permission to create. As we give our youth spaces to show up and teach us about themselves. We will kick off this Youth Art Season with Family Art Day on Saturday, February 24th. This space is for families of all ages-blood or chosen- to gather to create beautiful things, messy things, and true things. More than that, it is a space to perhaps witness each other in a moment of healing.

    May your paintbrush never be dry,

    Cris Sotomayor (they/them/elle) 
    Senior Manager of Programs

  10. Foremother. Trailblazer. Legend.

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Last night, our community lost a trailblazer and legend. Today, we are left with the deepest of gratitude to Jeri Dilno, for her bravery and willingness to forge a path where often none existed. She was a home-grown activist who gave decades of her life to service and left a substantial legacy of liberation benefitting generations of LGBTQ community members

    Jeri’s history-making legacy started in 1972 in Philadelphia where she organized the city’s first Pride festival bringing hundreds of people together in celebration and protest. When she later returned home to San Diego, Jeri served as the first female Executive Director of The San Diego LGBT Community Center (1975-1977), then named “The Gay Center,” and used her consensus-building skills to change the name to the “Lesbian and Gay Men’s Community Center.”. During her tenure, she helped to obtain the very first permit for the 1975 San Diego Pride march (1974 was unpermitted). 

    Yet, she didn’t see herself as a trailblazer – in response to a street naming honor in 2019, she said, “I don’t know that I did anything so spectacular. I was just doing what needed to be done at the given time.” But it was exactly that tenacity, bravery, humility, and showing up for the community that made her so spectacular. Jeri gave her time tirelessly to our LGBTQ community in many different ways over the years, including:

    • The San Diego LGBT Community Center Executive Director (1975-1977)
    • The San Diego LGBT Community Center Board of Directors (1978-1980)
    • San Diego Democratic Club, President (1987-1991)
    • Commission on the Status of Women- appointed by Mayor Maureen O’Connor (1986-1992)
    • San Diego Pride Board of Directors (1989-1994,  2000-2006)
    • Gay and Lesbian Times, Assistant Editor and Editor (1993-95)
    • San Diego Pride Board of Directors Emeritus (2006-2024)
    • San Diego Police Department’s Gay and Lesbian Advisory Committee (2021)
    • San Diego Police Department Citizens Advisory Board on Police-Community Relations 
    • San Diego Pride’s 20th Anniversary Celebration of Stonewall – Coordinator and Grand Marshal
    • Mentor to many LGBTQ community leaders and elected officials

    Celebrating Jeri Dilno
    Joint Statement from San Diego Pride and The San Diego LGBT Community Center:

    Rarely does one person so profoundly impact the foundation, growth, and sustained progress of a movement the way that Jeri Dilno did. Her presence and influence are irreplaceable for not only the San Diego LGBT Community Center but San Diego Pride. 

    One of the many things we loved about Jeri was her storytelling — she had the best stories. We invite our community to celebrate her memory and activism with us as we collect quotes from friends, fellow activists, and the community members she mentored. We share our reflections and those of a few others below to begin to celebrate her legacy. With the deepest of gratitude, we say “Thank you, Jeri”.

    California State Senate President pro Tempore Emeritus Toni G. Atkins (39th District)
    “The San Diego community lost one of its pillars with the passing of Jeri Dilno. For a half century, Jeri was an outspoken advocate and trailblazer for LGBTQ+ equality and women’s rights, serving in top leadership roles with organizations such as San Diego Pride, San Diego Democrats for Equality, and the San Diego LGBT Community Center.  She will be remembered for her dedication and indomitable spirt, as well as her wit and wisdom. I will miss my dear friend, Jeri.”

    Cara Dessert, CEO, San Diego LGBT Community Center
    “Jeri Dilno was a lesbian icon, community shero, trailblazer, veteran, mentor, and friend, who touched the lives of countless people over her lifetime of activism and leadership and paved the way for generations of San Diego LGBTQ+ leaders, including myself. As the first female Executive Director of The Center and its first paid staff member, Jeri led The Center’s growth into a more robust social service community center and a beacon of hope and support for our community, opening our doors wider for more people to come and build community together. Jeri is part of a legacy of leaders who helped create one of the largest and most impactful LGBTQ+ organizations in the country. She fought for our rights and dignity with unparalleled determination and commitment that brought so many together and built real community power. Her legacy will live on in our hearts and history, and in the many people whose lives she touched. We are forever grateful for her courage, her compassion, and her lifetime of deep community leadership. Thank you, Jeri, you deserve to rest in power.”

    Jen LaBarbera, Interim Co-Executive Director, San Diego Pride
    “Jeri Dilno is who I want to be when I grow up. It was an honor to know her, to not just follow her footsteps but get to walk with her in this journey for a short time, to get to experience the joy of Jeri Storytime, and to have the honor of witnessing and being pulled into her legacy of liberation.”

    Sarafina Scapicchio, Interim Co-Executive Director, San Diego Pride
    “Jeri Dilno possessed the rare talent of being able to visualize and articulate the delta between what currently exists in the world, and what should be. Whether fighting against harmful legislation like the Briggs Initiative (Proposition 6) or working to re-establish San Diego Pride as a community-centered nonprofit organization that contributes back to the community financially, her passionate commitment to our collective freedom created a ripple effect that we all benefit from today. Thank you, Jeri, for your lifetime of work and for the fearlessness, honesty, and humor that you did it with. We are so grateful to you.”

    San Diego Pride Board of Directors
    “Pride brings people together and no one knew that better than Jeri Dilno. She was a community organizer, a leader, and a trailblazer. We are deeply grateful that her dedication to the LGBTQ+ community included over a decade of service on the San Diego Pride Board of Directors. As Board Emeriti, her guidance was deeply valued and her commitment to our mission remained unwavering. The history of San Diego Pride could not be written without her. The Board of Directors mourns her passing and will continue to celebrate her legacy.”

    Joe Mayer, San Diego Pride Board Emeriti
    “Jeri was truly a guiding hand for me during my tenure on the Pride Board. Whenever things got tumultuous, she always had a sense of calm to offer those around her. She would reassure us that we would get through, just as we had in the past.”

    Doug Moore, San Diego Pride Board Emeriti 
    “Jeri and I were the oldest and served Pride almost from its beginning. As the members of the board changed we both felt that we were the historians, providing the why’s about how things were done. She provided me with a different perspective and I’ve counted on her. I am most thankful to have known her, and will fill the empty spot with many memories.”

    Nicole Verdes, Managing Director, Lambda Archives of San Diego: 
    “San Diego has lost an incredible force with the passing of Jeri Dilno. Few individuals have left such an indelible mark on our LGBTQ+ community as Jeri. For somebody who had such a historically significant impact and who had personal friendships with people like Barbara Gittings and Frank Kameny, many of us here in San Diego will remember her as being brilliant, compassionate, a superb storyteller, and a friend. To say she will be missed is an understatement. Thank you, Jeri – for everything.”


    We invite you to carry on her storytelling legacy with us: add your own memories and experiences and tag us on social media.

    • San Diego Pride (Instagram, Facebook)
    • The San Diego LGBT Community Center (Instagram, Facebook)

    P.S. You can learn more about Jeri’s legacy here: 

  11. A Legendary Diva, Celebrating Tracie Jada O’Brien

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    Dear Pride Family,

    When we think of Pride we often invoke the images of our Stonewall forbears, people like Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Stormé DeLarverie. However, it is vital for us to recognize those doing the work in our community right here in San Diego. 

    Tracie Jada O’Brien is a survivor, an advocate, a history-maker… an icon. She beat the odds as a Black, trans street kid at the crossroads of Turk and Taylor Streets in the notoriously rough Tenderloin neighborhood of 1970s San Francisco. She endured the loss of a generation of LGBTQ+ people to the HIV/AIDS epidemic of the 1980s and she saw the rise and fall of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell and DOMA in the 1990s — all before some of us were born. 

    In 2005, she participated in the first consultation forum for trans individuals with the Centers for Disease Control leading to greater representation for transgender people in policies and resources. By any measure, hers is a purpose-driven life. 

    Miss Tracie has worked tirelessly to become an outstanding role model within – and a staunch advocate for – the transgender community. In addition to her work expanding access to transgender health services through Family Health Centers, she founded San Diego’s Transgender Day of Empowerment and the Tracie Jada O’Brien Student Scholarship Program which awards scholarships to transgender, non-binary, and gender-diverse students in higher educational programs from or residing in San Diego County. 

    In an interview with the University of Minnesota Tretter Transgender Oral History Project, she partially attributed her drive to her own feelings of disconnection and loneliness in her youth. “I am a woman of trans experience,” she said. “I was always trying to get to a place where I could feel ok.”

    And, is there anything more relatable than wanting to feel OK? 

    In a world where 83% of transgender youth feel unsafe in school because of their gender identity, Miss Tracie is making history now by empowering transgender youth to become leaders, today and tomorrow. 

    This year we celebrate 20 years of the Transgender Day of Empowerment. We invite you to make some history of your own and support transgender youth by donating to the Tracie Jada O’Brien Student Scholarship Program and joining us for the Transgender Day of Empowerment.

    With Pride,

    Jen LaBarbera
    They/Them
    Interim Co-Executive Director

  12. A Black Life: Lived, Living, and Yet to Be Lived

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In a time of so much struggle and strife I must recenter, realign, and ask myself, “what calls me to this work? What keeps me engaged and committed ?” This is the self-reflection we find ourselves toying with in the midnight hour. With all this 6 ft tall (depending on the heel) dark skin nonbinary bearded finery and optimistic demeanor, you’d probably think to yourself “oh wow, Amber St. James is so confident and brave”. 

    Yes, that is true. But, more often than not, I find myself trying to navigate a world that sees me and decides I am not worthy— a world that continues to fight for legislation that would see me erased before it sees me free. In a world like this, it is easy to be brought to rage almost daily. This rage quelled by the fear of white supremacy, whiteness and anti-blackness ever-punishing Black folks for their emotions. This rage is quelled by seeing so many of our family and community attacked and taken from us.

    In those moments of activation and rage, I have found my fire. I have found my calling to this work. I push back and show the world we are worthy. We can rewrite the story. We can take the driver’s seat with the power of the ancestors who led us here. This is why I am called  to this transformative, life-saving work that allows us all to be the history makers now. 

    I’ve captured the hearts and minds of many (both on and off the stage). I make history now and the impact is felt on and off the stage. I can’t help but reflect on the many amazing Black queer brains that have come before me. Those history-makers who brought me to this precipice, like Bayard Rustin, Marsha P Johnson, and Stormé DeLarverie

    I think of our very own local Trans and Queer Icons like Tracie Jada O’Brien, or Vertez Burks, the amazing mind and one of the innovators behind the founding of San Diego’s Lesbians and Gays of African Descent United in 1989. 

    I reflect on the work of Vertez and the ways she created space and opportunity for folks of color (specifically Black folks) to engage in the parts of their identity that the world critiqued, shamed, and silenced. I am inspired and filled with hope as I find myself  mirroring her legacy as a space creator and community leader… and fighter. It’s nothing new for black and brown folks to be an oppositional force pushing back against systems of oppression and systemic institutions of discrimination. Black lives and Black existence has, and continues, to move us all toward liberation.

    With Pride,

    Shane James/Amber St. James
    They/Them/Theirs
    Programs Coordinator

  13. Statement: Resolve Humanitarian Crisis and Immediate Ceasefire

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    As a diverse community representing many intersectional identities, we unequivocally condemn antisemitism, Islamophobia, and anti-LGBTQIA+ rhetoric, and we are deeply alarmed by the rise in violent Islamophobia, antisemitism, homophobia, and transphobia here in the US. San Diego Pride’s mission, vision, and Pillars of Justice call us to show up for justice and liberation. 

    It has been over 100 days, and the humanitarian crisis in Gaza continues to escalate. San Diego Pride and our volunteer-led programs join the global community, including many of our partner and allied LGBTQIA+, feminist, and humanitarian organizations, in calling for an immediate and permanent ceasefire, the safe return of all hostages, and swift resolution to the humanitarian crisis escalating for Palestinians in Gaza. 

    Take Action With Us:

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    Programs of San Diego Pride:

    • Disabled LGBTQ+ Coalition
    • LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force
    • Pride Military Department
    • Pride Youth Coalition
    • Queer APIMEDA Coalition
    • San Diego LGBTQ+ Latine Coalition
    • She Fest

    Organizations:

    • Center on Policy Initiatives
    • Direct Action Drumline
    • FilmOut San Diego
    • IfNotNow San Diego
    • Imperial Valley Equity and Justice Coalition
    • Lambda Archives of San Diego
    • Mymicasa.org
    • North County LGBTQ Resource Center
    • Our Time To Act United
    • Parent Voices San Diego
    • The People’s Holistic Clinic
    • PFLAG San Diego County
    • Pride By the Beach
    • Riverside Pride
    • San Diego Black Birthworkers Collective
    • San Diego Community Birth Center
    • San Diego Original Black Panther Party for Community Empowerment
    • San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence
    • Youth Will

    Elected Officials: 

    • Councilmember Raul Ureña, City of Calexico
    • Mayor Pro Tem Gilberto Manzanarez, City of Calexico

    Community Leaders: 

    • Jack Beck, Executive Director of TurnOut
    • Yvette Beltran
    • Melinda Cooper
    • Jonathan Foulk
    • Simón Guzman
    • Evan Johnson
    • Arielle Kovacs
    • Nicole Lillie
    • Sparky Mitra
    • Alex Scordato
    • Kat Tessero
    • Aidan Lin-Tostado
    • Judith Vaughs, Community Organizer
    • Rick-Arlo Yah Lira
  14. Roe’s Anniversary and Finding Hope

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Monday marked an anniversary we aren’t celebrating. It would have been a celebration of 51 years of legal protection for many (not all) folks in the US to access essential healthcare, abortion. Instead it is a day of disappointment and reflection.

    I’m devastated to see fundamental rights stripped from fellow Americans. I’m furious with the state governments who are risking the lives of pregnant people everyday. I’m disappointed in our healthcare systems that under-serve Black folks and poor folks and so many others throughout their lives, but particularly through pregnancy and childbirth.

    I’m frustrated by the rhetoric labeling abortion access as a women’s issue. Reproductive Justice is for everyone. It’s for folks with the capacity for pregnancy and for folks who don’t have that capacity. To be clear: Reproductive Justice is LGBTQ+ Justice.

    I’m also reflecting on positive memories surrounding the fall of Roe. Hear me out.

    I reflect on the wins I’ve seen across the country when abortion is on the ballot. Americans have proven we overwhelmingly support abortion access; from Kansas to Ohio, to right here in California.

    I remember the joy and excitement our community and volunteers felt when we canvassed during Pride’s Campaign to pass Prop 1— which enshrined our right to access abortion in the California state constitution. I remember the energy in Waterfront Park on June 24, 2022. We grieved together and cried together, and most importantly, we met the moment to take action together.

    Amber speaking at a rally

    I wish we could look back on that day and know our work is done. But, I don’t need to tell you that the fight is just beginning. We’ve made progress in California, but we are far from a just and liberated society.

    I’m not sure what this year will bring. But, I am sure that organizing works. Organizing is how we’ll be able to shift the power to the people and create sustainable change that won’t be repealed by changing faces on the Supreme Court.

    I invite you to join our organizing efforts. In a few months, San Diego Pride will host our 2nd Annual Grassroots Organizing Conference:The Pride Power Summit, on Saturday May 11, 2024. We’re working to empower more activists in our communities with the skills and resources to make long lasting change.

    We also welcome you to help us get out the vote with our Vote With Pride campaign for the March Primary election just around the corner. Or better yet, join our year round advocacy team fighting for LGBT+ justice across San Diego County, particularly in the School Boards where student rights are at risk.

    Take time to grieve this week, there’s plenty to mourn. But, I encourage you to find hope in the folks making history now. Join them. Perhaps you’ll make some history of your own.

    With Pride,

    Jen Hibberts (she/they)
    Outreach and Organizing Coordinator

  15. Our 2024 theme is…

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In this election year, we find ourselves in the crosshairs of hate. Our community. Our families. Our children. Our partners and our siblings. Three weeks into 2024, there are 285 active anti-LGBTQIA+ bills in 35 states or territories. The sheer volume of attacks on our community are unprecedented, but the narrative is nothing new. 

    History is full of hard fought victories on the shoulders of LGBTQIA past leaders like Harvey Milk, Chris Kehoe, and Leslie Feinberg, revolutionaries like Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera, and artists like Stormé DeLarverie, RD Riccoboni, and Frida Kahlo. We have always been here, building, fighting and creating. We don’t have to look far to connect to our history. We are making it now. 

    In fact, some architects of our movement are still fighting with us today such as Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Tracie Jada O’Brien, and Cleve Jones. Other younger activists like Alok Vaid-Menon, Judy Vaughs, and Adrienne Maree Brown are committed to broadening the vision of what the future can be and have committed to moving us forward. 

    Like those leaders, we recognize that this moment calls upon us all to do what we can with what we have to build toward more liberation and justice, for ourselves and future generations. That is why we’ve chosen the 2024 theme to be:

    Making History Now - San Diego Pride 2024

    We believe we can build on the legacy of those who came before while making history as we go. As we celebrate the 50th anniversary of the first marches in San Diego, we look to honor our past victories, and recommit ourselves to the work ahead. We do this with the understanding that this work has been entrusted to us by the visionaries who have come before. We honor our future by ensuring opportunities for future generations to blaze their own trails and make their own history. 

    We invite you to join us in making history this year in whatever way you can.

    Every day another LGBTQIA+ person can be their full self without fear is a day we make history. We look forward to making history with you!

    With Pride,

    Jen LaBarbera (they/them) & Sarafina Scapicchio (she/her)
    Interim Co-Executive Directors

  16. Bending the Arc

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In January 1996, my family and a close friend embarked on a road trip from western New York to Atlanta for the 10th annual Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Parade. My mom, a white woman dedicated to instilling activism and anti-racism in my brother and me, took us out of school for about a week for this impactful journey. Driving nearly 14 hours to be part of the event, little did I know then that it would become one of my roots as an organizer and activist.

    What I didn’t know then was that the legacy we celebrated was significantly shaped by a Black gay man behind the scenes, Bayard Rustin. In 1996, I was unaware that Rustin, a close adviser to King, was the organizational genius behind the record-setting 1963 March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, where Dr. King delivered his iconic “I Have A Dream” speech. Despite facing exile or sidelining from the civil rights movement because of his sexual orientation, Rustin remained a masterful strategist. An unapologetic advocate, he later focused on the intersectional fight for LGBTQIA+ equality and racial justice until his death in 1987.

    What I didn’t know then was that our travel companion, Dorothy, was the first Black lesbian I’d meet. Our immediate kinship, forged in part through long hours in a minivan and perhaps also that unknown-at-the-time common thread of queerness, tied us together. Our paths diverged, but the tapestry still echoes a familiar history as we both answered a call to advocate for social justice and LGBTQ+ affirmation. Dorothy would go on to found and lead an LGBTQ-affirming church, while I would be called to organizing and advocacy for social justice.

    What I didn’t know then was that the version of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. taught in school was only one sanitized piece of his advocacy. The commonly taught aspects – his commitment to nonviolence, the “I Have A Dream” speech, his place in the civil rights movement – are vital, but so too is his commitment to economic justice, ending class exploitation, and his intersectional, inter-movement solidarity work in the Poor People’s Campaign. His firm opposition to war and militarism, along with his belief in radical, disruptive civil disobedience, complete the multifaceted legacy. As history unfolds, social justice movements and organizations, including Pride, continue to build upon his rich legacy.

    As we celebrate the life, work, and legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr throughout this weekend and on Monday, I invite us all to truly honor his legacy and the Black queer greatness connected with him. I, for one, will continue to question what I think I know about MLK – I’ll re-read (or listen to) Letters from A Birmingham Jail and exploring his less commonly discussed contributions. If you have the day off from work, I invite you to join me in using that time to recommit to the movements that move you, or be of service to your community in a way that fills you. Join us on Sunday as we march with our partners, the Original Black Panther Party, in the Annual MLK Parade!

    Dive into that history that we’ve been denied – learn more about Bayard Rustin from PBS, The Guardian, or watch the new biopic Rustin on Netflix. And save the date to brush up on your organizing skills at our upcoming Pride Power Summit (April 13!). 

    “The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends toward justice.” And: it doesn’t bend on its own. It’s up to us to make our own history, and to keep bending that arc toward justice.

    In solidarity,

    Jen LaBarbera
    (pronouns: they/them)
    Interim Co-Executive Director

  17. Set Your Intentions

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    Dear Pride Family,

    As I sit to write this I can hear the pitter-patter of rain dancing on the window and am reminded of my first year volunteering at San Diego Pride. I was taking tickets during a downpour at the festival in 2015 and eight years later I am beyond grateful to work with dedicated Pride volunteers every day.  As we enter a new year, there is the opportunity to set intentions for the year and recommit to those things that matter to us and our community. 

    Connecting with my community and my legacy is my focus for this year. Thursday would have been my great-grandmother Lorraine’s 96th birthday. For decades she volunteered as a poll worker and supported the disability community. Her shining example instilled in my family, me, and countless others the importance of doing impactful work and meeting great people along the way. 

    The Mayo Clinic shares research that volunteering offers significant health benefits. These include: improving physical and mental health, providing a sense of purpose and valuable skills, and nurturing new and existing relationships. 

    Volunteering at San Diego Pride introduced me to much of my chosen family and lifelong friends – an experience that is not unique. I thank friends and leaders like thirty-year volunteer Cheli Mohamed and volunteer festival co-manager Randy Pittman, who is starting his 26th year of service. I thank the many thousands of volunteers across our five decade history whose work makes San Diego Pride what it is now. I hope to be like all of these amazing humans when I grow up.

    San Diego Pride’s year-round work is made possible by thousands of volunteers. Volunteers lead our community programs like Art of Pride, She Fest, Pride Military Program, and QAPIMEDA. Volunteers engage in nearly 2,000 shifts during Pride week in support of the rally, parade, and festival. Volunteers support our education and advocacy efforts through our outreach, Civic Action Team, Vote with Pride, and Pride Power Summit programs. Nearly 150 volunteer leaders are committed to the work throughout the year and participate in our Pride Leadership Meetings planning our signature events and receiving impactful, intentional training. This work requires a diversity of skills, talents, and time and we invite you to join us. 

    As you set your intentions and goals for 2024 please consider volunteering at San Diego Pride. There are many ways to volunteer with Pride and we can’t wait to work with you soon! Visit sdpride.org/volunteer to learn more. 

    Happy New Year,

    Signature of Mark Maddox

    Mark D. Maddox
    (pronouns: he/him)
    Senior Director of Programs

    P.S. If you don’t have the time or capacity to volunteer, consider supporting Pride as a sustaining donor of our year-round programming. Learn more and donate here.

  18. Reflecting on a Year of Pride 🌈

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    Dear Pride Community,

    As we reflect on the past year, we are overwhelmed by the incredible impact we’ve made together, in both seen and unseen ways. What isn’t always seen, but continues to inspire us day after day is the strength, compassion, and generosity of our dedicated community, who never fail to come together in times of celebration and joy as well as times of need and support. It is because of our network of passionate staff, dedicated volunteer leadership, and all of you who lend your support by offering your time, resources, and talents that makes our work possible and meaningful.

    Our annual year-in-review page seeks to shed light on the myriad ways the San Diego Pride community has united in arts, advocacy, education, and coalition-building over the past year.

    Join us in celebrating the profound impact we’ve brought about together, continually centering the diverse voices and experiences of our local LGBTQ community throughout our year-round programming and in our flagship Parade and Festival spaces. As the largest civic event in the county, our festivities showcase over 200 local LGBTQ artists to tens of thousands of people each year, in addition to featuring dedicated areas for the Latinx, Black, Indigenous, Transgender and Nonbinary, Sober & Recovery, and Youth communities.

    In addition, your support of the annual Pride Parade and festival fuels our year-round programs. 2023 saw the establishment of new, groundbreaking programs addressing our community needs. The newly formed Disabled LGBTQ+ Coalition brings together disabled queer and trans folx to plan events, share resources, and advocate with each other. Our inaugural Pride Power Summit in March 2023, brought together 80 local community activists and aspiring grassroots organizers to share knowledge and build coalitions. Additionally, we launched our Transitional Age Youth internship program, providing meaningful work experience for LGBTQ youth aged 18-24, empowering them with mentorship and leadership opportunities in developing youth programming. We hosted the InterPride conference in October, bringing together Pride organizers around the world to exchange experiences and resources, building a stronger, more unified global LGBTQ movement. 

    Looking ahead to 2024, we acknowledge the challenges our community faces during this upcoming election year, where we anticipate targeted attacks on our trans and youth communities, in addition to further challenges to bodily autonomy and reproductive rights. Yet, we choose to approach these challenges as opportunities for unity and resilience. In adversity, our community consistently shows strength and solidarity, turning challenges into triumphs.

    Stand with our LGBTQ movement by supporting our year-round initiatives with a tax-deductible donation before year-end. Donations are matched dollar-for-dollar by Tito’s Handmade Vodka, up to $10,000 through year-end, doubling the impact of your giving. Contribute to our journey toward a more inclusive, equitable, and vibrant future for all.

    Thank you for being the driving force behind San Diego Pride. Together, let’s continue into 2024 creating ripples of positive change that resonate throughout our local, national, and global LGBTQ community.

    With Pride, 
    Lo Horst (they/she)
    Philanthropy Manager
    San Diego Pride

  19. You are a Blessing

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Growing up on the island of Guam, I had a very Catholic upbringing. When I started to experience the stirrings of queer identity as a youth, I was afraid of it. I did not see how being gay would even fit in with Catholic teaching and CHamoru culture. I did not know of any (openly) LGBTQ+ people that I could look to as a role model — as an example of success. 

    My religious trauma is not one brought on by overly oppressive doctrine and hate, as is the experience of many LGBTQ+ people. Rather, I struggled with the existential thought that to live authentically as a queer person meant to live a life separate from my family, my cultural heritage, and ultimately the love of God. 

    Mass was a place where I felt a feeling of transcendent belonging. Most Sundays my family did not sit together in the congregation for mass because we were participating in the services. Unable to reconcile the Church’s teachings on LGBT people, I began to feel less welcome and stopped going. 

    I was relatively unfazed by the recent news about Pope Francis approving blessings for same-sex couples. This update from The Vatican is a bold step toward inclusion, and also not bold enough. Pope Francis has done more for LGBTQ+ people than any other pontiff before him, and yet upholds a doctrine that marriage is between a man and a woman. I am thinking of those queer Catholics, who will be grateful for this recognition from the Church, and that it gives them some hope. At the same time, it very explicitly does not seek to validate or change the status of same-sex unions. It’s a reminder to all of us of how tenuous and fragile marriage equality is in our country.

    The latest document concerning same-sex couples from The Vatican discusses at length the concept of a “blessing.” The Church provides an abundance of scriptural justification for what does and does not constitute a blessing, while also acknowledging that “those seeking a blessing should not be required to have prior to moral perfection.” 

    For me, the joy I have found in the LGBTQ+ community – both at large and in my close circle – has been the biggest blessing in my life. A blessing that I have received without justification or limitations. It is one of the reasons why Light Up the Cathedral is my favorite event during Pride Week, as affirming faith leaders gather together to celebrate the beauty of the LGBTQ+ community – something too many people don’t get to experience in the faith communities we grew up in. 

    As we gather to celebrate the holidays this weekend with our families, either ones we were born into or ones we chose, let us remember that our love is a blessing. The resilience of our community is a blessing. 

    Queer people everywhere are a blessing. You are a blessing. 

    With Pride, 
    Joe Fejeran (he/him)
    Executive Projects Manager
    Interim Co-Executive Directors

  20. Lez go!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    As two queer femmes – one cisgender and one non-binary – step into our new roles as Interim Co-Executive Directors, we wanted to take a pause to reflect on the strength of the many queer women leaders of San Diego Pride’s past who paved this path. Amazing women like Senator Christine Kehoe who formed the Pride 15/20 committee, or Vertez Burks who became part of the first duo of BIPOC leaders of the organization, or former executive directors Barbra Blake, Mandy Schultz, or Suanne Pauley who grew San Diego Pride in the 90s and early 2000s.

    Many of these leaders stepped into their positions at a time when the organization was in a time of transition, and we take courage from their example as leaders. Some of these folks also led using a dual leadership model, which allows for a less hierarchical, more equitable, and more feminist approach. Vertez Burks, for example, co-led Pride with our beloved Larry Baza in the early 90s. Barbra Blake, too, credits volunteer leader Maryanne Travaglione as essentially a Co-Executive Director during her tenure.

    The San Diego Pride offices are still buzzing in December with staff and volunteers working hard on plans for the coming year. Not only will it be a contentious election year with lots of organizing work to be done (register to vote here and save the date of Saturday, April 13th for our annual Pride Power Summit), but it will be a year celebrating many milestones for our community here in San Diego. 

    First, we will celebrate the 20th anniversary of Tracie Jada O’Brien’s community-focused Transgender Day of Empowerment on Friday, April 5th. TDOE includes the Tracie Jada O’Brien Trans Student Scholarships, of which San Diego Pride is proud to be a fiscal sponsor. 

    Next comes the 10th anniversary of She Fest on Saturday, July 13th, which has grown from a single-day event to a twenty-plus person committee with year-round programming focused on women and non-binary community members. 

    Then, our Pride weekend festivities July 19th through the 21st, will mark the 50th anniversary of some of the first marches in San Diego AND the 30th anniversary of San Diego Pride becoming its own nonprofit organization. We look forward to uplifting the heroes in our community who have contributed so much to bring us to this point and recognizing the up-and-coming leaders who are still fighting for our rights on the frontlines today. 

    We invite the entire community to join us in this year’s milestone celebrations – whether you want to help us get out the vote, volunteer to help put on an event, or simply dance on a float as it rolls down down University Avenue, there is a place for everyone in our community in our upcoming celebrations. In fact, you can now: 


    However you participate this year, you’ll be engaging in building the legacy of San Diego Pride and assisting in fostering pride, equality, and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities locally, nationally, and globally. We are incredibly grateful and honored to do the work with you! 

    In solidarity, 
    Sarafina Scapicchio (she/her) & Jen LaBarbera (they/them)
    Interim Co-Executive Directors

  21. San Diego Pride’s Community Grant Awardees

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    SAN DIEGO, CA (December 14, 2023) –  San Diego Pride continues its philanthropic legacy by awarding over $195,000 to forty different LGBTQ+-serving organizations across the globe. 

    “San Diego Pride, our events, and year-round programming are made possible by our 70 LGBTQ-serving nonprofit community partners, 117 sponsors, 575 entertainers, 1,966 volunteers, 55,000 Festival attendees, and 350,000 Parade attendees,” says Jen LaBarbera, Interim Co-Executive Director. “Through our annual Pride Community Grant initiative, we provide a measure of financial support to organizations that are doing critical work across vastly different types of programming – arts and culture, sports, legal, health, advocacy, and leadership development – Pride Community Grants are not only a way of giving back to the LGBTQ+ community locally, nationally, and globally – but it’s also part of our legacy at San Diego Pride.”  

    “We know that LGBTQ-serving organizations are chronically underfunded across the globe. Here in the US, LGBT-serving organizations receive less than 1% of all charitable giving. This is why San Diego Pride intentionally reinvests proceeds from our annual celebration to show the world that LGBTQ people can come together to support our own community’s health, well-being, and safety,” says Sarafina Scapicchio, Interim Co-Executive Director. “This year’s grants will fund vital LGBTQ-focused programming locally, nationally and globally for the most marginalized members of our community – from arts programming like concerts by the San Diego Women’s Chorus, to outreach services for HIV+ people in Mexico, to free lunches for for senior LGBTQ+ adults in Seattle, to housing for homeless transgender people in Malaysia. We are incredibly proud to be the most philanthropic pride celebration in the world.” 

    San Diego Pride works to return proceeds from the annual Pride week to the LGBTQ community through philanthropic giving, sponsorships, and event support. Since 1994, community contributions have totaled over $3 million dollars. 

    Learn more about our 2024 Pride Community Grantees here

    Media Contact:

    Joslyn Hatfield
    Director of Marketing & Communications
    [email protected]

  22. 🌈🏳️‍⚧️A Legacy of Giving

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Throughout the 1970s, grant-giving from the first LGBTQ+ foundations were directed to health-related LGBTQ+ non profit organizations that focused on counseling, alcohol and drug abuse rehabilitation services. Spurred by the HIV/AIDS epidemic, financial support for our community in the 1980s shifted towards policy-oriented initiatives focused on supporting educational, advocacy and community building efforts to destigmatize HIV/AIDS and increase civil rights protections against discrimination and violence towards LGBTQ+ people in all sectors of society. Even still, funding to LGBTQ+-serving organizations throughout the 1980s was a novel concept – and not at all a priority of some of the largest charitable giving organizations at that time. 

    The greatest shift in foundations becoming a critical source of funding with the specific aim of raising visibility of LGBTQ+ issues in the philanthropic sector came in the 1990s with the establishment of the National Lesbian and Gay Community Funding Partnership – an effort that raised more than $9 million for LGBTQ+ causes between 1994 and 2005. 

    Locally, San Diego Pride was at the forefront of creating a model of fundraising that would not only support our own events and programs – but created an innovative plan to utilize funding raised through our annual Parade and Festival to be returned to the LGBTQ+ community. 

    We were/are so lucky to have had the vision and dedication to community brought forth by people like Christine Kehoe, Joseph Mayer, Barbra Blake, Tim Williams and Neil Good to develop and launch what would eventually become the first disbursement of Pride Community Grants in 1994. 

    Since that first year, San Diego Pride has distributed $3 million to LGBTQ+-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally making it one of the most philanthropic Pride organizations in the world. These grants are not only important to organizations and communities that receive them – they are also part of the legacy of San Diego Pride that so many people have had a hand in crafting over the years. 

    This year, we will be distributing nearly $200,000 to 44 LGBTQ+-serving organizations of which 25 are local organizations, 10 are national, and 9 are international. What’s more, this year’s distribution of Pride Community Grants exceeds current statistics on grant-giving for transgender folks with 19% of funding going to trans-led organizations and 28% benefiting organizations that explicitly serve trans communities.

    All 44 Pride Community Grantees vary widely in terms of mission, but they all align with the mission, vision, values of San Diego Pride. Here is a glimpse into the breadth, beauty, and diversity of some of our grantees this year – all of whom are first-time recipients of the Pride Community Grant:

    The Queer SOL Collective, San Diego, California
    Mission: A sanctuary for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. A place of safety, discovery, healing, celebration, integration, and wellness. A mission anchored in engaging communities on the land and introducing Indigenous methodologies that activate and restore the symbiotic relationships between the individual, the land, and the collective. 

    GenPride, Seattle, Washington
    Mission: The mission of GenPride is to advocate for Seattle-King County older LGBTQIA+ adults’ unique needs through programs and services that cultivate well-being and belonging. 

    Sisters 4 Sisters, Montserrado, Liberia 
    Mission: Sisters 4 Sisters is a feminist women-led organization working to empower women and girls in Liberia by advocating for their rights, amplifying their voices, and promoting their inclusion. 

    Learn more about all of the Pride Community Grantees here.

    With Pride,
    Nicole Verdés
    Pronouns: they/she
    Grant Writer

  23. Let Communities Lead ❤️

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    Dear Pride Family,

    As an elementary school kid in the 1990s beginning to recognize that I may “have a little sugar in the tank”, I can distinctly remember the sting of hearing, “You’ll get AIDS and die.” While I came of age after the height of the epidemic, I realized the importance of comprehensive healthcare and working to fight stigmas about HIV/AIDS and the LGBTQ+ community, people like me.

    Image of Mark as a child with a fancy hat on.
    The fight for healthcare equity, basic and vital resources, better accessibility, and recognition are not new to the LGBTQ+ community. The San Diego LGBTQ+ community has a broad and deep history of collaborative, grassroots support of people living with HIV/AIDS. 

    In 1983, grassroots community activists came together to organize at #1 Fifth Ave. In the same year, our lesbian community came together to form Blood Sisters. Susan Jester spearheaded the first San Diego Walk for Life (now called AIDS Walk), and Nicole Murray Ramirez organized a march to demand the city take action on HIV/AIDS. Drag entertainers hosted fundraisers at our bars. Our community organized, collaborated, fundraised, marched, and supported each other through the devastation.

    In 1990, Mama’s Kitchen started to deliver groceries and meals to clients with AIDS. Prior to my role at San Diego Pride, I was the Director of Volunteers at Mama’s Kitchen and saw firsthand the positive health outcomes for not only clients with HIV but numerous other critical illnesses. Mama’s Kitchen is a shining example of expanding from their LGBTQ+ community leadership and grassroots activism origins to respond to the needs of today’s communities. 

    Tomorrow, December 1st, is the 35th commemoration of World AIDS Day. Mama’s Kitchen is hosting the annual Tree of Life ceremony, to gather our community together to remember those lost to AIDS. I think often about the many queer people in that generation lost to the virus. What would they think of the work we have done and about the attacks on our community now? How would they engage in the movement? What history would they be making now had their government shown compassion?

    My hope is that they are proud of what our movement has done – and is doing – to end new HIV infections. This comes from our continued support of community organizations that are leading the effort.



    With Pride,
    Mark D. Maddox
    Pronouns: he/him
    Director of Programs

  24. Interim Leadership Press Release

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    San Diego, Nov. 29, 2023 — San Diego Pride, a leading nonprofit organization in the LGBTQ+ community, is excited to unveil an innovative leadership approach with the appointment of Interim Co-Executive Directors to guide the organization through its transition period.

    Sarafina Scapicchio (She/Her/Hers)

    Sarafina Scapicchio has been on staff at San Diego Pride on and off since 2015, most recently serving as Deputy Executive Director. During that time she not only brought much needed funds to the organization, but also helped to grow and formalize the San Diego Pride Community Grant Program. She brings nearly two decades of expertise in philanthropy and nonprofit management within the LGBTQ+ community, and holds a Master’s degree in Nonprofit Management and a Master’s degree in Social Work. Beyond her professional work, Sarafina has volunteered on the planning committees of the Transgender Day of Empowerment and She Fest for many years and recently served as Membership Chair for Women Give San Diego, and as the Vice President of Inclusion on the Board of the Association of Fundraising Professionals, San Diego Chapter. Her work in the community has been recognized by multiple awards including being named Mayor Todd Gloria’s Women of Distinction in 2021, the Barbara Blake Leadership Award, and the Toni Puente Equality Award. 

    Jen LaBarbera (They/Them)

    Jen LaBarbera has been on staff at San Diego Pride since 2018, most recently serving as the Director of Education & Advocacy, where they direct the organization’s community partnerships, education & advocacy programs, civic engagement, and international diplomacy work. They are a passionate advocate for policy change, grassroots organizing, and community engagement. As a queer, mixed-race, neurodivergent, nonbinary femme survivor, Jen brings a wealth of experience as a political and community organizer and social justice movement leader. As part of their role at Pride, they also serve as the Vice President of Global Outreach at InterPride.  In addition to their political and community organizing experience, Jen also has a MA in Library and Information Science and has worked as a librarian and archivist in Boston, Denver, and here in San Diego at Lambda Archives. With nearly 20 years of experience, Jen’s commitment to social justice and liberation is evident in their work, making them a key asset to the LGBTQIA+ community.

    Co-Executive Director Model: A Vision for Continuity

    Sarafina and Jen will jointly lead San Diego Pride during this interim period, each bringing unique strengths to the table. Sarafina will continue to lead the Philanthropy team, Operations/Finance team, and will add supervision of the Director of Entertainment. Jen will retain responsibilities for Education & Advocacy, and will oversee Programs and the Marketing Department. This collaborative approach ensures a seamless transition, reflecting San Diego Pride’s commitment to continuity and elevating the talents within the organization.

    This co-leadership model not only reflects San Diego Pride’s commitment to continuity but also underscores the organization’s dedication to fostering an inclusive and empowered leadership structure.

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    Melissa Malone-Montgomery, Board Co-Chair, shared, “We’d like to thank our staff, who proposed this co-leadership model. This innovative leadership approach will ensure strong organizational continuity while also recognizing the exceptional talent within our organization. As a Latina, I’m also happy to see us elevating diverse inputs from our team and community.”

    Noah Lomax, Board Co-Chair, expressed, “We are thrilled to welcome Sarafina Scapicchio and Jen LaBarbera as our Interim Co-Executive Directors. Sarafina is a recognized non-profit expert whom I’ve had the privilege of serving alongside from the beginning of my board time. And anyone who has had the privilege of attending a training led by Jen knows they are an expert at education and advocacy. We congratulate them and are here to support them.”

    Jen LaBarbera, Interim Co-Executive Director, said, “I am looking forward to supporting my colleagues and our incredible family of volunteers during this transition. As Interim Co-Executive Director, I am dedicated to working alongside Sarafina to ensure San Diego Pride remains a trusted community leader and partner in building toward LGBTQIA+ equality and liberation in our region.”

    Sarafina Scapicchio, Interim Co-Executive Director, added “I am honored to serve as interim co-lead of f San Diego Pride with Jen. I will work to ensure our dedicated staff, our hard-working volunteers, and our beloved community partners remain at the forefront of everything we do and that San Diego Pride’s mission and values will remain our north star during this period of transition.”

    For media inquiries, please contact:

    Joe Fejeran

    Executive Projects Manager

    [email protected]

    (619) 297-7683 ext. 113

    For Board of Directors inquiries, please contact:

    Noah Lomax

    [email protected] 

    Co-Chair, San Diego Pride Board

    Melissa Malone-Montgomery

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    Co-Chair, San Diego Pride Board

  25. 🌈🎁 It’s GIVING small

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Who doesn’t love our vibrantly Fabulous Hillcrest community and all of our LGBTQ-owned small business community? All across the gayborhood and our region, QTBIPOC-owned businesses reinvest in our community by employing us, stewarding our career development, contributing to regional LGBTQ-serving nonprofits, and being key components of economic growth and empowerment in our community and movement.

    I think of our annual Pride season and our events’ nearly $30 million economic impact, a great deal of which goes right back into our Hillcrest and LGBTQ community. So many of our favorite LGBTQ-owned businesses sponsor us during Pride season and throughout the year with cash and in-kind contributions. As I reflect on this, I can’t help but think of Chris Shaw and his legacy of entrepreneurial investment in cultivating the next generation of business leaders with whom he instilled a deeply valued culture of philanthropy.

    At our Festival alone, this year we partnered with 260 small businesses and nonprofits. All throughout the year, we collaborate with organizations like Hillcrest Business Association, San Diego Business Association, Asian Business Association of San Diego, OUT Pro San Diego, San Diego Regional Chamber of Commerce’s LEAD program, San Diego Tourism Authority, and Downtown San Diego Partnership. Through these partnerships, we train on LGBTQ cultural competency, find philanthropic sponsors, donors, and volunteers, partner on events and educational initiatives, drive tourism, and so much more.

    These collaborations highlight how investing in our local economy and nonprofits fuels capacity building within our community. The success stories of these partnerships remind us that when we support local LGBTQ businesses and nonprofits, we invest in the very fabric of our community. These businesses have been there for us when discrimination and stigma kept others at arm’s length. They provide jobs, stability, and a supportive space for many in our community, especially during our most challenging times.

    Small Business Saturday and Giving Tuesday are just around the corner. Let’s use these opportunities to give back to those who have continually uplifted us. By supporting these small businesses and contributing to a Giving Tuesday campaign, we’re not just engaging in transactions; we’re participating in a movement of mutual uplift and resilience that will help all of us Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please consider supporting the your-round programs of San Diego Pride by donating to this year’s Giving Tuesday campaign where every dollar we receive will be matched up to $10,000 by Tito’s Handmade Vodka!

  26. 🌈🎖️Thank You, Veterans!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Two years ago, the USNS Harvey Milk launched into San Diego Bay, marking the first time a military vessel was named for an openly LGBTQ civil rights leader. For many San Diegans who lived, served, and suffered through the perils of the military’s pre-DADT discriminatory culture, ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ itself, or the transgender ban, the moment carried a poignant weight knowing that the person being honored was murdered in 1978 and less than honorably discharged in 1955 because of his sexual orientation. We’ve come a long way in supporting our service members and veterans, but we still have a long way to go.

    It’s no secret that military ports like San Diego quickly became hubs for the LGBTQ community since WWII as we found each other and chose to remain amongst our newfound family rather than return to more rural communities that weren’t always as accepting. If we look back at San Diego’s LGBTQ history, we will find it hard to de-couple veterans from the evolution and progress our community has seen locally and nationally.

    Which veterans can we thank?

    Jess Jessop who helped lead the local Gay Liberation Front, starting what became Pride, founded The Center, and helped to form Lambda Archives. Jeri Dilno helped secure the first San Diego Pride March Permit in 1975, and presented on LGBTQ health issues to the American Nurses Association from 1975 to 1977. Community advocates who fought for our protections and built the capacity of our movement like Bridget Wilson and Ben Dillingham. Robert Lynn, who passed last year, founded much of our region’s LGBTQ political strategy and the organization now known as the San Diego Equality Business Association. One of our current board members, Joanna Sansoterra, became the first active-duty service member in the country to receive approval from the DoD to wear her uniform in a Pride parade, setting off a chain of events that led to sweeping approval for uniforms at Pride elevating LGBTQ veteran visibility nationally. Other local LGBTQ veterans of note include Autumn Sandeen, Kristin Beck, Evander Deocariza, Alberto Cortés, Ronnie Zerrer, and many more.

    This Veterans Day, let’s not only thank our veterans for their service to our country and community but also reflect on the work still needed to support their ongoing needs after service and how we can contribute. Veterans, particularly LGBTQ and BIPOC veterans face greater hurdles to accessing employment, housing, health care, and mental health services. While some of these points of care are improving, that improvement is asymmetrical at best.

    While some of the best ways to support our veterans and service members is to support peace and diplomacy, we also need to repair broken systems that have exploited and neglected marginalized communities. LGBTQ veterans have lifted up our movement and it is incumbent upon us to ensure we return the favor, as so much of their work in our movement has allowed our community to Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Join us tonight at The Center for the LGBTQ Veterans Wall of Honor Induction Ceremony and this Saturday as we march in the San Diego Veterans Day Parade.

  27. 🌈✅Decisions to Make

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    Dear Pride Family,

    I don’t need to tell you that every election matters. You’re reading this, so you know they do. Here in San Diego County, we have a special election happening in the next week for the 4th Supervisorial District, Chula Vista City Attorney, and on ballot measures in the Fallbrook Public Utility & Rainbow Municipal Water Districts.

    See if you live in one of the voting districts here

    Find your voting options here

    If you live in one of the special election districts, please make certain that you return your ballot or vote in person by this coming Tuesday, November 7.

    We all choose how much we engage in the democratic process. We can decide to vote or not, to volunteer a little, a lot, or not at all. We can donate. We can protest. We can write op-eds. We can combat false narratives in our daily lives or as part of a larger campaign. We can sit back and do nothing. No matter what, it’s all a choice. 

    During the Prop 8 campaign, in San Diego, about 9,000 volunteers engaged with the campaign that year. That’s almost as many as volunteer for Pride over the weekend. We had heard from so many who wouldn’t volunteer or donate that ‘Califonia was too progressive to pass such a bill.’

    After Prop 8, approximately 29,000 people took to the streets on a very hot day to protest the passage of Prop 8. At Pride about 250,000 take to the streets any given year to celebrate. I always think about what would have happened if those other 20,000 people had decided to volunteer beforehand, not to mention a quarter million people.

    I don’t say any of this to shame or judge. I say it as an invitation to reflect on how we choose to engage in making the world a better place. Do we sit back and watch? Do we protest after the fact? Do we stand up to the bullies? It’s our choice.

    Here are a few ways you can positively engage in building community now:
    Register for our Youth Leadership Academy
    Sign up to be notified about volunteer opportunities
    Join Pride’s Advocacy Team
    Save the date for the Pride Power Summit; annual organizer training, 4/12-4/14
    Donate to support the year-round programs of Pride

    Next year we will face elections in California and across the country that will deeply impact the rights, protections, safety, and very lives of our LGBTQ community. How will you decide to show up? No matter what, I hope you make a decision that will help our community and movement Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  28. 🌈😠Now what?!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    There is so much at risk for our community in the next year, but I have hope. 

    I’m here today in San Diego with our Pride organizers and LGBTQ human rights activists from all around the world as we host the InterPride World Conference. It’s incredible to think that it all started with a few resources, hope, a will to support one another, and a list made by San Diego Pride board member, Doug Moore. Never underestimate the power of a list!

    In 2008, our community faced off against anti-LGBTQ extremists on the battleground of a ballot measure, Prop 8, that stripped our access to marriage equality. Tired, trite, and reprehensible lies and misinformation were spread about our community. We and our allies experienced a backlash of hate crimes. We had fewer LGBTQ-focused resources and organizations then, and the Prop 8 campaign was predominantly only active in three cities. We lost that fight.

    That loss didn’t stop our movement. It enraged and fueled us. All across California we formed new nonprofits, continued field organizing, and earned media campaigns. We built coalitions and leaned into intersectional capacity building. We grew stronger.

    Next year in California, we will be facing one, if not two, ballot measures on LGBTQ rights. 

    We are just one Supreme Court ruling away from losing the freedom to marry again in California. That is why in the general election a year from now we will be voting on our rights. There will be a ballot initiative to codify marriage equality in law.

    We also know that transgender youth rights are under siege across the country. Here in California 4 anti-trans youth initiatives are looming that threaten the dignity, privacy, and safety of our children. These initiatives could force schools to out trans students to unsupportive families, putting their lives and safety at risk.

    Now is the time to use all we have learned and all we have built. Now is not the time to bend, bow, or break, in the face of bullies. 

    Here in San Diego, since 2008, we have built newer and stronger intersectional coalitions. Our region’s CLC LGBTQ Youth Services and Advocacy Committee, the Black LGBTQ Coalition, the Latine LGBTQ Coalition, Queer APIMEDA Coalition, the DevOUT LGBTQ Interfaith Coalition, the Disabled LGBTQ+ Coalition, and Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition will all need to engage in the fight ahead if we are to protect our marriage rights and our transgender youth.

    In 2008 I can’t tell you how many times I was told we didn’t need to worry, and people didn’t want to volunteer because they thought California was so liberal, we’d be safe. A better future is only possible if we engage directly in our democracy. We can not rest. We can not retreat. One thing I know about our community is that we are relentless, and if we work diligently, we can build a future where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you want to learn more and engage in this work, check out our Youth Leadership Academy coming up in a few weeks or consider making a donation to Pride to sustain this work.

  29. 🌈💜Protect our Children

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Our community needs to be on alert and our allies need to step up. Right now, right here in San Diego and across the country LGBTQ youth, families, educators, and events are coming under attack by anti-LGBTQ extremists. The way these conversations play out in the media, social media, classrooms, and school board meetings can not only impact the physical and mental health of our LGBTQ community and youth, but it puts our lives at risk. 

    Local schools, school districts, libraries, small businesses, as well as individual educators, parents, and drag queens have been subjected to protests, cyberbullying, threats, and harassment that are part of a larger, nationally coordinated effort to attack our community. This anti-LGBTQ rhetoric escalates during an election cycle to stoke fear and drive anti-LGBTQ voter turnout while draining LGBTQ community time and resources. 

    We know this is their plan for the 2024 election cycle. At least 4 anti-LGBTQ ballot initiatives have been submitted for the California election next year. We have to be prepared.

    Here are some steps you can take right now:

    Today is Spirit Day. When Gilbert Baker designed the first Pride flag in 1978, he was intentional about the meaning behind each color. Purple symbolizes the spirit. In 2010, a surge of reported LGBTQ teen suicides related to anti-LGBTQ bullying inspired then-teenager Brittany McMillian to start Spirit Day. People everywhere are encouraged to wear purple on the third Thursday of October to show support for LGBTQ youth and demand an end to bullying during National Bullying Prevention Month.

    Ending anti-LGBTQ bullying and suicide is no small task. Each of us is responsible for ending the cycle of bullying and suicide. Each of us can confront bullies in our daily lives. Our legal protections, our future, and our youth require our active efforts to ensure their safety. It’s our job to stand on the front lines for youth today, so they may grow up, and live full and healthy lives, so they and our entire community can Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. To support our work protecting our youth, please consider donating to San Diego Pride’s year-round programming.

  30. 🌈🌎A World of Pride

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Pride leaders from around the world are about to descend on our beautiful city!

    In 1981, just 12 years after the Stonewall Riots, San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore created the most comprehensive list of Pride organizers from around the country, and from that list in 1982 half a dozen Pride organizations met in Boston. In 1983, the Pride Coordinator’s National Conference was held in San Diego as our movement’s activists and organizations made efforts to share strategies, resources, and best practices.

    Over the years these early efforts grew into what is now called InterPride, a global organization that connects and uplifts LGBTQ activists and Pride organizers around the world, hosts an annual conference, oversees the WorldPride bid, provides grants to LGBTQ human rights work around the world, conducts research on the international Pride movement, and recently received Consultative Status with the United Nations

    In 2020 when Prides, as we knew them, came to a standstill, InterPride helped bring together organizers from 163 countries to produce the 27-hour virtual Global Pride celebration viewed by over 57 million people. Our staff and volunteers took an incredible leadership role in helping to make that possible. 

    With our international focus and partnership with the San Diego Diplomacy Council and the Department of State, we have met with 609 delegates from 142 countries around the world. In fact, this last month we hosted one of their fellows from Turkey who is doing inspiring LGBTQ justice work in their country. Through this international exchange program, we’ve also been able to send our staff to other countries to assist with organizational capacity building.

    Between speakers, volunteers, entertainers, and activists we’ll be hosting around 500 people from around 40 countries and 190 cities around the world. We’ll have visitors from all across Angola, Argentina, Australia, Bangladesh, Cameroon, Canada, Colombia, Costa Rica, Cote d’Ivoire, Denmark, El Salvador, Germany, Ghana, Guinea, Haiti, India, Japan, Kenya, Latvia, Liberia, Mexico, Nepal, Netherlands, Pakistan, Peru, Philippines, South Africa, South Korea, Sweden, Switzerland, Togo, Uganda, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States, and Zambia.

    If you’d like to join us, registration is still open and we’re also looking for volunteers to help out. Social passes are available for folks who just want to get to know our international guests without going to the entire conference. You can see what those exciting events are here.  It’s an honor to be a small part of this LGBTQ global network-building legacy and I’m so grateful to each of you and all of our predecessors who made this work possible. It’s over 40 years of collective action that has helped InterPride and a world of Pride Family Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  31. 🌈📚 Pride is History

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In my office hangs a copy of the oldest known San Diego Pride budget. We had a deficit of one dollar. 90% of our income came from button sales. The year was 1975, the first year to have a permitted Pride Parade, but not the first year of Pride in San Diego. I love having that piece of history hanging next to me as I work every day. It reminds me of the legacy gifted to us by the pioneers of our movement – those early struggles and successes of our community as it fought legal oppression, societal norms, and too often internally. Sound familiar?

    In 1970, students at SDSU, including architect of our regional movement Jess Jessop, founded the San Diego Chapter of the Gay Liberation Front and held early protests and “Gay-Ins” in solidarity with the national GLF movement, which conducted and coordinated solidarity events with first annual “Christopher Street Liberation Day March.”

    San Diego “Gay-Ins” led by the GLF continued in 1971 and 73, but in 1972 regional LGBTQ activists and organizers saw the opportunity to do something more than a day in the park. The GLF of San Diego and over 20 other regional emerging LGBTQ organizations joined forces to produce the San Diego Southwestern Gay Conference, a time to coordinate and strategize.

    As our regional organizations began to become more sophisticated, Jess Jessop and many in the GLF shifted their focus to establish the Gay Information Center hotline in 1973, which grew into our region’s LGBTQ Community Center, now celebrating their 50th anniversary! In 1974, the then-named Center for Social Services held a Stonewall Anniversary yard sale and potluck to raise funds for the growing LGBTQ Center. 

    There were conflicting accounts of an impromptu unpermitted march on the sidewalk that followed the potluck that some credit as the first San Diego Pride, but I find it important to honor that our movement did not yet have shared language to call these events “Pride.” In 1974 there was also a large protest march against SDPD, which is why some folks have different accounts of how large these marches were. We possibly had two marches in 1974. Up to then, Stonewall anniversary events, Gay-ins, conferences, and marches were happening in San Diego before our first permits or nonprofit status as a way to honor the 1969 riots. The first “Gay Pride Day” was in 1975.

    In 1981, the most extensive list of Pride organizers was created by San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore, and in 1982 a small Pride gathering was held in Boston, followed in 1983 by a larger Pride Coordinators National Conference held here in San Diego. This was the beginning of what would become InterPride, the international Pride membership body, and annual global conference. We are hosting the 40th anniversary of that conference here in San Diego in less than three weeks.

    Ad hoc committees would come together each year to produce Pride Parades and Rallies that eventually added a festival. In 1989, Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, and others in our community decided to take Pride in a more professional direction and San Diego Pride became the first Pride in the world to hire an Executive Director, Tim Williams. Together they helped us become our own nonprofit in 1994, a year that marked the beginning of the Parade route and Festival location most people will find familiar.

    Today, San Diego Pride is the most philanthropic Pride organization in the world, with robust year-round education and advocacy programs predominantly led by community volunteers and supported by our volunteer board of directors and paid staff. Next year will be 50 years since those first protest marches, and 30 years since we became a nonprofit. Our organization and movement weren’t built by one person, one group, one nonprofit, or one leader. We have been manifested through the intentional will and labor of countless people across generations. As I reflect on October being LGBTQ history month, my heart and gratitude to all those who relentlessly carried us here and each of you who are fearlessly taking us forward to a future where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  32. Today we mourn the passing of Senator Dianne Feinstein

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    “Senator Dianne Feinstein stood as an unwavering beacon of hope and progress for our LGBTQ community. From her foundational years in San Francisco, where she personally discovered the tragic assassination of Harvey Milk and the devastating repercussions of hate-driven gun violence, to her pivotal role in the U.S. Senate, her advocacy was driven by deep compassion. Her profound legacy, stretching from early battles against HIV to landmark strides like the repeal of ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’ relentless advocacy for marriage equality, and her authorship and fervent support of the Equality Act. Today, as we mourn, we remember a formidable accomplice in our ceaseless journey toward full liberation for our community and country. May her memory be a blessing.”

    Fernando Z. López, Executive Director, San Diego Pride

  33. 🌈📸 Picture Pride with Purpose

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In a year where efforts to erase our existence have reached unprecedented levels, our visibility feels more vital to our movement than ever.

    When I first began working at Pride in 2011, we were not yet using photos to tell the stories of our organization or community. Californians had enjoyed LGBTQ employment protections for some time, but San Diego had the highest concentration of LGBTQ military personnel in the country, and the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell had not yet taken effect. The risk posed to the careers and lives of our service members was too great. Civilians too were concerned that their lives would be upended.

    When the repeal of DADT took effect later that year, 12 years ago this month, Pride began the long process of uploading our photographic history to Facebook and something amazing happened. Digital photography was still relatively new and certainly not yet ubiquitous, in 1994, Executive Director Brenda Schumacher began the tradition of ensuring everything about Pride was documented through photography. Her foundational work coupled with the photo collections of board and community members meant that images of our community were well-preserved and could be shared on this new social media technology we were all learning.

    As folks started to look through each year of Pride they began to tag their friends, share memories, and even reconnect with loved ones who they thought they had lost during the HIV/AIDS crisis. Our community knows all too well that visibility is key to impacting change, and photography has and continues to play a vital role in authentically showcasing the breadth and depth of our community.

    Pride shifted from using only bold graphic images and logos in our marketing and communications to showcasing vibrant images of the diverse community we truly are. The attendance at our events began to grow rather rapidly as people saw themselves reflected and felt safer being out, knowing they weren’t alone. 


    You can now view nearly all the photography from previous years here.

    Join us next Friday, October 6, 2023, for an exhibit opening honoring the legacy of photographers using their art as advocacy as Art of Pride returns to the Pride office in North Park for Images of Pride, a reflection of the diversity, community, pageantry, excitement, and emotion of the San Diego Pride Festival, Parade, Rally, and other San Diego Pride celebrations.

    We look forward to sharing these compelling images with you. It is through their preservation and our visibility that as a movement can truly Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  34. 🌈🚨 Threats at School!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    All across San Diego County and California, we are experiencing a dramatic rise in anti-LGBTQ organizing at school boards, largely driven by a small but vocal and organized group of extremists. These local issues mirror what is happening all over the United States as part of a larger picture that illustrates that this isn’t just an assault on LGBTQ rights, it is a purposeful attack by the broader extremist movement targeting issues of race, women, immigrants, and democracy itself. 

    Banning LGBTQ books, Pride flags, and other visible LGBTQ safe space measures aren’t the only things being proposed and voted on. Recently, Grossmont Union High School abruptly ended an LGBTQ-inclusive mental health service contract with San Diego Youth Services. Just last week a federal judge blocked an Escondido Union School District policy that protects transgender youth, a move that could force educators to out their students in direct violation of California law. The lives and safety of our youth are at risk.

    From San Diego to Santee, from Chula Vista to Carlsbad, our staff and volunteers have repeatedly joined forces with educators, parents, and students to counter these anti-LGBTQ policy attempts and extremist rhetoric at more than ten school districts across the county. While there are several new bills working their way through the California legislature to increase legal protections for our LGBTQ youth, we know this fight isn’t going away any time soon.

    Anti-LGBTQ extremists are planning three ballot measures for 2024 that would directly harm transgender youth. We have to stay focused, engaged, and prepare for this fight.

    Here is how San Diego Pride is helping and how you can get involved:
    Policy & Practices: Learn from our LGBTQ+ Youth Standards of Care
    Connection: Sign-up for Programs by and for LGBTQ Youth
    Direct Action: Join our Advocacy Team here
    Capacity Building: Register for the Youth Leadership Academy
    Donate: Fund our youth programs

    If you are ready to dive in to the fight and want to learn more, I highly recommend registering for this year’s Pride Youth Leadership Academy where we will bring together LGBTQ youth, parents/caregivers, and educators to learn about their rights, resources, and leadership skills so that we can all be our own best advocates in our schools and communities. 

    To our youth, parents, educators, and activists serving on the front lines of this fight right here and now, thank you. Your efforts are needed now more than ever. This work is hard and can take a heavy emotional toll. We are here to support you. We have fought and won these battles before, and we will do so again. My gratitude to each of you and we call our entire community together to ensure our LGBTQ youth have educational environments where each of them can Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please consider making a donation to help sustain these life-saving LGBTQ-youth programs.

  35. 🌈💪We mean business!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    I can still remember the fear and uncertainty our family went through when my husband was fired from his job after they discovered he was gay, or the time my employer refused to put my husband on my health insurance because our marriage wasn’t legally recognized. Both employers were major multinational corporations. Far too many of us have had those experiences over our lifetimes. Our community’s relationship with big business has been challenging, to say the least.

    California has enjoyed LGBTQ employment protections since 1992, but it took the U.S. Supreme Court’s Bostock ruling just recently in 2020 to provide federal protections. Still, nearly half of LGBTQ employees aren’t out at work, and more than one in four LGBTQ employees has experienced employment discrimination. The impacts of discrimination are felt that much more deeply by LGBTQ employees of color.

    This year our community watched as the rising anti-LGBTQ sentiment across the country had many companies pulling back from the visible and financial support during Pride month. Pride organizations across the country felt that retreat this year and issued a joint statement asking for these businesses to be unwavering in their commitment to our community. 

    It’s not all doom and gloom. Corporate support for the LGBTQ community has grown dramatically in the last 20 years. Nationally, over 90% of Fortune 500 companies have nondiscrimination policies covering sexual orientation and gender identity. 70% of them have a public-facing commitment to the LGBTQ community. Companies like Disney are even on the front lines fighting against some of the most egregious new onslaught of anti-LGBTQ legislation.

    Even here at Pride we now boost over 130 corporate sponsors who believe in our mission and invest in our year-round LGBTQ education and advocacy programs. That’s even after we turn away corporations who invest in anti-LGBTQ policies. The companies who stand by us don’t just donate to us. They participate in LGBTQ competency training, and policy reform, and send volunteers to support keeping our events free or accessibly priced. Much of that work is driven by LGBTQ employees who volunteer their time as individuals or through ERGs (Employee Resource Groups) to support their LGBTQ colleagues and redirect corporate giving policies. 

    I couldn’t be more grateful to see that even in times of political division there are companies who stand with us, share our values, and are ready to continue investing in our future. Let’s all keep up the work of holding corporations accountable when they misstep and celebrate the companies and people who are committed to helping our community and movement Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  36. 🌈❤️Con Orgullo

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    Dear Pride Family,

    We, as queer people, don’t always have spaces where we can be authentically LGBTQ-selves and hold on to our cultural identities at the same time. The homophobia and transphobia we might feel in our own families or cultural communities, or the racism and xenophobia we can face in our own LGBTQ communities can leave those of us with intersectional identities feeling like we never get to be our full selves. We don’t always feel like we belong.

    One of Pride’s many influential leaders over our history, Larry T. Baza, of Latin and Chamorro heritage worked to change that.

    One of the big changes Larry helped to bring was greater attention to diversity and inclusion, particularly around the arts and culture represented at Pride. His early work, along with many others helped to add a multicultural presence to the annual Pride Festival which today hosts three culturally distinct stages for the Asian Pacific Islander, Latin, and Black LGBTQ communities.

    Those stages have helped to grow, resource areas, and new programs that now have Pride events all their own that we either produce or partner with. Hispanic Heritage Month kicks off next week, and our Latine Coalition has a truly special celebration in store for us!

    Latine Pride, themed ‘Florecer’, is its third year and has moved from June to September! We hope you’re all ready for a day full of LGBTQ Latin DJs, drag queens, dancing, food, vendors, special guest appearances, and so much more! 

    To thrive in joy, to flourish, is to “Florecer.” Latine Pride is not just a celebration, but a testament to the resilience and vitality of the LGBTQ Latine community. Spaces like this, where we can be loved, safe, and seen as our one-hundred percent queer and one-hundred percent Latin selves are rare. As our organization’s first Mexican-American executive director, I can’t tell you how rewarding it is to be a part of the team that is bringing this all together.

    LGBTQ Latines have always been at the forefront of crucial social movements. Latine Pride gives us the space to celebrate the prosperity, power, and progress’ that Hispanic folks in the diaspora have been tirelessly fighting for all along. It helps us all envision a world where we how we live, who we love, or what defines our traditions, all of us deserve to Thrive!

    Con Orgullo/With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Latine Pride is FREE to attend, but not free to produce. Consider making a donation today to support intersectional arts and culture programming like Latine Pride!

  37. Protect Our Children

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In 2015, a rash of LGBTQ teen suicides in San Diego hit the news. At the time, several regional LGBTQ-youth serving organizations were just starting to come together under the newly formed Youth Services & Advocacy Committee, under the Center’s Community Leadership Council; all of us wanting to better coordinate our efforts in service of our next generation. On the way back from a memorial service for one of the youths, Josh Coyne and I talked about how we could bring our organizations, San Diego Pride and The Trevor Project, together to create new LGBTQ youth-led programming.

    The recent loss of 14-year-old Salvador Rios, a bright and passionate young soul from our community, reminds us of the pressing and painful realities LGBTQ youth face even today. Our love, strength, and support to his family and friends.

    In an era where anti-LGBTQ political polarization is on the rise, it’s all the more essential to remember that the target of these debates are real, living individuals with hopes, dreams, and vulnerabilities. Each time we hear of another youth struggling or tragically succumbing to bullying, harassment, and hate, it brings to sharp relief the work that remains. That work rests on each of us.

    Here is how San Diego Pride is helping and how you can get involved:

    Policy & Practices: Learn from our LGBTQ+ Youth Standards of Care

    Connection: Sign-up for Programs by and for LGBTQ Youth

    Direct Action: Join our Advocacy Team here

    Capacity Building: Register for the Youth Leadership Academy

    Donate: Fund our youth programs

    Every large and small action we take to protect our LGBTQ youth can save a life. Even one loss of one life is one less too many. Above are ways you can get involved with us, and below are regional LGBTQ-youth resources. We ask you to educate yourself, engage, and help us create a world where don’t just survive, we Thrive!

    In Solidarity,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Resources for LGBTQIA+ Youth

    Hotlines / Warm Lines:

    Community Organizations:

    Libraries:

    Schools: 

  38. Allies Under Attack

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Do not retreat. Our movement needs allies. The world just lost a significant one. The murder of Lauri Carleton, a strong ally and supporter, has shaken us all. She was defending our flag. Our right to exist. Her right to free speech. She was met with gun violence. 

    As LGBTQ people, we have been sounding the alarm about the increase in targeted violence and hate towards us for years. More recently, it has become clear that our out, visible, and vocal allies are increasingly becoming targets in their own families, places of employment, and communities. Do not retreat.

    Our allies have walked alongside us, fought on the front lines with us, and shared in our celebrations and grief. Allyship is earned by those accomplices who fervently work for our collective liberation. Allies come in all kinds. They are the teacher who knows what resources to provide. They are the friend who stops the bully at school. The insightful adult who sees us often before we see ourselves. They are the coworker who speaks up for you even when you’re not in the room. They are the people who often feel safe enough and brave enough to speak truth to power when we aren’t or can’t. Do not retreat.

    In a year where LGBTQ and allied organizations called out that fear was driving away supporters locally and nationally, we again ask of our allies and of ourselves – Do not retreat.

    Our fear is understandable. Our caution is needed. We are right to be worried and somehow our resolve must be unwavering. As queer people, we know all too well the fine line we walk every day of being visible while remaining vigilant. It’s exhausting. It shouldn’t have to be this way. Lauri should still be alive. So many of us should be. Do not retreat.

    Every room we are in is an opportunity for allyship. The conversations we have at our conference tables and dinner tables matter. Our places of work and worship, community, and commerce are all opportunities for allyship. Our work, our lives are all intersectional and present opportunities for cross-movement allyship. As we ask our allies to stay by our side, so must we show up for communities outside our own lived experience. Do not retreat.

    For every act of hatred, let’s amplify acts of love tenfold. For every flag torn down, let’s raise ten more. For every ally and community member lost, let us commit to honoring them with action. Please take a moment this week to thank the allies in your life. We couldn’t do this without them. We will not retreat. We will remember that, no matter how big or small, every step we take, every voice we amplify, every act of solidarity, brings us closer to a world where all of us Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  39. “Ok, Groomer!”

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    Dear Pride Family,

    During McCarthyism and the Lavender Scare, the Briggs Initiative, Prop 8, and right now with record numbers of anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation popping up around the country, we are hearing the same tired, dangerous lies and misinformation being told about us as our community is again used as a political wedge. Right-wing extremists have let it be known that our community and our youth will yet again be used as a political wedge issue at least through the general election in November of 2024.  Coupled with these political attacks are always messages meant to spin a false narrative about us and put us in harm’s way. “Save our children” or the newer “Ok, groomer,” they will say, and in turn violence towards our community increases

    The reality is many of these new political attacks target LGBTQ youth putting them at risk of violence and negatively impacting their mental health. While we live in California, the other hard reality too many often forget is that even here, LGBTQ youth are too often raise by unsupportive families which, as many of us know, can lead to trauma, lack of financial support, becoming unsheltered, and lower educational outcomes that all have long-lasting impacts across our lives.

    So, how does Pride help here in San Diego?

    Policy & Practices: As educators, administrators, guardians, and youth head back to school, I highly recommend using our LGBTQ+ Youth Standards of Care as a road map. It contains essential benchmarks and links to external resources to help us best serve our LGBTQ students.

    LGBTQ Youth Connection: Even one supportive adult can save an LGBTQ young person’s life. At Pride, we have daily, weekly, and monthly programs in-person and virtually for LGBTQ youth. Our youth-led curriculum includes art, music, advocacy, and more in a fun and friendly environment. You can take a look at all of our youth programs and find links to our other LGBTQ youth-serving partner organizations here.

    Direct Action: Anti-LGBTQ extremists have organized all over San Diego County, protesting school boards, libraries, and community organizations that openly support LGBTQ youth. Our advocacy works year-round to identify threats of protest across the region and ensures local residents are able to mobilize in response and counter the hateful lies meant to rip away LGBTQ policies and events there to help our community. You can learn more and join our advocacy team here.

    Capacity Building: Our Pride Youth Leadership Academy is in its 11th year. A day-long summit where junior high, high school, and transitional-age LGBTQ youth come to learn about their rights, resources, and leadership skills so they can be their own best advocate in their schools and communities. Over the last few years, we added a track for adults who may be parents, guardians, educators, and administrators so they can also know their rights and advocate for their students and families. 

    Youth Leadership Academy is probably my favorite day of the year because while our youth are learning, they are also making new friendships and found-family connections. There’s just so much queer joy that day! 

    We have to break the cycle of LGBTQ youth being severed from the history, laws, and legacy we have all fought for. We must be intentional about how we connect our intergenerational movement to our youth, so we learn from them and respond to the new and emerging challenges they face. This is how our community and movement will continue to make progress toward a world where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please consider making a donation to help sustain these life-saving LGBT-youth programs.

  40. 🌈🖤Life or Death

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    Dear Pride Family,

    We should not have to be killed to be seen. 

    The soul of our community dimmed with the brutal murder of O’Shae Sibley, a beacon of art and activism. While joyfully voguing at a Brooklyn gas station with his friends, celebrating our culture and life, hate robbed us all of his life, his future, and queer brilliance. 

    His death isn’t a one-off. So far this year, at least 15 transgender people have been killed in the US. A recent report from the California Department of Justice stated that hate crimes motivated by sexual orientation bias rose 29% and those based on anti-trans bias rose 55%.

    The ongoing surge in anti-LGBTQ legislation and rhetoric is not just a threat to our rights or our culture; it is an outright assault on our very lives. In these increasingly difficult times in our movement, O’Shae’s death is part of a larger systemic wave of hate, and his memory must be met as a clarion call. Our arts, our dance, our voices are acts of defiance, resistance, and hope. 

    I was inspired to see communities across the country, including here in Hillcrest, fearlessly take to the streets to vogue, to dance, to laugh, to claim the free and open air in defiance of our erasure and to honor the memory of O’Shae Sibley. This is what we know how to do. We take our darkest moments and alchemize them into joyful revolution. That queer resilience and innovation is needed now more than ever.

    We should not have to be killed to be seen. It should not take legislation meant to silence us for us to be heard. It should not take acts of erasure for us to invest in our history. It should not take threats to our drag siblings for us to rally behind them as vital leaders in our movement. 

    We won’t be forgotten. We won’t be broken. It’s up to us.

    Every person reading this has the ability to invest your time and attention to queer art, culture, lives, history, health care, and, education. We have to ask for it when we don’t see it. We have to consume, support, and invest in it when we do. We shouldn’t have to wait for a fight to show up for each other. That said, the fight is now. So for all those that we’ve lost, let’s invest in what we have and fight for a world where do not have to be killed to be seen, one where all of us can Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  41. A Different Kind of Pride

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    Dear Pride Family,

    As I reflect on another fabulous Pride season, I’m reminded that we aren’t like other Prides. Throughout the course of our history, a community of inspired leaders in San Diego set out to see what was possible with a Pride. From hosting a regional LGBTQ civil rights conference in 1972 to founding the regional, national, and global Pride membership bodies to help build global LGBTQ capacity, to becoming one of the few and the most philanthropic Prides, San Diego does Pride differently. 

    I just completed my thirteenth Pride on staff and I have to tell you, each and every year I am in awe of what our staff and volunteers do to shift our programming and events with the changing LGBTQ and political landscape and inspired by how intentionally we interweave advocacy and art into nearly everything we do.

    Today San Diego Pride produces over 100 events a year. You read that right. Movie nights, inclusive sporting events, educational talks, political organizing conferences, global conferences, LGBTQ youth and educator development summits, voter engagement, intersectional LGBTQ competency training and policy, scholarships, grants, public education, and more

    Even our Pride Festival is unlike others in the nation in that no one compares to the number and diversity of LGBTQ nonprofit and community organizations hosted in our space or the number or visual and performing artists who help us celebrate. AA and NA meetings, HIV and STI testing, trans health care, vaccines, senior services, family spaces, and so much more. We build a queer city unlike anything else every single year.

    From our iconic Parade and Festival to all of these year-round education and advocacy events, none of this would be possible without our talented diverse community of volunteers from our organization or our partner organizations who all give their time in service to our movement. As a nonprofit nearly all our events are free, so our donors and attendees who purchase Festival tickets and beverages fund the ongoing work of our organization. So from the thousands of volunteers to the 10s of thousands of attendees, all of us are part of building this different kind of Pride.

    Now, as we reflect on this year and plan for the next, I invite each and every one of you to step into the future with us. To continue on this path of advocacy, celebration, and solidarity. To keep pushing the boundaries of what’s possible with Pride. We are San Diego Pride, not just for a day, a week, or a month, but all year round. We welcome you to volunteer, we welcome you to be in the spaces we create together, and we welcome you to invest in building what’s next. Together we can keep building this Pride where all of us can Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. You can help sustain and grow our year-round work by donating at the Ambassador of Pride level. Learn more here.

  42. 🌈♿Access Pride!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Growing up there were two people who showed me the importance of accessibility. My mother is a retired teacher who oversaw the department for students who were blind and low-vision. She was a ferocious advocate for her students. My little brother lived through leukemia as a young kid in the 80s, but the journey left him blind, deaf, quadriplegic, nonverbal, and with severe damage to his brain and nervous system. He is one of the most resilient people I know. 

    I used to spend my summers growing up volunteering at the Imperial County Office for Exceptional Children so I could spend more time with both of them. For the students there and my brother at home, I got to learn and work on speech therapy, physical therapy, orientation and mobility, and primary care support. Those experiences and upbringing helped me see how the world treated folks with disabilities and how often our environment is not built in a way that all of us could access it.

    When I joined the Pride Family in 2011 my heart was lifted to see we were in the early stages of making Pride more accessible. We had a volunteer-led program stewared by staff member Cheli Mohamed called the Diversity Task Force whose job it was to pick apart our organization and find productive solutions to ensure we were the best version of ourselves and that we could serve as many people as possible. 

    Our Accessibility Department began by examining the rally, parade, and festival bringing in ramps, more seating, better signage, and ASL interpreters. Our website and newsletters are now more accessible to screen readers. We have more accessible shuttle and transportation options to our events as well as sensory break areas. We added designated accessible entry and box office lines to the festival. We provided free mobility device rentals and wheelchair charging stations at the Festival. 

    This year we were able to hire our first full-time Accessibility Coordinator whose efforts go beyond Pride weekend and ensure that all of our meetings and events year-round are as accessible as possible. They train our volunteers and staff every year on disability competency and accessibility best practices. Our department’s work has even been recognized around the world and has been used as a model to help train other local and national organizations including helping to make the world’s largest LGBTQ Conference, Creating Change, more accessible. The first of our Pillars of Justice is Disability Justice to ensure that our policy and advocacy work includes access for all.  

    Creating more accessible spaces is an ongoing journey, and I couldn’t be more proud of our team’s vision, efforts, and what they’ve brought to our community and beyond. Our movement only works when everyone in our community is at the table. When we can all access our community, our community can Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  43. 🌈💖Welcome to Pride!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    We do not have Pride because we are free. We have Pride because we are not.

    We have Pride because the brave pioneers of our movement stood in the face of legal state-sanctioned violence and said, “Enough!” We found each other. We fought back. We organized. We carved celebration from our oppression.

    Pride is more than a celebration in our community. It is a joyful defiance, a revolutionary refusal of hate.

    This Pride season, as we face increasing threats and dangerously false narratives, we are not just celebrating our identities but affirming our shared resilience in the face of adversity.

    We have fought and won these battles before. We will do so again. Extremists have misunderstood who we are. We are the LGBTQ+ community, born from the crucible of systemic adversity, tempered by vibrant resilience, and forged by radically unwavering love.

    We will not greet history like a stranger.

    This Pride may we drop our shoulders, allow ourselves to exhale, and breathe in love. Let’s un-wring our hands to extend them, embracing found family. Claim freedom from the open air and dare to dance in daylight, so our affection sees the sun rather than shadows and shame.

    Pride is a reminder that our celebration is justice, our joy is defiance, our love is insubordinate, our revelry is resistance, and our hope will never be silent.

    I invite you to bravely discard fear. Seize hope. Be free.

    Whether you’ve been with us since Stonewall, or this is your first, welcome to Pride. Welcome home. Together, we are stronger, we will win, and we will Thrive! Now, more than ever, it’s time for Pride!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  44. 🌈🏆Top 40!👀

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    Dear Pride Family,

    I don’t know about you, but I am SO READY for Pride! The team really brought their A-game this year, and we’ve made our annual list of our Top 40 things to do!  Free shuttles! FREE parking! No beverage garden fences! FREE entry for volunteers! From our Accessibilty Center to our Zen Garden, we’ve got the Gay-B-Cs covered and there’s literally something for EVERYONE at San Diego Pride!

    Check out the full Top 40 list here!

    We miss you! Can’t wait to see you come together and THRIVE!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  45. 303 Creative Supreme Court Decision

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    SAN DIEGO PRIDE DENOUNCES SUPREME COURT DECISION THAT FOSTERS DISCRIMINATION

    Today, we find ourselves grappling with the Supreme Court’s decision that, albeit narrowly, has undercut longstanding non-discrimination laws, granting a business the right to refuse service to LGBTQ people. It is alarming that a pathway to legal discrimination against our community has been established, even if it is currently confined to “customized, expressive” services.

    This ruling was not prompted by a real demand for the business owner’s services, but instead strategically orchestrated by a national anti-LGBTQ group. It’s crucial to remember that while the First Amendment is central to our democracy and society, it does not offer a license to businesses to discriminate.

    Our nation’s highest Court should never be a platform for fostering discrimination, yet recent decisions, including the debilitating blow to affirmative action, reproductive justice, and LGBTQ rights, suggest a distressing trajectory. It appears this Court aims to dismantle policies designed to mitigate discrimination, and paradoxically, facilitate avenues for that very discrimination.

    Marking the end of national Pride month, this decision is a stark reminder of why Pride remains critical. Born out of protest, Pride embodies our community’s ceaseless fight to exist openly, demanding dignity, respect, and acceptance.

    While we are disheartened by this ruling, it strengthens our resolve. San Diego Pride will not retreat. We pledge to carry on the struggle for full equality and liberation of our community. We face adversity with defiance and hope, determined to create a world where love conquers discrimination and all of us can thrive.

    Fernando Z. López
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride


    Join San Diego Pride in our advocacy efforts to protect marriage equality in California this Pride, and become part of our Civic Action Team as we continue to call on Congress to pass the Equality Act.

  46. 🌈 💖 Invest in OUT Futures

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    Dear Pride Family,

    We are a different kind of Pride organization. As we mark Give OUT Day, I’m reaching out to you, our committed community members, with an urgent call to action. Together, we have the power to shape the future of our LGBTQ community, a future that promises acceptance, resilience, and progress for our younger generations. 

    The undeniable reality we face today is our LGBTQ community is under attack. The rise in anti-LGBTQ legislation, particularly anti-trans laws targeting our youth and healthcare, threatens our safety, our dignity, and our very existence. These are not just abstract issues; they are challenges that deeply impact the lives of our loved ones, our neighbors, and our friends right here in San Diego.

    This is where San Diego Pride steps in. We’re not just a Pride party planner, we are a beacon of hope, a bastion of resistance, and a champion of transformative justice. We tirelessly labor to build our community’s capacity, tear down the walls of discrimination, and amplify the voices of those of us too often pushed to the sidelines. Our first-ever Pride Power Summit brought together over 40 grassroots leaders, arming them with the resources and network they need to continue fighting for our rights. They are now on the front lines of this work across the county.

    Our youth programs, a cornerstone of San Diego Pride’s work, offer safe havens and nurturing spaces for LGBTQ youth from elementary age through 24. Through our efforts, we foster mentorship, education, and community, with initiatives like our signature Youth Leadership Academy, now anticipating its 10th year. Every dollar you invest fuels these critical resources, driving a future where every young LGBTQ person can flourish with acceptance, self-assurance, and the tools they need to succeed.

    So, I’m calling on you today, on this Give OUT Day, to support  this work and our future. 

    A donation of $100, or any amount meaningful to you, will be an investment in the resilience and future of our community

    Your generosity supports San Diego Pride’s youth initiatives and pivotal advocacy work, enabling us to continue pushing back against injustice and advance LGBTQ equality.

    We are a different kind of Pride organization, and together, with every generous donation we receive today, we strengthen our capacity to enact change, create safe spaces, and bolster the courage of countless individuals to embrace their authentic selves and Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  47. 🌈💪🏽Protect Choice & Marriage

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Abortion is healthcare. Choice is a right. Reproductive justice is LGBTQ justice. Our fights are inexorably connected. The assaults on LGBTQ and reproductive justice are not new, and rather than stoking fear, we must resolve defiant and determined.

    Just a year ago, the Supreme Court’s ruling in the Dobbs case struck a heavy blow to reproductive rights and with it, made vulnerable our hard-fought gains. In his concurrence, Justice Clarence Thomas took aim at LGBTQ right, and while most people were focusing on the attack on marriage, we have to realize that he was talking about Lawrence v Texas. He’s talking about criminalizing all of the LGBTQ community.  To lock us up. 

    With over 650 anti-LGBTQ bills introduced nearly 70 have passed in 49 states; the war against our right to live free is happening now.

    The extremist strategy of seeding policies and judicial appointments to dismantle protections for marginalized communities has been operating in broad daylight for far too long. 

    While our rage rises, we must remember that these attacks on our rights are intertwined with issues of racial justice. The anti-choice movement, the growing attacks on LGBTQ rights, especially against our trans siblings, and the curtailment of voting rights are all connected by a thread of white supremacist extremism.

    Ask yourself – what will you do in this moment?

    Looking ahead, we have a monumental opportunity in 2024 to protect marriage equality once and for all in the state of California with a pro-LGBTQ ballot initiative to repeal Prop 8. San Diego Pride’s advocacy team will be out in force along the Parade route this year, gathering pledges to safeguard our freedom to marry. You can join our team!

    Pride celebration will also uplift the intersection of reproductive and LGBTQ justice. The Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 14, will honor Judith Vaughs with the Friend of Pride Award and feature Vernita Gutierrez as our speaker on Reproductive Justice, both have done inspiring work at the intersection of our movements.

    At the Pride Festival attendees can look forward to a powerful performance by Pussy Riot, fierce advocates for body autonomy, the right to abortion, LGBTQ justice, and liberation!

    In the face of this hate, let us remember our long legacy of justice for all people. Our movements must stand united against these threats as we continue to work towards a diverse, inclusive, and free democracy. Every one of us has the power to make strategic decisions that fight back against this oppression and dismantle it piece by piece. Let your fury fuel your fight. Let us stand together, defiant, hopeful, and driven in Pride and joy, that we all may Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  48. Rally with us!🌈💪🏽

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In just the last couple of weeks the Human Rights Campaign issued a State of Emergency for LGBTQ Americans, 159 local organizations and leaders issued a joint statement of support for Prides and the LGBTQ community, and over 60 Pride organizations across the country issued a joint call for support. This is not a drill.

    San Diego’s Spirit of Stonewall Rally is where we honor those on the frontlines of our movement and we call each other to action. Our Keynote Speaker this year is Imani Rupert-Gordon, the Executive Director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), who shared “At a time when we are seeing historic and unprecedented attacks on LGBTQ rights, it’s important to remember that Pride started as a protest against these same evils. In order to thrive, we all need to be bold, be brave, and be proud.” Imani is a fierce advocate, particularly for Black women and LGBTQ+ youth, and she will remind us what we’re fighting for and that we will, ultimately, prevail!

    Also speaking from our Rally stage this year is LGBTQ+ and reproductive justice advocate, Vernita Gutierrez (she/her). Maksym Datsenko (he/him), a recent immigrant and asylum-seeker from Ukraine who will share his lived experience as a gay man seeking asylum from the anti-LGBTQ hate that Russia is imposing on the region. Maria Schembri (she/her) will share the importance of supporting and standing up for LGBTQ youth, particularly in the face of this rise in hate and discrimination. And finally, as we crown our Drag Community as this year’s Community Grand Marshal, Amber St. James will tell us how drag is liberation – is healing, is art, is joy, is beauty, is thriving. 

    Joining me as your co-MC will be Jai Rodriguez, a long-time artist, actor, and advocate for the LGBTQ+ community who uses his platform to promote inclusion and justice.

    I know this moment in our movement is scary for us. These battles are not new. We have fought and won these fights before. The difference is that today we are fighting back with more support, more allies, more resources, and more power than ever in our history. So as we approach San Diego Pride, I hope you will join us in rally, protest, and celebration louder, prouder, and stronger than ever so together we can truly Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  49. Pride Now More Than Ever

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    A Joint Statement from Pride Organizers

    We are under threat. Prides are under threat. The diverse dangers we are facing as an LGBTQ community and Pride organizers while differing in nature and intensity, share a common trait: they seek to undermine our love, our identity, our freedom, our safety, and our lives. It’s time we reaffirm the importance of Pride in our current sociopolitical climate, and call all our allies to action.

    Pride events have always been about fighting back, building power, and creating a safe space where LGBTQ+ individuals can unabashedly celebrate who we are. Despite the progress we have made together, we are currently under siege. An alarming rise in legal disruptions and targeted intimidation by extremist groups at these events, across the United States, is making our celebratory gatherings feel less safe. The threats are becoming tangible, terrifying, and can no longer be ignored.

    State laws have been weaponized against our people. The surge of over 700 anti-LGBTQ bills this year and the escalation of anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric, disproportionately targeting our trans siblings, are disturbing and devastatingly, not new. These legislative assaults are fostering an atmosphere that emboldens these threats to Pride events, organizers, and attendees which has forced the cancellation of some and increased violence against us in our daily lives.

    The mental health repercussions for our community cannot be overstated. We already experience mental health struggles at higher rates, primarily due to stigma, discrimination, and bias. The wave of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation only exacerbates these struggles. Volunteers and staff who produce Prides are simultaneously the bullseye of the hate and responsible for community safety while personally coping with the onslaught which culminates in an overwhelming amount of mental and emotional labor for us and our teams.

    Pride events are too often treated like political football, used by a variety of corporations and elected officials to advance their interests without consideration for the toll their actions take on our community. Fairweather friends for some and scapegoats for others. What we need is consistent support, not convenient exploitation.

    The harsh reality of rising government fees, inflation, and economic downturn make it increasingly challenging for organizers to host Pride events in cities of all sizes. The call for Pride to remain financially accessible while navigating rising costs is a challenge made more difficult by the reality that insurance companies are pricing Pride events out of the market citing the very threat of attack that requires us to need protection. Our cities, states, and communities benefit from our civic, cultural, and economic impact. It’s past time for them to invest more in us than they charge. 

    Despite these mounting challenges, there are ways we can all contribute to keep Pride events alive and thriving:

    • Show up at Pride events. Attendance is a form of support and a message of unity and acceptance. 
    • Donate your or your organizational resources to your local Pride. 
    • Volunteer your talent and time for your local Pride.
    • Use your voice to advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and issues, be it through voting, contacting elected officials, or peaceful protest. 
    • Utilize your platforms to raise awareness and rally support.
    • Change corporate and government policy toward equitable and consistent investment. 
    • Educate yourself and others about the diverse issues facing our community.

    Most importantly, in this moment of national crisis, our LGBTQ+ community, diverse as it is, must stand in solidarity. United, we can fight against those seeking to undo the gains we’ve made.

    The struggle for acceptance and equality is ongoing. Reach out to organizations producing Pride events to understand how you can help. Let’s keep the spirit of Pride alive, let’s protect our safe spaces, and let’s fight for a world where we can all express our identities freely and safely. Now, more than ever, we must unite together in Pride.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    San Diego Pride Logo

    Suzanne Ford
    Executive Director
    San Francisco Pride

    San Francisco Pride Logo

    Sandra Pérez
    Executive Director
    NYC Pride

    New York City Pride / Heritage of Pride Logo

    This joint statement is signed by 60 Pride organizations, and will be updated periodically. Click here to add your Pride organization.

    Co-signers:

    • USAP (United States Association of Prides)
    • Aloha Maui Pride
    • Atlanta Pride Committee
    • Boise Pride Festival
    • Brooklyn Pride, Inc.
    • Boston Pride
    • CAPI – Consolidated Association of Pride, Inc.
    • Caribbean Equality Project
    • Charlotte Pride
    • Chicago Pride Fest
    • Columbus IN Pride, Inc.
    • Come Out With Pride, Inc. (Orlando, FL)
    • Dallas Pride
    • Druid City Pride
    • El Paso Sun City Pride
    • FAIRNY
    • Flagstaff Pride
    • Fort Wayne Pride
    • GAY & SOBER
    • Greater Palm Springs Pride
    • Harlem Pride, Inc.
    • Hastings NE PRIDE
    • Huntsville Texas Pride (HTXP)
    • Indy Pride
    • International Disappear Fear Day
    • Jersey City LGBTQ+ Pride Festival
    • Kenosha Pride
    • Kitsap Pride
    • Las Vegas PRIDE
    • LubbockPRIDE
    • Muncie Pride Network
    • Naper Pride
    • New Hope Celebrates
    • North County LGBTQ Resource Center/Pride by the Beach
    • North Idaho Pride Alliance
    • Northern Nevada Pride
    • Ogden Pride
    • Orange County LGBT+ Pride
    • Out Boulder County
    • Ozark Pride Inc
    • Panhandle Pride, Inc.
    • Phoenix Pride
    • Pride Corpus Christi
    • Pride Myrtle Beach
    • Pride Northwest, Inc
    • Ramona Pride
    • Reading Pride Celebration
    • Riverside LGBTQ+ Pride
    • Sacramento LGBT Community Center & Sacramento Pride
    • San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    • Siouxland Pride Alliance
    • South Bay Alliance Association Incorporated
    • South Bay PRIDE
    • Spencer Pride, Inc.
    • Stonewall Columbus
    • TAMPA PRIDE
    • Tristate Black Pride
    • Tucson Pride, Inc.
    • Memphis Union County Pride, Inc
  50. United in Pride

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    Solidarity with Prides and the LGBTQ+ Community

    As leaders in our diverse communities, we stand united in condemning the growing threats against Pride events and the LGBTQ+ community at large. We are deeply concerned by the escalating attacks and disruptive activities perpetrated by anti-LGBTQ+ groups, including extremist factions such as the Proud Boys. These attempts to incite fear, spread disinformation, and sow division within our society are unacceptable.

    We have seen a record number of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and an alarming increase in public hostility towards our LGBTQ+ community, leading to fear of physical violence and harm. The ongoing attacks and threats have reached a point where our Pride celebrations, symbols of joy and unity, are now being targeted. This is an affront to our cherished American principles of equality, liberty, and justice. 

    We firmly believe that safety is a fundamental right, not a privilege. No ideological differences should culminate in life-or-death consequences. We pledge to work tirelessly to safeguard our LGBTQ+ community and Pride events.

    We condemn these threats and stand unwavering in our support of the LGBTQ+ community. We will use our collective platforms to counteract the false narratives propagated about our community to foster a climate of understanding, tolerance, and acceptance.

    We are not fair-weather friends of the LGBTQ+ community. We understand the importance of Pride for our LGBTQ+ community. These events are not mere celebrations, but potent symbols of defiance against hate, resilience against oppression, and an affirmation of existence. The vibrant Pride events planned for this year all across San Diego County will not be marred by hatred. They will remain shining beacons of diversity, love, and unity.

    To all those spreading hate, we say this: We are not strangers to adversity. We have faced it before and we will face it again. Our LGBTQ+ community is resilient, born from the crucible of struggle, and hardened by a history of vibrant resistance and radical love. Your fear, hate, and violence cannot silence us. We are many, we are diverse, and we are powerful.

    We call to action all our fellow leaders, community members, and allies. Let us stand in unity against fear, hate, and violence. Let us ensure the power of our intersectional solidarity leads to positive action. We are LGBTQ+ and allied leaders in business, faith, community, and elected office. Our collective strength is our best weapon in the face of adversity. Together, we can and will continue to Thrive! Now, more than ever, it’s time for Pride.

    ______________________________________________

    This joint statement is signed by 90 organizations, institutions of faith, and businesses, as well as 88 community, faith, and elected leaders. The list will be updated periodically. Click here to add your organization to the list.

    Community Organizations

    1. San Diego Pride
    2. ACLU – SDIC
    3. ADL San Diego
    4. Art of Pride
    5. BikeSD
    6. Center for Community Solutions
    7. Change Begins With ME (Indivisible)
    8. Circulate San Diego
    9. City of San Diego LGBTQ+ Employee Alliance
    10. Diversionary Theatre
    11. Downtown San Diego Partnership
    12. Equality California
    13. FilmOut San Diego
    14. GLSEN San Diego
    15. Human Dignity Foundation
    16. Jewish Family Service of San Diego
    17. Kiwanis Club of Hillcrest All-Inclusive
    18. La Jolla Playhouse
    19. Lambda Archives of San Diego
    20. Lambda Rising Soccer Club
    21. LEAD San Diego
    22. LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force
    23. Mama’s Kitchen
    24. Meals on Wheels San Diego County
    25. Modern Military Association of America
    26. National LGBTQ Task Force
    27. North County LGBTQ Resource Center
    28. Our Time to Act United
    29. Out Professionals
    30. Pacific Arts Movement
    31. PFLAG San Diego County
    32. POZabilities
    33. Pride Youth Coalition
    34. Proyecto Trans Latina
    35. Queer Asian Social Club
    36. Racial Justice Coalition of San Diego
    37. Regional Task Force on Homelessness
    38. San Diego API Coalition
    39. San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    40. San Diego Convention Center
    41. San Diego Foundation
    42. San Diego History Center
    43. San Diego LGBTQ+ Latine Coalition
    44. San Diego Pride Military Department
    45. San Diego Public Library
    46. San Diego Queer Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American Coalition (QAPIMEDA)
    47. San Diego Regional Chamber
    48. San Diego Women’s Chorus
    49. Stepping Stone of San Diego
    50. Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition, Inc.
    51. Tom Homann LGBTQ+ Law Association 
    52. The Old Globe
    53. The San Diego LGBT Community Center
    54. TransFamily Support Services
    55. TRANSFRONTERAS.ORG
    56. Uptown Community Service Center
    57. Volunteer with Cheli
    58. World Design Capital San Diego Tijuana 2024

    Institutions of Faith

    1. All Faith Center
    2. American Baptist Churches USA Evergreen
    3. Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Encinitas
    4. Chalice Unitarian Universalist Congregation
    5. Chavurah Shir Ha-Yam
    6. Congregation Beth Am
    7. Congregation Dor Hadash
    8. Dharma Bum Temple
    9. Episcopal Diocese of San Diego
    10. First United Methodist Church of Chula Vista
    11. First United Methodist Church of San Diego
    12. Kensington Community Church
    13. Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego
    14. Mission Hills United Church of Christ
    15. Normal Heights United Church
    16. Pioneer Ocean View UCC
    17. St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral
    18. St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, City Heights, San Diego
    19. Summit UU Fellowship
    20. Temple Emanu-El
    21. Tifereth Israel Synagogue
    22. University Christian Church

    Company / Business

    1. Better APC
    2. Cultura
    3. Dr. Bronner’s Magic Soaps
    4. KOA+ROY
    5. OutAt Inc – Out at the Fair®
    6. Red Ace Press
    7. Red Door Interactive
    8. Sum of Us Festival
    9. The San Diego Union-Tribune
    10. Waves, A Psychological Corporation

    Elected and Appointed Officials

    1. Congressman Scott Peters, 50th Congressional District
    2. Congresswoman Sara Jacobs, 51st Congressional District
    3. State Senate President pro Tempore Toni Atkins, State Senate District 39
    4. State Senator Steve Padilla, California State Senate District 18
    5. Assemblymember Chris Ward, California State Assembly District 78
    6. Assemblymember Akilah Weber, California State Assembly District 79
    7. Vice-Chair Terra Lawson-Remer, San Diego County Board of Supervisors, District 3
    8. District Attorney Summer Stephan, County of San Diego
    9. Jordan Marks, San Diego County Assessor/Recorder/Clerk 
    10. Nick Serrano, Vice Chair, San Diego County Water Authority
    11. Mayor Todd Gloria, City of San Diego
    12. City Attorney Mara Elliott, City of San Diego
    13. Council President Sean Elo-Rivera, City of San Diego, District 9
    14. Councilmember Stephen Whitburn, City of San Diego, District 3
    15. Councilmember Jennifer Campbell, City of San Diego, District 2
    16. Councilmember Kent Lee, City of San Diego, District 6
    17. Councilmember Raul Campillo, City of San Diego, District 7
    18. Hon. Andrea Beth Damsky, Division 2 Director, Helix Water District
    19. Vice Mayor Colin Parent, City of La Mesa
    20. Councilmember Patricia Dillard, City of La Mesa
    21. Councilmember Jack Shu, City of La Mesa
    22. Rimga Viskanta, San Dieguito Union High School Board President
    23. Katrina Young, San Dieguito Union High School Board Member
    24. General Manager Sandra Kerl, San Diego County Water Authority
    25. CEO Sharon Cooney, San Diego Metropolitan Transit System
    26. California State Youth Commissioner & Youth Organizer Aidan Lin

    Community Leaders

    1. Ryan Bradley
    2. nicole buruse
    3. Benny Cartwright
    4. Rick Cervantes
    5. Ryn Corbeil
    6. Kathleen Dang
    7. Heather Dugdale
    8. Susan Hartman
    9. Haydee Juarez
    10. Clay Kilpatrick
    11. Heidi Knuff
    12. TC Krentz
    13. Nicole Kronick
    14. Michael Lavach
    15. Kevin Lee
    16. Rabbi Avi Libman
    17. Noah Lomax
    18. Jimmy Lovett
    19. Connor Maddocks
    20. Mark D. Maddox
    21. Joseph Mayer
    22. Kevin Mayer
    23. Emmanuelle McCall
    24. Oleene Perera
    25. Rip Rippetoe
    26. Leah Shapiro
    27. Angela Smiley
    28. Evan Sorem
    29. Russ Sperling
    30. Kat Tessero
    31. Shaun Randall Travers
    32. Eden Tropp
    33. Luke Vaughn
    34. Nicole Verdes

    Faith Leaders

    1. Rev. Dr. Abigail Albert, All Faith Center
    2. Reverend Dr. David Bahr, Mission Hills United Church of Christ
    3. Reverend Mary Sue Brookshire, Pioneer Ocean View UCC
    4. Bishop Susan Brown Snook, Episcopal Diocese of San Diego
    5. Revered Daniel Brunner, American Baptist Churches USA Evergreen
    6. Andrea Beth Damsky, Lay Cantorial Soloist, Chavurah Shir Ha-Yam
    7. Reveren Brandon Duran, Kensington Community Church
    8. Rabbi Matthew Earne, Congregation Beth Am
    9. Canon for Mission Jason Evans, Episcopal Diocese of San Diego
    10. Dr. Stephen Fitzgerald, Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego
    11. Alan Hay, First United Methodist Church of Chula Vista
    12. Susan Jester, Lay Minister Evangelism, St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral
    13. Pastor Molly Lorden, Normal Heights United Church
    14. Rev. Dr. Michelle Kirby, Metropolitan Community Church
    15. Reverend Daniel Koeshall, Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego
    16. Rabbi David Kornberg, Congregation Beth Am
    17. Priest-in-Charge Richard Lee, St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, City Heights, San Diego
    18. Senior Minister Caleb Lines, University Christian Church
    19. The Rev. Canon Gwynn Lynch
    20. Rabbi Devorah Marcus, Temple Emanu-El
    21. Rabbi Mathew Marko, Tifereth Israel Synagogue
    22. Rabbi Yael Ridberg, Congregation Dor Hadash
    23. Rev. Trudy Robinson, First United Methodist Church of San Diego
    24. Reverend Brent Ross, Normal Heights United Church
    25. Rev. Justine Sullivan
    26. Minister Sharon Wylie, Chalice Unitarian Universalist Congregation
    27. Pastor Laura Ziehl, Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Encinitas
    28. Jeffrey Zlotnik, Dharma Bum Temple
  51. Drag is Not a Crime 💅

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    Dear Pride Family,

    The history of Drag is steeped in resistance. Our Drag ancestors didn’t just entertain, they shattered norms and bore their identities with irrepressible flair as an act of personal authenticity and queer creativity. They were pioneers, changing the cultural landscape. Their legacy demands solidarity, no matter the opposition we face. 

