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About Alex Villafuerte

Alex Villafuerte is San Diego Pride's Marketing & Communication Manager. He oversees the marketing for all of Pride's events & programs. Outside of Pride, he has a love for the outdoors, the San Diego brew scene, and naps.

Women’s History Month is a call to action!
March 2, 2023 10:26 am Leave a Comment
Dear Pride Family,

When I was asked to write the newsletter for Women’s History Month, I sat down at my keyboard and…stared. I identify as a woman, I was on the committee that started She Fest, I have coordinated women’s events for over a decade. I understand why I was asked to write this newsletter. I have lived experience. And I greatly appreciate San Diego Pride’s posture of ensuring those with lived experiences are the ones holding the mic. But lord, do I wish I didn’t have to. I wish women’s lives, contributions, autonomy, and value were not something that needed an “awareness month”.

I was doing research on the history of “awareness months” and their outcomes. I found one article that, in addition to alerting me to a new favorite word, captured the conflicting feelings I have about this month:

Given the ubiquity of …awareness days and ambiguity of their messages, it is possible that they bombard the public with information to the point where individuals conflate being knowledgeable about an … issue with taking action to address it. As the researchers point out, “Exposure to this flood of information may serve to narcotize rather than to energize.” (citation)

For those who lead much fuller lives than I do, and don’t spend countless hours on the internet trying to better understand basic concepts, “narcotize” means to soothe to unconsciousness or unawareness. And that is at the core of my concern: how do we leverage this month so that we are not just knowledgeable of women’s contributions and challenges, we are not soothed to unawareness, rather we are energizing society toward action so one bright day in the future women do not require an “awareness.”

I do not pretend to know the answers. I grew up in patriarchal, evangelical Texas so I’ve got some unpacking to do before I can provide insight into this topic. Luckily, the Director of Education and Advocacy, Jen LaBarbera, was willing to offer their insight. “Women’s History Month is important. We’re going backward: the repeal of abortion rights, the disproportionate violence and hate targeting trans women, the horrendously high rates of intimate partner violence among bi+ women, Black maternal mortality rates are still through the roof, and all of that is connected to our long history of patriarchal violence. Understanding that long history and current reality must motivate us to take action to get to that bright day in the future.”

There are ways to honor Women’s History Month in concrete action. There are ways to stand in solidarity with trans women. There are organizations and groups that are taking action to address inequity and there is no better time than now to get involved. This list is not exhaustive, but it is a great place to start:
My parting message is this: whatever “awareness month” you find yourself in, do not be soothed, do not be narcotized. Use that time to take action. Because we are meant for greater things, we are meant to Thrive.

With Pride,

Kelcie Parra
Pronouns: she/her
Deputy Executive Director
San Diego Pride
Have Faith…
June 17, 2021 6:41 pm Leave a Comment
Far too many young people hear from their faith leaders that their mere existence is a sin, a moral failure, and eternal damnation awaits them. All too often faith is used as a weapon against LGBTQ people, an excuse to oppress, as a reason to fire people from their jobs, kick children out of their homes and onto the streets, deny foster youth access to loving homes, and subjecting them to mental and physical torture in so-called “Conversion Therapy Camps,” which are still legal in 35 states.

For months our community has been holding our collective breath as yet again our legal protections hung in the balance at the Supreme Court. Before them was the Fulton case which sought to use faith as a license to discriminate. Today’s decision was very narrow, and only pertains to the specific contract at issue in Philadelphia. Left in place are LGBTQ nondiscrimination laws and policies.

We can not let down our guard. We’ve known for some time the strategic and intentional roadmap that anti-LGBTQ extremists have been using to unravel and destroy LGBTQ legal protections using religious freedom arguments as their facade. Today’s narrow ruling must serve as a reminder to us all that we cannot become complacent. It will take all of us applying pressure to our places of work, worship, and our elected representatives to compel each of them to understand they have a responsibility to ensure the passage of The Equality Act.