    Drag is Not a Crime.

    Of the over 650 anti-LGBTQ bills being tracked in 49 of our 50 states, 44 bills in 18 states are targeting our Drag siblings, and just as before, these bills are being used to target our transgender community. This hateful and all too familiar legislation is targeting our Drag community fueling more than hateful rhetoric on social and right-wing media; Drag is becoming a clear target for a record amount of protest and threats by right-wing militias and organized white supremacist groups.

    Our Drag community has been at the front of our community, our advocacy, our fundraising, and our celebrations. We must have their back! 

    On Sunday, June 18, I hope to see you all at the Drag March for Trans Rights to show our solidarity with our Drag, trans, and LGBTQ families in light of the rising criminalization of our lives.

    On Friday, July 14, please join us at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally to kick off Pride weekend, and hear from our speaker, community activist and Drag artist, Amber St. James as they speak on the national attacks on our Drag while we bring our local drag legends to the stage to honor them to close out the event.

    The Drag Community has also been named our Community Grand Marshal, and they will lead this year’s Parade to send a clear message of support and to our haters that we aren’t backing down. Come out and cheer them on Saturday Morning July 15!

    Then you can’t miss the Pride Festival where we will be celebrating Drag all weekend long! From RuPaul Drag Race winners to local Drag Families, there will be Drag performances on every stage throughout the Festival Saturday and Sunday. Don’t miss our special Drag Tribute and call to action from the Stonewall Stage as we close out Pride.

    Drag is our defiance. Joy is our weapon against injustice. We end ignorance and fear-driven hate, by celebrating in the light of day where our truth can shine. Together, we will ensure that the spirit of Drag — freedom, expression, and unapologetic self-love —endures and we all can Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  52. United in Pride

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    SAN DIEGO, CA – June 5, 2023 – 159 organizations, institutions of faith, businesses, and community, faith, and elected leaders have come together to issue a joint statement expressing their unwavering support for Pride events and the LGBTQ+ community amidst a rising tide of threats and hostility.

    In a powerful expression of unity, these diverse community leaders have condemned the growing threats against Pride events and the LGBTQ+ community, specifically from anti-LGBTQ+ groups and extremist factions. The statement highlights an alarming increase in public hostility and anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, resulting in fear and concern over safety within the community.

    The joint statement underlines the crucial importance of Pride events, not just as celebrations, but also as potent symbols of defiance against hate, resilience against oppression, and an affirmation of existence. The leaders also pledge to work tirelessly to safeguard the LGBTQ+ community and Pride events with a call to action for all leaders, community members, and allies, asking them to stand in unity against fear, hate, and violence.

    The joint statement is signed by 80 organizations, institutions of faith, and businesses, as well as 79 community, faith, and elected leaders. To add your organization, click here.

    United in Pride: Solidarity with Prides and the LGBTQ+ Community

    As leaders in our diverse communities, we stand united in condemning the growing threats against Pride events and the LGBTQ+ community at large. We are deeply concerned by the escalating attacks and disruptive activities perpetrated by anti-LGBTQ+ groups, including extremist factions such as the Proud Boys. These attempts to incite fear, spread disinformation, and sow division within our society are unacceptable.

    We have seen a record number of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation and an alarming increase in public hostility towards our LGBTQ+ community, leading to fear of physical violence and harm. The ongoing attacks and threats have reached a point where our Pride celebrations, symbols of joy and unity, are now being targeted. This is an affront to our cherished American principles of equality, liberty, and justice. 

    We firmly believe that safety is a fundamental right, not a privilege. No ideological differences should culminate in life-or-death consequences. We pledge to work tirelessly to safeguard our LGBTQ+ community and Pride events.

    We condemn these threats and stand unwavering in our support of the LGBTQ+ community. We will use our collective platforms to counteract the false narratives propagated about our community to foster a climate of understanding, tolerance, and acceptance.

    We are not fair-weather friends of the LGBTQ+ community. We understand the importance of Pride for our LGBTQ+ community. These events are not mere celebrations, but potent symbols of defiance against hate, resilience against oppression, and an affirmation of existence. The vibrant Pride events planned for this year all across San Diego County will not be marred by hatred. They will remain shining beacons of diversity, love, and unity.

    To all those spreading hate, we say this: We are not strangers to adversity. We have faced it before and we will face it again. Our LGBTQ+ community is resilient, born from the crucible of struggle, and hardened by a history of vibrant resistance and radical love. Your fear, hate, and violence cannot silence us. We are many, we are diverse, and we are powerful.

    We call to action all our fellow leaders, community members, and allies. Let us stand in unity against fear, hate, and violence. Let us ensure the power of our intersectional solidarity leads to positive action. We are LGBTQ+ and allied leaders in business, faith, community, and elected office. Our collective strength is our best weapon in the face of adversity. Together, we can and will continue to Thrive! Now, more than ever, it’s time for Pride.

    SIGNED BY: 

    Community Organizations

    1. San Diego Pride
    2. ADL San Diego
    3. Art of Pride
    4. BikeSD
    5. Center for Community Solutions
    6. Change Begins With ME (Indivisible)
    7. Circulate San Diego
    8. City of San Diego LGBTQ+ Employee Alliance
    9. Diversionary Theatre
    10. Downtown San Diego Partnership
    11. Equality California
    12. FilmOut San Diego
    13. GLSEN San Diego
    14. Human Dignity Foundation
    15. Jewish Family Service of San Diego
    16. Kiwanis Club of Hillcrest All-Inclusive
    17. Lambda Archives of San Diego
    18. Lambda Rising Soccer Club
    19. LEAD San Diego
    20. LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force
    21. Mama’s Kitchen
    22. Meals on Wheels San Diego County
    23. Modern Military Association of America
    24. National LGBTQ Task Force
    25. North County LGBTQ Resource Center
    26. Our Time to Act United
    27. Out Professionals
    28. Pacific Arts Movement
    29. PFLAG San Diego County
    30. POZabilities
    31. Pride Youth Coalition
    32. Proyecto Trans Latina
    33. Queer Asian Social Club
    34. Racial Justice Coalition of San Diego
    35. Regional Task Force on Homelessness
    36. San Diego API Coalition
    37. San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    38. San Diego Convention Center
    39. San Diego Foundation
    40. San Diego History Center
    41. San Diego LGBTQ+ Latine Coalition
    42. San Diego Pride Military Department
    43. San Diego Queer Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American Coalition (QAPIMEDA)
    44. San Diego Regional Chamber
    45. San Diego Women’s Chorus
    46. Stepping Stone of San Diego
    47. Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition, Inc.
    48. Tom Homann LGBTQ+ Law Association 
    49. The Old Globe
    50. The San Diego LGBT Community Center
    51. TransFamily Support Services
    52. Uptown Community Service Center
    53. Volunteer with Cheli
    54. World Design Capital San Diego Tijuana 2024

    Institutions of Faith

    1. All Faith Center
    2. American Baptist Churches USA Evergreen
    3. Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Encinitas
    4. Chalice Unitarian Universalist Congregation
    5. Chavurah Shir Ha-Yam
    6. Congregation Dor Hadash
    7. Dharma Bum Temple
    8. Episcopal Diocese of San Diego
    9. First United Methodist Church of Chula Vista
    10. First United Methodist Church of San Diego
    11. Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego
    12. Normal Heights United Church
    13. Pioneer Ocean View UCC
    14. St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral
    15. St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, City Heights, San Diego
    16. Summit UU Fellowship
    17. Temple Emanu-El
    18. Tifereth Israel Synagogue
    19. University Christian Church

    Company / Business

    1. Better APC
    2. Dr. Bronner’s Magic Soaps
    3. KOA+ROY
    4. OutAt Inc – Out at the Fair®
    5. Red Ace Press
    6. Sum of Us Festival
    7. The San Diego Union-Tribune
    8. Waves, A Psychological Corporation

    Elected or Appointed Officials

    1. Congressman Scott Peters, 50th Congressional District
    2. Congresswoman Sara Jacobs, 51st Congressional District
    3. State Senate President pro Tempore Toni Atkins, State Senate District 39
    4. State Senator Steve Padilla, California State Senate District 18
    5. Assemblymember Chris Ward, California State Assembly District 78
    6. Assemblymember Akilah Weber, California State Assembly District 79
    7. Vice-Chair Terra Lawson-Remer, San Diego County Board of Supervisors, District 3
    8. District Attorney Summer Stephan, County of San Diego
    9. Mayor Todd Gloria, City of San Diego
    10. City Attorney Mara Elliott, City of San Diego
    11. Council President Sean Elo-Rivera, City of San Diego, District 9
    12. Councilmember Stephen Whitburn, City of San Diego, District 3
    13. Councilmember Jennifer Campbell, City of San Diego, District 2
    14. Councilmember Kent Lee, City of San Diego, District 6
    15. Councilmember Raul Campillo, City of San Diego, District 7
    16. Hon. Andrea Beth Damsky, Division 2 Director, Helix Water District
    17. Vice Mayor Colin Parent, City of La Mesa
    18. Councilmember Patricia Dillard, City of La Mesa
    19. Councilmember Jack Shu, City of La Mesa
    20. Chief Deputy Assessor Jordan Marks, San Diego County Assessor/Recorder/Clerk 
    21. General Manager Sandra Kerl, San Diego County Water Authority
    22. CEO Sharon Cooney, San Diego Metropolitan Transit System
    23. California State Youth Commissioner & Youth Organizer Aidan Lin

    Community Leaders

    1. Ryan Bradley
    2. nicole buruse
    3. Benny Cartwright
    4. Rick Cervantes
    5. Ryn Corbeil
    6. Kathleen Dang
    7. Susan Hartman
    8. Haydee Juarez
    9. Clay Kilpatrick
    10. Heidi Knuff
    11. TC Krentz
    12. Nicole Kronick
    13. Michael Lavach
    14. Kevin Lee
    15. Noah Lomax
    16. Jimmy Lovett
    17. Connor Maddocks
    18. Mark D. Maddox
    19. Joseph Mayer
    20. Kevin Mayer
    21. Emmanuelle McCall
    22. Oleene Perera
    23. Rip Rippetoe
    24. Leah Shapiro
    25. Angela Smiley
    26. Russ Sperling
    27. Kat Tessero
    28. Shaun Randall Travers
    29. Eden Tropp
    30. Luke Vaughn
    31. Nicole Verdes

    Faith Leaders

    1. Rev. Dr. Abigail Albert, All Faith Center
    2. Reverend Mary Sue Brookshire, Pioneer Ocean View UCC
    3. Bishop Susan Brown Snook, Episcopal Diocese of San Diego
    4. Revered Daniel Brunner, American Baptist Churches USA Evergreen
    5. Andrea Beth Damsky, Lay Cantorial Soloist, Chavurah Shir Ha-Yam
    6. Canon for Mission Jason Evans, Episcopal Diocese of San Diego
    7. Dr. Stephen Fitzgerald, Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego
    8. Alan Hay, First United Methodist Church of Chula Vista
    9. Susan Jester, Lay Minister Evangelism, St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral
    10. Pastor Molly Lorden, Normal Heights United Church
    11. Rev. Dr. Michelle Kirby, Metropolitan Community Church
    12. Reverend Daniel Koeshall, Metropolitan Community Church of San Diego
    13. Priest-in-Charge Richard Lee, St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, City Heights, San Diego
    14. Senior Minister Caleb Lines, University Christian Church
    15. The Rev. Canon Gwynn Lynch
    16. Rabbi Devorah Marcus, Temple Emanu-El
    17. Rabbi Mathew Marko, Tifereth Israel Synagogue
    18. Rabbi Yael Ridberg, Congregation Dor Hadash
    19. Rev. Trudy Robinson, First United Methodist Church of San Diego
    20. Reverend Brent Ross, Normal Heights United Church
    21. Rev. Justine Sullivan
    22. Minister Sharon Wylie, Chalice Unitarian Universalist Congregation
    23. Pastor Laura Ziehl, Bethlehem Lutheran Church, Encinitas
    24. Jeffrey Zlotnik, Dharma Bum Temple
  53. 🌈🎶Festival Line-up!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    This Pride season, it’s clear that we are not just celebrating our identities but affirming our shared resilience in the face of adversity. At a time when our community faces increasing threats and dangerously false narratives, we come together to counter hate with joy, love, and unwavering Pride.

    We know music and performance are potent forces for change. LGBTQ arts and culture have always played a pivotal role in our defiance. They tell our stories, illustrate our struggles, tout our triumphs, and most importantly, showcase the beauty of our identities. Nowhere is that more evident than at our Festival where hundreds of diverse LGBTQ artists bring us together in celebration. 

    From the vibrant urban feminism of nonbinary bisexual artist Princess Nokia to the door-opening queer charisma of Saucy Santana, we see reflections of our diverse and strong community. The LGBTQ and reproductive choice activism of Pussy RiotDavid Archuleta’s compassionate LGBTQ advocacy in religious spaces, and Jai Rodriguez’s work on HIV/AIDS awareness within the Latine community further demonstrate the power of representation and the necessity of giving a platform to these critical conversations.

    In addition to these international icons, the San Diego Pride Festival predominantly features our fiercely talented local LGBTQ community who lift us up and help us find community all year round. I hope you take the time to learn more about all of our artists.  

    States across the country are enacting laws that will ban these artists and stop our Prides. These voices matter. Our voices matter. Their messages inspire. Their stories connect us. Their talent, courage, and advocacy remind us of our strength and resilience as a community. When we gather in celebration this Pride season, let’s celebrate who we are, and how far we’ve come as we show the world that despite adversity, we are strong, we are united, and we continue to Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you haven’t heard, there will be no beverage garden fences at Pride again this year similar to attending a sporting event or concert. You will be free to enjoy the entire Pride Festival with your food and beverage in hand!

  54. 2023 Awardees are…

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    Dear Pride Family,

    At the Stonewall Riots, we were under attack and we fought back. That is why we have Pride. Here we are again under threat of the same legal, state-sanctioned violence and oppression the veterans of our movement fought against. Each year, San Diego Pride kicks off our Pride weekend with the Spirit of Stonewall Rally to honor our origins, celebrate those who are leading the way, and call our community to action around some of our movement’s most pressing issues. 

    Here are this year’s honorees doing the hard work on the front lines for our community.

    Christynne Lili Wrene Wood, a Black transgender veteran, bravely withstood right-wing anti-LGBTQ attacks in 2023. Her resilience, commitment to the LGBTQ community, and leadership, especially among trans youth, exemplify her Champion of Pride status.

    The Drag Community is facing hateful rhetoric, right-wing militias, and outright legal bans. Drag Royalty and families have defended our LGBTQ community, and in naming them this year’s Community Grand Marshal, we stand for their liberation, healing, and art. 

    TransFamily Support Services (TFSS)  tirelessly supports transgender and non-binary youth through education, resources, and advocacy across the country. This year’s Stonewall Service Award recipient, TFSS combats increasing threats to trans youth nationwide.

    Lindsey Deaton uses art to empower our community. Founding and directing art programs: Trans Chorus of LA, TransVagina Diaries, Church of Trans Love, and San Diego’s Queer Youth Chorus. We’re proud to honor her with this year’s Larry T. Baza Arts & Culture Award.

    Blenders Eyewear is a company with a commitment to philanthropy and social justice. Their Blenders Cares program highlights organizations working to make impactful and long-lasting change, and we are excited to honor them with the Stonewall Philanthropy Award

    Naya Marie Velazco is an ardent transgender advocate with a rich background in social services, HIV prevention, and harm reduction. Her service with Transgender Health & Wellness Center and dedication to improving lives make her the Community Service Award recipient.

    Judith (Judy) Vaughs as Public Affairs Manager at Planned Parenthood deeply partners with a multitude of LGBTQ+ organizations to expand reproductive justice policies. Her commitment to intersectional LGBTQ and reproductive justice has earned her the title of Friend of Pride.

    Dr. Carlton Thomas, @DoctorCarlton, a widely known gastroenterologist and advocate for queer sexual health, provided vital education during the MPOX outbreak, coordinated with the CDC, and received White House recognition. He is this year’s Hero of Pride.

    My first Spirit of Stonewall Rally was in 2000. Only weeks before I had been homeless and living in my car, but there for the first time I found my community and hope. So as you come to revel in joy with us this year, remember too that our Pride has purpose. Our need to take a stand and continue this work couldn’t be more clear, so please join us at the Rally to remember what we’re fighting for as we are called to action by those in our community who are helping us Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  55. 🌈✡️Shared Struggles

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    Dear Pride Family,

    It is Jewish Heritage Month. My mother, a Jewish woman raised by Orthodox parents whose family left Russia and Austria respectively to escape persecution and death, and my father, a devout Catholic man from Mexico, each explained to me as a child the discrimination I would face because my life encompassed these inherited individual and blended identities. As a queer, non-binary, Jewish, Mexican-American, first-generation US citizen, it pains me to see clearly how connected our seemingly disparate struggles truly are.

    From the Holocaust of Nazi Germany to the homegrown hate groups who live right here in San Diego, our Jewish siblings and the LGBTQ community can far too often trace the targeted violence against us to the same root cause; white supremacy. Over the last several years our communities have seen a rise in anti-LGBTQ and anti-Semitic hate and violence.

    In November of last year, the Department of Homeland Security issued a terrorism advisory bulletin warning that Americans motivated by violent ideologies pose a “persistent and lethal threat” to LGBTQ, Jewish, and migrant communities. Local white supremacists protesting an innocent transgender woman in Santee and Neo-Nazis shouting “There Will Be Blood” at a Drag Queen Story Hour in Ohio are just two of countless examples of the rise in hate we’re seeing across the country. This reprehensible conduct is being normalized and encouraged by right-wing extremist politicians and pundits as well over 600 anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation have our community re-litigating our humanity and pleading for our safety.

    It is imperative that all of us understand these shared struggles. 

    At this year’s Light Up the Cathedral event, our annual LGBTQ-affirming interfaith celebration and call to action, our keynote speaker will be Rabbi Devorah Marcus and our Light of Pride honoree is her synagogue Temple Emanu-El. Rabbi Devorah brings a depth of religious and academic expertise along with a demonstrated commitment to social justice issues, particularly those impacting the LGBTQ+ and Jewish communities, making her an invaluable leader and voice in our ongoing conversation about combating the rise of anti-semitism and white supremacy. Her fearless work and our decades-long relationship with Temple Emanu-El are the embodiment of allyship, and we are honored to celebrate them this year.

    The fight against bigotry isn’t a series of isolated battles; it’s a unified struggle for acceptance, equality, and freedom if we can fully grasp that our villains are the same. By standing together, we send a powerful message to neo-Nazis and white supremacist groups that we will not be divided by hate. We have won these battles before. We will celebrate our diversity, and relentlessly defend our freedom of faith and of love so we may live freely and Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  56. 🌈 🤝 Partners in Pride

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    Dear Pride Family,

    No one organization makes Pride possible. No one organization could possibly hope to serve the full needs of our beautifully diverse community. In many ways, San Diego Pride is a convener of organizations who show up to highlight, heal, and empower the vibrant spectrum of who we are. This is why every year we rely on our partners to help us in that work, and I wanted to take this opportunity in the lead-up to Pride to highlight the organizations that work with us at the Parade and Festival to help us all celebrate and connect.

    Bankers Hill Community Group hosts a Clean Up Team that works to keep the neighborhood near the Festival grounds tidy by collecting and sorting trash, recycling, and composting.

    San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition hosts the Black Pride Resource area, near The Movement Stage, where you can find information and resources for the Black LGBT Community.

    The Center coordinates the Children’s Garden for parents with children 13 and under to enjoy youth-centered activities and games. Face painting, cotton candy, popcorn, and snow cones.

    Family Health Centers of San Diego is coordinating the Health & Wellness Resource Area this year to provide information, meditation, direct service resources, screenings, and Yoga.

    Hillcrest Town Council volunteers are gracious enough to do a Monday after Pride Clean Up! When most in our community are still tired and recovering, they’re hard at work! 

    San Diego County Health Department is one of several groups to ensure we provide free, confidential HIV testing and referrals at the Pride Festival all weekend long.

    SHERUK / ASOONAX / Rainbow Tribal Village is hosted by the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition where you can find information and resources for Indigenous and Two-Spirit Communities.

    Information Booth & Guest Relations are led by Volunteer with Cheli. They can assist you with accessibility information, entertainment schedules, Festival maps, lost & found, and more!

    The Leather Realm is an 18+ area produced by San Diego Leather Community where they showcase entertainment, interactive exhibits, vendors, and workshops.

    Lit Cafe is hosted by the San Diego Public Library where you can connect with queer authors, find LGBTQ books, see Drag Queen Story hours, and get special edition Pride Library cards!

    Pride 5K & Fun Run hosted each year by Front Runners & Walkers San Diego raised much-needed funds for our year-round programs and The Center.

    Queer History hosted by Lambda Archives helps us all take a look back to learn about the history of San Diego’s LGBTQ Community.

    Trans Pride Village coordinated by The Center is an intentional space for transgender, genderqueer, intersex, and nonbinary information and resources.

    Each of these organizations above brings in even more volunteers, resources, community groups, partners, and small businesses. Our own programs do similar work at the Recovery Village, Senior Cool Zones, Youth Zone, API Pride and Latine Pride Resource Areas. If we were to list all of those additional organizations, there would be hundreds. 

    The Festival has grown and diversified its programming over the years, so if you haven’t been in a while, I hope you take the time to really walk around and explore all that goes into making Pride weekend possible. It’s an honor to work alongside partners who strive every year to meet the ever-evolving needs of our community so they can help us all Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    [email protected]
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride  

  57. Strength in AAPI Joy

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    Dear Pride Family,

    We fight hate by centering joy. We build capacity by organizing.

    In 2018, LGBTQ AAPI Pride employees, volunteers, and community members began to have conversations about what it would look like to create specific programming for people at the intersection of their identities similar to what the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition and San Diego County LGBTQ Latinx Coalition had created, and the Queer Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American Coalition was born.

    In the first couple of years, the volunteer-led program developed year-round social justice and social connection events as well as hosted a contingent in our Parade and a new space in our Festival. They never could have anticipated the rise in violent API hate driven by xenophobic misinformation around COVID-19. 

    In response we took the lead with our longtime partners, another arts and culture organization, Pacific Arts Movement, to bring together over 80 API-serving organizations to condemn hate, form the broader regional San Diego API Coalition, and play a key role in mobilizing intersectional solidarity work around the redistricting process to ensure the integrity of the San Diego API empowerment district.

    For a decade we have enjoyed our partnership with PacArts as they have included APIMEDA LGBTQ film tracks and tentpole films highlighting stories at the intersection of these lived experiences throughout their year-round programming. 

    San Diego Pride with QAPIMEDA also led the effort and hosted two National States of the LGBTQ API Movement where our partners included Planned Parenthood, The Trevor Project, The National LGBTQ Task Force, the National Center for Trans Equality, Equality Florida, and the National Queer API Alliance. It’s impressive to see how in just these few years, QAPIMEDA has stepped up to this national stage.

    Our QAPIMEDA committee produces and highlights a wide range of intersectional artists, musicians, cuisine, events, and resources all year round throughout the county, at the Asian Night Market inside the San Diego Pride Festival, and during Queer Trans API Week.

    QTAPI Week, May 28 to June 3, denotes the blending of the end of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month and the beginning of International Pride Month.  

    I hope you will join us at any of the events planned for QTAPI Week this month and at the expanded Asian Night Market at Pride Festival this July. I also hope you will join us in not only ending API hate, violence, and erasure but in celebrating the rich cultural diversity and social justice contributions of the LGBTQ Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American that help all of us Thrive!


    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    [email protected]
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  58. 🌈📢Ending Echo Chambers

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Far too many of us live in echo chambers. That needs to end. We are living in a hyper-polarized political climate exacerbated by social media silos. It’s become easy to block, ignore, and walk away from difficult conversations, and understandably when we do so it’s often more about self-care and preservation. However, those tough conversations, especially with those in our own communities, places of work and worship, and with those we love, have the most meaningful and long-lasting impact. We need to start talking to one another. California Senate President Pro Tem Toni Atkins recognizes this need, which is why she has introduced  SB 447 – BRIDGE Project – (Building and Reinforcing Inclusive, Diverse, Gender-Supportive Equality). The bill would remove travel restrictions and create a program to create public education campaign that discourages discrimination and help members of our LGBTQ community feel less isolated.

    We at San Diego Pride understand the need to invest in building these bridges which is why this Friday we’re launching our very first Pride Power Summit, a weekend-long conference for people committed to LGBTQ justice hoping to learn grassroots organizing skills, build community connections, and get directly engaged in the movement of intersectional social justice. Attendees will learn practical organizing skills that they can take back to their own communities and organizations, or you can put those new skills to work at any of our own year-round education and advocacy programs.

    If we believe in change, we must in turn believe that people and systems can change. That belief alone will not create that change. We have to engage directly. One of the most important and strategic things any of us can do is return to the core and fundamental work of grassroots organizing. It’s how I got my start in LGBTQ justice work. We at San Diego Pride can and will mobilize our movement to ensure we are enhancing our skills, creating capacity, and building bridges in service of changing hearts. I hope to see many of you with us this weekend to join us in that work, so together we can help our community Thrive.



    With Pride, Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  59. 🌈🎶Our 2023 Headliners are…

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    Dear Pride family,

    There is art in our advocacy and advocacy in our art. Our annual celebrations bring together hundreds of thousands of people who converge around LGBTQ arts and culture with clear social justice messages. As LGBTQ people whose lives, events, art, and culture have increasingly been under legislative and violent threat, it is now more vital than ever to remember that creating civic and artistic spaces where our community can safely and authentically be ourselves is a social justice issue.

    At our annual Pride Festival, we elevate diverse LGBTQ artists who use their platform to advocate for LGBTQ justice as we know there is something powerful about seeing ourselves reflected on stage, in a space, and for a cause that was built by and for us and our community.

    Don’t take it from me. Here’s what our headliners had to share.

    “This year especially when threats to our rights are coming from every direction, it’s important that we come together to celebrate and reaffirm our pride and our identities. I cannot wait to see you all, and show the forces that would silence us that we stand united and that together we THRIVE!” – Princess Nokia, Saturday headliner

    “It’s time for us to rise above the challenges we are facing and embrace the strength and resilience that define our diverse community. Let’s stay loud, together in unity and love, and show the world that not only do we survive, we Thrive!” – Saucy Santana, Sunday headliner

    These are just two of the hundreds of local and world-renowned entertainers that will be performing at Pride this year. Our fabulous Pride Family can’t wait to bring together these fiercely talented headliners with our local artists, dancers, and musicians for our entire community to enjoy. We’ve got a few more surprises in store, so I can’t wait to share the full lineup with you in June! I’m beyond excited to see you all dancing to the music at the festival, ready to stand up, stand out, and Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  60. 🏳️‍⚧️❤️ Thank you vols! ❤️🏳️‍🌈

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Our LGBTQ community has long relied on the resilience and creativity of found families. From Stonewall to present day, dedicated volunteers have shaped our organization and Pride celebrations.

    In the 70s, volunteers fought for permits, sold buttons, and distributed flyers. Later, volunteer board members like Christine Kehoe, Larry T. Baza, and Vertez Burks transformed Pride into a professional nonprofit. The first Children’s Garden was thanks to Carolina Ramos, and Senior Cool Zones were created by Dan Schaefer, both volunteers.

    Accessibility initiatives, spearheaded by volunteer Angela Van Ostren, now have full-time staff. Trans community leader Connor Maddocks helped build intentional space for transgender resources and visibility. Our year-round programs, such as the LGBTQ Latine Coalition, Queer APIMEDA Coalition, She Fest, and Art of Pride, also owe their existence to dedicated volunteers.

    If you’re interested in joining the Pride Family, explore open leadership opportunities or register in the volunteer system.

    We should all be grateful to our community’s inspiring volunteers who contribute their time and expertise.

    To our community who enjoy these events and programs, please thank a volunteer when you see them!

    To our volunteer leadership from each program and department, to our volunteer board, to every once-a-year and 8-hours a week volunteer, thank you for all you do.

    Thousands of volunteers continue to build and improve our events every single year, standing on the shoulders of the Stonewall generation and those who came before. Volunteers hold us together, lift us up, and help our community truly Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  61. Survivors – Thrive! [CW: SA/DV]

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    April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM). Ten years ago, I was drugged and raped right here in my own community. While this was not the first time I was raped by someone in our community, it was the first time I sought help. In my journey to find support and treatment, I kept bumping into the lack of LGBTQ culturally competent care. Some service encounters were even blatantly homophobic. As I began to share my story with friends, family, and community, I heard from far too many who had also endured similar experiences of being drugged, sexually assaulted, and a lack of compassionate, competent care. We banded together.

    What started as a small group of queer, bisexual, gay, and nonbinary community members bonding through shared trauma, grew into the LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force as we attempted to bring better, more culturally competent care to our community. The group has hosted online and in-person conferences and workshops, helped to tell the stories of LGBTQ survivors on social media and news outlets, advocated for policy reform, and helped provide LGBTQ and trauma-informed care training to regional service providers.

    Studies show that nationwide, approximately 40% of gay men and half of bisexual men have experienced sexual violence, compared to 20% of heterosexual men. 75% percent of bisexual women and 44% of lesbians have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner, compared to 35% of heterosexual women. 47% of our transgender siblings and 55% of all non-binary people experience sexual assault in their lifetimes.

    While we know LGBTQ people are already more susceptible to intimate partner violence, COVID-19’s economic and isolation impacts on our community had a disproportionate impact. As we continue to navigate the aftermath of the pandemic, the unintended consequences of the essential public health stay-at-home orders were LGBTQ people, and youth, in particular, were at greater risk of sexual violence and human trafficking, making the work of these incredible community members that much more vital.

    This year, we are excited to announce our new 2023 Virtual Training for Service Providers: Sexual and Relationship Violence in LGBTQIA+ Communities. Register to gain access to our 1-hour virtual training course for service providers to better support LGBTQIA+ survivors by learning how sexual and relationship violence impacts the community and strategies for providing trauma-informed and culturally responsive care. You can also follow the Task Force on Instagram for more educational information and resources.

    I never could have imagined doing this work, and yet I’m constantly inspired by this program built by and for LGBTQ+ survivors which continues to grow thanks to our incredible community partners and volunteers. It’s further proof that our community can take even the most toxic and traumatic of situations, work together, and make something beautiful and healing. We mend as we are mended, so ultimately we can Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  62. 🏳️‍⚧️ Joy 🥰️ Safety 🛡️ Peace ☮️ [CW: Gun violence]

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    Dear Pride Family,

    We deserve joy. We deserve safety. We deserve peace. 

    I hate that I feel that I need to say that, but the reality is that the rise in legislative attacks against our community, in particular, our transgender and drag community is taking its toll on our physical safety and mental well-being. 

    Some of this hate might seem far away as the majority of the over 450 anti-LGBTQ bills have been entered in legislative bodies outside of California, yet the inciteful language used by anti-LGBTQ extremists and media outlets is having devastating impacts here in San Diego. The targeting of our events, specific community members, nonprofit organizations, and elected officials who are LGBTQ or supporting our community has escalated over the last few years. The issues here at home and across the world have been driving up the fear and anxiety of people in our community regardless of age and are taking a toll on our youth; especially our youth growing up in unsupportive households.

    In a moment where anti-LGBTQ extremists are spinning lies about gun violence and our community, I feel compelled to remind us that in an average year, over 10,300 hate crimes in the US involve a firearm. That’s 28 every day. LGBTQ people are nine times more likely to experience violent hate crimes. Our community overall is twice as likely to be the victims of gun violence. Since January 2017, 221 transgender people have been killed with a gun, 68% of those victims were Black women. 81% of homicides of Black trans women were committed with a gun.

    Knowing these statistics isn’t intended to make us feel better, it is meant to arm us with facts in the face of hateful lies and rhetoric.

    In the face of this, let’s continue to celebrate and invest in our community.

    Tomorrow is Transgender Day of Visibility. For those of us who feel safe enough to do so, please be out, loud, visible, and proud. Trans and non-binary allies, please visibly show your support!

    Next week is Transgender Day of Empowerment. Please join us there and help us celebrate and empower our trans community.

    At Transgender Day of Empowerment, this year’s recipients of the Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship will be awarded. You can invest in our next generation of trans leaders and community by donating directly to the scholarship fund here.

    In 2022, in light of the rise in anti-LGBTQ legislation primarily targeting trans youth, San Diego Pride named our Trans Youth as our Community Grand Marshal and they lead our Parade as we returned to full-scale events after COVID-19 shut us down for 2 years. 

    We are excited to announce that in 2023, the Drag Community has been named this year’s Community Grand Marshal and will lead our Parade! Our drag community has always stood at the front lines for us, and in this moment of extreme persecution, we need to show our drag siblings that we stand with them, together.

    Our joy is insubordinate. Our visibility is defiance. Our unity is how we find safety, peace, and Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you’d like to learn core organizing skills to help you get more directly involved in how we fight back, consider registering for our Pride Power Summit happening April 28-30!

  63. “Tone it down”

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    Dear Pride Family,

    With the ever-growing legislative and violent attacks on our community, many are rightfully afraid, and some of our alleged allies are taking the moment to back away from us. Some inside and outside our community are asking us to “tone down” our visibility and advocacy. We will not.

    Over the last few years, as right-wing extremists have been maneuvering and honing their anti-LGBTQ attacks, our community has been increasingly aware of how LGBTQ people are being intentionally excluded and erased from even traditionally progressive spaces. We aren’t invited to the BIPOC spaces. We are being excluded from demographic analysis that helps to inform policy decisions, so we are in turn excluded from better LGBTQ-inclusive policies being made.

    “These aren’t LGBTQ issues,” we hear.

    In the last week I’ve been told by LGBTQ organizational leaders from non-LGBTQ organizations that they’ve been told to “tone it down,” “don’t be so obvious,” or other similar discriminatory statements coupled with the threats of losing donors, funding, and volunteers if they don’t. It’s just so clear that our fight is far from over even in spaces that purport to be on our side.

    This last Sunday, the Union-Tribune, which has come a long way in supporting LGBTQ voices, lived reality, and journalistic integrity decided to publish an Op-ed from an anti-LGBTQ Pastor alongside LGBTQ-affirming faith leaders. Our existence isn’t up for debate. Period. I am Jewish. I am Mexican-American. Would the UT of today publish faith leaders promoting anti-Semitism or anti-Mexican commentary for the sake of “both sides?” I doubt it. So why is it ok to do so for the LGBTQ community?

    This isn’t a moment to take our gains for granted. The number of calls and emails we get about discrimination happening in our regional schools, public accommodations, and employment is increasing every week. 

    San Diego Pride is answering this rise in anti-LGBTQ sentiment and erasure from allied spaces in concrete ways.

    This year we have been working with our regional community partners to ensure we are turning out local residents to address the rise in attacks head-on at City Council and School Board meetings across the county. We will continue to invest in that work.

    Next week is the one-year anniversary of when we launched our Pillars of Justice, a deep examination of intersectional movement-building work, through an LGBTQ lens. These pillars are Disability Justice, Economic Justice, Environmental Justice, Gender Justice, Health Justice, Racial Justice, and Reproductive Justice. Our team is working to ensure we are not erased from these conversations.

    Next month we are hosting our first Pride Power Summit, a weekend-long conference for people committed to LGBTQ justice hoping to learn grassroots organizing skills, build community connections, and get directly engaged in the movement of intersectional social justice. If these attacks aren’t going to stop, we’re going to invest in arming our community and allies with the skills and resources we need to fight back.

    We live and exist in every community. We come from every walk of life. Every issue that impacts the common good is our issue. We will not shrink ourselves. We will not return to the closets, prisons, or silence of our past. We will invest in ourselves and each other in pursuit of a day where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  64. Enviro Justice is our issue 🌈🌎

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Earth Day is just a month away, but climate action cannot wait. All of us around the world continue to grapple with the increasingly common impacts of climate change. Environmental justice is a human rights issue that affects everyone. Environmental justice is an LGBTQ issue. The effects of environmental degradation disproportionately impact marginalized communities, and yet all too frequently the LGBTQ community is often left out of these conversations.

    We know that the LGBTQ community is particularly vulnerable to the effects of climate change and environmental degradation. Members of our community are more likely to live in areas that are at a higher risk of environmental disasters, such as floods and wildfires. We are also more likely to experience the negative health effects of air pollution, such as respiratory illnesses as LGBTQ people are overrepresented in historically low-income neighborhoods near industrial sites, landfills, and other sources of pollution that emit harmful toxins into the air, water, and soil. 

    Systemic discrimination and marginalization can make it harder for us to access the resources and support we need to cope with the effects of climate change, like affordable healthcare, emergency housing, and disaster relief. Depending on other demographic factors, members of our community can be two to four times more likely to experience homelessness, which only exacerbates the negative impacts of environmental degradation and climate change on our community. As the global temperature rises, climate refugees will become more common, and here again, our LGBTQ community will be disproportionately represented.

    Here at Pride, we are constantly looking at ways to reduce our carbon footprint, reduce our waste to landfills, enhance our recycling and composting efforts at the Parade, Festival, and year-round programs, and identify partners and policies that help us advocate for a more sustainable future.

    The fight for environmental justice is far from over. As the effects of climate change continue to worsen, it is more important than ever that all of us recognize the link between environmental justice and social justice and do our part. We must collectively work to dismantle the systems of oppression that perpetuate social and environmental injustice as we strive to create a world that is safe and sustainable where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you’d like to learn core organizing skills to help you get more directly involved in social justice movements, consider registering for our Pride Power Summit happening April 28-30!

  65. Be Scene 🌈🎥

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    Dear Pride Family,

    As I write this, there are now well over 400 anti-LGBTQ bills that have been entered into legislative bodies around the country. These bills threaten our families, our health care, and our ability to exist in public spaces. Our visual and performing arts and cultural spaces are even threatened by these bills which can impact how we tell our stories; how we change hearts and minds. Today, rather than fixate on those bills, I want to share about one of my favorite recreational and educational loves, movies and film.

    The art of filmmaking has the power to give voice to marginalized communities and provides us a platform to share our stories in compelling, emotionally evocative ways. By controlling our own narrative through our own lived experiences we depict our struggles, triumphs, and everyday experiences of individuals and communities who have been historically silenced, excluded, or erased. These films break down stereotypes, challenge prejudices, and promote understanding and empathy. Especially for those of us who live at the intersection of these identities.

    These reasons and more are why San Diego Pride has been a long time donor to and partner with FilmOUT San Diego, ¡SOMOS! Cine LGBTQ+ Showcase at the San Diego Latino Film Festival produced by Media Arts Center San Diego, and the LGBTQ track at San Diego Asian Film Festival produced by Pacific Arts Movement. Each of these organizations works to highlight intersectional LGBTQ stories beyond their tentpole events to help us feel seen while educating non-LGBTQ audiences about our community.

    I also have to give a shout-out to our Pride family member, Alex Villafuerte, an openly queer Filipino man who was just announced as PacArts’ new Executive Director. The first LGBTQ person to hold that position.

    I hope you find time to support these organizations, LGBTQ media, and filmmakers. In shared spaces like theaters or in the comfort of our own homes, through the lens of cinema, our communities can finally feel seen, heard, and valued. As the diversity of on-screen and behind-the-scenes talent has been elevated over the decades, film has increasingly served as a catalyst for social change, sparking conversations and inspiring action that can help to address systemic inequalities and create a more equitable society where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  66. Women’s History Month is a call to action!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    When I was asked to write the newsletter for Women’s History Month, I sat down at my keyboard and…stared. I identify as a woman, I was on the committee that started She Fest, I have coordinated women’s events for over a decade. I understand why I was asked to write this newsletter. I have lived experience. And I greatly appreciate San Diego Pride’s posture of ensuring those with lived experiences are the ones holding the mic.  But lord, do I wish I didn’t have to. I wish women’s lives, contributions, autonomy, and value were not something that needed an “awareness month”.  

    I was doing research on the history of “awareness months” and their outcomes. I found one article that, in addition to alerting me to a new favorite word, captured the conflicting feelings I have about this month:

    Given the ubiquity of …awareness days and ambiguity of their messages, it is possible that they bombard the public with information to the point where individuals conflate being knowledgeable about an … issue with taking action to address it. As the researchers point out, “Exposure to this flood of information may serve to narcotize rather than to energize.” (citation)

    For those who lead much fuller lives than I do, and don’t spend countless hours on the internet trying to better understand basic concepts, “narcotize” means to soothe to unconsciousness or unawareness. And that is at the core of my concern: how do we leverage this month so that we are not just knowledgeable of women’s contributions and challenges, we are not soothed to unawareness, rather we are energizing society toward action so one bright day in the future women do not require an “awareness.”

    I do not pretend to know the answers. I grew up in patriarchal, evangelical Texas so I’ve got some unpacking to do before I can provide insight into this topic. Luckily, the Director of Education and Advocacy, Jen LaBarbera, was willing to offer their insight. “Women’s History Month is important. We’re going backward: the repeal of abortion rights, the disproportionate violence and hate targeting trans women, the horrendously high rates of intimate partner violence among bi+ women, Black maternal mortality rates are still through the roof, and all of that is connected to our long history of patriarchal violence. Understanding that long history and current reality must motivate us to take action to get to that bright day in the future.”

    There are ways to honor Women’s History Month in concrete action. There are ways to stand in solidarity with trans women. There are organizations and groups that are taking action to address inequity and there is no better time than now to get involved. This list is not exhaustive, but it is a great place to start:

    My parting message is this: whatever “awareness month” you find yourself in, do not be soothed, do not be narcotized. Use that time to take action. Because we are meant for greater things, we are meant to Thrive.

    With Pride,

    Kelcie Parra
    Pronouns: she/her
    Deputy Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  67. The Art of our Pride

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Just a few years ago, I was told by a local government official that “there is no LGBTQ arts and culture.” An odd thing to stay knowing that government bodies across the country are introducing a record number of anti-LGBTQ bills attempting to erase our history from libraries, our flags from public view, ban drag performances, and even prohibit Prides from happening. Meanwhile, Pride events around the world not only honor and uphold our history; they are celebrations of queer art and culture with huge economic impacts.

    The turbulent stories of our unique perspectives, vulnerable lives, and heroic movement are worthy of being preserved and showcased. Visual and performing arts provide innovative advocacy and community-building palettes where we are empowered to creatively bare out our hearts to find new empathic connections. San Diego has a wealth of LGBTQ artists and cultural organizations like Diversionary TheatreLambda Archives of San Diego, FilmOUT San Diego, the San Diego Women’s ChorusSan Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, and San Diego Queer Youth Chorus.

    Here at San Diego Pride, we have an array of LGBTQ arts and culture programming. Our Festival showcases hundreds of diverse LGBTQ singers, musicians, DJs, dancers, and drag performers. Our Art of Pride program highlights an array of LGBTQ visual artists at the Festival, hosts bi-monthly art exhibitions, including our upcoming Pride Youth Art Show, and is currently calling for artists to show dynamic expressions of queer Latine identity for a giant mural to be showcased at our Festival’s Mundo Latino. Our Pride Youth Marching Band which performs at the Parade, OUT at the Park, and events throughout the year, is celebrating its 9th year and is always looking for new members.

    Even our entertainment department works year round to elevate LGBTQ artists here at home and across the globe as they train and mentor other Pride organizations. Their team has been hosting an LGBTQ performing artist development series to help our community enhance their professional skills. They’re also hosting an entertainment open house soon if you’re interested in joining their volunteer team.

    There is so much LGBTQ arts programming in our region for youth that we’re partnering with Diversionary and several other organizations to host an LGBTQ Arts Educator Mixer coming up in March to ensure we’re all supporting each other and help students find the programs that fit their talents!

    When I’m asked what arts and culture should look like in San Diego, I reply that it should look and sound like all of San Diego. That means the full spectrum of creative LGBTQ people who have always been here are deserving of investment. LGBTQ art is a powerful tool for justice and for joy, and the national threat to its existence in daylight is a social justice issue. To all of our artists, thank you for all you do to help us shine, celebrate, protest, mourn, and Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  68. OUT at Sportswords!

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    Dear Pride Family,

    For years anti-LGBTQ extremists have been targeting transgender youth. So far this year, 39 of the 326 anti-LGBTQ bills entered into legislative bodies are transgender sports bans. San Diegans have historically been leaders in combating transphobia, homophobia, and HIV stigma in athletic spaces. Billie Jean KingBilly BeanRenée RichardsLiz CarmoucheGreg Louganis, and many other high-profile LGBTQ athletes have San Diego roots.

    San Diego has a long history as a thriving community for LGBTQ adults interested in sports with groups like America’s Finest City Softball League who’ve been longtime partners for OUT at the ParkFront Runners & Walkers who donate proceeds from the Pride 5K back to Pride’s community grant program and the Sunburst Youth Housing Project, and 19 other local LGBTQ sports groups. Many of them can be found recruiting every year at the Pride Festival in the Athletes Alley area where attendees can relax, play lawn games, connect with the members, and sign up to join a team.

    What started in the 80s with just a handful of LGBTQ Padres fans sitting together and bravely waving rainbow flags has grown into a genuine partnership with our annual OUT at Park where this year we’re anticipating 8,000 of us! Together we approach every aspect of the event with our LGBTQ community at the center, from the first pitch to the color guard, the national anthem singers, DJs, the marching band, and gender-neutral restrooms. Wait until you see this year’s hat that comes with your ticket!

    Our region’s professional sports teams have come to embrace and uplift the LGBTQ community as we have had partnerships with San Diego’s Gulls, Legion, Wave FC, and Loyal SC! In fact, in 2020, the entire San Diego Loyal Soccer Club walked off the field forfeiting their game after their openly gay player, Collin Martin, was subjected to an anti-gay slur, and no action was taken against the offending player. We’ve got some exciting announcements regarding these partnerships coming later this year.

    Whether it’s professional sports leagues, LGBTQ recreational groups, shifting school policy, our local YMCA defending transgender members, or transgender athletes and activists like San Diegans Paulo Batista and Sam Moehlig, each and every way we combat discrimination in athletics are important. All of this helps shift false narratives about our community, so we can build a society where all of us can Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  69. Get engaged! 

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    Dear Pride Family,

    It’s hard to believe that this June will mark ten years since marriage equality became law in California! As we celebrate this important milestone, it’s crucial to reflect on the long and winding journey that brought us here.

    In 1948 the California Supreme Court ruled in Perez v. Sharp, a case involving the marriage of a Mexican woman and a Black man, that our state’s ban on interracial marriage violated the US Constitution. The court precedent would go on to influence the United States Supreme Court ruling in Loving v. Virginia in 1967 which would strike down all state statutes prohibiting interracial marriage.

    The fight for marriage equality was a marathon, not a sprint. Every February 12th since 1999, on Freedom to Marry Day, same-sex couples would go to their local marriage offices to ask for licenses and the 1,138 federal rights, protections, and responsibilities that came with it. Although they were always turned away, the media attention sparked important conversations that helped change hearts and minds.

    In 2004, LGBTQ couples in San Francisco received a surprising victory when then-Mayor Gavin Newsom permitted them to marry, including my husband and I. Although those marriages were not recognized by the state, they set the stage for the 2008 In re Marriage Cases decision by the California Supreme Court, which relied on Perez v. Sharp to bring marriage equality to the state for 153 days until Prop 8 temporarily ended our legal access.

    In 2013, the U.S. Supreme Court restored the state’s rights with Hollingsworth v. Perry and gave LGBTQ couples access to federal marriage protections with US v. Windsor. These decisions were built upon the foundation laid by Perez and Loving, and ultimately led to the Obergefell v. Hodges ruling by the Supreme Court in 2015, which guaranteed the fundamental right to marry for same-sex couples.

    Now, why did I go full history lesson on you?

    It’s Black History Month, and it is important to remember that the fight for LGBTQ rights is inextricably linked to the fight for racial justice and gender justice. While these court cases were an important part of our progress, activists, public educators, and grassroots organizers played a vital role in shifting public consciousness.

    The courts have been stacked against us threatening our freedom to marry, and a record number of anti-LGBTQ, anti-trans bills sweep the nation. Here at San Diego Pride, we are committed to building power in our community, and as a society, we must continue to work together to support our trans siblings and LGBTQ individuals living in less supportive states. Let’s recommit to the long, intentional, and intersectional work needed to create a better, more free world where we are free to love, live as ourselves, and Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  70. 5 years later

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    Dear Pride Family,

    In July of 2000, I had been homeless and living in my car just a couple of weeks before. I was from the rural border town of El Centro, California which had an extremely anti-LGBTQ climate. We didn’t have an LGBTQ Center or Pride where I came from. Most LGBTQ people were in the closet, and those of us who couldn’t hide were constantly bullied and harassed. Back then I didn’t know what Pride was. I didn’t know what acceptance felt like. My whole life I was just trying to survive.

    I moved to San Diego in 1999 having heard rumors that “gay people move there” from other cities. I hoped to find connection, and I did. While I struggled with homelessness, it was a Pride volunteer and then-young community activist Benny Cartwright who saved me from the streets when he and his mother took me in. His first words when he saw me crying outside the Livingroom Cafe in Hillcrest, “What’s wrong? What can I do to help?”

    Thanks to him I knew these events called Pride were in Hillcrest, so I headed that way. 

    I stumbled upon a large group of people standing in front of The Center facing a woman, community legend, Cheli Mohamed, speaking from the front patio, and for the first time in my life I heard the words “gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender” said on a loudspeaker with pride and joy instead of as a slur or behind a whispered hand. As I listened to the speakers talk of justice and a better future, I was filled with kinetic inspiration and a grand sense of awe. For the first time, I wasn’t alone. I found community. I found hope. 

    Everyone remembers their first Pride.

    There’s no easy way to summarize the rest, meeting my husband, finding and fighting legal and social barriers at every turn, volunteering for LGBTQ organizations, doing media relations for our LGBT Center here in San Diego, working for Marriage Equality USA, Equality California, the National LGBTQ Task Force, The Decline to Sign and Prop 8 campaigns, then joining the Pride staff 12 years ago this summer, and then becoming executive director here five years ago this week.

    These last five years have presented some of the most challenging obstacles of my over two decades in this work. Through the rise in White-nationalism, targeted violence, growing anti-LGBTQ legislation, the COVID-19 pandemic, mpox, and more, the volunteers, staff, board, donors, sponsors, artists, musicians, and everyone who made Pride possible didn’t only survive, we grew the organization stronger. We collectively understood the importance of the Pride celebrations and our year-round programs. Our staff has grown nearly ten times as large as we were just five years ago and doubled in the last year. 

    None of that is possible if we don’t pause to care for ourselves and each other.

    As I pause to reflect on my last five years as executive director, I can’t help but reflect on my life and every single person it took to lift me through my darkest days and the damages of systemic discrimination. It is the honor of a lifetime to serve our community in this role. There isn’t a day that goes by that I’m not grateful for the roof over my head, the clothes on my back, and the countless people who build our community and organization to make all of this work possible. 
    The next several years will present an escalation by the extreme right as our community is again made the scapegoat for political gain. San Diego Pride will answer that call. Whether you take pause to care for yourself, those closest to you, your communities, schools, places of employment and worship, or join us directly in the work; all of it matters. We are stronger, smarter, and more resilient than our dissenters would have us believe. Let’s remember that, and help each other and our movement Thrive!

    With Gratitude and Hope,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. I haven’t missed a Spirit of Stonewall Rally in 23 years! Nominate your LGBTQ community inspiration to be recognized there as one of this year’s awardees!

  71. The Holocaust, and now…

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    Dear Pride Family,

    January 27, was chosen as Holocaust Remembrance Day because it was the day the Auschwitz concentration camp was liberated in 1945. Millions of Jews, political dissenters, religious minorities, people with disabilities, and LGBTQ people lost their lives at the hands of Nazi Germany. It is important that we don’t simply remember their loss, but how we got there. In the early 1900s, Germany was a thriving mecca for the queer community, but hate-filled scapegoating and propaganda bred fear, genocide, and global war. Too many are staring in the face of history and greeting it like a stranger.

    As a Jewish, queer, non-binary, Mexican-American, first-generation US citizen, I was raised being taught the history of WWII and the Holocaust. As a multi-ethnic person, it has always pained me to see clearly how connected our seemingly disparate struggles truly are.

    Many forget or were never taught that while Paragraph 175 was a German statute that criminalized sexual relations between men, its interpretation and expansion were only made more deadly under Nazi rule. Trans and gender-nonconforming people were some of the first people targeted by the Nazis, who early on in their rise to power raided and destroyed Magnus Hirschfeld’s Institute of Sexology, erasing decades of research on gender expression, identity, and sexual orientation.

    For years this country has seen a rise in violence targeting Black trans women, in a hyperpolarized political environment that has uplifted xenophobia, anti-Semitism, misogyny, racism, transphobia, and homophobia. Canaries in a coal mine. 

    As of my writing this there are 229 piece of anti-trans, anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation being entered into legislative bodies across the country, some of which include prison time. With Justice Thomas’s concurrence alongside the Dobb’s decision that struck down Roe taking aim at Lawrence v Texas which decriminalized same-sex intimacy, the intentions of right-wing extremists couldn’t be more clear.

    Meanwhile, the Department of Homeland Security’s terrorism advisory bulletin announced in November that Americans motivated by violent ideologies pose a “persistent and lethal threat” to LGBTQ, Jewish, and migrant communities. Our community is being used as a political wedge issue yet again, and we know these political threats have real-life consequences.

    Recently in Santee, an innocent Black trans woman who was minding her own business became the target of what has become a national media storm playing off false and dehumanizing fears surrounding the trans and LGBTQ community. Yesterday, 27 regional LGBTQ organizations spoke out in support of Christynne Lili Wrene Wood and all transgender people in advance of her public comment at Santee City Council last night.

    We all need to stand up.

    We cannot allow a scenario to play out that leads us to repeat the words from 1946 written by German Lutheran pastor Martin Niemoller, “Then they came for me — and there was no one left to speak for me.” This April we are launching our first Pride Power Summit where we will train the next generation of activists to engage in this fight. Even if directly engaging in grassroots organizing isn’t where you feel comfortable, the responsibility still rests with each of us to show up for each other in our daily lives and confront discrimination when and where we find it. Nothing can undo the hate, death, or violence any of our communities have faced over the generations, but we can stand shoulder to shoulder, ready to take action in our shared intersectional struggles in hopes that we all may Thrive!


    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  72. JOINT STATEMENT

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    United LGBTQIA+ Organizations Support All Transgender People Seeking to
    Utilize Public Facilities


    JOINT STATEMENT

    As LGBTQIA+ organizations, we stand in solidarity with and support of Christynne Lili Wrene
    Wood, and all transgender people seeking to utilize public facilities. 
     
    Transgender women are women. Period. 
     
    Transgender people in San Diego County deserve safe and inclusive spaces to live, work, and
    play. All people deserve access to safe public shared spaces that treat them with dignity and
    respect, free of harassment and discrimination. This includes locker rooms at community
    organizations like the YMCA.
     
    The YMCA of San Diego County is an inclusive community space, and their policies related to
    facility usage are in line with state non-discrimination law and best practices for inclusive,
    welcoming spaces for our LGBTQIA+ community. 
     
    This incident does not happen in a vacuum: we have witnessed this fear-based narrative for
    decades and has escalated in the past few years to target our transgender community members
    specifically, putting our transgender and non-binary siblings in the crosshairs of this intentional
    polarization. So far in 2023, there have been over 150 anti-LGBTQ – mostly anti-transgender –
    pieces of legislation introduced in state legislatures across the country. With the increase in this
    rhetoric and transphobic legislation comes an increase in hate crimes and hate incidents against
    our LGBTQIA+ community.


    It is also important to recognize the racial implications of this incident – a white woman claiming
    the mere sight of a Black woman’s body as threatening is a dangerous perpetuation of racism.
    The reality of anti-Black racism in this country continues to be a pervasive and unavoidable
    aspect of our American culture, and contributes to the consistent danger that Black people –
    particularly Black transgender women – face every day.  We are committed to ending racism,
    anti-trans, and anti-LGBTQ bias and violence.


    JOINT STATEMENT FROM:
    The full list of organizations and institutions joining this statement can be found below.

    SIGNED BY ORGANIZATIONS AND INSTITUTIONS:

    1. ADL San Diego
    2. Art of Pride
    3. Diversionary Theatre
    4. Equality California
    5. FilmOut San Diego
    6. GLSEN San Diego
    7. Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center
    8. Jewish Family Service of San Diego
    9. Lambda Archives of San Diego
    10. Lambda Rising Soccer
    11. LGBTQ San Diego County News
    12. North County LGBTQ Resource Center
    13. Planned Parenthood of the Pacific Southwest
    14. PFLAG San Diego County
    15. Proyecto Trans Latina
    16. Queer Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American Coalition
    17. San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    18. San Diego Community Birth Center
    19. San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus
    20. San Diego Original Black Panther Party for Community Empowerment
    21. San Diego Pride
    22. San Diego Pride Military Department
    23. San Diego Pride Youth Programs
    24. San Diego Women’s Chorus
    25. SD LGBTQ+ Latine Coalition
    26. She Fest San Diego
    27. St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral
    28. Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition, Inc.
    29. The Gender Phluid Collective
    30. The San Diego LGBT Community Center
    31. TransFamily Support Services
  73. “Who?” “Never Heard of Them.”

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Every single year, some of the harshest criticism we hear at Pride is people denigrating our entertainment team and our Festival lineup selections. “Who?” “Never heard of them!” While people say these things and worse to our team as a criticism, the reality is that there is a method to our music selection, and I thought we’d take the opportunity to demystify our process.

    San Diego Pride’s annual Festival has grown dramatically over the last 12 years from about 12,000 attendees to over 55,000. A huge part of that is our commitment to diverse LGBTQ local and top tiered talent who reflect our community. We prioritize hiring DJs, Drag performers, dancers, vocalists, and musicians from our local community because we should be investing in our own community. There are fiercely talented LGBTQ folks in San Diego who are all too frequently ignored outside of LGBTQ-owned businesses and Pride season. By focusing locally, we’re helping our local economy and exposing these incredible folks to new fans and booking opportunities.

    We also prioritize local and top-tiered talent who use their platform to advocate and educate around LGBTQ rights. We frequently work to ensure their efforts are aligned with our year-round programs and or the theme of the year. For example, when we celebrated Stonewall 50, LGBTQ pioneer, legend, and advocate Melissa Ethridge was our closing headliner. That same year, the up and comer King Princess, whose music has a decidedly queer empowerment and educational message was our Saturday headliner.

    When booking top tiered talent we also have to look at a ton of data. We have to assess the size, demographics, and geography of their following. We look at the demographics of our line-up. Is the artist in value alignment, or is there a scandal or 5-year-old tweet that’s going to come back to haunt them and us?

    The market for the event and music industry has also changed over the last decade. Artist income used to come from record sales, so festivals and concerts were promotional; now it’s inverted. Top headliners now ask for $250-500,000, that if they would even consider a Pride. Many Prides around the country have increased Festival ticket prices to over $100 to keep moving with the market. San Diego Pride has prioritized keeping ticket prices low and finding strong emerging artists or top talent who are willing to work with our budget and value our year-round programs.

    Through these efforts, we’ve grown steadily year over year. Our Festival has been full as we’ve hosted  Kesha, Cyndi Lauper, Big Freedia, Kim PetrasTLCRuby RoseSnow Tha Product, Ashnikko, Daya, Baby Tate, and so many more.

    You can support our LGBTQ artists by getting your early bird $20 GA or $175 VIP ticket and when we post the full lineup in June please take a moment to follow them on social and learn about them. If you know local LGBTQ artists, please have them apply to perform at our events or point them to our Entertainment Workshop Series for skill building around branding, booking, and contracts. Our community’s performing artists bring us joy, empower our celebrations, help us grieve, tell our stories, and drive the mission of our movement forward. As they invest in us, let’s ensure we invest in them so together we can Thrive!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  74. Lead with Pride

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    Dear Pride Family,

    Throughout our movement, we as LGBTQ people have too often been severed from friends, family, and social support networks. Our queer resilience and ingenuity have made us experts at forging our own found families and securing our own strength. Over the generations, our community’s creativity has shone through in the ways we build organizations, revitalize neighborhoods, change hearts and minds, and care for each other. We see it every day here at Pride.

    In the 70s, a handful of community members volunteered their time as they fought for permits, sold buttons for revenue, and hand-cranked mimeograph flyers to distribute around town so we could hold our first Pride events in San Diego. That foundational all-volunteer work built the scale and scope of our organization over the decades. Our commitment to volunteer leadership has never faded, and they continue to lead the way.

    In any given year at Pride, there are about 200 LGBTQ community members who take on volunteer leadership roles to envision and produce our annual Pride celebration and year-round programs. These leaders may volunteer anywhere from 4 hours a month to 4 hours a week all year long to ensure each program and event is led by and for members of our community. These inspiring and dedicated community members are always growing, connecting, recruiting, planning, and deeply engaging in intergenerational mentorship and leadership development.

    Regardless of what department, event, or program these leaders are a part of, we meet every third Saturday of the month for our Pride Leadership Meetings where we connect, hear organizational and community updates, and engage in training so we’re always leveling up our skills as we grow in our roles with Pride and our daily lives. This month our two presentations will be Trauma-Informed Leadership training and Communication for Difficult Conversations & Conflict Resolution. Next month we will hear about Race & the LGBTQ Community and Project Management. If you’ve ever considered taking on a leadership role at Pride, these meetings are free and open to the public. We’ll even give you coffee and muffins. Come check us out!

    Every year, our small but mighty staff helps support these couple hundred volunteer leaders, who oversee about 3,000 volunteers, who help us serve nearly a half million people each and every year. There are so many ways to volunteer with Pride. If you’re interested in taking on a leadership position for our annual celebration or year-round programs, supporting voter engagement efforts, outreach, advocacy, or even helping with a 5-hour clean-up shift, we would love to see you engaged with the Pride Family as we work to help our community Thrive!
     

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you don’t have either the time or capacity to volunteer, consider supporting Pride through becoming a sustaining donor. By donating monthly to supporting Pride’s community-led programs, your impact will be felt year-round. Learn more and donate here.

  75. Resolve to Thrive!

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    Happy New Year!  We did it. We made it. Another year in the books, and what a year it was. 2022 brought our community a deluge of unexpected challenges. We saw historic levels of anti-LGBTQ threats, violence, and harmful legislation. We also saw the meningitis and mpox outbreaks while COVID-19 surged. All of this while our community worked to regain our connections after years apart, to bring back Pride. 

    In our struggle to survive the moment, we can lose focus on how we thrive. This is the goal of oppression. To make us weary. To keep us in trauma and triage. Let’s change that.

    Going into 2020, our theme was Together We Rise, as we knew it would be a pivotal election year. We knew what was on the line. We had no idea COVID-19, George Flyod, and a racial reckoning were on the horizon. There was no in-person Pride.

    In 2021, Resilient was our theme, as we focused on the ways queer resilience has always been a part of our brilliance. We spent the year looking at how we could collectively tap into our generations of action, activism, and advocacy to restore, rebuild, redeem, and revive one another. There was a smaller and diffused in-person Pride.

    In 2022, with hope of a full comeback, Justice with Joy, our San Diego Pride motto, became our theme. Through our year-round programs and Pride, we emphasized what our founders instilled, that art and advocacy are powerful accomplices. That the veterans of our movement did not struggle so we would only suffer. We had a full-scale Pride!

    This year, our theme is, Thrive! Not only did San Diego Pride survive the struggles of the last several years, we came out bigger, and stronger, with more staff, volunteers, and programs than ever before! With that, we have new and exciting things in store for our community this year!

    We’re starting a new Entertainment Workshop Series to help elevate our region’s LGBTQ performing artists. We will be adding to our year-round grassroots organizing efforts and a Pride Power Summit in the spring to train the next generation of activists. In the fall, we will bring the international Pride conference back to San Diego for the first time in 40 years as activists from around the world converge to build our global movement that much stronger. Of course, save the date, November 11, for our annual Pride Youth Leadership Academy where we will train youth, educators, and guardians on how to create safer communities and educational environments for the next generation.

    This is just the beginning. We hope you’ll find engagement in our year-round programs, volunteer to join our leadership team, support this work by becoming an Ambassador of Pride, or simply attend any of our events. We hope you will join us in approaching 2023 with an abundance mindset so our community can truly Thrive!

  76. $250,000!!!

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    The COVID-19 pandemic halted our traditional 2020 and 2021 Pride Parade and Festival, our organization’s largest fundraisers. The loss of these events and the funding they provide forced us to pause our community grants in 2020 and identify entirely new income sources in order to continue running our year-round education and advocacy programs.

    In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that, in addition to supporting Pride’s own events and programs, would turn a profit to be invested in building capacity within our community. This model helped us provide grants starting in the 90s, allowing us to become one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world. 

    In 2020 and 2021, as the world changed, so did the ways we gave back to our community. During that time our philanthropy has looked like providing masks for seniors, free vaccines, food and clothing drives, scholarships for transgender students, and giving grocery gift cards to bar and restaurant workers at LGBTQ-owned small businesses. We were even able to start some of our Pride Community Grants in 2021 focusing on smaller local organizations we gave out $136,000 last year.

    Today, we are finally able to bring back our Pride Community Grants with a local, national, and international focus! This year we’re giving out nearly a quarter of a million dollars to 44 LGBTQ-serving organizations here in San Diego and around the world! This brings our total giving to just over $3.5 million since 1996!

    Thank you!
    Our Pride in San Diego is special. We approach our work with an abundance mindset, knowing that when our organization does well, we can help others thrive. It was a model established by founders like  Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Tim Williams, Larry Baza, Vertez Burks, Joseph Mayer, and more who wanted to ensure the role of Pride was one that helps build the capacity of our community beyond the weekend events. That is how we thrive! That is how we pursue Justice with Joy!

    America’s Finest City Softball League

    Bilitis Resource Center Foundation

    Breakthrough Workshop Theatre

    CAPI – Consolidated Association of Prides

    California Community Education Center, Inc.

    CBB4Life

    Children of the Sun Foundation Uganda Limited

    cHOSING IS LIFE S H GROUP

    Colors+ Youth Center

    San Diego County LGBTQ+ and Allies Employee Resource Group

    Diversionary Theatre Productions, Inc.

    DTLA Proud

    Fondo de Asistencia para el SIDA A.C.

    Free to Thrive

    Gay Men’s Spiritual Retreat

    Global Center for LGBTI+ Freedom and Education

    GLSEN San Diego

    Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center

    InterPride

    Lambda Archives of San Diego

    Lambda Rising Soccer Club

    May 17 Association

    Media Arts Center San Diego

    FilmOut San Diego

    Minority Humanitarian Foundation

    MoPride

    Movimiento SOMOS

    North County LGBT Resource Center

    Oxygen Charity

    Pacific Arts Movement

    Quatrefoil Library

    Queer Humboldt

    Rainbow Spaces

    San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition

    San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus

    San Diego Women’s Chorus

    SEED Malaysia

    Sisters of St. James Productions

    Special Delivery San Diego

    Stepping Stone San Diego

    The San Diego American Flag Football League

    Think Dignity

    Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship

    Track-T

    TransFamily Support Services

    Volunteer With Cheli

    Picture of San Diego Pride giving large check for Community Grant
  77. Biden Signs Respect for Marriage Act Into Law

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    “Today is an inspiring victory for LGBTQ people as our right to marry the person we love is codified into federal law. This moment in our movement was made possible thanks to countless activists, organizers, and everyday people who fought for decades to ensure our LGBTQ families could have the same rights, protections, and responsibilities of marriage as every other American. Today, love has won.

    As we have seen throughout US history, LGBTQ people and policies are all too frequently used by far-right extremists to drive voter turnout with hateful tactics and misinformation resulting in dangerous and deadly consequences. This year was no different. 

    As a hyper-polarized political climate has continued to divide the Nation, the bipartisan effort to enshrine marriage protections for LGBTQ couples and families should serve as a beacon of hope. A vast majority of Americans, 79%, regardless of party affiliation, believe that LGBTQ people deserve equal protection under the law.

    After another deadly year for LGBTQ Americans, which also had the most anti-LGBTQ legislation in our history, this pivottable moment should remind us that there is more that unites us than divides us. That in the wake of hate, love will always rise.”

    Fernando Z. López

    Executive Director

    San Diego Pride

  78. State of the Movement

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    There is quite a bit happening at the moment in the LGBTQ community that impacts our safety and our rights. It can seem a bit overwhelming so I’m going to try and break it down for us a bit.

    Let’s start with the good stuff! The Respect for Marriage Act has been passed by both the House of Representatives and the Senate with President Biden committing to sign it as early as next week! Sign up here to get information about San Diego’s local coordinated community celebration! The bill will ensure the federal government is required to recognize our marriages and grant us 1,138 federal rights and protections. It does not compel states to marry us, so should Obergefell be challenged up to this current makeup of an unsupportive U.S. Supreme Court and we lose, you will still be able to marry in states where it is legal and states will be required to recognize your marriage as long as it was legal where you wed.

    That brings us to 303 Creative which just had oral arguments in front of the SCOTUS on Tuesday. In this case, anti-LGBTQ operatives are attempting to say that anti-discrimination laws are a violation of free speech. We saw this coming. It’s been a publicly known strategy on the far right to couple far-right judicial appointments and seemingly innocuous policies to challenge and chip away at LGBTQ rights, abortion access, and religious liberty, all in service to the rise of white nationalism.

    This brings us to the Department of Homeland Security’s terrorism advisory bulletin that announced last week Americans motivated by violent ideologies pose a “persistent and lethal threat” to LGBTQ, Jewish, and migrant communities. That these ideologies are being spread online by bad actors foreign and domestic, so it’s not comforting that a report from the Senate Homeland Security and Governmental Affairs Committee three weeks ago shared that DHS and the FBI are not adequately tracking or addressing domestic terrorism, specifically white supremacist violence. 

    It’s difficult to reflect on that knowing that hundreds of anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation in the US this year assisted in public anti-LGBTQ narratives that stoke fear and violence. Just this year, we know of well over 100 attacks on drag events, a series of threats, and attacks on US Prides, the shooting in Colorado Springs, and just this weekend a domestic terror attack on two power substations that appear to have been a way to prevent a local drag show from occurring

    With so much at stake it is important that we continue our work to invest in community organizing and leadership capacity building locally, nationally, and globally. In addition to Pride 2023 and our year-round education and advocacy programs, we will be adding year-round grassroots organizing efforts and a summit in the spring to train the next generation of activists. We’ll also be hosting the global InterPride Conference where we’ll bring together activists from across the globe to San Diego as we share in this international fight for LGBTQ liberation. The state of our movement is strong and while things might seem scary, nearly 80% of Americans now support equality protection under the law for LGBTQ people. We are not alone in this fight not just to survive but to thrive as we all pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Love, Hope, and Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  79. ENDING AIDS

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    In the 80s, I remember in elementary school being bullied at recess by kids calling me gay and telling me that I was going to “get AIDS, die, and burn in hell for all eternity.” Many of us know all too well what this shame, fear, and stigma feel like. We are still fighting it.

    Recently, mistakes in Mpox communication, reporting, vaccine production, and distribution felt reminiscent of the crimes against our community in the early days of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. Old wounds made raw by a new epidemic had us fighting the same battles again. What have we learned?

    Globally, it is estimated that there are currently 38.4 million people living with HIV and that more than 40.1 million people have died from HIV/AIDS-related complications. This is why every December 1st, on World AIDS Day, we focus on the work that lies ahead, and take intentional time for ourselves to mourn and honor those we’ve lost along the way to the virus.

    HIV/AIDS is not in the distant past. It is now. Even in our region, we lack adequate, equitable access to testing, treatment, prevention, and sexual health education. Many struggle navigating their veteran or civilian health care system, or lack insurance. Many younger people don’t understand the risk factors of intimacy without prophylaxis.

    Ending the HIV pandemic looks like ending homophobia and transphobia, it means ending misogyny and rape culture. It looks like health care as a human right. It looks like age-appropriate, LGBTQ-inclusive, and consent-based sex education. It looks like freely available pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) and syringe services programs (SSPs). It looks like the decriminalization of sex work and substance abuse. We have work to do.

    In the months leading up to Pride every year, we contribute hundreds of Festival tickets to direct service providers to incentivize HIV testing for free tickets. At the Pride Festival, we typically have at least three mobile testing units on site where this year 691 were tested over the two-day event; those who tested positive were then connected to immediate services and care. Pride offers direct trainings, public education programs, safer sex education, and free HIV testing for LGBTQ youth, in an effort to educate about HIV. By awarding community grant funding for HIV/AIDS-related services, treatment, and prevention, San Diego Pride is committed to ending new transmissions, supporting those living with the virus, and fighting the fear, shame, and stigma that many associate with the virus.

    Time and community resolve have given us new tools to fight and prevent HIV infections, and have helped us understand that undetectable means untransmittable. This has turned the virus from a death sentence to a chronic illness. The goal to get to zero new infections and ending stigma is a social, political, and economic battle, but one that we can win if we work together. Pride was born out of and exists in the sexual liberation movement. This World AIDS Day, December 1st, let’s join together to remember and honor the legacy of those lost to HIV by recommitting ourselves to this work, and together we can pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Hope and Pride,

    FZL

  80. Grief and Gratitude

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    Today is Thanksgiving. It can be hard to find gratitude in moments like this. We again find ourselves mourning our dead and fearful for our future. It’s okay to be raging mad. It’s perfectly valid to feel numb. It’s understandable if you’re afraid. There is no right way to feel after something as traumatic as the mass shooting in Colorado Spring’s Club Q. This is the goal of targeted terrorism. To wear us down.

    We won’t go away quietly.

    As we’ve learned that the shooter had a San Diego connection, we’ve also learned the hero, the person who stopped the shooter was an ally, veteran, and San Diegan.

    We know how to fight back.

    Throughout the exhausting few years of the COVID-19 pandemic, our community found innovative ways to stay connected and support each other. In 2022, we saw the return of our community’s safe spaces to full scale. Our LGBTQ owned bars, clubs, and restaurants welcomed us all back! Pride returned to full scale and record numbers! All of that was possible thanks to our community sticking by each other, volunteering, donating, learning new skills, and wielding our queer brilliance as resilience.

    We will heal from this too. We will rise from this too. We will revel in the warmth of the family we find, keep, and choose. We will continue to fight for our right to live and love freely, without fear. We will always recover to pursue Justice with Joy. For that and more, I am forever grateful.


    With Love, Hope, and Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  81. Trans Day of Remembrance

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    Last year at San Diego County’s Leon L. Williams Human Relations Commission meeting, Commissioner Pastor Dennis Hodges referred to transgender people as “abominations.” What ensued afterward was months of anti-trans rhetoric at those meetings as the committee tried to reconcile that at least one of its members didn’t share the values of the committee. These had a huge emotional impact on our trans and LGBTQ members of the committee.

    All year across San Diego and the country we have seen a rise in anti-trans online harassment, protests in school boards and youth-focused events, as our trans siblings were used as a political wedge issue this election season.

    These political attacks create real harm and stoke violence. 

    A recent poll from the Trevor Project shows us that 85% of trans and nonbinary youth and 66% of all LGBTQ youth have stated that public discourse around anti-LGBTQ legislation has negatively impacted their mental health. The Trevor Project’s 2022 National Survey on LGBTQ Mental Health reported that 45% of LGBTQ+ youth seriously considered attempting suicide in the past year. 

    2021 was the deadliest year on record for our transgender siblings, and 2022 has already seen 32 reported murders of our trans siblings

    We have to do better.

    While so much progress has been made in the fight for broad LGBTQ protections here in California, it is important for our non-trans community to understand that legal protections for trans folks are further out of reach and the lived trans experience does not yet match the legislative goals our state has so far enshrined into law. 

    Our trans community siblings face higher rates of discrimination in the education system, employment, health care, direct service access, public accommodation, treatment by law enforcement, and more. Visibility and policy revisions alone aren’t the answer. As we reimagine our social systems we must understand the power that each of us has in our daily lives to stop trans-hate in its tracks and proactively engage in shaping a safer and more equitable world for our trans siblings.
    San Diego’s Trans Day of Remembrance is this Sunday. I hope you will join us as we mourn and honor the lives and legacy of our trans siblings who were murdered this year. I also hope that you use that time, that day, to pause and reflect on the role that you play within your own schools, institutions of faith, government agencies, companies, small businesses, communities, social groups, sports teams, media outlets, arts and culture groups, friend circles, and families. From there you personally can make an impact toward ending transphobia, create a more equitable life for our trans siblings, save lives, and ensure all of us can live to pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

  82. Thank You Veterans

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    One year ago, the USNS Harvey Milk launched into San Diego Bay marking the first time a military vessel was named for an openly LGBTQ civil rights leader. For many San Diegans who lived, served, and suffered through pre and post-Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell discrimination or the transgender ban, the moment carried a poignant weight knowing that the person being honored was murdered in 1978, and less than honorably discharged in 1955 because of his sexual orientation. We’ve come a long way in supporting our service members and veterans, but we still have a long way to go.

    It’s no secret that military ports like San Diego quickly became hubs for the LGBTQ community since WWII as we found each other and chose to remain amongst found family rather than return to more rural communities that weren’t always as accepting. If we look back at San Diego’s LGBTQ history, we will find it hard to de-couple veterans from the evolution and progress our community has seen on a local and national scale.

    Which veterans can we thank?

    Jess Jessop who helped lead the local Gay Liberation Front, founded The Center, and helped to form Lambda Archives. Jeri Dilno who secured the first San Diego Pride Parade Permit in 1975, and presented on LGBTQ health issues to the American Nurses Association in 1975 – 1977. Community advocates who fought for our protections and built the capacity of our movement like Bridget Wilson and Ben Dillingham. Robert Lynn, who passed this year, who founded much of our region’s LGBTQ political strategy and the organization now known as the San Diego Equality Business Association. One of our current board members, Joanna Sansoterra, became the first active-duty service member in the country to receive approval from the DoD to wear her uniform in a Pride parade, setting off a chain of events that lead to sweeping approval for uniforms at Pride elevating LGBTQ veteran visibility nationally. Other local LGBTQ veterans of note include people like Autumn Sandeen, Kristin Beck, Evander Deocariza, Alberto Cortés, Ronnie Zerrer, and so many more.

    On this Veterans Day, please don’t just take a moment to thank our veterans for their service to country and community, but consider for a moment the work we as a nation have yet to do to ensure their ongoing needs after their service and how you can play a role. Veterans and particularly LGBTQ and BIPOC veterans face greater hurdles to accessing employment, housing, health care, and mental health services. While some of these points of care are improving, that improvement is asymmetrical at best.

    While some of the best ways to support our veterans and service members is to support peace and diplomacy, we also need to repair broken systems that have exploited and neglected marginalized communities. LGBTQ veterans have lifted up our movement and it is incumbent upon us to ensure we return the favor. So much of their work in our movement has allowed us to pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

  83. Vote With Pride

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    Election Day is almost here! Let there never be any doubt that every election matters. Your vote on every single elected official and issue from the top to the bottom of the ballot is vital and necessary. If we want the values of our community to be reflected in the policies that impact our lives, then we must commit ourselves to engaging in the voting process.

    In order to address issues that systematically impact the LGBTQ community, particularly families and people of color, San Diego Pride is supporting four ballot measures this election cycle impacting our reproductive justice, education justice, and health justice. Please join us as we address abortion and birth control access, arts and music education, public health, and accessible and affordable childcare. 

    There is still time to engage!

    If we as a community want to leave a legacy of progress for our next generation, then we must educate ourselves on the issues, register to vote, volunteer our time to remind others to vote, return our ballots, show up to the polls, and take pride in voting. I hope you will join us in these voter engagement efforts in the final days leading up to one of the most important elections in our lifetime as we pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

  84. The World is Coming!

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    I couldn’t be more proud to be writing to you from my family’s home state of Jalisco, Mexico, where the InterPride Conference and Annual General Meeting is finally back in person after three years. It’s also the first time the conference has been held in Latin America and in a Spanish speaking country. Next year, 2023, we’re bringing InterPride and a world of activists back to San Diego!

    In 1981, just 12 years after the Stonewall Riots, San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore created a list of Pride organizers from around the country, and from that list in 1982 half a dozen Pride organizations met in Boston. In 1983, the second annual Pride Coordinator’s National Conference was held in San Diego as our movement’s activists and organizations made efforts to share strategies, resources, and best practices.

    Over the years these early efforts grew into what is now called InterPride, a global organization that connects and uplifts LGBTQ activists and Pride organizers around the world, hosts an annual conference, oversees the WorldPride bid, and conducts research on the international Pride movement. In 2020 when Prides, as we knew them, came to a standstill, InterPride helped bring together organizers from 163 countries to produce the 27-hour virtual Global Pride celebration viewed by over 57 million people. Our staff and volunteers took an incredible leadership role in helping to make that possible. 

    With our international focus and partnership with the San Diego Diplomacy Council and the Department of State, we have met with 557 delegates from 137 countries around the world. In fact, over the last month we hosted fellows from Turkey and Thailand who are part of an international exchange program and are already doing inspiring LGBTQ justice work in their respective countries.
    Registration, hotel bookings, and sponsorship opportunities are now open for InterPride 2023! There are even social passes available for folks who just want to come get to know our international guests without going to the entire conference. Volunteer opportunities will be announced as we approach the event next year. It’s an honor to be a small part of this LGBTQ global network-building legacy. I hope you will join us in some way next year as we bring a world of Pride to San Diego in pursuit of Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

  85. Anti-LGBTQ+ Extremists Target Youth and Families

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    FOR RELEASE: TUESDAY, OCTOBER 25, 2022
    Media Contact: Erika Ramirez Lee, [email protected], (619) 297-7683

    Right now, right here in San Diego LGBTQ+ youth, families, drag queens, organizations,
    educators, schools, small businesses, and events are coming under attack by anti-LGBTQ+
    extremists.

    In California, LGBTQ+ youth are legally protected from discrimination. These legal and civil rights
    are part of the foundation of ensuring Californians are safe, but we’re seeing – and our youth
    and communities are experiencing – an ongoing escalation of cyberbullying, hate speech,
    threats, and harassment against LGBTQ+ youth and the adults that support them. Recently, this
    spike in harassment and threats has targeted local schools, school districts, libraries, drag
    performers, small businesses, individual educators, parents, and even LGBTQ+ youth
    themselves.^


    Student clubs like GSAs and Rainbow Groups have been targeted in school districts like
    Carlsbad, San Diego Unified, and Vista. Age-appropriate books that include and celebrate
    LGBTQ+ people have been challenged and called to be banned in Solana Beach and Poway
    school district libraries. Public libraries in the San Diego region and across the nation are also
    experiencing an increasing number of challenges to materials. Small businesses in Hillcrest and
    Chula Vista have been harassed and cyberbullied for having LGBTQ+ owners and holding
    LGBTQ+-inclusive events. Classroom teachers that incorporate LGBTQ+-inclusive books and
    content into their curriculum have been met with hostility and intimidation. Individual
    educators and administrators have been targeted for following the law and supporting
    transgender youth in their schools throughout the County. Drag performers are being harassed
    and threatened for reading children’s books and performing Disney-themed shows. School
    board meetings have become toxic spaces with vile, hateful speech from adults about LGBTQ+
    people, often while LGBTQ+ youth are in the room waiting for their own chance to speak. Staff
    at youth-serving organizations have received threats of violence. Healthcare providers have
    been harassed and cyberbullied for simply providing medically necessary, life-saving care to
    transgender people.


    This is not new. This is not acceptable. This is not a locally grown phenomenon.


    This is the same tired hateful rhetoric that has been used against the LGBTQ+ community for
    decades, and it’s being weaponized by coordinated campaigns from national extremist
    organizations. National organizations such as the Heritage Foundation are preying upon parents’
    very real fears for their children’s safety to plant seeds of hate, bigotry, and discrimination.


    Groups like these regularly seek out “wedge” issues with which they can drive communities
    apart. These are the same groups that are targeting the strawman of “critical race theory” in
    schools, and challenging books and curriculum that teaches the truth about the Holocaust and
    the genocide of indigenous people. Antisemitism, nationalism, xenophobia, sexism, white supremacy, anti-Blackness, and racism go hand in hand with this recent wave of homophobia
    and transphobia. We stand united because we are fighting the same fight.


    These threats and rhetoric have a real impact, not only on the direct targets of their hate but on
    LGBTQ+ youth as a whole. The Trevor Project and GLSEN monitor the mental health and school
    climate for LGBTQ+ youth, and both organizations have found concerns about increases in the
    well-being of our youth in their recent reports. GLSEN reported that homophobic and negative
    remarks about gender expression from teachers and school staff increased from 2019 to 2021.
    The Trevor Project reported that 45% of LGBTQ+ youth seriously considered attempting suicide
    in the past year.


    In San Diego, our regional LGBTQ+ youth-serving organizations came together to collaborate
    and work together in 2015, after a rash of LGBTQ+ teen suicides swept the County. The Youth
    Services & Advocacy Committee is committed to supporting LGBTQ+ youth in order to keep
    them safe – and alive. But we can’t do this alone.


    We call on all San Diegans that truly care about the safety and well-being of all of our youth and
    all of our neighbors to:
    ● Challenge anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric at your school board, library, on your social media feeds,
    and at your dinner table.
    ● Hold local and national media accountable for their role in perpetuating this dangerous
    and toxic rhetoric by anti-LGBTQ+ extremists.
    ● Support your local LGBTQ+ youth-serving organizations and LGBTQ+-owned and
    -supportive small businesses.
    Know your rights as a parent, student, and educator
    ● Know and demand that your school implement the LGBTQ+ Youth Standards of Care



    ^ SEE ALSO: Press Release: Adults Bully School Boards & Target Kids in Anti-LGBTQ+ Culture War
    (North County LGBTQ Resource Center, 10/19/22)



    JOINT STATEMENT FROM:
    The full list of 36 organizations and institutions and 14 elected/appointed officials joining this
    statement can be found below.

    SIGNED BY:

    ORGANIZATIONS AND INSTITUTIONS:
    ● ADL San Diego
    ● Art of Pride
    ● Center for Community Solutions
    ● Diversionary Theatre
    ● Equality California
    ● FilmOut San Diego
    ● Free to Thrive
    ● GLSEN San Diego
    ● Jewish Family Service of San Diego
    ● Lambda Archives of San Diego
    ● Lambda Rising Soccer

    ● Lawyers Club of San Diego
    ● LGBTQ+ Employee Alliance, City of
    San Diego
    ● Metropolitan Community Church of
    San Diego
    ● North County LGBTQ Resource
    Center
    ● PFLAG San Diego County
    ● Planned Parenthood of the Pacific
    Southwest
    ● POZabilities
    ● Queer Asian Social Club
    ● Rainbow Spaces
    ● San Diego API Coalition
    ● San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    ● San Diego Community Birth Center

    ● San Diego County Bar Association
    ● San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus
    ● San Diego Pride
    ● San Diego Pride Military Department
    ● San Diego Pride Youth

    ● San Diego Public Library
    ● San Diego QAPIMEDA (Queer Asian
    Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi)
    Coalition
    ● San Diego Women’s Chorus
    ● She Fest
    ● St. Paul’s Cathedral (Episcopal)
    ● Stepping Stone San Diego
    ● Sum of Us Festival
    ● The San Diego LGBT Community
    Center
    ● Tom Homann LGBTQ+ Law
    Association
    ● TransFamily Support Services
    ● Volunteer with Cheli

    ELECTED AND APPOINTED OFFICIALS:
    ● Congressman Scott Peters, District 52
    ● Assemblymember Christopher M. Ward, Assembly District 78
    ● San Diego County Supervisor, Chair Nathan Fletcher, District 4
    ● San Diego County Supervisor Terra Lawson-Remer, District 3
    ● City Attorney Mara W. Elliott
    ● City of San Diego District 2 Councilmember Jennifer Campbell
    ● City of San Diego District 3 Councilmember Stephen Whitburn
    ● City of San Diego District 5 Councilmember Marni von Wilpert
    ● City of San Diego District 7 Councilmember Raul Campillo
    ● City of San Diego Council President Sean Elo-Rivera, District 9
    ● Chula Vista Councilmember and Coastal Commissioner Stephen C. Padilla
    ● San Diego County Human Relations Commissioner Alex C. Villafuerte
    ● City of San Diego Human Relations Commissioner Kathie Moehlig
    ● City of San Diego Citizen’s Equal Opportunity Commissioner Susan Jester


  86. Alert: Anti-LGBTQ Threats

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    Our community needs to be on alert and our allies need to step up. Right now, right here in San Diego, LGBTQ youth, families, drag queens, our organizations, and events are coming under attack by anti-LGBTQ extremists. The way these conversations play out in the media, social media, classrooms, and school board meetings can not only impact the physical and mental health of our LGBTQ community and youth, but it puts our lives at risk. 

    Local schools, school districts, libraries, small businesses, as well as individual educators, parents, and drag queens have been subjected to cyberbullying, threats, and harassment that is part of a larger, nationally coordinated effort to attack our community. This anti-LGBTQ rhetoric escalates during an election cycle to stoke fear and drive anti-LGBTQ voter turnout while draining LGBTQ community time and resources. These are the same tired and hateful attacks that our community has been subjected to repeatedly throughout US history, and the harm they can cause is just as real as it has ever been.

    The laws in the state of California protect our community, but they need to be enforced. Our parents and educators need to understand these laws and be supported by their school administration and school boards. 

    Our regional media needs to do a better job of understanding the depth of these issues, report on them accurately, and stop centering the narrative on anti-LGBTQ bigots who are seeking to harm our community and our youth. John Oliver did a wonderful job of outlining the national attacks on trans youth and what’s at stake.

    In 2015, a rash of LGBTQ teen suicides in San Diego hit the media, and our regional LGBTQ youth-serving organizations realized we needed to work more collaboratively. The LGBTQ Youth Services & Advocacy Committee was formed under The Center’s Community Leadership Council, and we’ve been meeting monthly ever since. The group is currently working on addressing these issues jointly while centering and uplifting the individual work and needs of each region and unique situation. Keep an eye out for more calls to action in the coming weeks.

    Here are some steps you can take right now:

    Today is Spirit Day. When Gilbert Baker designed the first Pride flag in 1978, he was intentional about the meaning behind each color. Purple symbolizes the spirit. In 2010, a surge of reported LGBTQ teen suicides related to anti-LGBTQ bullying inspired then-teenager Brittany McMillian to start Spirit Day. People everywhere are encouraged to wear purple on the third Thursday of October to show support for LGBTQ youth and demand an end to bullying during National Bullying Prevention Month.

    Ending LGBTQ bullying and suicide is no small task. Each of us is responsible for ending the cycle of bullying and suicide. Each of us can confront bullies in our daily lives. Our legal protections, our future, and our youth require our active efforts to ensure their safety. It’s our job to stand on the front lines for youth today, so they may grow up, live full and healthy lives, and together we can pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

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  87. Your Choice!

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    The Dobbs Supreme Court decision ending Roe v Wade was an outrageous attack on basic human rights and the unweaving of the American freedoms enumerated through the Reconstruction Amendments. Abortion is healthcare. Choice is a right. Reproductive justice is LGBTQ justice. Our fights are inexorably connected. States across the country now threaten to imprison anyone seeking an abortion or providing health care.

    Across our country, we are seeing violent attacks against the LGBTQ community, the murder of our trans siblings, and anti-LGBTQ legislation all on the rise. As courts and legislatures target our community, some legislation has proposed jail time for our community with laws that would separate children from their parents and put them in prison. Our country has gotten all too comfortable with this practice, which is why California is joining 18 other states in offering legal refugee to trans youth and the families displaced by criminalization.

    It is absolutely unjust for the right to bodily autonomy to vary depending on the state you live in, who you are, or who you love. Reproductive justice must be applicable to all people, regardless of state lines. LGBTQ Americans must be allowed to exist freely and fairly without regard to where we live, work, or travel. It is beyond enraging to think anyone is being threatened with prison for seeking life-saving health care, but these are the extremist White Nationalist values that we are fighting.

    California is set to again lead this fight, as our own out and proud Senate President pro tempore, Toni Atkins, along with our governor, and a coalition of legislators and providers have championed Prop 1 that will protect our right to choose. If passed, Prop 1 will amend our California Constitution to expressly include our fundamental individual right to have an abortion, and our choice to use or refuse contraceptives.

    There is no reproductive justice without LGBTQ justice. There is no LGBTQ justice without reproductive justice. For these reasons, San Diego Pride is taking an official position and asking you all to vote Yes on Prop 1.

     You can help us in this fight:

    This election cycle we have seen how extremists are again using lies and fear tactics around LGBTQ people and reproductive choice to drive voter turnout from those who seek to harm us. Let’s show them that we aren’t going down without a fight. Our movements are connected. We must show up for each other in our moments of celebration and moments of need. That is how we pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

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  88. Making History

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    In my office hangs a copy of the oldest known San Diego Pride budget. We had a deficit of one dollar. 90% of our income came from button sales. The year was 1975, the first year to have a permitted Pride Parade, but not the first year of Pride in San Diego. I love having that piece of history hanging next to me as I work every day. It reminds me of the legacy gifted to us by the pioneers of our movement – those early struggles and successes of our community as it fought legal oppression, societal norms, and too often internally.

    In 1970, students at SDSU, including architect of our regional movement Jess Jessop, founded the San Diego Chapter of the Gay Liberation Front and held early protests and “Gay-Ins” in solidarity with the national GLF movement, which conducted and coordinated solidarity events with first annual “Christopher Street Liberation Day March.”

    San Diego “Gay-Ins” led by the GLF continued in 1971 and 73, but in 1972 regional LGBTQ activists and organizers saw the opportunity to do something more than a day in the park. The GLF of San Diego and over 20 other regional emerging LGBTQ organizations joined forces to produce the San Diego Southwestern Gay Conference, a time to coordinate and strategize.

    Our regional organizations began to become more sophisticated. Jess Jessop and many in the GLF shifted their focus to establish the Gay Information Center hotline in 1973, which grew into our region’s LGBTQ Community Center. In 1974, the then-named Center for Social Services Center held a Stonewall Anniversary yard sale and potluck to raise funds for the growing LGBTQ Center. There are conflicting oral accounts of an impromptu unpermitted march that some credit as the first San Diego Pride where folks walked along the sidewalk. The conflicting accounts of the size of the marches might be because in 1974 there was a large and documented protest march against SDPD and May Company over their sting operations targeting gay men.

    I find it important to honor that our movement did not yet have shared language to call these events “Pride” and that Stonewall anniversary events, Gay-ins, conferences, and marches were happening in San Diego before our first permitted Pride Parade in 1975 or nonprofit status in the 90s.

    In 1981, the first national list of Pride organizers was created by San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore, and in 1982 a small Pride conference was conducted in Boston, followed in 1983 by a slightly larger Pride Coordinators National Conference held here in San Diego. This was the beginning of what would become InterPride, the international Pride membership body, and annual global conference.

    Ad hoc committees would come together each year to produce Pride Parades and Rallies that eventually added a festival. In 1989, Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, and others in our community decided to take Pride in a more professional direction and San Diego Pride became the first Pride in the world to hire an Executive Director, Tim Williams. Together, after five years, they helped us become our own nonprofit in 1994, a year that marked the beginning of the Parade route and Festival location most people will find familiar.

    Today, San Diego Pride is the most philanthropic Pride organization in the world, with robust year-round education and advocacy programs predominantly led by community volunteer leaders and supported by our volunteer board of directors and paid staff. Our organization and movement weren’t built by one person, one group, one nonprofit, or one leader. We have been manifested through the intentional will and labor of countless people across generations. Even now, our leadership is comprised of people in their teens, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and 80s. As I reflect on October being LGBTQ history month, my heart and gratitude to all those who carried us here and each of you who are taking us forward. Together we’ve made history, we are building our future, and we are pursuing Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López

    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs

    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

    P.S. Join us next Wednesday for an open house showcasing San Diego Pride’s year-round programs where you can learn more about them, and how to get involved and invest in our future.

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  89. Pride Gives Back!

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    In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that, in addition to supporting our own events and programs, could turn a profit to be returned to our community. We began giving out grants in 1994 and have since become one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world; we have given out over $3 million to LGBTQ-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally.

    COVID-19 and the temporary loss of in-person events devastated our ability to generate revenue from the annual Parade and Festival. Our volunteer-led model and solid financial planning gave us stability, allowed our programs to continue, and this year we were able to return to a full-scale Pride! Not only did you all return in record numbers to celebrate, we’re happy to announce that our community grant program is back and open for applications!

    I truly can’t thank you all enough for investing in our organization, making donations, helping us find sponsors and grants, attending our events, and volunteering your time. By supporting San Diego Pride’s tentpole events and year-round programming you are ensuring we build capacity for our community and movement here at home and around the world. Our stability is here thanks to all of you and the foundational work and vision of folks like Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Tim Williams, Larry Baza, Vertez Burks, Joseph Mayer, and so many more who wanted to ensure Pride was even more than an inspiring celebration, that together we can invest in our community’s ability to pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride


    P.S. You can support San Diego Pride’s year-round work by becoming a monthly sustaining donor. Learn more about our Ambassador of Pride program here.

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  90. Remember

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    I remember being teased for being gay when I was only in the 3rd grade. The words thrown at me from other kids telling me that the only future I had in front of me was one in which I contracted HIV, died of AIDS, and burned in hell for all eternity. That was over 30 years ago, and even today with better science, education, treatment, and prevention methods — we are all still combating those ignorant messages.

    Some of the early public health mistakes and delays in MPX communication, reporting, vaccine production, and distribution have felt all too reminiscent of early crimes against the LGBTQ community in the early days of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. This led to justified collective rage, confusion, frustration, and fear, as we were handed yet another virus to battle.

    Combating the HIV/AIDS virus for so many decades has instilled in us important public health lessons and a sense of collective responsibility that helped our community fight COVID-19 and MPX. LGBTQ people took to COVID vaccine at higher rates than non-LGBTQ people. With remarkable speed and ahead of official public health information being distributed, our LGBTQ community’s global network of advocates, activists, and sex workers used online tools to educate themselves about MPX and used their social media presence to educate one another without stigma.

    Our fight to stop the spread of the HIV virus and find a cure isn’t over, but decades of work and research have brought us better tools for testing, treatment, education, and prevention. You too can be a part of these efforts by participating in the largest fundraiser for HIV/AIDS-related work in the region: AIDS Walk San Diego produced by our partners at The Center. I hope to see you there! 

    My heart and life are indebted to those brave enough to fight, to walk, and to share their personal stories in service of public education. Together we can unchain ourselves from fear and shame. HIV/AIDS impacts all of us whether we realize it or not, but we are not solely defined by it. We walk to remember those we lost. We walk to end AIDS and new HIV infections. We walk to end stigma so that together we can walk freely towards Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  91. Vote & Volunteer with Pride!

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    Election Day will be here before you know it and signs are pointing to a record turnout! People all across the country realize what’s at stake in this election cycle and are getting involved in the movement. LGBTQ rights, abortion access, voting rights, environmental health, and so much more are on the line. Democracy is on the line.

    It is a record year for anti-LGBTQ legislation, most of it targeting our trans siblings. A federal judge in Texas just ruled that HIV prevention medication violates religious freedom. A school board in Florida just voted against recognizing LGBTQ History Month. Earlier this year when the Supreme Court ended the protections of Roe v Wade, Justice Thomas wrote in his concurring opinion that contraception, marriage equality, and criminalization of the LGBTQ community were topics that should be up for debate. 

    Our community has no doubt that every election matters. Our vote on every single elected office and issue from the top to the bottom of the ballot is vital and necessary. If we want the values of our community to be reflected in the policies that impact our lives, then we must commit ourselves to engage in the voting process. 

    If we as a community want to leave a legacy of progress for our next generation, we must educate ourselves on the issues, register to vote, volunteer our time to remind others to vote, mail in our ballots, show up to the polls, and take pride in voting. You can do all of that with your San Diego Pride family by finding election-related information on our website and signing up to join us in our nonpartisan LGBTQ voter engagement efforts this year. We’d love to have you join us in an LGBTQ-supportive space as we help our community participate in the democratic process! It’s how together we can pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. You can help our year-round community engagement and voter turnout efforts by becoming a monthly supporter of San Diego Pride

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  92. Our Latin Pride!

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    Just last year we lost a pillar in our community, Larry T. Baza. Larry first joined our board in 1990 and in 1992 became our organization’s first Latino co-chair. Alongside his counterpart, co-chair, Vertez Burks, it was the first time people of color led San Diego Pride. 

    One of the big changes Larry helped to bring was greater attention to diversity and inclusion, particularly around the arts. Soon a new multicultural stage was added to the Festival’s footprint, which by 2006 would become two distinct stages now called The Movement, which highlights Black music and culture, and Mundo Latino, which showcases the vibrancy of our region’s diverse Latinx community. This year, we’ve added the Pan-Asian Night Market centered on our Queen Asian, Pacific Islander, Middle Easter, and Desi American community.

    In the aftermath of the Pulse Massacre, our Latinx community wanted to create more intentional space and programming for one another. Having seen the success of the newly formed San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition which started in 2015, many of us started talking about creating something similar. Through an effort led by Nicole Murray-Ramirez, Carolina Ramos, Nick Serrano, and myself we began the San Diego County LGBTQ Latine Coalition in mid-2017 as we held a public forum to talk about what the future might look like for us.

    Since that time the coalition has fostered binational relationships, worked to get out the vote, held educational forums, educated around safer sex practices, expanded outreach efforts to the LGBTQ Latine community around the region, and raised funds and held clothing drives to support Casa Arcoiris Albergue, a shelter in Tijuana for LGBTI+ migrants seeking asylum.

    At our Festival, the Latine Coalition ensures the Mundo Latino area’s Latin Pride zone is built out with additional LGBTQ-Latine owned, led, or competent direct service and care, social groups, businesses, and delicious food! In 2021, when we weren’t yet able to have a Festival, the Latine Coalition hosted our first-ever Latin Pride event in Barrio Logan during Pride week at Mujeres Brew. Pride in Barrio Logan was such a hit, we did it again this year in addition to building out the main Festival! For those of us whose lives exist at the intersection of being Latin and LGBTQ, having this intentional space is so empowering, I think it’s here to stay.

    I share all of this as we are just about to enter Latin Heritage month. You can support the Latinx Coalition by donating to their program, signing up for their e-mailing list, joining their Facebook Group, or following them on Instagram. We are also always looking for more volunteers and folks interested in leadership within the coalition as we continue to build out this program whose mission is to strengthen the educational, health, cultural, civic, political, and economic power of our LGBTQ Latine community. If you’re interested in doing more you can connect with our Bilingual Community Outreach Coordinator, Cris Sotomayor. As Pride’s first Latinx executive director, this program has a special place in my heart. Thank you for taking a moment to learn a little about our Latin history and programming. Your continued support will help pursue Justice with Joy.

    Con Orgullo (With Pride),
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  93. LGBTQ Student Debt

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    The difficulties we face as LGBTQ people start early in life. As young people, we might be met with discrimination and bias from our friends, family, faculty at school, and institutions of faith. These challenges can mean higher rates of absenteeism and diminished educational outcomes that can play out across a lifetime. We face these difficulties and higher rates of homelessness if we have unsupportive guardians or unemployment when met with unsupportive employers. All of these factors mean that far too many LGBTQ young people who hope to pursue higher education are starting off with compounding disadvantages including taking on a disproportionate amount of debt.

    A 2021 study by William’s Institute and the Point Foundation showed that “more than a third (35.4%) of LGBTQ adults ages 18 to 40, an estimated 2.9 million adults, are holding more than $93.2 billion in federal student loans.” The same study demonstrated that LGBTQ adults are 37% more likely to have federal student debt than non-LGBTQ adults, and transgender adults are 61% more likely to hold this debt than cisgender LGBQ adults. For these reasons and more Biden’s debt relief plan is an LGBTQ equity issue.

    To support our youth and generations to come, LGBTQ inclusive curriculum, public policy, and even pop culture have huge roles to play in ending systemic, societal, and structural barriers in education and improving lived outcomes. You also have a role to play. Whether that’s being a supportive guardian or education, connecting LGBTQ youth to supportive programming, or donating to programs that support our youth

    Personally, each year I work to raise funds for The Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund, one of the first scholarship funds to focus on trans students. 

    However we chose to embrace the much-needed equity work for our LGBTQ community, we must remain focused and clear-eyed. Equity requires investment, whether public or personal. We can be grateful for the equity work being done and still know there is much further to go. Today, I am grateful to know that so many LGBTQ people are being supported, and it gives me hope that together we can continue working towards progress and Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  94. Press Release – SAN DIEGO PRIDE AWARDED CALIFORNIA ARTS COUNCIL “ART OF PRIDE” GRANT

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    SAN DIEGO, CA (August 24, 2022) – Art of Pride, a program of San Diego Pride, was featured as part of a larger announcement from the California Arts Council, with grant awards for its Cycle A programming totaling more than $31 million across more than 1,100 grants supporting nonprofit organizations and units of government throughout the state. With support from the California Arts Council, San Diego Pride will build out its Art of Pride program and develop its biannual Art of Pride exhibits and Youth Art Show, which will include a mobile scavenger hunt! 

    “We are elated today to be able to say that, with this first round of funds, we are placing a historic amount of money into the very worthy hands of California’s arts and cultural workforce—and with more yet to come,” said California Arts Council Chair Lilia Gonzáles-Chávez. “We have long since understood the value of our artists in this state, and we are incredibly grateful to our Governor and our Legislature for their support and sharing in a like-minded vision for a California where all people flourish with access to and participation in the arts.”

    Organizations were awarded grants across seven different program areas within Cycle A, focused on the CAC’s efforts to address geographic equity, enable autonomy and sustainability for smaller organizations, and grow the strength of local arts agencies and their partnerships.

    “With funding from the California Arts Council, Art of Pride will be welcoming two exhibits that will create a space where diverse LGBTQ+ artists, poets, painters, photographers, and sculptors can share their craft with the community,” said Art of Pride Staff liaison, Nicole Verdés. “Our community-centered approach to programming and planning invites our local LGBTQ+ community to participate in our arts programming–not simply in a singular exhibit, but as part of a sustained community-focused collaboration. We’re thrilled to have the support of the California Arts Council as we continue to grow the Art of Pride program!”

    To view a complete listing of all California Arts Council grantees by county, visit this link. For a complete listing of grantees by organization, go to this link.

    Founded in 1974, San Diego Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. Learn more about Pride week events at SDPride.org.

  95. Save Our Children

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    During McCarthyism and the Lavender Scare, the Briggs Initiative, Prop 8, and right now with record numbers of anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation popping up around the country, we are hearing the same tired, dangerous lies and misinformation being told about us as our community is again used as a political wedge. Can you tell it’s an election year? 

    Coupled with these political attacks are always messages meant to spin a false narrative about us and put us in harm’s way. “Save our children” or the newer “Ok, groomer,” they will say, and in turn violence increases

    The reality is many of these new political attacks target LGBTQ youth putting them at risk of violence and negatively impacting their mental health. While we live in California, the other hard reality too many often forget is that even here, LGBTQ youth are still born into unsupportive families which, as many of us know, can lead to trauma, lack of financial support, homelessness, and lower educational outcomes that all have long-lasting impacts across our lives.

    So, how do we help here in San Diego?

    Policy & Practices: As educators, administrators, guardians, and youth head back to school, I highly recommend using our LGBTQ+ Youth Standards of Care as a road map. It contains essential benchmarks and links to external resources to help us best serve our LGBTQ students.

    LGBTQ Youth Connection: Even one supportive adult can save an LGBTQ young person’s life. At Pride, we have daily, weekly, and monthly programs in-person and virtually for LGBTQ youth. Our youth-led curriculum includes art, music, advocacy, and more in a fun and friendly environment. You can take a look at all of our programs and find links to our other LGBTQ youth-serving partner organizations here.

    Capacity Building: This is the 10-year anniversary of the start of our Pride Youth Leadership Academy where junior high through high school-aged LGBTQ youth come to learn about their rights, resources, and leadership skills so they can be their own best advocate in their schools and communities. Over the last few years, we added a track for adults who may be parents, guardians, educators, and administrators and a track for transitional age youth (18-24). 

    Youth Leadership Academy is probably my favorite day of the year because while our youth are learning, they are also making new friendships and found family connections. There’s so much queer joy that day and at any of our youth programs. We have to break the cycle of LGBTQ youth being severed from the history, laws, and legacy we have all fought for. We must be intentional about how we connect our intergenerational movement to our youth, so we learn from them and respond to the new and emerging challenges they face. This is how our community and movement will continue to pursue Justice with Joy.

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  96. Not Again

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    There is still a lot of justified collective rage, confusion, frustration, and fear, as we are handed yet another virus to battle. We are hearing from so many people who are afraid to leave their house, afraid to meet up with friends, afraid to hug, afraid to support LGBTQ-owned businesses, afraid of being outed at work, and afraid of the escalating anti-LGBTQ rhetoric that can lead to violence.

    We are also hearing about the challenges people face accessing testing, treatment, and vaccines. The reality is we don’t yet have enough vaccines in this country to fully protect those who are most at risk, queer men and their sexual networks. It could be at least a year before we have access to enough vaccines to meet the current need, and that’s if things don’t get further out of hand.

    How can we reduce fear and stop or slow the spread of Monkeypox without vaccines? Educating ourselves and each other with facts and making conscience choices to mitigate risks. Thankfully organizations like The San Diego LGBTQ Community Center and Equality California have created some helpful web pages with information. County of San Diego Health and Human Services is also hosting a Virtual Monkeypox Townhall today, Thursday, August 11 from 6-7 pm.

    Monkeypox can be spread through:

    • Direct contact with the infectious rash, lesions, or scabs
    • Sexual/intimate contact
    • Sharing towels, bedding, or unwashed clothing
    • Respiratory secretions through prolonged face-to-face interactions

    Additionally, queer men and our sexual networks can lower the number of sexual partners and increase the period between sexual partners to help slow the spread by giving time to assess if symptoms arise. The incubation period (time from infection to symptoms) is usually 7-14 days but can range from 5-21 days. Our sexual partners deserve open and honest conversations about our sexual health, and that is only possible if we are educating ourselves and self-aware of our bodies.

    Monkeypox isn’t the death sentence HIV/AIDS was in the 1980s. Monkeypox isn’t as transmissible as COVID-19. While the science is working to catch up with the new Monkeypox outbreaks, public education is struggling to catch up with the science. Our country is working to ramp up vaccine availability after the previous administration allowed over 20 Million doses to expire. There is much to do.

    Preventing stigma starts with us. Compassion for our community needs to begin from within our community. It’s been inspiring to see so many LGBTQ advocates, activists, and sex workers meet the moment with authentic communication on social media about Monkeypox from our community to our community. We know how to take care of each other. Even when things are new and scary, we know how to pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Hope and Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  97. What’s the Plan?

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    In my office hangs a copy of the oldest known San Diego Pride budget. We had a deficit of one dollar. 90% of our income came from button sales. The year was 1975, the first year to have a permitted Pride Parade, but not the first year of Pride in San Diego. I love having that piece of history hanging next to me as I work every day. It reminds me of the legacy gifted to us by the pioneers of our movement – those early struggles and successes of our community as it fought legal oppression, societal norms, and too often internally.

    Ad hoc committees would come together each year to produce Pride Parades and Rallies that eventually added a festival. In 1989, Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, and others in our community decided to take Pride in a more professional direction and San Diego Pride became the first Pride in the world to hire an Executive Director, Tim Williams. Together they helped us become our own nonprofit in 1994, a year that marked the beginning of the Parade route and Festival location most people will find familiar.

    In 2011 San Diego Pride hired our first Black Executive Director, Dwayne Crenshaw. The board, ED, and staff at the time shared a vision of utilizing the power of Pride’s visibility, economic strength, and volunteer base to turn the organization into a year-round education and advocacy organization. In 2016 the board and staff redoubled that commitment by creating a strategic plan that would guide our expansion and service to the community. In just the last 11 years we’ve quintupled the size of our staff, budget, and festival attendance. We’ve become the most philanthropic Pride in the world and have over 40 year-round programs with local, national, and international reach.

    What’s next?

    Throughout this year we have been soliciting feedback from community members, event attendees, volunteers, programs, nonprofit community partners, entertainers, sponsors, elected officials, government agencies, and anyone connected to the organization. We want to hear from you. If you haven’t yet completed our 2022 Strategic Plan Survey please do so before you go to sleep this Sunday, August 7, 2022. Over the next few months, we’ll evaluate all the feedback and data we’ve collected from the last year to help us map out the road ahead. It is truly an honor to be a small part of the continuum of this movement and organization and serve alongside so many driven and dedicated people. When I joined Pride over 11 years ago I couldn’t have imagined all that we would become, and I’m excited to envision who we will become in the future as we pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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    Public Health Notice

    Recent outbreaks of viral monkeypox disease require our community’s attention. Learn more about the signs, symptoms, prevention, and treatment here.

    Printable flyers are available in the link above so you can help educate our community.

    San Diego County now has a text update system to provide you with the latest Monkeypox information including vaccine availability.

    Sign up by texting “COSD MONKEYPOX” to 468-311.

  98. Monkeypox. Let’s Talk.

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    Ok. Let’s be frank. Our community did not need this right now. Our collective rage, confusion, frustration, and fear as we are handed yet another disease to battle is valid. Can we catch a break?! Some of the early mistakes in Monkeypox communication, reporting, vaccine production, and distribution have felt all too reminiscent of early crimes against our community in the early days of the HIV/AIDS pandemic. We all have so many questions and concerns. How do we address this public health issue with compassion and care in a sea of diverse opinions on what this is and how we even talk about it? We don’t live in a binary world, so I don’t know that there is one answer. I’m also not claiming to know all the answers. I too have questions.

    Something I know to be clear is ahead of official public health information being distributed, our community’s global network of LGBTQ advocates, activists, and sex workers used online tools and their social media presence to educate one another allowing for information to travel faster and to the people who needed the information the most than ever before. 

    I also know that our allies and LGBTQ leadership in elected and appointed positions are fighting for us right now to get us on the right path to stopping the spread of the virus. In California Sen. Scott Wiener has called for a Monkeypox State of Emergency which would allow greater flexibility around testing, services, and vaccination. 

    Still, some of the outgoing communications have been misleading and problematic. A post on the San Diego County news site the week of San Diego Pride mistakenly stated that people who participate in “Pride festivities” were at risk. Many of us are rightfully enraged at the unneeded confusion, stigma, shame, and fear the media fallout caused. Transparently, ticket sales to the Pride Festival dropped 50% that day after a 20% increase trend and didn’t fully recover to even be flat with 2019. It caused so much confusion volunteers backed out of shifts, attendees didn’t come, and even cisgender heterosexual women were calling for vaccine appointments.

    The truth is, Monkeypox is not purely an STI. How we message to the general public matters. The truth also is, 98% of the cases in a recent comprehensive study were documented in men who have sex with men, and that 95% of those transmissions documented occurred during sexual relations. Of these cases, the median number of sex partners in the last three months was five. It was not simply “Pride Festivities” where this virus spread. The data are showing that much of the spread occurred during raves, circuit parties, sex parties, and bath houses; and yes many of these happened during Pride weekends. These are all part of queer community and culture. Inside our community, we understand our own diversity. We know the difference between a Pride Parade and a circuit party that happens during Pride, and we celebrate both. 

    Sexual liberation is at the core of our movement and we can fight this public health issue in a way that is sex positive. Shame, fear, and stigma did not help us in the battle against HIV and they will not help us now. Testing, treatment, education, and most importantly vaccinations will.

    At a moment in our movement where over one in eight LGBTQ people live in states where they can be denied medical treatment and legislators around the country are looking to recriminalize LGBTQ intimacy, the ways we meet each other with compassion, care, education, and the right tools to battle this new virus are more important than ever.

    I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I know our community understands how to tend to one another, educate one another, and take public health matters seriously. That is the legacy of generations of LGBTQ activists, advocates, and allies who carried us through decades of systemic oppression. I am deeply grateful for the current compassionate and intentional collaboration efforts being done to support and center those most impacted by the Monkeypox virus. Our community is clearly ready to protect themselves and take the vaccine. It is imperative that we work together quickly, thoughtfully, and decisively if we hope to meet the needs of the moment and stop the virus in its tracks so that rather than living in fear, we can pursue Justice with Joy.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: they/them/theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Prevention (CDPH): 

    • Always talk to your sexual partner/s about any recent illness and be aware of new or unexplained sores or rashes on your body or your partner’s body, including on the genitals and anus 
    • Avoiding close contact, including sex, with people with symptoms like sores or rashes 
    • Practicing good hand hygiene
    • People who become infected should isolate until their symptoms are improving or have gone away completely.  Rash should always be well covered until completely healed.
    • Using appropriate personal protective equipment (PPE) (like a mask, gown, and gloves) when caring for others with symptoms 
    • Avoiding contact with infected materials contaminated with the virus 
    • Avoiding contact with infected animals 

    Symptoms (San Diego County Health):

    • Fever
    • Headache
    • Muscle aches and backache
    • Swollen lymph nodes
    • Chills
    • Exhaustion
    • A rash that can look like pimples or blisters that appears on the face, inside the mouth, and on other parts of the body, like the hands, feet, chest, genitals, or anus.

    More info:

  99. Thank you!

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    San Diego Pride Festival stage at night with rainbow lighting

    Wow! San Diego Pride was a homecoming brimming with emotion. Our LGBTQ community and allies worked together for over a year in what felt like the largest and most celebratory family reunion you could imagine. 

    The energy across all of our events was kinetic from start to finish. Beautifully diverse crowds of people from over 1,400 cities around the world filled San Diego with love and celebration. 

    I couldn’t be more proud of every staff member, volunteer, community partner, artist, and entertainer who made this epic return possible. 

    I have heard countless stories of people’s first Prides, more than ever before as so many had been held back for 3 years! I watched as people sobbed with relief and joy as the full impact and significance of our return struck them, struck me. I’m sure we all have transcendent moments of Pride we could share. Honoring those we’ve lost in the last two years and carrying their memory with us. Coming out for the first time. Finding love. Feeling safe. Feeling seen. Simply sharing space.

    We don’t have Pride because we are free. We have Pride because we are not. 

    This Pride we were reminded that our celebration is justice, our joy is defiance, our love is insubordinate, and our revelry is a revolution.

    That is why we have Pride.

    This weekend our joy felt like justice as together we pursued Justice with Joy.

    Thank you.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López

  100. Join Give OUT Day!

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    Your Pride, our Pride, here in San Diego is truly something special. Not only are we a massive beautiful celebration and protest of LGBTQ art, culture, issues, and resources, but support for those events is what also helps to fund our ever-growing year-round programs. Nearly every single event and program we produce for Pride season and all year long are free and open to the public. Even our Festival is free for youth, seniors, and those most in need. The work, however, requires financial investment. 

    When COVID-19 took away our organization’s main source of income I have to admit that I was terrified at first, but our community quickly showed that they had our back. It’s been inspiring to watch the number of people who donate to Pride grow over the last two years. Because of you, we have been able to sustain and grow our programs and reach more LGBTQ community members than ever before.

    This year we’re again joining Give OUT Day, a national call to action to support LGBTQ nonprofits like San Diego Pride. Our goal today is to raise $56,000!

    You can help!

    • You can donate and thanks to one of our sponsors, Tito’s Handmade Vodka, they’ll match every dollar up to $5,000 – so every dollar you give is DOUBLED up to $5,000! 
    • You can share the word about Pride’s Give OUT Day campaign today, that same social media took kit is there to help!

    Our Pride has grown, expanded, and diversified over the past several years thanks to the hard legacy-building work of our Stonewall generation and current intergenerational community volunteers donating time every day. I hope you will join us this Give OUT Day by sustaining that work and our programs with a donation. Every dollar helps us continue serving our community as we create Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  101. The Spirit of Stonewall

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    Is Pride about justice or joy? There is an ongoing debate about what Pride events and organizations should be and stand for, as they are intended to commemorate the Stonewall Riots of 1969. For some, it is only a protest. “No justice, no Pride.” For others, it is the only safe outlet for joy, the free expression of love, and identity. “Pride needs to stop being so political.” I believe we have and can embody both. We are the intersection of art and advocacy, justice and joy. 

    Held in San Diego since 1975, the Spirit of Stonewall Rally is where justice takes center stage. It is a time to recognize and honor leaders who are working hard to preserve our gains and meet the many challenges still facing our community. It is a time for us to honor our origins, celebrate those who are leading the way, and call our community to action around some of our movement’s most pressing issues.

    This year, trans activists, entertainers, and icons Amber St James and Deja Re will be our MCs as we call attention to the rising attacks on our community, highlighting that our Community Grand Marshals will be transgender youth who will lead off our Parade. 

    Also speaking from our stage will be author and activist Jenn Budd addressing immigration justice as an LGBTQ issue, environmental researcher and advocate Kevin Lee will speak on environmental justice as an LGBTQ issue, and advocate and journalist Andrew Bowen will speak about the war on the free press as an LGBTQ issue. 

    Our Keynote Speaker is none other than Reggie Greer who serves the Biden-Harris Administration’s Department of State U.S. Special Envoy to Advance the Human Rights of LGBTQI+ Persons and will speak about the work being done domestically and abroad to protect our community.

    While our Pride organization has grown over the decades into a thriving year-round education and advocacy organization with arts and culture at our core, the Spirit of Stonewall Rally keeps us grounded in our history and sets our eyes on the future. I attended my first Spirit of Stonewall in the year 2000, just weeks after being homeless and living in my car. As I listened to the speakers that day, I was filled with hope for the first time and a sense that I wasn’t alone. I found my community. I found hope. I found home. If you have never been to the Rally, make this your year. Come learn and be inspired so together we can pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you want to be part of creating LGBTQ community and driving our advocacy work, consider supporting San Diego Pride this year on June 30th for GiveOUT Day.  Thank you in advance for helping us pursue Justice with Joy!

  102. Are We Safe?

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    The arrest of 31 White Nationalists at a Pride event in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, and charged with conspiracy to riot grabbed national media attention. The disturbing reality is that it was one of the many attacks and disruptions that occurred across the country in the last week targeting LGBTQ people, Prides, and events. While these disruptions and attacks occurred in at least California, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Indiana, Ohio, and Texas, they have been predominantly stoked by one group, “Libs of Tik Tok.” This hate group has been responsible for inciting fear and terror by spreading age-old lies and misinformation about our community while posting about people, organizations, and events in hope their followers will act. Locally, they were responsible for targeting an LGBTQ administrator here in San Diego earlier this year.

    It is completely unacceptable that Meta’s Facebook and Instagram, Twitter, and TikTok have not yet de-platformed this account and the accounts of those behind it when they know full well their intent and the impact these accounts are having on our community’s safety. Our elected officials, law enforcement, and corporations need to hold these people accountable now!

    In San Diego, we are no stranger to these types of attacks at our events. In 1999 our Pride Parade was targeted by a tear gas attack and in 2006 several Festival attendees were severely beaten in a targeted assault. In 1999, we washed our eyes and restarted the Parade. In 2006, the Stonewall Citizens Patrol was formed in the wake of the attack. Our community is resilient. 

    It would be impossible to produce an event of our scale without a great deal of communication and coordination with local, regional, and federal law enforcement agencies. The rise in anti-LGBTQ rhetoric and violence has the Department of Homeland Security and FBI paying close attention to our community’s safety here in San Diego and around the nation. You can also play a role in our safety. The attack in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho was prevented because civilians saw suspicious activity and called it in. See something, say something.

    I’ll say it again, we do not have Pride because we are free. We have Pride because we are not. Our community will not let fear, hate, and intimidation win. Our celebration is justice. Our joy is defiance. Our love is insubordinate. We will not shrink ourselves and return to the closets and prisons of our past. We will stand up. We will root out hate. We will march in the streets and to the polls. Whether they like it or not, we will pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  103. 2022 Festival Lineup

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    Stonewall Riot commemoration events have evolved in San Diego since they began in 1970. In 1975, the first permitted Pride march started downtown and ended with a rally in Balboa Park. As the march and rally grew, our community utilized that opportunity to organize, provide information and resources, and eventually add music, entertainment, food, and beverages. Each of these steps brought us closer to the Pride Parade and Festival we know today. We all continue to build on those brave beginnings, as the Pride Festival now boasts over 50 LGBTQ-serving organizations providing care, over 100 artists across 7 entertainment zones, and over 50,000 attendees.

    While we have some incredibly talented headliners Saturday and Sunday, our goal at this year’s Pride Festival is to predominantly feature our fiercely talented local LGBTQ community who have struggled to make ends meet throughout the COVID-19 shutdowns. We are thrilled to come together again for our first in-person Pride Festival in three years, where our artists and entertainers help us be seen, be heard, find family, raise funds, build capacity, and carve out the space for us all to be unapologetically our true, authentic selves.

    I hope seeing these LGBTQ performing artists at Pride inspires you to find ways to engage with, book, and support them all year round. Please take the time to listen to and learn more about our LGBTQ artists and come to enjoy their music at Pride. For many of us, Pride is the one time a year we have to love and dance in the daylight, and I am so proud of our team for working diligently to ensure the diversity on our stages reflects back to us all the diversity in our community. The funds we raise at our annual Pride Festival help us grant money back to our community and support our year-round education and advocacy work. This is how we pursue Justice with Joy!

    Happy Pride!

    FZL

    P.S. If you haven’t heard, there will be no beverage garden fences at Pride this year similar to attending a sporting event or concert. You will be free to enjoy the festival with your food and beverage in hand.

  104. Pride Month

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    We don’t have Pride because we are free. We have Pride because we are not. 

    The origin of the global Pride movement was a direct response to state-sanctioned police violence. The Stonewall Riot, which Pride organizations are charged with commemorating, was not the first or last clash with our community’s ability to live freely. We have to look no further than this moment in time to know our fight is far from over. 

    Across our country, we are seeing violent attacks against the LGBTQ community, the murder of our trans siblings, and anti-LGBTQ legislation all on the rise. As courts and legislatures target our community, some legislation has proposed jail time for our community with laws that would separate children from their parents and put them in prison. Our country has gotten all too comfortable with this practice, which is why California is joining 18 other states in offering legal refugee to trans youth our the families displaced by criminalization. This is happening now.

    Ever since the passage of Proposition 8, which ended California’s brief legal marriage equality in 2008, our community has been too reliant on major court victories. The Supreme Court’s leaked draft opinion that threatened to end abortion rights also had woven into its words direct threats to recriminalize LGBTQ intimacy in the United States. We have to change our approach.

    As international Pride month is here, we are all being bombarded with rainbow swag and logos. Fine. Cute. What we really need is LGBTQ policy reform. We need corporations to divest from anti-LGBTQ legislators. 

    At San Diego Pride this year you will notice that we have not invited some sponsors back because they refused to stop funding anti-trans, anti-LGBTQ values. Some of them argued with us, “You’re discriminating against us and our employees.” We beg to differ. Their employees want full equality more than rainbow swag. We will gladly forfeit their funding to have them reflect on how their funding of discrimination impacts those employees and all of us. I’m proud that as we made these decisions, the sponsors that we’ve gained in their place are partners who know they are directly funding our year-round education and advocacy work. They are investing in our values.

    I know we are all eager to jump back into Pride. I have no doubt that this year will be one of the largest San Diego Prides in our history. Our Stonewall commemorations became celebrations because lives are an act of liberation. Our celebration is justice. Our joy is defiance. Our love is insubordinate. How you choose to honor your Pride is in your hands. How you hold those in power accountable is in your hands. As we near San Diego Pride, I welcome you to take our hand, join us, and know that your support of our organization is directly fueling Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    View the full newsletter – https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/pride-month

  105. API Justice & Joy

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    For a long time in San Diego, the LGBTQ Asian American Pacific Islander community struggled to build space and power as they fought the dual battels of homophobia, racism, and the white supremacist weapon that is the model minority myth. In 2018, LGBTQ AAPI Pride employees, volunteers, and community members began to have conversations about what it would look like to create specific programming for people at the intersection of their identities similar to what the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition and San Diego County LGBTQ Latinx Coalition had created, and the Queer Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American Coalition was born.

    In the first couple of years, the volunteer-led group developed year-round social justice and social connection events as well as hosted a contingent in our Parade and a new space in our Festival. They never could have anticipated the rise in violent API hate we’ve seen in the last two years. Still, this group would go on to bring together over 80 API serving organizations to condemn hate, form the broader regional San Diego API Coalition, and play a key role in mobilizing intersectional solidarity work around the redistricting process.

    Several of the people involved in that work have received Spirit of Stonewall Awards this year:


    This year, QAPIMEDA hosted our second National State of the LGBTQ API Movement where our partners included Planned Parenthood, The Trevor Project, The National LGBTQ Task Force, National Center for Trans Equality, Equality Florida, and the National Queer API Alliance. It’s impressive to see how in just these few years, QAPIMEDA has stepped up to this national stage. 

    Just this Tuesday, I stood with our QAPIMEDA leadership in the County chambers as months of advocacy came to fruition with Supervisor Terra Lawson Remer and the entire County Board of Supervisors declaring the week of May 29 to June 4 Queer Trans API Week. This declaration denotes the blending of the end of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month and the beginning of international Pride month. QAPIMEDA has quite the lineup of events planned!
     

    • Sunday, May 29 – Healing Through Poetry at PARU tea in La Jolla
    • Monday, May 30 – “Beyond the Gender Spectrum” Webinar
    • Wednesday, June 1 – “Sweet Escape” at Pop Pie Co and Stella Jean’s Ice Cream
    • Thursday, June 2 – “Colorism and the Model Minority Myth” Webinar
    • Thursday, June 2 – Exclusive showing of “Fire Island” with Pacific Arts Movement
    • Friday, June 3 – Night Light Bonfire in Mission Bay
    • Saturday, June 4 – AAPI Night at Rich’s San Diego


    I hope you will join us at any of the events planned for next week and at the expanded Pan Asian Night Market planned for the Pride Festival this July. I also hope you will join us in not only ending API hate, violence, and erasure, but in celebrating the rich cultural diversity and social justice contributions of the LGBTQ Asian Pacific Islander Middle Eastern Desi American. They have embodied how we can all pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Read the full newsletter – https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/apijusticeandjoy

  106. This Year’s Awardees – Spirit of Stonewall

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    The first time I went to the Spirit of Stonewall Rally was in 2000. It was only a few weeks before that I had been homeless and living in my car. For the first time in my life, to hear the words “gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender” said with pride on a loudspeaker instead of as a slur or behind a whispered hand. As I listened to the speakers that day, I was filled with hope for the first time and a sense that I wasn’t alone. I found my community. I found hope.

    The Spirit of Stonewall Rally is a time for us to honor our origins, celebrate those who are leading the way, and call our community to action around some of our movement’s most pressing issues. Here are this year’s awardees!

    I think that sometimes in the giant celebration, glitter, and rainbows of Pride Week it can feel to some like “Pride is just a party,” and while it is an opportunity to celebrate, our Spirit of Stonewall has always been there. We are both. We are the party with a purpose, the art with advocacy. It’s my personal favorite part of Pride. It calls me home, lifts my heart, and helps me remember what we’re fighting for. I hope you will join me there this year as we all pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    PS: Learn more about this year’s awardees here

  107. Equity In Art

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    Larry T. Baza believed in art as advocacy for social justice. He first joined our board in 1990 and in 1992 became our organization’s first Latino co-chair. At the same time, Vertez Burks became our first Black co-chair. It was the first time San Diego Pride was led by people of color. 

    Together, they brought greater attention to diversity, equity, and inclusion, particularly around the music and arts at our annual Pride Festival. Shortly after they took leadership roles with Pride a new multicultural stage was added to the Festival’s footprint, which by 2006 would become two distinct stages now called The Movement, which highlights Black music and culture, and Mundo Latino, which showcases the vibrancy of our region’s diverse Latinx community. Most recently in 2019, an API Night Market was added to the Festival footprint, and this year the area will be expanding even more to have performances, art, and resources.

    Over the last seven years, San Diego Pride has been a part of the founding of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, San Diego County Latinx Coalition, and the San Diego Queer Asian, Pacific Islander, Middle Eastern, Desi, American Coalition (QAPIMEDA). Each group helps LGBTQ communities of color find connection and empowerment. LGBTQ BIPOC arts and culture have been at the core of funding their work and how stories are told to advocate for change.

    In addition to each of these groups having intentional spaces at our Pride Festival in July as we celebrate LGBTQ people through the lens of rich and diverse culture, each group will be hosting Pride events in June throughout the city of San Diego. QTAPI week will be a week-long celebration of LGBTQ AAPI identity and experience. Latinx Pride will take place in Barrio Logan with food, art, music, and dance. Black Pride will have events in Downtown San Diego and the heart of Hillcrest celebrating the Black Queer experience. We all hope to see you there supporting the work of all of these groups.

    LGBTQ people are not a monolithic group and neither are communities of color. There is an unfathomably beautiful depth and breadth to the diversity of the Black, Latinx, and API diasporic experience. Unless we invest in equity, we are only scratching the surface. When I’m asked what arts and culture should look like in San Diego I remind folks that diversity, equity, and inclusion require investment. I look forward to the day when as a whole we can look at the demographics of who compromises our arts and culture community, and those people, stories, and art are a direct reflection of San Diegans. That would feel like Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  108. Rage!

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    Your rage is valid. So is your fear. Those aren’t easy words to say to anyone, but it’s the clarion reality of this moment in our lives. We are under attack. We have been. It is not new. The Supreme Court’s draft opinion regarding abortion is an outrageous attack on basic human rights. Abortion is healthcare, it is a right, and it is still legal. Reproductive justice is LGBTQ justice. This alone is enough to invoke our fury and action.

    The draft opinion also openly targets LGBTQ rights calling out the Obergefell v. Hodges Supreme Court case from 2015 which ruled that the right to marry is fundamental and guaranteed to LGBTQ couples by the United States Constitution, and even more terrifying was the call out to the 2003 Lawrence v. Texas case which decriminalized LGBTQ physical intimacy. Our rights are under attack. This is not new. The extremist strategy of seeding policy and judicial appointments to erode protections for marginalized communities has been operating in the clear light of day for decades.

    As our anger at this moment is rightfully rising, we must remember the racist origins of the anti-choice movement. Racial justice is LGBTQ justice. The rising attacks throughout our nation on choice, LGBTQ rights – particularly trans rights, and voting rights are inexorably connected. Our common threat has been and continues to be white supremacist extremists. Our call to action must be united across our movements as we pursue a diverse, inclusive, and free democracy. 

    Each of us has the personal power to make large and small strategic decisions about how we fight back; how we call out and dismantle oppression. Our media outlets, educational institutions, and places of work and worship all have the power to invest in equity, divest from hate, and tell the honest truth about our lives and what is at stake. What will you do in this moment? 

    Together, we have and will continue our long legacy of fighting for justice for all people. As ballots drop and voting begins next week, we will show up. When the call to action is to knock on doors or march in the streets, we will be there. These feelings of anger are valid.  Assess where you direct it. You don’t owe perpetrators your energy. Strategic solutions deserve your attention if you have energy to muster. If you don’t, pause. We need you rested for the fight ahead. Let your rage forge stronger your resolve. Together, we will return to pursuing Justice with Joy.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride


    P.S. Help us turn out the LGBTQ vote this June. Sign up here as an individual or here as a group, or email [email protected].

  109. Our 2022 Headliners are

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    Within our community, there is an ongoing debate about what Pride events and organizations should be. Are we a celebration or a protest? We are both. There is art in our advocacy, and advocacy in our art. Our annual celebrations bring together hundreds of thousands of people who converge around LGBTQ arts and culture with clear social justice messages and access to direct services. These massive events fund our year-round work and create much-needed visibility and empowerment for our community.

    At Pride, we elevate diverse LGBTQ artists who use their platform to advocate for LGBTQ justice. There is something powerful about seeing yourself reflected on stage, in a space, and for a cause that was built by and for you and your community. Our community. Don’t take it from me. Here’s what our headliners had to share.

    “It’s important and especially relevant because of what’s been happening in this country with regard to the very harmful and regressive LGBTQ – and specifically trans-exclusionary – bills being passed,” said Saturday’s headliner Daya. “It’s more crucial than ever to carve out spaces where we can not only feel visible and protected from these attacks but also celebrated and lifted up for who we are.”

     “Queer people deserve safety, love, fairy tale endings, and a space in our communities to be ourselves,” said Sunday’s closing performer Ashnikko.  “It’s about celebrating ourselves in the face of people who try to squash and deny our existence.”

    “Growing up in San Diego, it brings me so much happiness to be able to be a part of such an important event for queer people like myself,” said Saturday’s performer Snow Tha Product

    “As a bisexual Black woman in this world, justice is not something that was easily obtained for me,” said Sunday’s performer Baby Tate. “Knowing those hardships makes supporting the LGBTQ social justice movement a no-brainer. We all deserve to freely love who we choose  in peace.” 

    These are just four of the hundreds of entertainers that will be performing at Pride this year. I can’t wait to share the full lineup with you in June. Creating civic and artistic spaces where our LGBTQ community can safely and authentically be ourselves is a social justice issue. Our entire Pride Family can not wait to bring together these fiercely talented headliners, local artists, dancers, musicians, and our entire community. This July will mark three years since our last full-scale Pride and know that all of us are ready to celebrate Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Check out the full newsletter – https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/our2022headlinersare

  110. Thank You, Volunteers

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    Since before Stonewall, LGBTQ people have too often been severed from family and support networks. Our queer resilience and ingenuity have made us experts at the concept of found family. Over the generations of our movement, our creativity has shone through in the way we build spaces, resources, and community for ourselves. From the early days of the Pride movement to now, community members volunteering their wisdom, strength, and time have shaped who we are as an organization and our celebrations.

    In the 70s, it was a handful of volunteers fighting for permits, selling buttons for revenue, and hand-cranking mimeograph flyers to distribute around town. As the years cycled on, volunteers would bring in new insight and help us build a better Pride. In the late 80s and early 90s, volunteer board members Christine Kehoe, Larry T. Bazza, and Vertez Burks envisioned a professionally run nonprofit Pride organization that could be philanthropic, their early work made us the first Pride in the world to have an Executive Director and the most philanthropic Pride in the world.

    From queer parents, like Carolina Ramos, helping San Diego be the first Pride in the country to have a Children’s Garden now celebrating its 27th year, to the late Dan Schaefer creating our event’s senior spaces, we rely on our volunteers to see what’s possible and build more. It was Angela Van Ostren who first saw the potential to make our Pride more accessible, and what started with a few ramps is now a major volunteer-run department of Pride providing an array of services all year round.

    Trans community leader and Pride volunteer Connor Maddocks helped us build out intentional space for transgender resources and visibility in the Parade and Festival nearly 20 years ago and we can’t wait to show what we have planned this year. Volunteers have been responsible for creating and building out every one of our year-round programs like the LGBTQ Latinx Coalition, Queer APIMEDA Coalition, She Fest, and Art of Pride to name a few.

    Every year thousands of volunteers come together to build our event and organization as we have since the beginning, and every year their insights help us to be better than the year before. Each of us is adding on to that inspiring work, standing on the shoulders of our Stonewall generation. 

    To our volunteer leadership from each program and department, to our volunteer board, to every once-a-year and 8-hours a week volunteer, thank you for all you do. To our community who enjoys these events and programs, please thank a volunteer when you see them. To anyone interested in joining the Pride Family, take a look at our open leadership opportunities or simply register in the volunteer system. My gratitude to all who volunteer in service to our community. It is by your efforts, always and especially in the last two years, that we can stabilize, grow, and thrive as we prepare to return to a full-scale Pride this year in pursuit of Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  111. Content Warning: Sexual Assault

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    Nine years ago I was drugged and raped right here in my own community. While this was not the first time I was raped by someone in our community, it was the first time I sought help. In my journey to find support and treatment, I kept bumping into the lack of LGBTQ culturally competent care. Some service encounters were even blatantly homophobic. As I began to share my story with friends, family, and community, I heard from far too many that had also endured similar experiences of being drugged, sexually assaulted, and a lack of compassionate, competent care. We banded together. 

    What started as a small group of queer, bisexual, gay, and nonbinary community members bonding through shared trauma, grew into the LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force as we attempted to bring better, more culturally competent care to our community. The group has hosted online and in-person conferences and workshops, helped to tell the stories of LGBTQ survivors on social media and news outlets, and helped provide LGBTQ and trauma-informed care training to regional service providers.

    Nationwide, approximately 40% of gay men and half of bisexual men have experienced sexual violence, compared to 20% of heterosexual men. 75% percent of bisexual women and 44% of lesbians have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner, compared to 35% of heterosexual women. 47% of our transgender siblings and 55% of all non-binary people experience sexual assault in their lifetimes. 

    While we know LGBTQ people are already more susceptible to intimate partner violence, COVID-19’s economic and isolation impacts on our community had a disproportionate impact. Throughout the pandemic, the unintended consequences of the essential public health stay-at-home orders were LGBTQ people, and youth, in particular, were at greater risk of sexual violence and human trafficking, making the work of these incredible community members that much more vital.

    This month, She Fest and the LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force are collaborating to hold two SAAM (Sexual Assault Awareness Month) events they are calling the Queer Survivorship & Resilience Series (Part 1 & Part 2)  geared towards queer women, non-binary people, and/or any San Diegans in the queer community who are at home with “she.” Later this year we will offer Provider Training with Continuing Education Credits available through North County Lifeline for Master’s-level practitioners.

    I never could have imagined doing this work, and yet I’m constantly inspired by this program built by and for LGBTQ+ survivors which continues to grow thanks to our incredible community partners and volunteers. It’s further proof that our community can take even the most toxic and traumatic of situations, work together, and make something beautiful and healing. We mend as we are mended, and together, pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  112. Trans Justice, Trans Joy

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    Over the decades, the anti-LGBTQ establishment has used “protecting youth,” marriage equality, military service, and bathroom bills as wedge issues to divide our country, drive radical anti-LGBTQ folks to the polls, and even disunite our own community. It’s an election year, so we’re here again. 2022 has already seen 238 anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation filed, 154 targeting our transgender siblings. We are fighting back.

    Last year during San Diego County’s Leon L. Williams Human Relations Commission meeting, Commissioner Pastor Dennis Hodges referred to transgender people as abominations. We joined our region’s LGBTQ-serving organizations in calling for his resignation or removal. In response, this week San Diego County Board of Supervisors voted 4-1 to amend their bylaws, as advised by the commissioners, creating the ability to censure or remove a member who violates the code of conduct.

    Trans inclusion is part of everything we do because it is who we are. Here at San Diego Pride, 54% of our staff identify as trans and/or nonbinary. While I am the organization’s first nonbinary executive director, we were one of the first organizations to intentionally include the “T” in LGBTQ in the 90s, a change that took harsh criticism at the time. For two decades the Pride Festival has included a Trans Pride Village with resources and programming designed by and for our trans community. 

    From Laverne Cox keynoting our Spirit of Stonewall Rally, to trans performing artists like Mila Jam, Jake Zyrus, Kim Petras on our Mainstage, and our transgender veterans and servicemembers leading our Parade, we counteract these divisive and dehumanizing anti-transgender initiatives and narratives by elevating voices, stories, and the exceptional talent of our transgender and nonbinary community.

    All that said, we need more transgender people in positions of leadership and power. We must continue to invest in our transgender youth and adults to help them excel in the classroom and lead in the board room. Over the last several years San Diego Pride has greatly expanded our youth leadership development programs and funding for the Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship, two programs that help to prepare the next generation of trans leaders. Tomorrow, during Trans Day of Empowerment, we will give out 25 scholarships to trans students attending everything from community colleges to Ivy League schools, bringing the grand total to 147 scholarships. 
    Our collective fight against anti-trans issues and policies doesn’t always mean direct confrontation. It also means playing the long game, investing in our trans youth, showcasing trans-joy, uplifting trans-brilliance, and cultivating generations of trans-excellence. Trans liberation is within reach if we work for it. In response to these attacks on trans youth, as we return to our first Pride Parade in 3 years this July, we are thrilled to announce that this year’s Community Grand Marshal is our Trans Youth. They will lead the Pride Parade this year. They are our present and future. I can’t wait to see you all there as we uplift trans Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. You can invest in our trans youth today. 100% of your donation will go to the Transgender Student Scholarship Fund.

    Read the full newsletter here – https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/transjusticetransjoy

  113. LGBTQ Issues…

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    As a first-generation Mexican-American, the product of migrant field workers, today, César Chávez Day, holds a special significance to me. This isn’t just because I personally know what it’s like to wake up before dawn to irrigate the fields with my father, or because I know what it’s like to see my family come home covered in dirt after a long day in the scorching sun. It is because I also know the stories of how Mexican immigrants, like my family, were initially excluded from the movement for farmworkers’ rights. They were seen as a threat to labor and wage equity. Eventually, immigrants were allowed into the fight. 

    NFWA (National Farm Workers Association) led by César Chávez and Dolores Huerta would go on to join Larry Itliong and the leadership of the predominantly Filipino AWOC (Agricultural Workers Organizing Committee) to see the power of addressing their shared struggles and form the UFW (United Farm Workers) which would go on to fight for LGBTQ rights and protections. In 1987, the same year our Pride marched to the steps of City Hall over its failure to address the AIDS crisis, César Chávez attended and addressed the Second National March on Washington for LGBTQ Rights where he stated, “Our movement has been supporting lesbian and gay rights for over 20 years.” He understood the importance of intersectional movement building. So do we.

    In my over 20 years in the movement, 11 years with Pride, and quite acutely in the last few weeks I have heard sentiments from some in our community of “Pride should only be a party,” “Pride should only worry about LGBT issues,” “Pride shouldn’t worry about stuff like housing and homelessness.” While aspects of Pride evolved into a party, a celebration. It has never been only that.

    The mere act of celebrating safely as your full self is fundamentally a social justice issue. Beyond that, Pride’s foundations were a direct result of state-sanctioned police violence as queerness was simultaneously pathologized and criminalized. Over the decades our San Diego Pride has marched with purpose. We spoke out against the Briggs Initiative attacking LGBTQ educators in 1978 and publicly mourned at City Hall for those we lost in 1987. Servicemembers marched openly in 2011 prior to the repeal of DADT. In 2016 our parade was led by our Latinx community as they carried signs with names, ages, and faces of the 49 lives we lost at Pulse. In 2017 over 50 leaders from different LGBTQ open and affirming congregations led the Parade to combat the ongoing attempts to use religion as a weapon against our community. Over the decades this organization has grown into even more than a weekend of deeply meaningful events.

    Today, building on that growth, we announce our Pillars of Justice, a deep examination of intersectional movement-building work, through an LGBTQ lens, in alignment with our organization’s core mission, vision, and values. These pillars are Disability Justice, Economic Justice, Environmental Justice, Gender Justice, Health Justice, Racial Justice, and Reproductive Justice. This new framework will now serve as a living roadmap to be updated as new research and policy best practices emerge. With this open resource, we hope others will join us to use this tool to examine and implement external and internal education, advocacy, community organizing, philanthropy, and artistic expression. We invite you to be a part of this work with us.

    The Pride movement was ignited in the face of clear and direct systemic oppression. As the Pride and LGBTQ movement evolve around the world, it is my sincere understanding that if we are to face the next generation of challenges and remain relevant, our work must be intersectional while continuing to have a clear focus on the unique and often ignored challenges our diverse LGBTQ community faces. In this way, we will pursue Justice with Joy! ¡Sí Se Puede!

    Con Orgullo/With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Read the full newsletter here – https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/lgbtq-issues

  114. Letter of Support – AB2521

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    “On behalf of San Diego Pride, I write in strong support of the amendments to the Transgender Wellness and Equity Fund, renaming it the Transgender, Gender-Variant, and Intersex (TGI) Wellness and Equity Fund. The fund already provides funding to support transgender, gender non-conforming, and intersex (TGI) people across the state of California and the updated name provides necessary visibility and representation to gender non-conforming and intersex communities. The renaming of the Fund is necessary to acknowledge all TGI people in budget discourse.

    By amending the Transgender Wellness and Equity Fund to be named the Transgender, Gender Non-conforming, and Intersex (TGI) Wellness and Equity Fund, California will provide explicit support to members of gender non-conforming and intersex communities in the title of the fund and set the standard nationally. For these reasons, San Diego Pride strongly supports AB 2521 and encourages the Legislature to pass this important bill.”

    fernando z. lópez, executive director, san diego pride

  115. Support LGBTQ Women

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    In 2013 we were approached by a group of women led by community organizer, Kelcie Kopf, that was interested in creating a trans-inclusive LGBTQ-women centered event in San Diego. Knowing full well at the time that LGBTQ women’s spaces were disappearing all over the country, we eagerly said “Yes,” and provided the infrastructure and resources needed to support the vision of these women.  Several months later She Fest was born.

    When San Diego’s Dyke March dissipated, San Diego Pride made a commitment to ensure that no less than 50% of our entertainers at the Festival would be female-identified and that we would have no less than one trans entertainer on every stage each day. While inclusive representation should be a minimum bar we should all set for ourselves, having intentional trans-inclusive LGBTQ-women centered spaces is still a social justice issue and must be supported.

    It’s wonderful to see how this event has evolved into a powerfully meaningful year-round program for our LGBTQ women’s community. The all-volunteer committee is truly an exercise in leadership development and community building as all throughout the year they now plan fundraisers, educational events, participate in outreach and visibility events, support “get out the vote” efforts, and put on an amazing signature celebration by and for our LGBTQ women’s community. 

    In 2021, She Fest was one of only a handful of our events that was able to return to full scale. The event moved last year from North Park Community Park to the heart of Hillcrest, and we’re excited to announce that on July 9, 2022, She Fest will return to Hillcrest which has better access to public transportation and allows for She Fest attendee to better support our local Hillcrest LGBTQ-owned small businesses.

    If you have never been to She Fest, I hope this is your year. Come and join us as we celebrate and support the talents and contributions of women while fostering meaningful connections within and between the LGBTQ and larger San Diego communities. All are welcome to take part in this space as we pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Read full email here: https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/supportlgbtqwomen

  116. Asian Solidarity

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    Over the past two years, we have seen a disturbing rise in anti-API hate-fueled violence and xenophobic attitudes stoked by the former administration’s disgusting rhetoric. In 2013, our Spirit of Stonewall Rally had openly gay artist, author, and activist, George Takei, as our keynote speaker. Takei is a survivor of the US internment camps that wrongly imprisoned approximately 120,000 people of Japanese ancestry. He reminded us all from our stage how deeply connected our struggles were and are, that our fight for LGBTQ equality and racial justice is and must always be connected.

    In 2020, as the pandemic took hold, members of our Queer APIMEDA Coalition committee began to tell us about the racist, xenophobic harassment and discrimination they were enduring. We knew we had to respond. Together with the Pacific Arts Movement, Pride worked to rally over 70 API organizations to publicly denounce hate, stand in solidarity with other anti-racist movements, and declare that Black Lives Matter.

    Since that statement was issued, the group formalized into the San Diego API Coalition. Together they have been working to amplify and cultivate leadership within the API community and have raised funds to build capacity with local API-serving organizations. Throughout the redistricting process for the city of San Diego and National City, it was clear that API leadership and solidarity work brought together one of the most intersectional coalitions of LGBTQ BIPOC organizations and organizers this region has ever seen.

    Two years into the pandemic, and one year after the Atlanta shooting, it’s important for us to know that this targeted hate and violence directed at our API siblings is far from over and is taking a physical and psychological toll. Just two weeks ago, one of our QAPIMEDA co-chairs was pushed down an escalator at a mall while the person spewed racist comments. These continued attacks should only strengthen our resolve toward solidarity work.

    For nearly a decade we have enjoyed our partnership with PacArts as they have included LGBTQ film tracks and tentpole films highlighting stories at the intersection of these lived experiences. Our QAPIMEDA program will again be partnering with NQAPIA this year for a State of the National API Movement event and from May 29 – June 4, 2022, will be hosting Queer Transgender Asian Pacific Islander (QTAPI) Week, 7 days of intentional intersectional programming. Our Pride Festival will also include an expanded Asian Night Market with music, performances, food, art, and resources created by and for our LGBTQ API community.

    I write these newsletters every week to remind us of our interconnectedness. To help us remember and understand our history. Our movements are connected, and they are stronger when we are intentional about intersectional solidarity work. Together, we will weave more tightly the movement for liberation and pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Read full email here: https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/asiansolidarity

  117. #StandWithUkraine

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    The ways our world of LGBTQ people and their safety are connected is not always abundantly clear. As Russia invades and wages war on Ukraine, we should all be deeply concerned for the state of global stability, world peace, and the safety of the lives of all Ukrainians. LGBTQ Ukrainians have an added fear of persecution under a Putin regime. 

    Russia has a terrible legacy of anti-LGBTQ human rights abuses. The 2020 documentary “Welcome to Chechnya” gave the world a terrifying glimpse into how LGBTQ Russians are subjected to state-sanctioned and extra-legal kidnapping, torture, and murder. While these human rights abuses have been occurring in Russia for quite some time, much of the light shed on these issues occurred under the Trump administration, whose relationship with Putin and Russia meant the US largely turned a blind eye to issues

    In 2015, LGBTQ activists across the US began reporting to one another that our organizations’ websites were being hacked by Russian hackers; San Diego Pride was one of those organizations. At the time, we didn’t think much of it and simply put additional security measures in place. In 2016, Russian hackers and social media bots spreading disinformation in the US to further polarize a nation in the lead up to a key US election began to make these connections more clear; LGBTQ organizations were practice. 

    The US hasn’t been the only target of Russian efforts to polarize nations. Putin has targeted much of Europe, to stoke polarization and sow anti-LGBTQ sentiment and policies. One only needs to look at the “Gay Propaganda” laws in Russia that give license to LGBTQ human rights abuses, that suddenly popped up in Hungary and Poland to begin to understand what is at stake for LGBTQ people in Europe. We need only look to election manipulation and polarization Putin stoked in our country to understand how “Don’t Say Gay” bills in Florida, and bills that would arrest LGBTQ supportive parents and health care providers are jeopardizing the lives and safety of LGBTQ people here at home.

    The attacks on voting rights, reproductive rights, LGBTQ rights, and the rise in white nationalism domestically and abroad are all deeply connected. These issues are too large for any one person, organization, or nation to tackle. It will take collection action in the US to end the filibuster, protect and expand voting rights, and pass the Equality Act if we are to ensure the safety of LGBTQ and all Americans.

    In 1982, San Diego Pride helped in the co-founding of InterPride, an organization that connects LGBTQ activists and organizations across the globe. We will be bringing that annual international conference to San Diego in 2023. Through our partnership with the San Diego Diplomacy Council and State Department, we’ve met with over 538 delegates from 134 countries around the world. Our mission statement is to foster pride, equality, and respect for all LGBTQ communities locally, nationally, and globally. Our actions now to #StandWithUkraine and firmly against Putin will have long-lasting impacts on the rise in nationalism and the lives of LGBTQ people all across the globe. As we all hope for peace, and fight for freedom, may we also remain determined to pursue Justice with Joy.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  118. Protect Children

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    “Protect Children and Families!” We’ve heard these words before. Over and over again as LGBTQ issues have been used as political wedges to the harm of LGBTQ lives. Whether it was anti-LGBTQ propaganda films in the 1960s, the Brigg’s Initiative attacking our LGBTQ teachers in 1978, 2008’s Prop 8 message of “protect children and families,” or the human rights violations like subjecting children to so-called “conversion therapy” it has been our children, our families who have been under threat.

    A recent Gallup poll shows that 7.1% of Americans identify as LGBTQ, a number that has doubled in the last decade. Approximately 21% or 1 in 5 Gen Zers identify as LGBTQ. These are wonderful signs that our collective generations-long work to create safer spaces for our community is working. Younger and younger folks are feeling safer coming out, especially in larger cities and coastal communities, but it is far from over.

    Over the last several years our community has seen a dramatic rise in violent hate crimes and legislative attacks. Book burning in Tennessee, a “Don’t Say Gay” bill in Florida, and a bill criminalizing parents and health care providers of trans youth in Texas are just a few examples of the growing number of fronts where we are fighting to protect our children and families. A recent poll from the Trevor Project shows us that 85% of trans and nonbinary youth and 66% of all LGBTQ youth have stated public discourse around anti-LGBTQ legislation has negatively impacted their mental health.

    Locally over the years, we have seen anti-LGBTQ protests of legislation, history lessons, and health classes at San Diego Unified School District and Poway Unified School District. Anti-LGBTQ coupled with anti-Semitic vandalism at two high schools in Chula Vista just a couple of years after a hate group protested the Drag Queen Story hour holding signs that read “protect children.” 

    While not yet in the media out of concern for people’s safety, just a couple of weeks ago an anti-LGBTQ group published information online regarding a transgender student’s Gender Support Plan sent out by an Assistant Principal. This one action jeopardized the life and safety of the student who was not yet out to their family, and that of the openly LGBTQ administrator, their partner and child. 

    This week at the State of the Union, President Biden called for the passage of the Equality Act and then stated, “As I said last year, especially to our younger transgender Americans, I will always have your back as your President, so you can be yourself and reach your God-given potential.”  


    We know these literal attacks on children and families from anti-LGBTQ extremists are far too common. We protect our children and families by creating safe environments for them to learn and thrive, which is why San Diego Pride and our coalition partners have developed an LGBTQ+ Youth Standards of Care document for any parent, teacher, student, or administrator to use. Additionally, on our youth page, you can find links to LGBTQ youth-serving resources around the region as well as information about our youth-led programs. We hope you will continue to connect LGBTQ youth in our region to supportive arts and culture programming, advocacy opportunities, and direct services. By healing, uplifting, and protecting our next generation, we will ensure our movement will always pursue Justice with Joy!

    With Pride

    Fernando Zweifach López

    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs

    Executive Director

    San Diego Pride

    Read full email here: https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/protectchildren

  119. Equality Act Now

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    One year ago this week, the US House of Representatives voted in support of the Equality Act. The bill is stalled in the Senate where it would need at least 60 votes to break a filibuster. While the Senate is comprised of 50 Republicans, 48 Democrats, and 2 Independents, San Diegans know that supporting LGBTQ rights and protections is a nonpartisan issue. Our Republican Mayor, Jerry Sander came out publicly in support of marriage equality in 2007, and our Republican Mayor, Kevin Faulconer came out publicly in support of the Equality Act in 2019. In fact, polling tells us that 82% of Americans support protections for LGBTQ people from discrimination, and over 500 corporations have signed on to support the Equality Act. At a time when people in our country can seem so divided, it’s impressive to see the gains our movement has made in shifting the public consciousness and consensus around the humanity of LGBTQ people.

    The Equality Act is a vital piece of legislation that will create expressed protections for the LGBTQ community under federal law as well as enhance existing legal protections for people of color, people of faith, immigrants, and women. If passed, LGBTQ people will finally have protections from discrimination in employment, housing, education, and public accommodation.

    Last year we saw the greatest number of anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation in our nation’s history. This year, we are on pace to break that record. One of the most extreme versions of a bill targeting LGBTQ youth would have outed them to parents putting their safety and lives at risk, and this week Texas Governor Greg Abbott put a terrifying legal bullseye on parents and health care providers of trans youth. 

    For years, a strategy by anti-LGBTQ extremists has been to stack anti-LGBTQ judicial appointments while placing hundreds of seemingly innocuous bills and blatantly oppressive pieces of legislation in cities, counties, and states all across the country. Their goal has been to chip away at LGBTQ protections all the way to the supreme court, which just this week announced that it will take up a case this fall on whether LGBTQ civil rights violate the First Amendment. It’s time to end the filibuster and pass the Equality Act.

    Our LGBTQ movement has made impressive gains within our City, County, and State, and still, we know the work is far from over. It’s not just about changing the law, it’s about changing the lived experience of our community for the better. As the year progresses and the world begins to reopen, we hope you find ways to engage with our year-round programs that help to advocate for LGBTQ progress and our events that create safe environments for LGBTQ arts and culture to thrive as together we pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride

    Fernando Zweifach López

    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs

    Executive Director

    San Diego Pride

    Read full email here: https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/equalityactnow

  120. Black Justice and Joy

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    In 1990, Vertez Burks joined our board and in 1992 became the first Black co-chair of San Diego Pride. Vertez Burks, was instrumental in formalizing us from an ad-hoc committee into a nonprofit organization and shifting us to a profitable model that led us on a path to becoming the most philanthropic Pride in the world. Vertez, was followed in that work by other Black LGBTQ community leaders serving as co-chairs like Phyllis Jackson and current co-chair David Thompson.

    In 2011, San Diego Pride’s first Black executive director, Dwayne Crenshaw brought a vision of utilizing the momentum of our joyful Pride celebration to empower our movement’s vital justice work, turning us into a year-round education and advocacy organization. In the eleven years since Dwayne invested in that vision we’ve grown from 3 staff to 13, 30 volunteer leaders to 200, and now have over 30 diverse intersectional programs. 

    In 2006, our multicultural festival stage expanded into separate distinct stages honoring and uplifting Black and Latinx arts, culture, and entertainers respectively. The then-new “Ebony Pride Stage” was booked and built out by and for our LGBTQ community, as our board made a commitment to always include this intentional space going forward. Now called “The Movement Stage” the area has been connected for years to our “Black Pride” community resource area developed through a partnership with one of our annual grantees, the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, who ensure LGBTQ Black resources are available along with the entertainment, coupling our art and our advocacy.

    The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition was founded within our building in 2015 thanks to the efforts of LGBTQ Black community leaders Dwayne Crenshaw, Adam Dyer, Rickie Brown, LaRue Fields, and others. Their foundational work inspired the creation of the San Diego LGBTQ Latinx Coalition, and the Queer APIMEDA Coalition. We are grateful for the leadership of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition and are proud to sponsor their upcoming Black Ourstory: Brilliance and Resilience, Anti-Black Racism & Empowerment Conference taking place February 26th.  

    Every single year in San Diego we kick off Pride weekend with the Spirit of Stonewall Rally, where we honor the moment that sparked a revolution led by Black LGBTQ pioneers Marsha P. Johnson, Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, and Stormé DeLarverie. Throughout the years, that stage and our annual Light Up the Cathedral events have also served as host to rally cries calling our community to address the intersection of anti-Black racism and the LGBTQ movements through speakers like Laverne Cox, Mila Jam, Rev. Naomi Washington-Leapheart, Rev. Dr. J. Lee Hill, The Task Force ED – Kierra Johnson, and California Secretary of State – Dr. Shirley Weber.

    We remind ourselves of this legacy of work in honor of Black History Month, and to remind ourselves that we must know and respect our Black history so we can continue to invest in Black futures. The Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund administered through San Diego Pride is the first and one of the only Black Trans-led scholarship funds in the country, and last year gave out its 100th scholarship! Our work must continue to be intersectional if we are to realize true progress for all of our LGBTQ siblings. Black LGBTQ brilliance is resilience. It has led our movement locally and across the world, as we pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Pride

    Fernando Zweifach López

    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs

    Executive Director

    San Diego Pride

    Read full email here: https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/blackjusticeandjoy

  121. Advocacy in Art

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    Just last year I was told by a government official that “there is no LGBTQ arts and culture.” San Diego Pride is one of our region’s largest civic events, a celebration of LGBTQ arts and culture with a 26.6 million dollar economic impact on the region. That official was wrong, however, our community understands how often our work, creativity, and brilliance are ignored, abused, or stolen for profit. So often though, it is our artists, drag queens, DJs, dancers, musicians, poets, and playwrights who bring us and our community through challenging times. They guide us to joy.

    LGBTQ visual and performing artists still find ourselves needing to create intentional programs, organizations, and venues to ensure our stories are told. Groups like San Diego Women’s Chorus, San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, San Diego Queer Youth Chorus, Diversionary Theatre, FilmOUT San Diego, Pride Youth Marching Band, Pride Youth Art Show, and Art of Pride provide intentional community and spaces for queer brilliance to shine. They bring us together to mourn, learn, heal, laugh, and thrive.

    While many LGBTQ performing artists find it difficult to find footing in the industry, San Diego Pride invests in LGBTQ talent through our year-round events, Vibe with Pride – LGBTQ music series, and Pride Week. From She Fest to the Pride Festival we prioritize hiring local and big-name LGBTQ artists who use their platform to advocate for LGBTQ justice. Melissa Ethridge, Laverne Cox, Kim Petras, King Princess, Big Freedia, Cindy Lauper, Wilson Cruz, Margaret Cho, Mila Jam, and Jai Rodriguez have all been showcased on San Diego Pride stages, raised funds for LGBTQ justice work, and ensured our community has visible representation. We can’t wait to tell you who will be with us this year.

    Join us this Friday for our Art of Pride reception, next Tuesday for our LGBTQ Arts Educator Mixer, at the Pride Festival this July, or any of our community’s events this year. When you do you are investing in our LGBTQ visual and performing arts and the year-round advocacy work they and these programs raise funds for. LGBTQ art is a powerful tool for advocacy. When we support it we are lifted to Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Read full email here: https://mailchi.mp/sdpride/advocacyinart

  122. Honoring Out Athletes

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    LGBTQI exclusion from athletic spaces starts at a young age as misogynistic, homophobic, and transphobic environments cultivate bullying and harassment that forces aspiring LGBTQI athletes into the closet or out of sports entirely. Too many of our stories have been erased leaving LGBTQI athletes invisible and vulnerable, but athletes like openly gay Black baseball player and inventor of the high five, Glenn Burke, have always been in sports. Billie Jean KingBilly BeanRenée RichardsLiz CarmoucheGreg Louganis, and many other high-profile LGBTQ athletes have San Diego roots. 

    In 2020, the entire San Diego Loyal Soccer Club walked off the field forfeiting their game after their openly gay player, Collin Martin, was subjected to an anti-gay slur and no action was taken against the offending player. Collin and the Loyal’s were just recognized with the United Soccer League’s Impact Player of the Year and Community Engagement awards for their outreach and public education efforts around LGBTQI inclusion. I never could have imagined anything like that when I was younger.

    Meanwhile, transgender athletes like San Diegans Paulo Batista and Sam Moehlig are also inspiring out activists, carving a wider path for others to follow. Their pioneering presence in athletic spaces is ever more important as anti-LGBTQI extremists have found their latest targets: transgender athletes. 42 pieces of legislation targeting transgender youth in sports have been entered into legislative bodies across the country so far this year.

    We fight these bills and bias through voter engagement, public education, and visibility. Here in San Diego, OUT at the Park started in the ’90s with just a handful of LGBTQI Padres fans buying tickets together and bravely waving rainbow flags. This year, thanks to the work of many over the decades, including openly gay MLB vice president and former Padres player, Billy Bean, we’re expecting around 8,000 prideful fans to join us in May!Athletes in San Diego from any of the 19 LGBTQI recreational sports groups create positive spaces for community building, fundraise for charities, and drive positive visibility for our community. Whether you’re a fan or an athlete, thank you for being a part of expanding access for our community and being a part of our pursuit of Justice with Joy!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  123. Rally to Joy

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    The first time I went to San Diego Pride’s Spirit of Stonewall Rally was in 2000. It was only a few weeks before that I had been homeless and living in my car. I was from the rural border town of El Centro which had a very anti-LGBTQ climate. There was no Pride. No LGBTQ community. Back then I didn’t know what Pride was. I didn’t know what acceptance felt like. I did know LGBTQ people had events called Pride and I knew it was in Hillcrest. I headed that way.

    I stumbled upon a large group of people standing in front of The Center facing a woman speaking from the front patio, and for the first time in my life I heard the words “gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender” said with pride on a loudspeaker with pride and joy instead of as a slur or behind a whispered hand. As I listened to the speakers talk of justice and a better future, I was filled with kinetic inspiration. For the first time, I wasn’t alone. I found community. I found hope.

    The Spirit on Stonewall Rally has been held every year since the first permitted Pride in 1975. Each year, speakers educate us, inspire us, and dare us to not only envision what justice lies over the horizon but to work for it. Barbara GittingsGeorge Raya, Lavern Cox, George Takei, Toni Atkins, Todd Gloria, Margaret Cho, Larry Baza, and so many others have been a part of that legacy.

    Each year, we celebrate local community members and organizations who dedicate their lives to LGBTQ justice and joy. Jess JessopBrad TruaxJeri DilnoWilson CruzTracie Jada O’BrienCarolina RamosChris ShawDwayne Crenshaw, and Benny Cartwright are just a few of the 340 LGBTQ leaders who were awarded for their movement-building efforts. 

    Who inspires you? Who brings you joy? Who guides you to justice?

    Nominate them today.

    The Spirit of Stonewall Rally is a time for us to honor our origins, celebrate those who are leading the way, and call us all to action around some of our movement’s most pressing issues. This year we will face critical elections and a barrage of anti-LGBTQ legislation all across the country, each of which will impact our community’s pursuit of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Who is standing in their way? Who is holding the line? After 22 years, the rally still is my personal favorite part of Pride weekend. It calls me home, lifts my heart, and helps me remember what we’re fighting for. Will you join us and be a part of helping our community pursue Justice with Joy?

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Nominate your inspiration here.

  124. Join the Pride Family

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    Throughout our movement, LGBTQ people have too often been severed from family and support networks. Our queer resilience and ingenuity have made us experts at building found family. Over the generations, our creativity has shone through in the ways we build spaces, resources, and community for ourselves. We have forged organizations, revitalized neighborhoods, changed hearts and minds, and cared for each other through the HIV and COVID-19 pandemics because our community volunteers their talent, wisdom, strength, and time in service of the greater good. Volunteers, our Pride Family, truly lead our organization.

    In the 70s, a handful of community members volunteered their time as they fought for permits, sold buttons for revenue, and hand-cranked mimeograph flyers to distribute around town so we could hold our first Pride events in San Diego. That foundational work built the scale and scope of our organization over the decades we engaged in intergenerational mentorship and leadership development. We grew as each one of our year-round programs began with one or a few people from our community approaching us with inspiration and a desire to lean in to serve, building on what came before.

    In a typical year thousands of volunteers come together to build our event and organization as we have since the beginning, and every year their insights help us to be better than the year before. There are so many ways to volunteer with Pride. If you’re interested in taking on a leadership position for our annual celebration or year-round programs, supporting voter engagement efforts, outreach, advocacy, or even helping with a 5-hour clean-up shift, we would love to see you engaged with the Pride Family.  As we begin to bring people safely back after years apart, your help is needed more than ever. I hope you’ll consider volunteering some time with us as together we work to pursue Justice with Joy.

    P.S. You can learn more about our open volunteer-leadership positions and register as a volunteer here.  

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  125. Our 2022 theme is…

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    Within our community, there is an ongoing debate about what Pride events and organizations should be. For some, it is only a protest. “No justice, no Pride.” For others, it is the only safe outlet for joy, the free expression of love, and identity. “Pride needs to stop being so political.” From the Stonewall Riots where our community fought back against state-sanctioned police violence while singing and dancing in the streets to the elevation of LGBTQ artists like Mj Rodriguez and Lil Nas X who use their global platform to advocate for LGBTQ justice, our community understands and embodies the intersection of art and advocacy.

    The first Stonewall commemoration events in San Diego in 1970, before they were called Pride, included both celebratory “Gay-ins” and protests in front of SDPD headquarters. As San Diego Pride began the process of formally becoming a 501c3 nonprofit organization in 1989 our organization’s leadership at the time, including Larry Baza, worked to ensure our pursuit of liberation and desire for safe celebration would go hand in hand. We believe the veterans of our movement did not struggle so we would only suffer. Their labor and ours have been to uplift LGBTQ lives in pursuit of happiness. Why fight if not to flourish? 

    Our annual celebrations bring together hundreds of thousands of people who converge around LGBTQ arts and culture with clear social justice messages and access to direct services. At our Pride Festival and within our year-round programming, you will find diverse LGBTQ singers, musicians, dancers, DJs, drag performers, poets, authors, painters, photographers, and sculptors whose craft helps us feel seen, heard, and transcends us to joy. Similarly, you will find access to sobriety support, HIV and STI testing, vaccine access, voter registration, LGBTQ competent health care and senior services, LGBTQ advocacy and direct service organization whose efforts help us to heal, build power, and pursue justice.

    That is why our 2022 theme is “Justice with Joy.”

    After these past two years, joy has too often felt impossibly distant. Over the course of this year, we will highlight the programs, organizations, small businesses, events, and individuals who embody the intersection of art and advocacy. We will remind ourselves with intentionality that in our moments of protest, mourning, and celebration the power of art and culture can mend, comfort, elevate, and fuel us. While many of us are weary and worn, the hard work of our movement is unfinished. We invite you to take the calloused hand of your neighbor as they take yours, and together we will dance towards Justice with Joy.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  126. It’s not over…

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    On the one-year anniversary of the January 6, 2021 insurrection at our Nation’s Capital, I wish I could tell you that fight is over. It isn’t. Repairing and expanding access to voting is vital if we are to live in a world where American democracy survives. We must pass the Freedom to Vote Act and the John Lewis Voting Rights Advancement Act.

    In year two of the global pandemic, I wish I could tell you it was over. I wish that we as a nation had embraced health and safety guidelines, science, and vaccines. This week San Diego County and the United States reported the highest number of COVID-19 cases since the beginning of the pandemic. The exhausting thought of again putting our plans, our lives on hold can seem impossibly unfair and overwhelming. We aren’t out of the woods yet, and still, there is hope in our community’s resolve.

    Over the last two years, study after study has demonstrated what we have felt to our core; COVID-19 has had a disproportionate impact on the LGBTQ community. From job and housing loss to higher rates of infection and death, the systemic social inequities that our community is all too familiar with have only been exacerbated and highlighted by the pandemic. Our celebrations canceled, our safe spaces shuttered, and still, we adapted and must continue to do so.

    Rather than give up, we grew. We learned new skills, built new and safer spaces. Rather than embrace isolation, we welcomed innovation. We leaned into public health and safety guidelines and ensured we got vaccinated and boosted at higher rates than non-LGBTQ people. This isn’t our first pandemic. This isn’t our movement’s first or second time embracing public health as a communal cause. We know how to do this.

    With this current COVID-19 surge our community groups, nonprofits, and small businesses are working diligently to pivot, pivot, pivot, in the interest of our short and long-term health, safety, and stability. Each of us can do our part as well. Get your booster shot, wear a mask, distance, isolate if you have symptoms, and wash your hands. If you have friends or family who are still holding out on vaccination, are denying the science, or oppose access to voting rights, now is the time to directly engage them with compassion as our community knows all too well that the best messengers are those you already know and love. Our work is not done, but I know that together we can still pursue Justice with Joy.

    With Love and Hope,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  127. SAN DIEGO PRIDE GRANTS RETURN, $136,000 TO 27 LGBTQ GROUPS

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    San Diego Pride announced the return of the San Diego Pride Community Grants program, providing more than $136,000 to 27 LGBTQ-serving organizations and initiatives.

    The COVID-19 pandemic halted the production of the traditional 2020 and 2021 Pride Parade and Festival, the organization’s largest fundraisers. The loss of funding forced the organization to pause its community grants and identify new funding sources in order to continue running its year-round education and advocacy programs.

    In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that, in addition to supporting the organization’s own events and programs, would turn a profit to be invested in building capacity within the LGBTQ community. This model helped San Diego Pride give out grants starting in 1994, allowing the organization to become one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world. San Diego Pride has given out over $3.2 million to LGBTQ-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally. After a record-setting year in 2019 San Diego Pride distributed $340,000 to 60 organizations. 

    “Over the last 2 years, as the world changed, so did the ways we give back to our community,” said San Diego Pride executive director, Fernando Z. López. “During this time our philanthropy has looked like providing masks for seniors, free vaccines, food and clothing drives, scholarships for transgender students, and giving grocery gifts cards to bar and restaurant workers at LGBTQ-owned small businesses. Today we are finally able to bring back our Community Grants, and I am honored to be a part of a Pride organization that continues to focus on investing in our community and the broader movement.”

    2021 Funding Recipients include:
    California Community Education Center, Deaf Community Services, FilmOut San Diego, Gay Men’s Spiritual Retreat, GLSEN San Diego, Hillcrest Business Association, House of Resilience, Imperial Court de San Diego, Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center, Lambda Archives of San Diego, Live and Let Live Alano Club, Minority Humanitarian Foundation, Pacific Arts Movement, PFLAG San Diego, Pozabilities, Rainbow Spaces, San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, San Diego County LGBTQ&Allies Employee Resource Group, San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, San Diego Women’s Chorus, South Bay Alliance, Special Delivery, Stepping Stone San Diego, Stronghearted Women’s Coalition, Tracie Jada Obrian Transgender Student Scholarship Fund, Trans Family Support Services, Transgender Day of Empowerment

    “The last two years have been extremely challenging for everyone, and San Diego Pride is thrilled to be able to once again offer community grants to the many deserving organizations doing vital work,” said San Diego Pride Director of Philanthropy, Kelcie Kopf. “On a typical year Pride’s grant funding would have invested in local, national, and international LGBTQIA work. This year we are focusing our giving on smaller local organizations, to help foster their resilience as we all work to emerge safe and strong from the devastation of the COVID-19 pandemic.”

    San Diego Pride’s Holiday Mixer recognizes the organization’s annual community partners and grantees. Pride staff and grantees will be available for interviews.

    Thursday, December 16, 2021

    5:00pm – 7:30pm [Brief program at 6:00pm]

    Rich’s

    1051 University Ave

    San Diego, CA 9210

    About San Diego Pride

    Founded in 1974, San Diego Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride, equality, and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities locally, nationally, and globally. Learn more at www.sdpride.org.

  128. Giving out $136,000!

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    The COVID-19 pandemic halted our traditional 2020 and 2021 Pride Parade and Festival, our organization’s largest fundraisers. The loss of these events and the funding they provide forced us to pause our community grants in 2020 and identify entirely new income sources in order to continue running our year-round education and advocacy programs.

    In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that, in addition to supporting Pride’s own events and programs, would turn a profit to be invested in building capacity within our community. This model helped us provide grants starting in the 90s, allowing us to become one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world. San Diego Pride has given out over $3.2 million to LGBTQ-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally. After a record-setting year in 2019, we distributed $340,000 to 60 organizations. 

    Over the last 2 years, as the world changed, so did the ways we give back to our community. During this time our philanthropy has looked like providing masks for seniors, free vaccines, food and clothing drives, scholarships for transgender students, and giving grocery gifts cards to bar and restaurant workers at LGBTQ-owned small businesses. Today we are finally able to bring back our Community Grants.

    I’m beyond thrilled to say that we’re ending the year financially stable, ready to produce our full-scale Pride in 2022, and that by the end of this year we will have distributed over $136,000 to 27 LGBTQ-serving organizations and initiatives.

    In a typical year, Pride’s grant funding would have invested in local, national, and international LGBTQIA work. This year we are focusing our giving on smaller local organizations to help foster their stability as we all work to emerge safe and strong from the devastation of the COVID-19 pandemic. The last two years have been extremely challenging for everyone, and by working collaboratively we can continue to invest in each other to keep our community and movement Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    2021 Pride funding recipients:

    • California Community Education Center
    • Deaf Community Services
    • FilmOut San Diego
    • Gay Men’s Spiritual Retreat
    • GLSEN San Diego
    • Hillcrest Business Association
    • House of Resilience
    • Imperial Court de San Diego
    • Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center
    • Lambda Archives of San Diego
    • Live and Let Live Alano Club
    • Minority Humanitarian Foundation
    • Pacific Arts Movement
    • PFLAG San Diego
    • Pozabilities
    • Rainbow Spaces
    • San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    • San Diego County LGBTQ&Allies Employee Resource Group
    • San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus
    • San Diego Women’s Chorus
    • South Bay Alliance
    • Special Delivery
    • Stepping Stone San Diego
    • Stronghearted Women’s Coalition
    • Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund
    • Trans Family Support Services
    • Transgender Day of Empowerment
  129. Let’s stay connected

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    It is still so hard to wrap my head around how much you all kept us going for the last two years. This organization, our programming, and our funding have historically relied on bringing folks together in person, but when COVID-19 emerged this team adapted and you all came along with us for the ride. When I was recruited to Pride over 10 years ago, our board and ED at the time had a vision of building us into a year-round education and advocacy organization, and as I look back at the last two years of the pandemic and decade with this organization, I couldn’t be more proud of all that we’ve accomplished together. 

    Remarkably, we are looking forward to starting the new year with more programs, more staff, and in a more financially secure position than when we entered the pandemic. That would not have been possible without our volunteers, donors, and supporters who helped us create year-round community-led organizing, arts, advocacy, philanthropic, and educational programs.

    2022 is right around the corner and we have a lot in store for you. As we have grown and changed, so have the ways we communicate with our community. This newsletter isn’t the only one we send out, and our main San Diego Pride social media accounts aren’t the only ways we disseminate information. 

    Take a look at the program accounts below and follow or subscribe to accounts, emails, and platforms that interest you on the communication tools you prefer to use. 

    Sorry, we haven’t started a TikTok. Maybe next year.

    Thank you all so much for sticking with us. We’re excited and hopeful that we’ll bring back the biggest and best Pride celebration yet next year and a wealth of new events and programs designed by and for our community. I’m thrilled at the prospect of being with you all again in person next year. You’ve all helped keep me, San Diego Pride, and our community Resilient.

    With Pride,

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. My 40th birthday is next week and all I’m asking for is to please consider making a special birthday donation in my name to the Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund! 100% of your donations will go directly to the students.

    Check out the full newsletter here: mailchi.mp/sdpride/4821

  130. SAN DIEGO PRIDE PARADE AND FESTIVAL TO RETURN IN 2022

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    San Diego Pride is excited to announce the return of the annual in-person San Diego Pride week, including the Pride Parade and Festival, in July of 2022.

    “Pride brings us together in times of protest, mourning, victory, and celebration. Pride helps connect us to community and our found family. Pride gives us access to life-saving direct services and provides grant funding to our local and global LGBTQ community,” said Fernando Z. López, San Diego Pride Executive Director. “I’m inspired by the thought of our community coming together again. Together we will continue to pursue justice with joy.” 

    Pride week will begin Saturday, July 9, and runs through  July 17, 2022. The events include:

    • She Fest – July 9, 2022
    • Light Up the Cathedral – July 13, 2022
    • Spirit of Stonewall Rally – July 15, 2022
    • Pride 5K Walk & Run – July 16, 2022
    • San Diego Pride Parade – July 16, 2022
    • San Diego Pride Festival – July 16 – 17, 2022

    San Diego Pride’s Parade and Festival is the 4th largest Pride in the nation and hosted over 350,000 attendees in 2019. Past festivals have featured headliners like Kesha, TLC, Melissa Etheridge, and En Vogue.

    In 2020, San Diego Pride held the first-ever Pride Live where over 400,000 folks tuned in to celebrate the LGBTQ community. In 2021, San Diego Pride held over 40 hybrid virtual and in-person events, with over 100,000 attendees throughout Pride week.

    Since its founding, San Diego Pride has granted over three million dollars back to the local and international LGBTQ+ community from the revenue generated by the annual Pride week events.

    “LGBTQ diversity, equity, and inclusion are central to our efforts to invite people to our vibrant city because when people feel welcome, they want to visit,” said Julie Coker, President and CEO of the San Diego Tourism Authority. “That is why we are so excited San Diego Pride is scheduled to return in 2022. It will highlight our friendly, inclusive spirit while attracting visitors to our hotels, restaurants, and cultural attractions and boosting our local tourism economy.”

    Additional information for all events can be found at sdpride.org/pride. Early bird tickets for the San Diego Pride Festival are now available and can be purchased at seetickets.us/pride2022.

    “I’m delighted that Pride week is returning in 2022 in its full capacity; its events are true San Diego institutions,” said City of San Diego Council President Jen Campbell. “This return signifies how far we’ve come in our battle against COVID-19 and how close we are to returning to normal. Thank you San Diego Pride for not only the work you do for these events but every day to make us a better city for all.”

    “I’m excited San Diego Pride festivities will return for 2022 in full force; it’s an honor for our region to play host to one of the nation’s largest Pride celebrations,” said Nathan Fletcher, Chair, San Diego County Board of Supervisors. “Pride Month in San Diego County unites communities, supports regional businesses, and benefits people served by local nonprofits. As an ally, I stand with our diverse LGBTQ+ neighbors as they continue to raise awareness, celebrate LGBTQ+ history and pursue equity, opportunity, and a future free from prejudice.” 

  131. Pride in 2022?

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    Pride brings us together in times of protest, mourning, victory, and celebration. Pride helps connect us to community and our found family. Pride gives us access to life-saving direct services and provides grant funding to our local and global LGBTQ community. This work is made possible through the collective strength of our community in the face of oppression, discrimination, and violence. During the ongoing global HIV/AIDS and COVID-19 pandemics, our resilience and determination have allowed our movement to continue on and grow.

    In San Diego, we are privileged to have a community-led Pride organization that does meaningful education, organizing, advocacy, and philanthropic work all year long, not just one weekend a year. As a result, our programs were able to continue on in virtual spaces. As vaccines became available, we brought our community together in venues and neighborhoods all across the region once thought hostile to our community that now welcomed us in with open arms. This year we hosted more Pride events and reached more people with our message than ever in our organization’s history.

    I never could have imagined a world where we would have to sustain our organization without our two tentpole events and funding streams, but you all kept our mission, vision, and work alive. You, our inspiring board, staff, volunteer team, sponsors, donors, partners, and community, stepped up and leaned in like never before to ensure that San Diego Pride’s work would not fade. Each of you kept us Resilient.

    Record levels of hate and violence against the LGBTQ community have underscored for us that our work is far from over. That is why we still have Pride. That is why we are here. Pride provides us all a uniquely beautiful opportunity to lay down our differences and lift up our diversity as we strive to cast aside the shackles of shame and unapologetically embrace our ability to be radically authentic to ourselves. 

    While COVID-19 and its variants are a moving target, we are excited to announce that plans are underway to bring back our full-scale Pride Parade, Festival, and other traditional events in July of 2022 with additional avenues for virtual participation. I’m inspired by the thought of our community coming together again. Together we will continue to pursue Justice with Joy. 

    With Hope, Gratitude, and Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride



    She Fest – July 9, 2022
    Light Up the Cathedral – July 13, 2022
    Spirit of Stonewall Rally – July 15, 2022
    Pride 5K Walk & Run – July 16, 2022
    San Diego Pride Parade – July 16, 2022
    San Diego Pride Festival – July 16 – 17, 2022

  132. Sharing Thanks

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    I am so grateful that vaccines are bringing hope back to the holidays as many of us begin to feel safer gathering with our friends and family this season. With that said, this time of year I’m always reminded of the fear, pain, and depression that many in our community face as the holidays approach. Many of us feel the weight and emptiness of familial rejection and isolation only made worse by our separation from found family out of necessity throughout the COVID-19 pandemic.

    While I personally know all too well the hardship that the holidays can bring to our community, I am also grateful for and inspired by our resilience. It is a thing of beauty to watch our community come together in support, as we always do, with innovative approaches to friendship, family, and love.

    My gratitude to the LGBTQ-owned small businesses and staff who work to stay open today helping our community be in shared space. The annual Scott Carlson & Dan Ferbal Community Thanksgiving Dinner will look different this year, and still my love and appreciation to the dedicated volunteers from the Imperial Court de San Diego, Rob Benzon Foundation, and The Center who are working to provide holiday meals to our community.

    Next week Mama’s Kitchen will bring us together on World AIDS Day for the 30th Annual Tree of Life Ceremony which allows us to pause and reflect on those taken from us too soon as we recommit to the work of fighting the virus and stigma. In two weeks, Come Home for the Holidays at The Center provides an opportunity for us to celebrate the diverse cultures and traditions within our local community with our LGBTQ-serving organizations.

    I am thankful that our community is strong and brave; that you all have carried us through yet another truly difficult year. I love that we know how to pool our passion and resources to ensure that none of us is left behind. However you celebrate the season, know you are welcome to join us at any one of this season’s community events, enjoy an intimate Friendsgiving, or support our local LGBTQ-owned businesses. I’m inspired by our community’s resolve to heal and love one another, as we welcome each other in and keep each other Resilient.

    With Gratitude,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  133. InterPride 2023

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    San Diego Awarded International LGBTQ Pride Conference in 2023

    SAN DIEGO, Calif. (November 22, 2021) — San Diego Pride has secured the bid to host the InterPride General Meeting & World Conference in 2023 bringing together hundreds of Pride organizers from across the globe.

    InterPride is the international Pride membership organization founded in 1982 by a handful of Pride organizers including San Diegan Doug Moore who began to compile a list of global Pride organizers in 1981. 

    ”I am really happy and proud to hear that San Diego will be hosting InterPride here again, 40 years after we hosted the 2nd conference,” said San Diego Pride board emeritus Doug Moore. “I never thought those first conferences would create an organization involving the whole world. Congratulations San Diego Pride!”

    InterPride member organizations typically meet in person every year during Regional Conferences and the General Meeting & World Conference (GM&WC), though the COVID-19 pandemic has required the organization to host the conference virtually in 2020 and 2021. InterPride also owns and awards the licence for the “WorldPride” brand, the international flagship Pride event. These events are hosted by an InterPride member organization who are confirmed through a membership vote, and a vote conducted over the last week awarded San Diego Pride the bid to host in 2023 marking forty years since the conference was last in San Diego. 

    San Diego Pride hosted the largest CAPI Regional Pride Conference on record in early 2020 with 276 people from 45 cities representing over 50 LGBTQ serving organizations from throughout the United States, Mexico, and Canada. 

    “Pride has never just been about parades or parties, Pride is about finding and building our strength and safety in numbers. Here at home and across the globe, Pride is both a celebration and movement to push back against systemic legal oppression and social injustice. It is by our collective action we are able to create space for justice with joy, and we are honored to bring that world of meaningful work to our beautiful City.”

    “Over the last 9 years, it has been our honor to work alongside San Diego Pride as we connected them with 517 international leaders from 134 countries around the world in hopes of driving positive change through new global relationships. As San Diego Pride brings a world of leaders to our City, we look forward to strengthening our partnership in service to the global LGBTQ community and citizen diplomacy,” said San Diego Diplomacy Council executive director Heidi Knuff.

    San Diego’s InterPride Conference is scheduled for October 25 – 29, 2023, and will include local and world leaders, workshops, plenaries, speeches, performances, receptions, and a gala. The conference will also highlight Hillcrest, the heart of San Diego’s LGBTQ community. Having the busiest border crossing in the Western Hemisphere, the conference will also showcase our region’s binational collaboration with Tijuana, Mexico. San Diego Pride will also highlight our 365 model of education, advocacy, community organizing, and philanthropy which is mostly funded by the annual Parade and Festival.

    About San Diego Pride

    Founded in 1974, San Diego Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride, equality, and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities locally, nationally, and globally. Learn more at www.sdpride.org.

    About InterPride

    Founded in 1981, InterPride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Empowering Pride Organizations Worldwide. Learn more at www.interpride.org

    Palm trees with the San Diego Skyline in the background. Text reads Interpride 2023 hosted by San Diego Pride (logo).
  134. Giving Tuesday – Stories of Impact

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    Stories from our community. 

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    Being a part of San Diego Pride means tying a part of our identities to this work, and our volunteers understand this best, choosing to give their time freely. 

    Connor Maddocks (he/him), has been a volunteer since 2004 and shared with us:

    Pride has been a huge part of my life for so many years, I don’t know what I’d do without it. When people say it’s a Pride Family, it’s true, you meet so many amazing folks through being a volunteer, and I continue to meet new people that become friends. It’s a community that helps each other out. 

    The Pride volunteer shirt tells everyone you’re proud to be part of this organization. When we recruit folks, our identity as LGBTQ+ people is rooted in this act of volunteering. We don’t want people to just volunteer, we want to keep them around, we want to empower them to move up in the Stairway to Leadership and keep them as part of the family. 

    I am so grateful to be part of the Pride family. I’ve gotten much more back than I’ve ever given. It’s been so good for my soul to be surrounded by kind and generous people. I hope I can continue to give back. Having year-round programming lets people outside of our community get to know us in a way that they might not during the Parade and Festival. 

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    One of our newer volunteers, Derrick Fuqua (he/him), shares what being part of our Pride Family is like.

    After moving here in Spring 2019, I stumbled into the Pride office and was excited to find a place to volunteer, after being involved in various LGBT organizations for many years in the South, and in some spaces, either being seen as ‘too Black’ and others ‘not Black enough,” because I’m biracial.

    I am thankful that San Diego Pride has given me a community that accepts me, regardless of who I walk into the door with. Be it walking around as an ally at She Fest, or volunteering at booths with Pride, I have always felt welcomed for all that I am. 

    Derrick Fuqua (he/him)

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    *Content Warning* – LGBTQ Violence 

    Randy Pittman (he/him) has been volunteering with San Diego Pride since 1998.  Randy served in the Navy during “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” a policy that forced gay, lesbian, and bisexual military service members to hide their sexuality, and he shared how Pride impacted him during that time. 

    When I was in the Navy and stationed in Japan, a young airman was murdered by one of his shipmates for being gay. I held this experience in, as the murderer was allowed to continue his duty, while I knew that someone like me had been murdered by him.

    When I moved to San Diego, a supervisor invited me to the San Diego Pride parade. When I got there, I broke down crying because of the hurt I had experienced and held in. The fear of being scared to be true to myself was released as I saw people celebrating. I walked down the parade and into the festival, where I saw someone with a volunteer shirt. This was in 1997 and they told me to come back to volunteer next year, so I did.”

    As a volunteer, and as an LGBTQ person, I want to be a beacon of change. I want to make sure those who are struggling with their identities have a place. Give them a sense of belonging.

    Randy, in the center, holding a “PRIDE” fan.

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    Figuring ourselves out can be confusing, especially if we don’t often have exposure to other folks like us. Jax Elton (he/they), one of our Youth Ambassadors, tells us his story of how they came to be part of San Diego Pride:

    I attended the 2019 Youth Leadership Academy (a day-long academy that includes historic context, LGBTQ resource education, organizing skills, and team-building activities) which was an eight hour plus day with queer kids. I didn’t know I was like them until I was there and after an hour or two at YLA, I asked to change my name badge to Jax. 

    Someone told me, “You’re in a space with queer youth, we all understand figuring ourselves out.” 

    My entire experience (with San Diego Pride) has taught me so much about myself, LGBTQ+ education, and getting to experience life with other queer kids.

    San Diego Pride recognizes that our identities are non-conforming to the rest of society, but the programming reminds us that it’s a good thing for us, to be able to help our communities from intersecting identities. The world tends to see being part of the LGBTQ+ community as a bad quality and San Diego Pride as an organization works to normalize our identity and make community for us as individuals. 

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    On this #GivingTuesday, consider donating to San Diego Pride, to continue offering opportunities for our LGBTQ+ community to grow as volunteer leaders and have spaces to be their authentic selves.
    Donate at mightycause.com/sdpride/
  135. [CW: Violence, Murder] Trans Justice

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    Last week during San Diego County’s Leon L. Williams Human Relations Commission meeting, Commissioner Pastor Dennis Hodges referred to transgender people as abominations. This month, 2021 became the deadliest year on record for our transgender siblings. A 21-year-old trans man, Poe Black, was killed in neighboring Imperial County in May of this year. There has been nearly no media coverage around his murder.

    These devastating tragedies are also occurring in a year that has seen more than 250 anti-LGBTQ bills introduced into legislatures around the country. The biggest bullseyes for these bills are centered on our trans community and specifically trans youth. Our work is far from over.

    While so much progress has been made in the fight for broad LGBTQ protections here in California, it is important for our non-trans community to understand that legal protections for trans folks are further out of reach. Even in regions and states like ours, the lived experience of our trans and nonbinary community does not yet match the legal protections and policies that have been put in place.

    Our trans community siblings face higher rates of discrimination in the education system, employment, health care, direct service access, public accommodation, treatment by law enforcement, and more. Visibility and policy revisions alone aren’t the answer. As we reimagine our social systems we must understand the power that each of us has in our daily lives to stop discrimination in its tracks and proactively engage in shaping a safer and more equitable world for our trans siblings.

    Trans Day of Remembrance is this Saturday. I hope you will join us as we mourn and honor the lives of the at least 46 trans community members, that we know of, who were murdered this year. I also hope that you use that time, that day, to pause and reflect on the role you play within your own schools, institutions of faith, government agencies, companies, small businesses, communities, social groups, sports teams, media outlets, arts and culture groups, friend circles, and families. From there you personally can make an impact toward ending transphobia, create a more equitable life for our trans siblings, save lives, and keep our movement Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  136. Veterans of Our Movement

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    This last weekend, the USNS Harvey Milk launched into San Diego Bay marking the first time a military vessel was named for an openly LGBTQ civil rights leader. For many San Diegans who lived, served, and suffered through pre and post-Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell discrimination or the transgender ban, the moment carried a poignant weight knowing that the person being honored was murdered in 1978, and less than honorably discharged in 1955 because of his sexual orientation. We’ve come a long way in supporting our service members and veterans, but we still have a long way to go.

    It’s no secret that military ports like San Diego quickly became hubs for the LGBTQ community since WWII as we found each other and chose to remain amongst found family rather return to more rural communities that weren’t always as accepting. If we look back at San Diego’s LGBTQ history, you will find it hard to de-couple veterans from the evolution and progress our community has seen on a local and national scale.

    Which veteran can we thank?

    Jess Jessop who helped lead the local Gay Liberation Front, founded The Center, and helped to form Lambda Archives. Jeri Dilno who secured the first San Diego Pride Parade Permit in 1975, and presented on LGBTQ health issues to the American Nurse’s Association in 1975 – 1977. Community advocates who fought for our protections and built the capacity of our movement like Bridget Wilson and Ben DillinghamRobert Lynn, who passed this year, who founded much of our region’s LGBTQ political strategy and the organization now known as the San Diego Equality Business Association. Other LGBTQ veterans of note include people like Autumn SandeenKristin BeckEvander DeocarizaAlberto CortésRonnie Zerrer, and so many more.

    On this Veterans Day, please don’t just take a moment to thank our veterans for their service to country and community, but consider for a moment the work we as a nation have yet to do to ensure their ongoing needs after their service and how you can play a role. Veterans and particularly LGBTQ and BIPOC veterans face greater hurdles to access employment, housing, health care, and mental health services. While some of these points of care are improving, that improvement is asymmetrical at best.

    San Diego Pride and our Military Department have engaged in this work by supporting the Commission on Equity and Reconciliation in the Uniformed Services Act (formerly known as Commission on LGBTQ Servicemembers and Veterans Act) introduced by Congressional Reps. Mark Takano and Anthony Brown. The bill would establish a commission to conduct a fact-finding investigation and make recommendations to Congress, government agencies, service providers, and others to ensure equity for LGBTQ Americans who have served or wish to serve.

    While some of the best ways to support our veterans and service members is to support peace and diplomacy, we also need to repair broken systems that have exploited and neglected marginalized communities. LGBTQ veterans have lifted up our movement and it is incumbent upon us to ensure we return the favor. It is their work, and ours that will keep this movement Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you missed them, you can still watch The Center’s 2021 Veteran’s Wall of Honor Induction Ceremony and San Diego Pride’s live panel on the 10th Anniversary of DADT Repeal online. 

  137. Draw the Line. Stop Hate.

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    Just this last weekend, 2 schools in Chula Vista were vandalized with homophobic and antisemitic graffiti. Today, LGBTQ, Jewish, and Latinx community leaders came together to denounce these acts of hate. Our shared struggle is the ongoing fight against white supremacy. Our fight is far from over.

    Over the last few years, our region has seen a rise in anti-LGBTQ violence and intimidation, much of which still goes unreported, and yet new data from the FBI shows hate crimes surged in 2020 to their highest levels in 12 years. None of us should be strangers to the ongoing struggles to combat anti-Black racism, anti-Latinx bias and xenophobia, missing and murdered indigenous women and girls, or the fight to stop Asian hate. Our movements are stronger when we stand in solidarity.

    White supremacist values don’t always show up as graffiti or violence. Sometimes it takes the form of policy, infrastructure, and the literal shape of districts and boundaries for elected offices. All across the country and right here, right now, these boundary lines are being redrawn in ways that have the potential to allow marginalized communities to see ourselves and our priorities reflected by those in power, or be disenfranchised. We must remain vigilant and engaged in this process that will not only reshape these lines but will impact our daily lives by the policies and values determined by those people in power for the next decade.

    While the city of San Diego’s proposed redistricting maps leave an LGBTQ empowerment seat intact, the current “Chair’s Map” disenfranchises communities of color and leaves in place long-standing anti-Semitic values as community organizer and advocate Aidan Lin points out in his recent piece in the Union-Tribune. The chair of the Redistricting Commission, Tom Hebrank,  who designed his own map, ignoring community input stated, “I don’t think it’s going to probably vary radically.” Processes and statements like this dissuade community participation in our democracy.

    Meanwhile, a diverse group of QTBIPOC individuals and organizations worked in coalition to do what no outside firm could or the chair could – establish a map that represents the very real people and communities of our city. Commissioner Justine Nielsen stated, “the San Diego Collaborative Communities Map satisfies the commission’s stated goals and serves the most communities possible.” Yet our collective effort is being ignored.

    Similarly, redistricting maps presented for California State Senate and State Assembly districts divide San Diego and LA’s LGBTQ communities, dangerously diminishing our voice and power. The districts being split in these maps have empowered LGBTQ people like Christine Kehoe and Toni Atkins to lead on LGBTQ issues in the California State Capitol.

    There is still time to engage in redistricting. There is still time to empower LGBTQ and BIPOC communities. We are working together and must continue to do so. It is united in the face of white supremacy in all its forms that our movements will remain Resilient.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Here is how you can make your voice heard in these redistricting efforts:

  138. History-making List

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    In 1981, just 12 years after the Stonewall Riots, San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore created a list of Pride organizers from around the country, and from that list in 1982 half a dozen Pride organizations met in Boston. In 1983, the second annual Pride Coordinator’s National Conference was held in San Diego as our movement’s activists and organizations made efforts to share strategies, resources, and best practices.

    Over the years these early efforts grew into what is now called InterPride, a global organization that connects and uplifts LGBTQ activists and Pride organizers around the world, hosts an annual conference, oversees the World Pride bid, and conducts research on the international Pride movement. In 2020, when Prides as we knew them came to a standstill, InterPride helped bring together organizers from 163 countries to produce the 27-hour virtual Global Pride celebration viewed by over 57 million people. Our staff and volunteers took an incredible leadership role in helping to make that possible. 

    40 years later, it’s amazing to think about what was accomplished with an idea and a list.

    What helps make the San Diego LGBTQ community thrive is that spirit of collective action, as we have learned that for all of our differences, we are stronger as a movement when we work together. In 2003 The Center, and Robert Gleason, created the San Diego LGBT Community Leadership Council where every month more than 40 LGBTQ-serving organizations come together to build relationships and address community issues. In the last several years, newer groups have emerged like the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, San Diego County Latinx Coalition, QAPIMEDA Coalition, DevOUT Interfaith Coalition, LGBTQ Youth Coalition, LGBTQ Survivor Task Force

    I love that we have this culture of coalitions in San Diego as each of these collectives works to bridge individual and organizational capacity in service of the greater good for our movement. Even now our LGBTQ organizations are working in coalition with other regional BIPOC groups to present a unified front on redistricting efforts. We are indeed stronger together.

    Just this last year, prior to the shutdown, San Diego Pride hosted our regional Pride conference with 276 people from 45 cities representing over 50 LGBTQ serving organizations. Next weekend, we will present our bid to the international Pride body to host the 2023 InterPride Conference, 40 years since we hosted in 1983. We will know the results of our bid by mid-November. As LGBTQ History Month comes to a close, wish us luck and continue personally investing in solidarity work to keep our movement Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  139. Stop Bullying

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    Today is Spirit Day. When Gilbert Baker designed the first Pride flag in 1978, he was intentional about the meaning behind each color. Purple symbolizes the spirit. In 2010, a surge of reported LGBTQ teen suicides related to anti-LGBTQ bullying inspired then-teenager Brittany McMillian to start Spirit Day. People everywhere are encouraged to wear purple on the third Thursday of October to show support for LGBTQ youth and demand an end to bullying during National Bullying Prevention Month – which also happens to be LGBTQ History Month.

    Ending LGBTQ bullying and suicide is no small task. The most recent Trevor Project National Survey on LGBTQ Mental Health showed that 94% of LGBTQ youth said recent politics have negatively impacted their mental health. In the same study, it was noted that 42% of LGBTQ seriously considered attempting suicide in the last year. I hear far too often, from a diversity of folks, that “LGBTQ kids have it so easy these days” and yet only 1 in 3 youth found their homes to be affirming.

    We fight back against bullying, suicide, and protect our youth by changing the culture. We must create and enforce LGBTQ-supportive policies at every level of education and childcare. We must connect with teachers and administrators who can ensure LGBTQ-inclusive curriculum is taught, bullying is addressed, and safer learning environments are created for all students. We must proactively provide access to resources for faculty, families, and youth so each can be their own agents of change.

    In the San Diego region, our LGBTQ youth-serving organizations do our best to work collaboratively. Earlier this year, we collectively released an LGBTQ Youth Standards of Care document to provide people benchmarks, policies, and tools to improve the lives of our youth.  Next month, we will host our annual Pride Youth Leadership Academy designed to put leadership tools in the hands of junior high through high school-age youth, their educators, and their guardians.

    Each of us is responsible for ending the cycle of bullying and suicide. Each of us can confront bullies in our daily lives. Our legal protections, our future, and our youth require our active efforts to ensure their safety. Working against discrimination for this generation and the next is how our community and our movement will remain Resilient.

    With Pride, Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. By making a donation to Pride today, you can safeguard our LGBTQ-youth work.

  140. Pride is History

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    In my office hangs a copy of the oldest known San Diego Pride budget. We had a deficit of one dollar. 90% of our income came from button sales. The year was 1975, the first year to have a permitted Pride Parade, but not the first year of Pride in San Diego. I love having that piece of history hanging next to me as I work every day. It reminds me of the legacy gifted to us by the pioneers of our movement – those early struggles and successes of our community as it fought legal oppression, societal norms, and too often internally.

    In 1970, students at SDSU, including architect of our regional movement Jess Jessop, founded the San Diego Chapter of the Gay Liberation Front and held early protests and “Gay-Ins” in solidarity with the national GLF movement, which conducted and coordinated solidarity events with first annual “Christopher Street Liberation Day March“.

    San Diego “Gay-Ins” led by the GLF continued in 1971 and 73, but in 1972 regional LGBTQ activists and organizers saw the opportunity to do something more than a day in the park. The GLF of San Diego and over 20 other regional emerging LGBTQ organizations joined forces to produce the San Diego Southwestern Gay Conference, a time to coordinate and strategize.

    Our regional organizations began to become more sophisticated. Jess Jessop and many in the GLF shifted their focus to establish the Gay Information Center hotline in 1973, which grew into our region’s LGBTQ Community Center. In 1974, the then titled Center for Social Services Center held a Stonewall Anniversary yard sale and potluck to raise funds for the growing LGBTQ Center. There are conflicting and undocumented oral accounts of an impromptu unpermitted march that some credit as the first San Diego Pride, but I find it important to honor that our movement did not yet have shared language to call these events “Pride” and that Stonewall anniversary events, Gay-ins, conferences, and marches were happening in San Diego before our first permits or nonprofit status.

    In 1981, the first national list of Pride organizers was created by San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore, and in 1982 a small Pride conference was conducted in Boston, followed in 1983 by a slightly larger Pride Coordinators National Conference held here in San Diego. This was the beginning of what would become InterPride, the international Pride membership body, and annual global conference.

    Ad hoc committees would come together each year to produce Pride Parades and Rallies that eventually added a festival. In 1989, Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, and others in our community decided to take Pride in a more professional direction and San Diego Pride became the first Pride in the world to hire an Executive Director, Tim Williams. Together they helped us become our own nonprofit in 1994, a year that marked the beginning of the Parade route and Festival location most people will find familiar.