Today must also serve as a reminder that religious freedom is an LGBTQ issue. LGBTQ people are people of faith. In the San Diego region alone there are over 100 LGBTQ open and affirming congregations, each of them in active service of our people, community, and movement.

Each year during Pride week our LGBTQ supportive interfaith community comes together to honor that work at our Light up the Cathedral event held in partnership with St Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral. Each year we uplift social justice issues through an intersectional interfaith lens. In 2019 we uplifted the Jewish community to combat the rise in anti-Semitic violence, in 2020 we centered the Black community to counter anti-Black racism and violence.

This year we are centering our indigenous and two-spirit community. Our Light of Pride honorees are the Strong Hearted Native Women’s Coalition, a non-profit, nongovernmental tribal coalition that provides services and advocacy for women and 2SLGBTQ people. It is truly a privilege to know them and uplift their critical work to bring awareness against sexual assault and domestic violence in San Diego Indian Country.

Whether you are spiritual, religious, faithful, agnostic, or atheist, we can agree that faith should not be used to harm our LGBTQ community. As we continue to fight the battles of our movement it will continue to be vital to work in coalition with one another towards our common goals and the common good. There is much work for us on the road ahead in our pursuit of justice, and I have faith that together we will get there because we are Resilient.
40 Years of Pride/ Remembering with Pride
June 27, 2019 12:47 pm Leave a Comment
Mark Lawrence in San Diego. 1978.

One of the most wonderful things about working for San Diego Pride is that I have the opportunity to speak with so many people in our LGBTQ+ community and hear their stories. Recently, I had the good fortune to meet Mark Lawrence, a wonderful 64-year-old nurse who works for Blue Shield of California as an inpatient care manager. Mark attended his first San Diego Pride Parade in 1978, but we met because his company’s LGBT Employee Resource Group invited him to ride on their 2018 parade float with his husband Wallace. Once I heard that Mark had attended both our most recent Pride AND one of the first Pride celebrations in San Diego, I had to sit down with him to hear what he thought about the changes in the event and our community over the past 40 years.

During our chat, Mark shared with me that he is from a rural, small town and came to San Diego to, as he put it, “gain more freedom and independence.” Even before coming out though, he knew he was different, he just didn’t know how or why. “I faced teasing and bullying on a daily basis! I was called names, had my books knocked out of hands and was even shoved in a locker by the class bullies.” I could see the frustration on Mark’s face, but I could also see resolve. Despite the hostility, Mark never let the taunting he faced affect how he felt about himself or his love for people. “I loved people. I wanted to be a nurse someday. I even volunteered as the assistant to the school nurse in his high school.”

Mark eventually left the rural life for sunny San Diego. He began to look for other people that were like him. He found a sense of community in gay bars such as The Hut, The Shadows, and The Brass Rail, even though it was common at the time for the bars to experience regular police raids. To meet others, he also attended the 1978 Pride Parade when he was just 24. It was far smaller than today’s event with just a handful of floats and a few convertibles thrown in with the marching contingents. While the LGBT civil rights movement was growing, Mark remembers that many people still feared being “outed” and potentially losing their jobs for attending the parade. Police did not participate in the parade back then, but rather would keep anti-gay protesters at bay on the sidewalks. Some protesters went as far as to throw trash at or even spit on the parade participants. His favorite part was at the end of the parade where LGBT attendees were encouraged to link arms together, and follow the parade down to the park.

Mark & Wallace. 1984

I was touched by the tenderness in his voice as he shared his memories from 40 years ago. When I asked him what struck him as the biggest change from 1978 to 2018, he said he was “truly overwhelmed by the outpouring of positivity and support he felt from the thousands who attended the parade.” He marveled at not only the size of the crowd, but also the diversity of the audience that included every race, ethnicity, and age cheering the contingents on. He especially loved that the elected officials and police officers who used to shun the event were now “enthusiastic participants,” as he called them. Mark also revealed that he was “thrilled” to be able to share his first experience being in the parade with his husband Wallace. “We have been ‘joined at the hip’ for over 38 years and legally married for six.” They requested that RuPaul’s song “American” be played by the DJ while they floated down University Avenue:

“You-ou-ou, you got the right! Stand up for yourself, we’ve just begun to fight.