    Today, San Diego Pride is the most philanthropic Pride organization in the world, with robust year-round education and advocacy programs predominantly led by community volunteer leaders and supported by our volunteer board of directors and paid staff. Our organization and movement weren’t built by one person, one group, one nonprofit, one leader. We have been manifested through the intentional will and labor of countless people across generations. Even now, our leadership is comprised of people in their teens, 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s, and 80s. As I reflect on October being LGBTQ history month, my heart and gratitude to all those who carried us here and each of you who are taking us forward. Together we’ve made history, we are building our future, and we are Resilient.”

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López

    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs

    Executive Director | San Diego Pride

    P.S. You can invest in the long-term legacy of this organization by becoming a Guardian of Pride.

    Members of the Gay Pride Day Parade in 1975
  141. Come Out!

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    23 years ago, Matthew Shepard was killed because of his sexual orientation. He wasn’t the first LGBTQ person to be murdered because of who they are or loved and he wasn’t the last. What had changed for our community by 1998 was the culmination of efforts led by advocates and activists across all sectors of society fostered a climate that was willing to tell his story authentically, our story. Time and time again, despite our fears, we came out.

    Coming out looks different for everyone. The moments, ages, or scenarios we choose to dance in and out of the closet are unique to each of us and fluid. Environments cultivated by our neighborhoods, families, schools, educators, cities, places of work, or worship inform and influence our sense of safety and ability to live as our authentic selves; freedoms not felt evenly across our community.

    Only 29.5% of LGBTQ workers are fully out at work, yet 46% of LGBTQ people experience discrimination in the workplace. While those numbers are the average for our community as a whole, it comes as no surprise that our community members of color experience higher rates of discrimination. 59% of LGBTQ students feel unsafe at school, nearly all report hearing anti-LGBTQ remarks at school. Our LGBTQ students of color experiencing the compounding impacts of racism feel even less safe at school.

    Monday, October 11 is National Coming Out Day. Study after study reminds us that when you know and love an LGBTQ person you are more likely to support our issues and stand up to harassment and discrimination leading to better-lived experiences for our community. A Gallup poll this year showed that 15% of Gen Zers are identifying as LGBTQ. Progress made possible, youth who feel safer to be out, because of the work that has come before them. 

    To those who came out long ago and paved the way for us, thank you. For those who are out and our allies holding positions of power, we ask that you use the privilege to create safer environments in our places of education, employment, and public accommodation. For those who have yet to step out of the closet, take your own time. Be gentle with yourself. Know that we are working for you and you are welcome in the daylight with us when you’re ready. Come out Resilient.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  142. Give with Pride

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    In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that, in addition to supporting our own events and programs, would turn a profit to be utilized as investments back into our own LGBTQ community. This model helped us give out grants starting in 1994, allowing us to become the most philanthropic Pride in the world. We have given out over $3 million to LGBTQ-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally. In 2019 we gave out $340,000 to 60 organizations

    When the pandemic hit in 2020, we lost the traditional Pride Parade and Festival, our two biggest fundraisers for two years in a row. We needed to reimagine how we sustained our year-round programs, events, and what our philanthropy would look like. Thankfully in the couple of preceding years, we had successful Prides that allowed us to substantially invest in building our financial reserves to stabilize us in the event of a catastrophic year, while still remaining philanthropic. Our staff, volunteers, and board worked tirelessly to keep us going.

    Over the last 18 months, our philanthropy has looked like providing masks for seniors, food and clothing drives, scholarships for transgender students, and providing grocery gifts cards to bar and restaurant workers at LGBTQ-owned small businesses. We provided resume workshops and career mentors. We’ve used our infrastructure to assist other LGBTQ-serving nonprofits to put on their events, fundraisers, and programs. This year we were even able to provide micro-grants to ensure LGBTQ-serving organizations could provide ASL interpretation for their in-person or virtual events and meetings.

    While this year’s Pride looked very different, we were still able to bring together over 100,000 people virtually and online to celebrate and find community. Thanks to these successful events, a ton of fundraising, and government support we are beyond thrilled to announce the return of our Pride Community Grants! While typically we provide funding to organizations all around the world, our ability to give will be smaller this year, so we will be prioritizing smaller local LGBTQ nonprofits and community groups. Applications are open now and close on October 31, 2021.

    We are excited to support our community to emerge from this pandemic as strong as possible. Our current stability is here thanks to the foundational work and vision of folks like Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Tim WilliamsLarry BazaVertez BurksJoseph Mayer, and more who wanted to ensure the role of Pride was one that helps build the capacity of our community beyond the weekend events. Your support of Pride is vital in that work, and I can’t thank you enough for all you do to build our community and keep us Resilient.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  143. Shape Our Future

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    Every ten years the nation redraws our electoral districts in response to the Census and changes, growth, and shrinkage in local communities. How districts are drawn has a significant impact on the ability of marginalized communities to be fairly represented and receive equitable outcomes, as oftentimes redistricting is used to exclude these communities from political power by denying marginalized groups the ability to elect officials who represent our issues with our best interest in mind. 

    In this way, LGBTQ people have been historically underrepresented in the halls of power and frequently denied access to key social institutions and support networks. Despite the rising acceptance of LGBTQ people, our community continues to fight for basic civil rights while experiencing rising violent hate crimes and legal discrimination that perpetuates disparities in our health and wellbeing. This year alone, more than half of state legislatures across the country are actively considering bills to restrict or eliminate basic civil rights for transgender people. The San Diego region represents the largest coalition of LGBTQ elected and appointed officials in the state of California and is a leader in the fight for equity nationally because of this representation. 

    Even so, Black, Indigenous, People of Color, LGBTQ people, and those of us whose lives reside at their intersection struggle to feel truly represented by our elected officials at the local, state, and federal levels – in part because our district lines, as currently drawn in districts throughout the nation, dilute the power and voice of LGBTQ BIPOC communities. 

    San Diego Pride supports fair and equitable redistricting which empowers LGBTQ, BIPOC, and other marginalized communities to be authentically represented. We urge local voters and residents to advocate for our shared values to the officials in charge of redistricting. 

    It is our responsibility and challenge to advocate for ourselves to these redistricting commissioners to give voters a fair and equitable voice in the halls of power and to resist the gerrymandering that upholds the cisgender, heterosexual, white status quo. How district lines are drawn will affect our lived experiences for the generations to come. By engaging in this process you can help our movement remain Resilient.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  144. ¡Sí, se puede!

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    Earlier this year we lost a pillar in our community, Larry T. Baza. Larry first joined our board in 1990 and in 1992 became our organization’s first Latino co-chair. Alongside his new co-chair, Vertez Burks, it was the first time San Diego Pride was led by people of color. 

    One of the big changes Larry helped to bring was greater attention to diversity and inclusion, particularly around the arts. Soon a new multicultural stage was added to the Festival’s footprint, which by 2006 would become two distinct stages now called The Movement, which highlights Black music and culture, and Mundo Latino, which showcases the vibrancy of our region’s diverse Latinx community.

    In the aftermath of the Pulse Massacre, our Latinx community wanted to create more intentional space and programming for one another. Having seen the success of the newly formed San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition which had started in 2015, many of us started talking about creating something similar. Through an effort led by Nicole Murray-Ramirez, Carolina Ramos, Nick Serrano, and myself we began the San Diego County LGBTQ Latinx Coalition in mid-2017 as we held a public forum to talk about what the future might look like for us.

    Since that time the coalition has fostered binational relationships, worked to get out the vote, held educational forums, educated around safer sex practices, expanded outreach efforts to the LGBTQ Latinx community around the region, and have raised funds and held clothing drives to support Casa Arcoiris Albergue, a shelter in Tijuana for LGBTI+ migrants seeking asylum.

    In recent years, when we’ve had the in-person Festival, the Latinx Coalition was able to also ensure the Mundo Latino area, added a new Latin Pride zone with additional LGBTQ-Latinx owned, led, or competent direct service and care, social groups, businesses, and delicious food! From 2020 to now, almost all of their programming continues in virtual space, but, in 2021 we were able to host our first-ever in-person Latin Pride event in Barrio Logan during Pride week at Mujeres Brew. This year’s smaller Pride events spread out around the county, and this one has a special place in my heart, with artists, dancers, musicians, and of course amazing food and friends. You can check out some amazing pictures from the event here.

    I share all of this as we are just entering Latin Heritage month. You can support the Latinx Coalition by making a donation to their programming, signing up for their e-mailing list, join their Facebook Group, or follow them on Instagram. We are also always looking for more volunteers and folks interested in leadership within the coalition. If you’re interested in doing more you can connect with our Bilingual Community Outreach Coordinator, Melanie Mijares. As Pride’s first Latinx executive director, this program has a special place in my heart. Thank you for taking a moment to learn a little about our Latin history and programming. Your continued support will help us all stay Resilient. 

    Con Orgullo (With Pride),
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  145. Be Visible, Feel Seen

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    When I first began working at Pride in 2011, we were not yet using photos to tell the stories of our organization or community. While we had enjoyed LGBTQ employment protections for some time in the state of California – San Diego has the highest concentration of LGBTQ military personnel in the country, and the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) had not yet taken effect. The risk posed to the careers and lives of our service members was too great. Civilians too were concerned that their lives would be upended.

    When the repeal of DADT took effect later that year, 10 years ago this month, Pride began the long process of uploading our photographic history to Facebook and something amazing happened. You see, while social media and digital photography were still relatively new and certainly not yet ubiquitous, in 1994, Executive Director Brenda Schumacher began the tradition of ensuring everything about Pride was documented through photography. Her foundational work coupled with the photo collections of board and community members meant that images of our community were well-preserved and could be shared.

    As folks started to look through each year of Pride they began to tag their friends, share memories, and even reconnect with loved ones who they thought they had lost during the HIV/AIDS crisis. Our community knows all too well that visibility is key to impacting change, and photography has and continues to play a vital role in authentically showcasing the breadth and depth of our community.

    Pride shifted from using only bold graphic images and logos in our marketing and communications to showcasing vibrant images of the diverse community we truly are. The attendance at our events began to grow rather rapidly as people saw themselves reflected and felt safer being out, knowing they weren’t alone. While the pandemic may have slowed down our photography, and we shifted our focus to video, it certainly did not stop. Our all-volunteer photography team and digital asset managers can be around 50 people strong on a typical year, led by incredibly talented folks like Vanessa Dubois and Phuong Nguyen.

    You can view nearly all our photography from this and previous years here.

    Join us on Friday, September 17, 2021, for an exhibit opening honoring the legacy of photographers using their art as advocacy as Art of Pride returns to the Pride office in North Park for Images of Pride, a reflection of the last five decades of Pride and queer photography in San Diego curated by John Keasler. We are requiring proof of vaccination or a negative COVID-19 test within the last 72 hours to enter the exhibit and masks will be required while inside the building. We look forward to sharing these compelling images with you. It is through their preservation and our visibility that as a movement we remain Resilient. With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  146. Missing Queer Music?

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    The COVID-19 pandemic has devastated industries, but perhaps none are as overlooked as our live performance artists and events. All too often, and particularly in times of crisis, arts and entertainment are seen as extra, expendable, and excess. Funding for arts and culture is often the first to go. 

    Who are we without our joy?

    San Diego Pride, in a typical year, employs and promotes hundreds of diverse LGBTQ entertainers at our annual Pride Festival. We create culturally intentional spaces that draw in attendance across two days on four stages with musicians, singers, DJs, dancers, and drag artists. While there, folks get connected to LGBTQ culturally competent social organizations as well as direct services and care. The proceeds from the event not only employ those artists and folks in the entertainment industry, they are also then used to fund our own year-round programs and annual Pride Community Grants. COVID-19 changed things dramatically.

    Over the last year and a half we have worked with local, state, and national leaders, organizations, and elected officials to call for arts and entertainment support through the San Diego Event CoalitionSan Diego Artist Relief Fund, and for Pride organizations around the country to qualify for government relief grants.

    As we reimagined how to continue our programs and connect people to LGBTQ music artists and performers we took to online spaces for Pride celebrations and began a new live streaming series, Vibe with Pride, with host Jai Rodriguez from the original Queer Eye. The show has highlighted local favorites, up-and-comers, and legendary icons like Lina BradfordMila JamJordyMyyloChavDJ John JosephDJ TajAmber St. James, and more.

    During Pride season, instead of a massive festival, we hosted virtual and smaller in-person COVID-19 safety compliant events all across the county that again allowed us to hire diverse LGBTQ entertainers, bringing music and Pride to over 100,000 people. 

    Throughout the year, with local icon Paris Sukomi Max, we’ve hosted events in Hillcrest and east county to raise funds for transgender student scholarships and more while ensuring our local drag performers are getting paid. We’ve even begun monthly shows where 100% of the labor and venue expenses is donated by Viejas Casino & Resort and we receive 100% of the proceeds. These shows have highlighted local performers and Drag celebrities like GottmikCoco Montrese, and Kylie Sonique Love. Our next two shows will feature Miz Cracker and DJ Jinx Mirage in September, and BlackGirlMagic with A’keria Chanel DavenportThe Vixen, and more in October.

    Pride in San Diego is all year round. We hope you will continue to find ways to support your local LGBTQ musicians, drag performers, and DJs whether it is by attending our events, supporting the local LGBTQ owned businesses that employ them, watching their streaming content, and tipping them in-person or through one of their cash exchange apps. Our performers are who we turn to in times of mourning and joy. We can not turn away from them now if our community is to remain Resilient.

  147. Uplift LGBTQ Youth

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    It’s back-to-school time. With the pandemic raging on, anxiety levels are high as guardians, educators, and students are each doing their best to adapt to ever changing landscape, get vaccinated, navigate the digital divide, attempt to create and engage in educational experiences that are anything but normal. For LGBTQ youth who may be still stuck at home with unsupportive families and disconnected from their LGBTQ peers and GSAs, these challenges are even harder to bear. Even with a strong desire to reconnect, the thought of going back to school is also causing disproportionate levels of stress and anxiety as youth reenter some in-person school settings unclear about COVID-19 protections and whether or not they will be in a supportive learning environment.

    Prior to the lockdowns in 2020, our most robust year-round programs already centered around LGBTQ-youth. Under the former administration, Pride and many other LGBTQ-serving nonprofits saw a dramatic rise in need from LGBTQ-youth, so our programs grew. Throughout the isolation of the COVID-19 lock down, our programs again grew as we went into virtual spaces, and youth looked for new ways to connect.

    Our youth-led model of organizing these programs allows us to adapt to an ever-changing landscape, respond to the needs of our youth, and empowers them to develop their own curriculum and events. One of our favorite annual events is our Youth Leadership Academy. This day-long summit brings together youth from across the San Diego and Imperial County region to connect with LGBTQ organizations and community leaders, providing them access to and understanding of their legal rights and protections as well as skills to help them be their own best advocates for change in their communities. Returning youth are able to attend more advanced courses throughout the day, and this year we are adding an educator and guardian track to provide additional understanding and tools for those who tend to our next generation of LGBTQ leaders.

    LGBTQ youth may have more opportunities than previous generations, yet it is important to remember that our work is not done. 2021 has seen the most anti-LGBTQ legislation than any year in our movement’s history, much of it targeting youth. Additionally this nation’s hyper-polarized political climate coupled with emergent social media platforms mean that our youth are targeted in ways previous generations never had to consider. If our movement is going to continue to progress, we have to break the cycle of LGBTQ youth being severed from the history, laws, and legacy we have all fought for. We must be intentional about how we connect our intergenerational movement to our youth, so we learn from them and respond to the new and emerging challenges they face. This is how our community and movement will remain Resilient.

    Youth and mentors at the 2019 San Diego Pride Youth Leadership Academy
  148. Action Alert: Don’t Sit This One Out

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    There’s an often misunderstood thought that nonprofits aren’t allowed to get involved in elections. That assumption is false. Even though, 501c3 nonprofit organizations, like San Diego Pride, are not allowed to be partisan or tell you what candidates to vote for, we can absolutely register people to vote, take positions on ballot measures that impact our community directly in alignment with our mission, and take part in GOTV (get out the vote) efforts.

    Every election cycle for the last decade, we have done just that, because we understand what’s at stake when our community doesn’t speak out, doesn’t engage, and fails to turn out to the polls. Prior to the passage of Proposition 8 in 2008, the polling was in our favor. As our community engaged in work to defeat the measure, we heard repeatedly “that will never pass in California” or “we’re fine, California is so progressive.” Ask any community organizer from the time and we’ll tell you how difficult it was to get our community to volunteer or turn out to vote. 

    If you’re a frequent reader of my emails, you’re probably tired of me reminding you that in 2008 only 9,000 people volunteered during the entire year, but after we lost our freedom to marry nearly, 30,000 people marched in the street in protest. Think of the difference it could have made if 20,000 additional people had volunteered their time. I don’t say these things to shame anyone. I retell our history to remind us about what’s at stake when we don’t engage in the political process.

    Every registered voter will receive a ballot in the mail. Fill it out and turn it in. If you need to update your voter info or register to vote, you have until August 30 to do so. If you would like to support us in our nonpartisan GOTV efforts, you can sign up for a volunteer shift here. If you would like to donate to Pride and support our year-round education and advocacy efforts, you can do so here. However you decide to be involved, at minimum, ensure you vote on or before September 14. It is only when our community turns out to vote that we can remain Resilient.

  149. Ending COVID

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    Throughout the pandemic our LGBTQ community has witnessed and felt the disproportionate economic, health, and mental health impacts of COVID-19. We have lost far too many. Our community also knew how to respond, how to adapt, how to welcome in new habits for the sake of public health and safety. We are no strangers to facing off against a global pandemic. As COVID rates are again on the rise, we must again reimagine our approach to mitigating the spread of COVID-19 and the newly emerging variants.

    Since March 1, 91.9% of all COVID-19 cases in San Diego County are found in residents who are not fully vaccinated. Vaccines are working. Masks are working. These tools only work if we use them and encourage others to do the same. New habits come hard, and new tools like vaccines and consistent mask use can understandably seem uncomfortable and even scary.

    Unfortunately, early on in the pandemic, the virus and the tools to combat it were politicized, and misinformation spread quickly. Our collective efforts to combat that misinformation and vaccine hesitancy have now been outpaced by the spread of the virus itself. How can we fight back?

    In the fight for our rights and protections, we have learned that changing hearts and minds comes down to personal connection, having the tough conversations with people you know and love. Educating ourselves and those around us about the personal experiences, fear, love, and loss we have felt to build upon our existing solidarity.

    As we attempt to emerge from a year and a half of isolation, there are still things we need to do if we truly want to end COVID-19:

    At Pride we are beginning to bring people back together in outdoor public spaces, but we know we are not out of the pandemic yet. We are hopeful that by July of next year we will be able to bring back a Pride Parade and Festival at the scale of celebration we’ve come to know and love. There is a long road between today and 11 months from now. It will take all of us working to end this pandemic and to bring back Pride. I’m hopeful we can get there and show the world that our community is truly Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  150. Spirit of Stonewall Rally Keynote Speaker

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    Marcus Bush

    Marcus Bush is a proud Father of 2, community activist, and the first openly-LGBTQ councilmember elected in National City, CA.

    Marcus grew up in National City and earned his Bachelor of Arts in City Planning from San Diego State University and Master’s in Real Estate Development from Portland State University. Marcus has served in numerous leadership roles in National City including serving on the Civil Service Commission, Board of Directors for the Chamber of Commerce, President of Rotary Club, and Planning Commission, where he became the youngest Chair in the City’s history at 26.

    Marcus has over a decade of experiencing of community activism and work, including working with labor in opposing Prop 8 and supporting the Manchester Grand Hyatt Boycott; working as an urban planner in both the private and public sectors on environmental, transportation, and land use issues; and serving as a Policy Advisor for Councilmember Georgette Gomez, the first openly-queer Latina to serve as Council President for the City of San Diego. Currently, Marcus works as a Project Manager at the MAAC Project, developing affordable housing.

    In 2020, Marcus was elected to City Council in his hometown of National City and made history as the first Afro-Latino, first Millennial, and first openly bisexual elected in San Diego County (along with San Diego County Supervisor Terra Lawson-Remer and Chula Vista Elementary School District Trustee Kate Bishop).

     

    Website: https://www.nationalcityca.gov

    Facebook: @marcusbushnc

    Instagram: @marcusbushnc

    Twitter: @MarcusBush_NC


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  151. Marketing Team

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    Alex Villafuerte

    Alex Villafuerte (he/him/his) served as the Marketing and Communications Manager at San Diego Pride from 2016 – 2021, working with Marketing and Communications professionals and volunteers to amplify the message of San Diego’s LGBTQ community.

    In the five years at San Diego Pride, Alex has spearheaded a number of new programs and events including the Youth Art Show. With several other LGBTQ Asian, Pacific Islander, Middle Eastern, and Desi folks, Alex helped in the creation of the San Diego Queer APIMEDA Coalition in 2018 with the goal of creating a safe and welcoming space designed to foster meaningful discussions and capacity for those living at that intersection.

    In 2020, with the help of Pacific Arts Movement Executive Director Kent Lee, Alex helped organize a joint statement with over 70+ API-serving organizations denouncing the xenophobia, racism, and increasing acts of violence towards Asian and Pacific Islander communities. From that response and collaboration organizations and their members worked together during the pandemic to form the San Diego API Coalition whose mission is to facilitate conversations with API communities and advocate for representation by amplifying and cultivating leadership, acting as a hub for API organizations to collaborate, and building a more inclusive and equitable San Diego. Alex currently serves as the co-chair of the coalition. Currently, Alex is also the Director of Communications and Membership for the Asian Business Association San Diego.

    In addition to these roles, Alex also serves in the ABC 10News Community Advisory Board, Public Relations Society of America San Diego/Imperial County Diversity Advisory Board, and Social Media Team for InterPride and World Pride. During Alex’s free time, he enjoys spending time with his niece and nephew and staying active with some of his favorite hobbies including yoga, rock climbing, snowboarding, hiking, and surfing (terribly).

  152. Spirit of Stonewall Speaker: Paulo Batista

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    Paulo Batista

    Paulo’s outstanding customer service and leadership skills have spanned many different industries, nationwide, from fitness to security to cosmetology, the arts, education and retail. He is now a Target property manager. A 36-year old transgender male, Paulo is a 12 -year fitness athlete and body builder, Paulo trains in the gym as a competitive bodybuilder and has competed in numerous competitions. His passion lies in helping others understand fitness and advocating in simplicity. He also serves as a mentor for trans youth and a fierce transgender activist.

    Website: https://transfamilysos.org/

    Facebook: TransFamily Support Services

    Instagram: @transfamilysos


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  153. Spirit of Stonewall Speaker: Wendy Schlater

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    Wendy Schlater 

    Wendy Schlater is a 2 Spirit dual citizen of the La Jolla Band of Luiseno Indians and the U.S. In March 2019, Wendy was elected Vice Chairwoman for her Tribe, her third term as an elected tribal leader. Wendy also serves as Program Director of La Jolla’s Avellaka Program addressing safety for Native women on her Reservation. In this capacity, she organized the La Jolla Native Women’s Advisory Committee to host the first annual Inter-Tribal Sexual Assault Awareness Walk in 2010, which continues today traveling from reservation to reservation. One of Wendy’s passions is to assert and utilize tribal sovereignty to bring much needed services to her people.

    Wendy is also a member of the San Diego County Sexual Assault Response Team Committee and a Tribal Subcommittee member of the Violence Against Women Act Committee. Wendy is a founding Board member of a non-profit tribal coalition, the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition and the National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center, for which she currently serves as NIWRC’s Board of Directors’ Treasurer. NIWRC is a national tribal nonprofit dedicated to restoring tribal sovereignty to increase Native women’s safety. Throughout her career, she has advocated for Native LGBTQ/2Spirit youth and adults, tribal youth, health, education, land, environmental issues and safety for Native women, developing innovative ways to create Tribal responses and programs respective of her people’s customs and traditions.

    Website: NIWRC.org 


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  154. Spirit of Stonewall Speaker: Erica Pinto

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    Erica Pinto

    Erica M. Pinto currently serves as Chairwoman of the Jamul Indian Village of California, one of the 13 tribes of the Kumeyaay Nation who trace their roots back over 12,000 years in San Diego County, California. Her extensive executive experience gives her a sophisticated grasp on even the most complex aspects of tribal governance.

    Ms. Pinto has been involved with the JIV Tribal Council since 1997, becoming a Council Member at the age of 21. Serving for more than 23 years on the Council, she was appointed Vice Chair of the Tribal Council in 2008. In 2015, she was the first woman elected Chairwoman of the Jamul Indian Village, an honor she proudly holds today.

    Since becoming Chairwoman, Ms. Pinto has lead JIV through significant economic progress on their path to self-reliance. In April 2016, JIV signed an agreement with San Diego County that cleared the way for a world-class gaming facility to be constructed on their reservation. In August 2016, along with the Tribal Council amended the 1999 compact with California. In October 2016, Hollywood Casino Jamul-San Diego opened, creating nearly 1,000 permanent jobs for members of the Tribe and the surrounding region. As part of the Tribe’s commitment to self-reliance she was instrumental in negotiating and representing the Tribe with its local agreements that will provide more than $100 million public benefit and safety for the residents of San Diego County. She continues working to expand the Tribe’s land base and increase economic opportunities.

    Ms. Pinto is committed to giving back to her community and to future generations of Tribal members. She is co-founder of the Acorn to Oaks tribal program, which organizes activities focused on culture,

    youth development, health and fitness, and technology – all designed to help prevent drug and alcohol abuse, teen pregnancy, as well as to promote education and family togetherness. She hopes to build pride in future tribal leaders, so they respect their native heritage.

    Ms. Pinto’s leadership extends well beyond the JIV. She serves as Vice-President on the board of the Southern California Tribal Chairman’s Association. She is Chairwoman of the Board of the Southern Indian Health Council. She sits on the Transportation Committee at SANDAG and is Co-chair of the Interagency Technical Working Group on Tribal Transportation Issues as well as Chairwoman of the Native American Advisory Committee (NAAC). In 2015, she received the Women in Leadership award from the San Diego East County Chamber of Commerce, in 2020 she received the Warrior Award from the American Indian Chamber of Commerce and was a 2020 Honoree by Discovery Magazine and San Diego International Film Festival as one the Power Women in San Diego.

    Born in El Paso, Texas, Ms. Pinto grew up with her three brothers on the Jamul Indian Village reservation and Viejas reservation, where she witnessed the hardships on her people. Her mother, who has been active in Tribal government for several decades, instilled in her the importance of respecting our ancestors and giving back to the Tribe, lessons she carries with her to this day.

    Website: jamulindianvillage.com


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  155. Spirit of Stonewall Speaker: Mack Goehring

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    Mack Goehring

    Mack Goehring, is your not-so-average 12 year old. Born and raised in San Diego, Mack is currently a 6th grade honor-roll student in middle school and All Star soccer player. Mack is also an avid video-gamer, dog-lover, and nature enthusiast. When he is not spending time with his friends and family you can find him at the beach or pool. Mack is also a major ally, advocate, and activist for the LGBTQIA+ community and dedicates his time to educating and speaking out on behalf of the Transgender community.

    Website: https://transfamilysos.org/

    Facebook: TransFamily Support Services

    Instagram: @transfamilysos


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  156. LGBTQ Strong

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    I’m old enough to remember when one of the greatest divers of all time, San Diegan Greg Louganis, hit his head at the 1988 Olympic games. It would be years until he came out publicly as gay and HIV+. The fear, shame, and stigma placed on LGBTQI and HIV+ people at the time kept many in the closet. A stark contrast to the games today, and yet we know how much further we have to go.

    This year at the Olympics, there are an estimated 182 out LGBTQI athletes; many of them are using their platforms to speak openly about what it means to be an out and proud athlete and are being supported by their friends, fellow athletes, families, and the nations they represent. For all this progress, the International Olympic Committee as well as the systems and countries that bring athletes to the games have much work to do when it comes to trans and intersex inclusion.

    LGBTQI exclusion from athletic spaces starts at a young age as misogynistic, homophobic, and transphobic environments cultivate bullying and harassment that forces aspiring LGBTQI athletes into the closet or out of sports entirely. The upswell of anti-trans legislation this year, much of it targeting trans youth athletes, is a harsh reminder of the hurdles we have yet to overcome.

    Over the decades, our community responded to these toxic athletic environments by creating our own LGBTQI adult and youth recreational sports leagues. There are 19 different sport groups in San Diego that you can participate in. (If we’re missing one, let us know.) It’s also why we’ve created days like OUT at the Park with the Padres as well as Pride on Ice with the Gulls. We also have a new year-round partnership with San Diego Loyal who will host a Loud & Proud section at all of their home games this season. We’ll also be supporting the efforts to send a strong San Diego contingent to the Hong Kong Gay Games in 2022 (depending on the state of the pandemic).

    In 1988 I couldn’t have imagined seeing the out LGBTQI visibility we have now. We owe this progress to the hard work and determination of brave athletes, coaches, parents, fans, and friends. Their success and ability to thrive are a vital part of how our movement will remain not only Resilient but strong.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  157. Compassion

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    I don’t know that I can encapsulate the entirety of what we’ve all endured in the last year in a single email. The trauma, loss of loved ones, isolation, fear, targeted violence, an insurrection. Each instance of impact ripples through us, our friends, families, organizations, communities, nation, and the world. As vaccines became available and the world began to open up, many of us rushed to rejoin our familiar lives, our joy.

    In our rush to reclaim our spaces and connections, some have failed to realize how much we all have left to heal. That others around them are eagerly on the mend as well, many pushing themselves too far, too fast. I have heard from far too many in our community, small businesses, restaurants, bars, artists, performers, and service providers how challenging it has been to meet the rise in demand, while also coping with the hostility from those they hope to serve. Even with vaccines, even if we can beat this pandemic, it will take years to recover from the physical, emotional, mental health, and economic tolls we have all endured.

    This year’s Pride theme is Resilient, and part of resilience is compassion. Yes, compassion for those around you, and also compassion for yourself. When you are hurt, injured, or sick, restoration takes time. We don’t always give ourselves the grace to stop, pause, go slow, and allow for healing to take place; let alone provide that grace and compassion to others.

    I also felt compelled to write about compassion today because while the feedback we’ve gotten from this year’s Pride is some of the most positive I’ve seen in my decade with Pride, in the lead up to Pride our team and I personally received the greatest amount of hateful and threatening messages in these ten years. Those messages came from inside and outside our community. While it was completely random and not targeted, I’ve never had a gun pointed at me in my life until the Saturday of Pride weekend.

    I don’t tell you all of this for sympathy. I share all of this with you as a reminder to rest, to restore, to listen to your own body and needs with compassion, to approach our still mending world with compassion. When we are whole and rested we are stronger. Compassion and healing is a requirement for success in our movement, it is what will keep us all Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  158. Thank you

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    Today we are thriving in gratitude and Pride after far too much time apart. I am overwhelmed by echoes of joy as we revel in the strength and beauty that is our queer resilience. Our diversity, creativity, resolve, and battle-tested brilliance have helped this community shine.

    Together we put on more events on Pride weekend than ever in our history. While smaller in scale and spread out all across the county, the feeling of love, community, and celebration was massive.

    Thank you for adapting. Thank you for inspiring. Thank you for creating innovative spaces to help the community find connection after a year of isolation.

    While we aren’t yet out of the COVID-19 pandemic, your talents, passion, and determination have kept us going while lifting the voices and visibility of our movement. We have again been called and recommitted to our unfinished intersectional, intergenerational work.

    My heart and appreciation go out to you, our volunteers, community partners, venues, sponsors, donors, staff, board, industry workers, DJs, drag performers, artists, entertainers, youth, parents, seniors, and simply everyone who helped make this Pride one to remember. Thank you for helping us pursue justice with joy! You have truly proven that together, we are Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  159. Welcome back

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    We’re here. Pride is different this year, but we are here. After what has seemed like an endless endurance marathon of isolation we are beginning to reconnect. For more than a year we held fear, raged, mourned, and struggled. We’ve asked of ourselves and the world to envision and execute a future that none of us were certain we’d see. We are here.

    So many Prides around the world didn’t happen this year as usual or at all. Several Prides went into debt, went bankrupt, or dissolved entirely. The damaging impacts of COVID-19 on the LGBTQ community will echo in our movement for years to come, but we have prevailed. You have prevailed. We are here.

    I have had the joy and privilege of attending all of our in person events so far over the past week. I have witnessed longtime friends embrace, overcome with emotions, sobbing with joy and relief after being kept apart by the pandemic.

    I have seen us awkwardly attempt to recognize each other through masks and sunglasses, the first time we’ve seen real faces or made eye contact. Do we hug? Do we elbow bump?

    I have seen queer youth, formerly too afraid to speak up, take a megaphone as they marched through the streets with thousands of people calling for justice. Their diverse Pride flags worn like capes, as they look like the superheroes and hope for our future that they truly are.

    I have seen LGBTQ people stand in awe as we take in the fact that this is the first time we are celebrating Pride with an openly LGBTQ mayor of color; our events filled with LGBTQ and ally elected and appointed officials more so than any time in our history.

    As you take to celebrating Pride this weekend, in person or virtually, I hope you find your Pride moment. That moment that feels like Pride, community, connection, safety, joy. If you’re dancing in the streets, a club, or your living room. If you’re holding hands with the one you love in sunlight or on your sofa. All of it can feel like Pride.

    The fight against the COVID-19 pandemic isn’t over. The fight against the ongoing HIV/AIDS pandemic isn’t over. Our fight for equality, equity, justice, and liberation is not over. We are still here. We are still fighting. We are Resilient.

    Happy Pride San Diego!

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  160. Allison Smith

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    Allison Smith 

    Allison Smith is a gifted vocalist who has shared the stages with many of Southern California’s most talented musicians. As a San Diego native, she was raised up by the musical theater/show choir community and traveled the states competing. Fresh out of high school, Allison took the opportunity to work with Republic of Music, a band of many talented musicians she still works with now, including Kori Gillis.
    A contestant on American Idol in 2011, Allison’s voice and original music is telling her own story. An amalgamation of all the best things Rock, Blues, Country, & Pop have to offer, Allison is taking the world by storm through her vocal prowess and fresh musical take on these tried and true forms.

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  161. Fight isn’t over. March!

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    For more than a year, the isolation, public health fears, economic turmoil, and loss of loved ones brought on by the COVID-19 pandemic have had disproportionate impacts on the LGBTQ community and have echoed old traumas, reopening old wounds. When overlaid against the rise in White Supremacist, anti-Black, anti-API, anti-Semetic, and anti-LGBTQ violence, and an insurection, moments of this last year have rightfully felt overwhelmingly terrifying. Now we turn to focus on restoring, rebuilding, redeeming, and reviving ourselves as individuals, families, communities, and a country. We are Resilient.

    In the wake of international Pride month, we have witnessed a rise in violence against and murder of our community members in countries across the world and here in the U.S. Our rights were again up for debate at the Supreme Court, and a record number of anti-LGBTQ bills have been entered into legislatures this year.

    To this day, people still ask “Do we need Pride?”

    Yes! I will continue to remind us all that we do not have Pride because we are free; we have Pride because we are not. We still do not have equal legal protection under the law. Even in states like California, we have far to go before the lived experience of our LGBTQ community meets the bar of basic support laid out by legislation.

    It is upon each of us to rend joy and liberation out of oppression. We owe to ourselves and the next generation the realization of our own power. Each small and large action to call out injustice, re-envision our friendships and workplaces, spend our dollars differently, and hold accountable our elected and faith leaders has built us to a better time than the one we inherited.

    As you emerge from your home or choose to celebrate safely in it, please ensure that you are gentle with yourself and others as much as you seek justice and joy. Healing from our traumas takes time and intentionality. So I encourage you to join us in person or virtually in the days and events to come in ways that feel best to you, because we will need you all in the work ahead of us. I will see many of you at this Friday’s Art of Pride: Together Again, Saturday’s She Fest, and Sunday’s Resilient Community March. I truly hope to continue seeing you in this long, intergenerational, intersectional movement for liberation feeling whole, healed, brave, and Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  162. Unmet Promise

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    10 years ago, the very first call I received on my very first day working for San Diego Pride was from an active duty sailor, who along with a group of veterans and active duty service members, wanted to march in our Parade. The problem was the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) would not go into effect until a month and half after our Pride Parade. With those brave servicemembers, we gathered local activists, researched Department of Defense policy, and in a few short weeks we had our first Pride Parade contingent of LGBTQ servicemembers from every branch of the military.

    San Diego has the highest concentration of military personnel in the world as well as the highest concentration of LGBTQ military personnel in the world. Folks still forget that the percentage of LGBTQ population is higher in the military than the general population. This fact is a direct result of the lack of support LGBTQ youth find in their schools and family. Often, when they are seeking a way out from abusive situations or communities, or when faced with familial rejection and homelessness, LGBTQ people seek refuge in military service.

    For generations and to this day, LGBTQ servicemembers have fought for and defended this nation without fully enjoying equal protection under the law. DADT wasn’t repealed until 2011. Transgender servicemembers have been knocked around without lasting protection of their service. Federal marriage protections only took hold six years ago. It was just last year that LGBTQ employment protection was recognized by SCOTUS. LGBTQ Americans still are not fully protected under the law in housing, adoption, and public accommodation. Our work is not over. The promises of this nation that we are to be treated equally under the law are still unmet.

    As we look forward to our Fourth of July weekend, to celebrate America’s independence, let us remember that our liberation is not complete; joined in our pursuits must be indigenous, two-spirit communities, women, racial, ethnic, and religious minorities, the disabled community, seniors, youth, and the unhoused.

    I hope you all find time for happiness and joy this weekend and that you reflect and recommit yourselves to fighting for a day when we reach those unmet promises together. Together, we are Resilient.

  163. Equality Act NOW!

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    Our community should not have to hold our breath in fear as nearly every year our rights are on the line at the now more conservative Supreme Court. LGBTQ youth should not have to suffer under the constant public discourse, discrimination, and bullying they endure as anti-LGBTQ and anti-trans bills are entered in legislatures across the country. It is time to pass the Equality Act. Here are some concrete ways you can help.

    Institutions of Faith: Affirm within your congregation and publicly that you support LGBTQ people and call for the passage of the Equality Act. If you are a lay-person and unclear about where your place of worship stands, ask them. Call on your faith leaders to step up to action.

    Community Organizations: There are a lot of misconceptions out there about what nonprofits can and can’t do. You are allowed to call for the passage of legislation publicly and to organize your members to call on elected officials to prioritize the passage of this life saving bill. If you are unclear about whether or not an organization you are a part of supports the passage of the Equality Act, now is the time to ask.

    Elected Officials: In 2006 San Diego Mayor Jerry Sanders came out in support of Marriage Equality, and in 2019 San Diego Mayor Kevin Faulconer came out in support of the Equality Act. Both of them were and are Republicans, proving that support for equal protection for the LGBTQ community is a nonpartisan issue. To our electeds, partisanship needs to be set aside in order to pass the Equality Act. Make this a priority. To everyday residents, if you are not sure where your elected official stands, contact them and let them know this is a priority for you.

    Businesses: It is not enough to divest from funding candidates that support anti-LGBTQ legislation. We need you to invest in the organizations doing the groundwork. We need you to leverage your relationships to urge the passage of the Equality Act. Whether you have an LGBTQ ERG at work or not, if you feel safe in your employment, call on your C-suite to work towards the passage of the Equality Act.

    Everyone: We all exist within networks of employment, community, family, and faith. We must do more than post on social media and block our desenters. We must engage directly. We must ask for more than platitudes and proclamations, rainbow stickers and the raising of flags. Write op-eds. Have your business, place of worship, or organization join the local and national coalitions working towards the passage of the Equality Act. Sign up personally to be notified of volunteer and direct action opportunities.

    This is Pride season, a time to celebrate who we are and remind ourselves that the work is unfinished. While we are all eager to come together and celebrate in person soon, we must also find time to engage in the work. Not one activist or organization can do this alone. It will take all of us working together if we are going to pass the most comprehensive piece of LGBTQ protection in our nation’s history. This movement has come far over the generations by working together, and together we make the world safer for the next generations because together we are Resilient.

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Help pass the Equality Act here! 

  164. Have Faith…

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    Far too many young people hear from their faith leaders that their mere existence is a sin, a moral failure, and eternal damnation awaits them. All too often faith is used as a weapon against LGBTQ people, an excuse to oppress, as a reason to fire people from their jobs, kick children out of their homes and onto the streets, deny foster youth access to loving homes, and subjecting them to mental and physical torture in so-called “Conversion Therapy Camps,” which are still legal in 35 states.

    For months our community has been holding our collective breath as yet again our legal protections hung in the balance at the Supreme Court. Before them was the Fulton case which sought to use faith as a license to discriminate. Today’s decision was very narrow, and only pertains to the specific contract at issue in Philadelphia. Left in place are LGBTQ nondiscrimination laws and policies.

    We can not let down our guard. We’ve known for some time the strategic and intentional roadmap that anti-LGBTQ extremists have been using to unravel and destroy LGBTQ legal protections using religious freedom arguments as their facade. Today’s narrow ruling must serve as a reminder to us all that we cannot become complacent. It will take all of us applying pressure to our places of work, worship, and our elected representatives to compel each of them to understand they have a responsibility to ensure the passage of The Equality Act.

    Today must also serve as a reminder that religious freedom is an LGBTQ issue. LGBTQ people are people of faith. In the San Diego region alone there are over 100 LGBTQ open and affirming congregations, each of them in active service of our people, community, and movement.

    Each year during Pride week our LGBTQ supportive interfaith community comes together to honor that work at our Light up the Cathedral event held in partnership with St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral. Each year we uplift social justice issues through an intersectional interfaith lens. In 2019 we uplifted the Jewish community to combat the rise in anti-Semitic violence, in 2020 we centered the Black community to counter anti-Black racism and violence.

    This year we are centering our indigenous and two-spirit community. Our Light of Pride honorees are the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition, a non-profit, nongovernmental tribal coalition that provides services and advocacy for women and 2SLGBTQ people. It is truly a privilege to know them and uplift their critical work to bring awareness against sexual assault and domestic violence in San Diego Indian Country.

    Members from the Strong Hearted Native Women's Coalition standing shoulder to shoulder and smiling for the camera.

    Whether you are spiritual, religious, faithful, agnostic, or atheist, we can agree that faith should not be used to harm our LGBTQ community. As we continue to fight the battles of our movement it will continue to be vital to work in coalition with one another towards our common goals and the common good. There is much work for us on the road ahead in our pursuit of justice, and I have faith that together we will get there because we are Resilient.

  165. Our Pulse

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    On Sunday, June 12, 2016 (the middle of Pride month) at 7:20 am, I heard my phone vibrating on the nightstand. As my eyes began to focus, I realized it was Dr. Delores Jacobs calling me. My stomach sank as I knew this wasn’t going to be a regular call or day. She told me there had been a shooting at an LGBTQ bar and told me to call down the phone tree and come to The Center. In the wake of what was categorized as the deadliest U.S. civilian mass shooting at the time, our community did what we always do in moments of crisis: we came together.

    We struggled to make sense of this act of domestic terrorism and gun violence that ended the lives of 49 members of our community. The Pulse Massacre shook our community to its core. Bars in our community have been more than watering holes; they have been and are our safe spaces, our oases of love and found family, and where we leave the confines of our daily closets to revel in joy.

    At Pride that year, 49 Latinx community members led our Parade holding placards with the names, faces, and ages of those we’d lost. A somber reminder that Pride – from Stonewall to the present moment – is fundamentally about protest, mourning, activism, visibility, celebration, joy, and healing. While the devastation we’ve all grappled with in the wake of that vicious violation five years ago still seems inexplicable, it is always inspiring to know that despite the struggles and strife that our community faces, through it all, together, we are Resilient.

    Yours in love and hope,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Join me in honoring the lives of those lost and in remembering their names.

    18 years old, Akyra Monet Murray
    19 years old, Jason Benjamin Josaphat
    20 years old, Luis Omar Ocasio Capo
    21 years old, Alejandro Barrios Martinez
    21 years old, Cory James Connell
    22 years old, Juan Ramon Guerrero
    22 years old, Luis Sergio Vielma
    22 years old, Peter Ommy Gonzalez Cruz
    23 years old, Stanley Almodovar III
    24 years old, Christopher Joseph Sanfeliz
    24 years old, Jonathan A. Camuy Vega
    24 years old, Yilmary Rodríguez Solivan
    25 years old, Amanda L. Alvear
    25 years old, Anthony Luis Laureano Disla
    25 years old, Enrique L. Rios  Jr.
    25 years old, Geraldo A. Ortiz Jimenez
    25 years old, Gilberto R. Silva Menendez
    25 years old, Juan Chavez Martinez
    25 years old, Leroy Valentin Fernandez
    25 years old, Tevin Eugene Crosby
    26 years old, Mercedez Marisol Flores
    26 years old, Oscar A. Aracena Montero
    27 years old, Frank Hernandez
    27 years old, Jean Carlos Nieves Rodríguez
    28 years old, Angel Candelario-Padro
    29 years old, Antonio Davon Brown
    29 years old, Darryl Roman Burt II
    30 years old, Eddie Jamoldroy Justice
    30 years old, Miguel Angel Honorato
    31 years old, Gerald Arthur Wright
    31 years old, Simón Adrian Carrillo Fernández
    32 years old, Christopher Andrew Leinonen
    32 years old, Deonka Deidra Drayton
    32 years old, Joel Rayon Paniagua
    33 years old, Martin Benitez Torres
    33 years old, Rodolfo Ayala Ayala
    33 years old, Shane Evan Tomlinson
    34 years old, Edward Sotomayor Jr.
    35 years old, Jean Carlos Mendez Perez
    35 years old, Xavier Emmanuel Serrano-Rosado
    36 years old, Eric Ivan Ortiz-Rivera
    37 years old, Juan Pablo Rivera Velázquez
    37 years old, Kimberly Jean Morris
    37 years old, Luis Daniel Wilson-Leon
    39 years old, Luis Daniel Conde
    40 years old, Javier Jorge Reyes
    41 years old, Paul Terrell Henry
    49 years old, Brenda Marquez McCool
    50 years old, Franky Jimmy DeJesus Velázquez

    Join us for our Community Offrenda honoring the lives lost five years ago. Learn more here.

  166. Our 2021 San Diego Pride events are…

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    As our community, nation, and the world slowly begin to heal from the ongoing devastation, unhealed wounds, and the lives lost from the COVID-19 pandemic each of us is working within our own capacity to move forward. Like anyone who has been injured, things take time to heal and return to a healthier state. That is why our 2021 theme is Resilient. We know that despite the pain, discrimination, violence, and death our community has faced, we endure, we overcome, we love, we thrive.

    This Pride will be different, but we will still gather, march, rally, mourn, and celebrate. Some of us will feel safe enough to join crowds, some will celebrate with close friends and family at home, and some will tune in from around the world.

    Pride started as a riot against police violence. Pride is a protest, a celebration, a gasp for air. Pride is our resilient unshackled vibrance gathered, pursuing justice with joy. However you choose to celebrate Pride with us this year, thank you. Your strength, bravery, and fearless queer brilliance carried you and us to brighter days. It is each of you who makes us collectively Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  167. Friend of Pride

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    Friend of Pride: An individual who does not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer, but who has stalwartly supported the LGBTQ community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    Nathan Fletcher

    Nathan Fletcher is the Chair of the San Diego County Board of Supervisors. Chair Fletcher is a proud ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and uses his platform as an elected leader to advocate for the rights of the LGBTQIA+ people. While serving in the California State Assembly in 2010, he delivered an impassioned address in support of ending the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy, and cast a vote to match his speech. During his first year on the San Diego County Board of Supervisors in 2019, Chair Fletcher initiated Shine Bright with Pride in partnership with the County’s LGBT & Allies Employee Resource Group, a celebratory event to kick off Pride Season. He also led a sizable contingent in that year’s parade — honoring the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots — that marched along the parade route with devout enthusiasm for the LGBTQIA+ community.

    Also in 2019, Chair Fletcher joined County employees to fly the Pride Flag at the County offices in Kearny Mesa for National Coming Out Day; and in 2020 they flew the Pride Flag high above the County Administration Center (CAC) for the first time. Chair Fletcher also championed the CAC being lit up for Transgender Day of Remembrance and Visibility and coordinated with the San Diego Convention Center to illuminate the Sails Pavillion in pink, blue and white too. Notably, Chair Fletcher was thrilled to have been a part of LGBTQIA+ history in San Diego as the officiant of the first same-sex ceremony to take place in County Chambers. And most recently, to prevent bias and prejudice for all, Chair Fletcher proposed and executed the creation of the County’s current Human Relations Commission and Office of Equity and Racial Justice.


    Nathan will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  168. Stonewall Service Award

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    Stonewall Service: A group or organization which may or may not identify as LGBTQ but which has stalwartly supported the LGBTQ community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition

    The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition is a 501(c)3 organization and is the only Black LGBTQ nonprofit in San Diego. Established in 2015 by a group of Black Queer individuals who noticed both a lack of resources and an absence of a central united space for Black LGBTQ life, the Coalition was established to help provide that space to #ExistBlackly.

    Our mission is to build a united front of diverse Black LGBTQ community members for our social, political and economic advancement by forming a central hub for San Diego Black LGBTQ Life. We serve to meet the needs of the community by sharing resources, participating in events, groups, and social events that support a “strong, sustained and connected” Black LGBTQ community.

    Over the last year, we have expanded to include creating a resource list of Mental health providers and organizations that serve the Black LGBTQ community. We fostered San Diego’s first Emergency Black Transgender Fund for Transgender, nonbinary and gender nonconforming individuals who need emergency assistance with housing, food, and access to their gender affirmation care. We are launching our Damon J. Shearer Academic Scholarship Fund to help support Black LGBTQ students receive their education. We started a Transformative Justice Skills Building Group and begun providing anti-Black racism and LGBTQ trainings to partners and other organizations committed to doing the work to establish equity and justice. During the pandemic, we interacted with partners to host events, our Zoom Townhall, our Virtual Engagement Forums and began filming our Black LGBTQ Lives of San Diego documentary to be unleased this summer, even acquiring non-profit status. As we start to see the other side, we have resumed in-person events, helping San Diego Pride with vaccinations to the community and returning to provide a space to bring the Black LGBTQ community together again.


    The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  169. Community Service Award

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    Community Service: An individual who is recognized as an up-and-coming leader within the LGBTQ community or whose contribution to the community in the past year was of particular significance.

    Ana Laura Martinez

    Ana Laura Martínez (she/her/ella) was raised in Tijuana and San Diego. Coming from a working-class and immigrant household, she is committed to fighting injustices for her community and family.

    While a student at UC San Diego, she was involved in organizing for educational equity, immigration rights, labor, and anti-racist campus measures. She received her undergraduate degrees in Ethnic Studies and History from UCSD and is working on her Master’s degree in Latin American Studies.

    As a student, Ana Laura has organized with SEIU-Good Jobs L.A. through the UCLA Labor Center, AFSCME 3299, and UAW 2865, working with various unions in fighting for economic justice. She also worked at UCSD as a teaching assistant, grounding her teaching philosophy on critical thinking, empowering

    students to read the world differently, and inciting commitment to social justice outside of the classroom.

    She currently works at the Center on Policy Initiative, where she leads the worker justice priorities with partners to ensure worker protections, and manages the Students for Economic Justice (SEJ) Summer Fellowship, a program that aims to build the pipeline of organizers in San Diego to create systemic change.

    Outside of her work she has been involved in mutual aid, reproductive justice, and LGBTQIA+ advocacy and organizing. These spaces have been intentional in naming the systems of oppression, uplifting the systemic changes needed for communities to thrive, and creating spaces of learning. Ana Laura is guided by the values of solidarity, of centering Black, People of Color, people with disabilities, trans, nonbinary, queer folks, and deeply believing that another world where all folks are free is possible.


    Ana Laura will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  170. Inspirational Relationship

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    Inspirational Relationship: Any friendship, familial bond, or intimate relationship whose love, strength, work, and commitment to LGBTQ equality embodies the humanity of our community.

    Frannya Tuchman & Jamie Arangure

    Jamie Arangure & Frannya Tuchman are a dynamic duo of Latina women (and best friends) who currently serve as Directors of Proyecto Trans Latina. Through their inspirational friendship they have co-created safe spaces like support groups where Latinx trans women can find resources and advocacy for many years. They have recently celebrated the opening of a physical office space Proyecto Trans Latina which aims to provide legal assistance, professional development, and health support to San Diego’s transgender community.

    They can often be found helping transgender women file their name change paperwork, passport paperwork, and update their birth certificates. Moreover, their famous posole dinners, game nights, and social events add a vital spirit of “familia” for community members without the support of their own families. Beyond their direct service to the community, they have also begun to advocate on a large scale. They have been instrumental in organizing a convening of TransLatina leaders from across the US to hold crucial dialogues on systematic issues impacting transgender women including immigration, HIV, and employment discrimination and find viable solutions for improving the standard of living of their local transgender Latinx community members. San Diego Pride is thrilled to recognize them both as our “Inspirational Relationship” this year!


    Frannya & Jamie will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  171. Champion of Pride Award

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    Champion of Pride | Dwayne Crenshaw

    Champion of Pride: An individual who has demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBTQ community over an extended period of years with consideration to service to San Diego Pride.

    Dwayne Crenshaw

    Dwayne is a native San Diegan and lifelong resident of southeastern San Diego. His deep knowledge of San Diego’s neighborhoods and his community activism, which began at the age of thirteen, are invaluable in his role as a nonprofit and community leader. As President & CEO of The Humanity Movement, Dwayne Crenshaw is responsible for the organization’s effective management and operation on a day-to-day basis and leads the teams policy development and advocacy work.

    He previously served as CEO and Co-Founder of RISE San Diego from 2014 to 2020, as the executive director of San Diego LGBT Pride from 2011 to 2013 and the Coalition of Neighborhood Councils from 2005 to 2009, where he advanced issues of community development and social justice. From 2000 to 2004, he promoted resident ownership of neighborhood change in southeastern San Diego as the director of community ownership at the Jacobs Center for Neighborhood Innovation. San Diego Metropolitan Magazine has named Dwayne Crenshaw as one of “San Diego’s Smartest Young Professionals – 40 under 40.”

    Prior to his roles in nonprofit management, Dwayne Crenshaw had eight years of government experience as an aide to state and local elected officials, including former California Lieutenant Governor Cruz Bustamante. Dwayne Crenshaw began his public service career as one of eighteen James M. Unruh Assembly Fellows who are chosen from hundreds of applicants each year to serve in the California state capitol. Dwayne Crenshaw’s community service has included membership with the Southeast Rotary Club and participation on boards for San Diego State; Lincoln, High Tech and Hoover High Schools; the San Diego Union-Tribune; UC San Diego’s Chancellor; the San Diego Community College District; San Diego’s Chief of Police; The Committed Collective; Harmonium, Inc; Torrey Pines Bank; and, Encanto Neighborhoods Community Planning Group.

    He graduated from San Diego State University in 1994 where he majored in elementary education and was elected student body president of the 35,000-student campus. While working in the state capitol, he completed the coursework for a master’s in government from California State University, Sacramento. In 2011, he received his juris doctorate from California Western School of Law, where he twice earned the highly-coveted Distinguished Advocate recognition.

    Dwayne Crenshaw resides in the Encanto community of southeastern San Diego. He is a proud dog dad and the active uncle of five nieces, four nephews, and two great-nieces and enjoys regular dinners with his entire immediate family at his parent’s home.


    Dwayne will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  172. Larry T. Baza Arts & Culture Award

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    Larry T. Baza Arts & Culture Award – Matt Morrow

    Larry T. Baza Arts & Culture Award: (Inaugural) A visual or performing artist or organization who elevates the LGBTQ community in service of education, advocacy, visibility, justice, and joy. This award is in honor of the legacy of Larry T. Baza.

    Matt Morrow

    Since joining the organization in 2014, Matt has helped to grow Diversionary Theatre’s operating budget by 100%. Under their leadership the theatre has been nominated for 29 San Diego Critics Circle Awards, winning two Outstanding New Play Awards in 2017 and 2019. Alongside Diversionary’s Board of Trustees, Matt led the Securing Our Future campaign, a $2.5 million renovation project for the theatre’s home in University Heights, slated to reopen early Fall 2021.

    Notable productions Matt has directed and/or produced with Diversionary include the 20th Anniversary production of Hedwig and the Angry Inch (Winner, 2019 Outstanding Lead Performance in a Musical, SDCC Award), Miranda Rose Hall’s The Hour of Great Mercy (Winner, 2019 Best New Play, SDCC Award), the World Premiere of Gordon Leary and Julia Meinwald’s musical The Loneliest Girl in the World, Georgette Kelly’s Ballast (Winner, 2017 Best New Play, SDCC Award), Justin Huertas’ Lizard Boy The Musical (Winner, Outstanding Lead Performance in a Musical).

    Prior to joining Diversionary Theatre, Matt was the Associate Artistic Director of City Theatre Company, a LORT theatre in Pittsburgh. With City she developed and directed the World Premiere of Tami Dixon’s South Side Stories (Pittsburgh Post Gazette & Tribune Review’s Top Ten of 2012, and Post Gazette’s Performer of the Year).

    Matt was a Creative Catalyst Fellow with The San Diego Foundation and La Jolla Playhouse. She has developed new work with The Sundance Theatre Institute, The Old Globe, The Banff Centre, Center Theatre Group, American Conservatory Theater, Lincoln Center, PlayPenn, and Page 73 Productions. She served as The John Wells Professor of Directing at Carnegie Mellon University’s School of Drama (Graduate & Undergraduate Directing programs), and is currently adjunct Professor of Directing for UCSD’s Graduate Directing program. She holds a BFA in Directing from Carnegie Mellon University.


    Matt will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  173. Community Grand Marshal

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    Community Grand Marshal: An individual or group that has demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBTQ community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    Moe Girton

    Moe Girton started her career in 2000, where she started as a door girl/security and bar back at The Flame; eventually working her way up to Bartender and Manager. She also was named Miss Gay San Diego in 2003. The Flame sold in 2004, and she transitioned to be a part of the opening team with Baja Betty’s. Over the years, she grew within the company and eventually opened up the World Famous Women’s Bar Gossip Grill, becoming a partner in the MO’s Universe Restaurant Group and a pillar for the community. Highly accredited, Gossip has gone forward and achieved new heights, winning the Nicky Award for Bar of the year in 2019, the first time for a Women’s Bar. She is passionate about putting values first and continues to provide a safe space for Women & the LGBTQ+ Community. This is her chosen family and tribe.

    Moe has received 6 Nicky awards including Business Woman of the Year in 2017 and has been featured in numerous documentaries and magazines including OUT, The Advocate, and Curve Magazine. She competed in a reality show called Barmageddon, where she came out on top as the winner. Moe believes in the importance of giving back, being an activist, and standing up for what you believe in. She has always been an active member of her community and has used her platform to help raise awareness and money for a variety of nonprofits and fundraisers; donating and raising hundreds of thousands of dollars.

    12 years and a few more restaurants later, Moe, along with her business partners, are now opening another Female Forward space; Barrel & Board, a next-level Restaurant & Bar. Moe and the MO’s Universe family has teamed up with organizations such as The Center, San Diego Pride, HRC, and Red Dress Project to provide funds, time, space, and, of course, FUN for our community.

    Website: www.gossipgrill.com
    Facebook:
    Gossipgrill
    Instagram: @Gossipgrill


    Moe will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.

  174. Stonewall Philanthropy

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    Stonewall Philanthropy Award- The Burgess Family

    Stonewall Philanthropy: A group, organization, or individual which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer, but which has diligently raised funds to support the LGBTQ community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year. 

    Burgess Family 

    The Burgess Family exemplifies the spirit of the Philanthropy Award because the entire family has given generously of their time, talent, and treasure in some way to support San Diego Pride’s youth programs over the last few years. Shelley and Dave are award-winning educators whose highly respected work focuses on building leadership capacity of teachers and motivating hard-to-reach students.

    Together, they run Dave Burgess Consulting, Inc. a company which has authored the New York Times Best-Selling “Teach Like A Pirate: Increase Student Engagement, Boost Your Creativity, and Transform Your Life as an Educator.” Throughout their careers they have been positive change makers and allies to the LGBTQ community publishing books such as “Beyond the Surface of Restorative Practices” and “It’s Okay to say They: Tips for Educator Allies of Transgender and Nonbinary Students.” Their enthusiastic support of San Diego Pride’s Youth programming was inspired by their child’s Fin’s positive engagement and has allowed San Diego Pride to grow the programs available to LGBTQ youth and even sustain virtual programs through the extended pandemic. Their child Fin Burgess (he/they) has worked their way up to become a Youth Ambassador with San Diego Pride and helped so many LGBTQ youth feel safe and validated their identity in their leadership role. Fin has given countless hours of support to youth through the COVID-19 pandemic that are just coming out, facing unsupportive and sometimes abusive family members, or just struggling with school as a Peer Outreach team member.

    Moreover, their willingness to openly share their family’s story of love, acceptance, and togetherness with our community through interviews and live streams over the past few years has enabled other families to learn and become more understanding of the struggles of their own LGBTQ children.


    The Burgess Family will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  175. Light of Pride

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    Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition

    Light of Pride: Presented by St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral and San Diego Pride, the Light of Pride award seeks to recognize religious and community organizations that have made significant contributions to the LGBT Community.

    Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition

    The Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition, a non-profit, nongovernmental tribal coalition has been providing services and advocacy for women and 2SLGBTQ people. Giving voice to the marginalized and believing that love should not hurt, the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition brings awareness against sexual assault and domestic violence in San Diego Indian Country. Their focus is to assist in the essential change needed to reduce domestic violence and sexual assault by working to improve systemic and community responses to Native American women, their families, and their community.

    Native Relatives from the Indian reservations of Rincon, Pauma, Mesa Grande, Santa Ysabel, La Jolla, San Pasqual, Los Coyotes, Pala, and Inaja/Cosmit, Cahuilla, Soboba, San Manuel, Morongo, Torres Martinez, Jamul Indian Village, make-up their membership

    We honor our ancestors by advocating for their families by promoting safety and a traditional non-violent lifestyle. Working towards empowering our relatives with the tools for independence, courage, and a strong direction to make healthy life choices for Themselves and their families. Additionally, the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition values and honors the traditions of the Two-Spirit LGBTQ indigenous people.

    The Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition offers the following services: Kiicha shelter, crisis intervention, safety planning, emergency food and clothing, and training and education for professionals and the community.

    You can learn more about the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition at strongheartednativewomen.org

     


    The Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 16, 2021. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the event here.

  176. 10 years of Pride

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    10 years ago San Diego Pride hired our first Black Executive Director, Dwayne Crenshaw. That same week Dwayne called me out of the blue and asked me if I would join in his vision to turn San Diego Pride into a year-round education and advocacy organization – Pride 365. Dwayne was familiar with my political organizing experience and my policy advocacy work with Equality California and Marriage Equality USA, and hoped I would bring those skills to the organization. I remember thinking he was out of his mind and said “No.” He asked me to coffee and fully explained the potential he saw in the power of Pride’s visibility, economic strength, and volunteer base. 10 years ago this Friday I was cautiously optimistic as I joined the Pride Family.

    Right away Dwayne had me engage with our LGBTQ small businesses on policy recommendations, join labor coalitions to support worker rights, and partner with the ACLU on criminal justice reform. He quickly became and continues to be a brilliant mentor, a trusted confidant, and most importantly a fierce friend.

    Dwayne would part ways with Pride to more deeply pursue racial and economic justice as he co-founded RISE San Diego, the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, and in the aftermath of the murder of George Floyd and our ongoing national reckoning on race, he has most recently rebranded and reorganized another organization he founded RISE@Work as The Humanity Movement with a mission to help eradicate racism and advance liberty and justice for all humans. Always in his wake are new organizations founded, new programs developed, marginalized communities elevated, and new leaders lifted and connected to an intersectional network of support.

    While San Diego Pride has benefited from generations of inspiring LGBTQ leaders passing the torch, without question Dwayne showed us who we could be, dared us to dream, and pushed us to work for it. In these last 10 years we have grown from a 4-person staff to one of 11, from a team of a couple of dozen volunteer leaders to one nearly 200, and from a handful of year-round programs to over 30 year-round volunteer-lead initiatives. We’ve shifted school policy and expanded youth programs. We’ve turned out thousands upon thousands of LGBTQ voters to the polls each election cycle. We’ve become the most philanthropic Pride in the world. We’ve started music and art programs, hiring hundreds of LGBTQ artists on a typical Pride year. We’ve seen active duty service members walk openly in our Parade – the first anywhere in the nation – and we legally officiate weddings at our Festival. We’ve elevated dignity and respect for the LGBTQ community by spearheading the naming of the first Harvey Milk Street in the country, and supported the Hillcrest Business Association’s efforts to bring the Pride Flag monument to reality. We’ve had over 100 faith leaders condemn anti-LGBTQ hate, and worked with Republican elected officials to come out in support of the Equality Act. I could go on for a decade’s worth of inspiring moments.

    As a formerly homeless, first-generation Mexican-American, queer nonbinary kid from the rural border town of El Centro, California who was bullied their whole life, I never thought that I’d survive this long, let alone have the privilege of serving an organization like San Diego Pride. I will be forever grateful to Dwayne, a gay Black man and a son of a Baptist Minister, for seeing what was possible and for inviting me along. I’m proud to announce Dwayne Crenshaw J.D. as this year’s Champion of Pride recipient for the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. His legacy is one that has made our organization, community, and movement that much more Resilient.

  177. Resilient

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    Have you taken a moment to pause and reflect on everything you have overcome in the last year? You have survived through a pandemic, isolation, fear, a reckoning on racial injustice, unemployment, hospitalization, an insurrection, and the impossibly devastating loss of loved ones counted in the approximately 600,000 to 900,000 COVID-19 deaths we’ve had in the United States. While we have further to go, you have made it this far. You are resilient.

    Our community and movement remain under threat as the pandemic exposed systemic barriers to our success, anti-LGBTQ bills are being entered into legislative bodies across the country, and our civil rights hang in the balance again with the Supreme Court. Our community is also mobilizing, strengthening our national intersectional coalitions in deeply meaningful ways, assisted by the innovation our remote work has required us to learn. You are a part of that vital work.

    Hope and gratitude may feel like impossible emotions to rip from the jaws of our own anxiety as we cautiously attempt to heal from this marathon of trauma, and yet as I write this to you, what echos through my mind is the strength and beauty that is queer resilience. Our diversity, creativity, resolve, and battle-tested brilliance have always helped this community shine.

    Vaccines are helping to bring us all slowly back together, as we do the labor of discarding our trauma and relearn how to be in community and feel safe. In that recovery, we will rub our eyes and the world will slowly come into focus. It will become more and more clear the ways in which our community and movement can restore, rebuild, redeem, and revive one another. We will become whole again as we reimagine a free and fearless future and see that in our core we are still ourselves, full of pride and joy. Rest. Reflect. Heal. Better days lie ahead where we are together, and together, we are Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  178. You can help pass the Equality Act!

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    The Biden administration has been actively working to protect LGBTQ Americans across the county and around the world. Meanwhile, 33 states have introduced anti-transgender pieces of legislation. We are also awaiting a decision on the Fulton v Philadelphia case, as the Supreme Court will decide whether or not an organization can be both funded by our government and actively discriminate against LGBTQ people. The results of this case have the potential to chip away at marriage equality rights, LGBTQ employment protection, as well as legal protections for women, communities of color, people of all faiths, and more.

    The state of rights and protections for LGBTQ people across this country is a tattered patchwork that can shift dramatically depending on the city, county, or state that you live in or visit. A part of the strategy to ensure legal protections for all LGBTQ people is working towards the passage of the Equality Act. The legislation, which has already passed the House of Representatives, will update the Civil Rights Act of 1964 to ensure that LGBTQ people are expressly protected, and it will fill in gaps to ensure that all people are protected from discrimination in public accommodations settings like restaurants and stores.

    Shifting legislation is just one of the ways our movement works to ensure a better-lived experience for our community. If we can pass the Equality Act it would mark the single greatest legislative victory for our community, but the positive impacts don’t simply end at the LGBTQ community. The legislation will also help protect people of color, people of faith, immigrants, and women. 

    Join us today alongside our partners at the National LGBTQ Task Force, The NEAT, LULAC, NALEO, United We Dream, TransLatina Coalition, Latino Equality Alliance, Hispanic Federation, and UnidosUS as we discuss why the Equality Act is so vital for the LGBTQ Latinx community. We are also taking a leading role on upcoming forums with our national coalition partners on the Equality Act as it impacts trans and gender-nonconforming folks and the Asian Pacific Islander Community in the coming weeks. We encourage you to join in and learn about how you can play a role in making the Equality Act a reality.

    Our LGBTQ movement has made impressive gains with this new administration. It’s not just about changing the law, it’s about changing our lived experience for the better. Our recent victories must not leave us complacent. We must instead use each success as an opportunity to lift each other up and weave our intersectional social justice movements more tightly together. This is how, through the continuum of our intergenerational movement towards liberation, we remain Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  179. Resilient Survivors

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    Content Warning: This newsletter discusses sexual assault.

    It was eight years ago this week when I became the victim of rape, right here in my own community. While this was not the first time I was raped by someone in our community, it was the first time I sought help. In my journey to find support and treatment, I kept bumping into the lack of LGBTQ culturally competent care and information. As I began to share my story with friends, family, and community I heard from too many an ever-growing chorus of voices saying, “Me too.”

    What started with a small group of queer, bisexual, and gay men grew into the LGBTQ Survivor Task Force as we attempted to bring better, more culturally competent care to our community. Nationwide, approximately 40% of gay men and half of bisexual men have experienced sexual violence, compared to 20% of heterosexual men. 75% percent of bisexual women and 44% of lesbians have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner, compared to 35% of heterosexual women. 47% of our transgender siblings and 55% of all non-binary people experience sexual assault in their lifetimes.

    The work of the committee grew over several years into a conference hosting over 100 people a year. Last year that conference went virtual as the committee, and all of us, adjusted to the new realities of the pandemic. The unintended consequences of the essential public health stay at home orders were LGBTQ people, youth in particular were at greater risk of sexual violence and human trafficking making the work of these incredible community members that much more vital.

    Again this year, there will not be an in person conference. However, the work of the LGBTQ Survivor Task Force is expanding as they prepare to host online workshops for providers, community members, survivors, and youth beginning in summer. The committee is also diving more deeply into advocacy and policy work. I’m thrilled to see how much this committee has grown, adapted, and elevated this work in service to survivors and ending rape culture.

    I can’t write about this work without mentioning one of the committee’s founding members Christopher Sheehan, who we lost last year. I know he would be inspired by our progress. We all know there is much work to do to change the climate and culture around sexual violence, especially in support of our under resourced LGBTQ community. Last night I watched our President Joe Biden speak on the need to pass the Equality Act and support our trans youth. Behind him stood two women for the first time in our Nation’s history. The moment gave me hope and reminded me, personally and as a country, we are Resilient.

    Read the full newsletter here.

    Learn more about the LGBTQIA+ Survivor Task Force
  180. From Accountability to Justice

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    On Tuesday, a jury found Derek Chauvin guilty for the murder of George Floyd – marking the first time in Minnesota’s state history that a white police officer was held accountable for the murder of a Black man, an auspicious and painful “first.” Police have shot and killed over 135 unarmed Black men and women around the country since 2015; less than 10% of those killings led to any criminal charges. 

    While many of us have hope that this verdict may open the door to holding police accountable, this is only one small step, and this one case does not bring justice for Black folks across America. The fact that many of us were holding our breath in anticipation of the verdict in this case, that many of us were surprised that a White police officer would actually be held accountable for the excruciating 9 minutes and 29 seconds that he kneeled on George Floyd’s neck, is in itself an indictment of our current broken system. 

    The verdict on Tuesday does not bring back George Floyd. The one guilty verdict does not in any way ease or erase the long legacy of police killings of Black and Brown people in this country. George Floyd should be alive. Adam Toledo, a 13-year-old Latinx boy killed by police in Chicago on March 29th, should be alive. Daunte Wright, the young Black man killed by police on April 11 in Brooklyn Center, MN – just 10 miles away from where the jury was deliberating in the Chauvin case – should be alive. Ma’Khia Bryant, the 16-year-old Black girl killed by police in Columbus, Ohio on Tuesday – the same day as the Chauvin verdict – should be alive. Their lives mattered. The police violence that these Black and Brown folks faced is not unique to Minnesota, or to Illinois, or to Ohio. The current culture within law enforcement agencies across America is untenable and incompatible with valuing Black and Brown lives. 

    This country’s promise of liberty and justice for all has not yet been met. Black and brown folks in the United States deserve so much more than our current system provides. We have to believe that it’s possible to get there, to end discrimination and systemic justice, and to bring about a systemic and cultural shift that truly values Black and Brown lives. San Diego Pride remains committed to engaging in the work to end discrimination and systemic injustice locally, nationally, and globally. We hope you join us in this work so our movement remains Resilient. 

    In Solidarity,

    Jen LaBarbera
    Education & Advocacy Manager

    San Diego Pride

    Fernando Z. López
    Executive Director 

    San Diego Pride

  181. Statement Regarding the Derek Chauvin Guilty Verdicts

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    Today’s guilty verdict in the trial of Derek Chauvin for the murder of George Floyd in Minneapolis on May 25, 2020 is an important step in the fight for racial justice. We are grateful that some justice has been served for George Floyd and his family. We honor and uplift the legacy of movement building work that led to this moment, and are hopeful that today’s verdict signifies a shift for our nation that we may all build upon. San Diego Pride stands in solidarity with our Black community, friends, and families as we continue this fight for true justice and safety for all people.

    To be clear, this verdict does not bring back George Floyd. Nor does it bring back Daunte Wright, Breonna Taylor, Philando Castile, Trayvon Martin, or any of the Black folks that have been killed by police.

    This country’s promise of liberty and justice for all has not yet been met. Black and brown folks in the United States deserve so much more than our current system provides. San Diego Pride remains committed to engaging in the work to end discrimination and systemic injustice locally, nationally, and globally.

  182. Pride in a Pandemic

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    It was one year ago that we had to announce that Pride as we recognized it was not going to be possible in the midst of a pandemic that had no foreseeable end in sight. I shared these words:

    “Pride is not canceled. In-person mass gatherings are canceled. Nothing can strip away our pride. Nothing can deny us the pride our community has built inside ourselves, our community, or the broader world. We will still find ways to raise our Pride flags, celebrate the vibrancy of our community, and bring to light the issues that our movement still faces.”

    Today, the same holds true. Over the past year our organization was stripped of its pillar events and funding streams. Thankfully, we had prepared our financial reserves to a place where we could survive a financially catastrophic year. Thankfully, as an organization run predominantly by volunteers across the county, our cloud-based systems allowed us to continue our programming in virtual spaces. Suddenly, without the giant Parade and Festival, what remained were our year-round education and advocacy programs. People began to see that Pride was more than a party.

    Pride events and organizations were not born out of pure celebration, but out of a need to fight back against oppression, carve out intentional space, claim visibility, find power, and lift up community. Our annual Pride Parade and Festival, while massive and important, are only two of the ways we engage in our mission to foster pride, equality, and respect for all LGBTQ communities locally, nationally, and globally.

    Throughout the last year we were able to reach over 750,000 people with our LGBTQ content and programs; more than we had ever reached in a single year. Through our international partnership with Global Pride, we helped reach over 57 million people around the world. All this amazing work has been a shining example of queer resilience.

    We are adapting again. We are planning Pride in a way that slowly and safely begins to bring back our community in shared spaces. We are pursuing joy with cautious optimism as we all attempt to mend the fear and trauma we have all endured over the last year.

    We’re not completely out of the woods yet. COVID-19 rates are still on the rise in the US and many places around the world. We cannot get ahead of ourselves. We must continue to abide by public health and safety guidelines. Wear masks, distance, wash your hands, and please take the opportunities available to you to get vaccinated. We’re almost there but we all have to do our part to get pass this.

    As we look to celebrate Pride in new ways that are smaller in scale or virtual, depending on your comfort level, know how excited our Pride Family is to bring us together again. We will continue to closely monitor the ever-changing public health and safety guidelines and will adapt our plans accordingly. The first week of June we will announce what all of those in-person events and live streams look like. We truly can’t wait to share! Until then, please stay safe. We can’t wait to see you all again in celebration because we know that together, we are resilient.

    P.S. Pride is hosting our second vaccine clinic this coming Saturday, May 1, for our BIPOC-LGBTQ and HIV+ community members. Schedule an appointment here.

    San Diego Pride staff at the San Diego Pride Festival grounds
  183. Trans & Strong

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    Billie Jean King, Billy Bean, Renée Richards, Liz Carmouche, Greg Louganis, and many other high-profile LGBTQ athletes have San Diego roots. Last year, the entire San Diego Loyal Soccer Club walked off the field forfeiting their game after their openly gay player, Collin Martin, was subjected to an anti-gay slur and no action was taken against the player. Meanwhile transgender athletes like San Diegans Paulo Batista and Sam Moehlig are also inspiring out activists, carving a wider path for others to follow. Their pioneering presence in athletic spaces is ever more important as anti-LGBTQ extremists have found their latest targets: transgender athletes. 

    At the moment there are around 200 anti-LGBTQ bills working their way through legislative bodies across the country. 30 states have introduced anti-transgender pieces of legislation. Some of this legislation is aimed at denying access to life-saving health care, yet what seems to be getting a great deal of media attention are attacks on young trans athletes (particularly young trans girls) disguised as support for women in sports. We see right through their dehumanizing and dangerous lies and misinformation. You can stay up to date on the status of these bills and the #LetKidsPlay movement by following organizations and activists like Athlete Ally, Chase Strangio, Freedom for All Americans, LGBT Movement Advancement Project, and OutSports.

    There are very real needs and ways to support women in sports, like equitable access and equal pay. The attacks we’re seeing on trans youth however is nothing more than the weaponization of trans exclusionary radical feminism to the demonization and harm of children for the sake of political posturing. These tactics are not new. For generations we have seen anti-LGBTQ extremists lie about our community and youth to stoke fear and violence against against us, from the times before the Briggs Initiative, to Prop 8, and now trans athletes.

    With still relatively few out LGBTQ athletes in major league sports when compared to other industries, we know there is still much work to do. San Diego’s LGBTQ athletes have excelled in their respective sports while combating homophobia, transphobia, and HIV stigma for decades. 

    Much of the vital work left to be done to combat LGBTQ discrimination in athletic spaces includes protecting the most vulnerable of our population by stopping bullying and harassment in playgrounds, P.E., and youth programs.There is much left to fight for in the lives of LGBTQ athletes including having supportive parents, coaches, teachers, team owners, managers, fans in the stadium, and legislatures across the county. I hope you will take a personal and vocal stance in support of our transgender youth and their ability to play and live as freely as they chose. Their success and ability to thrive is a vital part of how our movement will remain Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. Lopez

    P.S. Get involved with a local LGBTQ sports league. You can learn more about them here.

  184. Transgender Day of Empowerment Toolkit

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    I’m celebrating transgender excellence on Friday, April 2 at 6PM for the San Diego Transgender Day of Empowerment livestream which includes the announcement of the 7th Annual Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund recipients. Join me by watching the livestream and donate to next year’s fund here: www.sdpride.org/tdoe

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  185. Trans Visible

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    Over the decades, the anti-LGBTQ establishment has used “protecting youth,” marriage equality, military service, and bathroom bills as wedge issues to divide our country, to drive radical anti-LGBTQ folks to the polls, and even to divide our own community. They have largely failed. We’ve made progress. Their current target centers again on our trans siblings, in particular our trans youth with regards to participation in athletics and access to gender-affirming health care. Scores of anti-transgender pieces of legislation are being introduced all across the country.

    From Laverne Cox keynoting our Spirit of Stonewall Rally in 2014, to the nearly two decades of our Trans Pride Village at the Pride Festival, to trans performing artists like Jake Zyrus and Kim Petras on our Mainstage, and our transgender veterans and servicemembers leading our Parade, we counteract these divisive and dehumanizing anti-transgender initiatives and narratives by elevating voices, stories, and the exceptional talent of our transgender and nonbinary community.

    This week our nation made history as Dr. Rachel Levine became the assistant secretary for health in the Department of Health and Human Services, making her our nation’s first openly transgender federal official to be confirmed by the Senate. We need more transgender people in positions of leadership and power. We must continue to invest in our transgender youth and adults to help them excel in the classroom and lead in the board room.

    As this organization’s first nonbinary Executive Director, I am honored and privileged to serve as we have expanded our youth leadership development programs and the Tracie Jada Obrien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund, two programs that help to prepare the next generation of trans leaders. This year we will give out 28 scholarships to trans students attending community colleges and Ivy League schools, bringing our grand total to 122 scholarships.

    Our collective fight against anti-trans issues and policies doesn’t always mean direct confrontation. (Though we do that too.) It also means showcasing trans-joy, uplifting trans-brilliance, and cultivating generations of trans-excellence. That is how we win the long game of justice for our community. That is how we ensure that our movement is Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more & Donate to the Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund here.

  186. Your words matter.

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    My heart is with you and every single person who is grieving over the tragic loss of life in Georgia. For over a year the escalation of anti-Asian racism and xenophobia has stoked a rise in violence and bloodshed. This nation cannot continue to turn a blind eye to the fact that words matter. That dehumanizing rhetoric leads to dehumanizing action, and too often, as we’ve seen, with dire consequences. This uncomfortable truth is not new to the APIMEDA community, not new to BIPOC communities, not new to women, not new to the LGBTQ community, not new to any marginalized population.

    The previous administration intentionally uplifted racism, xenophobia, transphobia, misogyny, and White Supremacy through words and policy as a political tool, unconcerned with the consequences. Those of us from marginalized communities called for the hate speech to end specifically sighting the violence that would ensue. We’ve been here before. We know what happens. As many predicted, year over year, hate crimes rose. At the deadly center of that hate-fueled venn diagram were our trans siblings, specifically Black transgender women. 2020 became the deadliest year on record for our trans community. Gun violence killed three out of four trans people last year. Words matter.

    Right now, scores of anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation have been proposed across the country, and the Equality Act is taking center stage on a national level. Our rights and very lives as LGBTQ people are being debated in the media, legislative offices, and living rooms with ignorant and destructive arguments that seek to strip away our humanity––words being echoed across the nation, reaching young ears and malleable minds. This too cannot be ignored. We know that words matter. We know all too well the death and violence they can bring. 

    For over 50 years, our movement has countered these dehumanizing messages of shame with authentic messages of Pride in our own existence. Slowly but surely we are winning hearts and minds. We build intentional spaces to lift up visible, vibrant displays of our joy from people and communities that would otherwise be denigrated. We can hold on to our distinct cultural identities, sexual orientations, and gender identities as a part of our beautifully creative individuality. As we again mourn the loss of life taken too soon, we must too recommit ourselves to this intersectional work: Black, APIMEDA, Latinx, Indigenous, LGBTQ, disabled, and more. We must stand in solidarity, finding strength in our differences, building a shared movement and a world that is Resilient.

    With Hope & Allyship,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Learn more about our programs that center the API and transgender communities here.

  187. 1 Year

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    How do we even begin to grieve? Typically in times of crisis, mourning, loss, or great tragedy, we gather together with family, in community to honor the memory of those we’ve lost, to comfort one another, and simply embrace each other. We can’t do that yet. Even at Pride we come together in moments of loss or crisis, whether it was marching to City Hall to honor those lost to the AIDS crisis, or marching at the Pride Parade holding the names, faces, and images of the 49 lives lost in the Pulse Nightclub massacre. It is in community we heal and find our resilience. We aren’t fully able to do that yet.

    For one year we have witnessed friends, family, loved ones, coworkers, and community members bear their grief online, at a distance. Our own sadness remaining unlifted. Our own desire to help others heal stymied by the necessities of our time. We can feel so helpless, unable to hug, hold, and engage in our normal rituals to release our pain, let them go and honor their memories. 

    The United States alone has lost over 530,000 people in the last year to COVID-19. I think I’ve wept more times in the last year than any other year in my life. The research shows us what many of us already knew, LGBTQ people of color are twice as likely to contract COVID-19 than our white heterosexual siblings. Not because there is anything wrong with us, but because the pandemic has highlighted the systemic social and economic impacts that lead to health disparity within marginalized communities.

    COVID-19 wasn’t the only way we lost people in the last year. Leaving far too many of us tethered to our shared disconnection from our grieving process. We ask ourselves, how do we move forward?

    One of my early and more cherished mentors was Aida Mancillas. A lesbian, Latina, activist and artist who took me under her wing 18 years ago. She once said to me, “You want to change the world, but the thing is you can’t. What you can do is tend to your garden and teach others to do the same. That is how you change the world.” There’s hardly a day that goes by when I don’t think of her words. We lost her twelve years ago. She was only 55.

    In this last year we’ve lost people like Christopher Sheehan who helped to found the LGBTQ Survivors Task Force, Larry T. Baza who helped build San Diego Pride into the LGBTQ arts and culture beacon that it is today, and just this week Irene Meza-Herrig who built a community of empowered LGBTQ women and each year brought the roaring strength of hundreds of LGBTQ women to sound off the start of our Parade. 

    All of their legacies will live on with us. Everything they’ve taught us. Every person they have healed, empowered, guided, mentored, and helped to feel liberated in themselves. Each of us and our community are stronger and more connected because of their vision and stewardship. They and the many that we’ve lost in the last year built in us the best parts of ourselves. That part of them in each of us never leaves. We now wait and hope to all be physically reunited to grieve and mourn and smile and uncover joy again. Until that day and long after we will remain grateful that they tended to their garden, taught us to do the same, and made us all Resilient.

    Sincerely,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  188. Art as Advocacy

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    Arts and civil rights advocate Larry T. Baza, a gay man of Latino and Chamorro heritage, was co-chair of San Diego Pride at a pivotal moment in our history. The organization was formalizing into its own 501c3. The Parade changed routes to start from Hillcrest. The Festival was reimagined to become a self-sustaining event that showcased the art, culture, services, and organizations that make up our vibrant community. The growth and success of our events and organization into one of the largest Prides in the world is a lesson in art as advocacy.

    Last year, during our livestream entitled Proud Identities, done in partnership with the San Diego Museum of Art, Larry declared, “this is the convening of all my worlds in one place” and shared backstage “my heart is full.” We had so many plans to expand that work together. We lost Larry to COVID-19, Saturday, February 20, 2021. His legacy lives in our hearts and our continued work bringing together QTBIPOC artists to express their lived experiences and talents to heal, educate, and thrive.

    Pride helps us revel in the diverse and beautiful brilliance of our community. At our Festival we’ve hosted queer artists like Melissa Etheridge, Mykki Blanco, King Princess, Kim Petras, Snow Tha Product, Jake Zyrus, and more who use their platform to uplift intersectional identities and advocate for our community’s right to exist. Even now, in times of COVID, our Vibe with Pride series with host Jai Rodriguez further tells the story of queer artists and why their craft is so vital.

    Every year, all year round, our programs incorporate arts and culture as a tool for expression and advocacy. Our youth programs use art to teach concepts of gender expression and healthy relations. Our annual Pride Youth Art Show gives young LGBTQ visual artists a space to wield art as a compelling form of storytelling. Our partnership with the San Diego Queer Youth Chorus and our Pride Youth Marching Band creates a safe space for queer young musicians to foster character development and leadership in a culturally supportive community.

    As an event turned organization that started with paper bags over our heads, Pride has a robust photography and videography team capturing our joy and struggles to share with the world. Each of our programs is supported by queer graphic designers who create flyers, posters, banners, and designs. Art of Pride showcases local LGBTQ artists in our building, online, and in the festival. There is almost nothing that we do that isn’t touched or uplifted by arts and culture.

    I was recently told by a government official that “there is no LGBTQ arts and culture.” They are wrong. However our community understands how often our work, creativity, and brilliance is ignored, abused, or stolen for profit. San Diego Pride is this region’s largest civic event, and we are arts and culture through our core. This annual and year round celebration of LGBTQ art and culture has a 26.6 million dollar impact on our region and has become one of the most philanthropic prides in the world. Yet we, and Prides around the country, continue to be left out of relief funding in large part because we are considered an event, and the event industry has been left behind. Failure to recognize Pride organizations as vital parts of our arts and culture community and economy could have devastating impacts on not only the Pride movement but on the LGBTQ community and the artists and entertainers we uplift. 

    Even a year into the pandemic, as our favorite DJs stream into our living rooms, our drag queens sew PPP masks, and activists learn new video storytelling tools, our artistic creativity is keeping us connected and relatively sane. Our artists help us be seen, be heard, find family, build capacity, and carve out the space for us all to be unapologetically our true, authentic selves. That is beautiful. That is Art. That is Pride. That is how we are Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  189. BREAKING: Equality Act Passes House

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    Today, the US House of representatives voted in support of the Equality Act! It is now up to the Senate to move the legislation forward, as President Biden has already declared that passing the historic piece of LGBTQ protection is a priority for his first 100 days in office. When we won marriage equality in the consolidated Supreme Court victories of 2013 and 2015 respectively, far too many outside our community thought our work was done. We know, however, the work wasn’t done then, and it won’t be done even with the passage of the Equality Act.

    The Equality Act is a vital piece of legislation that will create expressed protections for the LGBTQ community under federal law as well as enhance existing legal protections for people of color, people of faith, immigrants, and women. LGBTQ people will finally have protections from discrimination in employment, housing, education, and public accommodation. I’m confident that despite the obstacles that lie ahead of us, this historic legislation will pass. When it does, we must remember that our work is not done.

    For years, a strategy by anti-LGBTQ extremists has been to place hundreds of seemingly innocuous bills and blatantly oppressive pieces of legislation in cities, counties, and states all across the country in an attempt to establish “religious exemptions” to equal protection laws. These bills, coupled with the stacking of anti-LGBTQ judicial appointments across the country, including the Supreme Court, is part of an overarching strategy to ensure that women, LGBTQ people, religious minorities, and communities of color are left vulnerable to discrimination. 

    As our community works towards the passage of the Equality Act, we are also awaiting a Supreme Court decision on the Fulton v Philadelphia case. Before the court is the question of whether or not an organization can be both funded by our government and actively discriminate against the LGBTQ community. The results of this case have the potential to chip away at marriage equality rights, the Equality Act, as well as legal protections for women, communities of color, people of all religions, and more.

    Our LGBTQ movement has made impressive gains within our City, County, and State. With this new administration, we are poised to make significant gains federally and internationally. It’s not just about changing the law, it’s about changing the lived experience of our community for the better. From these victories cannot come complacency. We must instead use each success as an opportunity to lift each other up and weave our intersectional social justice movements more tightly together. This is how, through the continuum of our intergenerational movement towards liberation, we remain Resilient.

    In solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  190. Stop API Hate

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    Over the last year we have seen a disturbing rise in anti-API hate-fueled violence and xenophobic attitudes stoked by the former administration’s disgusting rhetoric. In 2013, our Spirit of Stonewall Rally had openly gay artist, author, and activist, George Takei, as our keynote speaker. Takei is a survivor of the US internment camps that wrongly imprisoned approximately 120,000 people of Japanese ancestry. He reminded us all from our stage how deeply connected our struggles were and are, that our fight for LGBTQ equality and racial justice must be connected.

    Throughout the history of our organization, we have highlighted the intersectionality of LGBTQ oppression as it touches every other social justice movement. For about a decade we’ve enjoyed a partnership with Pacific Arts Movement having worked with strong vocal LGBTQ allies, former and current executive directors, Lee Ann Kim and Kent Lee. Pride has funded and promoted screenings at the annual San Diego Asian Film Festival that tell the stories and lived experiences of LGBTQ APIMEDA (Asian, Pacific Islander, Middle Eastern, and Desi Americans) people.

    Following the legacy of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, and Latinx Coalition, LGBTQ APIMEDA, community members formed the San Diego Queer APIMEDA Coalition in 2019 to help build intentional culturally empowering spaces within our tent pole events and year-round programming. Their work alongside the two other coalitions helped to create a strong, visible LGBTQ BIPOC contingent in our annual parade and a POC Passport at our Festival highlighting QTBIPOC businesses and organizations. The group also created the Asian Night Market within our Pride festival to showcase LGBTQ APIMEDA food, businesses, music, and community groups.

    Last year, as the pandemic took hold, our QAPIMEDA committee began to tell us about the racist, xenophobic harassment and discrimination they were enduring. We knew we had to respond. Together with the Pacific Arts Movement, Pride worked to rally 70 API organizations to publicly denounce hate, stand in solidarity with other anti-racist movements, and declare that Black Lives Matter.

    Since that statement was issued, the group formalized into the San Diego API Coalition. Together they are working to amplify and cultivate leadership within the API community, and we are proud to have San Diego Pride’s Marketing & Communications Manager and QAPIMEDA founder Alex C. Villafuerte serve as their co-chair. Pride’s QAPIMEDA Coalition has also joined NQAPIA’s federation, which opens up our program to a broader national network of collaboration and capacity building.

    I write every week to remind us of our interconnectedness. To understand our history, and how we are connected to this legacy of work in our present. Our movements are connected. The road ahead is hard. Even some of the rooms and work we are invited into don’t yet fully acknowledge the LGBTQ community’s part to play in the broader struggle for social justice, or our need for equality. We know. We are working. Together, we will weave more tightly the movement for liberation because we are Resilient.

    In solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  191. Please, Remain Resilient

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    February 3 Press Conference, Hillcrest. Left to Right: San Diego City Council President Dr. Jen Campbell, San Diego Pride Executive Director Fernando Z. López, San Diego Pride Co-Chair David Thompson, City of San Diego Mayor Todd Gloria. Photo Credit: Carlos B. Solorio.

    Our city, region, and nation have seen a rise in violent White Supremacist activity over the last several years, the increase has been palpable the last few months. The recent attack on an LGBTQ open and affirming congregation and LGBTQ-owned business, both showing visible support for the Black Lives Matter movement and LGBTQ community, was a direct message and part of a long term pattern of behavior.

    We know these incidents are not new, nor are they isolated. They are part of the persistent and pervasive continuum of White Supremacist activity that has plagued our region for far too long. For months outsiders have come into Hillcrest to incite fear in the LGBTQ community by throwing eggs, brandishing weapons, tagging buildings, harassing patrons, and targeting business owners. Our community is no stranger to this violence. 

    We need to look no further back than 2006 when men with baseball bats attacked our Festival attendees or the 1999 tear gas attack at our Parade to know our community is a target.

    We need look no further than the White Supremacist protests and rallies that shook our community and in Pacific Beach or the insurrection at the Capitol just last month. 

    We must acknowledge and reckon with the fact that the Asian community, particularly elders, have been violently attacked here locally, in the SF bay area, and across the country. We have to call out and see the connective threads when we know that a gay man was stabbed in Oceanside this last NovemberBlack trans women have been murdered at epidemic levels, there was a shooting at Chabad Synagogue in 2019, a White Supremacist rally at Chicano Park in 2018, and that xenophobic militias have plagued our border region for far too long. These incidents aren’t happening in a vacuum. Racist, sexist, and homophobic attacks have been targeted at our local LGBTQ elected officials like Steve Padilla in Chula VistaCori Schumacher in Carlsbad, and our very own Mayor, here in the City of San Diego.

    As we create a path forward to combat homophobia and transphobia, we must also address systemic racism and White Supremacy, and as we work to combat racism and White Supremacy we must also address homophobia and transphobia. It is not us at the intersection of these lived experiences who are broken; it is our society and systems that need to be reimagined in service to all of us.

    These issues cannot be addressed unless we are vocal. We have to speak up, we have to be loud, and we have to report these issues as we are made aware of them, or we risk giving those who seek to harm us passive permission through our inaction. Historically, in times of great progress, there is also a great backlash. We must continue to organize, educate, and advocate for our intergenerational intersectional movement and build capacity and strength, so through it all, we remain Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Learn more about Pride’s Training Institute and refer organizations that could benefit from our work here.

  192. Vaccine Distribution Is Failing LGBTQ+ People With Disabilities

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    February 8, 2021

    To Whom It May Concern: 

    San Diego Pride is deeply concerned about the inequitable distribution of COVID-19 vaccines that is leaving our LGBTQ+ community members with disabilities behind, both in terms of prioritization and implementation. As an organization whose mission is to foster pride, equality, and respect for LGBTQ people locally, nationally, and globally, we are committed to advocating for equality for LGBTQ+ people with disabilities – a commitment that becomes all the more vital during a global pandemic. We join disability advocates from around the state in sharing our concern that the current vaccine distribution system leaves LGBTQ+ people with disabilities behind. Our concerns and demands echo those noted in the January 11, 2021 letter from disability advocates and providers on the California Community Vaccination Advisory Committee, which advocates for prioritized vaccination for lower-income persons with disabilities of all ages who receive home and community-based long-term services and supports, as well as those with disabilities who are at great risk of COVID-19 infection and severe illness or death.¹

    LGBTQ+ people with disabilities must be prioritized in the vaccine rollout strategy utilized by the State of California and by San Diego County. LGBTQ+ people are particularly vulnerable in the COVID-19 pandemic², both in terms of increased risk of the disease and decreased access to healthcare and the vaccine³. Research shows that LGBTQ+ people are actually more likely than the rest of the population to have a disability⁴. In comparison to about 27% of the general population, 40% of transgender people within the United States report having a disability, and one in three lesbians and one in three bisexual women report having a disability. Systemic inequities in the healthcare system that affect LGBTQ+ people compound with systemic inequities in the healthcare system that affect people with disabilities — and these disparities in access to healthcare, economic security, and employment are only exacerbated by the current global health crisis. For LGBTQ+ people with disabilities that are also Black, Indigenous, or other People of Color (BIPOC), these disparities continue to stack up, creating higher and higher barriers to access.

    In addition to the concerns about people with disabilities being pushed back in line behind healthy older adults, we echo and uplift the disability community’s concerns about the logistical distribution of the vaccine. While the current strategy includes vaccinations for people living in congregate settings such as long-term care facilities, people with disabilities that receive home and community-based services remain at a higher risk of exposure from their caregivers and service providers while being unable to access the vaccine through the current model. LGBTQ+ people with disabilities in our community have brought concerns with the current model to our attention: for example, lines at most vaccination sites are long, making it difficult for people with disabilities who may not be able to stand or wait in line for long periods of time. Additionally, we’re concerned about basic accessibility needs in our high-volume supersites and vaccination sites: e.g. access for Deaf people who need ASL interpretation, blind people who need assistance navigating the physical space, physical access for people using wheelchairs and mobility devices. With our staff and volunteers at these sites already stretched to their limits, San Diego Pride shares the concerns of many in the disability community that these needs may not be addressed. In addition, many LGBTQ+ people with disabilities may struggle to trust medical providers based on well-documented experiences of discrimination and dismissal. The implementation of vaccine distribution must also take the experiences and access needs of LGBTQ+ people with disabilities into account. 

    Thank you for considering the unique needs of LGBTQ+ people with disabilities in prioritization and implementation of the vaccine strategy as our County, State, and nation grapple with the best approach to the COVID-19 global pandemic.

    Sincerely,

    Fernando Z. López
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    ¹ Members of California Community Advisory Vaccine Committee. Jan 11, 2021. Covid Phase 1B for People with Disabilities Letter. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ZcRZzJOZY-hJVJpi8sesODpIu56C4XKN/view?usp=sharing
    ² LGBT Cancer Network and GLMA. March 11, 2020. Open Letter About Coronavirus And LGBTQ+ Communities,, https://cancer-network.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/Press-Release-Open-Letter-LGBTQ-Covid19-17.pdf
    ³ LGBT Cancer Network and GLMA. December 18, 2020. LGBTQI Inclusion in COVID-19 Data Collection & Vaccination Planning. https://cancer-network.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/LGBTQI-Data-Vaccination-Letter-Final.pdf
    ⁴ Movement Advancement Project. July 2019. LGBT People With Disabilities. https://www.lgbtmap.org/lgbt-people-disabilities

    Download the full letter here.

  193. Black Brilliance is Resilience

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    In 1990, Vertez Burks joined our board and in 1992 became first Black co-chair of San Diego Pride. Vertez Burks, together with Latino co-chair, Larry Baza, was instrumental in changing the locations of the Pride Parade and Festival to the locations we recognize today, formalizing us from an ad-hoc committee into a nonprofit organization, and shifting us to a profitable model that lead us on a path to becoming the most philanthropic Pride in the world. Vertez, was followed in that work by other Black LGBTQ community leaders serving as co-chairs like Phyllis Jackson and current co-chair David Thompson.

    In 2011, Dwayne Crenshaw became the first Black executive director in our organization’s history. He was also the first ED of color. Dwayne brought a vision, built on the shoulders of those who came before, that Pride could become a year-round education and advocacy organization. In the ten years since he invested in that vision for our organization, we have gone from a $1 million dollar organization to $3.7 million, 3 staff to 11, and to having robust programs meeting intersectional community needs all throughout the year.

    In 2006, our multicultural festival stage expanded into separate distinct stages honoring and uplifting Black and Latinx arts, culture, and entertainers respectively. The then new “Ebony Pride Stage” was booked and built out by and for our LGBTQ communty, as our board made a commitment to always include this intentional space going forward. Now called “The Movement Stage” for years the area has been connected for years to our “Black Pride” community resource area developed through a partnership with one of our annual grantees, the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, who ensure LGBTQ Black resources are available along with the entertainment.

    The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition was actually founded within our building in 2015 thanks to the efforts of LGBTQ Black community leaders Dwayne Crenshaw, Adam Dyer, Rickie Brown, LaRue Fields, and others. Their foundational work inspired the creation of the San Diego LGBTQ Latinx Coaltion, and the Queer APIMEDA Coaltion, and today, the Black LGBTQ Coalition remains one of our strongest community partners.

    Every single year in San Diego we kick off Pride weekend with the Spirit of Stonewall Rally, where we honor the moment that sparked a revolution led by Black LGBTQ pioneers Marsha P. Johnson, Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, and Stormé DeLarverie. Throughout the years that stage and our annual Light Up the Cathedral events have also served as host to rally cries calling our community to address the intersection of anti-Black racism and the LGBTQ movements through speakers like Laverne Cox, Mila Jam, Rev. Naomi Washington-Leapheart, Rev. Dr. J. Lee Hill, The Task Force ED – Kierra Johnson, and California Secretary of State – Dr. Shirley Weber.

    We remind ourselves of this legacy of work in honor of Black History Month, and to remind ourselves that we must know and respect our Black history so we can continue to invest in Black futures. The Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund administered through San Diego Pride is the first and one of the only Black Trans-led scholarship funds in the country, and this year will be giving out its 100th scholarship!

    Over the last several weeks and months, in Hillcrest, San Diego, local businesses and at least one church have been subjected to anti-Black anti-LGBTQ motivated hate crimes. We cannot let those acts of violence deter us, or our resolve to uplift Black voices, leaders, and joy. Our work must continue to be intersectional if we are to realize true progress for all of LGBTQ siblings. Black LGBTQ brilliance is resilience. It has led our movement locally and across the world. Their work has made all of us Resilient.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. The Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Scholarship is now open to all transgender and gender-nonconforming students. Apply here. Please consider donating to the fund here. 100% of funds raised will go directly to the scholarship awards and your donation is tax-deductible.

    2015: First meeting of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition.
  194. Bold Transition

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    Transgender Americans are two times as likely to serve in the military as the general population. San Diego has the highest concentration of LGBTQ military personnel in the world, making Monday’s historic executive order by President Biden ending the ban on transgender servicemembers that much more meaningful and impactful to the daily lives of our local community. Transgender servicemembers and veterans such as Christine Jorgensen, Albert Cashier, Autumn Sandeen, Kristin Beck, Evander Deocariza, and Ronnie Zerrer have been a part of the fabric of our country since our nation’s founding and important drivers of our movement for LGBTQ equality throughout our history. However, systemic and target discrimination, even from within our own community, has left steeper roads to equity and justice for our trans siblings. 

    Monday, our country took an important humanizing step for our trans siblings in showing people across the U.S. and the world that all those who are willing and able to defend the Constitution and Country should be afforded dignity and respect. Our collective hope is that these changes allow our transgender community members serving in the armed forces to no longer serve in silence. Their vocal and visible presence may very well chart a new course not only for transgender Americans but could help pave the way for the passage of a boldly comprehensive version of the Equality Act.

    Since the early 1900s, steps towards inclusion and integration of our military have been noted to support solidarity within diverse communities. As the armed forces allowed people from different white ethnic groups, religions, racial and ethnic minorities, women, and LGB people to serve alongside one another, those bonds built-in boot camp and battlefields translated into greater appreciation and understanding back in civilian life. Public sentiment and in turn public policy are so moved.

    The swift and decisive actions by our new administration demonstrate how our nation is attempting to course-correct after the last four years that witnessed rising hate crimes against our community and transgender people being murdered at epidemic levels. Today our country’s approximately 15,500 transgender servicemembers, 163,000 veterans, and their families can rest easier knowing that their Commander in Chief, President Joe Biden, Secretary of Defense, Lloyd J. Austin III, and the country stand in their support. We are grateful for their service to our country and movement, as they embody how our community is Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. You can learn more about our work with LGBTQ servicemembers and veterans by signing up for our Military Department’s newsletter or joining their Facebook group.

  195. Our 2021 Theme is…

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    Today we walk further into 2021 with cautious optimism. A renewed sense of hope has washed over us. Since yesterday LGBTQ people in our country have been elevated with dignity and respect by the Biden administration. In just those brief hours an openly bisexual performing artist and LGBTQ advocate, Lady Gaga, sang our National Anthem with pride at the inauguration, Biden signed an executive order reinforcing that Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act indeed extends protections to our LGBTQ community, Secretary of Defense nominee Lloyd Austin affirmed that transgender people will be allowed to serve in our military, and our country’s first openly gay cabinet nominee, Pete Buttigieg, testified at his Senate confirmation hearing introducing his husband during his opening statement. Today is a new day.

    The renewed sense of hope we have, that our community, love, lives, and lived experiences are finally being recognized, must serve us as fuel to act, not reason to rest. What we are now witnessing is the culmination of generations-long action, activism, and advocacy. What we must not forget is that we have just lived through a ferocious testing of our democracy that survived because of our history of collective resolve to act, to organize, and to look divisive oppression in the face without fear. We must continue to lift up that legacy if we are to foster a future free of prejudice and bias for all LGBTQ people locally, nationally, and globally.

    This is why our 2021 theme is “Resilient.” Throughout the year our programs, events, education, and messages will focus on the ways in which our community and movement can restore, rebuild, redeem, and revive one another. That as we reimagine a free and fearless future we are intentional about the resiliency we are weaving into our work. That as we tend to the issues impacting our LGBTQ communities around the world, we also remember to be healthy and whole. Brighter days lie ahead. Together in Pride, we are Resilient.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  196. When is Pride 2021?

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    It’s still hard to look down University Ave. and know that it wasn’t brimming with hundreds of thousands of cheering people in 2020. When I walk through Balboa Park and see the empty spaces that would typically be filled with tens of thousands of people dancing in the San Diego summer sun it’s hard to reflect on how many new community connections to direct services, social groups, and found family weren’t able to occur. We have all mourned the joy, love, celebration, and movement building we were denied because of the COVID-19 pandemic. As it rages on, we mourn the loss of life that impacted people all over the globe, including friends and family of staff, board, volunteers, and community members.

    Yes, there is a vaccine, but the rollout has been slower than expected. Without clear federal leadership, funding, and a plan to vaccinate the U. S. population, it’s nearly impossible to plan any large gatherings with certainty. With that said, we want to ensure we’re keeping you all in the loop of how we’re moving forward with planning this year’s Pride celebrations.

    Our board, staff, and volunteer leadership team has been working since the fall on contingencies for interactive virtual gatherings, a full in-person event, and a mid-road of both live streaming content with scaled back in-person events. While in a typical year we would have already begun selling tickets, parade contingents, and festival booths, we understand that it’s a lot to ask for folks to front those fees for an uncertain future. If it becomes clear in the next two months or so that a full in-person event is possible, we will ensure that discounted early bird rates will still be available this year. The only difference will be the duration of time that we will be able to extend those discounts. Free tickets will also still be available through our direct service-providing partners as well as for youth and volunteers.

    The proceeds from our annual Pride events underwrite the costs of producing such a massive endeavor as well as our year-round programming and annual community grants. Last year, absent that revenue, we had to pause our grant program, but our Pride 365 programs continued on in virtual spaces reaching over 600,000 people. While I’m in awe of all that we were able to accomplish in 2020, despite how hard it was, nothing can truly replace the thrill and joy of a massive in-person Pride.

    Our brilliantly diverse community has a history of resilience. We have built innovative pathways to overcome discriminatory laws, hate, violence, and issues of public health. We will make it through this. Wear a mask, wash your hands, maintain your physical distance, and get your vaccination when it’s available to you. We’re almost to the other side of this, and soon we’ll be together again.

    Together We Rise,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

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  197. Responding to Insurrection

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    I wish I could say yesterday’s insurrection was shocking. I’m angry because it wasn’t. For four years we have lived under an administration that has continuously and unabashedly uplifted racism, misogyny, transphobia, homophobia, and xenophobia. For four years we felt the loss, pain, and fear of violent hate crimes against minority communities rising year over year. We watched the sedition of our nation’s leader, foreign influence, and media echo chambers stoke these fires. Fully aware that these issues were not new, but symptomatic of the honest history of our nation, we knew they would be malignant to democracy if left unchecked.

    We marched, protested, donated, volunteered, and organized. We educated ourselves and those around us. In the face of a global pandemic, we took to the streets to call for racial justice. LGBTQ people ran for and won elected offices in record numbers. Congress is set to have the most diverse makeup in history, and the new administration is the most pro-LGBTQ administration ever elected. These victories of progress are not the work of one year, or of the last four, but are the generations-long culmination of collective action by marginalized people whose belief in the unmet promise of liberty and justice for all people lead them and us to action.

    The limits of the experiment of American democracy have been tested. We are holding on but are not done. Those who seek to oppress minority communities will not disappear on January 20. As we pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and recover from moral, health, and economic crises we have just endured, the true work to build a nation where all people are treated equally can truly begin. I believe that we will find the connection to our nation’s promise as we overcome its past, that as a country, community, and individuals, we will find ourselves resilient as Together We Rise.

    With Hope, 

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  198. Top 20 of 2020

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    The full impacts and implications of everything we have collectively endured in 2020 will be felt for years to come. Our 2020 theme, Together We Rise, was intended to remind us all that in a world that can often feel divided, our community is stronger together. I know that, together, we answered that call.

    Through seemingly impossible circumstances our organization, community, and movement, met the challenges of our time. With hope resting clearly on the horizon, I invite you to take a look at all we accomplished together through our collective queer excellence, innovation, and resilience.


    1. CAPI
    We kicked off the year by hosting over 276 people from 45 cities representing over 50 LGBTQ serving organizations from throughout the United States, Mexico, and Canada for the annual Pride conference, CAPI! Organizers shared resources and best practices, while forging new friendships and partnerships to further the movement.

    San Diego CAPI 2020 Attendees

    2. COVID-19 Response
    Our community is no stranger to being resourceful and banding together in times of crisis and the COVID-19 pandemic is no different. We saw LGBTQ resiliency shine through as our staff and volunteers answered the call to provide masks to LGBTQ seniors, grocery relief to employees from LGBTQ owned businesses, and brought all our programs to virtual spaces. We also created a COVID-19 resource page with specific LGBTQ competent health, civic, and community resources.

    Former San Diego City Council President Georgette Gómez delivering masks to North Park Seniors Apartment

    3. Denouncing xenophobia
    Our San Diego Queer APIMEDA Coalition led the charge and put out a joint statement with over 80 local Asian Pacific Islander organizations denouncing xenophobia, racism, and increasing acts of violence towards API communities. This united front led to many milestones within the API community including Human Relation Commission appointments and the creation of the San Diego API Coalition which acts as a hub for API Organizations to collaborate and connect.

    CBS8 Recap of the API Press Conference following the release of the joint statement.

    4. Going virtual
    To keep our community connected and safe, we moved all of our events and programming into virtual spaces including San Diego Pride weekend where we highlighted our amazing community and told their stories. Throughout the year we spoke to community leaders, LGBTQ artists, and elected officials to discuss important topics that matter to our community. We even played bingo and hosted a resume workshop. Rewatch 2020 livestreams here. In 2020, Pride’s virtual programming reached over 750,000 viewers!

    Vibe with Pride: Mila Jam

    5. Healing & Safety
    In June, San Diego Pride released a plan to chart a course forward to better address the public safety needs of our LGBTQ community and to hold law enforcement agencies accountable for bias in policing that disproportionately harms our transgender, Black, Indigenous, and People of Color community members. We honor the progress that has been made, and recognize that some in our community have been left behind. Learn more about our Path to Healing & Safer Communities plan which intentionally centers BIPOC LGBTQ San Diegans. Please take our LGBTQ+ Healing & Safer Communities Survey to help inform this critical work.

    Call to Action! Make your voice heard by taking our survey.

    6. San Diego LGBTQ LatinX Coalition
    The San Diego LGBTQ Latinx Coalition increased their efforts to create intentional virtual space for Latinx community members to stay connected, create new friends, and advocate for their community. They also commemorated the Pulse Orlando Shooting by setting up an altar at the Pride office and held a virtual event where Latinx community leaders read the names of those we lost & discuss how that event has affected them personally.


    7. Global Pride
    The Pride movement was hit hard by the pandemic with almost every Pride celebration being cancelled worldwide. Pride organizers got together and spent months creating Global Pride, a 27-hour virtual celebration. San Diego Pride lent staff resources to assist with entertainment, marketing, and outreach. Global Pride took place on June 27, reaching a worldwide audience of 57,050,978 viewers in at least 163 countries, making it the largest LGBTQ event to-date.

    Recap of Global Pride 2020 by Todrick Hall

    8. Title VII – Local & National
    On June 15, 2020, the Supreme Court of the United States ruled 6-3 that existing federal law prohibits employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity. San Diego Pride staff and volunteers assisted with the local and national coordinated responses to this historic ruling built on the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and had speakers at both events. The virtual national and local rallies can still be viewed online. While our community still does not have full equal protection under the law and you can learn more about our work on the Equality Act here.

    National #DecisionDay Rally

    9. Queer the Census / Get Out the Vote
    San Diego Pride worked hard to make sure every eligible LGBTQ and allied voter was counted in the census and made their voices heard by voting in 2020! With the help of our Civic Engagement Coordinator, Pride made nearly 60,000 voter outreach attempts turning out thousands of LGBTQ supporters out to the polls. Stay up to date on our voting efforts here.


    10. She Fest
    Our LGBTQ womxn-led She Fest committee kept their programs going with events like virtual meet-ups, comedy hours, and, as always, kicked off Pride week with their annual event. Over 21,000 folks tuned in making it the most attended She Fest! Shortly after, the She Fest committee also joined forces with other women-centered organizations to put on SQ:UAD!

    Watch She Fest here!

    11. Interfaith Organizing
    Members of the DevOUT Coalition started the year by having an online roundtable discussion titled Reconciling Faith & Queer Identities where DevOUT Co-Chair Brandan Robertson was joined by LGBTQ interfaith leaders. Our annual Light Up the Cathedral event with St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral focused on the intersections of the LGBTQ community and the fight to end anti-Black racism and violence. Watch the full event below!


    12. Spirit of Stonewall Rally
    The Spirit of Stonewall Rally is a time to recognize and honor leaders who are working hard to preserve our gains and meet the many challenges still facing our community. This year we had the opportunity to reimagine how we told these stories and created the Spirit of Stonewall series; an online discussion where we heard from each Spirit of Stonewall awardee to learn what drives their activism. The rally was still held on the Friday before Pride weekend where we continued to honor our awardees, heard from inspiring speakers including Assemblywoman Dr. Shirley Weber, and raised the Pride flag over Hillcrest.

    Watch the full rally here.

    13. Making Healthy Strides
    This year we had two runs that folks could take part in virtually; the Pride 5K and the national Pride Stride. Front Runners and Walkers of San Diego kept with tradition and held the annual Pride 5K during Pride week all while raising money for San Diego Pride and the San Diego LGBT Community Center. In October, as part of National Coming Out Day, Prides throughout the United States hosted Pride Stride! Both runs came with great running swag so participants can sport their swag all year long!

    Team Options for All participating in Pride Stride 2020

    14. Pride Live 2020
    After months of planning, we debuted Pride Live 2020 on Saturday, July 18, 2020. The 7-hour live event, featured historic stories of resilience, local LGBTQ groups from grassroots activists to employee ERGS, and talented queer excellence ranging from local to international performing artists right into your living rooms. Watched by over 300,000 people, Pride Live 2020 showcased the many facets of our community that bring us Pride and are worth celebrating. Catch a few of the segments below!

    Local drag queen, community leader, and business woman Paris Sukomi Max performs during Pride Live
    Community leader and businessman Chris Shaw shares a story of resilience during Pride Live 2020

    15. MeTooLGBTQ
    Originally held in May, the #MeTooLGBTQ Conference was postponed until October so that the committee could strategize and move the program to virtual spaces. The third annual #MeTooLGBTQ Conference was able to reach more community members and service providers and featured keynote speaker Jaden Fields of Mirror Memoirs, an art as advocacy workshop, a youth track, and more! Follow them on Instagram to stay up-to-date on upcoming 2021 plans.


    16. Youth Leaders
    Our youth leaders started 2020 by traveling to Dallas for Creating Change where they led a workshop on how to create youth-led programming and led that same workshop at our CAPI Conference. When the pandemic forced schools to close, many LGBTQ and questioning students were stuck at home and in possibly unsupportive households, so our youth leaders created more opportunities for students to connect with Pride Youth Power Hours being available during the school week and the Pride Youth Collective happening every second Saturday of the month. Our annual Youth Leadership Academy was virtual this year, adding a parent/caregiver track for the first time. Our keynote speaker was YouTube celebrity and transgender activist, Miles McKenna, and every YLA attendee was gifted a copy of McKenna’s new book!  Stay up to date on our youth programs here.


    17. Transgender Excellence
    Although we weren’t able to have the annual in-person Transgender Day of Empowerment event, founder Tracie Jada O’Brien was still able to honor transgender excellence through the virtual San Diego Transgender Day of Empowerment Honors. In addition, the hard-working Trans Day of Empowerment committee raised enough funds to award 33 Tracie Jada O’Brien Trans Student Scholarships to deserving trans students. Want to help out next year’s cohort of scholars? Donate here!

    Watch San Diego Transgender of Empowerment Honors here!

    18. Drag Queen Pumpkins
    With the loss of Halloween community events, we put out an open call for Drag Queen Pumpkins as part of a spooky contest! Folks submitted their best drag queen pumpkins and community members voted on which gourd-geous pumpkin got to take home the crown. We’re looking forward to making this an annual tradition!

    Check out these gorgeous drag queen pumpkins!

    19. Volunteers Get It Done!
    What makes Pride special is that it is built by and for our community and 2020 would not have been possible without volunteers donating their time, talent, and treasure to the organization. This year we created the Pride Ambassador program as a way for community members, small businesses, and employee resource groups to support our year-round education and advocacy programs. Learn more about the ambassador program here and register as a volunteer here.

    Congratulations to our 2020 Volunteers of the Year!

    20. Culture of Philanthropy
    In a typical year, profits from our Pride Festival are turned into a Community Grants. Since 1994 we’ve given out over $3 Million to LGBTQ serving organizations making us the most philanthropic Pride in the world. Despite not having our biggest fundraiser of the year and operating at a loss in 2020, San Diego Pride was still able to continue our philanthropic giving this year by distributing $56,500 in direct aid to local LGBTQ community members with the help of volunteers, staff, board, sponsors, grants, and community donations. Our theme for 2020 was Together We Rise and we know that as a community we answered that call, showed our resilience, and sustained our culture of philanthropy.

    2020 Grocery Relief Fund: Thank you essential workers!

    Without our biggest fundraising event of the year, the only way we can continue this meaningful work is with support from our community. Please join us by participating in our culture of philanthropy and consider making an end of year gift or becoming a sustaining monthly support of Pride here. Thank you for all of your support and another meaningful year of Pride.

  199. A Pathway to Healing & Safety

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    In the wake of the murder of George Floyd and the elevated movement for Black lives, we all engaged more deeply at this moment in our nation’s history to examine our unique organizational practices and policies with the goal of centering the lives of BIPOC people. 

    We all recognize that the incredible progress in our LGBTQ movement has also been uneven and that BIPOC people have been left out of many advances in formal equality. We see this in poverty rates, access to education, housing, health care, HIV, and suicide rates. Our BIPOC siblings have long been calling on LGBTQ+ organizations and leaders to do more to address the white supremacy and anti-Black racism that form the basis of so many systems of power. This includes enacting policies regarding law enforcement that these communities have long advocated for. 

    While these relationships are reexamined, for regional LGBTQ organizations like the North County LGBTQ Center and San Diego Pride, our direct partnerships and cultural competency training with law enforcement agencies continue as a harm reduction strategy for LGBTQ folks who both work within and who find themselves interacting with law enforcement agencies.

    The principles of transformative justice call on us to believe in individuals’ abilities to transform and to hold people accountable for the harm that has been done. The data is indisputable: law enforcement agencies have harmed our Black and brown LGBTQ+ siblings and have also harmed our LGBTQ+ siblings with disabilities. In fulfilling our organizational mission related to addressing injustice and bias, we must hold these agencies and ourselves accountable.

    Our recent decisions, long advocated for by many LGBTQ+ BIPOC folks both within and outside of our organizations, are vital steps in the continuum of holding these agencies accountable and represent years of dialogue and thoughtful action.

    Our accountability work does not stop at any of our LGBTQ organizations’ decisions or statements. We are in a movement, a continuum. We acknowledge that addressing and dismantling white supremacy and anti-Black racism, principles that still form the basis of the United States, is not easy. It is not comfortable. It is also not optional. 

    We call on our community to join us in this reflective and active work to dismantle white supremacy and anti-Black racism in all its forms and thank you for your compassion as we undertake this challenging journey together. Our goal is to heal and build safer communities for all. We hope you will join us in that work. Together We Rise.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please take a few minutes to complete our Healing and Safer Communities Survey to help Pride identify policy reform recommendations and understand the best path forward for our organization’s relationships with law enforcement agencies.

  200. Surviving a Pandemic

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    Since the beginning of the HIV/AIDS pandemic, roughly 33 million people have died from HIV/AIDS-related complications. Throughout the decades, we have learned how to adapt to new harm reduction tools, education, and medication as we continue to fight to end new transmissions. We rallied as a community and built a movement. Every year, on World AIDS Day, we honor the lives of those we lost along the way and recommit ourselves to work yet to be done.

    My hope is that we can use what we’ve learned from fighting that HIV/AIDS pandemic to combat COVID-19. Globally, we have lost 1.5 million lives to COVID-19. While vaccines are on the way, at this moment, however, hospitals in our region and across the country are being overrun, and medical professionals are urging us to double down on our efforts to curb the spread. It is important that each of us takes personal responsibility for the state of our public health, because if we don’t the next couple of months will be far deadlier and harder to cope with than we’d had hoped. Our work is not done.

    In 2020 we’ve all had to change our way of life. So many of us have lost too many. Some of our most beloved businesses have shuttered due to COVID-19 outbreaks or have closed permanently. We need to continue to adapt ourselves and our traditions throughout the holiday season. In order to keep your physical and mental health intact, you can still find meaningful LGBTQ community resources and connections in virtual spaces.

    I know it’s hard, but we’re almost there. This isn’t our first pandemic. Let’s lean on our queer wisdom, experience, and resilience to keep our family and friends healthy and safe so that in 2021, we can come together again in celebration. I look forward to that day when Together We Rise.

    With Hope,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  201. Thank You

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    Gratitude may feel like an impossible emotion to rip from the jaws of 2020, yet as I write this to you, what echos through my mind is the strength and beauty that is queer resilience. Our diversity, creativity, resolve, and battle-tested brilliance have helped this community shine. 

    We shifted and heard or spoke the word “pivot” more times than we ever thought possible. We learned to physically separate from the people we love in order to keep them and ourselves healthy and safe. Our staff, board, volunteers, community partners, sponsors, and entertainers adapted our programs into virtual spaces thus helping to keep our community connected, informed, and engaged. Our community saw the value of Pride’s year-round education and advocacy efforts, as more individual donors stepped up to support our work than ever before in our organization’s history. Together, we turned out LGBTQ voters, got our community counted in the Census, and reached nearly three-quarters of a million people with our educational content.

    Together, we distributed masks to LGBTQ seniors, grocery funds to employees at LGBTQ- owned businesses and educational resources to LGBTQ youth. We took to the streets to call for police reform and justice for Black lives. We found safe ways to mourn the loss of our trans siblings and ensure that their stories are not forgotten.

    As you take a pause today to reflect on gratitude, know that everyone here in the Pride Family is grateful for you. We aren’t back to normal yet, but hope rests clearly on the horizon. We have been steadied and carried this far by our collective pursuit of justice with joy in the face of adversity, and together we will arrive safely. Together We Rise.

    With Gratitude and hope,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please consider queering philanthropy this #GivingTuesday with a donation to San Diego Pride’s year-round programs.

  202. Healing and Safer Communities – Community Update, November 23, 2020

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    In the proposal and plan we released in June, we outlined 4 steps. Step 1 has been completed, and the remaining 3 steps are in progress:

    Step 1
    Law enforcement agencies will no longer have contingents in the San Diego Pride Parade or booths in our Pride Festival. This may be reassessed after the completion of Step 4. Completed, June 2020

    Step 2
    The City of San Diego will recognize the San Diego Pride Parade as a free speech event and no longer bill the organization for road closures and safety. Proposed to Mayor in June 2020, not adopted by City or Mayor.

    Step 3 (page 7)
    The adoption of the #8CantWait campaign’s policies for law enforcement has made quick progress with City policymakers, with additional thanks to community members and partners that have also called for reform in police practices. Reforms that have been adopted this year include: 1) ban chokeholds and strangleholds, 2) require de-escalation, 3) duty to intervene, and 4) requiring the reporting of use of force. The final reform called for in the #8CantWait campaign is a ban on shooting at moving vehicles; while SDPD has adopted a new policy on this practice that takes a step in the right direction, it fails to meet the standards of the policy called for by #8CantWait. (Citation: Police Use of Force Project)

    Additionally, San Diego Pride has continued and renewed our focus on advocacy around police accountability.
    San Diego Pride joined the Coalition on Police Accountability & Transparency (CPAT) as a supporter in calling for the Police Accountability Now package, which includes passage of the P.R.O.T.E.C.T. Policy by City Council (“Preventing Over-Policing Through Equitable Community Treatment”). PROTECT would ban consent searches and stops and end pretext traffic stops. When the PROTECT Policy comes before the City Council later this year, San Diego Pride and our supporters will join CPAT in voicing our support for the policy.

    As part of this advocacy, for the first time in years San Diego Pride has taken positions on three ballot measures in the November 2020 election, including a support position for Measure B, Establishing an Independent Commission on Police Practices. In November, voters overwhelmingly approved this measure by almost 3:1. San Diego Pride will be monitoring the implementation of this commission, and will continue to engage in this process where appropriate as this commission is formed.

    Step 4
    Finally, we are currently in the first phase of Step 4, and have invited five committee members to join us to guide these conversations, all members and leaders of the Black LGBTQ+ community: Charlie Brown, Sakeenah Gallardo, Rickie Brown, Dwayne Crenshaw, and Jeremy Wells. Members of this committee represent both themselves and two community organizations: the San Diego Black LGBTQ+ Coalition and The Humanity Movement. Action items within phase 1 that are underway or coming soon:

    1. Our community survey will solicit feedback from all members of the community – Black, Indigenous, people of color, and white folx.
    2. These five committee members will be reaching out to other Black LGBTQ+ community members and leaders to conduct in-depth one-on-one interviews to collect data about the experiences of Black LGBTQ+ community members and Black LGBTQ+ visions for the future of safer communities in San Diego.

    The data collected from both the community survey and the one-on-one interviews will guide our future conversations and will help this committee to establish goals and ideal paths forward. It is important to note that all identified goals or paths forward will be in consultation with and guided by the Healing & Safer Communities Committee.

    We look forward to sharing progress with you as we go forward, and as we launch our community survey and one-on-one interviews with community leaders.

    We always welcome additional feedback. You may reach members of the committee and the committee’s staff liaison at [email protected].

  203. Stories of Impact

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    For #GivingTuesday, we are highlighting 4 of our coalitions with Stories of Impact and how our coalitions have impacted the people they serve & how they impact programming for Womxn, People of Color and people with disabilities! We are one of the only LGBTQ+ pride organization in the United States with year-round programs that connect, empower, and organize the most underserved LGBTQ+ community members who live at the intersections of multiple marginalized identities.

    These are their stories:

    Latinx Coalition Story of Impact

    “Being the only out queer person in my family, the Latinx Coalition has given me the love and space to grow as an individual, and as a member of our community. They’ve introduced me to a group of kind, passionate, and dedicated folx who believe in each other, and who remind me of the beauty that exists within each and everyone of us.” – Gerardo Gurrola Jr (he/him/his), Latinx Coalition. Help Gerardo in his journey to make Latinx a space to grow by donating here: www.bit.ly/GTlatinx


    She Fest Story of Impact

    “I’m passionate about my community coming together supporting one another with Love and Unity…. I wanted to network and connect with the gay community. And then stay connected and grow with them.”  -Trish Tucker (She Fest) You can donate to help keep Trish connected to the community here: www.bit.ly/GTshefest


    QAPIMEDA Story of Impact

    “Before I found San Diego Pride’s programs I was feeling isolated, lost, and that I didn’t have real community connection. Through the Queer APIMEDA Coalition I found family and friends that shared my experiences and celebrated my identity, something I thought I’d never find. I now have a strong sense of belonging that empowers me to create inclusive spaces for others like myself so that together we can build community, advocate for our own justice, and just have a space where being our full and authentic selves is not only welcomed but encouraged.” -Christian Quiambao (he/him/his) QAPIMEDA. You can donate to help Christian advocate for other people feeling isolated here: www.bit.ly/GTqapimeda


    Accessibility Story of Impact

    “I was motivated to become a part of the She Fest family because we share a major value–the conviction that we should strive through intentional planning to ensure that all community members can access and enjoy community spaces and events, whether in-person or online. I run Accessibility for San Diego Pride, She Fest and San Diego Trans Pride.” – Melissa Colibri. You can donate to help keep Accessibility free to its members by donating here: www.bit.ly/GTAccessibility1

  204. Queering Philanthropy

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    San Diego Pride has a legacy of meaningful historic firsts and innovative approaches to movement building; our philanthropic approach is one of those tactics that we’re most proud of. In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that could turn a profit to be returned to our community. As an organization, we began giving out grants starting in 1994. To date, we have given out over $3 million to LGBTQ-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally, and have become the most philanthropic Pride in the world.

    San Diego Pride’s philanthropy doesn’t end there. We utilize our volunteer, entertainment, and communications infrastructure to support LGBTQ organizations well beyond our own to ensure events have the support and marketing they need to succeed. In fact, just this year we donated staff to support Global Pride, the 27-hour virtual Pride that took place on June 27, reached a worldwide audience of 57,050,978 viewers in at least 163 countries.

    Our grassroots model of volunteer-led programming has developed a culture of queer philanthropy throughout the organization. Our diverse LGBTQ community members give their time, skills, and raise funds to build programs designed by and for us. All of that is on top of our volunteer leadership finding ways to give back to the community-at-large through community service projects like neighborhood clean-ups and free mask distribution.

    With nearly all of the funding that drives our year-round programming and direct philanthropic work coming from our annual Parade and Festival, COVID-19 and the loss of in-person events devastated our ability to generate revenue through those typical ticket, beverage, and booth sales. Our volunteer-led model and solid financial planning have given us an enormous amount of stability and our programs continue on. That said, with COVID-19 rates on the rise, and in-person events still unforeseeably far away, we need your help.

    You already invest in us so much every year. You’re being asked by so many to give what you can in a year that has already taken too much and too many from us all. As we near #GivingTuesday I ask that you consider investing what you can in our organization so we can continue to do this meaningful work. Whether you’re able to join a fundraising team or simply give what you can, every bit of support matters. With multiple vaccines on the horizon, we have much to be hopeful for. I’m simply asking for a little more help to get us over the finish line, so we can be together again when this is all over.

    Please consider queering philanthropy this #GivingTuesday with a donation to San Diego Pride’s year-round programs!

  205. Trans Remembered & Empowered

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    This last weekend, Joe Biden became the first president-elect in U.S. history to reference our Transgender community in a victory speech. The moment was a much needed and celebrated reprieve, representing a stark contrast to the last four years of policy under the current administration. Our community has hope once again.

    Over the last four years, the FBI has reported a dramatic rise in hate crime targeting the LGBTQ community. While the largest number of reported LGBTQ victims has been gay men, these acts of violence have disproportionately target transgender and BIPOC folks, especially Black transgender women. The year is not over and 2020 is already the deadliest year on record for our trans community.

    Next week is Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR). While this year’s event will be held virtually, TDOR is time for us to gather as community to honor the lives of those lost to anti-trans violence. We have to do better than mourning our dead. Our community deserves leadership that uplifts our trans community.

    While the incoming administration has pledged to support our transgender, bisexual, lesbian, and gay community, our work is not done. We must continue to organize and educate ourselves as individuals, our own community, and the broader community at-large if we are to hold our leaders accountable to promises they are making to us. We deserve life, liberty, and justice.

    As we all take time to reflect on those we’ve lost, we must also recommit ourselves to the hard and necessary work to create the change we hope to see. We must all be active participants in pursuit of justice. That is how, Together We Rise.

    P.S. Over the next week, there will be five altars in San Diego honoring those lost and a Trans Day of Remembrance virtual event on Friday, November 20. More info here.

  206. It’s Election Day

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    Election Day is here! In just the last few days we have seen an escalation of voter suppression efforts from tear gas to road blockades. Our democratic process must be guided by the will of the people, not by bigots and others who attempt to keep people from voting.

    Protecting the integrity of our elections protects our democracy and the civil rights and freedoms of everyone in our region. That is why San Diego Pride is working in coalition with our regional social justice partners to ensure that historically and systemically marginalized communities in San Diego and Imperial Counties can vote safely and have our votes counted.

    Voting in person:

    Polls are open 7 am – 8 pm on Tuesday, November 3, 2020.

    Find your polling location here

    Please remember that if you are in line at a voting location by 8 pm today, you have the right to vote.

    Your polling location may be different from previous elections! Be sure to check this before you go vote.

    Voter support for our transgender, nonbinary, and gender-nonconforming community:

    Poll workers should not question your ability to vote because your personal appearance does not conform to stereotypes associated with your legal name or gender marker listed on your ID. It is illegal for a poll worker to prevent you from voting. If a poll worker does challenge your right to vote, simply ask for their name and title and write them both down. If you still need assistance, please call 1-866-OUR-VOTE. More information on your rights can be found here.

    Mail Ballot Drop-Off Locations: 

    You may drop off your completed ballot at any of the drop off locations. The hours for dropping off your mail ballots will be 7 am – 8 pm at all locations on election day.

    See all San Diego County locations here.  

    If you encounter any issues at the polls:

    Election Protection Hotline

    English: 1-866-OUR-VOTE 

    Spanish: 1-888-VE-Y-VOTA

    Asian Languages: 1-888-API-VOTE

    Arabic: 1-844-YALLA-US

    Delayed Results:

    It’s also important to remember that there may be races where there is no clear winner on election night. This can create confusion, and it’s important to remember that a free and fair election is when all voters have an equal opportunity to cast their ballot and where all votes are counted. This year, the process may take longer, and that’s ok; in fact, that likely means the system is working.

    Thank you all for engaging in the democratic process. Thank you for voting. Thank you to all the volunteers who’ve helped us reach thousands of people through our nonpartisan LGBTQ voter turnout efforts. Working to ensure the integrity of our democracy takes all of us working together, and Together We Rise.

  207. We need your leadership

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    There are two key struggles we are all combatting at the moment: an election in which the moral fate of our nation and our own human rights are at stake and the COVID-19 pandemic that has already taken more than 227,000 American lives. There is not one person nor one organization that can lead us forward. It will take all of us, and that means you. 

    Here in San Diego, COVID-19 rates and indicators have us teetering on the edge of a more restrictive tier of shutdowns. Large underground parties and events continue throughout the county where no safety procedures are in place, putting us all at risk. With Halloween coming around this weekend, many may feel tempted to celebrate in person rather than protect themselves or our larger community. Just last week, one of our community’s most beloved venues, Martinis Above Fourth, was forced to close. If we do not take personal responsibility to curb the spread of this virus we will lose more LGBTQ venues, organizations, and opportunities for talented LGBTQ artists to find stable income.

    The steps we need to take here are simple: 

    • Wear a mask.
    • Wash your hands.
    • Keep a safe distance.

    Meanwhile, the pandemic, attacks on the US Postal Service, and a larger number of people voting by mail are making access to voting more challenging. Additionally, there is a growing concern about voter intimidation led by white supremacists and other hate groups at polling locations in an attempt to suppress the votes of communities that are already historically marginalized. With so much at stake this election, again, your leadership can make a difference.

    You can support voter turnout by:

    Often we look to leadership to help through difficult times. We don’t always recognize our own personal role in that work, our own power, or our own ability to lead by example. This is one of those critical moments where your leadership is needed. All of us are needed, in this fight and in the hard road ahead. I’m grateful for the privilege to serve in this work with you together, and Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  208. Good news & Good vibes!

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    I think we could all use some good news and good vibes in our life. One of the things San Diego Pride is known for is showcasing incredible local, world-famous, and emerging LGBTQ artists at our annual Pride Festival. Whether it’s someone you’re just discovering or a living legend, you can always count on Pride to have a beautifully diverse lineup.

    In just the last few years we’ve been honored to bring you Kesha, Ruby Rose, Big Freedia, King Princess, Snow Tha Product, Melissa Ethridge, and more. Even this year, pre-COVID, we worked with Billboard Pride to come to San Diego for our CAPI Conference to help educate Pride organizations across the country on how to build relationships with artists and agents so these amazing LGBTQ artists can perform everywhere!

    As it’s still not safe to hold major public events, we’re getting ready to bring some of these brilliant artists right into your living room with our new live series, Vibe with Pride. Join us as we spotlight LGBTQ artists and promote visibility, equality, and empowerment. Hear directly from artists who are changing the music industry, increasing LGBTQ representation, and releasing new music during the COVID-19 pandemic.

    Our first guest is singer, songwriter, dancer, actress, and activist Mila Jam who performed with us in 2019. Tune in as she’s joined by our Vibe with Pride host Jai Rodriguez, from the original Queer Eye and HBO’s new series ‘Equal,’ as they discuss Mila’s journey as a black transgender artist, her tireless activism work, and get to know Mila on a personal level.

    We can’t yet share these amazing artists with you in person, but we can bring some good vibes into your homes and on to your mobile devices. In the meantime, please keep finding ways to support local LGBTQ artists and musicians of all kinds. Buy art and music from local talent. Tip the DJs, drag queens, and performers who are streaming to you live. Our LGBTQ artists bring us so much joy. It’s inspiring to see and hear from artists that look like us and come from our community. Their visible existence and art is advocacy, and when we amplify and share their message, Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Set a reminder on Facebook here 

    Set a reminder on YouTube here.

  209. End Bullying

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    Today is Spirit Day. When Gilbert Baker designed the first Pride flag in 1978, he was intentional about the meaning behind each color. Purple symbolizes the spirit. In 2010, a surge of reported LGBTQ teen suicides related to anti-LGBTQ bullying inspired then teenager Brittany McMillian to start Spirit Day. People everywhere are encouraged to wear purple on the third Thursday of October to show support for LGBTQ youth and demand an end to bullying during National Bullying Prevention Month – which also happens to be LGBTQ History Month.

    Ending bullying is no small task. The most recent Trevor Project National Survey on LGBTQ Mental Health showed that “86% of LGBTQ folks said that recent politics have negatively impacted their wellbeing.” Bullying and harassment can surge at times like this when election cycles are ramping up, and anti-LGBTQ rhetoric is spewed out by campaigns, posted on social media, and parroted out by parents and guardians in homes.

    We fight back against bullying and protect our youth by changing the culture. We must address the way media outlets represent our community. We must elect LGBTQ-supportive officials who will create and enforce LGBTQ-supportive policies at every level of government. We must connect with teachers and administrators who can ensure that the LGBTQ-inclusive curriculum is taught, that bullying is addressed, and that safe learning environments are created for all students. We must proactively provide access to resources for faculty, families, and youth so each can be their own agents of change. We must also address the ways the media represent our community.

    Each of us is responsible for ending the cycle of bullying. Each of us can confront LGBTQ bullies in our daily lives and at the ballot box. Our legal protections, our lives, and our youth require our active efforts to ensure their safety. Working against discrimination for this generation and the next is how Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    This year’s Youth Leadership Academy, designed to build leadership and advocacy skills for LGBTQ junior high- through high school-aged youth, has added a Parent & Caregiver track for the first time. Learn more and register here.

  210. Come OUT for love and freedom

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    This week started off with yet another red flag warning that our rights are on the line. We all may remember the Kentucky clerk, Kim Davis, who refused to follow the law and issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples; this week the Supreme Court announced it would not hear her case. In a statement, Supreme Court Justices Thomas and Alito essentially wrote that LGBTQ people have no right to equal protection under the law and left an open invitation for our recent legal gains to be challenged. This is a terrifying prospect given that Trump’s newest Supreme Court nominee, Amy Coney Barrett, has been quite public in her support of domestic and international LGBTQ hate groups.

    This administration and these justices are not in alignment with the American people. Over 70% of the American people believe that LGBTQ individuals should have the freedom to marry, and about 70% of the country believes that we should have broad nondiscrimination legal protection.

    Support for LGBTQ people has been steadily climbing over the decades, but it is not time alone that is making the shift. Our movement has made intentional choices about public visibility and education to help grow public sentiment and reduce the hate, harm, and violence our community has historically experienced.

    22 years ago, Matthew Shepard was killed. He wasn’t the first and he wasn’t the last. The efforts of advocates and activists across all sectors of society fostered a climate that was willing to tell his story authentically, our story. Today, we are still in the midst of an epidemic of murders against our community, murders that predominantly target black trans women. This unsettling fact coupled with the upswell of anti-LGBTQ legislation and judges being put forward across the nation reminds us that our work is far from over.

    This Sunday is National Coming Out Day, a time for those of us who feel safe enough to remind the world who we are. Next Thursday is Spirit Day, a time when we call for an end to bullying that too often leads to violent ends. In less than 4 weeks it will be Election Day, and as we are already beginning to cast our ballots, we know that our votes in this election will impact our lives now and for generations to come. Thank you for staying in the fight with us during this critical time in our movement. We’ll get through this together, and Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  211. Pride at the Polls

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    We all know how much is at stake in this election. Local, state, and federal elections will shift a balance of power that will either uplift the LGBTQ community or continue to strip away our rights. Knowing that the outcomes from this upcoming election will dictate how our daily lives are legislated and that LGBTQ civil rights are on the line can seem overwhelming to think about and even scary at times. After a strong decade of progress for the rights and protections of our community, particularly through several major Supreme Court victories, the thought of going backward is terrifying.  

    Our community, however, is resilient to our core. From the spark of Stonewall to the marches, parades, festivals, and rallies we now know as Pride, for decades, our movement has utilized the scale of these events and organizations to mobilize the power of our community. Pride events are where we have deployed hundreds of volunteers to register voters in our community, where we have educated our community about upcoming ballot initiatives and issues, and where we use our media reach to educate the broader public about the challenges our community is still facing.

    In 1978 we marched and created visibility at Pride to protect our LGBTQ educators against Anita Bryant and Prop 6, the Briggs initiative. In 2008 we mobilized our community during Pride, fighting to protect our freedom to marry as we tried to defeat Prop 8. This year, like any other, it is vital that our community turns out to vote. 

    The LGBTQ community is not a monolith, but we are disproportionately impacted by issues of systemic inequality, our lived experiences compounded at the intersection of multiple marginalized identities. In order to fight against oppression, we stand in solidarity with broader social justice movements. Coming before us on the ballot this election will be decisions that seek to address issues of police accountability, affordable housing, as well as systemic racism and gender discrimination in access to employment, housing, and education. That is why, this year, San Diego Pride is supporting three measures: Measure A, Measure B, and Prop 16.

    Our 2020 theme is Together We Rise. We chose it to be intentional about our intersectional efforts, to give focus and to underscore our need to work collaboratively even at a time when our nation seems more divided than ever. I hope you will vote this election. I hope you will volunteer with our nonpartisan Get OUT the Vote efforts. I hope you will show up together for our intersectional social justice movement because Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  212. Not our first pandemic

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    COVID-19 has completely changed our way of life, and yet it is not the first global pandemic of our lifetime. Since the beginning of the HIV/AIDS epidemic, roughly 33 million people have died from HIV/AIDS-related complications. Throughout the course of our battle against the spread of the virus, ideological differences prevented or delayed much needed public education, funding, and prevention tools from reaching those who needed it. Our community often turned towards each other for financial support, pathways to advocacy, and human connection.

    Our partners over at the San Diego LGBT Community Center work every day to combat these challenges in an effort to better serve our community through critical, direct services and through their transformative #BeTheGeneration educational campaign. Their vital work continues even in the face of all the logistical and economic challenges that COVID-19 has brought us. 

    Pride looked different this year, and one of our favorite events, AIDS Walk & Run, will look different this year, all in the name of public health. There’s still time to register to help raise much needed funds for HIV/AIDS services and prevention programs all across San Diego County. The difference is that you can run at your own pace, in your own time. If you complete the route this Friday, September 25 through Sunday, September 27, you’ll have a more interactive experience with surprises along the way. The Center will also be livestreaming an Opening Ceremony on Saturday, September 26 at 10:00 am.

    I know this year has been hard, and the events we love have looked different. I know we can’t wait to be all together again. I also know that our community is masterful in our ability to work together in the worst of circumstances to fight against a public health challenge. I hope you will join us in supporting AIDS Walk & Run this year, physically apart, but Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Join us and register for AIDS Walk

  213. May her memory be a Revolution

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    Rest in peace. Rest in power. These are the words that may have been immediately called to mind upon hearing of Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s death on Friday, September 18th. 

    However, in Jewish tradition – in Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s tradition – the offering of words is more along the lines of “may her memory be a blessing.” Upon hearing of her passing on Friday, to pay homage to her iconic legacy, many Jewish feminists offered up this alternative: “may her memory be a revolution.” In addition, Ginsburg passed on Rosh Hashanah – in Jewish tradition, one that dies on the new year is considered a tzaddik, a “person of great righteousness.” 

    It is devastating that we cannot mourn this legendary justice, this person of great righteousness, with solely a reminiscence of her incredible life. We must pair our mourning with immediate calls to action, looking forward to the next fight on the horizon. And, somehow, it also makes sense: this woman was dubbed Notorious RBG for a reason – for her fearlessness, for her scathing and brilliant dissents, for her unwillingness to back down from a fight. 

    We who live at the intersections of multiple identities and lived realities – as women, as trans folks, as non-binary folks, as Black and Indigenous and People of Color, as immigrants, as people with disabilities, as survivors, as LGBTQ+ folks – have become good at alchemizing pain into power, at transforming our grief into a fierce drive toward justice. Ruth Bader Ginsburg did this, as well. For her, this fueled her drive toward justice that began in her insistence on her place as a lawyer, ran through her time as a legal advocate for equal rights at the ACLU, and her 27 years as a Justice on the Supreme Court of the United States. Now is the time for the next generation to keep fighting for equity – and to bring an even stronger intersectional approach to the fight. In Ruth’s honor, we must also keep going. Keep fighting. Keep alchemizing our pain into power, together. 

    We’re just 42 days away from Election Day 2020. We’re 15 days from your mail-in ballot heading to your California mailbox. Your vote matters — and our votes have real consequences for justice and equality. 

    When asked about a meaningful life, Ruth Bader Ginsburg responded, “One lives not just for oneself but for one’s community.” We are lucky to have an organized and engaged LGBTQIA community here in San Diego. We live for each other. We fight for each other. We live fearlessly. We live notoriously. 

    May her memory be a revolution.

    Together We Rise,

    The Womxn of Pride

  214. FAKE NEWS

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    Over the last week here in California there has been a resurgence of tired accusations around our community blanketly marking us as predators and pedophiles. Media outlets and anti-LGBTQ politicians have been willfully spreading lies and misinformation about members of our community without taking into consideration the potential fallout. These deceitful posts and so-called news stories are a dog whistle to the most extreme of anti-LGBTQ people, QAnon, and their followers. These fearmongering actions can insight panic and lead to violence, and it must stop if we are to keep our community safe.

    McCarthyism and the Lavender Scare, the Briggs Initiative, and even Prop 8 brought out the worst of these “save our children” narratives leading to an increase in violence targeting our community. The perpetuation of issues underscores the need for real and honest journalistic integrity that values the lives, health, and safety of our community. The alternative is fallout that too often leaves LGBTQ youth living in unsupportive households, where these lies and rage can be parroted out, victim to real harm.

    A free press coupled with ethical journalism is paramount to political accountability and healthy democracy. The current administration has been no friend to the media, casting doubt and creating an environment where real journalists have been targeted and even arrested for doing their job. Additionally, it’s become harder to tell what is journalism and what is an opinion being masked as news. This leaves the rest of us in a precarious place. We must exercise additional scrutiny when reading and sharing content while finding ways to invest in and support ethical journalism.

    There are those who seek power and profit over service to regular people, and we must remain vigilant. Read, research, and educate yourself as best you can. To our journalists, don’t just highlight LGBTQ people when you are covering an LGBTQ-specific story. We are as diverse as humanity itself. Approaching stories that encapsulate intersectional LGBTQ identities will serve to humanize us in the eyes of others and keep us safe.

    Together We Rise,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  215. Love for Christopher

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    Like many in our community, I am feeling the loss of Pride Family member and friend Christopher Sheehan. While I got to know Christopher through Pride, he was someone who volunteered for so many of our local organizations like Diversionary Theatre, Gay for Good, Lambda Archives, and many more. As a photographer, he helped us capture and share some of our most joyful moments. That’s how I remember him, filled with joy. Brimming with happiness to support those around him. Overflowing with love. Smiling his way into every room with his bubbly voice, a comforting reminder of his warm heart. 

    Christopher and I also bonded as survivors of sexual assault. When I began being more public about some of my personal experiences as a survivor, he was one of the many local community members who reached out to say he had similar experiences. He, in true Christopher form, asked how he could help. 

    We supported each other through our healing and came together with other local survivors to start what became the LGBTQ Survivor Task Force which would go on to create the #MeTooLGBTQ Conference to help others in our community have more culturally competent support available. He gave from his own healing to help others heal.

    I’m grateful for Christopher’s untethered jubilation, his resolve, his resilience, and his relentless altruism. Suicide prevention doesn’t just take one form. It’s destigmatizing mental health issues, combating rape culture, ending discrimination, making healthcare and housing accessible, and so much more. It’s building a community where we all feel welcomed and safe. In many ways, those are parts of Christopher’s legacy, and they can be parts of all of our ongoing work. 

    To each of you, your struggles are valid. Your journey is valid. You are valid, beautiful, and loved. I hope that your justice and your joy are closer than they can seem at times. Let’s continue to lift each other up so Together We Rise.

    With Love and Hope, 

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. This is Suicide Prevention Month, and today is Suicide Prevention Day. If you, or someone you know, is in need of resources, know they are available. You’re not alone.

    LGBTQ+ Affirming Services  

    Sexual / Relationship Violence

    Center for Community Solutions
    The Center – Behavioral Health Services
    RAINN (National)

    Suicide Hotlines

    The Trevor Project
    Trans Lifeline
    BlackLine
    National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
    It’s Up to Us San Diego
  216. Honoring our Volunteers

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    Every August, after the massive Pride celebration, we throw a party for the people who make Pride week and our year-round programs possible – our volunteers. We’ve seen incredible growth in the last couple of years and in 2019 nearly 800 Pride Family volunteers came out for the annual Volunteer Appreciation Picnic. While relatively large, the event always feels like a family picnic. Community volunteers bring their family members to enjoy music, children’s games, goodie bags, door prizes, speakers, awards, and, of course, my dad cooking on the grill. 

    While we couldn’t all be together this year we did still have that inspiring year-round volunteer leadership power that makes Pride possible and recognize those leaders with our Volunteer of the Year Awards. This year’s honorees are:

    Mark Maddox, who just had his 6th San Diego Pride, normally serves as our Parade co-manager and stepped up as a lead this year with our new Pride Ambassador program, where he recruited and trained volunteers to phone bank and engage in peer-to-peer fundraising to ensure our programs had the financial support to continue through COVID-19.

    The Tomsha Family was recognized as a group! They come as a set and are inspiring to see as they help year-round with nearly every program they can. From distributing water during BLM marches, writing notes of encouragement to LGBTQ industry workers, distributing lunches to remote volunteers during Pride Live and so much more.

    Queer Black woman and business owner Yinka Freeman donated her time and expertise to oversee the logistics of our CAPI conference (before the outbreak) that hosted 276 people from over 45 cities and 3 different countries. For Pride Live she sourced our Pride Goodie Bags and Pride Party Packs and participated as a panelist in several of our live streaming events.

    Starting at the age of 14 through an internship in collaboration with the Met High School, Maya Tamir has truly become an inspiring young leader within Pride over the last 3 years. Through our youth programs, Maya serves as an ambassador where they help to ensure LGBTQ youth stay connected to each other, even now virtually. This year they even took on an additional leadership role with the She Fest planning committee. 

    On top of overseeing the social media and marketing for She Fest year-round and significantly growing the social media reach of She Fest, Liana Gross Furini was part of the technical team of She Fest Virtual allowing over 16,000 people to connect to community online. We couldn’t have done it without her.

    Melissa Kelley Colibrí leads Pride’s accessibility department. Under Melissa’s leadership, the accessibility team pivoted quickly to ensure our online events were as accessible as possible including ASL interpreters and post-event transcripts. Melissa and their team also oversaw the accessibility for all of the Creating Change conference, as well as led a workshop on the subject at the annual conference that brings in 4-5,000 LGBTQ activists every year.

    Our inaugural Volunteer Community Partner of the Year is Options for All. The organization creates unique programs that give individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities more options for living their lives to the fullest. Their film and media studios program was a perfect fit for all we had to accomplish this year as they were able to step in and support our efforts by editing nearly 100 videos from community members and partners to be included in our Pride Live event.

    These are just some of the inspiring stories from our team of over 80 non-profit community partners and 150 volunteer leaders who would normally oversee 6,000 volunteers and 350,000 people in person. This was my tenth Pride on staff and every year I’m blown away by our community’s tenacity, creativity, and drive. If you happen to know any of these folks or any of our volunteers, please thank them. Somehow we’re making it through this year together, and Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. If you would like to become a part of the Pride Family, please register as a volunteer to be the first to find out about volunteer and leadership opportunities.

  217. LGBTQ+ Youth Leadership

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    It’s back-to-school time, at least in a way that 2020 is letting us have a back-to-school time. Guardians, educators, and students are each doing their best to adapt to the COVID-19 pandemic, navigate the digital divide, attempting to create and engage in an educational experience that is anything but normal. For LGBTQ youth who may be still stuck at home with unsupportive families, disconnected from their LGBTQ peers and GSAs, these challenges are even harder to bear.

    The pandemic physically separated us, so our programs quickly adapted to online virtual spaces. While obviously not the same as gathering in person, our youth programs saw an increase in attendance and requests for expanded programming. Thankfully our dedicated staff and volunteers were ready and able to answer that call. We’ve increased the number of days we open up our virtual spaces for youth-led curriculum, peer support, and leadership development. Youth-led programming this year has brought us exciting new partnerships with the San Diego Zoo as well as intensely meaningful conversations around Denim Day and white allyship within the Black Lives Matter movement. 

    One of our favorite youth programs we put on each year is the Pride Youth Leadership Academy where youth from all across San Diego and Imperial Counties come together to learn about our history, legal protections, LGBTQ resources, and develop leadership skills. The program has now been around long enough that we’ve seen youth involved in the academy and our programs go on to make change in the schools, to succeed in higher education, and even become professionals in LGBTQ nonprofit sector.

    This year’s Youth Leadership Academy is taking on a virtual format, expanding to two days, and we’re adding on a parent/caregiver track, and I couldn’t be more proud of our youth leaders, staff, and partners who are working to make this happen. Even in the face of this pandemic we are all leaning in to lift up the next generation of LGBTQ leaders, and we know that as we support our LGBTQ youth, Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Sign up for the Youth Leadership Academy here.

    Learn more about all of our youth programs here.

  218. CW: Support Survivors

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    As a sexual assault survivor, I know all too well the challenges we as LGBTQ people face accessing culturally competent services and care. When attempting to recover from something so painfully horrific, coming in contact with law enforcement, mental health services, or healthcare providers who are anti-LGBTQ or simply aren’t well versed in our community can frankly retraumatize you all over again. This year the isolation of COVID-19-related stay-at-home orders meant to keep us healthy and safe can have unintended consequences resulting in an increase in sexual assault and domestic violence adding on yet another layer to the issue.

    Over the last 6 years, San Diego Pride, The San Diego LGBT Community Center, the Center for Community Solutions, and other partners have been working together to ensure our region’s service providers are better equipped to meet the needs of our community’s survivors and to create space for LGBTQ+ survivors to connect with each other and community resources. Some of this work has looked like op-eds and public education to destigmatize survivors as we work to prevent violence and end victim shaming and blaming. Other work has included ensuring that LGBTQ-serving organizations are better trained on sexual assault and domestic violence centered trauma-informed care, all while elevating the LGBTQ competency of survivor-focused organizations.

    Now in its third year, the #MeTooLGBTQ Conference has been moved online so that this important work can continue while keeping us all as healthy and safe as possible. This three-day conference is the only one of its kind in the country outside of higher education and has become an important part of the long-term fight to end sexual and relationship violence. This project was built by and for LGBTQ+ survivors, and the conference continues to grow thanks to our incredible community partners. It’s further proof that our community can take even the most toxic of situations, work together, and make something beautiful and healing. That’s how Together We Rise.

    With Hope & Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    MeToo LGBTQ Virtual Conference

    When: Thursday, October 15, Saturday, October 17
    Learn more about the conference and register here.

  219. Staying Connected Safely

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    COVID-19 continues to ravage our country having stolen more than 160,000 lives from us and keeping us physically separated from the ones we love. Each of us is finding ways to personally cope, adapt our ways of working, and stay emotionally connected to friends and community. Pride is no different. We had to completely shift the ways in which we connect, support, heal, and bring joy to our LGBTQ community. Our incredible volunteers have led the way.

    In addition to the Parade and Festival, Pride’s year-round education and advocacy programs are also led by volunteers. Everyday San Diegans from all walks of life contribute their time, passion, and professional skill sets to uplift our LGBTQ community while building new leaders, movement capacity, and civic spaces where we can be authentically ourselves.

    Pride Live 2020 was an opportunity for us to educate over 330,000 people about each of our programs and many of the other LGBTQ community organizations that help serve us each and every year, all year round. Each of the video segments was produced by community volunteers donating their time to show the world what fun programs and critical services are available to all of us.

    All of our programs are still up and running in virtual spaces helping members of our community find deep meaningful connections in areas they are interested in. We’ve hosted educational series, resume workshops, happy hours, yoga, comedy nights, and more. The silver lining has been that many of our programs that would have only reached a handful of people to a hundred people at best are now reaching thousands and tens of thousands of people.

    My hope is that once this is over, and we can be together again, folks will come out of isolation feeling more informed and more connected to what is out there for our community. Take a moment to look at our and other community partners’ virtual events and sign up to be a part of the leadership of one of these programs. Let’s continue to stay connected, so Together We Rise.

    With Pride,
    FZL

    P.S. To help us better connect you to the programs and events you’d like to participate in, please take a moment to update your information programming interests. Not a subscriber? Click here to sign up.

  220. Resist Voter Suppression

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    We all know that voting and representation are vital to ensuring the safety, health, and equity of any marginalized community. Today marks the 55th Anniversary of the Voting Rights Act which sought to end racial discrimination in voting access, and yet voting rights have been under attack in states across the country. In these states, registration among communities of color has fallen, and the laws put in place to restrict voting access disproportionately affect trans and nonbinary individuals. These attacks on access to our democratic process leave our community behind.

    For far too many in our community fighting for democratic participation and representation looks like standing in line for hours just to cast a ballot. A part of that fight must also look like each of us completing the Census. When our people are missing from the Census, resources and political power for our communities get assigned to elsewhere, typically somewhere that already has more money, more privilege, and more power.

    Filling out the Census is easy, safe, and foundational to our democracy. When you fill out the 2020 Census, you’re helping to bring affordable health care, housing, and democratic representation to your community. Just 10 minutes can change the next 10 years of our lived experience.

    While the Census does not include specific questions about sexual orientation, 2020 is the first year that same-sex partnerships are included as a relationship option on the Census form.

    Gender is still a required question and options are limited to “male” or “female.” While it’s awful that our non-binary community members, like myself, aren’t reflected on this Census, it’s still vital to be counted. If you or someone in your household identifies outside of the gender binary, it is important to ensure you are still counted and that will mean selecting a gender that isn’t correct for you but that is needed to ensure a proper count and representation.

    COVID-19 and the recent announcement that the data collection time is being shortened by one month threaten the accuracy of population data and in turn damage the distribution of political representation and federal funding for the next decade. It is up to each of us to ensure we complete the Census. Please remind your friends and family about what’s at stake and ensure that they too are counted. If we can ensure that each of us are counted and that each of us vote in the upcoming election, then Together We Rise.

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Register to be a Pride volunteer and you can help with our upcoming nonpartisan LGBTQ community voter turnout efforts this fall!

    Fill out your 2020 Census here.

  221. We are Marilyn

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    I’m really struggling to write this one. On July 13, Marilyn Monroe Cazares was found brutally murdered in Brawley, Imperial County, just east of San Diego County. At the time she was believed to be the 22nd reported transgender person murdered in the United States in 2020; at the moment we know about 25.

    I’m from the Imperial County. I was born in Brawley and raised in Imperial County. The county that in 2008 voted 70% in favor of Prop 8. Other local LGBTQ community leaders like Cara Dessert, CEO of The Center, Tiffany Gonzalez, President of PFLAG San Diego, and Cheli Mohamed, Founder & CEO of Volunteer with Cheli are all from the Imperial Valley. Many of us left because of the thriving and violent anti-LGBTQ sentiment that we experienced growing up in this rural community.

    We, like many LGBTQ folks from rural communities, come to bigger cities to find community, safety, and freedom. Not all of us are so lucky. Not all of us have the means. Overcoming the obstacles we face as marginalized folks becomes more difficult when our lives rest at the intersection of identities, and for as much progress as we’ve made as a region and state, too often our rural communities are left struggling.

    That said, much has improved since I left 21 years ago, but it’s a slow-moving battle. LGBTQ residents and allies in the Imperial Valley organized around fighting Prop 8, and with the help of the ACLU, fought the county’s attempts to intervene in the federal court case challenging Prop 8. They started and are restarting their PFLAG. Have had an LGBTQ youth conference, an LGBTQ Center, and a Pride now for several years. All of these LGBTQ projects and programs supported by folks here in San Diego.

    As we make progress and find ourselves better off than we were or than our early pioneers, it’s important to remember that just because some of us are safer, doesn’t mean that all of us are. One life lost is one too many, and there have been far too many lost. Our work is not yet done. While COVID-19 continues to have us separated, I hope each of us is able to connect virtually. Let’s ensure we extend our support to our rural communities, our home towns, so Together We Rise.

    With Hope,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about Marilyn Cazares’ Memorial and Vigil here.

    If you would like to see the Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center continue it’s meaningful work, you can donate here.

  222. Thank you, San Diego!

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    My heart is so full! On behalf of the staff, board, and countless volunteers and community members who worked to make this last weekend a huge success, “Thank you!” In a year full of hardships and setbacks, this weekend truly felt like Pride!

    Over 10,000,000, yes 10 million, people heard our messages of Pride through earned and social media, nearly 300,000 people tuned in to our Pride Live event, and so many of you found creative ways to celebrate your Pride safely and with joy!

    We received so many messages from people who told us they felt Pride. From LGBTQ people in nations where being their true self is a death sentence, folks in unsupportive rural communities across the country, and folks living in unsupportive San Diego homes who all reach out with appreciation because if we had not done this, they would not have been able to experience a Pride.

    Pride looked different this year, but you all showed up online and in the world. Thank you again from all of us.

    Please wear a mask. Please stay safe. We all need to work to end this pandemic so we can be together again. We look forward to that day.

    With Love and Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. In case you missed it, click here to watch Pride Live 2020!

  223. It’s Pride. Why Celebrate?

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    This year has been unimaginably devastating. The losses our community and the world have endured from the global pandemic, police violence, and the ongoing epidemic level murder of our trans siblings have shaken us all to our core. The work we have ahead of us can seem too heavy to bear. Finding cause to celebrate or allow ourselves to lean into joy can also seem like an impossible task at times, but that is why we have Pride.

    We don’t have Pride because we are free and equal. We have Pride because we are not. Sparked from a riot against legal and systemic violence and discrimination against our community, the Pride movement arose to bring our LGBTQ community together and combat the fear, shame, and oppression we faced and still face to this day.

    If we are to create a more equal lived experience for us all, we must first create a more equitable world. We do that by stripping away the systemic barriers that prevent us from living in a truly equal society.

    It is time to rebuild trust. Trust in each other. Trust in science. Trust in a nation whose promise of liberty and justice for all is yet unmet. Trust in ourselves to know what is right and just and fair.

    Moments on our path will seem hard. They will be. They have been.

    We cry out for justice now as we have before. Louder. Stronger. Powerful enough that people are ready to listen. 

    We spoke out in protest this year like never before. We raged and grieved and mourned and yelled our pain into the sky. Our protest is not done. Our work is not done. We will protest with our dollars. We will riot with our votes. We will march in the streets knocking doors for our future. We will lift our voices to the phones calling out for our dreams. We will fight with and for love.

    Pride is not canceled. In-person mass gatherings are canceled. Nothing can strip away our pride. Nothing can deny us the pride our community has built inside ourselves, our community, and the broader world. We will still find ways to raise our Pride flags, celebrate the vibrancy of our community, and bring to light the issues that our movement still faces. We will pursue justice with joy, and at Pride, Together We Rise.

    With Love, Hope, and Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. I hope you join us safely online this weekend as we uplift the voices, lives, stories, and talents of our beautifully diverse LGBTQ community.

    Tune in and learn more about San Diego Pride weekend here.

  224. Pride week is about to start!

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    In 2013 we were approached by a group of women led by community organizer Kelcie Kopf who was interested in creating a trans-inclusive LGBTQ-women centered event in San Diego. Knowing full well at the time that LGBTQ women’s spaces were disappearing all over the country, we eagerly said “Yes” and provided the infrastructure and resources needed to support the vision of these women. Several months later, She Fest was born.

    When San Diego’s Dyke March dissipated, San Diego Pride made a commitment that no less than 50% of our entertainers at the Festival would be female-identified and that we would have no less than one trans entertainer on each stage each day. While inclusive representation should be a minimum bar that we set for ourselves, having intentional trans-inclusive LGBTQ women-centered spaces is a social justice issue we can all support.

    What started as a call for a new event has become a year-round Pride program that brings together dedicated and talented LGBTQ womxn who design their own events and spaces while building leadership skills and capacity for our community. COVID-19 hasn’t slowed them down. This year these amazing volunteers have built an online comedy show and self-care spaces while holding their regular meetings, all while envisioning what She Fest can be online.

    The seventh annual She Fest is this weekend. This live streaming, woman-centered event is full of education and entertainment that celebrate and support the talents and contributions of women while fostering meaningful connections within and between the LGBTQ+ and larger San Diego communities. The interactive day will be full of content that will stream on multiple platforms simultaneously and will include breakout spaces, music, art, pet fashion shows, panels on women in business and politics, and so much more, all brought to you safely on your digital devices.

    If you have never been to She Fest, I hope this is your year. Save the links, tune in, and join us to celebrate and support the talents and contributions of LGBTQ women as we kick off Pride week in San Diego. COVID-19 may be keeping us physically apart, but all are welcome to come together and take part in this online interactive space. If we all uplift and support our LGBTQ womxn’s community, then Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Watch She Fest Live This Saturday here: www.sdpride.org/shefest 

  225. Host a Watch Party

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    Host a #SDPride Watch Party

    While we can’t gather in large groups, we can still connect with our community! Hosting a watch party is a great opportunity to engage with your community while you enjoy the virtual event.

    Health & Safety First! 

    If you do choose to gather in-person, follow all public health guidance in your region. If you or a family or household member are at a heightened risk, please take care of yourself and your community by choosing to engage with us virtually!

    Prep Checklist For Your Watch Party:

    What time does the events start?

    • She Fest: 10:30 AM PDT
    • Light Up the Cathedral: 7:00 PM PDT
    • Spirit of Stonewall Rally: 6:00 PM PDT
    • Pride Live 2020: 10:00 AM PDT

    How can I watch?

    Creating a virtual party!
    There are so many ways to create an online party so you can watch Pride Live 2020 while feeling connected to your friends and family! Here are some suggestions.

    • Group text – SMS, iMessage, WhatsApp, Telegram, Signal, etc
    • Zoom
    • Google Meet
    • Facebook Messenger
    • Facebook Messenger Rooms (video chat)

    Check Your Technology!
    Make sure your internet, computer, TV, projector are all working smoothly. Test your setup the day before if possible.

    Have refreshments ready
    We all know that snacks and beverages are a key component of all celebrations, and being in a pandemic is no different. Prep your mocktails, cocktails, and snack trays!

    Invite your friends to join you
    Post on social media, send one-on-one messages to friends and family to watch with you. Check out details and scheduling on our website at www.sdpride.org/pride

    Connect with the community during Pride Live!
    Use the hashtag: #SDPride or #TogetherWeRise on social media! Post photos of your watch party (even if it’s a party of one!) and tag us. See the Social Media Toolkit here.

    Social Media Handles:
    Facebook | Twitter | Instagram: @sandiegopride

  226. Toolkit

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    We need your help to promote San Diego Pride Live. Here’s our Toolkit to find all the graphics you’ll need to let your fans and followers know you’ll be part of this year’s festivities! Be sure to let them know the following:

    Use the hashtag: #SDPride or #TogetherWeRise
    Tag San Diego Pride!
    Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram: @SanDiegoPride

    Example Copy #1
    Pride Live 2020 is on Saturday, July 18! Join me to celebrate and honor the LGBTQ community as #TogetherWeRise. Tune in at sdpride.org.

    Example Copy #2
    Join us online at Pride Live 2020 as we celebrate #SDPride and hear from some of our favorite LGBTQ organizations, community members, elected officials, and entertainers. Tune in at sdpride.org. #TogetherWeRise

    Example Copy #3
    We’re on Pride Live 2020! Tune in and watch us as we come together to celebrate and honor our LGBTQ community! Tune in and find more information at sdpride.org. #TogetherWeRise

    Click here for downloadable assets.

    Commercials:
    Facebook: One-minute | 30-seconds | 15-seconds
    YouTube: One-minute | 30-seconds | 15-seconds

    Other ways to promote:

  227. Kierra Johnson

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    Kierra Johnson

    Kierra Johnson has a wealth of experience in program development, youth leadership and reproductive justice. Recognized as a national expert, Johnson has testified in front of the U.S. House of Representatives and has increased visibility of reproductive justice through her appearances in Newsweek, The New York Times, Fox News, Feministing.com and National Public Radio.

    Johnson previously served on the National LGBTQ Task Force’s board of directors and on its National Action Council and has keynoted at the organization’s annual Creating Change Conference. Johnson leaves a ten-year tenure as Executive Director at URGE, where she oversaw an organization-wide rebrand, expanded programs, strengthened the model for engaging young people in action and quadrupled the size of the organization. Prior to becoming URGE’s Executive Director, Johnson was the organization’s Development Director and Field Director. She has served on the boards of Groundswell, Center for Community Change and at the Women’s Information Network (WIN). Johnson has been recognized for her leadership with awards including the Young Women of Achievement Award for WIN in 2002, the Women of Vision Award for the Ms. Foundation for Women in 2013, and Washingtonian Magazine’s Most Influential Washingtonians Under 40 in 2009.

    When appointed as the Task Force’s Deputy Executive Director in September 2017, Kierra Johnson said, “Dignity, liberation, joy, freedom, love and resistance are just a few of the words that I associate with the National LGBTQ Task Force. As a bisexual woman I am no stranger to being made invisible, advised to tone down, or trained in the art of the code switch. As a queer southern mom, it is no surprise why I would be drawn to an organization that touts the tagline ‘Be You.’ In these cultural and political times, it is an act of resistance to live out loud and to lead and love with our full identities. I am excited to join the Task Force as the Deputy Executive Director. I welcome the opportunity to think strategically with a powerful team of leaders and be in service to those who are working to ensure that LGBTQ people – especially the most targeted among us – not only survive but thrive. I can’t wait to roll up my sleeves and dive in to continue the ongoing and creative work of the Task Force to change hearts and minds, behavior and policies so that justice is no longer a vision but a reality for all!”

    Learn more about our other Spirit of Stonewall Speakers here.

  228. Shirley Weber

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    Shirley Weber

    Assembly member Shirley Nash Weber was elected in November of 2012 to represent California’s 79th Assembly District, which includes the cities of Bonita, Chula Vista, LaMesa, Lemon Grove, National City and San Diego.

    Dr. Weber chairs the Assembly Budget Subcommittee on Public Safety and the California Legislative Black Caucus. She also serves as a member of the Assembly Standing Committees on Education, Higher Education, Elections, Budget, and Banking and Finance. Moreover, Assembly member Weber currently Chairs the Select Committee on Campus Climate, which was created to examine and mitigate hate crimes on California’s college and university campuses. The committee also explored student hunger, sexual assaults, homelessness, and freedom of expression. She formerly chaired the Select Committee on Higher Education in San Diego County, which explored the need for an additional higher education facility in San Diego and ways to improve the quality, affordability and equal access of higher education in the region.

    In addition to these educational endeavors, in 2013, Assembly member Weber was appointed by then-Speaker John Pérez to serve as the California State Assembly’s representative on the National Education Commission of the States (ECS). The ECS is a nation-wide, non-partisan, interstate group approved by Congress in 1965 to help states develop effective policy and practices for public education by providing data, research, analysis, and leadership.

    In August 2019, Assembly member Weber introduced and passed a historical piece of legislation AB 392 known as the California Act to Save Lives.

    Prior to being elected to the Assembly, Dr. Weber served as the mayor’s appointee and Chair on the Citizens’ Equal Opportunity Commission. She has also served on the Board of the NAACP, YWCA, YMCA Scholarship Committee, Battered Women Services, United Way, San Diego Consortium and Private Industry Council, and many more. From 2004-2006, Dr. Weber was President of the National Council for Black Studies, the premier professional organization of scholars in the discipline of Black, Africana and/or African American Studies.

    Assembly Member Weber has lived in the 79th Assembly District for over 30 years. She was a faculty member and chair of the Department of Africana Studies at San Diego State University for over four decades. Deeply committed to education, she served for eight years as school board member and president at San Diego City Schools. As an Assembly member, she has translated her commitment to education and social justice into her ambitious legislative agenda, including bills on K-12 education reform, civil rights, public safety, food insecurity, protections for person with disabilities, and voting rights.

    From 2005-2006, Dr. Weber hosted a popular weekly radio program entitled, “It’s a New Day with Dr. Shirley Weber,” on KURS AM 1040. The program was broadcast live throughout San Diego and internationally over the internet. In 2006, she aired her program live from Johannesburg, South Africa, sharing her students’ perspectives and those of local South Africans. Dr. Weber has received hundreds of awards, including several Legislator of the Year awards. She has lectured extensively across the U.S., Caribbean and Africa.

    Assembly Member Weber is the mother of two children. She has two Grandsons and a Granddaughter, and is the widow of the late Honorable Daniel Weber, a California state judge.

    Learn more about our other Spirit of Stonewall Speakers here

  229. Kori Gillis

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    Kori Gillis

    Kori Richard Gillis comes from a musical family and grew up in East Chicago, IN. After joining the US Navy during the era of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”, he auditioned and secured a position as a lead vocalist for the US Navy Band. Kori performed in over 30 countries around the world, connecting with audiences through the power of music.

    After his military career, Kori moved to San Diego, CA and continued his work as an entertainer around Southern California. In addition to performing as the lead male vocalist with the entertainment company, Republic of Music, Kori also volunteered his time as a member of the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus. Since 2013, Kori has performed with SDGMC in countless shows and performances, spreading the message of love and using his voice to add to a group that is dedicated to being a dynamic force for social change.

    Currently, Kori continues to perform with SDGMC and has also started the production company KoGee’s Soul Reprise (KSR) where he performs with other artists in the LGBTQ community in “Soul Of A Decade”, a show that unifies and connects audiences through the power of soul music.

    Learn more about our other Spirit of Stonewall Speakers here.

  230. Laurie Coskey

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    Laurie Coskey

    As a Jewish child, Rabbi Laurie Coskey remembers her mother and father giving of themselves in the community — trying to create a more just world. Today she is an accomplished community leader with over 30 years of experience developing and directing programs to positively impact the lives of San Diego residents.

    She came to San Diego as a newly ordained Rabbi in the mid-1980s and began officiating at same-sex commitment ceremonies at a time when the laws lagged far behind justice. Rabbi Laurie has utilized her position as a leader and clergy to promote some of the most important civil rights issues of our time, particularly around the gains, and sadly the losses, of San Diego’s LGBTQIA community. This activism earned her the much cherished Friend of Pride award in 2010. She has passionately advocated for Workers’, Immigrants’, Women’s and LGBTQIA rights, as well as for Racial Equality. As a veteran organizer, together with coalitions of committed individuals and groups, she has utilized some of the most creative and strategic means of turning the lights on to injustice.

    Today Rabbi Laurie continues her urban ministry dedicated to diminishing poverty in San Diego through workforce development as the Executive Director of San Diego Continuing Education Foundation. This position with the San Diego Community College District follows her long time service as Executive Director of the Interfaith Center for Worker Justice of San Diego County and President of the United Way of San Diego County.

    She is an active member of Rotary 33 and has enjoyed giving back to the community through board leadership including the Union Tribune Community Advisory Board and the San Diego Convention Center Corporation. Rabbi Laurie completed her undergraduate studies at Stanford University. Thereafter, she was among the early trailblazers of women in the clergy and was ordained as a rabbi at Hebrew Union College. She then earned her doctorate in Leadership Studies at the University of San Diego. She is the proud mother of two grown sons blazing their own trails toward social justice and partner to Beth Kransberger.

    Rabbi Laurie believes that in every arena, as individuals and organizations, we must lift our voices for justice, dignity, equity and inclusion for all people and use our collective voices to influence policy makers and decision makers to act justly.

    Learn more about our other Spirit of Stonewall Speakers here.

  231. Our Resilient Pride

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    We do not have Pride because we are free. We have Pride because we are not free. We have Pride because, in the face of violence, pain, grief, and oppression – our community, our movement is resilient.

    From the spark of the Stonewall riots and violent attacks on San Diego Pride, the ongoing murders of our Black trans community that have been sustained at epidemic levels, to a global pandemic; our resolve is creative and altruistic.

    2020 has been a villain to the world like no other, and yet through the foundry of our year, we have forged innovation while expanding our education and advocacy programs, and have been preparing to bring a whole new kind of Pride directly to your homes and mobile devices.

    The pandemic is raging on in the United States with more infections being reported every day. We cannot stress enough the importance of staying home, staying safe, and wearing a mask to prevent the spread of COVID-19.

    This year’s Pride, like every year’s Pride, has been built by over a hundred organizations and hundreds of volunteers. We have crowdsourced hundreds of personal stories, organizational histories, photos, videos, and performances from our beautiful and diverse community. We will combine all of those with live spots from some of our favorite San Diego hot spots and some of our community’s most beloved personalities and leaders. I truly cannot wait to show you everything we’ve been working on.

    My very first Pride was 20 years ago. Just a few weeks before I was a homeless kid in Hillcrest, tired of fighting for my right to exist, and ready to give up on the world. I was saved by a local young gay activist, Benny Cartwright, and his mother who took me in. Because of them, I saw my first Spirit of Stonewall Rally and marched in my first Pride. 20 years later it’s an honor to serve as the Executive Director of San Diego Pride for what will be my 10th Pride on staff.

    I share this because I know what the hardest of times look like. I know what it’s like to try and remain strong when the world seems bleak. I also, know how strong queer resilience is. I know how strong we are. I know how brilliant we can be. I know that we struggle through and fight injustice in pursuit of liberation and joy.

    This Pride will look different, but it is no less meaningful. So hang your Pride flags, don your gay apparel, and get ready to celebrate with us online and safely with those you live with. We won’t be in physical space together this year, but we will be together, and Together We Rise.

    Happy Pride San Diego!

    P.S. Check out these two sneak peek videos from Pride Live 2020!

  232. International Pride’s in Your Living Room!

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    From the spark at Stonewall to the celebrations and protests all over the world, the international Pride movement represents the largest global network of LGBTQ social justice work. That structured network of activists started right here in San Diego with one of our Pride’s original members, Doug Moore. He created a list of Pride organizers around the country with a vision of uniting a movement. The first meeting was held in Boston in 1982, and the very first InterPride Conference was held here in San Diego in 1983. 

    Over the decades, the Pride movement has grown to thousands of events and organizations on every continent on earth. Prides look different in every city, region, state, province, and nation. Each one approaches their protests, celebrations, advocacy, and services in ways that are unique and reflective of the communities they serve. What we have in common is our pursuit of liberation and justice of all LGBTQIA+ people and our commitment to support one another in pursuit of those goals.

    2020 has presented humanity with the intense and deadly obstacle of a global pandemic, meaning that most Pride events in their previous forms have been canceled. These cancelations don’t just represent a lack of visibility, education, and direct services. They are also a devastating financial blow to the movement whether risking the financial stability of these organizations or jeopardizing the philanthropy that is born out of these events.

    This year, our international LGBTQ Pride movement has taken on a new approach. Over a hundred volunteers and staff, from every continent, 91 countries, and more than 500 Prides, are collaborating to show the world what our movement is truly all about. Global leaders, activists, organizations, and entertainers from all over the world will be streaming right to your living rooms and mobile devices for 26 hours.

    Just as Doug Moore helped bring us together almost 40 years ago, in 2020 San Diego Pride donated substantial staff time to ensure the success of this unprecedented endeavor. I hope you will join us in watching Global Pride and supporting the COVID-19 Pride Relief Fund which will help to lessen the financial impact of the pandemic on these international organizations. This year has been one of the toughest humanity has faced in recent history, but it’s inspiring to see how our Global LGBTQ community is standing together in our continued pursuit of justice with joy, as Together With Rise.

    With Pride, Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about Global Pride 2020 here.

  233. Our 2020 Headliners are!

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    Pride isn’t canceled; mass gatherings were canceled. Through everything going on in the world, San Diego Pride’s board, volunteers, staff, and community partners continue to press on, producing more free programming and services than ever before. 2020 has given us a much different world than we’re used to, so we’re going to bring Pride to you in a whole new way!

    Pride is not one thing. Everyone’s vision or version of Pride is unique. That’s Pride’s beauty. This year, we’re streaming live interviews of our awardees and community leaders doing the hard work of our movement right to your home and mobile devices. We’re sharing deeper and more engaging stories with folks than we ever have before. 

    Our LGBTQ-women’s event, She Fest, LGBTQ-interfaith event, Light up the Cathedral, and The Spirit of Stonewall Rally will also stream to you live in ways that allow you to engage and be in community safely while retaining the core of our mission and the stories we are here to tell.

    On what would normally be Pride Parade and Festival Day, July 18, 2020, we will bring you our first-ever (and hopefully last ever) Pride Live: Together We Rise. During the course of our day-long event we will take you through the full day of Pride from Parade all the way through the Festival. We will showcase our community organizations, volunteers, leaders, elected officials, businesses, and of course entertainers that make Pride possible every year.

    Hundreds have submitted videos with meaning, purpose, passion, and joy. We’ll be broadcasting those to you interspersed with live segments from all around our San Diego LGBTQ community.

    Entertaining us and dropping by during Pride will be Adam LambertLady JMila JamJai RodriguezPaul OakenfoldParis Sukomi MaxFrancisca ValenzuelaChaos ChaosJORDYGigi GoodeJake ZyrusAZJAHLucy SpragganDisco DollySOULcial WorkersRoann MesinaTamiel McKee BeyAmber St JamesThe Resizters, and many more special guests.

    We’ve never undertaken a project like this before, but our community leaned in to help make this possible. I wish we could all be together in person, but for now, staying physically apart is keeping us all healthy and safe. I hope you’ll find ways to tune in, host your own watch parties, and see all that we’ve built together. Pride is different this year. We will still continue the work of pursuing justice with joy, and Together We Rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  234. Celebrating our Victories

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    While 2020 has been a devastating year for far too many reasons to list, it’s been reinvigorating to see the victories and joy that have shone through this week. As we all endure the hardship and pain this year has brought us, I hope we can take a moment to welcome the light and joy our community has experienced in the last few days.

    Monday brought the transgender and entire LGBTQ community a landmark decision by the Supreme Court. Our nation’s highest court said to the world it is illegal for an employer to fire an employee because of their gender identity or sexual orientation. San Diego Pride partnered nationally for the Day of Decision Virtual Rally that Monday night, and then helped our local LGBTQ coalition hold our rally on Tuesday. While we celebrated that moment we also called our community to action. Our partners and we created an action toolkit to get engaged with our collective next steps to register to vote, support the Equality Act, complete your Census, and tell your personal story.

    Today we also saw the Supreme Court uphold DACA which benefits LGBTQ immigrants whose parents brought them to this country as children for refuge, but who would now face persecution and even death if they returned to their anti-LGBTQ countries of origin.

    Today, San Diego Pride also announced that in partnership with our presenting sponsor Tito’s Handmade Vodka, and with support from Tequila Herradura, we were able to distribute $30,000 in gift cards as part of our Pride Grocery Relief Fund for LGBTQ owned bar and restaurant workers. These workers who inspire our community and typically bring us joy all year round have been financially impacted due to the fact that their main sources of income were shut down in the interest of our collective public health, and it’s a privilege to be able to return some of their goodwill and kindness.

    Through everything going on in their world, San Diego Pride’s volunteers and staff continue to press on, producing more free programming and services than ever before. We’re grateful to the hundreds of people and organizations that submitted videos for our Pride Live event coming up in July, and we can’t wait to bring Pride into your homes in July. With our loss of in-person events, our main source of funding has disappeared, but that isn’t stopping us from pressing on.

    This is why we need your help. San Diego Pride is participating again in Give OUT Day on June 30, with a goal of raising $50,000 so we can continue to do this meaningful work. We’ll be continuing on with our new Pride Ambassador Program all the way through to Pride Live on July 18, and we’re asking everyone to participate in any way you can.

    You can start a team page with your family, friends, business, club, or ERG. You start a personal page, or even simply help out with a donation. Pride is only possible because our entire community shows up to help make it possible. We’re asking you to jump in and help that happen again this year, just in a different way.

    I couldn’t be more proud of our organization and our community for the ways we are all leaning in to support one another this year. There’s a lot of work left to do, but I know that if we all do it together, then Together We Rise.

    P.S. Learn more about the Pride Ambassador Program here.

  235. A Call for Healing & Unity

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    Last night San Diego Pride sent a proposal to the Mayor of San Diego entitled Law Enforcement & Pride – A Path To Healing & Safer Communities.

    We hope you will take a moment to read the proposal in its entirety before passing judgment.

    If you agree with the proposal, we are asking organizations to add their name to a growing list of supporters. Here is an excerpt from the first page.

    Progress, Protest, & Pride

    Progress: For the last three decades, the overall relationship between the LGBTQ community and law enforcement has made incredible strides towards progress. Regional LGBTQ law enforcement agencies march in our Parade, have openly LGBTQ officers, retain LGBTQ advisory councils, created LGBTQ and Trans liaison positions, host an annual LGBTQ Law Enforcement Summit, and keep us safe at our events, marches, protests, and times of crisis. LGBTQ activists and law enforcement officers, many of whom are transgender and people of color, drove that change forward. The legacy of their work has built better policy reform, safer communities, and stronger relations.

    Protest: The Black LGBTQ community, transgender community, and communities of color, however, feel left behind. For years, these communities have approached San Diego Pride and made public cries for support, as they attempt to explain the disparities they live through every day. Every year these calls for help echo with calls to protest or boycott Pride. These activists and community members believe we do not value their lived experiences. In 2015, the Pride Parade was delayed with a die-in led by trans activists of color out of anger at their lived disparity and Pride’s lack of responsiveness. In 2019, the year of the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, saw renewed calls to protest Prides and direct action led by trans and people of color activists delayed nearly every single major Pride event in the county.

    Pride: The San Diego Pride organization finds itself in the middle of these two lived realities. The progress is real and important. The lack of progress for our Black, trans, and people of color communities is also real and devastating. For 50 years, Pride events have grown and brought communities together, but this one issue is tearing us apart. The recent civil unrest across the nation sparked by the recent killings of unarmed Black Americans have brought new light to this issue and is deepening the fractures within our community. Something needs to change. In the name of the lives and safety for everyone in our community, we need to find a path to come together, honor both lived realities, and heal. We hope to find that path together with you.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  236. Statement: George Floyd, Black Lives Matter, and Anti-Racism

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    San Diego Pride declares our opposition to the state-sanctioned violence, murder, and terror being perpetrated by law enforcement agencies across the country. This state-sanctioned violence and brutality against Black and brown communities has a history that dates back to the country’s first colonizers and shares the same roots as the violence and brutality that the LGBTQ+ community fought back against at Stonewall in 1969. Then, the Stonewall riots – led by Black and brown transgender folks, butch lesbians, street kids, drag queens, gay men, bisexual folks, and gender non-conforming folks of all genders and sexual orientations – sparked a fire in the LGBTQ+ movement and became the annual marker of what we now know as Pride month. Now, the protests and uprising led by Black folks across the country is rekindling a growing fire among all people who believe that Black Lives Matter and who oppose state-sanctioned police violence.

    We condemn the killing of George Floyd by police officers in Minneapolis. We condemn the killing of Tony McDade, a Black transgender man, by police officers in Tallahassee, FL. We condemn the killing of Ahmaud Arbery by white vigilantes while jogging in south Georgia. We condemn the killing of Breonna Taylor by law enforcement officers in Louisville, KY. We condemn the attempted weaponization of police force against Christian Cooper, a Black gay man, by a white woman in New York City. We condemn the unnecessary escalation and aggression by police departments, Sheriff’s departments, military agencies, and ICE, especially that which has been blatantly on display across the country since George Floyd’s murder in Minneapolis sparked a tinder box of protest.

    San Diego Pride stands in solidarity with the Black community, including the Black members of our own staff, Board, and volunteers. We are part of the Black community, and the Black community is part of the LGBTQ+ community. Our struggles are intertwined and inextricable. As an organization, we recognize and acknowledge that all lives cannot matter until Black lives matter.

    We also recognize that the United States is a country that was built on racialized violence, from the genocide of indigenous populations to slavery. This legacy takes time and significant work to undo, and nonprofit organizations committed to social justice are not immured from this American legacy and culture. As organizations, we must commit to doing that work of exploring, addressing, and undoing our own internalized anti-Black racism. San Diego Pride commits to working within our organization, with our Black partner organizations, and with all of our community partner organizations to do this deep and difficult work. Any culture that permits this level of aggression and brutality, especially in an institution with the power and responsibility of enforcing laws, must end.

    San Diego Pride’s own past as an organization includes harm done to communities of color, including but not limited to threatening violence and police involvement against Black and non-Black people of color. We apologize for the actions of the past. The current leadership is committed to carving a better path forward with and for the Black community. This path toward a more visible and deepened anti-racist organizational culture includes, but is not limited to, internal accountability and the implementation of transformative justice processes for and with Pride staff, board, and volunteers, and continued and expanded anti-racism training for all staff, board, and volunteers. We also welcome and re-commit to engaging with community accountability and transformative justice processes developed in partnership with the Black LGBTQ+ community.

    We recognize, also, that this is difficult and deep work that requires multiple approaches. For years, San Diego Pride has engaged in, and will continue to require, the harm-reduction work of training law enforcement officers on LGBTQ+ cultural competency and maintaining relationships based on accountability and mutual respect. Maintaining these relationships will focus on keeping our Black and brown community safe from violence, including violence from law enforcement. We have also done the work to lobby and advocate for meaningful police and criminal justice reform in the system that disproportionately criminalizes and punishes Black and brown LGBTQ folks. We will continue to do that work and look for new opportunities to create change — while acknowledging that policy change is only a harm-reduction strategy. Meaningful change must come from the end of the anti-Black racist culture that allows state-sanctioned violence against Black and brown bodies; not just within San Diego’s law enforcement community, but in all law enforcement agencies around the country and in society at large.

    That requires a culture shift. San Diego Pride again calls on City and County leaders – including the Mayor, City Council, County Board of Supervisors, Police Chiefs, and Sheriff – to begin by enacting the real, tangible policy proposals that have come from anti-violence advocates in the United States to address biased policing. We call on these City and County leaders to join in the national call for true reform of how we conceptualize and use policing in our cities and counties; we must shift our collective focus and financial support away from criminalizing our communities and toward providing the necessary health and social support systems that our communities need.

    While we will continue to support harm-reduction policies and procedures that call for reform within law enforcement agencies, this true change must come at the cultural level. The current culture within law enforcement and across America is untenable and incompatible with valuing Black and brown lives.

    In solidarity,


    San Diego Pride
    San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition

    This statement was drafted by San Diego Pride’s Black staff and board to center their voices and experiences. It is supported by both organizations.

  237. Light of Pride Award

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    Light of Pride: an individual or religious organization that is recognized for their persistent and sustained support of the San Diego LGBT Community and that are making significant contributions to the LGBT Community through their time, actions, talents and dedication.

    Reverend Dr. J Lee Hill Jr

    Pastor, preacher, scholar, cultural critic, public theologian, social justice activist, husband and father are just a few words that describe the life, work and ministry of the Reverend Doctor J. Lee Hill, Jr., who believes in exploring ministry at the intersection of the spiritual and social, the secular and sacred.

    Dr. Hill has been involved in ministry for more than fifteen years, and is a licensed and ordained Baptist minister with full standing in both the Alliance of Baptists and the United Church of Christ. He has served, for nearly 20 years, in a variety of ministerial capacities in Virginia, North Carolina, and New York City before moving to San Diego to serve as the Senior Pastor of the Christian Fellowship Congregational Church (United Church of Christ) in Emerald Hills.

    In 2017, as Senior Pastor at the Christian Fellowship Congregational Church, Dr. Hill lead the efforts to have Christian Fellowship Congregational Church become an open, affirming, and accessible to all church, welcoming persons who are differently-abled, gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender into full participation, leadership and ministry of our growing congregation.

    Dr. Hill attended Florida A&M and received his Bachelor of Arts degree in Integrative Studies from George Mason. He earned the Master of Divinity degree with honors from Wake Forest, and the Doctor of Ministry from Emory University. Additionally, Dr. Hill has studied at the Howard University School of Divinity and the Princeton Theological Seminary.

    Dr. Hill also leads the San Diego Interfaith Justice Coalition, a moral movement grounded in faith and social justice, committed to shared values to create a San Diego County where all people can achieve their full potential in an environment of harmony, safety, equality, and justice. He served as the Past President of the San Diego County Interdenominational Ministerial Alliance and was the Past Co-President of the Interfaith Center for Worker Justice in San Diego.

    Civically Dr. Hill is active in the San Diego community as a lifetime member of the NAACP and a Life-Member of Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity, Inc., and serves as the Chaplain of the Zeta Sigma Lambda chapter of the fraternity, that sponsors San Diego’s annual Martin Luther King Jr. parade.

    Dr. Hill is a native of the Commonwealth of Virginia. He is married to the former Christie N. Love of San Diego who in addition to being a wife and mother is the Deputy Director of Policy for the San Diego ACLU. Together Dr. and Mrs. Hill share their home and lives with their young sons.


    Dr. Hill will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.

  238. Community Service Award

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    Community Service: An individual who is recognized as an up-and-coming leader within the community or whose contribution to the community in the past year was of particular significance.

    Damon J. Shearer

    Damon J. Shearer has never considered himself an activist, despite his many accomplishments. He was born and raised in Detroit, Michigan, and his journey in civil engagement and activism began when he was a participant in the Detroit Summer Youth Program. Under the tutelage of the late civil rights leader Grace Lee Boggs, Damon learned that everyone has the power to be an agent for change, even with the smallest of actions. Damon took this lesson with him into adulthood.

    At Calvin College, he co-founded Unlearn Week, a series of lectures and workshops educating students on anti-racist practices and on challenging institutional racism. While living in Japan, he openly advocated for the destigmatization of same sex marriage and HIV/AIDS statuses and led a LGBTQIA+ peer support group called the Rainbow Club.

    Upon moving to San Diego, Damon spent his first few months standing in front of Target stores, Trader Joe’s stores, and other establishments, educating and advocating for the repeal of Prop 8 with the grassroots organization, Canvass for a Cause. His work as a theatre teacher and arts educator has been focused on bringing theatre to communities of color, incarcerated populations, and youth throughout San Diego county.

    Like many others, Damon joined the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition in search of a connection with other Queer Black folks. In 2018, Damon was elected president of the coalition, and this year marks his second term in that office. Under his leadership, the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition has flourished into a hub for Queer Black life in San Diego and a fierce advocate for the Black LGBTQIA+ community.


    Damon will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.
    We’ll also have a conversation with Damon that will be livestreamed on our Facebook, YouTube, and website. Learn more about our livestreamed content here.

  239. Friend of Pride Award

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    Friend of Pride: An individual who does not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but who has stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    David & Jessica Mier

    Since moving to the Uptown community, David and Jessica Mier have been dedicated to supporting San Diego’s diverse LGBTQ+ community in an effort to make a more inclusive environment for all San Diegans.

    As the District Director for Congresswoman Susan Davis, Jessica oversees all district staff activities and is responsible for ensuring timely delivery of constituent services and community outreach, while also leading the local implementation of policy strategies, and among other things, advising the Congresswoman on LGBTQ+ issues. Jessica was recently honored by Nicole Murray-Ramirez (Empress Nicole the Great, The Queen Mother of the Americas) and The International Imperial Court for her efforts in facilitating the first-ever U.S. history wreath-laying ceremony for the openly gay revolutionary war hero, Baron Friedrich von Steuben. Jessica’s many years working for federal officials have included a long history of commitment to advocating for LGBTQ+ causes, including advocacy work for LGBTQ migrants and ensuring equal rights for members in the armed services.

    David Mier is the Director of Community Affairs for UC San Diego Health and is responsible for the health system’s community benefit activities. Since joining in 2011, David has been instrumental to the success of the health system’s LGBTQ+ internal- and external-facing initiatives, including its annual Hillcrest Medical Center Pride Month building lighting, inviting dignitaries and the community to join in the health system’s commitment to health care equality. David also manages the health system’s annual support of the Pride Parade and Festival, last year drawing close to 300 of its clinical and research faculty, staff, and students. David serves on the health system’s LGBTQ+ Health Leaders advisory committee, working with physician leaders towards establishing a multispecialty transgender clinic.

    While certainly proud of their other personal and professional accolades and community involvement, the Miers are most proud of their volunteer work honoring our Latinx and LGBTQ+ communities by advocating for fair, equitable, and inclusive policies and practices. Both are active members of the Stonewall Citizens’ Patrol (where Jessica is the secretary), members of MANA de San Diego (where David is a board member), and both are actively involved with the Hillcrest Town Council.

    Jessica and David live in Mission Hills with their always-fabulous cat, Lady Kitty Bumpkin.


    David & Jessica will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.
    We’ll also have a conversation with David & Jessica that will be livestreamed on our Facebook, YouTube, and website. Learn more about our livestreamed content here.

  240. Champion of Pride Award

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    Champion of Pride: An individual who has demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBT community over an extended period of years with consideration to service to San Diego Pride.

    Bixby Marino-Kibbee

    Bixby Marino-Kibbee is a queer, non-binary trans person and a licensed clinical social worker. They are the Program Director for the Center for Gender-Affirming Care at Rady Children’s Hospital. They have also worked in mental healthcare for the past fifteen years. Bixby was born and raised in San Diego but spent ten years living and working on the East Coast in Virginia and in Boston before moving back to San Diego in 2011. As a mental health clinician, Bixby has worked with individuals across the lifespan in a variety of settings.

    Bixby spent five years working with youth and families impacted by systems of care, including child welfare and juvenile probation through community-based wraparound services before joining the San Diego LGBT Community Center as the Director of Behavioral Health Services in 2015. At The Center, Bixby led a team of clinicians providing outpatient therapy to LGBTQIA people and to individuals impacted by HIV/AIDS. Through this role, Bixby focused on addressing the needs of trans and non-binary youth and adults, including increasing access to gender-affirming mental health services, helping transgender and non-binary individuals navigate healthcare systems and decreasing gatekeeping. Bixby is currently a member of the Board of Directors for The San Diego LGBT Community Center.

    In 2019, Bixby joined Rady Children’s Hospital as the first program director for the Center for Gender-Affirming Care. In this role, Bixby has worked to expand services including the opening of a new multidisciplinary clinic, providing a continuum of care for trans and non-binary youth and young adults and implementing a gender-affirming training program across the health care system. Bixby’s areas of clinical interests include reducing health disparities and ensuring that all transgender and non-binary people have access to healthcare that is safe and affirming, regardless of geographic location and/or financial resources.

    Bixby lives in North County with their partner, child, and dog.


    Bixby will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.
    We’ll also have a conversation with Bixby that will be livestreamed on our Facebook, YouTube, and website. Learn more about our livestreamed content here.

  241. Stonewall Philanthropy Award

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    Stonewall Philanthropy Award: A group or organization which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but which has diligently raised funds to support the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    John Ealy 

    John Ealy is the owner of a restaurant group that includes a local San Diego restaurant in Mission Hills, Harley Gray Kitchen & Bar. A large part of his intention with opening Harley Gray was to be a bigger participant and influence in the community and particularly in the LGBTQ community of which he is a proud member. Philanthropy and giving back have been a part of his personal and business life from the beginning when he opened his first restaurant at the age of 24.

    For 20 years he has been an active member and advocate of The Trevor Project, almost from its inception. He has served on the Board of Development and has hosted large fundraising events at the restaurant/nightclub that he owned downtown. He has marched with the Trevor Project in Los Angeles Pride, San Diego Pride, and New York Pride for years, and he has attended the organization’s annual gala in Los Angeles for 21 consecutive years.

    Locally, he has been a continuous participant of the Rob Benzon Foundation and is a proud sponsor and donor for the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, the Thanksgiving Feast at the Center, and Tantrums & Tiaras. His business has sponsored its own San Diego Flag Football team, the Harley Grayhounds and has been a very proud, annual participant in Dining Out for Life and the San Diego AIDS Walk. Ealy was awarded the annual Red Hot Heroes Leadership Award by the Mission Hills Business Improvement District (MHBID) for co-founding and hosting the annual dinner and fundraiser that benefited the MHBID and the San Diego Fire Department’s Fire station 8 in Mission Hills.

    With pride, he initiated an annual donation of over 40 Padres tickets for Out of the Park and for the Gay Youth department at the Center. Last year, he matched a single-day donation for up to $10,000 to hire staff members for and to help the Center in rewarding ways. Recently in the face of the pandemic, Harley Gray Kitchen & Bar donated meals to the entire ER department at Scripps Hospital and to local industry workers in the community.


    John Ealy will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.

    We’ll also have a conversation with John Ealy that will be livestreamed on our Facebook, YouTube, and website. Learn more about our livestreamed content here.

  242. Stonewall Service Award

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    Stonewall Service Award: A group or organization which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but which has stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    Casa Arcoíris

    Casa Arcoíris formally opened its shelter for LGBT+ migrants in February 2019, after several months of supporting and housing the large numbers of migrants arriving to Tijuana en masse during a migratory crisis that grabbed international headlines and completely inundated Tijuana’s social services. A committed team of local activists and a strong network of binational organizations have been key to ensuring that Casa Arcoíris residents receive not only housing, but also psychological support, medical attention, social services and comprehensive legal services from LGBT+ professionals.

    Since the opening of Casa Arcoíris, the nature of crisis has been changing constantly, and, as we are all experiencing now with COVID-19, continues to do so. However, one thing remains constant: the numbers and the needs of LGBT+ migrants whose lives are in danger and seek humanitarian protection are growing.

    Casa Arcoíris’ work will not be done while the border stands. But what many in this divided region often forget is that the border does so much more than prohibit some from moving across; it also completely reshapes our imagining of the world and how relationships, both personal and institutional, happen across it. We are grateful that many have resisted this sinister and sometimes subtle power of borders and that they extended genuine solidarity across it. Nonetheless, it is clear to those working for LGBT+ and migrant’s rights on this side of the wall that there is still much work to do to connect the struggles between those in Tijuana and San Diego.

    While there have been many challenges, those of us working at Casa Arcoíris see its formation and continued success as testimony to the power of grassroots LGBT+ activists to create long-standing, binational solidarity projects, even in the face of repression and crisis on an international scale. The support of countless individuals, organizations, and foundations have made it possible for Casa Arcoíris to continue this crucial work, and to have this work recognized through the Spirit of Stonewall Award is a great honor. We hope it is a sign of growth of the regional LGBT+ community’s commitment to international solidarity.

    Please consider contributing or sharing within your networks the work that Casa Arcoíris is doing, and consider supporting an LGBT+ asylum seeker during their process of building a new, safer life in the United States.


    Casa Arcoíris will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the other awardees, and the virtual event here.

    We’ll also have a conversation with Casa Arcoíris that will be livestreamed on our Facebook, YouTube, and website. Learn more about our livestreamed content here.

  243. Inspirational Relationship Award

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    Inspirational Relationship: A friendship, familial bond, or intimate relationship whose love, strength, work, and commitment to LGBTQ equality embodies the humanity of our community.

    Joyce Marieb, Ph.D. and Linda Barufaldi, D.C.

    Joyce and Linda were born a block and a half from each other in a small town in Western Massachusetts. While friends, their eight year age difference kept them in different circles until they were both graduate students in theology/philosophy in Boston. By then, their ages made much less difference, and they fell in love.

    Both had worked separately and continued to work together politically regarding civil rights, the peace movement, Second Wave feminism, LGBTQ issues, poverty, electoral politics, anti-racism education, and environmental, and immigration issues. They have never met a fight for justice they didn’t like.

    Soon after moving to San Diego, they opened the Amazon Sweet Shop, a political activism cell masquerading as an ice cream store (although the ice cream was delicious and healthy as well). Eventually, Linda became a chiropractor and practiced in Hillcrest for nearly 20 years, then worked at The San Diego LGBT Center. Joyce served on the Stepping Stone Board during the period of the capital campaign and the building of the new, recovery home. She then became CEO of GSDBA, the gay and lesbian chamber of commerce and, in ten years, built the organization both in membership and in financial stability. In her view, economic growth and civil rights go hand in hand. “Money is power, and power used for the good results in equality.”

    They were married in 2008 and are currently enjoying their 48th year of relationship. Since retiring, they have continued to support the community financially and by demonstrating, phone banking, and communicating with elected officials to advocate for justice for all, especially for the underserved. With Dr. Jennifer Rycenga, Linda edited The Mary Daly Reader, published by NYU Press, an anthology of the work of groundbreaking feminist philosopher who had been her friend and mentor.

    They feel very lucky to have a happy relationship and a shared commitment to action based on their common values.


    Joyce and Linda will be honored at the virtual Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 17. Learn more about the rally, the awardees, and the virtual event here.

    We’ll also have a conversation with Joyce and Linda that will be livestreamed on our Facebook, YouTube, and website. Learn more about our livestreamed content here.

  244. Pride was a riot.

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    “And I must say tonight that a riot is the language of the unheard. And what is it America has failed to hear? … It has failed to hear that the promises of freedom and justice have not been met. And it has failed to hear that large segments of white society are more concerned about tranquility and the status quo than about justice and humanity.” ― Martin Luther King Jr.