Ain’t no way we’re going back in time – forward to the future baby, yours and mine!”

These upbeat lyrics of self-acceptance match Mark’s positive attitude about being a proud, out gay man. When I asked him to offer some advice to the young LGBT people in San Diego who might be experiencing some of the bullying he went through as a youth, he didn’t miss a beat: “Don’t take anything anyone else says about you to heart. Love yourself for who you are, and choose to be with friends who will respect and support you. You’ll find your people!” Over the years, Mark has found his people. In the next few years, Marks is looking forward to retirement with Wallace. They plan to spend more time enjoying their backyard patio and goldfish pond and more nights out with friends at Diversionary Theater. More quiet times do not mean that his love for the hustle and bustle of Pride is diminishing. He is looking forward to joining everyone in the community this July for this year’s 50^th Anniversary of Stonewall.
$10,000 Burgess Family match for LGBTQ Youth on Give OUT Day
April 4, 2019 1:45 pm Leave a Comment
15-year old Ashlyn with her dog, Kona

Ashlyn is a talented 15-year-old San Diegan who loves sketching, playing the ukulele, scuba diving and animals of every shape and size. She is unique from other teenagers in one respect. When Ashlyn came out in the 8th grade, she was met with unconditional love and acceptance from her parents and brother Hayden; not fear and bigotry.

We know this is not the story for all LGBTQ youth. 1-in-4 LGBTQ teens are thrown out of their homes after coming out to their parents. 67% LGBTQ youth have unsupportive family members, and only 26% of LGBTQ youth report feeling feel safe at school.

Luckily for Ashlyn, her parents were Shelley and Dave Burgess – two native Californians who are published authors with careers in education. They helped Ashlyn connect to other LGBTQ peers via San Diego Pride’s LGBTQ youth programming. Ashlyn is now a high school sophomore, part of Pride’s Lunch Bunch, and steadily growing her confidence as an advocate for LGBTQ youth like herself. When Ashlyn found out that Pride was raising funds for their 2019 LGBTQ youth programming through Give OUT Day – the only national day of giving for the LGBTQ community – she approached her parents to get involved. Again, they responded with loving enthusiasm.

Dave and Shelley Burgess have pledged up to $10,000 to match all donations raised by San Diego Pride for their LGBTQ youth programming on April 18th’s Give OUT Day.

Shelley notes, “In our work with educators, one of our core beliefs is that all kids are our kids. It is essential that LGBTQ students feel safe and supported in our school systems and in their communities. This is why we are huge supporters of San Diego Pride and in particular their youth programming. We are so grateful for the opportunities they provide for LGBTQ youth to feel safe, welcome and empowered and give them a way to connect with and contribute to the community.”

If just 1,000 community members gave just $10 each, we can meet our goal of reaching the Burgess Family’s pledged match and continue to expand our support of LGBTQ youth in our region that don’t have families as supportive as Ashlyn’s. We hope you will join us in uplifting the next generation of LGBTQ youth.

Please consider making your Give Out Fay pledge today by visiting: www.giveoutday.org/c/GO/a/sdpride

Just fill out the donation form to the amount you would like to pledge, and check that your “Charge Date” is pre-set to April 18! Thank you for your support!

Pictured from Left to Right: The Burgess Family: Hayden, Ashlyn, Shelley, Dave. San Diego, April 2019.
Youth Art Show 2018 Recap
March 12, 2018 6:20 pm Leave a Comment
On Saturday, March 10th, San Diego Pride, in partner with Art of Pride and The Trevor Project, hosted their second annual LGBTQ+ youth art show.

This year, our youth asked for the Youth Art Show’s theme to be “Revolutionary” a look at the LGBTQ revolution through the eyes of young LGBTQ artists. The work that has been brought in is deep, compelling, and inspiring. Twenty-five pieces were submitted by 23 LGBTQ+ artists from 16 different schools.