    Today, the first day of Pride Month, as the nation rages and mourns in the wake of stolen black lives, I can’t help but reflect on our shared experiences. Pride was a 3-day riot against legal state-sanctioned police violence long before it was a celebration.

    To this day we are not free. To this day we are not equal.

    The work our LGBTQ community does every single day to fight and advocate for equality and justice for all is vital, necessary work. San Diego Pride’s year-round education and advocacy programs serve that mission.

    Pride Celebrations, where we dare to bravely cast our love and joy into the daylight, are themselves acts of protest. The first Pride marches were called “Christopher Street Liberation Day Marches,” but their names changed over time. Our movement chose the word “Pride” in protest and opposition to the weaponized word “shame” that was used to dehumanize us with dire consequences.

    During the Holy Week Uprising of 1968, the nation was moved to riot upon learning of the assassination of black civil rights leader, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

    In 1969, our community fought back against police violence at Stonewall. A riot we commemorate and honor every year.

    The White Night riots in 1979, sparked by a lack of justice for LGBTQ civil rights leader Harvey Milk.

    Now, George Floyd Protests have sparked across the world, calling out for justice and an end to the killing of innocent black lives.

    Every LGBTQ person should be taking a stand against anti-black racism and acting to end the violence against our black siblings everywhere. We at San Diego Pride continue to be committed to that hard and meaningful work.

    Solidarity. Arm-in-arm. Fighting oppression together. That is our path to liberation.

    We are diverse. Our villains are the same.

    United we stand. Divided we fall. Together we rise.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    George Floyd. Say his name.
    Tony McDade. Say his name.
    Breonna Taylor. Say her name.
    Ahmaud Arbery. Say his name.

    Support Local Black-led Organizations:
    San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition
    Black Lives Matter San Diego
    Blackline
    BlacQ Space
    March For Black Womxn San Diego
    The Gender Phluid Collective
    RISE San Diego
    San Diego Bail Fund
    San Diego Original Black Panther Party
    The Soulcial Workers

    Please Note: This is not an exhaustive list, but a starting point of Black-led organizations serving our community.

  245. The Spirit of Stonewall Awardees are!

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    The first time I went to the Spirit of Stonewall Rally was in 2000. It was only a few weeks before that I had been homeless and living in my car. Local community activist Benny Cartwright and his mother saved my life by taking me into their home. It provided me the opportunity, for the first time in my life, to hear the words “gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender” said with pride on a loudspeaker instead of as a slur or behind a whispered hand. As I listened to the speakers that day, I was filled with hope for the first time and a sense that I wasn’t alone. I found my community. I found hope.

    Since the first Pride in San Diego, we have had a rally. It is a time for us to honor our origins, celebrate those who are leading the way, and call our community to action around some of our movement’s most pressing issues. Even in the face of a global pandemic, we will bring the Spirit of Stonewall Rally to our community. This year it will be different. We will stream the event live to your homes and mobile devices.

    This year, in addition to posting the bios and photos of our awardees on our website and announcing them at the rally, we will be hosting live interactive Q&A sessions with each of our awardees in the lead up to Pride. We want each of you to get to know these activists and organizations on a deeper level. We hope you watch and engage so you can learn, connect, support, donate, and find other meaningful ways to take part in the LGBTQ social justice movement. 

    • This year our Stonewall Service Award is going to Casa Arcoiris, which has housed LGBTQI+ refugees and asylum seekers. 
    • The Stonewall Philanthropy Award honoree is John Ealy, owner of Harley Gray, for his years of philanthropy with a focus on LGBTQ youth. 
    • Damon Shearer, President of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, is being presented with the Community Service Award for his impressive activism centering on the Black LGBTQ community. 
    • Linda Barufaldi and Joyce Marieb are being recognized as the Inspirational Couple of the Year as both have been strong community activists throughout their nearly 50-year relationship.
    • Allies Jessica & David Mier are being presented with the Friend of Pride Award for their years of ongoing LGBTQ community work as individuals, a couple, and through their employers UC San Diego Health and Congresswoman Susan Davis respectively.
    • Our Light of Pride Award is going to Rev. Dr. J. Lee Hill for his work to support the LGBTQ community through his congregation, Christian Fellowship UCC, and interfaith organization efforts.
    • The Champion of Pride is going to a true pioneer for trans youth. Bixby Marino-Kibbee is the very first director of the new Center for Gender-Affirming Care at Rady Children’s Hospital.
    • Last but not least, our Community Grand Marshals are the front line and essential workers who are carrying us all through the COVID-19 Pandemic.

    We look forward to sharing their stories with you in the coming weeks and hope that you share your stories with us. We’re still collecting videos to share during our Pride Live 2020 event on July 18. We know that sharing personal stories connects people to purpose while changing hearts and minds. Submit your personal stories of how Pride has brought joy, love, and belonging to your life. By sharing the stories of these amazing activists together with your stories, we hope to inspire and entertain you all throughout Pride season in a new and creative way as Together We Rise.

    With Pride, 
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  246. Times are hard. We fight on.

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    This week, in a year of setbacks and hardships, we made progress. Thanks to the leadership of strong LGBTQ ally, Board Supervisor Nathan Fletcher, San Diego County reignited the Human Relations Commission, now named for its original founder Leon L. Williams. This step to progress comes at a time when hate incidents and violence driven by racism, anti-Semitism, homophobia, and transphobia have been on the rise all across this country. 

    What is most impressive and inspiring to me is the way diverse communities set their differences aside and worked to create a more equitable region. The vote on the County Board was unanimous; partisan politics were put aside in favor of progress. That is something our region does consistently well. 

    Times are hard, and we’re all feeling it. We don’t stop fighting when times are hard. We fight because times have been hard, and we know we deserve love, liberation, and justice. Each imperfect step forward we take is one closer to that vision.

    This year is hard. It’s testing our strength and our resolve. The plans we’ve canceled, the business we’ve lost, the income we’ve been denied, and the people who have been taken from us too soon. We fight on.

    Tomorrow would have been Harvey Milk’s 90th birthday had he not been stolen from us. Despite being robbed of his life, his vision of providing hope to LGBTQ people all over the world continues on. Each and every one of you who participates in an ever-growing Pride celebration every year creates that visibility, and gives hope to all who see us. Together. Joyful. Not celebrating because we are free and equal citizens, but daring to be brave because we aren’t.

    This year, as we get ready to celebrate Pride in a way that doesn’t allow us to be physically close, I hope you remain visible. Light up your building or house in rainbow colors. Hang your Pride flags in front of your homes and businesses. Share on social media and with us why Pride is important to you. This year we are still asking everyone to participate in Pride because we know that we are stronger together, especially when times are tough. We know that Together We Rise.

    With Pride, Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please submit a short video here of why Pride is important to you by June first, so we can include you in Pride Live 2020.

  247. Justice for Black Lives

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    Over the decades, white supremacists and white nationalists have committed acts of violence against our LGBTQ community, Jewish communities, immigrant communities, and communities of color. We know that many of our LGBTQ siblings share lived experiences across a multitude of marginalized identities. Last year, in the United States, there were nearly 30 reported murders of trans people, and almost all of them were black trans women. As we have been living under an administration that supports misogyny, racism, transphobia, homophobia, and xenophobia, how do we fight back?

    As you may have seen, our programs continue on safely in virtual spaces. That includes our interfaith organizing program, DevOUT. You may have recently seen their online panel on Reconciling Faith & Queer Identity. DevOUT’s Light Up the Cathedral event is still going forward this year, and we’re excited to stream it to your living room. Last year as we all witnessed the rise in hate and violence targeting the LGBTQ and Jewish communities, our annual Light Up event was focused on those intersections of experience and identity.

    This year Light Up the Cathedral will be focused on the intersections of the LGBTQ community and anti-black racism and violence.

    We are honored to announce that Rev. Naomi Washington-Leapheart, Director for Faith-Based and Interfaith Affairs for the city of Philadelphia will be our Keynote Speaker this year. The Reverend was recently the Faith Work Director for the National LGBTQ Task Force and is an adjunct professor of Theology and Religious Studies at Villanova University, with joint affiliations with the University’s Center for Peace and Justice Education and Africana Studies program and we are thrilled that she will be sharing her wisdom and insights with us.

    Too often faith has been used as a wedge and weapon against LGBTQ, black, and other marginalized people. Our interfaith programs and Light Up the Cathedral event flip that narrative and show that our diverse experiences with faith can be a tool to break down barriers to liberation and progress. Whether we are fighting the rise in hate and violence towards our black, LGBTQ, Jewish, API, or immigrant communities, our villains are the same. We can defeat discrimination with a truly intersectional approach to public service and activism. We can overcome these together, we can get there together, and Together We Rise.

  248. Share your Story

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    We know that telling our personal stories is one the most powerful tools we as an LGBTQ community or any marginalized communities has in the fight against injustice. The raw, honest, and emotional portrayal of our struggles, and love, and lives is what changes hearts and minds, forges meaningful solidary, and ultimately changes society and policy in a way that positively impacts our lived experiences.

    While there was an all too recent time that entertainment and media wouldn’t share the reality of our lives with truth or dignity, as our movement has progressed, we have been able to tell our stories in more formats with an ever-larger reach. I still remember a time when the Union-Tribune wouldn’t cover LGBTQ issues in a positive light or LGBTQ couples, yet just two Sundays ago they covered a full-page spread in the paper about the specific ways COVID-19 was impacting LGBTQ communityseniorshealth caresexual violence, and youth

    COVID-19 has again changed the way we communicate and tell our stories. Many of you have already seen how, over the last two months, we have been able to connect more people and tell more stories as we stream our programming live and join together in virtual meetings and happy hours. 

    Now we are in the huge undertaking of creating what a virtual Pride is and looks like. That doesn’t happen without you. We are asking everyone in our community to be a part of San Diego Pride 2020 by sharing your voice, your story. We’re going to ask you all to contribute to this massive project.

    You know the value of what your experiences at Pride have meant to you and your life. Where you met your found family. Where you had your first kiss in daylight. The first time you felt free. The first time you felt home. 

    If we are going to create a meaningful virtual Pride, it’s something we’re all going to need to pitch in and help make happen. This global pandemic is impacting us all in different ways, but it will not take away the Pride we have all spent decades building. I’m excited to face this new challenge with you all. I look forward to seeing all the videos, all the stories you submit. We’re going to get through this together. We’re going to celebrate who we are together, and Together We Rise.

    In Solidarity, Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about our virtual Pride here.

  249. My First Day – Podcast

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    On May 6, 2020 our Executive Director Fernando Z. López was featured on the podcast, My First Day. My First Day is a KPBS Explore series that explores these important days through people who came to San Diego from elsewhere, and now call it home. Produced and hosted by Andrew Bracken.

    Listen to the full podcast here.

  250. Adapting to Serve

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    In some ways, the last 7 weeks have felt like 7 years. We’ve all had to make major changes to the ways we work, live, and stay socially connected. For our LGBTQ community, which has often endured a lifetime of familial and social rejection, we often rely on our volunteer-driven community nonprofits to heal our physical and emotional wounds, help us find connection, and build us up to thrive. The loss of engagement with our LGBTQ athletic groups, music and art groups, and other meaningful in-person connections has been a devastating blow. 

    Our community’s nonprofits have spent decades adapting to challenging social, political, and public health crises while constantly carrying the charge of “do more with less.” A report by Funders for LGBT Issues tells us that “for every $100 dollars awarded by U.S. foundations, 28 cents specifically support LGBTQ issues.“ That’s 0.0028% of every dollar. We know our community is far larger than 0.0028% of the population.

    Our LGBTQ nonprofits press on with passion and grit to meet the needs of our community. You can find a list of LGBTQ-specific resources from our region’s nonprofits here.

    Organizations like Mama’s Kitchen, which started as a way to help neighbors suffering from the AIDS epidemic, has now answered the call to help our county feed those impacted by COVID-19.

    Our steadfast LGBT Community Center, which started as a phone line in a literal closet, is continuing to provide vital resources and care to our community while adding an Emergency Referral & Help telephone line: 619.692.2077 x 211.

    Even our beloved Diversionary Theatre, created to explore the issues and lives of our community, is bringing us content online and virtually teaching youth and seniors.

    Here at San Diego Pride, our year-round programming has all gone virtual and streaming. We’ve actually increased the number of weekly events built out by our volunteer-led committees. Pride has also started live streaming interviews with community leaders like City of San Diego Councilmember Chris Ward, Council President Georgette Gómez, and with ever more exciting announcements to be made soon.

    This year, San Diego Pride’s board, staff, and volunteers are working diligently to provide meaningful community information, education, and most importantly connection. The impacts of COVID-19 are obviously affecting every facet of our lives, and still, our community nonprofits work to adapt and serve. While times are hard, we know that we will make it through by supporting one another. My love to all of our community’s nonprofit leaders, staff, boards, and volunteers. I know how hard you are working, how much you are needed, and that Together We Rise.

    In Solidarity,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about our virtual events and programs.

  251. Thank you, Volunteers

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    Last year, 3,469 volunteers gave 23,501 hours of service to help impact over half a million people at events through civic engagement projects and educational opportunities across all of 2019. Everything from our youth programs, to our #MeTooLGBTQ Conference, women’s programs, Latinx and APIMEDA Coalitions, Census work, and voter outreach are made possible through the power of volunteering.

    As a nonprofit we are always tasked with doing more with less. It is our community members who contribute their talents to help us thrive, their insights help us to grow, and their valuable time makes it possible. 

    Just a few years ago, our entire volunteer leadership team fit inside our small conference room at the Pride office. Today, over 150 people have a leadership role within the organization envisioning and coordinating our year-round events and programs, while always bringing in and lifting up the next generation of leaders.

    San Diego Pride is unlike other large events of our scale and production quality because our community volunteers make it possible rather than a large for-profit production company. It is the skill and leadership of volunteers that keep our events free and low cost and allow us to give proceeds from our events back out to community nonprofits. Last year alone we granted out over $340,000.

    Every year at Pride, I am inspired by our volunteers, people who are looking for their found family and looking to make connections while serving the community. The volunteer who finds their new best friend or the love of their life. The volunteer who helps someone connect to sobriety services or HIV testing for the first time. The volunteer who gets to see the expression on someone’s face who is experiencing Pride and acceptance for the first time. These are the volunteers of Pride.

    This year, we are all being met with new challenges, and again our volunteers are adapting and diving into this work with passionate altruism. Our planning and programs continue in safe virtual spaces while volunteers create and take part in more events than ever before. They are helping our Pride continue to connect our community while we remain physically apart. 

    It’s National Volunteer Appreciation week, so if you know a Pride volunteer please take a moment to thank them. I am personally forever in their debt for all they build and make possible for our community. They bring us together, and Together We Rise.

    With Gratitude and Pride, Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about what it means to be a Pride volunteer here.

  252. Pride Update, April 14, 2020

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    Dear Pride Family,

    What our organization, community, and planet are currently facing is unprecedented. The continuing loss of daily connection, income, jobs, safety, security, health, and the devastating loss of life are traumatic impacts that we are all enduring. As those impacts reverberate through us all, know that your Pride Family, from our board, staff, and volunteers, all extend our love, sympathy, and strength to you all.

    We are immensely lucky and grateful to live in San Diego, California, where our state and local agencies and leaders acted quickly and decisively to slow the spread of COVID-19. It is with the deepest love, gratitude, and respect for those essential workers who are on the front lines to keep us safe, healthy, and fed that we implore the rest of us who are able to stay home and stay physically distant from each other to do so. While early indications show us that we here in our state and county may have flattened the curve, it is incumbent upon all of us to continue taking seriously our personal responsibility with regards to public health and abide by the directives given to us if we are to mitigate the spread, keep our losses as low as possible, and expedite being on the other side of this global crisis.

    • The Governor made announcements today about what the future begins to look like as we all cautiously and strategically begin to open up our economy and return to a version of our previous reality.
    • At the moment our State orders show us a world where mass gatherings of any kind are not healthy or safe to conduct.
    • Health and safety are and always will be our number one priorities at San Diego Pride.
    • While the future is unforeseeable, know that we continue to communicate and work closely with government and public health officials about any possible in-person event that may take place once it is healthy and safe to do so.
    • As this continues to evolve and we continue to learn more we will share further updates with you.
    • For now, our programs continue on in virtual spaces and we look forward to sharing our Pride plans that follow our state and local guidance with you all as soon as we know more.

    With Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about COVID-19 LGBT-specific community resources here.

  253. Help our LGBTQ Businesses

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    If you have ever been in our Pride office, you may have noticed Pride posters on the walls from over the decades. One of the things that always strikes me is how in the early days of Pride some of the only sponsors were LGBTQ and ally owned small businesses. Discrimination and stigma were so rampant that major companies wouldn’t come near us, so we relied on individual contributions, button sales, and the financial support of our local LGBTQ small businesses. 


    Those early LGBTQ entrepreneurs created LGBTQ jobs, careers, future business owners, and financial stability in a community that has historically been underemployed. These business leaders have always maintained a philanthropic mindset as they helped to build our community, nonprofit landscape, and strong found-family bonds.

    As the COVID-19 pandemic has stripped us all of our daily normalcy, health, and already taken too many from us, our local LGBTQ businesses are still leaning in to support their workforce and the entertainers who depend on those businesses for income to care for their own livelihood and families.

    While our beloved local businesses adapt to continue serving us and those they employ, I hope that those of us who are healthy and financially stable enough to reciprocate their decades of support do so. On our website, we have added many local LGBTQ-specific community resources to help us endure the COVID-19 pandemic including ways to support the local businesses who have always been by our side.

    Like many of you, I have wept over the last several weeks at the loss of colleagues and loved ones at the hand of this virus and the devastating impact it’s having on all of our lives. What keeps me going is witnessing the compassionate altruistic ingenuity of our community shine through as well all lean in to care for one another while staying physically apart. That’s what this community does best, care for each other. We always stand together, united, and Together We Rise.

    With Love, Hope, and Pride,Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about the ways you can support our local LGBT businesses here.

  254. Will we have Pride in 2020?

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    I’ve been told a few times this week that I am too hopeful and that others do not share my optimism about Pride happening this year. The threadbare patchwork response to COVID-19 across the country may leave us concerned, uncertain, and even fearful. Unknowns have a way of doing that, yet I know that we are a community that has stood up to fear and uncertainty to fight for our jobs, our homes, our marriages, and even basic safety. While I’ve been called Pollyannaish many times in my life, I’d like to believe my optimism is grounded in the hardships I’ve overcome in my own life, our own movement, and a pragmatic approach to strategically overcoming obstacles.

    While COVID-19 testing is still lagging, it appears as though California’s and San Diego’s proactive measures, including having our residents stay home and stay physically separated, are helping to flatten the curve and slow the spread of this deadly virus. This only works if we all personally share the responsibility of our collective public health and follow the guidance from public health officials:

    • Wash hands with soap and water.
    • Clean and disinfect frequently touched surfaces daily. If surfaces are dirty, clean them using detergent or soap and water prior to disinfection.
    • Avoid touching eyes, nose or mouth with unwashed hands.
    • Cover your cough or sneeze into a tissue or your elbow.
    • Avoid close contact with people who are sick.
    • Stay away from work, school or other people if you become sick with respiratory symptoms or have a fever or cough.
    • If you smoke or vape, consider quitting. Smokers who already have lung disease or reduced lung capacity could be at increased risk of serious illness. 

    Additionally, California Health and Human Services Secretary Dr. Mark Ghaly stated, “Face coverings could provide some additional protection against COVID-19, but Californians should not have a false sense of security if they choose to wear them. Make sure you’re also staying 6 feet away from other people if you have to leave your home to get groceries or prescriptions.”

    If we can all hold ourselves and each other accountable for maintaining a lowered curve, the best case scenario is that we are all free and able to have Pride as planned in July. If COVID-19 is not controlled by July, we would move Pride to another date if possible. The Pride Parade and Festival require the coordination of hundreds of nonprofits, businesses, and entertainers, and thousands of volunteers. That work is continuing remotely as it is vital regardless of the actual date of the event.

    San Diego Pride is different from other Pride organizations around the world. We have a full time staff, give out community grants and scholarships, have year-round education and advocacy programs, have healthy financial reserves to protect us against the unforeseeable, and are held together by an incredible base of skilled volunteers who give their time all year long. All of those factors combined are allowing us to continue our Pride 365 programming and planning virtually while we prepare for a variety of possible outcomes for our Pride celebration.

    Globally, we are working with the InterPride network to establish a virtual Global Pride that will be held on June 27 and bring together Prides from all over the world. Locally, we are working on alternative virtual solutions for July if that is required of us as well. While it’s impossible to plan for the unknown, we are doing our best. 

    The innovative support I’ve seen our community engage in along with the smarts, grit, and passion of our Pride Family all gives me hope. No matter when we find ourselves on the other side of this pandemic, know that we will celebrate together in the streets of our city, and Together We Rise.

    With Love, Hope, and Pride, Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about Global Pride here.

  255. The State of our Pride

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    With so much uncertainty and so many things changing from day to day, I wanted to take this moment to share with you some of the changes and adaptations we’ve made and how we are moving forward. Our hearts go out to everyone who has been impacted by the mental, emotional, physical, health, and financial damage that has been done by this virus. We can’t emphasize enough how important it is to abide by our local and state guidelines.

    Globally, 176 Pride organizations have had to cancel or postpone their events. Not only do these cancellations deny our LGBTQIA+ siblings around the world their day in the sun, they take away time for justice work and access to LGBTQ-competent health care and resources. As we’ve mentioned before, our regional and global network of Prides has helped us to navigate challenging times and to better strategize as a movement. 

    While most Prides are in June, San Diego Pride is held in July, which gives us a fighting chance that other communities don’t have. That said, like all of us, San Diego Pride has, in just a few days’ time had to make some huge adjustments to how we operate. We have had to cancel all of our events for the next two months and have lost tens of thousands of dollars of income because of it. The uncertainty means that all of our income streams are at a virtual standstill. Many of the small businesses that we work with to put on the event or rely on for income have already laid off their employees or shuttered their doors. Still, we remain hopeful.

    While our team works remotely and our programs have all shifted into virtual spaces, I couldn’t be more proud of how every single one of our Pride Family members is stepping up to this challenge. Our Pride Celebration planning continues on; 70 volunteer-leaders attended our virtual monthly Pride Leadership Meeting and breakout sessions. Our programing and planning groups that center youthwomen, servicemembersLatinxAPIMEDAtrans communities, and more have all continued on meeting, planning, and connecting. Our team continues to work to collect LGBTQ-specific resources such as virtual community spaces, and volunteer needs and deliver them back out to the community.

    I write to you in awe of our community’s resilience. The Center has adapted to continue delivering life-saving services and care. North County LGBTQ Center continues to be a beacon of hope and connectivity. Urban Mo’sChad Michaels, and the Dream Girls have found a path to support our local performers while uplifting our spirits. Local LGBTQ-owned businesses that always give to our community like Harley Gray and Rich’s are offering takeout or delivery to help keep their staff and all of us supported. 

    Each of them and all of you are inspiring. I am so proud to watch this community show strength in solidarity. The ingenuity and resolve of our community that shines through in times of crisis are beautiful to behold. Our theme logo this year is meant to look like a rally or protest sign. It is meant to remind us that in times of joy and times of pain, we are stronger together, and Together We Rise.

    With Hope,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  256. COVID-19 LGBTQ Resources

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    Pride was not created out of a need to celebrate. Pride was created out of a response to trauma. Pride was created to galvanize our community in solidarity and strength. Pride is led by compassionate, bright, and determined community volunteers who bring their whole selves in service to our LGBTQ community. Pride connects us, not only to one another, but to vital services, resources, and opportunities for joy.

    Prides also have a history of adapting to the ever-evolving needs and challenges of our community, and today can be no different. In the past week, we have witnessed an outpouring of innovative love, support, and community connection that honors our need to be physically separated, safe, and healthy.

    San Diego Pride works with 70 nonprofits, 80 institutions of faiths, and 350 businesses. We have nearly 200 incredible volunteers in leadership roles and another 6,540 volunteers who give their time at least once a year. Our staff is reaching out to all of them to learn about the steps they are taking to support our community. We are also asking each of you to let us know what creative and vital work is being done to help the LGBTQ community stay connected, supported, and get us through the COVID-19 pandemic. From there we are building out a COVID-19 LGBTQ Community Resources & Support page on our website that will be updated frequently.

    Our hope is to support everyday LGBTQ community members, small businesses, local entertainers, and nonprofits who serve the LBGTQ community to remain connected and supported as best as we can over the coming weeks.

    We have all been emotionally and financially impacted by this quickly changing reality. None of us have ever lived through anything like this. I believe in the beauty and creativity of this community. I’m watching the best parts or your hearts shine all over social media right now as your generosity, talents, and compassion are out in full display. Thank you for all you are doing to help us get through this together. This moment is dark and scary, but I know that Together We Rise.

    With Love, Hope, and Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Pride Celebration 2020: Pride planning is currently moving forward with informed and cautious optimism. If we have to delay or modify the event for any reason we will keep everyone in the loop. All planning and coordination has been moved to virtual spaces.

    Volunteer Support: Pride has over 6,500 incredible volunteers in our database, who are regularly called upon to help support other LGBTQ-serving organizations. If you would like to be added to that list please sign up here. If you are an organization in need of volunteers please register your need here.

    (Here is an example of how we put out the call for Mama’s Kitchen as they are called upon to support some of our most vulnerable during this crisis.)

    Youth Programs: Like all our programs, this has moved into digital space. Our youth program coordinator is working on increasing the number of meetups to help keep youth connected, supported, and informed.

    Education & Advocacy Programs: All of our programs are continuing to meet virtually. If you would like more regular updates from any given program you can sign up for their list serve and follow us on social media.

    LGBTQ Entertainers: If you are a local LGBTQ Drag Queen, DJ, band, or musician and you are going live on social media to bring hope into people’s homes while we are all physically apart, tag us on social media and we’ll do our best to reshare your post in a timely manner and help spread that joy. Facebook | Twitter | Instagram

    Resources, Connections, & Support: We will continue to update information on our website as it comes in. Please take a moment to review our COVID-19 LGBTQ Community Resources & Support page and help us add to it as you come across new information.

  257. COVID-19 Updates

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    This is a moment in time when we must once again call upon the strength of our community to address a public health issue. During the AIDS crisis, our government acted too slowly, and far too many were needlessly lost. The spread of the novel coronavirus, COVID-19, is impacting global health, and it is incumbent upon all of us to take seriously our personal responsibility with regards to public health.

    We are and have always been an intersectional, intergenerational organization and movement that embraces a diversity of ages, abilities, and spectrum of health experiences. LGBTQIA people and in particular our transgender siblings and people of color have greater barriers to accessing employment and health care. People in our community may have compromised immune systems for a variety of reasons from higher rates of cancer, smoking, HIV/AIDS, and even daily stress. These facts make our next steps to prevent the spread of COVID-19 vital to the long-term strategy of health and safety for our entire community.

    Much of the same guidance being given to us in our region about preventing an outbreak also reflects back to us the need to keep many of these tactics as parts of our daily lives and ongoing habits to help keep our community and all communities safer in general. In addition to those practices, we are all being asked to temporarily practice intentional social distancing. We are providing tips and information below.

    In ongoing conversations with local and state health officials, we are abiding by their guidance to help prevent the spread of the virus. We understand the challenges that these changes will bring to many of us and are deeply appreciative of your support as we all work to navigate this ever-shifting landscape.

    With San Diego Pride more than four months away, planning for the event is still moving forward with informed and cautious optimism. We will continue to monitor COVID-19 and to keep you all apprised of any developments that may impact or change our plans. 

    I believe in our community’s ability to address this new challenge with integrity and compassion. We must combat this new virus with a calm and measured response that honors our most vulnerable and do so while combating the rise in hate and violence that has been targeted at our Asian communities. We will fight this together, and Together We Rise.

    With Love, Hope, and Pride,

    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    State guidance: gatherings with 250 people or more should be rescheduled or canceled for the remainder of the month of March.

    Event & Programs Updates:
    Pride Night with the Gulls this Friday, March 13, and OUT at the Park on Friday, March 27 will be postponed. These events are run by the Gulls and the Padres respectively, and we are working with them to find new dates and solutions.

    Our annual Pride Youth Art Show and monthly Queer Youth Collective will be rescheduled for April 11. Our youth programs department is working towards online remote solutions to help our LGBTQIA youth stay connected to community, supported, and informed.

    Service Members in Drag event is being postponed.

    Transgender Day of Empowerment will be postponed for a later date. This will not impact our scholarship recipient’s ability to receive their awarded funds, it only impacts our public event timing.

    Our community volunteer-led programs such as She Fest, MeToo LGBTQ, Latinx Coalition, APIMEDA Coalition, Military Department, Entertainment Department, and other planning meetings will be conducted remotely for the next few weeks.

    Thank you for your understanding and support. We will continue to monitor the evolving situation and update you all as we go.
     
    Steps to Prevent Illness:Wash your hands with soap for 20 seconds or more.
    Avoid close contact with people who are sick.
    When sick, stay home when possible and keep your distance from others to keep germs from spreading.
    Cover your mouth and nose with your elbow when coughing or sneezing.
    Avoid touching your eyes, nose, or mouth to prevent infection.
    Engage in self-care: Get plenty of sleep, be physically active, manage your stress, drink plenty of water, and eat nutritious food.
    Social Distancing:
    Social distancing is a practice recommended by public health officials to stop or slow down the spread of contagious diseases.
    Forego nonessential meetings, outings, and travel
    Avoid crowds such as in conferences, concerts, and sporting events
    Working remotely if possible
    Keeping a distance of 6 feet or more when possible

    Here are some links that might be helpful for you:
    www.coronavirus-sd.com
    https://dchealth.dc.gov/coronavirus
    https://cancer-network.org/coronavirus-2019-lgbtq-info/
    https://kindclinic.org/now-sashay-away-corona/
    https://www.cdc.gov/
    https://www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2020/s0228-additional-COVID-19-cases.html
    https://www.who.int/news-room
  258. Empower Trans Youth

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    Over the decades, the anti-LGBTQ establishment has used “protecting youth,” marriage equality, military service, and bathroom bills as wedge issues to divide our country, to drive radical anti-LGBTQ folks to the polls, and even to divide our own community. They failed. We’ve made progress. Their new targets center again on our trans siblings, in particular our trans youth with regards to participation in athletics and access to gender-affirming health care. 

    The ongoing attacks emphasize the necessity for our community to turn out to the polls. This Super Tuesday, LGBTQ voters comprised about 10% of voters, making our community a vital part of the election process, and yet we know that about 1 in 5 LGBTQ people who are eligible to vote isn’t even registered, meaning we can do even better!

    Beyond voting, how we work to support and uplift our trans, nonbinary, and gender-nonconforming youth through our year-round LGBTQ youth programs is more important than ever. We have seen an unprecedented amount of anti-trans and anti-LGBTQ political attack ads which most severely impact our youth.

    Here at Pride, we’ve taken the GUTC pledge (Grantmakers United for Trans Communities) and encourage others to do the same, which means intentionally increasing funds to support our trans community. Last year we were able to increase our giving to trans-serving and trans- lead organizations to nearly $75,000 to 19 organizations. Those funds support projects and programs like the Trans Day of Empowerment and the Tracie Jada O’Brien Trans Student Scholarship, which has provided $33,500 to 53 trans students, supporting their attendance at trade schools, SDSU, and even Harvard University.

    Our collective fight against anti-LGBTQ issues and policies doesn’t always mean direct confrontation. It can mean showing up to support our most vulnerable and marginalized so we can help them and our collective community be that much stronger. United we stand, divided we fall, and Together We Rise.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. We’ve had more trans students apply for the scholarship than ever before. If you are able, please consider a gift to this program and help us support as many trans students as possible. 100% of your gift will go directly to help a trans student build a better future.  Donate here

  259. Celebrate Black Excellence

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    For the past several years our country has seen a rise in hate speech and violence. Most at risk are the people whose lives rest at the intersection of multiple marginalized identities. 2019 was a year our community saw the murder of black trans women reach epidemic levels. When we take a step back and look at our current administration’s anti-black racism, transphobia, and homophobia we need not wonder why. So, other than voting, how do we fight back?

    We have to do one of the things our community does best — take our individuality and celebrate it! 

    Watching Janelle Monae take the national platform of the Oscars and use that opportunity to proclaim, “I’m so proud to stand here as a black queer artist, telling stories. Happy Black History Month,” was an inspirational moment of visibility. California Governor Gavin Newsom pardoning civil rights legend Bayard Rustin was justice delayed, and yet a marker of progress for our state. As families across the country watched Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union publicly embrace their daughter Zaya’s trans identity, it gave us hope for our own families.

    Here in San Diego, we have many opportunities to support, uplift, celebrate and honor our black LGBTQ community. This Friday, you can come out to Black Girl Magic and support the work of our local black drag community. March 8 San Diego Pride will be at the March for Black Women, and we hope you march alongside us. March 13 the Bayard Rustin Civil Rights Honors will recognize local movement leaders from the black LGBTQ community. On April 3rd at the Trans Day of Empowerment, we will award funds to students from the Tracie Jada Obrien Scholarship Fund, a program founded a lead by a local black trans woman. At the San Diego Pride Festival in July, our Movement stage, which centers around black LGBTQ music artists is connected to our Black Pride area which centers around resources for our black LGBTQ community in partnership with the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition who do incredible ongoing work for our community all year round.

    Let’s continue to celebrate the lives and accomplishments of folks like Marsha P. Johnson, Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Glenn Burke, Stormé DeLarverie, and Janet Mock whose brilliance and persistence has inspired generations of us. That’s how we fight back against hate, that’s how we change hearts and minds, and that is how Together We Rise.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition here.

  260. We belong in Sports

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    Billie Jean KingBilly BeanRenée RichardsLiz CarmoucheGreg Louganis, and many other high profile LGBTQ athletes have San Diego roots. Openly gay soccer player Collin Martin also just recently signed with the San Diego Loyal Soccer Club. With still relatively few out LGBTQ athletes in major league sports when compared to other industries, we know there is still much work to do. San Diego’s LGBTQ athletes have excelled at their respective sports while combating homophobia, transphobia, and HIV stigma for decades. 

    San Diego has a long history as a thriving community for LGBTQ adults interested in sports with groups like the America’s Finest City Softball League who’ve been longtime partners for OUT at the Park), Front Runners & Walkers who donate proceeds from the Pride 5K back to Pride’s community grant program and the Sunburst Youth Housing Project, and 18 other local LGBTQ sports groups. Many of them can be found recruiting every year at the Pride Festival in the Athletes Alley area where attendees can relax, play lawn games, connect with the members, and sign up to join a team.

    Pride’s OUT sporting events started in the ‘90s and continue to grow! OUT at the Park sells out every year as we get larger and larger tickets blocks. This year 5,000 prideful Padres fans are expected to attend! San Diego Gulls and You Can Play have again teamed up to host Pride Night with the Gulls and will be donating their proceeds to our women’s festival She Fest. If you’re a rugby fan, OUT at the Pitch is in its second year, and if you’ve ever been rugby-curious, that would be the time to check it out! Each of these events helps to fund San Diego Pride’s year-round education and advocacy programs.

    Much of the vital work left to be done to combat LGBTQ discrimination in athletic spaces includes protecting the most vulnerable of our population by stopping bullying and harassment in playgrounds, P.E., and youth programs. There is much left to accomplish at all stages of an LGBTQ athlete’s development including having supportive parents, coaches, teachers, team owners, managers, and fans in the stadium.

    I hope you’ll join us at one of our upcoming LGBTQ sports outings so we can show the rest of the world, and especially our closeted athletes and youth, that we have been here supporting them and will continue to show up to support them as Together We Rise.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    Learn more about local LGBT sports groups here.

  261. We need more Love Warriors

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    Back in 2008, in San Diego, during the course of the entire No on 8 campaign, only around 9,000 volunteers took part in the campaign that entire year as we fought to protect our freedom to marry. One of the challenges organizers faced when trying to recruit volunteers was folks claiming, “California is so progressive. This will never pass in California.” We lost that campaign. 

    Anger surged in our community, and we protested in the streets. The largest post-Prop 8 march in San Diego had an attendance of around 29,000 people. By comparison, 2019’s Pride Festival had just over 50,000 people in attendance, and since 2008 our Parade attendance has varied widely but has been between 100,000 to 350,000 people. My point is that I know our community has more than just those 9,000 volunteers who care deeply about our community. They want a pathway to engage.

    Marriage equality in California or across the country wasn’t won just through a few court cases. It was a comprehensive, decades-long movement that involved everyone from grassroots organizers to elected officials, organizations, and businesses fighting for what was right. 

    We leveraged emerging social media to mobilize around traditional field-organizing tactics. We wrote op-eds and used earned media as a tool for public education. We took to the streets and the bars to inform our own community, recruit volunteers, and raise funds. Drag queens hosted phone banks, and interfaith leaders led protest marchesTrans and nonbinary people applied for marriage licenses and were denied in front of news cameras. It took every person in our community and our allies bringing their unfettered wisdom and innovative approaches to the movement to help us win that battle. The fight continues.

    While we live in a state with wonderful protections for our community, the rest of the country is not so lucky, but we have the opportunity and the ability to impact public sentiment and the lived experience of our community by engaging in the fight in whatever manner best suits our individual strength. Complacency in the face of fascism and hundreds of anti-LGBTQ initiatives across the country is not an option. Within the marriage equality movement, we called ourselves Love Warriors. We are needed again. All of us are, and Together We Rise.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Help us turn out the LGBTQ vote this primary and election season by volunteering with our Vote With Pride program.

  262. Nominate your Inspiration

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    The first time I went to the Spirit of Stonewall Rally was in 2000. It was only a few weeks before that I had been homeless and living in my car. I was from the rural border town of El Centro and didn’t know what Pride really was, but I knew there were LGBTQ people there and I knew it was in Hillcrest. I stumbled upon a large group of people standing in front of The Center and for the first time in my life I heard the words “gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender” said with pride on a loudspeaker instead of as a slur or behind a whispered hand. As I listened to the speakers that day, I was filled with hope for the first time and a sense that I wasn’t alone. I found community.

    2 years ago this week I stepped into this role as Pride’s Executive Director. I couldn’t have imagined 20 years ago the role I serve in now, and yet I know how pivotal it was for me to see our community leaders on that stage talking about our movement and the path to progress. While much has changed in that time, what remains consistent is the need to lift up and support those doing the important work to serve and fight for our community every day.

    Since the first Pride in San Diego, we have had a rally. It is a time for us to honor our origins, celebrate those who are leading the way, and call our community to action around some of our movement’s most pressing issues. This year we will face critical elections and Supreme Court cases which only underscore our need for direct action. After 20 years, the rally still is my personal favorite part of Pride weekend. It calls me home, lifts my heart, and helps me remember what we’re fighting for. I hope you will join me at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally this year as we collectively remember that while united we stand, divided we fall; Together We Rise.

    With Pride,
    Fernando Zweifach López
    Pronouns: They/Them/Theirs
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

    P.S. Please take a moment to nominate an inspiring person from our community who is doing important work in service to our movement for this year’s Spirit of Stonewall Awards.

  263. Youth Art as Advocacy

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    A collection of submitted youth art from 2017 – 2019.

    This hyperpolarized political climate is taking its toll on our country and our movement. Too often, at the epicenter of anti-LGBTQ attacks are our youngest community members, whether it is increased bullying in schools or the rising number of anti-LGBTQ pieces of legislation that are popping up across the country like the new South Dakota bill that would ban transgender health care for youth. These moments in our journey for justice call upon us to lean in that much more to support our LGBTQ youth and to help them build the world they envision.

    Over the years we have helped LGBTQ youth build out some of our organization’s most robust programs. We listen to the needs, hopes, and interests of our youth and then assist them in acquiring the tools and skills to create meaningful opportunities for themselves. Through this model, we have daily, weekly, and monthly youth programs. Some of my favorites have to do with the way our youth use the visual and performing arts to find community and advocate for themselves.

    Recently, in partnership with the San Diego Women’s Chorus and artistic director Lindsey Deaton, San Diego Pride helped start the San Diego Queer Youth Chorus, who will be joining Jason Mraz in February for his Shine concert at Spreckles Theater. Our Pride Youth Marching band is now in its 6th year. At our monthly Youth Collective, art is used as a tool to educate about gender and healthy relations. In March, our 4th annual Pride Youth Art show asks young LGBTQ artists to interpret our 2020 theme “Together We Rise.” The art will then be exhibited across our region for a full year and will be used as a tool for public education.

    What started with a handful of youth asking for support has grown into robust year-round youth programs. Last year we were able to host over 3,300 youth visits. I couldn’t be more proud of our young leaders and the intergenerational efforts that support them. Their collective, year-round efforts create intentional spaces for our youth to revel in found family, build capacity, and unapologetically indulge in being radically and absolutely 100% their true, authentic selves. That is beautiful. That is Art. That is Pride. That is how Together We Rise.

    P.S. If you know a talented young LGBTQ artist invite them to participate in this year’s youth art show, Together We Rise and then join us for our March 14 reception.

  264. We found their Anti-LGBTQ playbook

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    We all know that voting is important. For the last few years, our community and other marginalized communities have been feeling the consequences of dramatic backward sliding policy shifts put forward by elected officials who do not reflect the values of diversity and equity. Because many of these attacks, on their surface, can seem so different in scope their cause may seem disparate, but there is a strategy there. It has a name: Project Blitz. We found their playbook.

    It sounds like something out of a movie, yet the reality is that extremists are leading a massive, coordinated effort to dismantle religious freedom, deny access to reproductive health care, and directly attack the LGBTQ community. Many of these policy shifts may seem innocuous at first glance; some boldly state that they are so-called Religious Freedom Restoration Acts, but these bills are attempts to give licenses to discriminate even in instances of live-saving direct services and care. 

    In just the last couple of years, hundreds of bills have been introduced in 40 states in various levels of government. These coordinated efforts include partnerships with discriminatory attorneys who act to challenge laws in what they see as vulnerable judicial districts. When coupled with the Trump administration’s flood of anti-LGBTQ judicial appointments, these efforts pose a real threat to, not only our right to marry, but to the overall progress and safety for the LGBTQ community, women, religious minorities, people of color, and other marginalized groups.

    While all of this may seem overwhelming, there are simple solutions. Engage! Even small local elections have consequences that can support or harm the most vulnerable among us. We know that when we stay vigilant and engage in our elections, progress is possible. If you need to update your voter registration, do it now. If you have the time, join us and our coalition partners in our nonpartisan Get OUT the Vote program – Vote with Pride where we will work to ensure that our community shows up to the polls. These attacks threaten the safety of all of us, but if we can face them together, then Together We Rise.

  265. Our 2020 theme is…

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    It’s only the beginning of 2020 and we already know the road ahead of us this year will be a challenging one, to say the least. We’re living through a hyperpolarized time that has us witnessing a rise in fear, hateful rhetoric, and an increase of violent hate crimes. Too often our differences are used as divisive weapons, but what keeps me hopeful is the resiliency of our community and nation made stronger by our diversity. 

    We know that people in the LGBTQ community come from all walks of life. We are youth, parents, and seniors. We are every color, body type, gender, and faith. We are indigenous, immigrants, and asylum seekers. We are anti-war veterans and active-duty service members. The LGBTQ community is truly as diverse as humanity itself. That inspires me.

    We, the LGTBQ community, have a power gifted to us by the insights of our lives that rest on the intersection of multiple identities. We can see the common root causes of oppression and discrimination. It is incumbent upon us to use that insight as our moral compass to help guide the world around us to a more equitable and just future.

    It is with that charge in mind that we are proud to announce that our Pride theme for 2020 is “Together We Rise.” This year we will focus on calls for collaborative social justice. As some seek to divide us, we will help to shed light on intersectional ways we can address the issues impacting our community, region, and movement and ask you to join in on that work alongside us as Together We Rise.

    P.S. If you haven’t already done so, please register to volunteer with Pride and learn about opportunities to engage with us through the year.

  266. We’re giving away $340,000!

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    2019 San Diego Pride Parade

    It is truly a joy to be a part of this organization. 2019 was our largest and most successful year to date. The impact of San Diego Pride is only possible through the help of our 70 LGBTQ-serving nonprofit community partners, 117 sponsors, 575 entertainers, 1,966 volunteers, 55,000 Festival attendees, 350,000 Parade attendees, and the people who enjoy our programs 365 days a year. 

    I love that we are able to join in celebration, pursue justice with joy, and reinvest the proceeds of Pride into the health and happiness of our LGBTQ community. We do that by providing free Festival entry to HIV testing, youth, seniors, and others receiving direct services and care. We provide free electronics, products, and meeting spaces to help our regional LGBTQ-serving organizations raise money and organize. San Diego Pride also has the distinction of being one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world as we’ve given out more than 3 million dollars to since 1994.

    This year I’m pleased to announce that our cash donations to our community are over $212,000 to more than 60 organizations, and when combined with our in-kind donations we’ve given out over $340,000 in 2019! I can’t thank you enough for being a part of making this all possible. Thank you for being a part of our Legacy of Liberation!

    P.S. My birthday is this coming Tuesday, December 17, and in lieu of gifts I’m asking my friends to donate to the Tracie Jada O’brien Scholarship Fund. I’m personally giving $500 to the fund. Gifts of any size are helpful and 100% of your gift will go to a transgender student. Please consider going to sdpride.org/donate, select “Trans Scholarship,” and leave me a birthday message in the comments if you do. 

  267. 2020 Pride Dates

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    2020 is upon us! While I know together we will continue to face the challenges of fear, hatred, discrimination, and violence, so too will we build community, find love, and join in celebration.

    I look forward to a new year with you all as together we rise in pursuit of justice with joy and our Legacy of Liberation.

    Learn more about Pride 2020 events here!

  268. Hope for the Holidays

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    2018 Toyland Parade

    This time of year I’m always reminded of the fear, pain, and depression that many in our community face as the holidays approach. Many of us feel the weight and emptiness of familial rejection and isolation. Far too many of us, especially our youth, fear holiday gatherings where relatives will be outright hostile.

    While I personally know all too well the hardship that the holidays can bring to our community, I am also grateful for and inspired by our resilience. It is a thing of beauty to watch our community come together in support, as we always do, with innovative approaches to friendship, family, and love. 

    The annual Scott Carlson & Dan Ferbal Thanksgiving Community Dinner gives us a space to come together and dine with found family. World AIDS Day allows us to pause and reflect on those taken from us too soon as we recommit to the work of fighting the virus and stigma. Come Home for the Holidays provides an opportunity for us to celebrate the diverse cultures and traditions within our local community with our LGBTQ-serving organizations. Marching in the Toyland Parade with Pride is a way for us to proudly celebrate the season with our kids, friends, and family in the light of day.

    Our community is strong and brave. We know how to pool our passion and resources to ensure that none of us is left behind. Whether you are with family of birth or choice, join us at one of this season’s community events, enjoy an intimate Friendsgiving, or enjoy our local LGBTQ businesses staying open on holidays to give LGBTQ people places to connect. I’m inspired by our community’s resolve to heal and love one another, as we welcome each other into our Legacy of Liberation.

  269. Trans Day of Remembrance

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    A report just released this week by the FBI states that hate-crime violence is at a 16 year high and that anti-trans hate crimes skyrocketed up 40% from 2017 to 2018. So far this year at least 28 transgender human beings have been killed or gone missing in this country. Nearly all of them are black. Nearly all are women. We have to do better.

    This past weekend our Pride Youth Leadership Academy was held in Balboa Park. Youth from every corner of San Diego County and our neighboring Imperial County came to learn skills and make connections to help them be their own best advocates. The majority of them self-identified as trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming. It warmed our hearts as youths that were too terrified to put their real pronouns on their application asked us if they could change their name tags to reflect who they really were. They felt safe.

    #WeWontBeErased

    Unfortunately, during the academy, our public-facing restrooms that had been converted to gender-neutral multi-stall restrooms for the day were vandalized multiple times. Our staff, including myself, were berated and harassed multiple times. One woman shouted at us repeatedly, “I support what you’re all about, but you can’t force me to use the restroom with a man!” We kept our cool and wished her a nice day.

    As our movement continues to push for greater visibility, acceptance, legal protections, and equity, the push back stoked by a vehemently anti-trans administration is having a loud and violent impact on our community. We need to continue to invest in our trans community in ways that build upon their power, knowledge, and safety.

    Next week is Trans Day of Remembrance. We will hold up the images, names, and ages of those who have been taken too soon. We will read their names out loud and mourn the vibrancy that was robbed from them, their loved ones, and our community. Each one of them stolen from us is one too many. As our trans community calls out #WeWontBeErased, we must answer with action so that we can all live to see a world that includes all of us in our Legacy of Liberation.

  270. Lessons from Prop 8

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    2008: MEUSA volunteers at Lips hosted “No on 8” phone bank.

    It’s been 11 years since we lost the Prop 8 battle. Since then we’ve regained the right to marry in all 50 states with some federal protections, but our rights and community are still under attack in cities, states, and at the federal level. As we approach this upcoming election year our community must stay engaged. Some of you may remember me from my marriage equality days starting in the early 2000’s, and I want to share some tips I’ve learned along the way that you can use every day to help keep our movement going forward.

    Story Telling: Find small or big ways to share your personal story with friends, family, coworkers, classmates, or anyone else in your world. Data is great, but the thing that moves people is what pulls at their heartstrings.

    Compassionate Curiosity: Ask authentic questions. If someone is “against you” it is a learned behavior or reality for them. Simply telling them they are wrong can often build up walls and engrain their beliefs. Asking them how they feel, why, and how they got to those conclusions moves the needle in a way that fighting with someone doesn’t.

    Forgiveness: This is probably the hardest one. If we believe in and fight for change, we must also believe that systems and people can change. Who and how we forgive or don’t is a heavy personal choice, and yet as we work to shift the hearts and minds of those around us it is an important part of the work for many. “Cancel culture” is unhelpful.

    This coming year, San Diego Pride and other LGBTQ organizations will ask you to engage with voter registration, the Census, and volunteer-led efforts to turn out the vote in the primary and general election. I hope that you all will join us in these efforts. In those throes of campaigns against anti-LGBTQ discrimination or in the stories and connections of your daily life, each of us has the power to be a part of our Legacy of Liberation.

  271. Let’s honor those who have served with Pride.

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    In many ways, veterans were in part responsible for building our strongest LGBTQ communities across the country. After serving in WWII and Vietnam, many LGBTQ veterans chose to say close to their newfound families in port cities like San Francisco and San Diego. San Diego has the highest concentration of military personnel and in turn the highest concentration of LGBTQ military personnel in the world. This fact has meant that our region has been lucky to have LGBTQ veterans who have become activists. People like Autumn Sandeen, Bridget Wilson, Ben Gomez, Jeri Dilno, Alberto Cortez, Ben Dillingham, and so many more have worked over decades to build, shape, and push our movement and community forward.

    The work of our LGBTQ veteran community helped San Diego Pride to have the first military contingent in our Pride Parade in 2011, before the repeal of DADT took place. It led us to have DoD approval for active-duty service members to proudly wear their uniforms in our 2012 Parade. They paved the way for us to reenlist a transgender servicemember at this year’s Parade while trans service members and vets led our Parade and a four-ship F-15 flyover from Cal Guard’s Fresno 144th Fighter Wing flew over our heads dedicated to transgender servicemembers.

    As we approach Veterans Day this year, I ask that you take a moment to reflect on and thank our LGBTQ service members not only for their service to our nation, but what they have done for our local community and our global movement. As we fight on for the protections for our trans siblings in service, we know that the LGBTQ veterans are a key part of our Legacy of Liberation.

  272. The Power of Pride’s Philanthropy

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    2018 San Diego Pride Grant Recipients (Left to Right) : Casa Ruby, T-Home, Diversionary Theatre, Trans Pride – Pakistan, San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition

    In 1989 the leadership of San Diego Pride envisioned a model of organizing and fundraising that, in addition to supporting our own events and programs, could turn a profit to be returned to our community. As an organization, we began giving out grants starting in 1994 and have become one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world; we have given out nearly $3 million to LGBTQ-serving organizations locally, nationally, and globally. In 2018 we gave out $170,000 to 59 organizations. I wanted to share 3 short stories of the far-reaching impact that your support of San Diego Pride has on the rest of our LGBTQ community.

    San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, 2018 Grant Recipient, San Diego ,CA
    The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition has had a successful year doing outreach activities and creating a welcoming haven for their community. With the grant, they were able to host a number of events including their third annual conference. Additionally, their membership has grown by over one hundred people since Pride. They continue to grow and create intentional spaces for the Black LGBTQ population.

    Casa Ruby, 2018 Grant Recipient, Washington D.C.
    Casa Ruby utilized their funding for their transgender emergency shelter, which housed individuals from the migrant caravan. Among them was “Perla,” a 24-year old trans woman from El Salvador who walked 3,000 miles to seek shelter in the United States. After being released from ICE custody in San Antonio, “Perla” is now safely living in Washington D.C., connecting to community and resources and getting the medical treatment she needs.

    Trans Pride in Pakistan, 2018 Grant Recipient, Lahore, Pakistan
    With the help of San Diego Pride, Pakistan’s first Transgender Pride happened on December 29, 2018 as a way to celebrate the transgenders’ rights law that passed earlier in the year. They saw over 250 attendees, many of whom were attending their very first LGBTQ event. Building on their success, more than 25 volunteers, board members, and team leaders are currently working tirelessly to produce the first-ever LGBTQ Pride in Pakistan.

    This is just a small fraction of the impact we are able to have thanks to the vision of folks like Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Tim Williams, Barbra Blake, Joseph Mayer, and more who wanted to ensure that the role of Pride was one that helps to build the capacity of our community beyond the weekend events. Your support of Pride is vital in that work, and I can’t thank you enough for all you do to build upon our community’s Legacy of Liberation.

    San Diego Pride will be accepting grant requests for our Pride Community Grant program in amounts ranging from $1,000.00 to $5,000.00 until 11:59 pm Thursday, October 31, 2019.

  273. 2019 Pride Parade Awards

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    We’re excited to announce the award recipients for 2019. Congratulations to all the winners!

    Best Faith-Based Contingent

    1. University Christian Church
    2. St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral
    3. Pacific Beach United Methodist Church

    Best HIV / AIDS Awareness Contingent

    1. AIDS Lifecycle
    2. Mama’s Kitchen
    3. Stepping Stone

    Best Health & Wellness Contingent

    1. Blue Shield
    2. UCSD Health
    3. San Ysidro Health

    Best Youth / Student Contingent

    1. San Diego LGBT Community Center
    2. Alliance of Affirming Parents & Family
    3. San Diego Community Colleges

    Best Musical Contingent

    1. UCSD LGBT Resource Center
    2. Pride Youth Marching Band
    3. Astroglide

    Best Non-Profit Contingent

    1. Lawyers Club of San Diego
    2. Pug Rescue
    3. Cheer San Diego

    Best San Diego Small Business

    1. Rich’s Nightclub
    2. Amarin Thai
    3. Redwing Bar & Grill

    Best Corporate Ally Contingent

    1. Apple
    2. Harrah’s Resort Southern California
    3. Alaska Airlines

    Contingent with the Best Use of 2019 Pride Theme (Marching)

    1. San Diego City Library
    2. Sycuan Casino & Resort
    3. San Diego Trans Coalition

    Contingent with the Best Use of 2019 Pride Theme (Float)

    1. Macy’s
    2. Qualcomm
    3. San Diego Youth Services

    Grand Marshal Award

    The La Jolla Band of Luiseno Indians – Rainbow of Truth Circle


    Recipients were honored on October 10 at The Hotel del Coronado.

    Awardee San Diego City Library with parade team and Nicole Murray-Ramirez

  274. End Bully

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    Signs at the Chula Vista Drag Queen Story Hour

    When Gilbert Baker designed the first Pride flag in 1978 he was intentional about the meaning behind each color. Purple symbolizes the spirit. In 2010, a surge of LGBTQ teen suicides in the media related to bullying inspired, then teenager, Brittany McMillian to start Spirit Day. People everywhere are encouraged to wear purple the third Thursday of October to show support for LGBTQ youth and demand an end to bullying during National Bullying Prevention Month – which also happens to be LGBTQ History Month.

    Ending bullying is no small task. Over 70% of all LGBTQ youth report being verbally harassed because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Bullying and harassment can surge at times like this when election cycles are ramping up, and high profile LGBTQ court cases come before the Supreme Court. When media outlets take these moments to disparage our community those sentiments get echoed by family, friends at school, faculty, and institutions of faith. Our divisive political climate has a huge impact on our youth.

    We fight back against bullying and protect our youth by changing the culture. We must elect LGBTQ supportive officials who will create and enforce LGBTQ supportive policy at every level of government. We must connect with teachers and administrators who can ensure LGBTQ inclusive curriculum is taught, bullying is addressed, and that they are creating a safe learning environment that all students deserve. We must proactively provide access to resources for faculty, families, and youth so each can be their own agents of change.

    Even calling out homophobia and transphobia in your daily life can make a difference for this generation of youth and the next. If we are going to continue making progress as a movement, each of us are needed. Not one less. One loss of life is one too many. Please do your part to confront and end bullying so that each of us can have a role in ensuring every life is part of our Legacy of Liberation.

    Signs at the Chula Vista Drag Queen Story Hour

    P.S. If you know an LGBTQ youth who is ready to be an agent of change in their own school and community they can apply for our upcoming Pride Youth Leadership Academy here. Learn more about our youth programs here.

  275. I’m gay!

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    2018 San Diego Pride Parade

    This Saturday is the 21st anniversary of Matthew Shepard’s death. His brutal murder in 1998 shook our community to our core. As we mourned and raged, we organized to ensure that his story was told in the national media and we worked to pass hate crime legislation. This targeted act of violence against Matthew because of his sexual orientation was not the first of its kind, but it happened a little more than a year after Ellen DeGeneres had publicly come out of the closet. Why is that important?

    Ellen’s bravery and sacrifice in coming out occurred at a time when most people in the country claimed to not know an LGBTQ person. Ellen had one of the highest-rated television shows in the nation, and when she came out, it forced the country to reconcile the fact that they knew an LGBTQ person whom they liked. We know that when people know an LGBTQ person they are much more likely to respect us, support us, and be active allies in the movement. She lost her show, and nearly her career, but we, as a movement, made enormous gains in her wake.

    This year we have seen a rise in targeted hate and violence towards our community. The murder of black trans women is an epidemic. Our federal civil liberties currently hang in the balance at the hands of the Supreme Court. We know we are in the fight for our livelihood and lives. Living out and proud is just as important as ever.

    The choices of whom you come out to, and when and where you do so, are personal. Not everyone is going to feel safe to come out at any given movement. Safety should always come first. To those of you who are willing and safely able to come out as LGBTQ or as proactive allies, thank you.

    Living free and authentically as yourself is an act of kindness, not only to yourself, but to all the others who didn’t see that path. Being out carves liberation from the mountain of social expectations and allows for others to walk in the world freely and with a joy that wasn’t possible before. Live free, and others will follow. Your bravery is a transformative act of altruism and can leave a Legacy of Liberation.

  276. Let’s talk about sex.

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    #TBT: 2017 Equality March

    17 years ago when my husband was admitted to the hospital, I stayed continuously by his side. Every day, my employer called me to come back to work stating, “Doesn’t he have family that can take care of him?” Of course, I was his family. On the fifth day, they told me if I didn’t return to work I would be fired. Thankfully, he regained consciousness that same day, and I returned to work where I pointedly challenged my boss, that had we had been of opposite sex my employment would have been secure while I tended to my sick husband. She coldly agreed.

    We are lucky to live in California, a state that has some of the strongest legal protections for the LGBTQ community. Unfortunately, our LGBTQ siblings in 29 other states are not expressly protected by state law which leaves far too many in our community vulnerable to the discriminatory whims of an employer, a challenge that is now set to come before the Supreme Court this Tuesday. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act has been used for decades to help protect cis, straight, and LGBTQ people from discrimination based on prescriptive notions and stereotyping of behavior or expression based on a person’s sex, but the Trump administration’s Department of Justice is asking our highest court to permit discrimination.

    The anti-LGBTQ elected officials and those who fund them have worked for years to pack our courts with lifetime judicial appointments that threaten to prohibit LGBTQ progress and roll back our protections. This new challenge in front of our nation’s highest court underlines the urgency for our community to stay focused and engaged in the work for equality. While each of us alone may not be able to sway the Supreme Court, our everyday actions can shift the court of public opinion and ensure that those in office are compassionate to our community.

    Employment and economic stability are vital for the progress of our movement. While our eyes turn to the court, we cannot lose sight of the road ahead of us as we work to have an accurate count in the Census, ethical nonpartisan redistricting efforts, and turn out the vote in 2020. How we express our gender or the gender of whom we love should not be a barrier to employment. They are our Legacy of Liberation.

  277. Stop Killing Us

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    If you joined us at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally this year you know how powerful it was. Black trans artist Mila Jam opened up the event by singing the national anthem, while an honor guard comprised only of trans service members and veterans presented the colors. In front of the stage, transgender community members sat facing the audience holding signs with the names, faces, and ages of each of the trans people that had been murdered this year. Each speaker at the rally addressed the need to support trans youth, trans asylum seekers, and called out to end the violence targeting black trans women. Mila Jam returned to the stage to sing ‘Lift Every Voice and Sing’ as those holding the signs stood and lifted up the images of our fallen. 

    We are living through an administration that has uplifted misogyny, racism, transphobia, homophobia, and xenophobia. It is in this climate that a bullseye has emerged targeting human beings who reside at the intersection of this despicable Venn diagram and it’s aimed squarely at black trans women and transgender asylum seekers, something I was able to write more about this year in an op-ed featured in The Advocate.

    Supporting our trans community means combating misogyny, racism, transphobia, homophobia, and xenophobia. It also necessitates intentional efforts to support financial equity, employment, and access to health care. In response to the rising death toll of our trans community this year, San Diego Pride engaged a number of trans activists in the formation of a Trans Coalition in hopes that our agencies and organizers can better collaborate and coordinate around issues facing our trans siblings.

    Trans visibility matters. On September 28, the National Trans Visibility March on DC will bring that visibility and a vital message to our nation’s capital. While we only had the resources to send a few in our community to participate in the march in DC directly, we are partnering with The Center and our Trans Coalition to host a viewing party of the Rally that morning here at the Pride office. I hope you can join us.

    Our community needs to prioritize the fight for trans visibility, equality, equity, and inclusion. Twenty-four trans women of color have been killed or gone missing this year. Lives are literally at stake. The big and small actions each of us take every day can make a huge impact on combating transphobia and violence. As our trans community calls out #WeWontBeErased we must answer with action, so we can all live to see a world that includes all of us in our Legacy of Liberation.
    Mila Jam sent San Diego Pride a message to share with our community about the upcoming Trans March in Washington.
  278. Celebrating our Stonewall Generation

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    Doug Moore being honored at the 2019 Spirit of Stonewall Rally. Photo by Dave Barak.

    Here are Pride we’re already in the process of planning for next year’s big event, and as we look back over the last year, one of the things I’m most proud of is that as we celebrated the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, we also took the year to honor the Stonewall Generation who built our movement and continue to mentor and drive us forward.

    This summer we chose the “Stonewall Generation” as our Community Grand Marshal. At the Spirit of Stonewall Rally seniors who have played a key role in San Diego’s LGBTQ history were recognized for their decades of service. There we honored community pioneers Jeri DilnoNicole Murray RamirezDoug MoorePhyllis Jackson, and Pat McArron who all played an important part in building San Diego’s LGBTQ community. The next day they joined other seniors in our community by leading our parade. If you had the opportunity to witness both, you know how moving these moments were for the participants and observers.

    For years we have partnered with The Center’s Senior Services to host our Senior Review stand near the beginning of the Parade providing additional seating, shade, and water. This year we doubled that seating and added a second location near the end of the Parade route.

    At the Festival, which saw just over 50,000 people this year, around 3,000 of those attendees were seniors. 450 took advantage of our senior discount tickets, and many more took advantage of our two Senior Cool Zones hosted in partnership with FOG (Fellowship of Older Gays), founded by the late Dan Schaefer, where seniors can find seating, shade, water, community, and a collection of LGBTQ-competent senior resources. New this year at the Festival was our “Senior Sunday Brunch” where over 200 seniors arrived before noon on Sunday got in for free and then hung out in our new Prism: Art, Literacy, & Recovery area where we provided free coffee, pastries, and fruit. It was a hit, and will be back next year!

    Seniors are 8% of our 3,540 volunteers, members of our staff, and board members. One of the most beautiful things I enjoy the most about Pride is that I get to witness genuine intergenerational mentorship happening year-round. Every generation of the Pride Family truly leans in to learn from and support one another. It is a constant inspiration and gives me hope that we will well steward the dreams of our Stonewall Generation and our collective Legacy of Liberation.

    P.S. Please join me and the Pride Family as we honor community pioneer Jeri Dilno next Saturday with a street renaming ceremony.

  279. Hate vs Love at the Chula Vista Library

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    A mother and child at the 2015 San Diego Pride Parade

    By now you have probably heard about the nationally known hate group “MassResistance” with ties to anti-LGBTQ, anti-immigrant, and white supremacist activists and values who are bringing their hateful disregard for diversity and our community to a Chula Vista Library event designed to inspire a love of reading for youth. Groups like these echo out long discredited discriminatory views insisting that our community is comprised of predators, perverts, and pedophiles.

    The anti-LGBTQ fearmongers our community has long battled have consistently used children as a weapon and wedge against us. The reality of course is that each of us were once young and attempting to understand a world designed to diminish our existence. Many of us have raised, are raising, or hope to someday raise children of our own.

    Whether it was the Brigg’s initiative attacking our LGBTQ teachers in 1978, 2008’s Prop 8 message of “protect children and families,” human rights violations like subjecting children to so-called “conversion therapy,” or bringing hate to the doorstep of a children’s event at a library, the historic and repetitious attacks on children from the anti-LGBTQ establishment is clear and must be confronted at every turn. With 40% of homeless youth being LGBTQ identified because their own parents throw them out on the street like garbage as though their mere existence is a moral failure, we know that it is discrimination which must be fought, not diversity and inclusion.

    Libraries, learning, reading, science, history, and public education are some of our most powerful tools in the fight for our community’s health, safety, equity, and youth. I am so proud of our local drag queens, the Chula Vista Library, and openly gay, former Chula Vista mayor and current Chula Vista city council member Steve Padilla for supporting this important work. In following their lead by supporting these and similar efforts, we can all take part in this Legacy of Liberation.

  280. Partners in Pride

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    A group of volunteers and community partners at 2019 San Diego Pride.

    With a community as diverse as ours, no one person or organization could ever hope to meet the needs of everyone across that beautiful spectrum. San Diego Pride is no exception. That is why throughout the year and during Pride weekend we partner with more than 70 nonprofits and community groups to ensure we are meeting the needs of as many people as possible. Just at the Pride Festival over 350 nonprofits, community groups, restaurants, small businesses, and sponsors come together to serve our 50,000 attendees.

    UCSD AVRC ran their Good To Go Testing for Tickets program ahead of Pride and then conducted HIV testing at the Pride Festival. The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition worked with our Latinx and QAPIMEDA coalitions to create a Pride POC Passport that encouraged attendees to learn more about our region’s LGBTQ POC resources and businesses. FOG (Fellowship of Older Gays) helped to bring in more LGBTQ competent senior resources and hosted our Senior Cool Zones. Bankers Hill Community Group helped keep the neighborhood near the festival clean all weekend, and then they and Hillcrest Town Council both cleaned our streets on the Monday after Pride. The San Diego History Center hosted us and our Mayor Kevin Faulconer as hepublicly came out in support of the Equality Act during Pride week, and they will again host ourYouth Leadership Academy later this fall. 

    Each of us is distinct, we are diverse, and we often disagree. In a nation and time that too often denigrates and discriminates against our differences, too often with dire consequences, it is still impressive to me that our community can come together in service once a year to flip the script and celebrate our differences rather than disparage them. When I can look across this country and see so much divisiveness, it gives me a great deal of hope to see how together we rise above as we all engage in our Legacy of Liberation.

  281. Welcome to Pride!

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    We are about to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots that gave birth to the international Pride movement. We don’t have Pride because we’re free. We have Pride because we’re not. Our collective efforts all year round now culminate in the creation of intentional space for our community where for a weekend, a day, a few hours, or a moment – our people can revel in joy.

    For far too many of us in other parts of the world, country, and even right here in San Diego, the daily pressures of systemic legal and cultural oppression is damaging and too often deadly.

    However, at Pride, we allow ourselves to exhale. We breathe in love. We un-wring our hands and embrace found family. We claim freedom from the open air and dare to dance in daylight. Our affection sees the sun rather than shadows and shame.

    We unshackle our hearts and bodies from society’s expectations and allow ourselves to unapologetically indulge in being radically only and absolutely who we know we truly are.

    Pride is wherever you are, and however you choose to celebrate it.

    Bravely discard fear. Seize hope. Be free.

    Whether you’ve been with us since the beginning, or if this is your first; welcome to Pride. Welcome home.

    This is our Legacy of Liberation!

  282. Take a Stand for the Equality Act

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    2013 Day of the Decision Celebration

    On June 26, 6 years ago, the Supreme Court ruled to restore the freedom to marry in California. On June 26, 4 years ago, the Supreme Court ruled and brought full federal marriage equality to the nation. While our community had much to celebrate with each of those victories, even now much is being done to chip away at those protections, including our current administration’s anti-LGBTQ judicial appointments. It can be a challenge to know where to give focus.

    There is still a great deal of work ahead of us: protecting and uplifting our trans siblings, ending “conversion therapy,” stopping the spread of HIV and finding a cure, foster and adoption equality, creating safer schools for LGBTQ youth, and so much more. A great many cities and states have made huge strides to protect our community, but it’s still hard to know that while we can be married in all 50 states, in 30 states we can still lose the roofs over our heads and our jobs just because of our gender identities or sexual orientations.

    The Equality Act hopes to fix an array of anti-LGBTQ policy by prohibiting discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and gender identity in employment, housing, public accommodations, public education, federal funding, credit, and the jury system. The bill has passed the U.S. House of Representatives last month with bipartisan support and now awaits action by the Republican-controlled Senate.

    Over 200 companies500 organizations70 institutions of faith have signed on to support the Equality Act. Even LGBTQ-ally, Taylor Swift used her star power this week to call on the Senate to pass the Equality Act!

    If we as LGBTQ people are going to make real progress in our country, we need stability in housing and employment, and passing the Equality Act would be a huge step in the right direction. Standing up for the LGBTQ community should not be a partisan issue, but is a moral one. We need our allies now more than ever, so this Pride month, I urge you to contact your own businesses, organizations, institutions of faith, and elected officials and ask them all to come out in support of the Equality Act. It’s a step each of us can take on this path toward leaving a Legacy of Liberation.

  283. Pride of Hillcrest Block Party 2019

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    Pride Block Party – Meet The Drag Race Stars

    Get ready to kick off San Diego Pride as The Hillcrest Business Association, in partnership with San Diego Pride, announces the annual Pride of Hillcrest Block Party 2019.

    This event is presented by San Diego County Credit Union (SDCCU), Miller/Coors and Effen Vodka. The Pride of Hillcrest Block Party takes place on Friday, July 12, 2019.

    Join thousands of people as they come out to Pride Plaza in celebration of this year’s Block Party theme, “Free to be you,” which speaks to the many of San Diegans who work and play in one of the country’s most recognized LGBT communities. People all across the U.S. will be making their way to Hillcrest for this free event which precedes the Stonewall Rally.

    This year the Stonewall Rally commemorates 50 years of LGBT activism, heritage, and protest which paved the way for some of the freedoms the LGBT community enjoys today. But the fight is far from over and every year the Stonewall Rally honors those in the community who have made a difference and forged positive change for future generations to come.

    Leave work early for happy hour at 2 pm and then grab your seats for this historic Stonewall Rally.

    The Pride Block Party is a free event thanks to the generosity of people who have made contributions at functions throughout the year.

    In order to keep the event at no cost for attendees, donations can be made HERE. Remember: “Make a donation to keep Pride Block Party Free!” When people donate towards the party or

    purchase a VIP ticket, they help make the Hillcrest Pride Block Party free for everyone including youth!

    This year the celebrity lineup is the best it has ever been with Drag Race megastars Kameron Michaels, Plastique Tiara, Chad Michaels, Morgan McMichaels, and Mayhem Miller.

    WHEN: Pride of Hillcrest Block Party 2019 is on Friday, July 12, from 2 pm until 11 pm

    DONATIONS: Tiers of contributions in order to keep the event free can be found HERE. You can also purchase VIP and meet-and-greet options. WHERE: It will take place at Pride Plaza, under the Hillcrest Pride Flag: Normal Street, between University and Harvey Milk. Both southbound lane and northbound lanes of Normal Street will be closed to vehicular traffic.

  284. San Diego Pride to Kick Off Pride Weekend By Honoring Its Origins With The Spirit of Stonewall Rally

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    San Diego Pride weekend begins with the Spirit of Stonewall Rally at The Hillcrest Pride Flag on Friday, July 12, 6 – 7 p.m. This year marks the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, a moment in history in which the LGBTQ community fought back against police brutality and legal oppression. To commemorate the anniversary, the theme for San Diego Pride 2019 is Stonewall 50: A Legacy of Liberation. San Diego Pride will take this year to honor and reflect on the Stonewall generation, their activism and what the community has gained through their efforts.

    “This Pride we will highlight the Stonewall generation, their activism, and all that our community has gained through their efforts, as we challenge ourselves to reflect on our own role in that legacy, and how, if we approach our own individual legacies with intention, we can build on their successes to leave a better world for those who come next,” said San Diego Pride Executive Director Fernando Z. López.

    This year’s award recipients include:

    Community Grand Marshal – Stonewall Generation
    Champion of Pride – LaRue Fields
    Stonewall Service Award – San Diego History Center
    Inspirational Couple – Ricardo Gallego and Dr. Orlando Espin
    Friend of Pride – Reverend Penny Bridges
    Stonewall Philanthropy Award – Blue Shield of California

    The United States flag and our colorguard will be presented by transgender veterans and servicemembers as the National Anthem is sung by black American transgender singer and songwriter Mila Jam.

    The rally will also host San Diego LGBT Community Center CEO Cara Dessert speaking about immigration and asylum as an LGBTQ issue; Director of The Center for Gender-Affirming Care at Rady Children’s Hospital Bixby Marino-Kibbee discussing support for our trans youth and community, and CEO and Co-Founder of Rise San Diego Dwayne Crenshaw highlighting the progress our community has made and the work ahead of us such as passing the Equality Act.

    2019 Spirit of Stonewall Speakers

    The rally will be closed out by the San Diego Youth Marching band performing “Somewhere Over the Rainbow” as the rainbow flag is raised over Hillcrest. Afterwards, San Diego Pride and Fabulous Hillcrest present the Pride Block Party, which is free and open to the public.

    The Spirit of Stonewall Rally is free and open to the public. The San Diego Pride Parade begins Saturday, July 13 at 10 a.m. at the Hillcrest Pride Flag and is free to attend. Find more information about the parade at www.sdpride.org/parade.

    The Pride Festival is held Saturday, July 13 and Sunday, July 14 at Marston Pt. in Balboa Park. For more information and tickets visit www.sdpride.org/festival. All proceeds from the festival and parade support San Diego Pride’s LGBTQ-centered philanthropy and year-round education and advocacy programs.  

    San Diego Pride was formed in 1974 as a sponsored program of The Center for Social Services which produced the first Lesbian and Gay Parade in San Diego in 1975 to celebrate the 1969 Stonewall Rebellion on New York’s Christopher Street. San Diego Pride was incorporated as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in 1994.

  285. A Culture of Coalitions

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    MoM (Marriage of the Minds): San Diego’s Post Prop 8 coalition that coordinated events, field strategy, and earned media around marriage equality.

    In 1981, just 12 years after the Stonewall Riots, San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore created a list of Pride organizers from around the country, and from that list in 1982 InterPride was founded with a half dozen Pride organizations meeting in Boston that year. In 1983, the first official InterPride conference was then held in San Diego as our movement’s activists and organizations made efforts to share strategies, political pull, resources, and best practices.

    The San Diego region has held on to that sense of collective action, as we have learned that for all of our differences, we are stronger as a movement when we work together. In 2003 The Center created the San Diego LGBT Community Leadership Council where every month more than 40 LGBTQ-serving organizations come together to build relationships and address community issues. As new challenges have emerged over time we’ve formed coalitions to address issues and causes like HIV, the meth epidemic, Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, marriage equality, binational capacity buildingsexual assault, and LGBTQ youth. In the last few years, newer groups have emerged like the San Diego Black LGBTQ CoalitionSan Diego County Latinx Coalition,QAPIMEDA Collation, and the DevOUT Interfaith Coalition. I love that we have this culture of coalitions in San Diego as each of these collectives works to bridge individual and organizational capacity in service of the greater good for our movement.

    Just this last week San Diego Pride announced that we will be hosting the CAPI Conference in 2020 as we bring together Prides and LGBTQ-serving organizations from across the western United States of America and Mexico to continue that San Diego tradition of collaborative support. Whether we see you at CAPI 2020, participating in one of these coalitions, or even attending one of their many community events, all of these provide for us a way to participate in this Legacy of Liberation.

  286. The Legacy of Harvey Milk

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    May 22, 2012: Harvey Milk Street Sign unveiling

    May 22 is Harvey Milk’s birthday! Not everyone knows that Harvey Milk lived in San Diego before moving to San Francisco. He was stationed here while serving in the U.S. Navy and credited the experience with his love for California and his eventual move to San Francisco.

    Because of these San Diego connections, many of the historically significant ways we have found to honor Harvey’s legacy have started and been fueled by San Diegans. From awards, to a bench in Balboa Park, a Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast, the first street named after Harvey Milk, a U. S. postage stamp, the biography Harvey Milk: His Lives and Death, and later this year construction begins on the USNS Harvey Milk Naval vessel —San Diegans led those efforts.

    These moments aren’t just about us honoring one man’s legacy; they are about flipping a public narrative that LGBTQ folks can and should be celebrated, not denigrated. We are collectively claiming our place in history, and we can’t do that unless we all stay actively engaged in that progress.

    Across the country, attacks on reproductive freedom, environmental health, voting rights, indigenous land, religious minorities, disability rights, workers’ rights, immigrants, refugees, women, people of color, and our LGBTQ community have many of us shaken but resolved to take action. Harvey understood the importance of intersectional civic engagement, about how redistricting and voter turnout impacts elections, and who has a seat at the table.

    We must stay engaged in this intersectional fight for justice by ensuring every person is counted in the Census, staying engaged in nonpartisan redistricting efforts, and turning out to vote in every election. Steps like these give us a clear path to honor Harvey Milk and how each of us can take part in our movement’s collective Legacy of Liberation.

  287. $10,000 Match!

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    2017 Pride Youth Leadership Academy Students waving transgender and rainbow flags over Hillcrest.

    San Diego Pride is participating in national Give OUT Day for the first time, and 100% of the proceeds are going to fund our ever-growing LGBTQ youth programs! We have an incredible opportunity to grow these programs today as every donation we receive will be matched up to $10,000 thanks to a generous matching gift from the Burgess Family.

    Here are three easy steps you can take today to help us meet our $10,000 matching goal:

    • Make a donation today here.
    • Forward this email to 10 friends and ask them to join you in supporting Pride.
    • Share our Give OUT Day link on your social media accounts with a message about why you personally support our LGBTQ youth programs.

    In 2018 we were able to host over 2,600 LGBTQ youth visits, and with your help, that number will continue to grow. Our community has made a lot of progress, but in our current political climate, our youth need us now more than ever as we support our next generation in this Legacy of Liberation.

  288. Our 2019 Headliner is…

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    Today it can seem like everywhere you turn there are new up-and-coming LGBTQ artists, entertainers, and celebrities, but many of us are old enough to remember when that wasn’t always the case. LGBTQ entertainers, like all of us, were forced to remain in the closet or risk putting our careers, ourselves, and our families in jeopardy. Just as Stonewall sparked a revolution for our community, it took another act of courage to transform the modern day LGBTQ civil rights movement by elevating the amount and authenticity of our community’s visibility in the public sphere.

    In Los Angeles, in the 90s, a group of three lesbian friends struggled with who would be the first to take the plunge and come out of the closet publicly. Amongst Rosie O’Donnell, Ellen DeGeneres, and Melissa Etheridge, it was Melissa who ultimately first publicly shattered the closet in 1993. From then on, closet after closet began to crumble as Amanda Bearse, Greg Louganis, Michael Stipe, Billie Joe Armstrong, and of course Ellen DeGeneres gave our community a level of humanity in the public consciousness that we had never seen before.

    Melissa Etheridge redefined rock and our movement. Her bravery and pioneering steps carved a path wide enough to help reshape entertainment for generations, giving rise to the openly LGBTQ talent we all now enjoy like King PrincessTegan & SaraBig FreediaTroye Sivan, and Janelle Monae. Her inspirational decades of activism pushing for an LGBTQ voice in politics, combating HIV/AIDS, and fighting for the freedom to marry have brought us that much closer to equality.

    For more than 30 years, Melissa’s deeply meaningful music and impassioned relentless advocacy have continued to connect the LGBTQ community and carve a better path forward both here in the United States and around the world. It is an unbelievable honor to host her as our Sunday headliner for San Diego Pride as we honor the 50th anniversary of Stonewall. Our theme this year is A Legacy of Liberation, and I can think of no one better to embody that spirit than Melissa Etheridge.

  289. (Warning: Sensitive Content) #MeToo

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    It was six years ago when I became the victim of rape, right here in my own community. While this was not the first time I was raped by someone in our community, it was the first time I sought help. In my journey to find support and treatment, I kept bumping into the lack of LGBTQ culturally competent care and information. As I began to share my story with friends, family, and community I heard from too many an ever-growing chorus of voices saying, “Me too.”

    What started with a small group of queer, bisexual, and gay men grew into the LGBTQ Survivor Task Force as we attempted to bring better, more culturally competent care to our community. Nationwide, approximately 40% of gay men and half of bisexual men have experienced sexual violence, compared to 20% of heterosexual men. Sixty-one percent of bisexual women and 44% of lesbians have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner, compared to 35% of heterosexual women. Forty-seven percent of our transgender siblings experience sexual assault in their lifetimes.

    Last year San Diego Pride, The San Diego LGBT Community Center, Center for Community Solutions, and North County Lifeline worked together to put on the first #MeTooLGBTQ Conference where over 80 service providers and community members were able to come together in an effort to increase the strength and competency of LGBTQ survivor care.

    This April 27, 2019, we will be hosting our 2nd #MeTooLGBTQ Conference. For those looking to engage in this critically needed and deeply meaningful work, I hope you will join us. For me, to take something so vile and painful and turn it into something that can build up the health and well-being of our community was and continues to be a source of my own healing. It is part of my own Legacy of Liberation, and you are welcome to have it be a part of yours.

  290. Hillcrest Shooting Update

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    The shooting that occurred in Hillcrest last night has many in our community shaken, and thankfully physically unharmed. At a briefing and press conference earlier this afternoon, we were informed that the suspect is in custody, and the investigation is ongoing to specifically assess if this was an anti-LGBTQ attack. Unfortunately, our community is no stranger to acts of violence, random or targeted. That said, we do know that our community and our resolve is strong. That love will always conquer fear.

    If you are in need if counseling our local San Diego LGBT Community Center is here for you. Their Behavioral Health Services program is here to support those who may need to talk to someone. To speak with an on-duty counselor or to sign up for counseling services, you can call 619.692.2077 x208, or email at [email protected].

    Anyone with information about the shooting is asked to call San Diego police at 619-531-2000 or San Diego County Crime Stoppers at 888-580-8477.

    Fernando Z. López, Executive Director, San Diego Pride

  291. My first year as ED

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    This year’s Pride theme is Stonewall 50: A Legacy of Liberation, as we intentionally look back at the last 50 years of our movement, and work together to chart a path forward towards what we hope to leave for the next generation. 

    This week I’ve reached my one-year mark as executive director of San Diego Pride, and that has me reflecting on my own path; a first generation US citizen, the product of Jewish immigrants on my mother’s side, and Mexican Catholic immigrants on my father’s side, growing up femme and queer in a small town with a brother who is blind, deaf, and in a wheelchair. I survived constant bullying, homelessness, and sexual assault, all to meet the man of my dreams, start a family, fight for marriage equality by his side, and then lose him to mental illness.

    Overcoming these obstacles was only possible because of the people who invested in me over the years, as I did my best to absorb the wisdom of their experiences; my family, Molly McKay, Davina Kotulski, Sayre Reese, Delores Jacobs, Aida Mancillas, Dwayne Crenshaw, and so many others who have lifted me along the way, and pushed me in front of new challenges they believed I was capable of overcoming. For the last 20 years I have fought for our community in many roles and with several organizations including Marriage Equality USA, Equality California, The Task Force, and eventually San Diego Pride.

    In San Diego, we do Pride a little differently. We are philanthropic and engage year-round, a legacy we owe to folks like Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Joe Mayer, Ron DeHarte, Cheli Mohamed, and so many more. This last year at Pride we had nearly 5,700 volunteer shifts working almost 22,000 hours, directly serving over 330,000 people. That’s not counting our expanded media reach. Our Festival attendance jumped from 30,000 to 45,000 as we focused on bringing in entertainers who are queer, trans, and people of color who actively use their platform to speak out about LGBTQ justice. In 2018 we hired our first Education & Advocacy Manager to ensure greater focus on that much-needed work. We shifted our Director of Development to Director of Philanthropy, who not only helps folks navigate their philanthropic giving to Pride, but helps us focus our philanthropic giving, which last year exceeded $170,000. In the last year, we helped to start the LGBTQ Interfaith Shelter Network, founded the #MeTooLGBTQ conference, and with funding from the Department of State started a binational LGBTQ capacity building conferenceOrgullo Sin Fronteras. We’ve reignited our interfaith organizing with DevOUT, are launching a new Queer APIMEDA Coalition, and have added more events all year round than ever before.

    While those are just some of the highlights from my first year as executive director, I think the takeaway is that if we begin to operate from an abundance mindset, build a bigger table, and lift up those around us – we are all lifted. None of this would be possible without our community who volunteer their time and invest in our work. It is an honor to serve our community in this role, pursuing justice with joy. I look forward to this next year working with you, as together, each of us understands our part in this Legacy of Liberation.

  292. The Art of Our Legacy

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    The turbulent stories of our unique perspectives, vulnerable lives and heroic movement are worthy of being preserved and showcased. Visual and performing arts provide for us innovative advocacy and community building palettes where we are empowered to creatively bare out our hearts to find new empathic connections.

    Here in the Pride office our halls are filled with works of local LGBTQ artists, as part of our Art of Pride program, which also has a diverse collection in our Art of Pride area at the Festival grounds every year. Our March show is our 3rd annual Pride Youth Art Show, and our youth have selected the theme “Legacy of Liberation: Embracing History” where these talented LGBTQ youth will express how they see themselves connected to the origins of our movement.

    Pride’s philanthropy also funds incredible LGBTQ arts and culture organizations and programs telling our stories and bringing community together such as Diversionary TheatreMoxie Theatre, the Pride Youth Marching Band, and the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus. This weekend Breakthrough Workshop Theatrewill be presenting “Dear Harvey” which explores the pioneering efforts of civil rights leader Harvey Milk as told by the people who knew him best, and later this year the San Diego Women’s Chorus will premiere Quiet No More: A Choral Celebration of Stonewall which celebrates the importance of the LGBTQ movement that grew out of the Stonewall uprising thanks to funding support from San Diego Pride.

    This year we’ll also be bringing you OUT at the Opera and OUT at the Ballet. When done with intention, the use of art, poetry, music, and theater can truly be a revolutionary act. Creating civic and artistic spaces where the LGBTQ community can be comfortably and authentically themselves is a social justice issue. I hope to see you there, as together we honor the art of our collective legacy of liberation.

  293. Stand with Trans Servicemembers

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    On Tuesday, the Supreme Court voted to allow a ban on transgender servicemembers while the issue makes its way through lower courts, putting upwards of 15,000 trans servicemembers and their families at risk. Transgender servicemembers have been openly serving in the U.S. military for the last 30 months, and have always been a part of the armed forces, defending this country, and serving our nation with pride.

    San Diego has the highest concentration of military personnel in the world. This has meant that many of our best and brightest community activists have been and are trans veterans and active duty servicemembers. So much of what we have gained as a community is thanks to the education, advocacy, and visibility work of these local transgender veterans such as Autumn Sandeen and Kristin Beck. In 2015, then active duty trans Marine Corporal Evander Deocariza shared their story publicly, then proudly and openly carried the trans flag in our Parade’s Military Contingent Color Guard.

    While our hearts ache for our trans siblings in service coping with this news, we remain committed to continuing to help make visible their lives and struggles. These continued attacks are about so much more than only transgender servicemembers: they diminish, devalue, and dehumanize all trans people, and we as an LGBTQ community must continue to stand united in opposition to this discrimination so that we may all enjoy a legacy of liberation.

  294. March With Us This Weekend

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    After the riots at Stonewall, we marched. After we lost Prop 8, we marched. The desire to gather and find community, to be seen and heard, to show collective power or express shared outrage is interwoven within the legacy of our movements for social justice. So much of our community, our organizations, and the programs that serve us can trace their origins back to these sorts of collective public actions. The publicity and word of mouth attention they receive help to spark the subsequent one-on-one conversations that are vital to shifting personal and public opinion.

    Whether it was the March on Washington for Jobs and Freedom, the Women’s March, or the March for Our Lives, LGBTQ people have been right there organizing for social justice. We have been born into bodies all over the world regardless of borders, party affiliation, skin color, faith, ability, economic status, or gender. Our lives exist at the intersection of multiple marginalized identities, and so we feel the weight of systemic oppression that much more. It is why our community continues to advocate for broader social justice issues. We recognize our shared struggles and understand the necessity of equity and equality.

    This three-day weekend in San Diego will witness the Women’s March and the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Parade. You will again see us there, and we hope you will join us. All throughout 2019, as we celebrate the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, we are adding even more events, demonstrations, programs, and celebrations that will honor our intersecting identities. I look forward to seeing you with us as we all take part in this Legacy of Liberation.

  295. 50 Years of Padres and Pride ⚾ ?

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    In 2001, LGBTQ community leaders stood shoulder-to-shoulder with Padres staff at a press conference, announcing the first official OUT at the Park night, scheduled to take place the very next day. The next day was September 11, and that game never happened. The leadership at the Padres changed, and the official partnership was lost.

    OUT at the Park nights took place prior to 2001 and have continued on since then, but for a time, our organization was treated as little more than a bulk-ticket buyer. In partnership with America’s Finest City Softball League, Pride has carried on the OUT at the Park tradition, with the San Diego Women’s Chorus and the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus singing the national anthem because we all have understood the importance of combating homophobia in major league sports; however, it would take the horrible national anthem mistake in 2016 with the SDGMC and the onslaught of homophobic remarks being yelled from the stands to spark dialog and rekindle a genuine partnership.

    Since that time, the Padres have completely revamped their approach to working with us and have become true allies. Petco Park became the first Major League Baseball park to have a gender-neutral, multi-stall restroom. The Padres have had our Pride Youth Marching Band play during the pregame party, with LGBTQ servicemembers from our military department’s color guard presenting the colors. They have also had trans youth throw out the first pitch. They have donated tens of thousands of dollars to support the LGBTQ community. They have sent Padres volunteers to help out during Pride weekend, and every year since 2016 their staff joins ours along with LGBTQ elected officials, the SDWC, and SDGMC to sing the national anthem in solidarity.

    This year, as Prides all over the world celebrate the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, and the Padres celebrate their 50th anniversary, we hope that you will join us to celebrate this historic milestone. The path to equality, equity, and inclusion isn’t always a direct one, but with persistence, our legacy will be one of liberation and joy.

    P.S. We sell out of tickets every year, and with this being Pride and Padres 50/50, we fully anticipate selling out of the tickets that each come with a limited edition 50th Anniversary Commemorative ball cap. Don’t delay.

  296. Top Pride Moments of 2018

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    2018 was a year of incredible growth for San Diego Pride, one full of vibrant celebrations, victories, challenges, and triumphs that showcased the resiliency and love our community has to offer. To those of you who have volunteered countless hours, donated skills and time, and celebrated with us, we thank you. Take a look back at some of the top moments of Pride from this last year.

    1. Build OUT

    Year-round volunteer engagement is the heartbeat of Pride and our civic engagement work. We started off the year with a new partnership with Habitat for Humanity, undertaking a variety of jobs including building homes, doing restorations and yard work, and staffing donation centers.

    This set the tone for a year full of volunteer-led successes!

    Register to volunteer here.


     

    2. MLK Holiday Parade

    In February, Pride participated in the San Diego MLK Holiday Parade along with the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, San Diego Original Black Panthers, and DETOUR to honor Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and the contributions of Black LGBTQ individuals to our collective movement.

    Join us for the 2019 MLK Holiday Parade.


     

    3. Growing Youth Programs

    In 2018, our youth programs saw significant growth as we continue to expand services to meet the needs of our LGBTQ youth.

    We held the 2nd annual youth art show in March which showcased art from LGBTQ students from around the county. This art installation was also shown in the San Diego Repertory Theater and the San Diego County Fair.

    Pride youth art displayed at The San Diego Repertory Theatre

    The office had a number of youth interns who were integral parts of making the parade and festival a success, increased our voter engagement efforts, and revamped the GLSEN local school climate survey.

    Our Festival Pride Youth Zone saw over 300 LGBTQ youth over Pride weekend and was created by LGBTQ youth who worked throughout the year to create a space for themselves, by themselves.

    Every second Saturday of the month, LGBTQ youth gathered for our monthly Lunch Bunch. We had LGBTQ sex-education, discussed mental health, created genderbread cookies, had our first friendsgiving, and even took field trips to OUT at the Park, She Fest, and the San Diego County Fair – OUT at the Fair.

    One of our biggest field trips was to Sacramento, taking LGBTQ youth to Equality California’s Lobby Day where they met with elected officials to lobby for themselves and LGBTQ rights!

    San Diego Youth in Sacramento with Assemblymember Todd Gloria

    Our annual Pride Youth Leadership Academy saw its biggest group yet with over 50 youth from throughout Southern California attending a one-day workshop at Balboa Park’s San Diego History Center where youth were immersed in LGBTQ history, youth advocacy, and network building.

    San Diego Youth Leadership Academy Students with Pride Staff, Youth Coordinators, panelists, and Historian Lillian Faderman.

    Learn more about our youth programs here.


     

    4. Interfaith Shelter Network

    In partnership with San Diego Mayor Kevin Faulconer, the Interfaith Shelter Network of San Diego, and St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral, Pride hosted the Interfaith Shelter Network: LGBTQ Summit with the goal of reducing LGBTQ homelessness in San Diego. The summit provided tools for congregations to help some of our most vulnerable residents as they work toward securing permanent housing.

    CBS News 8 – San Diego, CA News Station – KFMB Channel 8


     

    5. March for Our Lives

    In March, LGBTQ youth from Pride’s youth-led programs organized a contingent for San Diego’s March for Our Lives in support of the victims of the February 14th shooting in Parkland, Florida, calling for greater school safety and an end to gun violence. Read the Huffington Post article here.

    LGBTQ youth and staff at the March for Our Lives March


     

    6. #MeTooLGBTQ

    In April, in partnership with The San Diego LGBT Community Center, The Center for Community Solutions, North County Lifeline, The San Diego Chapter of CAMFT, and 211 San Diego, Pride hosted the first #MeTooLGBTQ Conference in order to increase culturally competent services in San Diego county for victims and survivors of sexual violence who identify as LGBTQ. The first step in a long-term solution, the second conference, slated to take place in April 2019, is already being organized.

    LGBTQ Survivors Taskforce with Senate President Pro Tempore Toni Atkins


     

    7. OUT at the Park

    OUT at the Park was back for another year as we watched the Padres take on the New York Mets at Petco Park. Many firsts happened as our very own LGBTQ Military Contingent presented the colors as the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, San Diego Women’s Chorus, LGBTQ Elected Officials, Padres staff, and San Diego Pride staff sang the national anthem together. Then our very own Ryland Whittington threw out the first pitch! Tickets are already on sale for next year’s OUT at the Park!

    Click here to purchase tickets for 2019 OUT at the Park.


     

    8. Orgullo Sin Fronteras

    In another first, thanks to funding from the Department of State, in May Pride hosted a one-day binational educational leadership capacity-building summit entitled “Orgullo Sin Fronteras” in Tijuana, Mexico. Over 200 people participated in our first year, and planning for the 2019 summit is already underway!

    If you’re interested in lending your talents to the planning group, email Jen LaBarbera at [email protected].


     

    9. Get OUT the Vote

    2018 was an election year, and Pride was ready to help get out the vote. Our volunteers regularly took part in nonpartisan GOTV phone banks and canvassing locally and led West Coast Solidarity phone banks to protect the rights, dignity, and equality of transgender people in Massachusetts.

    West Coast Solidarity Phone Bank team – YesOn3


     

    10. She Fest

    We kicked off Pride week with She Fest in North Park! This woman-centered event included live performances, workshops, and even a dog fashion show. Our planning committee is already hard at work planning She Fest 2019. Click here to learn more.


     

    11. Interfaith pride

    Pride and St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral held an LGBTQ interfaith event, Light up the Cathedral, during Pride week with Keynote Speaker and trans Latina minister, Nicole M. Garcia. LGBTQ interfaith leaders were honored, and the Cathedral was lit up in rainbow colors. Also this year, Pride established DevOUT, an interfaith coalition committed to organizing communities of faith for LGBTQ justice and to creating compelling open and affirming faith-based programming for our community.

    Minister Nicole M. Garcia in the 2018 San Diego Pride Parade


     

    12. The Spirit of Stonewall Rally

    We always honor our origins at our annual Rally. This year we were especially honored to have San Diego’s first openly LGBTQ elected official, Sen. Christine Kehoe, open up the event with all our regional LGBTQ elected officials on stage as she spoke about building political power. Nominate your LGBTQ here for the 2019 Spirit of Stonewall Rally.


     

    13. Star-Studded Lineup

    San Diego Pride Festival saw record attendees of over 45,000 coming out to see a diverse array of LGBTQ performers like Le1f, Brooke Candy, and Kim Petras. LGBTQ allies JoJo and Graciela Beltran helped create a star-studded lineup of your favorite bops!


     

    14. TLC at Pride

    On the Sunday of Pride weekend, TLC took to the stage to a record-breaking crowd that was ready to hear hits like No Scrubs, Unpretty, and Waterfalls! It was the perfect way to end Pride weekend.

    TLC at 2018 San Diego Pride Festival


     

    15. International LGBTQ Leaders at Pride

    Pride World Forum was held during Pride weekend at the San Diego History Center in partnership with the San Diego Diplomacy Council. Attendees were able to hear from a panel of LGBTQ leaders from around the globe about the LGBTQ movement and their experiences in their respective countries.

    LGBTQI International Leaders with San Diego Pride Executive Director Fernando Lopez and Pride Eduation & Advocacy Manager Jen LaBarbera


     

    16. Latinx, Ebony, and API Pride

    2018 saw the creation of the LGBTQ Latinx coalition which seeks to strengthen the educational, health, cultural, civic, political, and economic power of our LGBTQ Latinx community and the region. Together with the LGBTQ Black Coalition, they created areas in the festival for LGBTQ individuals living at those intersections of identity to find community and resources. Inspired by this, members of the LGBTQ API community came together to form a new LGBTQ API Coalition to create a similar space at next year’s festival!


     

    17. InterPride Conference

    As a founder of InterPride, San Diego Pride attended this year’s international conference in Saskatoon,Saskatchewan, Canada to meet with Pride organizations from across the globe. Thanks to our efforts, U. S. Department of State, Special Adviser for LGBTI Human Rights, Jonathan Lalley was able to attend and educate folks from all around the world on how they can obtain funding and support from our government!

    US Department of State Special Adviser for LGBTI Human Rights Jonathan Lalley and San Diego Pride Executive Director Fernando Lopez


     

    18. #WontBeErased

    In coalition with several local organizations and individuals, San Diego responded to the Department of Health and Human Services memorandum announcing a move to “narrowly define gender as a biological, immutable condition determined by genitalia at birth,” by hosting the We Won’t Be Erased Teach-In followed by the Won’t Be Erased March and Rally supporting and led by our transgender, intersex, and gender-nonconforming community.

    Transgender activists and supporters marched Saturday during the “Won’t Be Erased” protest against the federal government’s move to more narrowly define gender as male or female.


     

    19. LGBTQ Families During the Holidays

    Pride and our community partners gathered in North Park to ensure that LGBTQ families were represented in the North Park Toyland Parade! It was a blast as we wished parade goers happy holidays and handed out candy canes.

    San Diego Pride Contingent at the North Park Toyland Parade


     

    20. Pride in San Diego

    This year we saw an unprecedented amount of attendees at our parade and festival. Our parade saw over 250,000 cheering spectators, and the festival had over 45,000 people help us to celebrate. An independent economic impact study conducted by San Diego State University determined that San Diego Pride’s impact on San Diego region to be $26.6 million dollars!

    2018 San Diego Pride Parade


     

    21. Investing in Our Community’s Future

    In 2018, Pride committed to donating $5,000 to the Tracie Jada O’Brien Scholarship Fund and continues to seek individual donations to further invest in the transgender community. Currently, individual donations to the scholarship fund exceed over $4,000. Donate to the fund here.

    Check presentation for the Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund


     

    22. Pride Gives Back

    Due to the unprecedented attendance and resulting financial success of the 2018 Pride events, we were pleased to announce that our 2018 charitable giving exceeded $170,000. The donations will be distributed to 59 LGBTQ-serving organizations, in accordance with Pride’s mission to support LGBT communities locally, nationally, and globally. Read the entire press release here.

     


    Be sure to join us next year as we celebrate Stonewall 50: A Legacy of Liberation.

    Support our growing programs by donating or purchasing a ticket to July’s celebration!

     

  297. We’re donating $170,000!

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    The resistance to our oppression based on the spectrum of our sexual orientations and gender identities has taken on many forms over the years. Resistance has taken on the form of holding hands in the daylight with the person whom we love, demanding our right to serve openly in the military and legally marry, protesting in the streets, fighting police brutality, and so much more. In the late 80’s and early 90’s, Pride committee members worked diligently to re-envision a model of Pride that went from ad-hoc committees each year to a professional organization that was able to turn a profit from our events and then use those funds to reinvest in our community. Folks like Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Tim Williams, Barbra Blake, Joseph Mayer, and more wanted to ensure that the legacy of Pride was one that helps to build the capacity of our community beyond the weekend events. Those pioneers of our movement knew that the resistance could look like philanthropy.

    It is an honor and a privilege to carry on their legacy; resistance now includes 57 LGBTQ-serving nonprofit community partners, 87 sponsors, 5,600 volunteer shifts, 22,000 volunteers hours, 45,000 Festival attendees, and 250,000 Parade attendees coming together to make Pride possible. Each and every one of you is and has been vital in building upon that initial groundwork, strengthening our organization, and, in turn, our community.

    This year’s unprecedented attendance and financial success means that we are beyond overjoyed to be giving out over $170,000 to LGBTQ-serving organizations! When looking at our in-kind donations to LGBTQ-serving organizations (including free room rentals, free tickets for HIV testing, and other product and equipment donations) that number jumps to over $223,000.

    Investing your time, talent, and treasure with us means that you are continuing that act of resistance; San Diego Pride has become the most philanthropic Pride organization in the world, having given out more than 2.7 million dollars since 1994. We can’t thank you enough for being a part of our Pride Family and hope that you will be with us in 2019 as we celebrate Stonewall 50: A Legacy of Liberation.

  298. Pride’s 2019 Dates & Theme

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    Next year marks the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, a moment in our history where we fought back against police brutality and the legal oppression of our community. Our community rallied together and commemorated that act of rebellion the following year with the Christopher Street Liberation Day March with solidarity events held in cities across the country. The number of solidarity events has continued to grow every year all across the world, as the global Pride movement now boasts nearly 2,000 identified Prides, organized by hundreds of thousands of people, connecting millions to resources, community, and the celebration of our diverse sexual orientations and gender identities.