“When done with intention, the use of art, poetry, and music can truly be a revolutionary act. Creating civic and artistic spaces where the LGBTQ community can be comfortably and authentically themselves is a social justice issue.” said Fernando Lopez, Executive Director of San Diego Pride.

From 6pm to 8pm, over 100 art lovers, family, friends and fans visited the art show located at the San Diego Pride office. This program is youth-led with junior-high to high school aged youth serving as presenters, greeters, collection donations, plus supplying snacks & refreshments. New to this year’s event was an interactive art piece where attendees of all ages were asked to create an artist trading card of what the word revolutionary means to them.

“As an LGBTQ+ artist, this show gives me a sense of pride, and it allows me to express myself in a way I find comfortable. It’s also very inspiring seeing many other youths like me showcase their interpretations of the show’s theme, all in breathtaking ways,” said Sam Palma, an 18-year-old Morse High School student.

Pride’s youth programs including our youth zone at the Pride Festival aren’t possible without support. If you’d like to donate to keep these programs going, please click here and select “Youth Programs”.

The following schools were represented this year:

Black Mountain Middle
Chula Vista High School
Hoover High School
La Jolla Country Day School
La Jolla High School
Morse High School
San Diego High School
San Diego High School of Business And Leadership
San Diego High School of International Studies
San Diego School of Creative and Performing Arts
Steele Canyon High School
The Bishop’s School
Westview High School
Wilson Middle School

The art exhibit is available for viewing until the middle of May at the San Diego Pride office. For more information regarding San Diego LGBTQ+ Youth Programs, click here.

Here are a few of the many amazing pieces submitted at this year’s youth art show.

Marianne Byrd, 10th, San Diego High
Shine with Pride

Two people in a field with the Pride flag watching fireworks.

Kyle, School Unlisted

Untitled

Jasma Reddick, 12th, Westview High School
Spectrum

My mediums for this piece consisted of acrylic paint and drawing chalk. The dancing girl and the clouds of rainbow smoke is supposed to represent self revolution. After all of the bad things that happened in 2017, there were still good things that happened. It was a year of self-discovery for some and just a year of revolution and change for people all different spectrums, and after much debating I represented that with the colors of the rainbow. A rainbow is a spectrum, so I thought it would be a good way to show support for all groups of people.

Breeze Stinde, 11th, SDSCPA
Portrait of Jamie Shupe

A portrait of the very first legally recognized non-binary citizen, Jamie Shupe.

Bianca Dortch, 12th, SDSCPA
Untitled

I wanted to shed slight light on people of certain groups who are typically thrown under the bus, to show that even they are people who are relevant to LGBT groups even when undermined as they are in current society.

Roan Swanson-Brownell, 9th, San Diego High
Be You

A person sitting in front of a rainbow sunset.
San Diego Pride Launches Local Small-Business Sponsor Initiative
February 6, 2018 9:47 am Leave a Comment
San Diego LGBT Pride is pleased to announce a new opportunity for local San Diego-based small businesses to sponsor the 2018 San Diego Pride Celebration, July 13-15, 2018, at a reduced price of $1,500.

This new $1,500 sponsorship opportunity will include an array of benefits, including main stage LED recognition, company name listing on official San Diego Pride 2018 event poster, logo recognition within music festival grounds, 2 weekend festival passes, as well as additional online marketing and promotional opportunities through San Diego Pride’s social media channels, which reach a combined 1.9 million people.

For a comprehensive list of sponsor benefits, click here or contact San Diego Pride Director of Development Chance McKee at [email protected]

“San Diego Pride has been, and will always be, a philanthropic organization that celebrates giving back to LGBTQ-serving nonprofits,” said Fernando Lopez, Executive Director of San Diego Pride. “In 2018, as we prepare for what could be San Diego’s largest Pride Celebration in history, we are focused on returning to our roots by working with local businesses to highlight what makes San Diego one of the most LGBTQ-friendly cities in the world.”