    I don’t know if in that moment of defiance in 1969 those brave rebels could have imagined the far-reaching international impact of their actions, or if each of us can even fully grasp the transformative way Prides benefit individual lives on a global scale. I do know each of us is grateful for the gains we’ve inherited and made thanks to the Stonewall generation, as it is their shoulders we stand on. I know that each of us, in the battles we face along the journey of our lives, and the small acts of kindness or resistance we make every day, are a part of the continuum of activism sparked at the Stonewall Inn.

    This is why our theme for San Diego Pride 2019 is Stonewall 50: A Legacy of Liberation. We will take this next year to honor and reflect on the Stonewall generation, their activism, and all that our community has gained through their efforts, reflect on our own role in that legacy, and how, if we approach our own individual legacies with intention, we can build on their successes to leave a better world for those who come next. We are all connected to this legacy of liberation, and in its service, we can truly Persist with Pride.

     


     

    OUT at the Park: April 19, 2019
    She Fest: July 6, 2019
    Spirit of Stonewall Rally: July 12, 2019
    San Diego Pride Parade: July 13, 2019
    San Diego Pride Festival: July 13 – 14, 2019

  299. HIV/AIDS, the legacy and the fight

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    1987 Spirit of Stonewall Rally

    In the 80’s, I remember some of the very first bullying that came my way was kids at recess calling me gay and telling me that I was going to “get AIDS, die, and burn in hell for all eternity.” Many of us know all too well what this shame, fear, and stigma feels like. It’s something we all work to combat to this day. Globally, it is estimated that there are currently 36.7 million people living with HIV, and that more than 35 million people have died from HIV/AIDS related complications. This is why every December 1st, on World AIDS Day, we focus ourselves on the work that yet lies ahead of us, and take for ourselves intentional time to mourn and honor those we’ve lost along the way to the virus.

    In the months leading up to Pride every year, we contribute hundreds of Festival tickets to direct service providers such as UCSD’s AVRC and The Center to incentivize HIV testing for free tickets. At the festival itself we typically have at least 3 mobile testing units on site where hundreds of people are tested over the two-day event; those who test positive are then given access to immediate services and care. Whether it’s our direct trainings done throughout the year, partnering on public education programs, safer sex education and free HIV-testing for our LGBTQ youth, or awarding community grant funding for HIV/AIDS related services, treatment, and prevention San Diego Pride is committed to ending new transmissions, supporting those living with the virus, and fighting the fear, shame, stigma far too many associate with the virus.

    Time and community resolve have given us new tools to fight and prevent HIV infections, understand that undetectable means untransmittable, and turn the virus from a death sentence into a chronic illness. The goal to get to zero new infections and ending stigma is a social, political, and economic battle, but one that we can win if we work together. This December 1st, let’s join together to remember and honor the legacy of those lost to HIV by recommitting ourselves to this work, and together, Persist with Pride.

  300. ❤️ & thanks from your Pride Family

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    San Diego Pride Staff & Board of Directors

    Over the last few weeks, in working with different community partners and in particular with our youth, I’ve been reminded more and more about the fear, pain, and depression that many in our community deal with as the holidays approach. Many of us feel the disconnection of familial rejection, and far too many, especially our youth, fear holiday gatherings where family members will be outright hostile.

    While I know all too well the hardship that the holidays can bring to our community, I’m also grateful for our resilience. It is a thing of beauty to watch our community come together in support, as we always do, with innovative approaches to friendship, family, and love. Seeing our youth from all across Southern California connecting at our recent Youth Leadership Academy empathize with their shared struggles – now connecting and supporting one another over social media, hearing about queer Friendsgivings, and folks inviting their LGBTQ friends over to supportive-family gathers where they need not fear misgendering, transphobia, or homophobia – these all give me hope.

    Our community is strong and brave and we know how to pool our passion and resources to ensure that none of us is left behind. Whether it’s the Scott Carlson Thanksgiving Community Dinner giving us a place to eat, or our local LGBTQ businesses staying open on Thanksgiving to give community members places to connect, or people and agencies all across San Diego coming together to support our LGBTQ refugees just south of the border—I’m inspired by our community’s resolve to heal and love one another. It is that moral compass and drive that will help us all Persist with Pride, and for that I am eternally thankful.

  301. Trans Remembered

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    From Stonewall to the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, from the fight for marriage equality to LGBTQ youth and students rights and beyond, our transgender siblings have always been at the forefront of our movement. At the same time, our trans family members experience higher rates of bullying in school, familial rejection leading to homelessness, and have borne the brunt of hate crimes against our community. As hate crimes have risen against our community in the last two years, it’s the trans community, and in particular black trans women, who have been disproportionately impacted. 2018 is still on track toward being one of the deadliest years in history for our trans community.

    The hard work of casting off the trappings of cisnormativity, heteronormativity, racism, and sexism are intertwined. Within the broader LGBT community, our lives, love, clothing, and expression can fall anywhere on the spectrum defying social norms. From fem gay men to butch lesbians, our drag community, intersex community, and of course our gender-fluid, nonbinary, and trans-identified loved ones – the nature of our collective LGBTQ experiences and movement is and has always been one of gender nonconforming lives. Fighting alongside and for our trans siblings is integral to the health, safety, and well-being of our entire community. It is all connected. We are all connected.

    Next week is Transgender Day of Remembrance, a day when we will take time to mourn and honor the lives of those who were lost to anti-transgender violence, and while I hope that you will join us at one the events happening all over San Diego, I encourage you to evaluate the ways in which you can elevate, support, and empower our trans community members. As we approach the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, it is imperative that we honor the legacy of liberation gifted to us by trans women of color like Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, and Miss Major Griffin-Gracy by ensuring that justice for our trans community is something that we all understand as important, necessary, and how we will all Persist with Pride.

    Trans Day of Remembrance Events

    San Diego LGBT Community Center
    Chicano Park
    Valencia Park
    North County LGBTQ Resource Center

     

  302. Our Victories and Our Veterans

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    2018 San Diego Pride Parade – San Diego Pride Military Contingent. Tommy Wu Photography.

    Some of our movement’s earliest pioneers like José Julio Sarria, the first openly LGBTQ person to run for public office in the US, and Harvey Milk, the first openly gay man elected to public office, served in our country’s military before ever leading our community. The San Diego region has the highest concentration of military personnel in the world, and the United States military has a higher percentage of LGBTQ individuals than the general population does; these are two factors that lead San Diego and San Diego Pride to have a huge impact on the visibility of LGBTQ servicemembers across the country.

    In 2011, a group of approximately 250 active duty servicemembers and veterans marched in San Diego’s Pride Parade a few months before the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell took effect; those who were active duty still had to conceal their LGBTQ identities. In 2012, San Diego would go on to have the first Pride in the country with active duty service members in uniform, out and proud and with approval from the Department of Defense. In 2015, even before the ban on transgender troops was lifted, then active duty trans Marine Corporal Evander Deocariza proudly and openly carried the trans flag in our Parade’s Military Contingent Color Guard. Each success builds on the next, and each moment garners national visibility, all helping to educate and break down barriers. Despite this progress, we know that our LGBTQ service members still do not feel entirely safe and supported. There is still much work to do.

    Tuesday’s elections have us celebrating our LGBTQ and diverse victories all across the nation, especially the historic win in Massachusetts to protect transgender rights! Victories like the Massachusetts Yes on 3 campaign remind us what is possible when we build diverse LGBTQ coalitions and capacity over the long term. This week, as we enjoy these victories and as our LGBTQ vets walk openly in the Veterans Day Parade, we know that change doesn’t come quickly or easily. May we all continue to take lessons from our successes and recommit to the work our movement has ahead of us, as we all contribute to our collective legacy of liberation.

  303. Voting is an Act of Resistance

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    Today is election day, and we know that the results of this election will have huge impacts on our community for years to come. Today is our opportunity to voice our views and to fight for our liberation from the top to the bottom of the ballot. Make certain that you give yourself the time to vote or to drop off your mail in ballot at a polling location or at an official ballot drop off location today.

    Many of us will have our eyes on Massachusetts as trans rights are at stake, and we know that every election outcome will have some impact on the LGBTQ community. Do what you can to help others to vote today if you are able. Know that as we all watch those results trickle in – no matter what – our legacy will be one of continuing to fight, and together we will Persist with Pride.

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  304. How do we face our fears?

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    St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral lit up in the colors of the transgender flag.

    I am the son of immigrants; a first generation U.S. citizen. The Jewish side of my family emigrated to the United States from Russia and Austria respectively to escape persecution and death. The Mexican side of my family moved to California in the 60’s as migrant field workers in pursuit of the American Dream. In my mixed identity upbringing, I remember being taught by my family about the ways in which I would experience discrimination as a Jew, a Latino, a child of immigrants, and how I might experience rejection at the intersection of those identities. My parents were right. Then in my own journey of discovering my queer, gay, femme, and gender fluid identities, I realized that for the sake of my own life and safety I, like many LGBTQ people, needed to move somewhere more accepting. I sought refuge and community here in San Diego nearly 20 years ago.

    The act of hate that took the lives of 11 congregants at the Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh this past weekend has many of us shaken to our core. The recent hate crimes attacking the LGBTQ community here in San Diego, the Jeffersontown shooting of two black store patrons after the shooter attempted to enter a predominantly black church, the national rise in hate crimes facing our community and disproportionately impacting trans women of color, the proposed HHS policy changes targeting the trans community, and more have taken a huge emotional and deadly toll. We are fighting the same fight we’ve always been fighting – one against fear and hate.

    We can fight back by finding one another around the intersection of our identities, showing up for other marginalized communities in their time of need, and doing the work of building our own power and capacity. If you find yourself wanting or needing space to connect with community and engage in the education and advocacy work needed to combat the issues facing our community I invite you to join one of our many programs. The DevOUT interfaith coalition and the San Diego County LGBTQ Latinx Coalition are a great way to start. The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition is hosting a conference this weekend Lessons from Wakanda. Next weekend we’re hosting our annual Pride Youth Leadership Academy and next year we’re launching our first QAPI (Queer Asian Pacific Islander) Coalition.

    As we approach the 50th anniversary of Stonewall, it’s heartwarming to think of how far our community has come. We are all apart of that legacy of liberation. We will continue to make progress if we act together, show up to the polls on Tuesday. Know that each of you is welcome at Pride, you are part of our ever growing family, and that together we will Persist with Pride.

  305. How do we fight back?

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    In just the last few weeks here in San Diego, a gay Lyft driver was brutally assaulted by his passengers and an LGBTQ-supportive church in the heart of Hillcrest was vandalized—both bold anti-LGBTQ attacks. This comes at a time when residents, patrons, and business owners in the Hillcrest area are reporting an increase in hate speech, threats, and violence towards our community. These terrifying realities coincide with a national increase in violence towards the LGBTQ and other minority communities.

    This week, the New York Times reported that the Trump administration is considering drastic changes to the way our government defines gender that would severely impact our transgender, intersex, and gender nonconforming community members. This has left many in our community shaken but resolved to fight back.

    It is imperative that each of us stand with and support our transgender, intersex, and gender nonconforming siblings. This Friday our community is holding a Won’t Be Erased Teach-In, and on Saturday will be having a Won’t Be Erased March and Rally. We hope you will join us!

    We also know that an important election is upon us, and one of the most important and strategic things we can do to ensure that our community has a voice is to show up to the polls. We know that marginalized populations and young people historically show up to the polls less often than their counterparts. Let’s change that. There are still opportunities to help our community show up to the poll by participating in our nonpartisan Get Out The Vote effort.

    Spending this last week talking to many in our community, I understand how scared many of us are. We are absolutely fortunate to live in San Diego and California where we are surrounded by support, yet we must remain vigilant for our safety and active in the struggle for equality. It is together in this fight that we will leave a legacy of a better world for the next generation, and together that we will Persist With Pride.

  306. Trans People #WontBeErased

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    Yesterday, the New York Times reported that the Trump administration is considering directing the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services to narrowly define sex as either male or female, unchangeable and determined by the genitals a person is born with. This restrictive definition of gender would establish a new legal definition of sex under Title IX, the federal law that bans gender discrimination in education programs that receive government funding, and likely undermine enforcement of existing civil rights protections for LGBT people, especially those who are transgender, nonbinary, and intersex.

    In reaction to this potential proposal, our San Diego County transgender and LGBT organizations stand together, united, and ready to fight back, should this draft rule change move forward. While we are deeply alarmed by this proposed attempt to narrowly define gender at the federal level, we also know that we have science, morality, and decades of legal precedent and California law that affirms the identities and existence of our transgender, intersex, and nonbinary family members, neighbors, colleagues, and friends. More, we have the strength and resilience of our trans, intersex, and nonbinary community, leading us towards full equality. We will vigorously fight any proposal that seeks to eliminate much-needed civil rights protections for our community.

    Locally, we invite everyone to join us at three community meetings this evening: for those 21+ and over, at Gossip Grill starting at 8:30pm, San Diego Pride office for youth 18 – 21 starting at 5 – 7pm, and the Hillcrest Youth Center for youth 14 – 18 starting at 4:30 – 9pm, and the North County LGBTQ Resource Center open to all ages from 6 – 8pm. To our trans, intersex, and nonbinary siblings, our organizations are here to support you if you need community resources.

    Most of all, we want to assure our LGBTQI community that we are united and steadfastly committed to providing support and services to our trans community. #WeWillNotBeErased.

    The San Diego LGBT Community Center
    San Diego Pride
    North County LGBTQ Resource Center
    San Diego Trans Pride
    The Neutral Corner Inc.
    The T-Spot
    TransFamily Support Services
    PFLAG San Diego County

  307. Help us queer the vote?

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    Ten years ago the LGBTQ community in California was deep in the fight to preserve our right to legally marry. Those of us who had been in that fight for years can recall an odd dichotomy. Shortly before we won the right to marry through a court victory earlier in 2008, many in our own community had told us we were fighting for “too much, too soon,” and after that court victory, we again heard from many in our own community that “We can’t lose. This is California.” Either way, it was always a challenge to get our community and our allies to engage in the fight. Of course, we know how this turned out. It would be five years until the right to marry was restored in California.

    In 2008, only around 9,000 individual people volunteered their time on the Prop 8 campaign throughout the course of the year. Yet, after we lost Prop 8, almost 30,000 people took to the streets in San Diego in protest. Each year, around 5,000 people from a multitude of organizations volunteer to put on San Diego Pride which boasts over a quarter million people celebrating in the streets of our beautiful city. We know our community is large and diverse, and it’s vital that if we want a democratic system that works for our community then we must do more than just show up at the polls or to the protest; we need to actively engage in the system.

    Right now, San Diego Pride is working with our partners at The San Diego LGBTQ Community Center on our Vote with Pride program where we ask our community to volunteer its time in non-partisan voter engagement efforts, working to ensure that LGBTQ people and our supporters show up to the polls. Whether you engage with our GOTV efforts or another, we hope you will stay active in the democratic process. We’ve seen repeatedly how easy it is for our gains to be taken away, and we know how important it is to stay in this fight. If we all lean into this struggle together, we will Persist with Pride.

  308. Why Do We Come Out?

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    Our community has long known that when we are out and visible we are able to deconstruct the discriminatory prejudices that exist to oppress us. Today is National Coming Out Day, a time for us to proactively step out of our closets and honor that power and liberation we experience when we ask of ourselves and the world around us to embrace all that we are across the spectrum of sexual orientation and gender identity.

    Coming out, however, is still not an easy step for our LGBTQ-youth who are born into unsupportive families in a time when our social and political climate has driven an increase in bullying and violence towards the LGBTQ community. Just this week here in San Diego, an anti-LGBTQ rally at a San Diego Unified School District board meeting lifted the veil for many to see the lies and misinformation still being spread about our community. There in that school board room, anti-LGBTQ folks spread lies and hate while LGBTQ youth sat and listened. We have to do better.

    San Diego Unified School District’s ever-increasing efforts to support our LGBTQ-youth should be commended, and we should all thank them for not only holding the line but for leading on these efforts. They are, however, just one school district in our county of over 40 school districts. The experiences of our youth vary wildly from classroom to classroom, school to school, and district to district.

    That is why Pride has partnered with the San Diego LGBT Community Center, GLSEN San Diego, PFLAG San Diego, TransFamily Support Services, North County LGBTQ Resource Center, Mental Health America of San Diego County, and Trevor Project to put out the San Diego County Local School Climate Survey in an effort to help give a voice to LGBTQ youth across the region, better understand the issues they’re facing, and to have the data we need to better advocate on their behalf.

    On this Coming Out Day, please continue to be a bright shining out and proud role model for our next generation, and share this survey with educators, GSA advisory, youth-serving agencies, parents, and students so we can help our LGBTQ-youth Persist with Pride.

  309. 2018 Pride Parade Awards

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    We’re excited to announce the award recipients for 2018. Congratulations to all the winners!

     

    Best Youth / Student Contingent

    1. The Alliance of Affirming Parents and Families
    2. San Diego Pride Youth Marching Band
    3. Sweetwater Union High School District GSA

    Best Non-Profit Contingent

    1. San Diego LGBT Community Center
    2. San Diego Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence
    3. San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition

    Best Faith-Based Contingent

    1. Pacific Beach United Methodist Church
    2. Congregation Dor Hadash
    3. Pilgrim United Church of Christ

    Best HIV / AIDS Awareness Contingent

    1. AIDS Healthcare Foundation & Impulse San Diego
    2. HIV / AIDS Long Term Survivors
    3. AIDS LifeCycle

    Best Health & Wellness Contingent

    1. Family Health Centers of San Diego
    2. Planned Parenthood of the Pacific Southwest
    3. AMN Health

    Best Musical Contingent

    1. Broadway San Diego
    2. San Diego Women’s Chorus
    3. Super Sonic Samba School

    Best San Diego Small Business

    1. Rich’s San Diego
    2. Amarin Thai
    3. Modern Times

    Best Use of Pride Theme – Marching

    1. HIV / AIDS Long Term Survivors
    2. San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus
    3. San Ysidro Health

    Best Use of Pride Theme – Float

    1. Leather Pride
    2. San Diego Public Defender
    3. Uber

    Best Corporate Ally Contingent

    1. Blue Shield of California
    2. Hotel del Coronado
    3. Harrah’s Resort Southern California

    Recipients were honored at the San Diego Equality Business Association’s Business Mixer on September 27th at The Hotel del Coronado.

  310. Pride’s Legacy of Giving

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    In my office hangs a copy of the first Pride budget. We had a deficit of one dollar. I love having that piece of history hanging next to me as I work every day. It reminds me of the legacy gifted to us by the pioneers of our movement – those early struggles and successes of our community as it fought legal oppression, societal norms, and too often internally. Yet, as our community does, we persisted and grew stronger as community members like Christine Kehoe, Neil Good, Tim Williams, Barbra Blake, Joseph Mayer, and others worked to professionalize our organization, stabilize us financially, and eventually distribute profits from our event to LGBTQ-serving organizations.

    Today, Pride is the largest single-day civic event in the region with an annual economic impact of around 26.6 million dollars. We run year-round education and advocacy programs and have become one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world. Since 1994, we have distributed nearly 2.5 million dollars to LGBTQ-serving nonprofits.

    It’s heartwarming to know that when folks invest their time to volunteer with Pride or that when you purchase a ticket those actions have a ripple effect that extends beyond one weekend a year. They are investments in our community and the legacy that we leave to those who will come after us. Thank you for being a part of that legacy with us, as together we Persist with Pride.


    Grant applications can be found here.

  311. Images of Pride

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    When I first began working at Pride in 2011 we were not yet using photos to tell the story of our organization or community. While we had enjoyed LGBTQ employment protections for some time in the state of California – San Diego had the highest concentration of LGBTQ military personell in the country, and the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell had not yet taken effect. The risk was too great for our service members.

    When the repeal of DADT took effect later that year, Pride began the long process of uploading our photographic history to Facebook and something amazing happened. You see, while social media and digital photography were still relatively new and certainly not yet ubiquitous, in 1994 Executive Director Brenda Schumacher had begun the tradition of ensuring everything about Pride was documented through photography. Her foundational work coupled with the photo collections of board and community members meant that images of our community were well-preserved and could be shared.

    As folks started to look through each year of Pride they began to tag their friends, share memories, and even reconnect with loved ones who they thought they had lost during the HIV/AIDS crisis. Our community knows all too well that visibility is key to impacting change, and photography can play a vital role in authentically showcasing the breadth and depth of our community.

    In 2012 San Diego Pride became the first in the nation to have Department of Defense approval for active duty service members to wear their uniforms in our Parade. Near the end of the parade and within our military contingent, then Navy Senior Chief Dwayne D. Beebe proposed to Jonathan Franqui. The photo that captured that moment was posted immediately to our account and seen over 5 million times spreading beyond Pride to be used by Freedom to Marry and the Human Rights Campaign as were were able to authentically show the intersections of two contemporary issues our community was dealing with. The freedom to serve, and the right to marriage equality.

    Honoring that legacy of art as advocacy, Art of Pride is a program showcasing local LGBTQ artists that we have been hosting since 2005 at our Festival and within our building. The next exhibit is entitled Images of Pride where the brilliant work of our community’s photographers will be on display. We hope you will join us at the upcoming reception to reflect on how far we’ve come as we Persist with Pride.

  312. Warning: Sensitive Content – Ending Sexual Violence

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    As a sexual assault survivor, I know all too well the challenges we as LGBTQ people face accessing culturally competent services and care. When attempting to recover from something so painfully horrific, coming in contact with law enforcement, mental health services, or healthcare providers who are anti-LGBTQ or simply aren’t well versed in our community can frankly retraumatize you all over again. That is why over that last several years San Diego Pride, The San Diego LGBT Community Center, and the Center for Community Solutions have been working together to ensure our region’s service providers are better equipped to meet the needs our community’s survivors.

    Simply treating survivors, like me, isn’t enough though. We as a community need to continue to find ways to address rape culture and prevent sexual violence; this means a broader network of individuals and industries working together to shift behaviors and narratives. Can we ensure our local bartenders and security staff know the warning signs of sexual violence? Do parents and teachers educate our youth on body autonomy and empower consent? How can friends and media outlets shift their language use away from victim blaming? When can our small business owners, their staff, and we as individuals be able to understand and safely execute bystander interventions?

    These are just some of our thoughts and we want to hear yours. This coming Monday, San Diego Pride invites you to come to our building in North Park and network with folks across a multitude of industries to discuss how we all can be a part of helping to heal survivors and end sexual violence.

  313. A busy weekend in San Diego

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    We had quite the busy weekend happen with so many opportunities to get involved and active in the LGBTQ community!

    South Bay Pride had their kick off and on Friday afternoon Pride staff & volunteers took a trip over to Chula Vista City Hall to help cheer on South Bay Pride as they City of Chula Vista raised the Pride flag in honor of South Bay Pride. It was a historic day in San Diego and Chula Vista history as it’s the first time the Pride flag was flown at Chula Vista’s City Hall. It was a great way to kick off the weekend right!

    Then on Friday evening the Repertory Theater in partnership with San Diego Pride hosted OUT at the Rep. Art of Pride hosted a pre-show reception showcasing LGBTQ art. Artists included John Keasler, Patrick Stillman, and other LGBTQ local artists including our very own Pride youth artists. Attendees, art lovers, and artists then enjoyed an amazing performance of Fun Home.

    Saturday morning was a busy one with so many Pride family members representing our community. On Saturday morning we hosted our monthly Lunch Bunch where LGBTQ youth hang out at Pride where we talked about back to school season and enjoyed grilled hot dogs, hamburgers, and each other’s company.

     

    While our youth enjoyed hamburgers and hot dogs at the office, South Bay Pride was in full effect! We had our team out there saying hi to the thousands of people attending as well as giving out some raffle prizes. Don’t forget to see us at Pride By The Beach, Imperial Valley Pride, and Palm Springs Pride.

    The San Diego LGBTQ Latinx Coalition represented our community at the Climate Action March. They joined thousands of San Diegans who stand with climate advocates worldwide!

    Lastly, our Programs Manager Bob Leyh and other volunteers joined Trans Family Support Services, PFLAG, and the San Diego Chapter of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) at the 54th Annual Poway Days Parade making sure that LGBTQ families and friends were represented in Poway.

    There’s so many ways to get involved and stay involved with San Diego Pride. In the next few months we’ll have an art show, holiday parade, a #MeTooLGBTQ mixer, and a youth leadership academy. Head to our events page to find more events happening in your community and make sure to sign up for our newsletter to stay up-to-date.

    Happy Pride San Diego!

  314. You can sit with us!

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    It’s back to school time, and while this can be an exciting part of the year for students and families, for LGBTQ youth it can be exceedingly stressful. Although many people assume that LGBTQ youth today are growing up in a world that supports and affirms their identities, we regularly hear stories of bullying, erasure, degradation, violence, and threats of expulsion because of their identities. The tattered patchwork quilt of policies and practices that support our LGBTQ youth can vary wildly from district to district, school to school, class to class, and faculty member to faculty member.

    For years Pride has been a part of a coalition of local and national organizations working diligently to improve the educational environment for our youngest and most vulnerable community members, and we are launching a new way to help more people get connected to these organizations so students, parents, and faculty members from across the region can have more direct access to the resources available to them. By signing up to join that network of support we will be better able to target information to you when issues arise in your area, and other LGBTQ youth-serving organizations such as The Trevor Project, GLSEN San Diego, PFLAG San Diego, TransFamily Support Services, Hillcrest Youth Center, and more will be able to send you information about the programs they are offering as well.

    While many schools are improving in their efforts to create safe spaces for LGBTQ youth, lunch time can be one of the most stressful times for them. Who, at some point in our lives, hasn’t heard the phrase, “You can’t sit with us!” That’s why our motto is “You CAN sit with us!” Every second Saturday of the month, meaning this Saturday, we have our Lunch Bunch program in partnership with the Trevor Project where junior high though high school aged LGBTQ youth can simply hang out and eat lunch with other LGBTQ youth for free. It’s a space where they can begin to build community, learn their own power, and find out about what resources are available to them.

    Whatever age you are, and however you identify, there is a path for you to help better serve the next generation of our community, as together we Persist with Pride.

  315. “Why is Pride in July?”

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    In 1969 the Stonewall Riots against legal police brutality towards our community inspired organizers in New York City, Chicago, San Francisco, and Los Angeles to hold “Christopher Street Liberation Day Marches” in 1970: the origins of Pride events as we know them today. As Pride events began to sprout up in more cities across the country and the world, they evolved into more than just marches —  they became opportunities for us to make community connections while building political power.

    Back when all Prides attempted to be on the same weekend in June, it limited our LGBTQ organizations’ abilities to be in every city, to build supporter lists, and to grow our organizations. Pride organizers began to talk about how we could better coordinate our events and in turn better serve our communities. In 1990 San Diego Pride was nearly rained out, so the decision was made to leave “June gloom” behind for the warmer and sunnier month of July.

    With over 1000 Pride events happening all over the world, each taking on a distinctly local community flavor, finding LGBTQ community connections, resources, and organizations has become more accessible to more people. South Bay Pride, North County’s Pride by the Beach, Imperial Valley Pride, and Palm Springs Pride are right on our doorstep and happening soon. In our tight-knit Pride Family, San Diego Pride works to ensure that we support one another by sharing skilled volunteers, best practices, grant funding, marketing support, and more. I hope to see you soon at any one of our other regional Pride events as we all continue the tradition of making community connections while building political power.

  316. Walk with Pride

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    I remember being teased for being gay when I was only in the 3rd grade. The words thrown at me from other kids telling me that the only future I had in front of me was one in which I contracted HIV, died of AIDS, and burned in hell for all eternity. That was nearly 30 years ago, and even today with better science, education, treatment, and prevention methods — we are all still combating those ignorant messages.

    The shame, stigma, and fear that many still associate with HIV/AIDS all too often prevent people from knowing their status and accessing competent, treatment, care, and prevention tools. Our partners over at the San Diego LGBT Community Center work every day to combat these challenges in an effort to better serve our community through critical, direct services and their transformative #BeTheGeneration educational campaign.

    You too can be a part of these efforts by participating in the largest fundraiser for HIV/AIDS- related work in the region: AIDS Walk San Diego. Our Pride volunteers will be out in force again this year helping our Center Family put on the event in addition to having a walking team. We’ll also be participating in this year’s “This Is Me” campaign that invites everyone to share pieces of our personal identity and connection to HIV to highlight that while HIV/AIDS impacts all of us, we are not solely defined by it.

    I hope you will join our Pride Family in supporting these efforts by joining our team walk here, and by taking part in the “This Is Me” campaign. We can end stigma and be the generation that ends new infections, as together we Persist with Pride.

  317. Love to Volunteers

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    Over Pride weekend around 2,500 volunteers committed over 12,500 hours of work to ensure we all could celebrate as our authentic selves. Every year I am blown away by how dedicated and driven these community members are that rather than be an attendee, they find Pride in working long hours in the hot sun, taking on multiple shifts, and pushing their bodies and minds to the limits. Their reward is more than just a free t-shirt and a hot meal, it’s the feeling of looking across a sea of joyful faces and knowing that they got to be part of making that happen.

    Before Pride weekend got here volunteers at San Diego Pride showed up to over 2,000 shifts and committed over 6,000 hours of work. While some of that work was preparation for the Parade and Festival, much of it was committed to the multitude of other programs Pride offers year round. These dedicated community members find ways to use their skills, passion, and time to give back to their community in a variety of ways from voter engagement, graphic design, LGBTQ servicemember engagement, youth services, woman’s programming, binacional LGBTQ leadership development, supporting our community homeless population, and even building homes.

    As a non-profit, we rely on our volunteers to make this organization run. Their talents help us function, their insights help us grow, and their valuable time makes it possible for us to give proceeds of our events back out to the community.

    If you ever see a volunteer from Pride or any organization that helped to make Pride happen, please thank them. If you would like to join our Pride Family as a volunteer please register in our volunteer system to get notified of volunteer opportunities.

    To our volunteers, “thank you” will never be enough to express our gratitude. You have my heart. You helped us Persist With Pride.

  318. Persist with Pride & Love

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    What a weekend it has been for my little family. Yesterday was probably the first time in my entire life where I was surrounded, literally, by people that LOVED. I have never felt that kind of overwhelming acceptance, inclusion and love ever. All races, all genders, all kinds of families. I spent all day looking around at all the people that are deemed unworthy of being accepted and treated like they are anything less than human. Deemed not worthy of the love God has for them. Hated for who they were born to be. I looked at my own children and realize that they are in that crowd on the other side of that invisible line that our society has created. As their mom and as a mom, it’s heartbreaking.

    Friends, no matter what you think, what you’ve been taught, or who you have in your life, until you have skin in the game, it’s just not the same. I’d like to think that I have always been accepting of everyone but wow was I kidding myself. I have spent the last 2.5 years reading, praying, weeping and learning from my children about what it means to love like Christ loved. I have desperately clawed my way to what I think God’s heart is on this. Yesterday was like taking those 2.5 years and wrapping it around me like a warm rainbow flag and plopping it directly into the middle of that crowd of 200,000+ people. Dancing, laughing, crying, smiling, hugging and being who they are. I can not describe how it made this mama’s heart feel to see strangers love on my child. Yesterday was just everything for this mama bear who is still finding her feet, still trying to learn how to support and include the LGBTQ community in the best way that I know how.

    I challenge anyone reading this with that eye-roll, pausing your finger over that unfriend button or Bible thumping me in your head to take the time to discover what you believe. Search God’s heart on this if that is what is giving you pause. Imagine you had skin in the game. What would you do? I do know one thing, you’d never want to have to choose between your loved one and God or your loved one and your church. I don’t think that is what He asks of us. So, take the time. I promise you won’t be sorry. Your heart will be expanded like the Grinch on Christmas and it’s almost more than you can handle on some days. You will be a better person for it, you will love harder for it.

    Maybe next year you’ll be there in that crowd hugging strangers and weeping for all the love that you just didn’t know was there for you all that time.


    About the Author: Heather Diaz is the proud mother of Isabelle and Ximena Diaz. Heather attended Pride’s events with her two children and her husband, Joel Diaz. After attending the events, Heather reached out to us with how her family celebrated Pride. Both of her children came out roughly 2 1/2 years ago and this was their first Pride event as a family.

  319. A welcome letter from the Executive Director of Pride.

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    Many of us still walk with one eye over our shoulder. The distance between our hand and the hand of the person we love can seem impossibly far when we walk in spaces where fear owns us more than love. The closets we carry on our backs while hiding within them at work, school, and at the dinner table can seem too heavy to bear.

    That is why we still have Pride. That is why we are here. If even for one week, weekend, day, or liberating hour you dare to let your love indulge in daylight. You can breathe in decadent joy, and breathe out the weight of societal expectation. During Pride we allow ourselves the peace of unwringing the calloused hands of our movement and simply celebrate. Claim for yourself the feeling of freedom as the San Diego sunshine bounces off your skin as you hold tightly to the ones you love, our unbound voices calling out for justice or cheering on our found family. At Pride we all have a uniquely beautiful opportunity to lay down our differences and lift up our diversity. We cast aside the shackles of shame and unapologetically embrace the ability to be radically authentic to ourselves.

    Pride is wherever you are, and however you choose to celebrate it.

    This time is for you. Be brave. Be bold.

    Whether you’ve been with us since the beginning, or if this is your first; welcome to Pride. Welcome home.

    Persist with Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  320. Top 30 Things to do at Pride 2018

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    There’s SO much going on at Pride this year that we’ve made a list of the top 30 things to do in San Diego for Pride! We pride ourselves on celebrating love, compassion, and happiness within the community while honoring our legendary community members at the forefront of our fight. Let’s show the world how we love, unite and PERSIST with pride.


    1. She Fest

    She Fest is a women-centered event that celebrates the contributions of women to our local and LGBT communities. She Fest wants everyone to feel supported, included and represented. So come on out and have a wonderful time!

    Date & Time: Saturday, July 7, 2018, 11:00 am – 6:00 pm

    Location: North Park Community Park, 4044 Idaho St, San Diego, CA 92104

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.


    2. Get Social

    Take a photo, take a video and share your community across all platforms. Don’t forget to hashtag #SDPride 

    Follow us on our social media below:

    Snapchat: sdpride365
    Instagram: sandiegopride
    Facebook: sandiegolgbtpride
    Twitter: sandiegopride


    3. Food Trucks and Drinks

    You’re sure to work up an appetite with all the celebrating you’ll be doing, and Pride has got you covered!

    Stop by a food truck or any of our food vendors & fuel up all weekend! You can also drop into any of our beverage gardens and cool down with a refreshing drink!

     

     


    4. Movement Stage!

    Move that body! Listen to hip hop, rap, and R&B with your family & friends and dance the weekend away at the movement stage.

    The movement stage is always packed and they keep the party going all weekend long! Check out the website to see who is set to perform with artists like LE1F, HYM, and many more.

    Learn more about the performers and movement schedule here.

     

     

     


    5. Pride World Forum

    LGBTQI leaders from different parts of the world will participate in a panel discussion as attendees learn about their work and human rights issues around the globe. Come out and support your fellow community members as they share their experiences from their respective areas.

    Date & Time: Sunday July 15 2018, 10:30 am – 12:00 pm

    Location: San Diego World History Center, 1649 El Prado, Ste 3, San Diego, California 92101

                                                                                                            Invite your friends on Facebook here


    6. Get Tested

    Take the time to get tested. Knowing your status is a great preventative method of transmitting HIV.

    There’s always free testing at the festival, so make sure you get a chance to stop by and get tested.

    See the entire map here.

     


    7. Volunteer

    It’s never too late to volunteer with SD Pride.

    Some perks of volunteering include the following: getting a cool tee, entering the festival for free, and having a blast servicing the community you are a part of. Also, there’s a volunteer appreciation party after Pride is over!

    Become a volunteer here.

     

     


    8. TLC & JoJo

    That’s right, y’all! Our headlining performers for San Diego Pride’s mainstage are JoJo and TLC!

    Don’t miss out on their mainstage performances:

    JoJo: Saturday, July 14, 8:00pm-9:00pm

    TLC: Sunday, July 15, 8:00pm-9:00pm

    Learn more about the mainstage lineup and schedule here.

     

     


    9. Rock Your Pride

    Get festive! Dress fun, crazy, fresh, and be free!

    Celebrate pride in being authentically you and wear whatever you want with no judgment. Rainbows and glitter are highly encouraged!

     

    #PersistWithPride

     


    10. Children’s Garden

    Calling all LGBTQ families! Pride Festival is a family-friendly event & we have a space exclusively for kids!

    Join the Children’s garden in an afternoon filled with entertainment for all ages, arts and crafts, and even a magician!

    Invite your friends on Facebook here!

     

     

     


    11. Get Your Tickets Online

    Come out and enjoy the festival with all your buddies and friends! It makes your life so much easier to purchase tickets online.

    You can avoid waiting in line and save time if you are buying your tickets the day of. Get your tickets today!

    Purchase tickets here.

     


    12. Military Contingent

    The military contingent is composed of active duty and veteran service members marching proudly in the parade!

    Come out, show some love, and keep an eye out for the contingent, so make sure you cheer them on for everything they do!

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.

     


    13. Light Up The Cathedral

    Kick off Pride with an Interfaith Pride Celebration. Connect with LGBT-affirming organizations and churches as we come together to light up St. Paul’s Cathedral in rainbow colors.

    Date & Time: Wednesday, July 11, 2018, at 7:00 pm

    Location: St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral (2728 Sixth Avenue).  

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.


    14. NoH8

    Show you that stand for #NOH8 and get an official NOH8 picture taken by Adam Bouska himself! Make sure to pack a white shirt, drop by the Nissan booth inside the festival, and you’ll be all set for your own photoshoot!

    Date & TimeSaturday, July 14, 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm

    Location: The Nissan Booth at the Festival

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.

     

     


    15. Youth Zone

    The youth zone is an area made by youth, exclusive for middle-school and high school aged youth! Connect to resources and make new friends!

    Let’s support our queer youth!

    Invite your friends on Facebook here

     

     


    Image Description: Drag Me To The Del Flyer including drag queens mug shots and lots of colors.

    16. Drag me to the Del

    Experience drag like you never have before and kick off your weekend festivities with Drag me to the Del. Don’t miss out on a legendary cast featuring Rupaul’s drag race Season 5 and All stars 2 contestant, Alyssa Edwards and RuPaul’s Drag University’s Lady Bunny, and many more. So get up and join us for a night of food, drinks, entertainment, and show love to your fellow squirrel friends.

    Date & TimeJuly 12, 2018, 7:00 pm – 11:00 pm

    LocationHotel Del Coronado, 1500 Orange Ave, Coronado, California 92118

    Invite your friends on Facebook here!


    17. Become a VIP!

    Upgrade yourself by becoming a VIP!

    VIPs get to hang out in the VIP lounge complete with catered food and 4 hosted drinks per day! Enjoy upgraded restroom facilities, front of the line privileges into any beverage garden, and a separate VIP entrance!

    Purchase VIP tickets here.

     

     


    18. Spirit of Stonewall Rally

    Join San Diego pride at the Spirit of Stonewall rally which honors and commemorates those who have paved the way for our community, nationally and locally. Celebrate our community with pride and see keynote speaker, and the first transgender person elected to a state office, Virginia delegate Danica Roem.

    Date & Time:  Friday, July 13, 2018, 6:00 pm – 7:00 pm

    Location: Hillcrest Pride Flag, University Ave and Normal St., San Diego, CA 92103

                                                                                                             Invite your friends on Facebook here.


    19. Mundo Latino

    Shimmy your body on over to the Mundo Latino stage and dance around with artists like Graciela Beltran, Blake G, and many more.

    Check out the website to see who is set to line up at the Mundo Latino stage.

    Learn more about the performer schedule here.

     

     

     


    20. Pride Block Party

    After the rally, stay for the Hillcrest Block Party which is free and open to the public this year! Celebrate Pride under the Hillcrest Pride flag and watch live entertainers like Detox, Kalorie Karbdashian, and Miss Vaaaaaanjie!

    Date & TimeJuly 13, 2018, 2:00 pm – 11:00 pm

    LocationHillcrest Pride Flag, 1500 University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

    Invite your friends on Facebook here!

     

     


    21. Youth Marching Band

    Make sure to watch out for the youth marching band and cheer them on!

    This marching band is comprised of LGBTQIA youth from throughout the region and it’s always a crowd favorite.

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.

     

     

     


    22. Make a Sign

    Speak your mind and make us a sign! Parade marchers and attendees are welcome to make signs for issues and topics that matter to them!

    Show everyone that you’re a proud supporter of the LGBTQ community! #LoveIsLove #ProudAlly #PersistWithPride

     

     

     

     


    23. Pride 5K

    Run the parade route before it begins! You can register till the day of, and share the experience with fellow community members in kicking off the annual Pride Parade.

    Date & Time: Saturday, July 14, 9:30 AM

    Location: Race start and Finish: University Ave at Centre St

    Invite your friends on Facebook here

     

     


    24. Utopia

    Just outside of the festival is the Utopia: Health & Gender Oasis! Connect to community resources, take a selfie under the rainbow arches, and even enjoy yoga & other self-care events! This event is free and open to the public!

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.

     


    25. Get here (Uber, Shuttle, Bike)!

    Getting here can be a struggle with so many of our friends trying to do the same! Make it easy on yourself by finding other, less stressful options!

    Bike to the parade and festival and leave your bike securely with the bike corral or Uber your way down here! There’s also a free parking lot complete with a free shuttle to get you to the parade and festival safely!

    Learn more here.


    26. LGBTQ+SD

    Drop by the San Diego History Center to see their latest exhibition: LGBTQ+San Diego: Stories of Struggles and Triumphs.

    Visitors will hear from those in the LGBTQ+ region about the struggles to overcome persecution, the battle with AIDS, bullying, and intolerance, and the power of the community. Learn your history during Pride!

    Learn more here.

     

     


    27. The Leather Realm (18+)

    The Leather Realm is open to anyone over the age of 18 to provide visibility and awareness of the BDSM, leather, and fetish communities.

    Available in the Leather Realm are live demonstrations, workshops, and community organizations in place to help further the education of these communities.

    See the entire map here.

     


    28. Burner Village

    Hop on down to Burner village and explore interactive art in this area where you can chill out to music, and escape to a creative and scenic space for a more liberating feeling.

    See the entire map here.

     

     


    29. Proclamation

    The 45th annual proclamation is set to take place Tuesday, July 10 where San Diego’s own City Council commemorates and recognizes the history of San Diego’s LGBT community and our community’s activism presented through years past and present.

    Date & Time: Tuesday, July 10, 2018, 10:00 am – 11:00 am

    Location: 202 C St, San Diego, CA 92101, USA

     

     

     


    30. Pride Merch!

    Get your SD Pride merch! You better stop by the custom heat press station and snatch up your very own SD Pride hat, daaahling.

    We’ve got pins, tanks and so much more exclusively at the festival.

  321. Dear Delores

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    San Diego Pride was once a program of The San Diego LGBT Community Center. Since the origins of our movement, many Prides and community centers were connected as they all sprouted from the same few people; those pioneers, those seeds of our movement. In the 90s Prides across the nation came under legal attack from anti-LGBT extremists and many Prides, including San Diego Pride, became separate entities in order to protect the 501c3 nonprofit status of our centers and the vital services that they provided. That’s what our community does; we defend each other and help one another succeed.

    While Pride and The Center are two separate organizations to this day, we are proud to say that we share volunteers, collaborate closely on programs, and have deep love and mutual respect for one another.

    For 17 years our Center has been led by my friend, mentor, and colleague Dr. Delores Jacobs. From the losses of Prop 8 to Pulse, she steadied our community and refocused our grief into action. During the struggles and successes of our community’s ability to serve in the military and legally marry, she lifted leaders, never claiming the spotlight for herself. It has been her brilliant insight and fearless, unflappable bravery that helped us form new strategies to combat the HIV/AIDS epidemic and stigma, support LGBTQ youth in our schools, and turn our community out to vote.

    Her intersectional approach to social justice has built new generations of leaders who are ready to take on the ever-evolving and treacherous landscape of our movement. For the last 17 years Dr. Jacobs has helped us all write the story of community, and, as she finds a new journey, I know that we will continue on stronger because of her service.

    Delores, thank you will never be enough. As you step on to your new path, arm in arm with your family, know that we are beyond grateful and will always have your back.

    Persist with Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  322. The Purpose in our Parade

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    In 1974, when it was still legal to lobotomize gay men in the state of California, the Pride March was denied a permit here in San Diego. Undaunted, a brave few dozen from our community defiantly took to the streets, many of those folks were service members, and many wore paper bags over their heads to shield their identity in protection of their careers and very lives.

    Fast forward to 2011, before the repeal of DADT went into effect, when San Diego Pride became the first in the nation to have an official Military Contingent where hundreds of active duty service members marched in the daylight as their authentic selves. The very next year service members were granted full approval from the Department of Defense to march in uniform at San Diego Pride. Both of those Pride Parades were historic and made international news helping to shift a narrative about who comprises the LGBTQ community.

    In 2015 we founded the Pride Youth Marching Band, a first of its kind program bringing in talented LGBTQ youth from all over southern California to work and learn along side LGBTQ music instructors from around the region. Now a crowd favorite at the Parade and sponsored by the San Diego Unified School District; a far cry from the 1978 Parade where we marched to protect our LGBTQ educators against Anita Bryant and the Briggs initiative.

    In 1987 Pride marched to city hall to demand action amidst the AIDS crisis. In 2016 our parade was lead by our Latinx community as they carried signs with names, ages, and faces of the 49 lives we lost at Pulse. In 2017 over 50 leaders from different LGBTQ open and affirming congregations led the Parade to combat the ongoing attempts to use religion as a weapon against our community. Every year the spectrum of our community gets to shine in the free air in ways denied to us nearly every of other day. One month from today I hope you will march with us as your authentic self in front of the nearly quarter million people who all attend to lay down their difference and celebrate diversity, as together we Persist with Pride.

    March On.

  323. JOJO AND TLC JOIN SAN DIEGO PRIDE, FULL LINEUP RELEASED

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    Image Description: Jojo posing with a jacket half way down her arms

    Saturday Headliner, JoJo

    Outstanding LGBTQ entertainers and artists set to join TLC as part of San Diego Pride Festival 2018 lineup. The Pride Festival boasts over 50 LGBTQ-serving organizations, over 100 artists across four stages, and over 40,000 attendees.

    “It is my honor to stand in solidarity with Pride as we make strides towards true equality, protection, and inclusion,” said Saturday Headliner JoJo. “I adore seeing so many various expressions of individuality at Pride while all unified in love.”

    San Diego Pride Festival will take place at Marston Point in Balboa Park on Saturday, July 14 to Sunday, July 15.

    Lineup includes:

    • TLC were early supporters of the LGBTQ community who gave a voice and financial support to those living with HIV and AIDS.
    • JoJo credits the LGBTQ community with literally saving her life and has used her platform to highlight suicide prevention resources like the Trevor Project and Trans Lifeline.
    • LE1F is a queer black rapper and producer who has worked to directly confront the homophobia that exists within the genre.
    • Kim Petras is a breakout trans artist who uses her voice to discuss the importance of supporting trans youth.
    • Paris Sukomi Max is a local artist and icon, inspires our community daily to live life authentically open as a form of protest
    • Graciela Beltran is a Mexican singer who has championed anti-bullying efforts in support of LGBTQ youth.

    “I hope everyone will take the time to learn more about the bold and brilliant LGBTQ artists who will be attending Pride, and join us in enjoying their music at the Festival this July,” said Fernando Lopez, San Diego Pride’s Executive Director. “For many of us, Pride is the one time a year that we have to love and dance in the daylight, and I am so proud of our team for working diligently to ensure that the diversity on our stages reflects back to us all the diversity in our community.”

    Full line up, schedule, and more information about the festival can be found at sdpride.org/festival

    Guests are encouraged to save money and time by purchasing tickets in advance. Advance general admission tickets are $20 for single-day admission, $25 for a weekend pass. All GA tickets will be $30 at the gate. VIP access is $175 in advance or $200 at the gate. Meet & greet tickets are now available for TLC and JoJo. Volunteers and youth who are high school-aged and younger will be admitted free.

    Tickets can be purchased at bit.ly/sdpride18

  324. Full Entertainment Lineup

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    When Pride in San Diego first started, the march ended with a rally. As the march and rally grew, our community utilized that opportunity to organize, to provide information and resources, and to eventually add music and entertainment. From those brave beginnings, the Pride Festival now boasts over 50 LGBTQ-serving organizations, over 100 artists across four stages, and 40,000 attendees.

    This year at Pride we are honored to have with us diverse and gifted artists whose significance transcends their talent and offers a deeply meaningful message to our community: Headliners TLC, who were early supporters of the LGBTQ community, gave a voice and financial support to those living with HIV and AIDS; JoJo, who credits the LGBTQ community with literally saving her life, has used her platform to highlight suicide prevention resources like the Trevor Project and Trans Lifeline; LE1F, who is a queer black rapper and producer, has worked to directly confront the homophobia that exists within the genre; Kim Petras, who is a breakout trans artist, uses her voice to discuss the importance of supporting trans youth; Paris, a local artist and icon, inspires our community daily to live life authentically open as a form of protest; Graciela Beltran, is a Mexican singer who has championed anti-bullying efforts.

    These are just a few examples of the talent we have in store for you this year. I hope you will take the time to learn more about our LGBTQ artists and come to enjoy their music at Pride. For many of us, Pride is the one time a year that we have to love and dance in the daylight, and I am so proud of our team for working diligently to ensure that the diversity on our stages reflects back to us all the diversity in our community.

    Happy National Pride Month!

    Persist with Pride,

    Fernando Z. López
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  325. First Transgender State Legislator to Keynote Pride Rally

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    Danica Roem

    San Diego Pride kicks off Pride weekend with the Spirit of Stonewall Rally featuring the first transgender state legislator, Virginia Delegate Danica Roem, as the keynote speaker. The rally honors and recognizes LGBTQ leaders at the forefront of the movement for their activism, leadership, and philanthropy.

    Award recipients will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 13 at 6 pm at the Hillcrest Pride Flag located at 1500 University Ave.

    Pride celebrations everywhere trace their heritage to the Stonewall riots of 1969 when the LGBTQ community fought back against police brutality. That protest has grown to annual events held in over 1000 cities throughout the world. San Diego Pride’s Spirit of Stonewall Rally, first held in 1975, recognizes the leading activists preserving our successes, making critical progress, and addressing challenges that still face the LGBTQ community today.

    List of awardees include Community Grand Marshal, Alberto Cortes; Champion of Pride, Tinesia Conwright; Community Service, Liat Wexler; Friend of Pride, Terrie Vorono; Stonewall Philanthropy, SDCCU; and Stonewall Service, We Care Mixer.

    The full list of speakers includes Honorable Christine Kehoe; Senate President Pro Tempore Toni Atkins; Assemblymember Todd Gloria; Liat Wexler; Sakeenah Gallardo; Ryland Whittington, and keynote speaker Virginia Delegate Danica Roem.

    For more information about the speakers and awardees visit sdpride.org/rally.

    The national anthem will be sung by San Diego local Yvonne Gentile, with a special closing performance by the San Diego Pride Youth Marching Band as the Hillcrest Pride Flag is raised.

    Invite your friends on Facebook here: www.facebook.com/events/215007289252616

    After the rally, guests are encouraged to attend the block party located at the Hillcrest Pride Flag which is free and open to the public.

  326. Our Keynote Speaker Is…

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    Danica Roem

    The origins of the global Pride movement can trace their roots to the Stonewall riots of 1969, an uprising against police brutality that has spread around the world. Over 1,000 Pride events have been identified across the globe, each one taking on a local flair. In San Diego, we launch Pride weekend by honoring those beginnings with the Spirit of Stonewall Rally where we celebrate the accomplishments of those at the forefront of our movement and recommit to the work that lies ahead.

    Twenty-five years ago, San Diego voted in its first LGBTQ elected official, then City Councilmember Christine Kehoe. She would later go on to become a California State Assembly member and Senator, paving the way for San Diego to have the highest concentration of LGBTQ elected officials in the nation. That is why we are beyond thrilled to announce that Christine Kehoe will be opening up our rally during this very important election year and that the very first transgender person elected to a state office, Virginia delegate Danica Roem, will be our Keynote speaker.

    There is a vital election happening this coming Tuesday, and we need each and everyone one of you to engage in that process. So, while we hope you will join us in July to hear from our speakers and celebrate this year’s awardees, we need you all to turn out and vote. That is how we will Persist with Pride.

  327. Danica Roem

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    Virginia delegate Danica Roem

    Danica Roem represents the 13th District in the Virginia House of Delegates including the City of Manassas Park, Town of Haymarket, and Prince William County portions of Manassas and Gainesville. Delegate Roem is a 33-year-old step-mom, a lifelong resident of Prince William County, and the former lead reporter of the Gainesville Times. 

    Born at Prince William Hospital in Manassas in 1984, Danica spent four years in public school and 13 years in Catholic schools before graduating from St. Bonaventure University in western New York in 2006, earning a B.A. in Journalism/Mass Communication. She started working for the Gainesville Times a month after graduating and served as half of the full-time editorial staff.

    Danica worked two full-time jobs for four out of five years 2009 through 2014, covering federal and state politics at The Hotline (National Journal Group) before writing for Yoga Alliance, a nonprofit organization in Arlington that credentials yoga teachers. She has owned two LLCs, one for her mobile yoga studio and one for her band, which has toured the Mid-Atlantic, Midwest, Northeast and the U.K.

    On Aug. 3, 2015, Danica began working as the news editor of the Montgomery County Sentinel in Maryland, where she helped manage the newsroom and cover local stories in Rockville until stepping down from her post to run for office at the end of 2016. She ran for office to bring a reporter’s eye to Richmond and to speak truth to power.

    She covered transportation, economic development, education, land use and many other issues facing the residents of the 13th District from 2006-2015. Danica is the first transgender person to ever run for the Virginia General Assembly.

    Delegate Roem’s inspiring and transformative campaign gained national and international attention. As the first out transgender woman elected to a state legislature, Delegate Roem is blazing a new and unique trail. During her first legislative session this year, she was proud to champion bills important to her constituents. Delegate Roem continues to fight every day for her constituents in the 13th District.

  328. Sakeenah Gallardo

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    Sakeenah Gallardo

    Born and raised in Southeast San Diego, Sakeenah Gallardo graduated from Mt. Miguel High School, where her love for theater and public speaking began. Despite being a teenage mother, she knew the importance of having an education and went straight to college after high school, while simultaneously working one full-time and two part-time jobs.

    After working in corporate America for 12 years, the insurance industry did not bring her pleasure, so she decided to risk it all, quit her job, and live off her savings to work towards her dream of creating a better tomorrow. Sakeenah obtained her Bachelors and Masters Degrees in Communications from SDSU, where she used her thesis as a platform for her future research and purpose, as she found that the power of one’s voice should be cultivated, not silenced. She knew she had to use the power of her voice to make a difference in her community and achieved her dream of becoming a Communications Professor at San Diego Mesa College.

    A victim of childhood sexual abuse, Sakeenah has used her voice as a way of catharsis and education. Along with instructing, Sakeenah focuses her energies on the community, where she works with girls and women of all ages, teaching them the importance of having a voice. She founded SPEAAQ Inc., a platform focused on speaking out against sexual violence against young women and children. This program enables young women and children to find the strength to speak out against their abusers, in hopes of halting the cycle of abuse.

    She is currently happily married to her wife and enjoys spending time with her daughter during her visits home from college.

  329. SDCCU

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    SDCCU at the 2017 Pride Parade

    As San Diego’s largest locally-owned financial institution, with $8.4 billion in assets and more than 387,000 members, SDCCU is an engaged community partner. Each year, SDCCU is proud to support more than 75 non-profits and participate in over 400 community events.

    SDCCU’s community support includes sponsoring the annual San Diego Pride celebration and the organization’s mission to foster pride in and respect for all LGBTQ people. For the past five years, Team SDCCU, adorned in teal and rainbow, proudly sails the SDCCU sailboat along University and 6th avenues in the San Diego LGBTQ Pride Parade. During the parade, Team SDCCU marches (dances) past our branch on 5th and University in the heart of Hillcrest, which is decked out in a rainbow pride window cling and rainbow upward LED lighting year-round. Similar upward LED lighting can be found on sdccu.com Tower in North Park, at 32nd and University, to celebrate San Diego LGBTQ Pride week. Team SDCCU can also be found staffing a booth, with a Cool Zone lounge, at the two-day festival in Balboa Park.  

    Since 2014, SDCCU has proudly sponsored the San Diego LGBTQ Community center’s AIDS Walk/Run, San Diego’s largest fundraising event to help fight HIV/AIDS and stand up for those impacted by the disease.

    SDCCU is also a member of the Greater San Diego Business Association (GSBDA), an organization that supports small businesses in San Diego while advocating for mainstream acceptance of diversity. GSBDA is one of the largest specialty chambers in San Diego County and the second largest gay, lesbian and supportive chamber in the nation.

    Additionally, SDCCU has a partnership with the Hillcrest Business Association and sponsors various activities, including CityFest, in order to help keep the Hillcrest area fabulous.

    At SDCCU, we want to ensure that everyone feels welcome and supporting the LGBTQ community is one way to do that while helping an organizations that are serving the community and giving back.

  330. We Care Mixer

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    We Care Mixer

    It was in the fall of 2009 Fernando Buendia Laysa “Junior” realized that the students he was helping simply needed more!  Using the community he had created through the SDAFFL, SDTF, and SD Hoops, he began planning an event he called “We Care.”  With the help of CEO Dr. Jacobs of the SD LGBT Center and her staff, they were able to identify a school in need which was more than willing to accept funds from openly gay organizations in order to help the kids.  The free event served to do many things: raise money for underprivileged students at Memorial Prep and Fay Elementary, raise money for the youth programs at the LGBT Center, and bring in toys for the Imperial Court’s Toys for Kids Drive.  The local LGBT sports leagues and Junior’s friends and family all donate to a raffle which gives 100% of the proceeds back to the kids. The event has now grown to include SD High Rollers Bowling, SD Armada Rugby, SAGA Ski/Snowboard, AFCSL, Frontrunners SD and Different Strokes Swim Team. Lasting just a couple hours on a Sunday night for the last nine years, the event has attracted up to 800 people at a time and in total has raised just short of $50,000 and collected over 5,500 toys for local children from low-income families.  

    Junior believes that in order to help our LGBT community, it is important to set a great example for ALL youth, LGBT and heterosexual.  He believes that if you show all children and young adults love, and try to help them, they will grow to understand that a person’s sexuality has nothing to do with the amount of love he/she can give.  

    2018 marks the 10th anniversary for the We Care event.  

  331. Liat Wexler

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    Liat Wexler

    Liat Wexler is a genderqueer, white, femme, bi-national, hard-of-hearing, queer activist and survivor. They have worked to end intimate partner abuse and sexual assault since 1999 and currently train on social justice, intersectionality, anti-violence work, community accountability, and LGBTQIA+ communities. As Training Specialist with Center for Community Solutions, they have brought increased focus to LGBTQIA+ survivors, as well as access for people with disabilities. Liat has presented at statewide and national conferences on issues related to intimate partner and sexual violence within LGBTQIA+, polyamorous, and BDSM communities, and teaching advanced facilitation skills for trainers. They also engage in collaborations around San Diego including a task force to increase resources and improve responses to gay, bisexual, queer men and transmasculine people who are sexually assaulted. In coalition with SD LGBT Pride, Center for Community Solutions, The SD LGBT Community Center, North County Lifeline, and SD-CAMFT, Liat co-organized #MeTooLGBTQ: a day-long conference to improve providers’ skills and awareness and offer survivors support and healing.

    In addition to this work, Liat consults with organizations on trans inclusion projects such as: converting the bathrooms at Diversionary Theater, supporting school administrators from La Jolla to Lakeside in accommodating transgender students, and working with Planned Parenthood to more fully serve transgender patients. They regularly speak in classrooms and workplaces, and moderate panels on queer and trans issues.

    In 2011 Liat co-founded GenderQueer San Diego, the first non-binary group in the region. In 2012 they organized The T Spot, a trans contingent, and booth at Pride, served on Pride’s Diversity Task Force, and co-established San Diego’s annual Trans Pride in 2014 & 2015. They were involved with Visible Bodies: Transgender Narratives Retold, a 2013 photography and storytelling project documenting the beautiful resilience of San Diego’s communities. Liat is only here due to many brilliant collaborators and queer family.

  332. Alberto Cortes

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    Alberto Cortes

    Alberto moved to San Diego in 1983, after serving the United States Navy from 1979 to 1983. He served the submarine force on the USS Dace SSN 607. Soon after arriving he joined Dignity San Diego and also started volunteering with the San Diego AIDS Information Line (one of the first responses to the AIDS epidemic in San Diego).

    He has worked in the field of HIV in San Diego for over 30 years. His work has included some of the initial HIV prevention efforts in South San Diego County targeting the latino/a community, other HIV prevention efforts targeting communities of color; as well as involvement in the establishment in the first needle exchange program in San Diego County. For 16 years he has served as Executive Director of Mama’s Kitchen. Initially focused on the nutritional needs of people living with HIV, Mama’s Kitchen has expanded its mission to service people with critical illnesses, including HIV, cancer, congestive heart failure, and diabetes. In the process close to 9 million meals have been delivered to San Diego county residents.

    Alberto serves on the San Diego County HIV Health Services Planning Group (over 25 years on and off), a group that prioritizes services to be funded by federal HIV funds. He is a founding member of the LGBT Community Leadership Council.  Over the years Alberto has served on many nonprofit boards of directors including McAlister Institute, Being Alive San Diego, San Diego Men’s Chorus, Gay Men’s Chorus of San Diego, and Being Alive San Diego. For the last six years he has been a peer mentor to nonprofit leaders through the Fieldstone Leadership Network. And he sings second tenor with the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus.

  333. Terrie Vorono

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    Terrie Vorono

    Terrie Vorono is the current President of PFLAG San Diego County and is a board member of GLSEN San Diego. In a conversation decades ago she said, “If the world needs a parent for a gay child, let it be me.” She is the mother of two sons, Ben and Jake; Ben is gay. After sharing the information with her parents, they invited her to hear some people from PFLAG at an adult education class.

    Terrie attended a PFLAG SDC meeting 12 years ago and discovered people who could teach her how to be an advocate for her son and other people’s children. She asked to attend a board meeting and was invited to assume a board position and to become a support group facilitator. She’s served in many roles in the chapter and as president for several years.

    She attended a GLSEN board meeting to learn how PFLAG could support their mission and now serves on the board attending meetings and helping wherever she can at events.

    As PFLAG SDC President, Terrie is grateful for the opportunity to meet other LGBTQ supporting organization members, advocate for youth and the LGBTQ community, educate herself and others, and support families that have questions and concerns. She’s had the pleasure of sharing the PFLAG message in Portugal and with visitors from around the globe who hope to use PFLAG as a model to create a network of informed, supportive families worldwide. She has learned so much from the strong voices in the LGBTQ and ally communities in San Diego and is forever grateful for their generosity. She thanks her parents for teaching her that all human beings deserve respect and kindness and for guiding her to PFLAG.

    As of this though pales in comparison to her fearless dedication to our LGBTQ youth as an advocate and activist on the front lines of service. Terrie helped PFLAG lead the charge, alongside Pride, The Center, and GLSEN,  to reform San Diego Unified School District’s policies and implementation for LGBTQ youth. For years she has served on the Community Leadership Council’s Youth Services and Advocacy Committee, and SDUSD’s LGBTQ Advisory Committee.  Without Terrie’s bold passion, visionary dedication, and relentless strength, our region’s LGBTQ youth would not have seen the level of progress we all now know and love in San Diego. She is the embodiment of the word ally, and a true Friend of Pride.

  334. Christine Kehoe

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    Honorable Christine Kehoe

    Christine Kehoe became San Diego County’s first openly LGBTQ elected official when she was elected to the San Diego City Council in 1993.  She served as Council Member for District Three until 2000 when she was elected to the California State Assembly and to the California State Senate in 2004. During her time in the state legislature, she served as the Assembly Speaker pro Tempore, only the second woman to hold that title and she was the founding chair of the LGBT Legislative Caucus.  She left elected office in 2012, having forged a path for LGBTQ elected officials. Since her election in 1993, San Diego’s 3rd City Council district has been consistently represented by an openly LGBTQ elected official.

    In addition to her service as an elected official, Kehoe has a long history of activism and leadership in the community. She has served as coordinator of the 1986 campaign to defeat Proposition 84, the LaRouche AIDS discrimination ballot initiative; she was the volunteer coordinator of the AIDS Assistance Fund and the executive director of the Hillcrest Business Association. Kehoe was the editor of the weekly newspaper, The Gayzette, from 1984-1986.

    Kehoe’s long history as a leader in our community is specific to San Diego Pride, as well. In 1989, after years of Pride turmoil, she helped to form the Pride 15/20 committee. Kehoe became a co-chair, along with Scott Fulkerson. Through responsible budgeting, accounting, and staffing, the organization finished the year with a $20,000 surplus. Together with the other members of the committee, Kehoe took Pride to a new level and laid the foundation for the organization we have today.

    Christine Kehoe continues to be involved in the community, most recently and currently serving as co-chair of the Community Advisory Council for San Diego History Center’s LGBTQ+ San Diego: Stories of Struggles and Triumphs exhibit.

    She is an ardent supporter of increased environmental protection for California’s natural resources in her appointed positions on the California Coastal Commission; the Parks Forward commission and the California Transportation Commission.

    She lives in North Park with her spouse Julie Warren, artist and San Diego City College instructor.

  335. Tinesia Conwright

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    Tinesia Conwright

    Devoted community leader within the nonprofit and for-profit industries, was born and raised in Southeastern San Diego during the 1980s and 90s, at the peak of gang violence within a neighborhood facing large pockets of poverty and few opportunities for educational advancement and socio-economic mobility.

    Despite the challenging environment, she found an outlet to express her love for dance through a Christian youth group, where she realized the capacity within youth to impact social change and uplift their peers and community. She discovered her self-worth and met people within her community who inspired her to become the person she is today.

    She earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Public Administration from SDSU and her Master’s Degree in Nonprofit Management & Leadership from the USD. As she began to rise up the corporate ladder, she recognized a lack of black gay women in leadership roles, and began to make a difference within her community.

    Passionate about nurturing our future leaders of tomorrow, Tinesia launched, Depositing Empowerment Through Outreach & Urban Redevelopment (DETOUR), which has empowered over 1,000 girls through their Focused And Naturally Confident Youth (F.A.N.C.Y.) Teen Girls programs since inception. DETOUR is a mentoring program created to increase the amount of college-educated girls of color with viable employment in STEAM careers contributing to the economy and to our communities. Since 2016, 100% of the girls graduated from high school, and were accepted into 4-year universities where they are currently pursuing their college journey. Over half the girls entered into STEAM majors.

    When the San Diego black LGBT community united in 2010 to create an inclusive space, taking over the reins from Ebony Pride – Tinesia was involved in the creation of Urban Pride, a new organization of LGBT people of color who raised awareness of social and health issues amongst LGBT people of color, provided toy drives, and hosted community events.

    In 2012, when San Diego LGBT Pride decided to add a Hip Hop Stage to their annual festival – Tinesia was hand-picked by Cheli Mohammad to fulfill the role of the 1st Hip Hop Stage Manager, affectionately naming the stage Hip Hop Reloaded – and later “The Movement” to signify the progress made by our black LGBT community.

    Tinesia also worked with the entertainment team for 3 years at Club Skirts Dinah Shore Weekend popularly known as “The Dinah” – the largest girl party music festival in the world – hosted in Palm Springs. There she worked with the likes of Eve, Lady Gaga, Mary Lambert, Meagan Trainer, and Iggy Azalea.

    She is now a member of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, and provided insight to her journey and expertise as a panelist at the organization’s inaugural conference in 2017.

    Tinesia is a 2015 Bayard Rustin Civil Rights Honoree and currently serves on the City of SD Human Relations Commission and the SD Police Department Chief’s LGBT Advisory Board.

    She is currently happily married and enjoys spending time with her daughter during visits home from college.

  336. Our Global Impact

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    In 1981 San Diego Pride board member Doug Moore created a list of Pride organizers around the country, and from that list in 1982 InterPride was founded with a half dozen Pride organizations meeting in Boston that year. In 1983 the first official InterPride conference was then held in San Diego. Since that time, InterPride has grown into a truly international organization that brings together a global network of LGBTQI organizations and activists, shares knowledges and best practices, and is a wellspring for resources to be distributed around the world.

    As San Diego’s Pride has grown to be one of the most philanthropic Prides in the world, we have been able to find funding for trans women in Malaysia, deliver condom and lube access in Niger and Uganda, and give scholarship opportunities for folks to travel from around the globe and learn at InterPride about how they can better serve at home in their own nations.

    In partnership with the Department of State and the San Diego Diplomacy Council we have met with 411 delegates from 127 countries around the world in just the last few years, and this summer, during Pride weekend, we will be hosting LGBTQI leaders from Bangladesh, Bulgaria, Chile, Finland, France, Grenada, Israel, Pakistan, Papua New Guinea, Poland, Turkey, and Vietnam.

    We hope you will join us at this year’s Pride World Forum where each of you will have the opportunity to hear from these leaders about what the LGBTQI community’s joys and struggles look like in their countries. Hopefully, you will make some long lasting connections too. Let’s continue our tradition of building a worldwide network of LGBTQI support, so that globally we may Persist with Pride.

     

  337. International LGBT Leaders To Highlight Global Issues at San Diego Pride

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    In partnership with the Department of State and the San Diego Diplomacy Council, San Diego Pride will be hosting “Pride World Forum” where LGBTQI leaders from around the world will discuss issues facing our community in their respective countries.

    Pride World Forum will be held during Pride weekend at the San Diego History Center located in Balboa Park on July 15 from 11am to 12pm.

    Image Description: San Diego Pride's Executive Director, Fernando, mediating the panel of international guests

    2015 Pride World Forum

    In the current political climate, human rights and public safety for members of the LGBTQI community have been at the forefront of news, locally and globally. Over the last several years, San Diego Pride’s partnership with the San Diego Diplomacy Council has brought 411 delegates from 127 countries from around the world to meet and discuss LGBT issues.

    “For decades San Diego Pride has been at the forefront of building global connections within LGBTQI community, and through these partnerships we are able to make this important work even more accessible to our local community,” said Pride Executive Director, Fernando Z. López. “We hope you will join us at this year’s Pride World Forum where everyone will have the opportunity to not only hear from these international leaders about what the LGBTQI community’s joys and struggles look like in their countries, but to thoughtfully engage in human connection and citizen diplomacy.”

    International visitors include LGBTQI leaders from Bangladesh, Bulgaria, Chile, Finland, France, Grenada, Israel, Pakistan, Papua New Guinea, Poland, Turkey, and Vietnam as part of the Department of State’s International Visitor Leadership Program: “Resilient Societies: Strengthening Minority Gender Communities.” Our guests will be engaged in a number of local meetings and civic engagement opportunities as part of the program objectives include: examining U.S. and international initiatives to promote and protect the human rights of the LGBTQI community, and exploring equal access to educational, economic and healthcare opportunities for citizens with diverse gender identities and sexual orientations.

    “Each year in July, the San Diego Diplomacy Council looks forward to partnering with San Diego Pride to give LGBTQI world leaders and community members a chance to share experiences and inspire each other,” said San Diego Diplomacy Council Executive Director Fabienne Perlov. “The power of these exchanges extends beyond San Diego. The relationships that are created through visits like this one have built a powerful network of activists who work together to promote equality for LGBTQI communities around the world.”

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    After the forum, the San Diego History Center is offering tours of their upcoming exhibit titled, LGBTQ+ San Diego: Stories of Struggles and Triumphs. The exhibition showcases the struggles and triumphs of the LGBTQI community encompassing themes of identity, persecution, pioneers leading at the forefront, chosen family, and where the San Diego community is headed in the near future.

    Learn more about the History LGBTQ+ SD exhibition here.

  338. Volunteer Opportunities with Pride

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    Pride season is upon us, and volunteer shifts for Pride 2018 are filling up fast! With so many areas to volunteer with the decision can be a hard one so pick two, three or four volunteer shifts! You can even volunteer all weekend! See below for three of our most exciting opportunities.

    Parade Safety volunteers get a front row seat to all the excitement and memorable moments of the Parade while keeping the streets clear and safe for all contingents and Parade-go’ers!

    Shuttle Hosts hype the crowd and get them ready for the party by helping them get on the right shuttle to be taken to the Parade or Festival.

    Emergency Exit volunteers get to watch the festival from the sidelines & enjoy a quiet volunteer shift with little interaction. A quick, quiet shift is your ticket into the festival!

    Pick your volunteer shift here!

    Still can’t decide what department to choose from? Attend one of our info sessions. Learn more about our information sessions here.


    Can’t wait until Pride to volunteer? Sign up for events prior to Pride below!

    Join our Pride trivia team.

    We are looking for five trivia genius’ to join our Pride Trivia Team at The Center’s Games Night. Wanna play? To join our Pride Trivia team, contact Pride Civic & Community Outreach Coordinator Rick-Arlo Yahlira at [email protected]

    When: Wednesday, June 6, 6:15pm
    Where: San Diego LGBT Community Center
    3909 Centre St., San Diego, CA 92103


    Come with us to the fair!

    Pride needs volunteers to help staff the Pride Booth at Out at the Fair. We need five volunteers for the early shift and five for the late shift. To volunteer, contact Pride Civic & Community Outreach Coordinator Rick-Arlo Yahlira at [email protected]. Free admission to the fair is included with volunteering.

    When: June 9th, 2018
    Where: San Diego County Fair Grounds,
    2260 Jimmy Durante Blvd, Del Mar, CA 92014


    Poway Library Pride

    Pride has been invited to participate in the Poway Library Pride. We are looking for volunteers to help staff the Pride Information table. To volunteer, contact Pride Civic & Community Outreach Coordinator Rick-Arlo Yahlira at [email protected].

    When: Saturday, June 30, 10am – 12pm
    Where: Poway Library
    13137 Poway Rd., Poway, CA 92064

  339. What Would Harvey Do?

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    Harvey Milk

    Not everyone knows that Harvey Milk lived in San Diego before ever moving to San Francisco. He was stationed here while serving in the U.S. Navy and credited the experience with his love for California and his eventual move to SF.

    Because of these San Diego connections many of the historically significant ways we have found to honor Harvey’s legacy have started and been fueled by San Diegans. From awards to a bench in Balboa Park, a Harvey Milk Breakfast, the first street named after Harvey Milk, a US postage stamp, an upcoming definitive biography, and next year the USNS Harvey Milk Naval vessel – San Diegans led those efforts.

    These moments aren’t just about us honoring one man’s legacy, they are about flipping a public narrative that LGBTQ folks can and should be celebrated, not denigrated. We are collectively claiming our place in history, and we can’t do that unless we all stay actively engaged in that progress.

    Vote by mail ballots will soon be in your hands if that’s how you registered. There is still time to register to vote and to ask for a vote by mail ballot.

    San Diego has the highest concentration of LGBTQ elected officials in the country, and that representation only happens when we are a part of the process. If, as in the words of Harvey Milk, you want to “give them hope” then we all need to be a part of this process, and that is how we will Persist with Pride.

  340. Why only 9,000 people?

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    Vote With Pride

    In San Diego, in 2008, only 9,000 people volunteered on the “No on 8” and” Decline to Sign” campaigns that would have prevented California’s five-year constitutional ban on same-sex marriage.

    Why do I say only 9,000? Because on election day November 4, 2008, our community lost that election by just 2.25 percentage points, yet on November 15, 2008, nearly 30,000 people came out to protest those results in the streets of San Diego, and historically, in any given year, up to 400,000 people came out to celebrate at San Diego Pride’s Festival and Parade. If each of us who came out to protest or celebrate also committed to volunteering just one shift on an issue that mattered to us or as part of a non-partisan LGBTQ “Get OUT the Vote” campaign, think of how different our world would be.

    Every election has consequences from the top of the ticket to the bottom of the ballot. Yes, of course, we want you to come out to celebrate at Pride and know that if you Vote with Pride we, as a community, will Persist with Pride.

  341. What’s Your Agenda?

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    Out At The Park

    Recently, when working on Pride’s annual OUT at the Park event, I was asked, “What’s your agenda?” Many of us in our community understand the loaded nature of that question and how deeply it can cut. Our mission is to foster pride, equality, and respect for all LGBT communities—locally, nationally, globally; and that transformative work can take many forms.

    To this day, there is still a glass ceiling for our community in major league sports. Even locker rooms and PE classes remain unsafe spaces for our LGBTQ youth. That is why OUT at the Park is so important. We are striving to eradicate homophobia in athletic spaces.

    Last year, the Padres made history. Petco Park, home of the Padres, became the first MLB ballpark to have a gender-neutral, multi-stall restroom. Furthermore, their staff joined ours along with LGBT elected officials, the San Diego Women’s Chorus, and the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus to sing the national anthem in solidarity. This year, the Padres are taking further historic steps forward by having our Pride Youth Marching Band perform before the game, and by having our Military Department’s color guard to present the colors.

    Rainbow hats are great, but the Padres’ efforts towards intentional inclusion and the dismantling of discrimination are the real home runs in my book. That is our agenda, and that is how, together, we Persist with Pride.

  342. Pride Without Borders

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    Pride Without Borders

    Being born with talent, brilliance, or being born LGBTQ is as equally spread throughout the world as human life. What is not equally distributed is opportunity. San Diego Pride works year-round to change that dynamic through education, advocacy, and creating new opportunities for those of us in the LGBTQ community to learn and thrive. We manifest this work through our efforts in our youth programswomen’s programstrans programs, and more.

    After the U. S. Consulate in Tijuana, Mexico marched in San Diego Pride for the first time last year,  we were asked if we could convene a meeting to address how we could all better support the LGBTQ community in  Tijuana. Since that time, a binational coalition of organizations and individuals from San Diego Pride, the ACLU, The Center, Councilmember Georgette Gómez’ office, and the U. S. Consulate has been working together to put on an LGBTQ leadership development conference in Tijuana in May of this year entitled Orgullo Sin Fronteras (Pride without Borders).

    We may be two cities in two nations, but we are one, global LGBTQ community. Some may wish to focus on building walls, but we at Pride are looking to build bridges with our LGBTQ community wherever we may live. Our San Diego LGBTQ community has a long history of working with and supporting our siblings south of the border, and we hope to strengthen that support and their local leadership capacity, as together we persist with pride.

    Esta conferencia se llevará a cabo en español.

  343. Yes, #MeToo (Warning: Sensitive)

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    #MeTooLGBTQ

    It was five years ago when I became the victim of rape, right here in my own community. In my journey to find support and treatment, I kept bumping into the lack of LGBTQ culturally competent care and information. As I began to share my story with friends, family, and community I heard from too many an ever-growing chorus of voices saying, “Me too.”

    What started with a small group of bisexual and gay men grew into the GBTQ Survivor Task Force as we attempted to bring better more culturally competent care to our community.

    Next month, April, is Sexual Assault Awareness Month (SAAM), and about five years from the day I woke up to find my body in ashes, Pride is partnering with The San Diego LGBT Community Center, Center for Community Solutions, California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists – San Diego Chapter, North County Lifeline, and 211 to host the #MeTooLGBTQ conference that we may all rise to acknowledge the issues of sexual assault in the LGBTQ community. Survivors and community members will learn about services, care, and intervention methods, while service providers will be better trained on how to address the needs of LGBTQ survivors. Together we will Persist with Pride.

  344. Join the Revolution!

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    LGBT Youth Art Show

    Art provides for us a method of showcasing our inner joys, fears, brilliance, and stubborn realities. It hands us a way to rip off the veil of convention and bare personal truth to be laid out for subjective interpretation, but if we aren’t provided the luxury of the resources to create art or space to have its honesty showcased, then what voices and experiences are we missing out on?

    As our youth-led programs have expanded, our youth asked us to have a Youth Art Show, and we said, “yes.” Pride provided the tools, training, and space to highlight youth voices through art at a show they called “Reflections” where they bore out their hearts to reveal to us the realities of LGBTQ youth experience through the lens of individual art.

    This year, they asked for the Youth Art Show’s theme to be “Revolutionary” a look at the LGBTQ revolution through the eyes of young LGBTQ artists. The work that has been brought in is deep, compelling, and inspiring.

    When done with intention, the use of art, poetry, and music can truly be a revolutionary act. Creating civic and artistic spaces where the LGBTQ community can be comfortably and authentically themselves is a social justice issue.

    We hope you’ll join us this Saturday for the art show, later this month for OUT at the Opera, later this year at the Pride Festival, and all throughout the year as we, through our many forms of art, Persist with Pride.

  345. Meet our new Pride Family!

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    Description: New Pride Staff, Jen and Natasha

    Welcome New Pride Staff: Jen and Natasha

    In my nearly seven years at Pride, I have seen some incredibly dedicated, skillful, and brilliant community leaders serve this organization in a variety of roles: as board members, staff, and volunteers. Each brings a unique perspective and vision that elevates how we serve our community. Our newest Pride Family members are no exception to that. Please welcome to the family Natasha Anderson and Jen LaBarbera.

    Natasha will serve our Pride’s Operations Manager as she oversees the organization ’s day-to-day workings, keeping our programs on track and on budget. She brings with her a background in event planning, a passion for arts and culture, and an eye for policy.

    Jen is serving in a new position at Pride—Education and Advocacy Manager—where she will oversee Pride’s extensive youth, community partner, voter engagement, and education programs. Jen’s background as a historian, educator, and organizer make her uniquely qualified for this new role.

    Both of these exceptional women have their hearts and minds securely pinned to serving the LGBTQ community through the lens of intersectional social justice. Both are graduates from The Center’s YPC Academy. I hope you will join me in welcoming them to the Pride Family.

    You can learn more about them and the rest of our team here on our website.

  346. Pride in Black History

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    2018 Bayard Rustin Civil Rights Honors

    It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences.” – Audre Lorde, lesbian, writer, feminist, womanist, librarian, and civil rights activist

    As LGBTQ folks we know that representation matters. Think of the joy we feel when we see reflections of LGBTQ lives in the media and in movies. Beyond the silver screen, think of how we feel when we see LGBTQ representation in our business and community leaders, elected officials, and in our history books. It is vital that we all take time to honor the legacy of LGBTQ Black community members who have shattered glass ceilings and stood at the front lines. Let’s celebrate the lives and accomplishments of folks like Marsha P. Johnson, Miss Major Griffin-Gracy, Glenn Burke, Stormé DeLarverie, and Janet Mock whose brilliance and persistence has inspired generations of us. I hope you will join Pride, as the Imperial Court de San Diego hosts the Bayard Rustin Civil Rights Honors, and please take time to nominate those who inspire you for the upcoming Spirit of Stonewall Awards.

  347. Let’s Give Them Hope…

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    Interfaith Shelter Network: LGBTQ Summit

    Forty percent of homeless youth identify as LGBTQ. Most cite familial rejection as the reason for their homelessness. Once upon a time, I did too. While great progress has been made in California and in San Diego, we know that far too many LGBTQ young people are born into situations where they lack support from friends, family, faculty, and/or faith.

    Faith has all too often been used as a weapon against our community, but so too has it been used as a shield and shelter for us. In San Diego, there are over 90 open and affirming congregations (and their numbers are growing) that have stood at the front lines of the LGBTQ fight for justice. These LGBTQ-affirming institutions and leaders of faith have helped us to get married, to lead our marches, and to build bridges of compassionate understanding in even the darkest of situations.

    Now a new opportunity has arisen for these places of worship to become shelters for some of our most vulnerable. With the goal of providing stability and safety for members of our community who are experiencing homelessness, Pride is proud to partner with Mayor Kevin Faulconer’s office and with the Interfaith Shelter Network to create new LGBTQ-affirming spaces. If it weren’t for the kindness of a stranger had given me shelter 18 years ago, I wouldn’t be alive today. I hope that you will harness the power of your personal connections and your connections with nonprofits and with personal places of worship to answer this call that with love and faith we may extend hope to those in need.

  348. Pride’s 2018 Theme Is…

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    San Diego Pride 2018 Theme Logo

    Over the last year, our diverse communities have been burdened by the brunt of a rise in hate, violence, and political attacks; we’ve been here before. We have seen leadership in this country denigrate and discriminate against entire segments of society with name calling, lies, and policy changes that rip apart our families and deny us basic dignity; we’ve seen this before. We are well aware of the increasing threats to our employment, voting rights, access to health care, and even attempts to prevent us from receiving lifesaving services and care, giving many a license to discriminate against the most vulnerable of us; we’ve lived through this before.

    The road to justice and liberation has been long, and many of us are tired, but we also hear the call to press forward. I have no doubt that together we are stronger. As each generation learns from one another, each community brings forward its support, each mind brings forward its brilliance, and we together breathe deep and lean into the struggle. For these reasons and all that we will collectively bring to that journey, we are proud to announce that this year’s Pride theme is “Persist with Pride.”

    This year you will be asked to lift your voice, to volunteer, and to vote. I hope you will all answer that call, as together we all persist with pride.

    Please take a moment to look at many of the upcoming ways you can engage with Pride, and please take a moment to nominate the people and organizations for this year’s Spirit of Stonewall Awards. There are many whose persistence inspires us all. Help us honor them.

  349. 2017 Pride Youth Leadership Academy Applications Now Open!

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    San Diego LGBT Pride is proud to announce that applications for the Youth Leadership Academy are now open. The Youth Leadership Academy is a one-day workshop packed with empowering educational discussions, outdoor activities, and bonding exercises. Educational sessions will include an introduction to LGBT history, youth advocacy, higher education, and civic engagement.

    The applications for the San Diego LGBT Pride Youth Leadership Academy, which is open to junior high- and high-school-aged youth, are now open. The academy will take place on Saturday, November 11, 2017, from 8:30 am to 5:15 pm at the San Diego Pride office located at 3620 30th St., San Diego, CA 92104.

    “Participating in the Youth Leadership Academy was an amazing experience,” said Sam Palma, YLA leader and senior at Morse High School. “It was really interesting to listen to those in our community that identify as LGBTQIA+ speak about their experiences being out in their community. The Academy is a good way to make new friends and learn about some resources that could be beneficial, so don’t hesitate to sign up!”

    “I learned how to be a leader in my community from listening to the panelists of elected officials, business people, and students who are out in our community talking about their stories,” said Jay Sieber, freshman at San Diego High School. “When I first did the Youth Leadership Academy, I met so many new friends that I still have to this day.”

    San Diego LGBT Pride is accepting applications until October 29, 2017. Interested youth may apply at www.sdpride.org/youth-leadership-academy and RSVP to the Facebook event here.

    For more information, please email Youth Programs Manager Josh Coyne at [email protected].

     
  350. Pride To Honor Origins With Spirit of Stonewall Rally in Hillcrest

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    San Diego Pride is proud to announce the 2017 recipients of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. Pride annually accepts nominations from the community to recognize individuals, organizations, and groups who have contributed significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and fundraising efforts. The annual Spirit of Stonewall Rally kicks off Pride weekend by commemorating the Stonewall Riots of 1969, when the LGBT community bravely fought back against discrimination.

    The award recipients will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally on Friday, July 14 at 6:00 PM at The Hillcrest Pride Flag, 1500 University Ave in San Diego. This year the rally is sponsored by the Hillcrest Business Association and the Pride of Hillcrest Block Party will begin immediately after the rally.

    “The marginalization of the LGBTQ community, people of color, immigrants, women, religious minorities, seniors, people with disabilities, and other oppressed communities is compounded exponentially at the intersection of these lived experiences,” said San Diego Pride Director of Operations, Fernando Lopez. “It is with this in mind that our theme this year is ‘Allied in Action: United for Justice.’ Our work is not yet done, and we hope that all people will feel welcomed and inspired into action by this year’s events.”

    This year’s recipients include:

    Champion of Pride – Dr. Delores Jacobs
    Community Grand Marshal – Russ Roybal
    Community Grand Marshal – Susan Jester
    Stonewall Service Award – San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus
    Inspirational Couple – Meredith Vezina and Ellen Holzman
    Inspirational Couple – Ernie Castro and Mike Goupill
    Friend of Pride – Kathie Moehlig
    Friend of Pride – Zachary Schlagel
    Stonewall Philanthropy Award – Harrah’s Resort Southern California
    Community Service – Josh Coyne

    To learn more about each award recipient and their contributions visit www.sdpride.org/2017-awardees

    The Rally will also host California State Assemblymember Todd Gloria as the keynote speaker. Other speakers include Chris Ward, Georgette Gómez, Bridget Wilson, Dwayne Crenshaw, and Gloria Cruz. To learn more about the speakers visit www.sdpride.org/2017-stonewall-speakers/.

    The National Anthem will be sung by America’s Got Talent Season 11 finalist and San Diego native, Brian Justin Crum.

    For more information on this event, please visit our website at www.sdpride.org/rally.

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.

    The Pride Parade begins Saturday, July 15 at 11:00 AM at the Hillcrest Pride Flag. Find more information about the parade at https://sdpride.org/parade/. Attendance is FREE.

    The Pride Music Festival is held Saturday, July 15 and and Sunday, July 16 at Marston Pt. in Balboa Park. For more information and tickets visit https://sdpride.org/festival/.

    Visit our website at www.sdpride.org.

    Like us on Facebook here.

    Follow us on social media!
    Twitter: @SanDiegoPride
    Instagram: @sandiegopride

  351. En Vogue and more come out to Pride San Diego

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    San Diego Pride is thrilled to announce that multi-platinum female music group, En Vogue, will be headlining at San Diego’s Pride Festival this July!

    En Vogue is recognized as one of the top 5 highest selling American female music groups of all time. For the last 2 decades, they’ve produced R&B and Pop hits like Hold On, Free Your Mind, Whatta Man featuring Salt N Pepa and their newest single, I’m Good.

    “We are excited to perform at San Diego Pride this year! It’s always been important to us to use our voices to speak about something of substance. We’re proud to stand allied in action with the LGBTQ community.” said En Vogue

    “Our community volunteer lead team has been working diligently to put together a phenomenal Pride celebration that reflects the beautiful and authentic diversity of our community,” said Fernando Lopez, Director of Operations for San Diego Pride. “We can’t wait to announce the full spectrum of LGBTQIA artists who will be showcasing their incredible talents this year in San Diego’s beautiful Balboa Park!”

    Additional headlining artists include Hector Fonseca, Cazwell, Kodie Shane, Cakes Da Killa, Lucia Mendez, Jessica 6 featuring Nomi Ruiz, and Paris Sukomi Max. More top tier talent and a full entertainment line up will be announced in early June.

    San Diego’s Pride Festival will take place July 15 – 16, 2017 in Balboa Park, and will include over 90 acts across 4 different stages. In 2016 the Pride Festival had over 27,000 attendees from 464 cities, and 12 countries around the world. Pre-sale tickets for 2017 are already up 42% year-to-date.

    For tickets and information about San Diego Pride visit www.sdpride.org

    Invite your friends on Facebook here.

  352. San Diego Pride and Fabulous Hillcrest are Working Together!

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    Who: Hillcrest Business Association & San Diego Pride
    What: Pride Block Party & Spirit of Stonewall Rally
    Where: Hillcrest Pride Flag
    When: July 15, 2017, 5:00 pm -11:00 pm

    For the 6th consecutive year, San Diego Pride and Fabulous Hillcrest are working together to bring one of the biggest Pride events to San Diego: Pride Block Party. We are making a collaborative effort to showcase unity and leadership by returning the Stonewall Rally to the heart of Hillcrest alongside the Block Party. Together these events will mark the official kickoff party to our San Diego Pride weekend.

    The Pride Block Party is a neighborhood event and includes Hillcrest’s favorite DJs, luminescent carnival rides, guest performances, two massive bars, and a spacious dance area. 100% of the proceeds go towards the maintenance of the Hillcrest Pride Plaza.

    “Our community and this country could use a little more unity right now. By bringing these two organizations together over Pride weekend to honor our history and celebrate our accomplishments we’re also highlighting all that is possible when we work together,” said Fernando Lopez, Director of Operations for San Diego Pride.

    San Diego Pride’s 43rd Spirit of Stonewall Rally is a time to celebrate our LGBTQ community leaders and serves as a call to action for the challenging work that lies ahead. This year’s Trans Pride will march towards the iconic Hillcrest Pride Plaza to join the rally which concludes with a beautiful Pride Flag raising ceremony.

    Benjamin Nicholls, Executive Director of the Hillcrest Business association says, “I am so happy that the Stonewall Rally is returning to Hillcrest this year. Unity is so important as we go forward in an ever more uncertain and difficult world. I know the businesses of Hillcrest are excited to be part of the kick off of Pride 2017!”

    The Spirit of Stonewall Rally is free and open to the public! General admission for the block party are on presale for $20, and VIP passes are on sale for $45. You can visit www.fabuloushillcrest.com or www.sdpride.org to purchase tickets.

  353. San Diego Pride 2017 Theme Announcement

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    National and international LGBT rights are uncertain at best, given the changes brought about by the recent election, and as such our solidarity at the intersection of social justice movements is clearly vital to the success of our community’s ability to advance.

    The marginalization of women, communities of color, seniors, people with disabilities, immigrants, religious minorities, and other oppressed communities is compounded exponentially when those identities are combined, and even more so when they include those who are transgender, bisexual, lesbian, or gay.

    The systems that oppress our groups can only be dismantled through joint efforts, and the creation of systems that lift us collectively to progress can only truly thrive if undertaken with unified intention.

    At times, even dissonance within the LGBT community itself can impede our pursuit of equality, whether caused by the gay and lesbian divide, bi-erasure, or transphobia. Therefore, showing unity through and with diversity is paramount to prosperity.

    It is with this in mind that we are proud to announce San Diego Pride’s 2017 theme:
    Allied in Action: United for Justice

    It is our hope that this theme will invite our LGBTQIA participants and guests to feel free to be their full authentic selves across a spectrum of identities, share their unique messages, and know that not only are they welcome, but that we stand by them ready to heed the call to action.

  354. San Diego Padres and LGBT Groups Join Forces in Show of Solidarity

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    Join San Diego Pride as we team up with the Padres for the best OUT at the Park yet, as the Padres take on the Miami Marlins at 7:10 pm on Friday, April 21st at Petco Park.
     
    San Diego Pride’s event at Petco Park has been a community favorite for LGBT families and Padres fans for many years. Unfortunately, at last year’s event, a technical error resulted in a recorded female soloist singing the National Anthem instead of the 100 San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus members who had gathered to sing in center field. Emerging out of this incident has come a deeper dialogue between the San Diego Padres and the LGBT community, which has primed San Diego for what promises to be the best OUT at the Park to date.
     
    “The San Diego Padres have been amazing! They partnered with our LGBT community this past year to make incredible things happen. The Padres have now set the gold standard for LGBT inclusion among all professional sports. We are so proud to return to Petco Park to sing the National Anthem together with them and our entire community,” said Bob Lehman, Executive Director, San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus.
     
    “The Padres are grateful to San Diego Pride and the San Diego Gay Men’s chorus for their guidance and collaboration in strengthening our relationship with the LGBT community over the past 10 months,” said Padres Vice President of Community Relations Sue Botos. “We are proud of the partnership that has grown from a series of very honest and genuine conversations, and we look forward to standing together at Petco Park in April.”
     
    This year’s event promises greater visibility and support for San Diego’s LGBT community. Each $25 OUT at the Park ticket purchase includes a seat in our OUT at the Park section*, a commemorative Padres hat**, $5 donation to San Diego Pride or the America’s Finest City Softball League and access to the pre-game VIP space in Park at the Park (food and drinks not included).
     
    Guests are invited to arrive early to enjoy our pre-game, family-friendly “Tailgate Party” happy hour event in our VIP space from 5-7 pm in Park at the Park. The event is in conjunction with CocktailFest, featuring openly gay DJ Will Z. Participants will then be seated with our group to watch history in the making as San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, the San Diego Women’s Chorus, San Diego Pride, and Padres staff perform the National Anthem together on the field. The Padres have committed to increased LGBT visibility by flying the rainbow flag over Petco Park, decorating the “Tailgate Party” and group seating areas with rainbows, and highlighting our community through the HD video board and guest participation with the use of #OATP.
     
    “This nation needs to see that beyond our biggest challenges we can make great strides if we are willing to cross sometimes uncomfortable barriers and build bridges of understanding. San Diego Pride remains committed to bringing people together and educating the broader community about the struggles LGBT people face every day. Together, we can accomplish that at a parade, a festival, a rally, a classroom, and even a ball game as we all pursue justice with joy,” said Fernando Lopez, San Diego Pride Director of Operations.
     
    Get your tickets now at Padres.com/pride
     
    After the game join us for the official OATP after party at Rich’s! Bring your eticket, ticket stub, or wear your rainbow Padres hat to get in FREE before midnight!
     
    *subject to availability
    **The first 1,500 fans to purchase Padres OUT at the Park tickets will receive a commemorative hat
  355. We Are Here: Reflections of LGBTQ Lives

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    On Saturday, March 11th, San Diego LGBT Pride, in partner with Art of Pride and The Trevor Project, hosted their first LGBTQ+ youth art show, We Are Here: Reflections of LGBTQ Lives. This event was hosted by San Diego Pride youth volunteers as an opportunity for young people in our community to share their stories.

    Twenty-three pieces were submitted by 21 LGBTQ+ artists from 14 different schools. The purpose of the art show was to create a positive form of expression that would reflect the experiences, stories and emotions of today’s LGBTQ+ youth. Some of the narratives included difficulties with coming out, being comfortable in one’s own body, transgender issues and the ongoing struggle of expectations and acceptance.

    “The beauty of art is that it can give us a glimpse into the raw and authentic reality of these young LGBTQ+ lives,” said Fernando Lopez, San Diego Pride’s Director of Operations. “The art has been compelling, inspiring, and sometimes even painful to see.”

    From 6pm to 8pm, more than 100 art lovers, youth supporters, faculty, family, friends and community members visited the art show. The entire event was built by and for LGBTQ+ youth. These young people from Pride’s Youth Programs envisioned the event, created their marketing materials, did their own outreach, hosted our guests and even provided the light snacks and refreshments.

    “Programs like this art show are really about making a space where our youth can be empowered to realize their own vision. We as Youth Program Coordinators are here to give them the support and guidance they need to be successful.” -Alex Villafuerte, San Diego Pride’s Marketing and Communications Manager

    “The Art Show is an expression of our lives and how our identities affect our experiences,” said Edward Estrada, 17-year-old SCPA student and Pride youth volunteer. “We are a culmination of our intersections, bound together by our LGBTQ identities and ready to express ourselves to the greater community.”

    The following schools were represented this year:

    Scripps Ranch High School
    Lewis Middle
    La Jolla High School
    The Bishop’s School
    Canyon Crest Academy
    Valhalla High School
    San Diego SCPA
    Morse High School
    Cathedral Catholic
    Steele Canyon High School
    Altus Charter School
    SET High School
    Cajon Valley Middle School
    Roosevelt Middle School
    Santana High School    

    The art exhibit is available for viewing until the middle of May at the San Diego Pride office. For more information regarding San Diego LGBTQ+ Youth Programs, click here.

    Here are a few of the many amazing pieces submitted at this year’s youth art show.

    I’m A Lot Like You, Riley Sullivan
    Canyon Crest Academy, 9th grade

    Sometimes it can feel like you’re the only one in the world, but really friends and allies are everywhere if you look, just waiting for you to see them too! Reaching out to each other can be an amazing source of strength and love.

     His Name Was, Kyra D’Augusta
    Steele Canyon High School, 10th grade

     Maria Tallchief, Taté Garcia
    Altus Charter School of San Diego, 10th grade

    This painting depicts the accomplished Osage ballet dancer Maria Tallchief. Tallchief was a trailblazer for Native Americans in the world of dance and mainstream media. Her talent took her to heights such as principal dancer of New York City Ballet for 13 years, and won her awards such as the Kennedy Center Honors for artistic contribution to the United States, the National Medal of Arts, and an induction to the National Women’s Hall of Fame.

    Queer Fear, Kathie Fang
    Scripps Ranch High School, 12th grade

    A portrait of a non-binary individual with many worrying thoughts exploding within their mind. Whether that be telling their parents or friends about their identity or finding social comfort and acceptance. This piece is in honor of my friend who has attempted suicide for being gender queer.

     Perennials Endure, and Last Forever, Claire Guang
    The Bishop’s School, 12th grade

    Don’t Disappoint, Breeze Stinde
    School of Creative and Performing Arts, 10th grade

    The piece is meant to represent how I feel: almost out of control with my responsibilities and that I’m constantly worried I’m disappointing my loved ones and that I’m not enough.

    Trans Rights, Leon McCormack
    Lewis Middle School, 7th grade

    Art to support my trans rights. Gays and lesbians get all the attention, but trans is so much harder for others to accept.

    What the Night Brings Out, Mila Corvino
    Cathedral Catholic School, 12th grade

    It symbolizes what I have gone through, being at Catholic school and coming was very hard at first I felt like I could be myself in certain places and around certain people. I used the night to symbolize secrecy, to represent that I was only comfortable being myself in secret.

    Progression, Sam Palma
    Morse High School, 11th grade

    This piece represents me and how I have changed throughout the course of seventeen years. It not only shows where I am going, but where I have been as well.

    untitled, Zoe Roman
    The School for Entrepreneurship and Technology, 12th grade

  356. San Diego Pride To Give $80,000 To LGBT Serving Nonprofit Organizations

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    grant-check-presentationSan Diego LGBT Pride is pleased to announce that due to the success of this year’s Pride event, we are able to donate $80,000 of our proceeds back to 40 LGBT-serving organizations through our annual Pride Community Grant Program.

    Each year Pride works to return profits from the annual LGBT Pride weekend to the community. Over the years, San Diego Pride’s community contributions have exceeded 2 million dollars, which have been distributed to dozens of organizations through Pride Community Grants, sponsorships, and event support.

    “Pride’s annual celebration, year-round advocacy and education efforts serve our community well, but no one organization can do it all, which is why our grant programs are so vital,” said Fernando Lopez, San Diego Pride Director of Operations. “Pride grants help to fund HIV testing, LGBT youth programs, sobriety services, programs that support our transgender community, LGBTQ arts and culture, QPOC programs, and a variety of other LGBTQ health and human services that our community relies on and enjoys.”

    List of Grant Recipients:
    2-1-1 San Diego, Being Alive San Diego, Breakthrough Workshop Theatre, CASA RUBY, DETOUR – Depositing Empowerment Through Outreach & Urban Redevelopment, Diversionary Theatre, Family Health Centers of San Diego (FHCSD), Fierté Simcoe Pride, FilmOut, GLSEN, Greater San Diego Business Association (GSDBA), Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center, Lambda Archives of San Diego, Lead the Way, Live and Let Live Alano Club, Mama’s Kitchen, Mental Health America, North County LGBTQ Resource Center, PFLAG San Diego County, Political Animals, RISE San Diego – LGBTQ Fellows Initiative, San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, San Diego LGBT Visitors Center, San Diego Unified Council of PTAs, San Diego Women’s Chorus, SEED – Malaysia, Special Delivery San Diego, Stepping Stone of San Diego, Strength for the Journey, The San Diego LGBT Community Center, The Industry – Chula Vista, The Neutral Corner, The Recovery Ride, The Trevor Project, Trans Youth Project, TransFamily Support Services, TransPride 2017, Uptown Community Service Center, and Y.E.S. San Diego

    “This year’s success is something that the entire community can take pride in. Whether you’re a volunteer, a sponsor, a ticket buyer, or one of the 20+ community organizations we work with to make Pride happen, you should know that the support and hard work you put into Pride is now helping to serve our community beyond just one weekend a year, and bringing critical resources to a spectrum of LGBTQ programs and lives,” said Sarafina Scapicchio, San Diego Pride Director of Development.