The San Diego Pride Celebration weekend is the largest civic event in San Diego and serves a 365-day operation focusing on serving LGBTQ women, international relations, and creating inclusive opportunities for LGBTQ youth to celebrate their individuality, while developing them into the future leaders of San Diego and beyond.

“Local business support of San Diego Pride 2018 will allow us to expand our LGBTQ youth- and senior-serving programs to reach a broader audience, while also highlighting how supportive local businesses are of San Diego’s LGBTQ community,” said Phyllis Jackson, Co-Chair of San Diego LGBT Pride’s Board of Directors.

Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride produced the first Lesbian and Gay Parade in San Diego to celebrate the 1969 Stonewall Rebellion in New York. What started out as an all-volunteer-led organization, San Diego LGBT Pride has now grown to be an internationally recognized destination event and is the fourth largest Pride celebration in the United States, reaching more than 230,000 parade spectators and more than 40,000 music festival attendees in 2017.

“We are focused on making San Diego Pride a celebration for all San Diegans,” said Nick Serrano, Co-Chair of San Diego LGBT Pride’s Board of Directors. “That’s why I hope local small businesses will take advantage of this opportunity to choose San Diego Pride 2018 as the best investment to expand their company’s local presence while standing boldly with the LGBTQ community as a partner in equality and inclusion.”
#BuildOUT 2018 Recap
February 2, 2018 6:00 pm Leave a Comment

On Saturday, January 27, San Diego Pride partnered with Habitat for Humanity to assist with a variety of jobs including home improvement, yard work, staffing donation centers, and whatever else was needed at the Restore locations and build sites. Locations included a build site in Logan Heights and ReStores in Kearny Mesa, National City, and Escondido.

“Safe, stable, affordable housing is the foundation of thriving individuals, families, and communities,” said Lori Holt Pfeiler, President/CEO of San Diego Habitat for Humanity. “We are honored to walk side-by-side with San Diego Pride and the LGBTQ community to provide opportunities for homeownership for every San Diegan who needs a hand up to build a better future.”

Our time at #BuildOUT supported their mission of eliminating substandard housing and rebuilding communities through affordable homeownership. We finished the day with close to 70 volunteers contributing over 350 hours, which equates to a total value of $10,126.07!

“I love the unique nature of this partnership. Here are two organizations that most people have never said in the same sentence before, working hand in hand to find shared values all while engaging community and building community,” said Fernando Lopez, Executive Director of San Diego Pride. “It’s a beautiful thing to focus on how two vastly different entities can find common ground to great good; the world needs more of that.”

Check out our video recap and a few of the news stories that covered our new partnership with Habitat for Humanity!

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Volunteer with Pride
January 4, 2018 10:24 pm Leave a Comment
There’s still time to join the Pride family by volunteering your time and knowledge during Pride weekend! Learn what it takes to put on the parade and festival, get connected an amazing network of people, and give back to your community!

Still not convinced or not sure where you fit in? We’ve asked some of our volunteers why they volunteer year after year and what they do during Pride. Join their teams or learn more by contacting our Programs Manager Bob Leyh.

Joerg Zimmermann

Joerg Zimmermann experienced his first Pride 20 years ago in the fabulous city of San Francisco. Almost thirteen years ago he decided to make sunny San Diego his new hometown. New to the city and eager to make new friends and to widen his social circle, he decided to start volunteering at San Diego Pride. Over the years, he has made some wonderful connections. He continues to volunteer with Pride to this day and believes that the San Diego Pride Parade and Festival are important for the visibility and acceptance of our LGBT Community.

The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – resonates with him because it is, in his words “a reminder to everybody that there are still many of us struggling, especially outside of our San Diego bubble.”

Joerg Zimmermann is the 2018 Parade Staging Coordinator. Joerg and his team of parade stagers help line up the 200-plus parade contingents that participate in the Parade. Join Joerge and the parade team by signing up for one of the parade shifts!