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

  357. City of San Diego to Honor LGBT Community Leader

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    CITY OF SAN DIEGO TO HONOR LGBT COMMUNITY LEADER

    November 1, 2016

    fernando-fixes-his-tieSan Diego Pride’s Director of Operations, Fernando Lopez, is to be honored with a City of San Diego Human Relations Commission Commendation on Wednesday, November 16th.

    A letter sent to Lopez from Joel Day, Executive Director of the City San Diego Human Relations Commission, stated:

    “On behalf of the City of San Diego’s Human Relations Commission, it is our pleasure to inform you of our desire to honor and recognize your work across San Diego to promote dignity, diversity, and inclusion. You are to be awarded a Commission Commendation at this year’s HRC Awards Ceremony. Your work at Pride has become part of the fabric of who we are as a City and we are grateful for your tireless commitment to making San Diego a ‘World Class City for All.’

    It is the mission of the Human Relation Commission to protect basic human and civil rights, promote activities that foster mutual respect, understanding and dignity, and create an atmosphere of amicable relations among all members of the San Diego community. We see that the work you are doing demonstrates a commitment and dedication to similar goals.”

    “We are so thrilled that the substantial advocacy work Fernando does every day here at San Diego Pride continues to be recognized in the greater community! Whether he is shining a light on global inequality by bringing in dozens of LGBT delegates to Pride World Forum every year, speaking with a GSA in Santee, taking a field trip with our Pride Youth Lunch Bunch, or organizing with community partners to help the implementation of the FAIR ACT in our local public schools, you can be sure that he is always hard at work on projects that will make the world a safer place for our LGBT community,” said Sarafina Scapicchio, San Diego Pride Director of Development. “We could not be prouder.”

    “Fernando’s ability to see opportunity in the community and strategically bring organizations and community leaders together to implement positive change is admirable,” said Josh Coyne, Co-Chair of The Trevor Project – San Diego. “Our collaboration over the last few years has not only benefited The Trevor Project, but has allowed us to better the lives of LGBTQIA+ youth. I’m proud to call him a mentor, colleague, and, most importantly, a friend.”

    “We are so lucky to have Fernando at Pride. On behalf of the San Diego Pride board of directors, congratulations Fernando and thank you for all of the amazing work you do!” said Bianca Burt, Co-Chair, San Diego Pride.

    “We are so pleased that Fernando is being recognized for the great work he does in the community,” said Maureen Steiner, Board President of Lambda Archives of San Diego.  “Fernando’s own story is an inspiration, and the fact that he so freely shares it to inspire others is his gift to us all.”

    The award will be presented on Wednesday, Nov. 16, 2016, at the City’s Central Library Shiley Special Events Suite with the theme “I See You.” The event is free and open to the public. The reception begins at 5:30 p.m. with the award ceremony lasting until 7 p.m.

    Click here for Fernando’s Bio.

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    San Diego Pride’s Mission: Fostering Pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities locally, nationally, and globally.

    The City of San Diego Human Relations Commission conducts and promotes activities that foster mutual respect and understanding, protects basic human and civil rights and creates an atmosphere that promotes amicable relations among all members of the San Diego community.

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  358. Pride Update

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    Pride Update

    Contacts Jim Seal, male co-chair: [email protected]

    Lynn Wallace-Barnes, acting female co-chair: [email protected]

    The Board of San Diego LGBT Pride is continuing a dialogue with the community through public comment at the monthly meetings. Additionally, meetings have been held between board members and key members of the community.

    Minutes of Board meetings have been updated and posted on the Pride website. The server has been down, but is now operational.

    The board, staff, volunteers, and community partners are developing plans for Pride 2017 and continuing Pride’s year-round programming, including the Pride Youth Leadership Academy, the Vote with Pride get-out-the-vote effort with The Center, and the Pride Youth Lunch Bunch with the Trevor Project. Work has begun on the partnership projects Out at the Park with the Padres, Out at the Fair, and SheFest. Production meetings for Pride 2017 have begun. 2016 Pride Community Grant applications are open.

    Applications for the board of directors are encouraged and always welcome. The form is available on the website. Information for volunteer positions is also available on the website.

    www.sdpride.org

  359. San Diego Pride Opens 2016 Community Grant Applications

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    SAN DIEGO PRIDE OPENS 2016 COMMUNITY GRANT APPLICATIONS

    SAN DIEGO, California (September 29, 2016) – San Diego LGBT Pride is pleased to announce that due to the success of this year’s Pride event, themed “Pride Unites the World,” we are able to continue our tradition of community giving.

    Pride strives each year to return profits from the annual LGBT Pride weekend to the community. San Diego Pride’s community contributions have exceeded 2 million dollars, which have been distributed to dozens of organizations through Pride Fund grants, sponsorships and event support.

    “While Pride’s Parade and Spirit of Stonewall Rally are free and open to the public, our community can be proud of the fact that when they purchase a ticket to the Pride Music Festival they are not only helping to support our community coming together for a celebration, but are also investing in the people and organizations who serve our community 365 days a year,” said Fernando Lopez, San Diego Pride Director of Operations.

    Pride will be accepting grant requests for amounts ranging from $500.00 to $5,000.00 until 5:00 pm Monday, October, 31, 2016.

    Grant applications can be found at www.sdpride.org/grants

    For more information, please contact Fernando at [email protected]

    San Diego Pride has granted funds to organizations including the Live and Let Live, Alano Club, Bi-Forum, Different Strokes Swim Team, Diversionary Theater, GLSEN – Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network, GSDBA, Human Dignity Foundation, Imperial Court de San Diego, Lambda Archives, Mama’s Kitchen, PFLAG, The San Diego LGBT Community Center, The San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, Stepping Stone, Trans Day of Empowerment, The Trevor Project, Transgender Law Center, The San Diego Women’s Chorus, and many more.

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

  360. Applications for San Diego Pride Youth Leadership Academy Now Open

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    APPLICATIONS FOR SAN DIEGO PRIDE YOUTH LEADERSHIP ACADEMY NOW OPEN

    SAN DIEGO, California (September 20, 2016) – San Diego LGBT Pride is proud to announce that applications for the Youth Leadership Academy are now open. The Youth Leadership Academy is a one-day workshop packed with outdoor activities, bonding exercises, and empowering educational discussions. Workshops will include an introduction to LGBT history, youth advocacy, higher education, and more.

    “Over the years, Pride has expanded our youth programs, and we are thrilled to be able to provide opportunities for LGBTQ youth to connect, learn, and engage,” said Fernando Lopez, San Diego Pride’s Director of Operations. “It is our hope that these young people will develop the skills needed to help them be better advocates and activists for themselves and their communities.”

    The academy, which is open to junior-high- and high-school-aged youth, will take place on Saturday, November 12, 2016, from 8:30am to 5:15pm at the San Diego Pride office located at 3620 30th St., San Diego, CA 92104.

    San Diego LGBT Pride is accepting applications until Sunday, October 23, 2016. Interested youth can apply at www.sdpride.org/youth-leadership-academy/.

    For more information, please email [email protected].
    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

  361. Kesha Coming Out To Support San Diego Pride

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    Kesha Photo 2San Diego Pride is thrilled to announce that multi-platinum artist Kesha will be headlining Saturday night at San Diego’s Pride Music Festival.

    Kesha has used her international fame as a platform to educate others about the LGBT community, highlight inequality, and empower others to be themselves unapologetically.

    Her 2010 anthem “We R Who We R” was a response to the wave of LGBT teen suicides hitting the media at the time.

    “I am beyond excited to perform at San Diego Pride this year. We have come a long way with the equal rights movement, but we have so much more work to do. In my home state of Tennessee they recently passed anti-lgbt legislation – it’s another reminder that groups like Pride are so important, and I’m honored to be part of San Diego Pride’s event on July 16. I’ll never stop fighting for people who just want to be able to express themselves freely for who they are,” said Kesha.

    “Each year our community volunteers work tirelessly to put on the best event possible, and this year we are honored to bring an advocate and artist of this caliber to San Diego Pride,” said Stephen Whitburn, San Diego Pride executive director.

    San Diego’s Pride Music Festival will take place July 16-17, 2016, in Balboa Park, and will include 96 acts across a main stage, a Latin stage, a Hip Hop stage, and an 80’s/90’s stage.

    New to the event this year will be a free area called the Rainbow Zone, which will house many of Pride’s LGBT serving non-profit organizations that will help connect community members with vital resources, such as youth and senior services, women’s health care, HIV testing, sobriety support, and more.

    Kesha’s first album, “Animal,” debuted at number one in the United States in 2010. She has two number-one singles, including “We R Who We R” and “Tik Tok.” In 2012, Kesha’s second album, “Warrior,” brought her an eighth top-ten single, “Die Young.” Kesha has been nominated for over 60 awards and has been recognized for her both her musical talent and her LGBT advocacy.

    Click here for tickets!

  362. 2016 Annual Meeting

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    Liberty and Justice for All

    It’s time to review the past year’s activities and look ahead to the coming year at Pride’s Annual Meeting.

    Join us Wednesday, January 27 at 6:00 pm at The Center at 3909 Centre Street in Hillcrest.

    We welcome your comments and questions.

    Previously held in December, the Annual Meeting has been moved to January so that we can reflect on the entire year.

    RSVP and invite your friends on Facebook here!

  363. Champions of Pride- Tracie Jada O’Brien

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    TJOB32015 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

    Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals who contribute significantly to the LGBT community though their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

    Champions of Pride-Tracie Jada O’Brien

    Since surviving the mean streets of San Francisco’s Tenderloin District in the 1970s as a young transgender street kid, Tracie Jada O’Brien has persevered and worked tirelessly to become an outstanding role model within – and a staunch advocate for – the transgender community.

    Professionally she has provided decades of life-saving work to the LGBT community as Coordinator of Project S.T.A.R. (Supporting Transgender Access to Resources), as an addictions treatment counselor at Stepping Stone of San Diego — and most recently — as a medical case management worker for Family Health Centers of San Diego, Inc.

    Always one step ahead of the movement, she participated in the first consultation forum for trans* individuals with the CDC in 2005. She helped create the first HIV Prevention brochure targeting trans* women of color – and even posed as the cover model. She founded San Diego’s Transgender Day of Empowerment that is now in its fourteenth year and the Tracie Jada O’Brien Student Scholarship Program that gave out three scholarships to deserving trans* and gender-nonconforming youth in its very first year.

    She has been a speaker for and active with the Transgender Leadership Summit, The California Office of AIDS Transgender HIV Equality and Party Conferences, Transgender Center of Excellence (San Francisco), and the Center of Excellence for Transgender HIV Prevention and many more.

  364. Champions of Pride- Conner Maddocks

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    17 - Connor Portrait2015 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

    Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals who contribute significantly to the LGBT community though their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

    Champions of Pride- Conner Maddocks
    Connor Maddocks has been doing advocacy and civil rights work in the San Diego Transgender community for the past 12 years.

    He is the lead facilitator of the San Diego FTM-SO Discussion group, and is an active guest speaker to various organizations, businesses and colleges on Transgender issues. He has done extensive trainings on all aspects of the Transgender Community as well as workshops for the community on legal name and gender changes.

    He is a member of the Community Leadership Council of San Diego, Chair of the San Diego Day of Remembrance, and planning committee member of the Day of Empowerment. He is a former member of the San Diego Pride Board of directors, and an active volunteer of Pride for the past 11 years.

    Connor is also a member of the American Cancer Society California LGBT Diversity team, a Past Co-Chair of TASC San Diego and he also served on the Transgender Leadership Summit planning committee, and the LGBTQ Reducing Disparities Project – TG Advisory Group. His list of community service continues with the Equality Professionals Network (EPN) Steering Committee, San Diego Police Department Chief’s LGBT Advisory Board, as well as the San Diego Department of Veterans Affair’s (VA) LGBTQ Workgroup.

    He also works to provide trainings to the San Diego County Sheriff’s Department, and in 2015 he began working San Diego Police Department doing the very first trainings on Transgender issues for the department, training the police officers in every division in the city.

    Connor is currently employed by the San Diego LGBT Community Center as the Facilities Manager and Program Coordinator for Project TRANS. He is also the parent of 3 daughters and grandparent to 8 beautiful grandkids.

  365. Grand Marshal

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    Trans Community Grand Marshal2015 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

    Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals who contribute significantly to the LGBT community though their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

    Community Grand Marshal – Trans Community
    Rather than honor a single person, San Diego Pride has named the entire Trans* Community as the Community Grand Marshal for the 2015 San Diego Pride Parade.

    From the streets of Greenwich Village to the cover of Time magazine, the trans* community has come a long way.

    Since well before the Stonewall Riots of 1969, trans* people have been standing up and fighting for our rights, dignity, and equality, right alongside our LGB siblings. In fact, three years before Stonewall, in 1966, a group of trans* women took a stand against discrimination and police harassment in Los Angeles – an event now known as the Compton Cafeteria Riots.

    At Stonewall in ‘69, trans* & gender non-conforming activists like Marsha P. Johnson, Miss Major, and Sylvia Rivera played a huge role in the riots and ongoing movement that rippled forth.

    While the trans* community has gained some increased visibility in recent years, we continue to face a disproportionate amount of discrimination, legal inequality, and hate-driven violence.  It has never been more important that our entire LGB community stand in solidarity with our trans* siblings in the struggle.

    The Community Grand Marshal contingent will include trans* and gender non-conforming individuals from all walks of life standing side-by-side with friends, families, and allies.

    Our hope is to highlight the T in LGBT as we continue our shared struggle, honoring the contributions of people who are trans* and gender non-conforming in the pursuit of liberty and justice

  366. Celebration and Outrage

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    [vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Celebration and Outrage: An Open Letter about the 2015 San Diego Pride Parade

    By Stephen Whitburn, Executive Director, San Diego Pride

    Thank you to all who plan to attend this year’s San Diego Pride Parade. I’m writing in regard to activism that may temporarily disrupt the parade’s flow.

    This year’s Grand Marshal is the entire transgender community, and both Champions of Pride are transgender. We’re proud they’re leading the parade.

    Pride was recently contacted by members of the transgender community who notified us of their plan to conduct multiple “die-ins” during which individuals will lie on the street, stopping the parade, while others encircle them with crime scene tape and read the names of trans* individuals whom we’ve lost this year to murder and suicide.

    I obviously respect activism; it’s played a significant role in our movement for equality and fair treatment. At the same time, I respect others in the transgender community who do not wish for these die-ins to occur and who say they believe the Grand Marshal and Champion of Pride honors should be marked by celebration, not images of death. I’d further like to be considerate to our parade’s 200 contingents and 100,000 spectators, some of whom have asked us to minimize the stopping and starting and gaps that sometimes occur in the parade because they affect the flow of the experience for participants and spectators alike. There are several important interests to balance here.

    I’ll never know what it’s like to be transgender. I’ll never know how it feels to be shunned for being transgender by many in our society including some in the LGB community. I’ll never know the fear and rage of being a trans* woman of color who has seen others like her murdered for who they are. I can only observe that within the transgender community there are both feelings of celebration for the honor and visibility that accompanies being parade Grand Marshal, and feelings of continued outrage as week after week brings a new report of a murder or suicide of someone who is transgender.

    These feelings co-exist, and we should allow both to be expressed. Conflicted emotions are often our real experience, and there’s room in our parade for keeping it real. I trust those expressing their outrage during the parade will respect those who wish to celebrate, and I hope those in a celebratory mood will respect those who see it as an opportunity for activism. I think we’ve worked out a reasonable compromise under which three die-ins will occur at the beginning, the middle, and near the end of the parade route, and those in the trans* contingent who wish to celebrate will go first so as not to have to view the die-ins, while those conducting the actions will follow.

    I also hope those watching the parade understand and appreciate that there will be both celebration and outrage. And perhaps there will be a couple of gaps. Our march toward equality and fairness has been full of starts and stops and conflicted emotions. Our march toward Balboa Park this year may be like that, too. In both cases, while it may be slow, I hope you watch our progress with pride.

    Stephen Whitburn
    Executive Director
    San Diego Pride

  367. Pride Music Festival Lineup: Phase 2

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    Phase 2 Artist Lineup
    Pride Music Festival today announced Phase 2 of the performer lineup for its five stages in San Diego’s famous Balboa Park this July 18-19.

    We’re excited by the caliber of current artists who will entertain the 40,000 people coming together to celebrate equality and diversity this summer” –Executive Director Stephen Whitburn

    Pride Music Festival will reveal Phase 3 of its artist lineup on May 14. The festival is produced by San Diego Pride, a 501(c)(3) charitable non-profit. Weekend passes cost just $20 in advance.

    Get your tickets now at www.flavorus.com/PrideMusicFestival!

    Phase 2 Artist Lineup:

    ULTRA NATE – American house and dance-pop musician
    ANGIE FISHER – Grammy Nominated artist/song-writer debuted at 2015 Grammy’s
    HONEY DIJON – Internationally renowned Transgender DJ & Fashionista
    COCO MONTRESE – one of Las Vegas’ premier divas
    ROCIO BANQUELLS – Mexican singer & tv/film actress
    IDEAL feat KALEENA ZANDERS – Top 100 charting DJ/Producer and Supernova Songstress
    “Kenny Metcalf as Elton John Tribute” – Premier act featuring Kenny Metcalf and The Early Years Band
    NIKNO – Headlining DJ/Producer/Remixer
    RICH WHITE LADIES – Hot MOTOWN Records artists on the rise
    Wild Style – Freestyle-NuStyle-Miami Bass duo

    Also, check out the Phase 1 lineup, released last week!!

  368. Pride Music Festival Lineup: Phase 1

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    Pride Music Festival Phase 1

    Pride Music Festival today unveiled Phase 1 of its artist lineup for five electronic and live performance stages settled amid the palms of San Diego’s Balboa Park this July 18-19.

    The blossoming non-profit music festival celebrating diversity and equality brings together 40,000 people over two days from across the nation and the globe for dozens of current electronic dance, pop, hip-hop, Latin and other acts.

    “It’s a memorable experience to unite with thousands of people, taking pride in who you are and celebrating each other,” said executive director Stephen Whitburn. “Pride Music Festival is for all.”

    Pride Music Festival will reveal Phase 2 of its artist lineup on May 7 and will release Phase 3 on May 14. The festival is produced by San Diego Pride, a 501(c)(3) charitable non-profit. Weekend passes cost just $20 in advance and are available at PrideMusicFestival.org and sdpride.org.

    Get your tickets now at www.flavorus.com/PrideMusicFestival!

    PHASE 1 ARTIST LINEUP
    Ana Sia
    Fedro
    Ben Seagren
    DirtyPop
    SD Gay Men’s Chorus

    NVida
    Brent Law
    Brynn Taylor
    DJ Shorty
    Jennifer Corday
    Perry Twins
    SD Women’s Chorus
    Tristan D

    805 South
    Alejandra Sandoval
    Aphrodite Rayne
    Aro Di Santi Band
    Ballet Folklorico Yaqui
    Banda Paso De Tecuala
    Bellonce Aguilera
    Bo Scott
    CaliParis
    Chocolate City
    Christian Falcon
    Cris Herrera
    Culture Shock
    Daisy Salinas
    DJ Artistic
    DJ Ascension
    DJ Cros One
    DJ Fariba
    DJ Hevrock
    DJ Jiji Sweet
    DJ Rick Betta
    DJ Rubin
    DJ Sebastian De La Madrid
    DJ Showtime
    Erick Diaz
    ESCOBAR
    Francesca Valle
    Jaleesa Johnson
    Joahnna
    Jorge Ayon
    Josh Whitaker
    Josh Zuckerman
    Jovan Le Saunier
    LOS HOLLYWOOD
    Maniguis Rossi
    Melissa Dove
    Monica Fontanoza
    OSM
    Palm Spring Women’s Jazz Band
    Phenex
    Rainbow Noise
    Raul Montiel Y la Banda Paso De Tecuala
    Red Sonya
    Rhythm and the Method
    Ricky Lips
    Sabor Andaluz Dance Co.
    San Diego Kings Club
    Sherryce Emery
    Soulistik
    Tara Egnatios
    We Are She Is
    XIV/Sunday Hustle

  369. School Bullying in San Diego

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    Cindy Marten, Superintendent
    San Diego Unified School District
    4100 Normal Street San Diego, CA 92103-2682
    [email protected] | (619) 725-5506

    Dear Superintendent Marten,

    The recent incident at Morse High School has highlighted the need for San Diego Unified School District to take seriously the issue of school bullying by taking immediate action to educate students, parents, teachers, administrators, and counselors on the proper reporting structure under the Safe Schools protocols to ensure a safe and healthy learning environment for all students.

    In 2010, a rash of publicized teen suicides that resulted from school bullying highlighted not a new phenomenon, but an ongoing epidemic within our nation’s school systems. In response, San Diego community members came together to create a Safe Schools Task Force to proactively combat bullying within our school district. On a state level, the suicide of 13-year-old Seth Walsh in 2010, which resulted from relentless harassment from fellow students and a lack of action on the part of the school system, led to the passage of AB9, or “Seth’s Law,” which became effective in July of 2012.

    Since that time, San Diego Unified has been tragically recalcitrant in its approach to the education and implementation of protocols and training that could reduce bullying in schools, give a safe and clear means of recompense for when matters are not properly handled at any point in the reporting structure, and most importantly save lives.

    San Diego Pride is calling upon you and San Diego Unified to work with our local LGBT community and implement now the measures laid out by both your own Safe Schools Task Force and Seth’s Law.

    Sincerely,

    Stephen Whitburn
    Executive Director

  370. Anheuser-Busch, Equality Index: 100

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    BL-Gay-Pride-Logo_vert_2013[1]San Diego Pride Sponsor Anheuser-Busch Selected by Human Rights Campaign as a 2015 “Best Place to Work” for LGBT Equality

    Anheuser-Busch has received a perfect Corporate Equality Index (CEI) score of 100 and has been selected by Human Rights Campaign as a “Best Places to Work” organization for 2015.

    Human Rights Campaign Foundation’s CEI is the national benchmarking tool on corporate policies and practices pertinent to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender employees.

    More than 970 companies were voluntarily rated in the 2015 CEI report. AB joins the ranks of 365 other major U.S. businesses which also earned top marks this year in the areas of domestic partner benefits, transgender-inclusive health care benefits, competency programs, public engagement with the LGBT community and more.

    “In order to achieve a perfect score, a company has to show a deep and serious commitment to treating their LGBT employees fairly and equally on the job,” said Chad Griffin, HRC president. “We also look at whether a company is speaking out in the public square to advocate for LGBT equality here in this country and around the world. AB not only meets these standards, it goes above and beyond the call of duty, making a commitment to equality a fundamental aspect of its corporate values.”

    “We are very proud to have been selected by Human Rights Campaign as a Best Place to Work, “ said Kirby Dumaresque, vice president of people continuity. “At AB, we continuously strive to create the most inclusive work environment possible for our employees and this ranking is a great step.”

  371. Stuart E. Schwartz

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    Schwartz, Stu - DiversionaryORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR:
    Diversionary Theatre, Old Globe Theatre, La Jolla Playhouse, San Diego Repertory Theatre, Cygnet Theatre, San Diego Zoo, San Diego Art Institute

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S):
    Two at the Diversionary Theatre; several more years at the other organizations.

    HOMETOWN:
    Scranton, PA

    SINGLE OR TAKEN:
    Single

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO?
    Twelve

    WHY DO YOU VOUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?
    I really enjoy both theatre and dance so I satisfy those loves by ushering for theaters and by going to as many contemporary dance performances as possible. I enjoy helping people have a positive theatre experience. I also love the San Diego Zoo so helping others enjoy the zoo is another passion of mine.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?
    Every time that I see patrons, who are new to the theatre, enjoying themselves I get a thrill. I’m especially happy when we have younger people in the audience as that makes me confident that theatre is alive and well and will be for future generations.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?
    I come back because I enjoy working with theatre and zoo visitors and because it’s really nice to be appreciated by the staff and administration. I also have great fun interacting with the guests.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?
    My part-time job in college was posing for life drawing classes and I never stopped throughout my entire career as a university professor. I still pose for art groups fairly often in San Diego.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?
    There are so many varied activities, organizations, clubs, groups, etc.– there’s always something to do. I also like that there are several agencies that offer assistance and support to those who are in need.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?
    I was at a recent event and a young man came over to me and, seeing an older guy, he said thank you for all of the efforts ‘my generation’ made to ensure that younger folks now have an easier time coming out and being themselves. I think that more emphasis is needed so that our LGBT youth learn about our history and what has helped to make their lives a bit easier.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?
    I belong to the Long Yang Club, to a gay book club, I meet friends quite often for dinner or drinks out, I enjoy travel, I take my dog to the park as she is a ‘man magnet’ and I love to throw dinner parties at my home.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?
    1. Bette Midler as she was one of the first famous people I knew who embraced the gay community.
    2. President Obama as he has taken such bold steps to promote equality for those of us who are LGBT.
    3. ‘Unknown Name’ as I’ve been single for a few years (after a 20 year relationship) and would love to invite the right guy so that we both go, ‘wow.’

  372. Danielle LoPresti and Alicia Champion

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    Danielle Lopresti Alicia Champion and LucianDanielle LoPresti and Alicia Champion have been committed partners as well as music and community leaders in San Diego for the last decade. Impassioned human rights activists, the couple created a renewed music scene in San Diego around diversity and community. Both openly bisexual, Danielle and Alicia felt marginalized as entertainers who all too often had to choose between mainstream, “straight” events, and the more exclusively LGBT-focused ones. They created a large scale music event that defied the typical separatism between LGBT and mainstream events that brought in an audience that reflected the way they saw the world. In 2004, Danielle and Alicia ambitiously put on the very first San Diego IndieFest with a mission to celebrate and unify.

    Ridiculed by many mainstream local press outlets, the Gay & Lesbian Times acknowledged their triumph with the event’s first cover feature. Despite rejection, Danielle and Alicia continued year after year, growing the festival into what’s regarded now as one of the City’s signature events. As activists, Danielle and Alicia are known for their dynamic and socially-conscious performances, to public demonstrations and City Council meetings, speaking out passionately about marriage equality, nonviolent conflict resolution, adoption advocacy, safe access for medicinal marijuana, limits on Hillcrest high rise development and more.

    While seemingly tireless in their efforts, 2013 slowed them down. Last January, on her forty-fourth birthday, Danielle was diagnosed with advanced stage cancer. She embarked on an eight month long treatment program including surgeries, intense chemotherapy, naturopathy, and acupuncture. Danielle and Alicia felt the bond of their love more powerfully than ever before as they walked together through the agony and downright horror of that time, all while raising their newly adopted baby boy, and somehow managing to produce the largest IndieFest event to date.

    http://www.cbs8.com/story/25372364/lucians-success-story

  373. Bo Bortner

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    Bo Bortner (Mamas Kitchen)ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: Mama’s Kitchen

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S):
    I started subbing in 2000 and had my own weekly route, Route 15, every Wednesday from 2001 until now. Wow, I guess it’s been over 14 years now.

    HOMETOWN: Saginaw, Michigan

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Single.

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO?

    I’ve been in San Diego for 18 years now. I love it and won’t live anywhere else.

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?

    When I started I didn’t have a lot to give financially and I believe in giving back. What I did have was my health and I could make the time. I believe we can all give back. How we are able to give is the part that can change over time.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?

    I have two memories that come to mind. They aren’t really “favorite” memories but certainly the most powerful.

    When I first started Mama’s Kitchen exclusively served the AIDS community and attitudes and certainly medications were very different. I had a client whom I called our Southern Belle. He was so kind and polite and he really craved contact and looked forward to our visits. He had been rejected and told he was no longer a part of his family for being gay. Even after reaching out to his family after his health began to fail they refused his outreach and thought that it was a part of his punishment. This was so outside my understanding of faith and love that it was difficult for me to comprehend. I was happy to share extra time and love with him on a weekly basis. It was about 4 years later and his health had continued on the decline. I remember one Wednesday the light in his eyes was SO bright, his spirit far out-shined his fading health. He had his best friend back! His Mother reached out and asked him to come home. She wanted to help him get better. He beamed, and I was happy for him. He went home and it must have been the love he needed because he started to improve and rejoined my route about a year and a half later. He looked so good. He continued to improve and ended up going back to work and no longer needing the invaluable help Mama’s kitchen offered him. What a success! His story makes my heart soar today.

    The other memory is of a client who through complications had become severely disabled and was in a wheel chair. He had maintained minimal use of his arms. He left the front door unlocked so we could put his food on the counter since he was unable to lift the bag. I delivered to him for many years and he always warmed my heart with his smile. One particular Wednesday he wasn’t answering his door; it always took some time but this was abnormal amount of time. Something told me to just go in and check on him. I found him on the floor, he had fallen over in his wheel chair on Monday night after his last Mama’s Kitchen delivery and without the strength in his arms to lift himself or reach his “help button” that was around his neck, he remained there for almost two days. I just snapped into action. I was able to get him up and get him the immediate help he needed. This is still difficult for me to talk about without tears but nothing drives home to me better the profound service and need that Mama’s Kitchen provides to its clients than these two experiences. We were the angels for these people on those occasions.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?

    I have been so very blessed in my life and people have helped me at times when I needed it. I feel I need to be available to others to be that hand when they need it.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?

    I was a super shy kid and am still just a sci-fi nerd at heart.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?

    I think we have a lot of individuals that believe in the community and reach out and call others to action. We have people who believe in ideologies and to the work it takes to get that message out there and back what they say. I respect passion.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?

    Well even when I was teased and rejected when younger, I always felt like a part of society at large and thought isolating ourselves only hurt our cause to achieve equal rights. LOL Now, I’m like, “You don’t have to go ALL the way main stream!” So what do I know? We do have further to go but I’m grateful we have come such a huge distance in the past few decades.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?

    We have such a wonderful city and it’s filled with great people. I am part of a faith community, I volunteer at other organizations, I hike with friends, beach, dinners out, dinner parties in, movies, dancing, book studies, there isn’t much I won’t do. If I have time, I’m in!

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?

    Quick answer: Oprah, Jesus, Buddha, what were/are they really like?
    After some thought though: Julia Child, because somebody has to cook and between her voice and her Sherry I know I would be laughing and having a good time. Chef Nobu, Mmmm enough said. Then last Ben and Jerry (they count as one). I may as well have some fun and great food because even ordinary people are extra-ordinary given the right circumstances. I think most people sell themselves short and we can all be heroes. Host a dinner party of your own with three people, any three people. They are amazing. Now find out how and why.

  374. Mama’s Kitchen

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    MAMAS KITCHEN AIDSWalk2013WHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    As a volunteer-driven, nonprofit organization, Mama’s Kitchen prepares and delivers food free of charge to men, women and children who are affected by AIDS or cancer. We also run Mama’s Pantry, a monthly shopping opportunity for low-income HIV/AIDS individuals who do not need meal deliveries, but can benefit from occasional nutrition support to maintain their health and stretch their food budget.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?

    In 2013, we served 1,384 Clients.

    WHAT ARE YOU MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?

    Our annual fundraisers include Mama’s Day, a restaurant tasting event held annually the Friday before Mother’s Day; Pie in the Sky, a Thanksgiving Pie bake sale during October and November; Annual Wine Tasting at Bourbon Street, an evening of wine, food and fun; and Tree of Life, commemorating World AIDS Day on December 1st with a candlelight vigil and tree lighting ceremony.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED? 1990

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    Approximately 25 years.

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    Mama’s Kitchen has a float in the Pride Parade every year, and has had a booth in past years.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    Mama’s Kitchen is an all-inclusive family. We foster a welcoming environment and embrace all members of the community without judgment. Mama’s Kitchen envisions a community where mutual respect and dignity are preserved by promoting humanity, compassion and empathy towards others.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?

    Our volunteer opportunities include delivering meals, preparing meals, packing grocery bags, answering phones, assisting our Pantry clients with their shopping, operating food drives at local supermarkets, serving on committees, and assisting during special events. Our greatest need is for delivery volunteers, especially in North County.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?

    We encourage folks to host food drives to collect nonperishable food for our Pantry or to host “pick up” events, where they raise money and donate it to Mama’s Kitchen.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.mamaskitchen.org
    Facebook: Mama’s Kitchen
    Twitter: mamaskitchensd

  375. Jonathan and Dwayne D. Beebe-Franqui

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    Jonathan and Dwayne D picJonathan and Dwayne D. Beebe-Franqui were engaged at the 2012 San Diego Pride Parade when Dwayne, a Senior Chief Petty Officer in the US Navy at the time, in full dress whites, dropped to one knee and proposed to Jonathan while walking as participants of the historic Military Contingent. The parade briefly stopped, the cheering was loud, but for these two lovebirds, only the love for each other could be heard.

    Upon realizing that the group of US Navy Sailors had come to a complete halt, Dwayne arose and spontaneously exclaimed “Forward March,” with one fist in the air. Jonathan and Dwayne have since became role models for marriage equality and LGBT service members. “Forward March” has become their household motto.

    In 2013, Jonathan organized several rallies in the wake of the Supreme Court hearings and Dwayne organized the first military Pride observance at Navy Personnel Command, the first of its kind outside the Pentagon. Dwayne is actively organizing the first military-wide Pride celebration, with over 30 commands participating in 2014. The couple was featured in a Department of Defense (DoD) video released by the Pentagon when spousal benefits were granted to LGBT service members in September 2013.

    Amazingly, after much publicity of their union, on May 1st 2014, Dwayne was selected for advancement to Master Chief Petty Officer, the highest rank attainable in the US military. Dwayne, a long-time resident of San Diego, met Jonathan while stationed in Pensacola, Florida and now the couple resides in military base housing near Memphis, Tennessee. The couple are active members of American Military Partners Association (AMPA) and Jonathan has quickly become involved in the Tennessee Equality Project(TEP). They have two kids, Brian and Courtney.

  376. LAMBDA Archives

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    pride_flagFounded by San Diego LGBT community pioneer, Jess Jessop, for nearly 30 years, the Lambda Archives of San Diego have been collecting our community’s history by amassing a treasure trove of documentation, artifacts, photography, and stories honoring the growth of the LGBT community.

    Having an understanding of our history is vital in the struggle for equality as we must be educate ourselves on where we came from if we are to understand where we are going. The Lambda Archives works hard every single day to ensure the community has access to materials documenting our past, and diligently strives to educate the community through exhibitions, presentations, and partnerships with local organizations and campuses. As one of this country’s largest collections LGBT history Lambda Archives is a hub for innovative LGBT historical research.

    With the exception of a brilliant contracted archivist, the Archives is completely volunteer run, with a dedicated board of directors overseeing the organization’s efforts. In recent years, the organization has expanded its space to be able to hold their ever growing collections, and to provide a space for the community to visit and learn about our community’s collective journey to this point.

    In addition to boasting what is believed to be this country’s largest collection or Pride ephemera, they are pioneering techniques which leverage social media tagging, and utilize facial recognition technology to revolutionize the way archivists properly collect, sort, and track vast amounts of historical photography and data.

    The Archives are one of the most marvelous and valuable assets our community has.

    It is timely and appropriate that he organization, its directors, contractors, and volunteers are recipients of this year’s Spirit Stonewall Service Award on this the 40th anniversary of San Diego Pride.

  377. Top 20 Things To Do At San Diego Pride – 2014 Edition

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    Lori Hensic (American Military Partner Association)20. Get married.

    With marriage equality now the norm in California, the Big Gay Wedding Expo at the San Diego Pride Music Festival will include wedding ceremonies from noon to 4 pm on Saturday and 11:30 am to 12:30 pm on Sunday, along with entertainment, fashion shows, workshops, contests, and more – all related to wedding planning. Come celebrate, participate, and plan your big day! https://sdpride.org/weddings

    Colorful Kids on Stage and SD Pride19. Dance.

    This year’s San Diego Pride Music Festival features 10 stages and entertainment zones covering a wide variety of performance and music styles – and lots of DJs that will keep the Pride revelers moving all weekend long. Check out the full line up here: https://sdpride.org/festival/entertainment/ and get out there and dance!

    18. Get Covered.

    The San Diego Pride Festival will feature hundreds of booths with vendors ranging from community organizations, to businesses selling their wares. Be sure to stop by the San Diego LGBT Community Center’s booth to learn more about Covered California and your health insurance options.

    17. Travel.

    San Diego Pride has teamed up with Alaska Airlines to give away a trip to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico! The trip includes air travel for two on Alaska Airlines and three nights at The Westin Resort & Spa, Puerto Vallarta. Click here to enter: https://sdpride.org/programs/travel-contest/.

    Front Runners (9)16. Run.

    Front Runners and Walkers of San Diego will present the annual Pride 5K starting at 9:30 am on Saturday, July 19. Registration is $35. Click here for more information: https://sdpride.org/event/pride-5k-with-front-runners-and-walkers-of-san-diego/

    15. Park your car and shuttle to Pride events for free!

    While parking is tight in Hillcrest and Balboa Park on Pride weekend, San Diego Pride and ParkHillcrest have plenty of options available. Free parking lots are available at the Old Naval Hospital and san Diego City College, and the ParkHillcrest Trolley will provide free parking and transportation. Click here for more information: https://sdpride.org/parking-transportation

    14. Reflect.

    This year is the 40th anniversary of San Diego’s Pride celebration – and the theme is Reflections is Pride – so participants are encouraged to take a moment to reflect on how far we’ve come. After the parade, stop by the base of the Hillcrest Pride Flag pole on Normal Street at University Avenue and check out the LGBT history display that was installed last year. Also check out the San Diego Pride history timeline in this year’s San Diego Pride Souvenir Guide.

    Freedom to Serve - SD Pride13. Thank our veterans and servicemembers.

    The San Diego Pride Parade is led by the Military Contingent which includes active duty and veteran servicemembers. Be sure to cheer them at the parade when the contingent passes by.

    12. Play games.

    Test your gaming skills at the FREE arcade – Arcade Alley – at the San Diego Pride Music Festival. Arcade Alley will be located near the Electric Alley Dance Stage.

    11. Get tested.

    Know your status. Get tested. Free HIV testing will be available throughout the weekend at the festival, provided by the UC San Diego Health System and San

    10. Get to the Beach!Beach Ball

    Get wet and wild at Pride’s new Oasis Beach Party! Go-go guys and gals sport their best swimwear while boogying beneath our cooling misters! Play some volleyball, toss around our beach balls, and enjoy the beats at this epic beach party!

    9. Travel to outer space.

    NASA will have a booth at San Diego Pride – the first Pride the agency has ever participated in – and invites Pride Festival goers to experience what it’s like to live and work in space.

    (4) Block Party Stage Dancers8. Party in the streets!

    Kick-off Pride weekend with the Pride of Hillcrest Block Party on Friday, July 18 from 7-11 pm on Normal Street at University Avenue. The event includes music, dancing, entertainment, beverages, and more! Purchase tickets here: https://sdpride.org/event/block-party/.

    7. Celebrate the Spirit of Stonewall.

    Don’t miss the annual Spirit of Stonewall Rally and Flag Raising, taking place on Friday, July 18 from 6-7 pm on Normal Street at University Avenue. The traditional start to San Diego Pride, this event recognizes and honors leaders who are working hard to preserve our gains, and meet the many challenges facing our collective community. Plus, the fabulous Laverne Cox and California Assembly Speaker Toni Atkins will address the crowd.

    6. Celebrate arts and culture.

    Several diverse Pride themed art and culture events are planned around town in the days leading up to and after the official San Diego Pride weekend. Check out the full list here: https://sdpride.org/arts-culture/.

    SD Pride, San Diego Pride Parade5. Carry a 300 ft. rainbow flag.

    Traditionally, San Diego Pride’s 300 foot rainbow flag trails the end of the annual pride parade, and leads the crowds to the two day musical festival at Balboa Park. When you see the flag parading down University Avenue and Sixth Avenue, grab on and walk and cheer with thousands of community members in celebration of Pride!

    4. Share with the world!

    Share, hashtag, like, and post to your heart’s content! Post your pictures and memories on social media throughout the weekend, and be sure to tag San Diego Pride on Facebook, @SanDiegoPride on Twitter, and @SanDiegoPride on Instagram.  It’s going to be a colorful  #SDPride!

    3. Give back.

    Proceeds from the San Diego Pride Music Festival benefit our community. Each year, San Diego Pride gives back thousands of dollars to the community. By purchasing a ticket to the music festival, you are helping Pride help the community. Want to make an additional donation to support this work? Click here: https://sdpride.org/donate/

    2. Get involved.

    Several of our community’s finest organizations will host booths at the festival and they want you to get involved. Take a few minutes to visit these organizations, learn about what they do, and sign-up to get involved.

    1. Have Pride.Pride Flag SD Pride

    Pride is not just a weekend, a party, or a parade. It is a community. Be a part of Pride in what ever way is feels genuine to you. Be safe, have fun, take care of each other, and be a part of the biggest, best, and most colorful celebration around!

    Happy Pride!

  378. Empress Candi Samples

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    Empress Candi SamplesCandi Samples was born in May 2009 when Mario Ortega created her as a contestant in the Miss Toucan’s Contest in Palm Springs. Taking the first-runner up title, a few months later, the winner was stripped of her title and Candi was prepared to step in. The organizers of the contest, however, decided that they would not pass the title on to Candi.

    Instead of taking this as a disappointment, Candi went out on her own and planned her first charity benefit shortly after, raising over $2,500 for an animal shelter. She entered herself into the Palm Springs Gay Pride Parade and over the next year, and made appearances in drag shows and benefits around the Palm Springs area and became a member of the “Glamazons” show until moving to San Diego in 2011.

    Upon arriving in town, she organized a benefit for Being Alive., which led her to be one of the founders of “Diving Deep for Being Alive” – raising over $5,000 for the HIV/AIDS service agency. She was nominated for the Nicky Award for Outstanding Female Entertainer that year. While Candi didn’t win the award, that nomination put her on the map. In 2012, she was again nominated for the same Nicky Award and won. Later that year, Candi was elected unanimously as the Imperial Court de San Diego’s solo Monarch, raising over $80,000 in support of the many charities that The Imperial Court supports during her reign.

    Her work earned her a commendation from then Majority Leader Toni Atkins and a proclamation from then Interim Mayor Todd Gloria. Candi continues her work, now serving as the President of the board of the Court, and continues to lend her name and talent to raise funds. She lives with her husband, James, whom she married July 3, 2013 and her dog, Moxie.

  379. San Diego Women’s Chorus

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    SDWC group photo LUTW (Jonathan Cervantes)WHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?
    The San Diego Women’s Chorus encourages women’s creativity, celebrates diversity and inspires social action. For over 25 years, SDWC has been singing to combat oppression and fight for equality. We sing to celebrate love and friendship and to grieve injustice and loss. We sing to encourage, empower and embolden ourselves, our audience and our community.
    As a chorus which was originally established as lesbian-identified, SDWC provides an essential and unique environment for both audience members and singing members to be in a safe, affirming and creative space. While our lesbian roots are fundamental to our identity and vital to our legacy, our chorus is open to all women and we have a strong straight-ally contingent in both our membership and audience. Our repertoire focuses on music written or made famous by women and LGBT and LGBT-allied artists, with themes such as love, peace and equality, which highlight the universal experiences and needs shared by all humanity, fostering compassion and understanding within our diversity.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?
    Our organization serves thousands of people.
    Internally, our welcoming sisterhood of musicians provides a safe, encouraging environment for nearly 100 singers. Our rehearsals provide a place for lesbian, bisexual, gender queer and allied women to come together in song, finding and using their voices to enact the power of music.
    Our spring and winter concerts reach about 1,500 audience members, total. However, this year, we will almost reach that number in just one concert, as our “Songs of Protest, Songs of Peace” event at the 1,400 seat Balboa Theatre is well on its way to being a sold-out event. And, of course, our participation in San Diego Pride allows us to reach thousands and thousands. We participate in many other community events as well, such as North County Pride @ the Beach, UCSD World AIDS Day, International Women’s Day, Special Delivery Holiday Dinner, Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast and the San Diego Remembers Matthew Shepard Vigil.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?
    Through thought-provoking concerts and community outreach performances, the chorus serves the LGBTQ community and beyond with programming that honors and celebrates both the diversity and universality of the human experience. We produce two major concerts each year, one in spring and one in winter. We also have our summer “Pride” season when we prepare for our performance(s) at San Diego Pride and, every other summer, we travel to participate in choral festivals with other LGBT and feminist choruses.
    This season in collaboration with the Human Dignity Foundation and thanks to the generous sponsorship from community leaders — including San Diego Pride — we are putting together the biggest concert event in our 27 year history. We will be performing our “Songs of Protest, Songs of Peace” concert on stage at the Balboa Theatre with our special guests, the Indigo Girls. This incredibly exciting concert is going to be a powerful, moving musical experience in its own right, but is also notable because it is a fundraising event benefiting SDWC, HDF and HDF’s newly launched Lesbian Health Initiative.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?
    Our community chorus was established in 1987 by community activist Dr. Cynthia Lawrence-Wallace, and at the time consisted of just 14 lesbian-identified women singing around a piano in someone’s home.

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    Lots! 🙂 While there were some years in the early 2000’s when the group was very small and SDWC didn’t participate, we have been actively involved in SD Pride events most years of our existence.

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    SDWC has performed at the rally, the parade and the festival. We also often have an informational booth and a float. Last year, in addition to performing our own repertoire, we were honored to sing the national anthem at the rally and also for the military contingent in the parade. This year, we are also grateful to San Diego Pride for inviting us to sing the national anthem at Petco Park for “Out at the Park” day.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    SDWC exists to serve members of the lesbian and bisexual women’s community, as well as the San Diego community as a whole. Being part of the far-reaching, well-publicized San Diego Pride events provides us with an opportunity to celebrate with our LGBT community and also provides a way for us to share our voices and mission with the community as a whole (both in San Diego and beyond) as just one facet of the incredibly diverse LGBT experience in San Diego. As the world around us has evolved since our inception in 1987, SDWC has evolved into a diverse, multi-ethnic, multi-racial, multi-generational organization with women from all backgrounds and sexual identities. We believe that as we work together — as LGBTQ-identified individuals and straight allies — our sisterhood of musicians and community of song creates a more fair and just world by shedding light on inequality, fostering respect for diversity and breaking down the barriers created by prejudicial stereotypes.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?
    Our chorus is non-audition and welcomes any woman who can match pitch with the piano. For non-singers, we have a volunteer auxiliary group called the Accents that help us primarily with day-of-performance logistics, such as collecting tickets, setting up refreshments, managing the venue space. We are also actively seeking community-based volunteers for our Board of Directors, especially individuals with experience in human resources, fundraising and public relations. Our auxiliary group welcomes both women and men who are interested in helping us further our mission.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?
    Come to our concerts! Our chorus has grown from about 25 singing members in 2009 to nearly 100 today. Under the leadership of Artistic Director Chris Allen, the quality of our sound rivals that of auditioned choral groups. Our ticket sales are a major source of revenue and help us secure rehearsal and performance space, provide workshops for our singers and hire guest instrumentalists for our shows to add extra depth and richness to the musical experience for our audience. We are also always open to collaborating with other like-minded organizations for community performances and joint fundraising opportunities.

    CONNECT WITH US:
    Website: www.sdwc.org
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SanDiegoWomensChorus
    Twitter: @SDWomensChorus
    Instagram: http://instagram.com/sdwomenschorus
    YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/user/sdwomenschorus

  380. Lisa Mata

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    Lisa MataLisa Mata says her work with the LGBT community has been extremely rewarding and she is so proud of how much progress the community has made since she came out at 17 years old. Lucky to have a supportive family, Lisa grew up in Texas and never imagined finding such a large LGBT community until moving to San Diego almost 15 years ago.

    The San Diego Pride Parade and Festival was Lisa’s first experience with the community, where she recalls being in shock seeing such a wonderfully diverse community. At that Pride festival, Lisa became a member of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) and a few years later, starting inquiring about having an HRC presence in San Diego. She credits her friends and mentors Brian Lacklen and Stampp Corbin for helping her build the HRC community locally. Lisa says that HRC is important to her because she wants to help people in places in the country that are not as openly diverse as California.

    She also became in the Lambda Archives, helping organize their first two galas, the GSDBA Charitable Foundation, and the No on Prop 8 campaign. Lisa says her work has led her to cross paths with some of the most wonderful human beings, who have since become like family. She urges anyone who wants to make a change to get involved in any of the groups working toward equality for the LGBT community.

    Finally, Lisa says she is extremely lucky to have had the greatest support in this journey from her son Bryant.

     

  381. Family Health Centers of San Diego

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    FHCSD logoWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?
    Family Health Centers of San Diego (FHCSD) is a private, nonprofit community health center. Our mission is to provide caring, affordable, high-quality health care and supportive services to everyone, with a special commitment to uninsured, low-income and medically underserved persons. We accomplish this through a network of more than 45 locations, including 24 primary care clinics, eight dental clinics, 13 behavioral health facilities, an outpatient substance use treatment program, vision and physical therapy departments, two mobile medical units, two mobile counseling centers and a pharmacy to support services throughout San Diego County. The breadth of our clinic locations, services and programs has grown over the last five decades, making us the largest community clinic provider of health care to the uninsured in the county and one of the top 10 largest community clinic organizations in the nation. We are also the largest school-based health care provider and largest comprehensive HIV/AIDS services provider in the San Diego region. Visit us at www.fhcsd.org to learn more.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?
    Our staff provides care to over 227,000 unique patients through more than one million health and medical encounters each year.

    WHAT ARE YOU MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?
    Since 1986, Family Health Centers of San Diego’s Spirit of the Barrio luncheons have spread awareness about our mission to provide high-quality health care to underserved communities across San Diego, while also presenting a variety of themes to our guests as they dine on our legendary tamales.
    In addition, the event raises critical funding for Family Health Centers of San Diego’s programs and services by bringing together local businesses, individuals and community leaders for networking, education, entertainment and community building. Spirit of the Barrio is held in the Logan Heights neighborhood, where our first clinic was founded five decades ago. Approximately 500 supporters, including prominent corporate, political and community leaders, attend the event. For more information, visit www.fhcsd.org/spirit-of-the-barrio.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?
    Family Health Center of San Diego’s story started in 1970. In 1970, Laura Rodriguez and a group of community members sought to bring much-needed medical services to Barrio Logan. They took over a building that was originally a settlement house and, after eight days of occupation, succeeded in negotiations with the City of San Diego and the community. This led to the gifting of the building to the community of Barrio Logan and the establishment of the Chicano Free Clinic. Medical care delivery began two evenings a week, and the health center saw approximately 150 patients each month. This building eventually became Logan Heights Family Health Center, the flagship clinic of Family Health Centers of San Diego!

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    Family Health Centers of San Diego is proud to have participated in San Diego Pride for the last 13 years

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    Family Health Centers of San Diego is committed to providing care and services to the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) community and we are proud to embody the spirit of San Diego Pride. We march in the parade annually, provide information on how to utilize services to attendees and take part in the festival. Our departments, such as Gay Men’s Health Services and Transgender Health Services, host festival booths, providing important educational materials to the community.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    Participating in the pride parade and festival is one of the ways we show our connection to the LGBTQ community and its well-being. FHCSD has also been designated a Healthcare Equality Leader by the Human Rights Campaign for our dedication to fostering an equitable and inclusive environment for not only our LGBTQ patients, but staff as well.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?
    Family Health Centers of San Diego relies on the communitys support to continue our mission of providing caring, affordable, high-quality health care to all individuals. We have a number of opportunities open for community members. For more information, please contact our Development Team at (619) 515-2306 or [email protected].

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?
    We accept in-kind, monetary and vehicle donations. Consider donating to our Baby Boutique program, which encourages new moms to complete their postpartum care, while helping them obtain essential items including baby clothes, supplies, children’s books and diapers. The Baby Boutique accepts in-kind donations of new or gently used baby items. Donations can be dropped off Monday through Friday from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. at 1827 Logan Ave., Suite 2, San Diego, CA 92113. Additionally, our Reach Out and Read program, which gives books to families during well child visits, can be supported through financial contributions, book drives or donations of new or gently loved children’s books in English or Spanish. To arrange a book donation, please call (619) 515-2306. For additional information, please visit https://www.fhcsd.org/ways-to-help/ 

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.fhcsd.org
    Facebook: facebook.com/FHCSD
    Twitter: twitter.com/FamilyHealthSD

    Instagram: instagram.com/familyhealthcenterssd/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/FHCSD/

  382. Vincent Pompei

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    Vinnie PompeiVincent “Vinnie” Pompei is the Director of the Youth Well-Being Project at the Human Rights Campaign Foundation. One of Vinnie’s primary roles at HRC is to chair Time to THRIVE, an annual national conference for educators and other youth-serving professionals to promote safety, inclusion and well-being for LGBTQ youth.

    Vinnie is also the President for the California Association of School Counselors and spent over ten years as a middle school teacher and high school counselor. He also helped start his district’s first middle school Gay and Straight Alliance that led to him training the entire district staff on LGBTQ youth.

    Before joining HRC, Vinnie was an LGBTQ cadre trainer for the National Education Association and authored the LGBTQ section of the American School Counselor Association’s National Model. He also directed CESCaL’s annual educator conference on LGBTQ youth, was a chapter president for PFLAG and an Ambassador for the Trevor Project.
    Vinnie’s passion for creating safe and inclusive schools has been nationally recognized. He was one of four public educators invited to the first White House Anti-Bullying Summit with President Obama and was recently called to testify at a congressional hearing on school safety. In addition, he was named one of the Advocate Magazine’s Top 40 Under 40, received awards from both Equality California and KPBS, and was selected by the National Education Association as a Classroom Superhero.

    Vinnie will graduate in August with a Doctorate in Education Leadership from San Diego State University.

     

  383. Being Alive San Diego HIV/AIDS Services

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    basdlogoWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?
    Assists and educates San Diegan’s living with or affected by HIV/AIDS

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?
    Over 8,000 annually.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?
    (within the last 12 months)
    595 insurance program enrollments to ensure medical care for low income HIV+.
    2604 Households provided with free groceries.
    899 Complimentary Therapy appointments (Massage, Chiropractic, etc.) for clients experiencing debilitating side effects from long term medication use.
    159 households moved to safe, affordable housing, prior to eviction or and/or becoming homeless.
    127 HIV+ individuals were assisted with a housing plan, to find affordable housing and over 1,500 additional clients utilized our “Available Housing List” to obtain a better living situation.
    608 low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS received a free haircut from one of Being Alive’s volunteer (licensed) stylists.
    4082 tickets were distributed to HIV+, low-income clients – this represents 195 events throughout the year that HIV+ clients and their care-givers were able to attend. This builds a sense of community for the people we serve….many of whom have never before attended a play or concert due to financial hardship.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED? 1989 – Being Alive San Diego celebrates 25 years of service to the San Diego community in 2014!

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE? 25!

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    Parade, Informational Booths, Carnival Games.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    Visibility, Community Support.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?
    Receptionists, Peer Advocates, Household Movers, Food Pantry Workers, Housing List research, HIV 101 Instructors, Special Events Committees (fundraisers), Janitorial and Handyman (cleaning, painting, etc).

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?
    Come in to Being Alive and fill out a volunteer application!
    Monday – Thursday 9-5

    CONNECT WITH US:
    Website: www.beingalive.org
    Facebook: Being Alive San Diego

     

  384. Jaye Whittaker

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    Jaye Whittaker (Equality Professionals Network)ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: Equality Professionals Network (EPN), and Chair and Founder of Cricket Wireless’s LGBT & Allies Employee Resource Group (ERG), Cricket Pride Nation.

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S):  2 years with EPN; 3 years with Cricket Pride Nation.

    HOMETOWN: I was born and raised in a small town in Ohio, but have also been a proud citizen of San Francisco, Washington, DC, and Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Married to my partner of 20 years.

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO? 8 years.

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)? I volunteer to improve economic equality for LGBT people and Allies and all San Diegans.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY? Seeing all of the very generous employers come in and talk with hundreds of San Diego job seekers at The San Diego LGBT Community Center last May 2013 an our Annual EPN Career Event.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO? I have a passion for social and economic justice for all.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU? I grew up in a musical household, studied and play the flute and piano.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY? San Diegans are very down to earth and friendly.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY? I would like to see more of a diverse representation from women, the Latino and other ethnically-diverse communities, the transgender community, people of all ages, and people with disabilities, for example.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING? I really look forward to attending the San Diego Pride Parade and Festival every year. It’s like having Thanksgiving and New Year’s at the same time!

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY? Harvey Milk, Mahatma Ghandi, and Harriet Tubman because they were all social and economic equality visionaries and incredible humanitarians.

  385. Raphael Rubalcaba

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    Raphael Rubalcaba (North County LGBTQ Resource Center)ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR:  I am a board member for the North County LGBTQ Resource Center, HIV prevention and educational programs.

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION: 7

    HOMETOWN: Oceanside

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Taken

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO? 44

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?
    Helping my community and for personal growth.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEEERING MEMORY?
    When we were finally able to open the LGBT center.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?
    Seeing the end result of what few hours of work can do.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?
    That despite the fact that I know so many people and I interact with many of them everyday I am still a very shy person.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?
    Its diversity and the fact that it is small and really feels like a community.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?
    I would like to see our community becoming even more inclusive.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?
    Coming home to my boyfriend and playing with my puppies can take my mind off a very busy day.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?
    Harvey Milk to pick his brain.
    Cesar Milan, the dog whisperer, for canine advise.
    Theresa Caputo, the Long Island medium, to contact my grandmother.

    CONNECT WITH US:
    Website: www.ncresourcecenter.org
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nclgbtqresourcecenter

  386. North County LGBTQ Resource Center

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    NCLGBTQ LogoWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?  Provide services for our LGBT families.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE? 800 people per month.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?
    Pride @ The beach, DOFL, Gala Event, GSA Awards.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED? 2008

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE? 6

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?  Contingent.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    To better increase our North County presence and visibility.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?
    We have a variety of programs and activities that require constant volunteer support.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?
    By becoming monthly donors and support the work we do.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.ncresourcecenter.org
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nclgbtqresourcecenter

     

  387. Jose G. Medina

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    Jose Medina (South Bay SD LGBTQIPA Youth Group)ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: The South Bay San Diego LGBTQIPA Youth Group

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S): 4 months

    HOMETOWN: National City, CA

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Single

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO?

    I am a resident of San Diego County (National City) for 44 years.

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?

    I was drawn to the LGBTQIPA Youth Group for its mission in seeking and maintaining a safe space for the LGBT community youth, and for the opportunity to make a positive contribution in the south bay communities.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?

    My favorite memory is going to the South Bay Alliance’s business mixer on Feb 20th, 2014 to meet up and network with people interested in assisting LGBT youth.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?

    I am motivated by a sense on duty and of giving back to my community, my neighborhood, my fellow human beings. I believe our society and our world can become a better place for all of us, especially for our youth.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?

    I enjoy a good evening singing karaoke.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?

    As a straight ally, I have been very touched by the acceptance and even the celebration of differences in all of us. I have felt very welcome by the community as a whole.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?

    I would like to see more people in the community be more involved in helping to be a guiding light to the LGBT youth and assure them that they will have places of support as they grow up.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?

    I enjoy my Karaoke, live music shows from our local bands, seeing local theatre. I love the zoo as well.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AN WHY? My Father, Albert Einstein, and Harvey Milk.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lgbtqipa.youthgroup.southbaySD/info

     

  388. South Bay San Diego LGBTQIPA Youth Group

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    SAMEAllianceWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    The youth group will be where youth will gather to participate in activities that reflect their needs, such as art, community organizing, performance, leadership development, game nights, community education, peer support, and job readiness preparation. Activities will always be youth-centered, and free of cost to participants.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?

    Our organization is open to all our LGBT youth ages 13 to 24.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?

    We hope to have the youth themselves decide what they would like to have as activities. Adult volunteers can and will serve as guides to what ideas are feasible. Hosting/co-hosting film screenings, presentations for art or careers possibly volunteer with South Bay Pride Events, We are hoping to make our first event a transgender/gender choice affirming “drag show” this year.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED? October, 2013

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    We are a new organization and we have just begun to network to other organizations. We hope to work with SD Pride soon.

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    We were honored to have received start-up funds from a donation given to us by SD Pride. We are very grateful for this.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    We believe that as an organization whose members will be the youth of the South Bay area, participating in future events like the parades and or forums, makes the point of diversity. Be it diversity of color, of culture or of age.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?

    Our organization is open to all our LGBT youth ages 13 to 24. We always seek adult volunteers for planning and set up of forums film screenings, presentations along side the youth and fund raising events as they happen.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?

    We ask volunteers who want to get involved, get more information, or to help us fund the program, please contact the director and co-coordinator, Kelly Hutton, first on Facebook at www.facebook.com/kelly.hutton, or via e-mail at [email protected].

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lgbtqipa.youthgroup.southbaySD

     

  389. Nestor Lopez

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    Stonewall Citizens PatrolORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: Stonewall Citizens’ Patrol

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S): 2yrs

    HOMETOWN: Allentown, PA

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Super singular but by choice

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO?
    7yrs 2.5 mos as of this month 3/15/14

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?
    Stonewall has shown great potential in the community and providing safety in a hands off manner. We have a great bunch of volunteers, staff, and board members. I also love interacting with the community and the idea that we are helping not only our community but law enforcement.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?
    Patrolling can have its quiet nights and some interesting nights. My favorite would have to be keeping two attractive big muscle men from continuing to be inappropriate in the back alley of Rich’s. We kept seeing them wander from one spot to another; it was like playing hide n seek. We just didn’t want them doing anything that would get them arrested for indecent exposure.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?
    Honestly, keeping the men and women safe in our community. Sadly, there have been some horrible incidents that have happened even recently and I want people to enjoy themselves and feel safe in our community.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?
    I am a very open person so there is not much people around me don’t know. If I had to take a stab at something…..I’m a closet club kid at heart, love bass in my face (no pun intended).

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?
    It is very different from back home and a bit of a culture shock for me. You can be openly gay and if in a relationship frolic down the street holding the hand of the one you love or like. You would not be able to do that where I was born and raised.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?
    As we are continually fighting for our right to be equal, I see that in our own community there is much judgment and segregation within it. I would like to see more respect and understanding from folks within the LGBT community. Can’t we all just get along?!?!?!

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?
    Try to stay connected with friends near and far by all forms of communication. Meeting others through friends and social media. I continually keep learning how to open myself more to others as well as their experiences. I love to hear people’s life stories, likes, dislikes, and interests.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?
    Whitney Houston because she is and always will be one of my all time favorite vocalists.
    Josh Groban because he is my favorite male vocalist, we share the same birthday (2/27), his personality, and he has no idea but we are meant to be together (LOL).
    Martin Luther King because I would love to hear his viewpoint on where we are now and what he would like to see moving forward. We as a culture are always learning and growing but I think we would benefit from his advice. Not to mention MLK’s reaction to finally having a black president.

     

  390. Stonewall Citizens Patrol

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    StonewallStonewallStonewallWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?
    The Stonewall Citizens’ Patrol is a volunteer neighborhood watch patrol group operating in the highly diverse Hillcrest, North Park and University Heights areas of San Diego. Our volunteers receive training from the San Diego Police Department and take turns patrolling the streets.

    In addition to patrolling, the organization focuses on crime awareness and crime prevention which includes distributing safety whistles, crime prevention posters, and safety tip cards.

    Our volunteers conduct themselves with a “hands-off” approach and do not carry weapons. We are merely additional “eyes and ears” for the San Diego Police Department.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?
    We serve all citizens of Hillcrest, University Heights, and North Park.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?
    Assisting with the SD Pride Festival, Nightmare on Normal Street, assisting, security with the GLSEN event at the Center, volunteering with the US Police and Fire Championships, providing safety coverage for the Transgender Day of Remembrance and the San Diego Remembers Matthew Shepard Event.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?
    October 2006

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    6 years

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    We have assisted safety.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?
    As a non-profit organization, Stonewall Citizens’ Patrol understands the need for community involvement. Working with Pride not only allows us to serve our community, but also gives us the opportunity to partner with Pride in order to realize the mission of both organizations.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?
    Patrol Volunteers, Administrative Volunteers, Volunteer Security Work

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?
    Supporting us financially is very important due to ongoing costs associated with maintaining our vehicle, which is the heart of our organization. Check out our website and apply to be a volunteer! We are always looking for passionate individuals looking for ways to help protect the community. Send us an email with any ideas you may have that could further our mission.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.stonewallcitizens.org
    Facebook: www.facebook.com/StonewallCitizensPatrol
    Twitter: @SCPSD

     

  391. Tom Kirkman

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    Tom Kirkman (FilmOut)ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: FilmOut San Diego, San Diego LGBT Pride. Previously, I volunteered at Diversionary Theatre and the San Diego Human Dignity Foundation.

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S):  FilmOut San Diego – 7 years. San Diego LGBT Pride – 7 years. Diversionary Theatre – 3 years. San Diego Human Dignity Foundation – 2 years.

    HOMETOWN: Lawrence, MA

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Single

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO: 15 years

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)? Both FilmOut San Diego and Diversionary Theatre were supportive of the seniors I worked with when I was Executive Director of the SAGE Center – and I wanted to give something back to these organizations that reached out to our seniors. With San Diego LGBT Pride, I have been the MC of the senior/ASL seating area/reviewing stand for the Pride Parade. I do it because it provides a good time for members of our senior and ASL communities.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY? There are so many – if I had to single out one, it would be meeting the many filmmakers who are committed to telling our stories. As a community, we have a rich history – both before and after Stonewall – and the filmmakers and FilmOut Festival organizers make it possible to show our stories, our history, on the big screen. I am inspired by their creativity.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO? Volunteerism is also a way to stay active. And most of the institutions/organizations in our community are non-profits – and they benefit greatly from the volunteer hours they receive. I also enjoy the arts (theater and independent films) – so choosing FilmOut and Diversionary Theatre were easy choices for me.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU? I enjoy entertaining and cooking. Preparing a meal for friends is exciting.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY? We have much to celebrate. We have sent several members of our community to the Statehouse where they work toward equality, we have elected several to serve our City on the council and on the school board, and
    recently we had a member of our community serve as Interim Mayor and one who is currently running for Congress. We have younger members of our community organizing events like San Diego Remembers helping us to focus on issues of bullying and hate crimes, and we have others who come together to work with our youth, veterans, seniors and transgender communities. This is exciting.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY? Unfortunately, we still have our ‘dramas’ – and I doubt that will change in the near future. It can have a negative impact on our growth as a community. We are all in this journey for full equality together. We have many good potential community leaders among us – we seniors need to support them in their efforts and the younger members need to remember our community’s history and respect those who have paved the way. This is not always easy to do.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING? Meeting friends for breakfast, going to the museums at Balboa Park, visiting the San Diego Zoo, joining other seniors on Friday nights and seeing friends in Palm Springs. I also enjoy reading, swimming, walking and bike riding.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AN INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY? My Mom (a Kennedy Democrat) and My Dad (a Nixon Republican). The dinner conversations were amazing! Also Stephen Sondheim, Judy Garland and Audra McDonald. As a musical theatre lover, the way in which he writes music – especially the lyrics – continues to amaze me; and both Judy Garland and Audra McDonald know how to interpret a song – and make it their own. Opps, that’s 5 – I guess I need a bigger table !

  392. FilmOut San Diego

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    FILMOUT LogoWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    Annual LGBT Film Festival, Monthly Screenings & Quarterly Marathons. In addition we co-present films at the Latino, Asian, Italian, Jewish and German film festivals here in San Diego.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE? We serve a minimum of 10,000 people a year at screenings.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES? Our fabulous LGBT film festival.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED? This will be our 16th year.

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE? Not sure, but several – with many more to come!

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE? Screenings, Cross Promotions, Raffles etc.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE? It is important for all LGBT organizations to support and promote each other. We are one family under this large umbrella.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE? We have many volunteer opportunities during the actual festival & monthly screenings: Social Media, Ushering, Demographic Seekers, Community Outreach, Poster Distribution, Ticket Takers, Will Call & much more.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK? By visiting our website and keeping up with us on Facebook and Twitter!

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.filmoutsandiego.com
    Facebook: FilmOut San Diego
    Twitter: FilmOutSD

  393. Lori Hensic

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    Lori Hensic (American Military Partner Association)ORGANIZATION: The American Military Partner Association (AMPA)

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR THE ORGANIZATION: ~2 (Director of Educational Affairs)

    HOMETOWN: Sonoma, CA

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Married! My wife, a Captain in the US Marine Corps, and I were married at the first day we were legally able to while living in San Diego – July 1, 2013

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO: ~2

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION?
    I first started volunteering for The American Military Partner Association (AMPA) as a way to give back to a community that was there for me when I had no one else to turn to. As a member of AMPA, the organization helped me get through challenging times as the same-sex partner of an active duty service member, particularly under Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (DADT). I definitely struggled navigating my way through “military life.” This was further complicated by the fact that even after the repeal of DADT, there were little to no resources available due to prohibitive laws preventing me access to much needed support systems.

    Finding and connecting with AMPA immediately provided a sense of relief; relief that I had a group of incredibly supportive service members and their partners that serve as an amazing nation-wide network for information, advocacy, and friendship. This incredibly rich family genuinely strives to assist and strengthen their community, as well as the military community overall. As a group, we have shared concerns from coping with maintaining a healthy relationship during deployments or PCS moves, to dependency status as it relates to having children, to how to best integrate military life within our own individual lives given the constraints and differences it poses for same-sex couples. It certainly helps my wife and I feel secure in knowing we have a network of knowledgeable and caring people who understand our concerns, and that we can fall back on them for support when we need it. During some of my most challenging times my AMPA family – my “fAMPAly” – was right there at my side whenever I needed them. Since then, I have been determined to give back to the organization that helped me so wholeheartedly in hopes that I can help someone else in return. I am proud to serve as the Director of Educational Affairs for the organization.

    As part of the mission in connecting, supporting, honoring and serving the partners and spouses of America’s LGBT service members and veterans, AMPA has a powerful ability to reach out to both the public as well as elected officials to educate them regarding inequalities faced by same-sex couples. It is vitally important to get the word out that the repeal of DADT and the fall of DOMA have been insufficient in providing full equality to our service members. Given its national representation, AMPA possesses great potential to effect real legislative change by serving as a voice for military members and their partners in our fight for equal rights. In my current role as the Director of Educational Affairs, I help communicate the challenges our LGBT military families face to members of Congress and high-level Defense Department officials so that they can enact policies that provide all service members with equal benefits.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?
    One of my most favorite volunteering memories was when I was invited to speak on behalf of our LGBT military families at the 2013 National Military Spouse Summit. Defying all statistical odds, I was the only lesbian in a room full of hundreds of military spouses, and the first invited to participate and speak on behalf of our families after the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell. I remember being insanely nervous about whether or not I would be well received by the notoriously conservative crowd. The spouses may not have all supported my relationship with another woman, but they certainly supported my relationship with a service member. We all recognized that we had much more in common than initially thought. That moment gave me much hope for the future for our LGBT military families. We may still have a way to go before reaching full equality – but the support is indeed there, even in places I may have not anticipated.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?
    The knowledge that not all families have the same legal protections from state to state while serving our nation. Indeed LGBT service members, their families, and their unwavering commitment to this country despite the challenges they face continue to remain my strongest motivation.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?
    I spent a summer working in South Sudan training the first generation of South Sudanese physicians at University of Juba, College of Medicine. That, and I really, REALLY love corndogs.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?
    The energy – ours is a vibrant community full of folks who are heavily involved at a local level.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?
    Increased connections across the generations. This would likely require a greater number of community events that are family friendly and applicable to all ages. But there is so much to benefit from by learning from those who came before us, as well as from those who will continue to move us forward into progress as a community.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?
    Travel, travel, travel. Sports, great conversations with friends over a local brew, walking my dog within the neighborhood, and evenings at home catching up with my beautiful wife.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?
    Edith Windsor – because she’s a BOSS, a wonderful leader in our LGBT community, and helped people really SEE what true love looks like.
    Gloria Steinam – because she’s a BOSS, a strong and unapologetic woman who is intelligent and sassy.
    Abraham Lincoln – because he was a BOSS, had a great beard, and stood up for what was right even when it was difficult.

  394. American Military Partners Association

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    San Diego Pride BoothWHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    Education, advocacy, and support for the partners, spouses, and families of America’s LGBT service members and veterans, our “modern military families.”

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?

    20,000+ members and supporters, including a little over 4,000 LGBT military partners/spouses

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?

    We will have our inaugural AMPA National Gala this May. www.MilitaryPartners.org/Gala-2014

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?

    2009 as the “Campaign for Military Partners”

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE? Four years

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    The Festival and the Pride Parade Military Contingent

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    A large portion of our members are located in the San Diego area.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?

    Our leadership team is 100% volunteer. In addition to our internship opportunities, we are always looking for volunteers to help with our local events.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?

    Join us at www.MilitaryPartners.org/Join for more info on how to get involved.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.MilitaryPartners.org
    Facebook: American Military Partners Association
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/LGBTMilPartners
    Instagram: http://instagram.com/lgbtmilitaryfamilies
    LinkedIn: American Military Partners Association

     

  395. Sherry Cohen-Richards

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    Volunteer SD PrideORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S): 13

    HOMETOWN: Philadelphia

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: taken

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO? 40 years

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)? To advocate for and support the LGBT community and to educate the public on LGBT rights and equality.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY? I volunteered at CESCaLand met George Takei. At the same function, I not only met Betty DeGeneres, but spoke with her for a while.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO? I have always had a sense of fairness. I will be motivated until there is total acceptance at all levels.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?  I love to Israeli dance.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY? The camaraderie of working for the same goal.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY? Less splinter LGBT groups – you can do more with less. Everyone is vying for the same people, donors, etc.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING? Spend time with my grandkids and getting together with my PFLAG ladies group.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?  My mother because I miss her and still need her, my sister because she lives on the East Coast and I don’t get to see her often enough, my Aunt Lil because we were close and she died when I was 12 years old.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: www.pflag.com
    Facebook: PFLAG San Diego County
    Twitter: @pflagSD

     

  396. PFLAG (Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays)

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    pride-flag-at-parade-for-web (1)WHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    We are allies who support and advocate for the LGBT community. One of our biggest components is to educate the general public.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?

    Hopefully, all of San Diego.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?

    Participate in the Pride Parade and Festival, South Bay Pride Festival (booth), AIDS Walk, Dining out for Life, award scholarships, attend annual community events (Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast, Frida Kahlo Birthday, etc.) and applying for and hopefully receiving a grant from PRIDE!

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?

    Nationally, 1972 – San Diego, 1983

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    At least 24 years

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    Parade, Festival, Out at the Park and this year Out at the Fair.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    San Diego Pride gives us another avenue to reach the LGBT community. It is also a way of showing respect that we have for SD Pride.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?

    Serving on our board, working on various committees (Scholarship, Speakers Bureau, Outreach, Procurement), participation at booths at various functions, head ad hoc committees, Regional Coordinator/Reps.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK? See above!

    CONNECT WITH US:
    Website: www.pflag.com
    Facebook: PFLAG San Diego County
    Twitter: @pflagSD

  397. Ira Bauer-Spector

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    Ira & Nathan Bauer-Spector (Breakthrough Theatre)ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR:
    Breakthrough Workshop Theatre

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)
    Since October 2012

    BRIEF BIO
    I’m from Aurora, Colorado and married to my husband Nathan. I moved to San Diego in August 2008 to pursue an MFA in Musical Theatre (Directing) from San Diego State University.

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?
    I have been involved with a variety of theatre companies around town and around the country (youth, university, community, regional and professional), but BWT provides unique opportunities that simply aren’t available through other organizations. We allow artists of all ages and experience levels to work together on theatre without the pressures and time commitment of being involved in more traditional projects. We also have a unique demographic due to our programming and the wide variety of artists we attract to participate in our work. In mid-April, we will be producing two shows in repertory, the family-friendly classic musical You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown alongside the very mature and powerful play with LGBT themes, Dog Sees God: Confessions of a Teenage Blockhead. I can’t think of any other company in town whose mission would support producing both of these shows together.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?
    One of my favorite BWT memories would be the World Premiere of The Bette Midler Project in March 2013. I have idolized the legendary Bette Midler my entire life and after finding the play Bette and Me by Pulitzer Prize-winning playwright Wendy Wasserstein, I penned a short companion piece entitled Bette and I and together, the two pieces became The Bette Midler Project. In addition to writing and directing, I starred as “The Divine” herself in drag, and was so inspired by the piece that I have reworked Bette and I into a full-length brand new play called Miss M Saves the Universe! That piece will have its World Premiere at the 2nd Annual San Diego Fringe Festival in July, 2014.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?
    We are changing perspectives for our artists and our audiences. We are exposing people to unique stories told in interesting ways and giving artists an outlet to pursue what they love in a collaborative and inspirational environment.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?
    In addition to directing/writing/performing with BWT, I also create all of the graphics and videos. I even designed and created our website breakthroughworkshop.org.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?
    Some of the most inspiring things about our local LGBT community are how active we are in politics and the arts. BWT’s signature theatre piece is Patricia Loughrey’s Dear Harvey, a play we presented, and won an award for, at the 1st San Diego Fringe Festival last year. The piece explores Harvey’s message of being open to those around you and remaining active in the community, and more than three decades after his assassination we can see his legacy playing out all throughout the San Diego area. Our amazing City Council President Todd Gloria, Assembly Member Toni Atkins, community leader Nicole Murray-Ramirez, Diversionary Theatre, Harvey Milk’s American Diner and of course San Diego Pride are all highlights of our strong LGBT community. We are incredibly proud to be a part of it.

    WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE CHANGE IN THE LGBT COMMUNITY?
    We are making so many strides in our community both locally and nationally, and I suspect national marriage equality will be a reality for us in a short number of years. That being said, we can’t take our progress for granted and become apathetic. We must remain diligent and continue to work for a more loving and accepting world. I would like to see more emphasis placed on family, the trans community, and those valued members of our community who are growing older. Also, it is imperative that we as a community stay educated and take action regarding the horrible situations facing members of the international LGBT community in places such as Uganda and Russia.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING?
    In addition to my work with BWT, I also have directed numerous productions at San Diego Junior Theatre in Balboa Park and I absolutely love working with children. I enjoy Thai food, trips to New York City, and our two cats, Max and Maebelle.

    IF YOU COULD HOST A DINNER PARTY AND INVITE THREE PEOPLE (DEAD OR ALIVE), WHO WOULD THEY BE AND WHY?
    Bette Midler, Hillary Clinton & Jonathan Larson – these three individuals have inspired me greatly over the years through their work and the contributions they have made to society and the LGBT community. I would not be who I am today without these three. Plus, what a fabulous dinner party it would be!

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: breakthroughworkshop.org
    Facebook: facebook.com/breakthroughworkshop
    Instagram: @breakthroughworkshop

     

  398. Breakthrough Workshop Theatre

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    5 Dear Harvey (Fringe)WHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    We educate, challenge, celebrate and empower artists by providing them unique opportunities in a collaborative, ensemble environment. We are an education-focused theatre company with an emphasis on socially relevant dramatic works pulling from a repertoire of LGBT theatre, family friendly fare, musical theatre, and Pulitzer Prize-winning works. We don’t intend to produce time and cost-intensive productions, and instead focus on providing theatre artists of all ages, backgrounds, and experience levels with a chance to explore characters and material they would otherwise be unlikely to encounter. The work of our company always highlights the necessity of breaking through an obstacle, whether it be a personal struggle or a critical movement in society.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?

    In our 2014 season we expect to reach around 750 theatre patrons and will work with 50 or more local and national artists. We also have a growing social media following and are always welcoming new faces at facebook.com/breakthroughworkshop.

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?

    This year we will produce several workshop readings, two full productions, and a musical revue. We were also accepted into the San Diego Fringe Festival for the second year in a row where we are excited to be producing a brand new original work of theatre titled Miss M Saves the Universe! This semi-autobiographical satirical fantasy travels through time as we experience significant breakthrough moments in the life of our protagonist. Along to assist is Miss M, a “divine” guardian angel inspired by the showbiz persona of the legendary Bette Midler. Our star character will be performed in drag by our very own Founding Artistic Director, Ira Bauer-Spector, who played Miss M in The Bette Midler Project last year. Check out our Facebook page to see an album of photos from the show.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?

    We launched Breakthrough Workshop Theatre in the fall of 2012 out of our tiny studio apartment in University Heights. We’re pretty sure whoever lives there now is still vacuuming up glitter and sequence from our production of The Bette Midler Project.

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    This is our first year participating in San Diego Pride as an organization, and we’re thrilled to be a part of this incredible celebration and movement.

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    Our organization is very connected to the mission and purpose of San Diego Pride. The Reflections of Pride theme this year is especially important to us because, for the third time, we’ll be producing local playwright Patricia Loughrey’s beautifully constructed documentary-style play titled Dear Harvey. The show recounts the life and lasting impact of groundbreaking LGBT activist and politician Harvey Milk, as told by the people who knew him best, and reaffirms his impact and the continued relevance of his campaign towards equality, more than three decades after his assassination.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?

    We’re always looking for artists to “breakthrough” with us, and sometimes even have opportunities for designers, stage crew, and developing artists looking for fellowships and experience. Check out our website for contact information.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?

    If you’re not interested in being on stage or behind the scenes, join us as an audience member at one of our productions. Our tickets are always very reasonably priced and we welcome everyone regardless of your background or theatre experience. Come “breakthrough” with us!

    CONNECT WITH US:

    Website: breakthroughworkshop.org
    Facebook: facebook.com/breakthroughworkshop
    Instagram: @breakthroughworkshop

  399. Patrick Anderson

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    IMG_3007ORGANIZATION(S) YOU VOLUNTEER FOR: Fraternity House, Inc.

    NUMBER OF YEARS VOLUNTEERING FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S): 17

    HOMETOWN: Los Angeles

    SINGLE OR TAKEN: Married

    HOW MANY YEARS HAVE YOU BEEN IN SAN DIEGO? 26

    WHY DO YOU VOLUNTEER FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION(S)?

    I believe strongly in our mission. It’s meaningful because I can see the direct impact we have on the lives of the men and women who live with us.

    WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE VOLUNTEERING MEMORY?

    The landscaping project at Michaelle House, shortly after we acquired the property. This was my introduction to the organization. My daily interaction with the residents during the project, and seeing their joy as we made their home a beautiful place to live, got me hooked.

    WHAT MOTIVATES YOU TO DO THE WORK YOU DO?

    Knowing that if my life had taken even a slightly different path, I could be the one needing our services. This gives great personal meaning to my work there.

    WHAT IS SOMETHING THAT MANY PEOPLE DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOU?

    I’m a closet opera singer.

    WHAT DO YOU LIKE MOST ABOUT THE LOCAL LGBT COMMUNITY?

    I’m stuck out in the country, so apart from occasional major events like AIDS Walk SD, I don’t have a lot of interaction with the LGBT community.

    WHAT SORTS OF THINGS DO YOU DO TO ENRICH YOUR SOCIAL LIFE OTHER THAN VOLUNTEERING

    I sing every chance I get, in several choral ensembles around town. I also have a wonderful garden that I frequently open for tours and fund-raisers.

  400. Fraternity House Inc.

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    Frat House Logo WHAT DOES YOUR ORGANIZATION DO?

    Fraternity House, Inc. operates the only two licensed homes in the county that are dedicated to serving men and women with HIV/AIDS. We offer 24-hour personal care from certified nursing assistants, meals, assistance with adherence to complex medication regimens, laundry, organized activities, transportation to doctor’s appointments, and linkage with other important services in our community. Our mission is to provide warm and caring homes where men and women disabled by HIV/AIDS can receive comprehensive care and services in order to rebuild their health and return to independent living, or where they can spend their last days in comfort and dignity.

    HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU SERVE?

    Fraternity House in Escondido has 8 beds for men and the Michaelle House in Vista has 12 beds for women and men. Each year we help approximately 30 individuals from throughout San Diego County. And yes, we do serve the transgender community!

    WHAT ARE YOUR MAJOR ANNUAL ACTIVITIES?

    We have an annual holiday open house at Fraternity House in December; it’s a great time to chat with friends and residents. We also have an open house coming up at the end of March at Michaelle House. In the summer we have our biggest fundraiser, Sharing by Moonlight, at the Moonlight Amphitheatre in Vista.

    WHEN WAS YOUR ORGANIZATION FOUNDED?

    Fraternity House, Inc. has been providing services in San Diego County for more than 25 years, since the mid-80’s when people with AIDS were shunned and had nowhere else to go. We were formally incorporated as a non-profit in 1988.

    HOW MANY YEARS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    Fraternity House and Michaelle House residents have always participated in Pride, whether it’s the parade or the festival.

    IN WHAT WAYS HAS YOUR ORGANIZATION PARTICIPATED IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    As a very small organization, we usually participate by collaborating with other groups here in North County, such as Pilgrim Church or the North County LGBTQ Center. For a few years we had a wheelchair lift van that we decorated and entered in the parade; the Executive Director even led the way with her Harley!

    WHY IS IT IMPORTANT FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION TO PARTICIPATE IN SAN DIEGO PRIDE?

    We feel it is important to send a message that love, laughter and fun are the things that make life enjoyable on a daily basis. Pride is a great way to do that. Although Fraternity House, Inc. does not discriminate when someone needs our help, a huge proportion of our residents over the years have self-identified as LGBTQ. So do many staff and volunteers. Our motto is Keeping Love Alive and Pride is a perfect way for our family to support and celebrate one another.

    WHAT VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES DO YOU HAVE AVAILABLE?

    Volunteers at Fraternity House and Michaelle House serve a variety of functions. You can cook a meal, tend a garden, clean a room, paint a wall, drive to a doctor’s appointment, help on an outing, file paperwork … whatever your talent and interests are, we can find a place for you.

    HOW ELSE CAN PEOPLE GET INVOLVED WITH YOUR WORK?

    If you don’t have the time or ability to come to North County, please “like” us on Facebook and check out our website. We serve people from throughout the county and it is important to let the community know about our services.

    CONNECT WITH US:

    http://www.fraternityhouse-inc.org
    https://www.facebook.com/FraternityHouseInc

  401. LGBT COMMUNITY LEADERS TO BE HONORED AT SAN DIEGO PRIDE 40TH ANNIVERSARY

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    LGBT COMMUNITY LEADERS TO BE HONORED AT SAN DIEGO PRIDE 40TH ANNIVERSARY

            

    SAN DIEGO — San Diego Pride is proud to announce its 2014 Spirit of Stonewall Award winners, who will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally, taking place Friday, July 18 at 6:00 pm, at the Hillcrest Pride Flag. 



    The annual awards are designed to honor individuals and organizations that have made a positive impact on San Diego’s LGBT community. Nominations for the awards were received from the San Diego community and the list of recipients follows: 



    Grand Marshal

    The honorable Speaker of the Assembly, Toni Atkins.



    Community Grand Marshals

    Pioneers of Pride: The LGBT Community Center, Dignity San Diego, The Imperial Court de San Diego, and the Metropolitan Community Church



    Champions of Pride

    Vincent Pompei – For his national service to LGBT Youth and education. 

    Lisa Mata – For her volunteerism and helping to bring the Human Rights Campaign to San Diego.



    Friend of Pride

    Patti Boman – For her dedication to PFLAG and LGBT youth.


    Stonewall Service Award


    Lambda Archives – For preserving the San Diego LGBT community’s history. 



    Inspirational Couple

    Danielle LoPresti & Alicia Champion – For volunteerism and dedication to the LGBT community.

    Dwayne D. & Jonathan Beebe-Franqui – For working to give a face and voice to LGBT military couples.



    Community Service

    Empress Candi Samples – Dedication to the LGBT community through her work at the Imperial Court.



    “While Pride is our community’s largest celebration, it is also a time to honor our roots and give thanks to the leaders and organizations what work every day to make our community a better place,” said Stephen Whitburn, San Diego LGBT Pride, Executive Director.





    For more information on this year’s event visit sdpride.org.





    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally.  www.sdpride.org

  402. Announcement of the 2014 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

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    [vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]PRIDE ANNOUNCES 2014 SPIRIT OF STONEWALL AWARDEES

    SAN DIEGO — San Diego Pride is proud to announce its 2014 Spirit of Stonewall Award winners, who will be honored at the Spirit of Stonewall Rally, taking place Friday, July 18 at 6 pm, at the Hillcrest Pride Flag. The distinguished Toni Atkins will be the Grand Marshall of this momentous occasion.

    The annual awards are designed to honor individuals and organizations that have made a positive impact on San Diego’s LGBT community. As our celebrity Nominations for the awards were received from the San Diego community and the list of recipients follows:

    Champions of Pride
    Vincent Pompei – working with the Human Rights Campaign and LGBT youth
    Lisa Mata – bringing the Human Rights Campaign to San Diego and volunteerism

    The Champion of Pride Award honors individuals or couples who have demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBT community over an extended period of years, or who have made an exceptional contribution over the past year.

    Friend of Pride
    Patti Boman – dedication to PFLAG as well as LGBT youth

    The Friend of Pride Award honors individuals or couples who do not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender, but who have stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years or the past year.

    Stonewall Service Award
    Maureen Steiner – preserving the LGBT community’s history with the Lambda Archives

    The Stonewall Service Award honors groups or organizations, which may or may not identify as specifically LGBT, but which have greatly supported the community over an extended period of years and/or have made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

    Inspirational Couple
    Danielle LoPresti and Alicia Champion – volunteerism and dedication to the LGBT community
    Dwayne D. and Jonathan Beebe-Franqui – historical presence and progressing the LGBT movement

    Community Service
    Candi Samples – dedication to the LGBT community through her work at the Imperial Court

    The Community Service Award honors individuals or couples who are recognized as “up-and-coming” leaders within the community, or whose contributions to the community over the past year carried significant impact.

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  403. Actress and Activist Laverne Cox to Join San Diego Pride

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    (San Diego, CA) – Actress, television star, and renowned transgender advocate Laverne Cox is coming to San Diego to be the keynote speaker for San Diego Pride’s annual Spirit of Stonewall Rally and flag raising this summer.

    The rally will be held Friday, July 18 at 6:00 pm adjacent to the Hillcrest Pride Flag at the corner of University Ave. and Normal St. The Spirit of Stonewall Rally and flag raising will serve as the official kickoff of this year’s 40th Anniversary San Diego LGBT Pride Weekend.

    “I am deeply honored to be a part of San Diego Pride,” said Cox. “When I think of Pride I can’t help but think of the legacy of folks like Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson, and so many trans folks who came before me and refused to allow anyone to silence their voices for equality and justice.”

    Cox has shared her story and message across the country, through public speaking and published works. At San Diego Pride’s Spirit of Stonewall Rally, Cox will join other LGBT leaders, activists, and elected officials to honor the legacy of the LGBT movement and celebrate its accomplishments.

    “Laverne Cox has dedicated her life to advocating for human rights,” said San Diego Pride Public Affairs Director Fernando Lopez. “The story of her mission to eradicate homophobia, racism, sexism, and transphobia has been an inspiration to many and will surely engage the cheering crowds at this year’s historic Spirit of Stonewall Rally.”

    One of the largest such events in the nation, San Diego Pride’s weekend celebration will also feature a block party on Friday night, a 5k run and parade on Saturday, and a two-day music festival on Saturday and Sunday in Balboa Park.

    For more information visit: sdpride.org

  404. Community Invited to Join in 40th Anniversary Pride Celebration

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    [vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]January 14, 2014

    COMMUNITY INVITED TO JOIN IN 40TH

    ANNIVERSARY PRIDE CELEBRATION

    SAN DIEGO – San Diego LGBT Pride’s volunteers, board of directors, and staff are hard at work preparing for this year’s 40th anniversary Pride celebration and are looking forward to community participation in this year’s festivities scheduled for July 18-20. Applications for entertainers, sponsors, parade contingents, program guide advertisers, and festival exhibitors are now available online at sdpride.org.

    The annual Pride weekend festivities, which include the Spirit of Stonewall Rally, the Pride of Hillcrest Block Party, the Pride Parade, and the two-day Pride Festival, are a result of the many people, groups, sponsors, artists, and partners who support this community celebration. Those who are planning to participate in this year’s 40th anniversary Pride celebration, with the theme “Reflections of Pride,” are encouraged to submit applications early. Additional information about the various ways to participate is below.

    • Entertainers: Artists who perform on one of the many stages that are available throughout the weekend help entertain Pride-goers and in turn, help the organization raise money to give back to the community. All sorts of entertainers are being sought for this year’s event. Applications should be submitted by March 23. Visit sdpride.org and click “Entertain with Pride.”
    • Sponsors: With the support of sponsors, San Diego Pride is able to create an even better experience for the community while freeing up resources that can be given back to the community. Visit sdpride.org and click “Sponsor with Pride” for a sponsor packet.
    • Parade Contingents: San Diego Pride brings color and flair to the streets of Hillcrest during the city’s largest single-day civic event, the San Diego Pride Parade. Hundreds of thousands of cheering spectators line the streets to watch contingents of community groups, businesses, educators, elected officials, and others parade by. To register a contingent, visit sdpride.org and click “Parade with Pride.”
    • Advertisers: The San Diego Pride program guide distributes 20,000 copies, sharing Pride weekend information with locals and visitors alike. The guide is distributed throughout California, as well as in Las Vegas and Phoenix, and is a great way to promote a business to the LGBT community. To advertise, visit sdpride.org and click “Advertise with Pride.”
    • Exhibitors: A variety of local and national organizations and businesses participate in the festival through an exhibitor booth. Those who wish to get the highest visibility spots are encouraged to get their applications in early. Visit sdpride.org and click “Exhibit with Pride.”

    “Pride is the biggest weekend of the year to champion, celebrate, and support our community, and we are grateful to all of the people and organizations who participate and make it happen,” said Stephen Whitburn, Pride General Manager. “This 40th Anniversary Pride will be our biggest ever, so we’re asking everyone to sign up early this year.”

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  405. Reflections of Pride: 40th Anniversary Theme Logo Contest Begins

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    January 21st, 2014

    REFLECTIONS OF PRIDE: 40th
    ANNIVERSARY THEME LOGO CONTEST BEGINS!

    SAN DIEGO, CA – The reintroduction of the annual San Diego Pride festival logo contest begins Tuesday, January 21. With the new-year in motion and the planning for the 2014 celebration well underway, the new logo for the 40th anniversary San Diego Pride, Reflections of Pride, encourages artists and graphic designers across San Diego to participate in this opportunity to showcase their creative work.

    “We’re excited to announce the return of our theme logo design contest, are excited to see what
    creativity our community has in store for us,” said Stephen Whitburn, San Diego LGBT Pride General Manager. This year, San Diego Pride will be offering the winning artist 4 VIP tickets to the San Diego Pride Festival, widespread recognition throughout social media, and recognition in both the program guide and the “All in Pride” celebration

    Information regarding the design guidelines can be found on the San Diego Pride website including
    design format and instructions for submission. The deadline to submit all artwork is February 21, 2014, and the winner will be announced in March.

    Artists and designers across San Diego County are highly encouraged to take advantage of this
    opportunity.

    More information can be found at sdpride.org/logocontest or by contacting Fernando Lopez at [email protected] or 619-297-7683 x109.

     

  406. PRIDE SIMPLIFIES TICKETS; ALL FESTIVAL ATTENDEES GET TWO-DAY ACCESS

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    December 17, 2013

    PRIDE SIMPLIFIES TICKETS; ALL FESTIVAL ATTENDEES GET TWO-DAY ACCESS

    San Diego, CA – San Diego LGBT Pride has announced it is simplifying festival ticket pricing and increasing access to the annual two-day celebration attended by tens of thousands in Balboa Park.

    Instead of different prices for early bird tickets, one-day tickets, two-day tickets, and tickets for select groups such as seniors, students, and military, tickets for all guests will be $20, and all will be two-day passes. Volunteers and youths aged 15 and under will continue to receive free admission.

    Those who previously bought a two-day pass for $30 will now pay only $20 for a two-day pass. Those who previously bought a one-day pass for $20 will now get a two-day pass for the same price.

    “People who buy a festival ticket should be able to get in as often as they’d like all weekend, and people shouldn’t have to figure out what type of ticket they need to buy,” said Stephen Whitburn, San Diego Pride’s general manager. “This is much simpler: it’s 20 bucks for the whole weekend, and that includes all eight entertainment stages including our headlining performers.”

    Whitburn noted that next year will be San Diego Pride’s 40th anniversary.

    “Everyone involved wants the 2014 Pride Festival to be one people will always remember,” Whitburn said. “We’re working on a lot of new additions that I think people are going to love.”

    Pride’s 40thAnniversary Festival will be Saturday, July 19 from 12 noon – 10 pm and Sunday, July 20 from 11 am – 8 pm at Marston Point in Balboa Park (Sixth Ave. and Laurel St.)

    The festival features more than 150 musicians, bands, comedy and dance performers, over 250 exhibitors, cultural presentations, great food, and endless people watching.

    A charitable non-profit, San Diego LGBT Pride uses festival proceeds to fund year-round community giving, which this year totaled $146,000.

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in, and respect for, all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

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  407. SAN DIEGO PRIDE GIVES $40,000 TO THE CENTER IN HONOR OF ITS 40TH BIRTHDAY

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    November 20, 2013

    SAN DIEGO PRIDE GIVES $40,000 TO THE CENTER IN HONOR OF ITS 40TH BIRTHDAY

    After a successful 2013 season, San Diego Pride has announced that it will donate $40,000 to the San Diego LGBT Community Center, in honor of the organization’s 40th anniversary. This “birthday gift” is part of San Diego Pride’s annual community giving program.

    San Diego Pride annually raises funds through ticket and beverage sales during Pride weekend and then distributes financial support to LGBT-serving organizations. In accordance with its mission, San Diego Pride has designated this gift to The Center to foster pride in, and respect for, our HIV positive, transgender, and sober communities, as well as our LGBT families.

    “We are pleased to contribute funding to The Center each year to support the many vital services they provide to the community every day, year-round,” said Stephen Whitburn, San Diego Pride’s General Manager. “These funds are made possible by the hundreds of thousands of Pride participants each year, and we are grateful to them for helping us support our community for 40 years.”

    The $40,000 grant will be split up among four of The Center’s programs and the general fund, including $10,000 to Transgender Services, $10,000 to Family Matters, $10,000 to HIV Services, and $5,000 to sobriety programs. The remaining $5,000 will be placed in The Center’s general fund.

    “We’re so pleased to receive this very generous gift from Pride,” said Center CEO Dr. Delores Jacobs. “We’re grateful for their continued partnership in so much of what we do, as well as their ongoing work in the San Diego LGBT community. The Center has been fortunate enough to work with Pride for years and this grant is an affirmation of all we’ve accomplished together. It’s always a particular compliment when a strong community partner also supports The Center’s programs financially and we couldn’t be more grateful.”

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

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  408. SAN DIEGO PRIDE BEGINS 2013 GRANT PROCESS AND COMMUNITY SURVEY

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    September 25, 2013

    SAN DIEGO PRIDE BEGINS 2013 GRANT PROCESS AND COMMUNITY SURVEY

    SAN DIEGO – San Diego LGBT Pride is pleased to announce that due to the success of this year’s Pride event, themed Freedom to Love and Marry, we are able to continue our tradition of community giving.

    In addition to being a celebration, Pride is our community’s biggest fundraiser of the year,” said San Diego LGBT Pride’s General Manager Stephen Whitburn. “It is exciting for us to know that funds raised during Pride weekend are now available to be given to our community organizations.”

    Pride will be accepting grant requests of amounts ranging from $500.00 to $5,000.00 until Friday, October 25, 2013 at 5:00 pm PST.

    Grant applications can be found at www.sdpride.org/grants

    As San Diego LGBT Pride prepares to celebrate our 40th anniversary the Board of Directors, staff, and Community Advisory Council of San Diego Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Pride are seeking community input to improve the organization and premiere civic event.

    Those interested in sharing their thoughts are encouraged to take our online survey. https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/sdpride2013

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

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  409. Pride Introduces New Co-Chairs

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    September 5, 2013

    PRIDE INTRODUCES NEW CO-CHAIRS

    San Diego LGBT Pride is pleased to announce the election of new Co-Chairs, Tiffany Gonzalez and Romer De Los Santos. Tiffany, a veteran of the U.S. Navy, has served the board most recently as chair of the board development committee. Romer comes with a long history of board service and project management experience. The board has also elected new secretary, Jaime Carrillo, a non-profit management leader and advocate for access to healthcare.

    “This entire executive team is very optimistic and excited about the future of Pride and what the organization will be able to do, moving forward, for the community. We’re just very thankful for the opportunity we’ve been given”, stated Co-Chair Tiffany Gonzalez.

    As Pride welcomes the new leadership, the organization is also bidding farewell to Treasurer Dion Brown as well as long-time board director and previous Co-Chair, Joseph Mayer, who has retired from board service. Having served Pride in various capacities for over 20 years and holding positions of Treasurer and Co-Chair in that time, Joe has set a high standard for board service.

    “On behalf of the Board of Directors, the staff, and our community, we would like to sincerely thank Joe Mayer for his long and faithful service to Pride and the community. His passion and dedication won’t soon be forgotten, and we wish him all the best as he enjoys his retirement”, remarked Co-Chair Romer De Los Santos.

    If you are interested in serving on the board of directors or know someone who could potentially make a great contribution through board service, please contact: [email protected]

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

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  410. PRIDE WISHES BEST OF LUCK TO OUTGOING CO-CHAIR, EBONY ALDRIDGE

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    Contact: Joseph Mayer, Co-Chair 619-297-7683

    August 1, 2013

    PRIDE WISHES BEST OF LUCK TO OUTGOING CO-CHAIR, EBONY ALDRIDGE

    San Diego LGBT Pride announced today that Ebony Aldridge will be leaving her position at Pride and moving on to work on other opportunities. Ebony thanked the Board, Staff and Community for affording her the opportunity to lead the organization through another successful event this year.

    Additionally, William Rodriguez-Kennedy has resigned his post as Co-Chair-Elect in order to pursue his passion of creating change and affecting policy in the political arena of the city and county of San Diego. Pride wishes him much success in those endeavors.

    “On behalf of the San Diego LGBT Pride Board of Directors, Staff, and even the community, we want to thank both Ebony and William for all their hard work, dedication and passion they contributed to the team here at Pride,” stated Co-Chair Joseph Mayer.

    Joseph also remarked, “Pride is resilient. Although we have work to do in building the board’s membership, experience, and resources, I want to ensure you that the Executive team is committed and we will make that happen! Pride is a big commitment of time and energy but you can look at the results and see that it is worth it!”

    If you are interested, or know someone who could potentially make a great contribution through board service, please contact: [email protected]

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org

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  411. MARINES JOIN NAVY IN WELCOMING UNIFORMED SERVICEMEMBERS TO SAN DIEGO PRIDE

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    July 10, 2013

    MARINES JOIN NAVY IN WELCOMING UNIFORMED SERVICEMEMBERS TO SAN DIEGO PRIDE

    SAN DIEGO — As the city gears up for this weekend’s annual San Diego LGBT Pride festivities, Marines and sailors with I (First) Marine Expeditionary Force have received authorization to wear approved uniforms in the 39th annual Pride Parade on Saturday, July 13 at 11 am.

    This follows authorization by the Department of Navy, Navy Region Southwest, authorizing active duty Navy servicemembers under its command to wear their uniforms in the parade.

    For the third year, servicemembers are invited to participate in the Military Contingent which leads the San Diego LGBT Pride Parade. Over 300 servicemembers are expected to participate, either in uniform or a branch specific T-shirt.

    I MEF is finalizing the official administrative message to be delivered to the command. Marines and sailors who wish to participate are approved to wear authorized leave and liberty uniforms and attire in the parade.

    Personnel are required to reference and follow Marine Corps regulations and policies regarding the proper wear of authorized uniforms and are prohibited from wearing the uniform while engaged in unauthorized activities.

    In the release from I MEF, the command says that diversity remains one of its top priorities.

    “We are proud of the diverse backgrounds, cultures, and versatile skills of our men and women and embrace their personal decision to participate in this community event honoring their service,” 1st Lt. Garth Langley

    San Diego Pride will host an information session for participants who are 21 years and older on Thursday, July 11 from 6-7 pm at Bourbon Street Bar & Grill, located at 4612 Park Blvd. At the event, additional information will be provided about the Military Contingent.

    Servicemembers who wish to participate in the contingent should register online at www.sdpride.org/military. For additional questions, contact [email protected].

    Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. www.sdpride.org 

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