Lo Green

Lo Green attended his first Pride event eight years ago in The City by The Bay, also known as San Francisco. For the past four years, he has been volunteering for Pride here in San Diego, another city known for its beautiful bay and sparkling beaches. He loves to volunteer because he believes in Pride and the work it is doing. Moreover, he credits Pride with helping him to grow as a human being. That notwithstanding, Pride is, in his words “one hell of a party.”

Party or no party, Lo is adamant that Pride is needed because it impacts so many people’s lives in a positive way. He thinks that Pride is founded on love, something he considers to be the most important foundation that exists. The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – inspires him to never give up and wants others to keep working for what they believe in and to use their influence to improve our world. In short, for him, the 2018 theme means to lead by example.

Lo Green is the 2018 Pride Sign Coordinator. He and his team put up the signs at the Festival and Parade. Did you know there are volunteer shifts available as early as Wednesday? Check out all the available shifts here.

Mark Maddox

Mark Maddox participated in his first Pride in 2009. That was in Seattle. His first San Diego Pride was in 2014, just shortly after he moved to America’s Finest City. He began volunteering with San Diego Pride in 2015, the year that a torrential downpour literally rained on our parade. The rain, however, could not wash away his passion for service.

Mark’s impetus for volunteering was to get more involved in the community, but he has continued to volunteer to help ensure that the City of San Diego’s largest civic event and the country’s most philanthropic Pride can continue to meet its goals and support the LGBTQ community.

Even though LGBTQ folks enjoy more freedoms than ever, Mark holds firm that “We ABSOLUTELY still need Pride. While there have been advances in recent years, it is still important to have a visible, united community to provide representation for young folks and to show the haters that we’re still here and we’re not going anywhere.” For him, The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – is a great reminder to keep fighting battles, to continue to engage with and support the community so that we can achieve more through solidarity and togetherness.

Mark Maddox is one of two 2018 Parade Assistant Managers (Stacy Sakamoto is the other). Mark volunteers in the office every Monday and will be onsite at the Parade starting line. Want to volunteer with the parade team and find out where you’re the best fit? Email Mark at [email protected].

Elmus Billingsly

Elmus Billingsly attended Pride for the first time in 1994, just one year after his brother passed away from AIDS. To honor him, he has been going to the Pride Parade for 20+ years. In 2016 he became a volunteer with San Diego Pride, finding another way to honor the memory of his late sibling.

Things have changed a lot since 1994, but he enthusiastically believes that Pride still matters. “It’s the only time of the year that all people of all genders and colors can come out and party and celebrate who they are, without prejudice. It’s like the Olympics.” The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – reinforces the idea that never giving up matters, that all of us should continue to express ourselves, no matter what.

Elmus Billingsly is one of the 2018 Parade Safety Coordinators. Elmus and his team of safety volunteers will be working hard at the Parade to ensure a fun and safe time is had by all. Help Elmus keep us all safe this year by signing up as a parade safety coordinator here.

Louis Davenport

Louis Davenport was first immersed in the world of Pride back in 1985 when he was only 16. He partook in the Christopher Street West / LA Pride then but has been been volunteering with San Diego Pride for a long time, about 20 years!

His original motivation for volunteering was free entrance into the festival. To this day, Pride volunteers receive complimentary admission to the two-day festival, but Louis doesn’t give of his time for the freebies. He says now that “I enjoy being of service.” The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – fits in with this long-time volunteer’s contention that “we still need Pride and ‘Prides’ need to grow and evolve to maintain relevance.” This is sage advice coming from a guy who has been in the Pride “family” for two decades.

Louis Davenport is the 2018 Athletes Alley Beverage Garden Coordinator. Louis and his team will make sure that our Festival guests in Athletes Alley have a fun and safe time. Join in on the fun and become part of the Pride family!

Haydee Sam

Haydee Sam found herself enjoying her first Pride in 2001 in Amsterdam, on the canals. For her second Pride, Haydee found herself in San Diego. Nine years ago, she began volunteering with San Diego Pride.

What keeps her coming back year after year to be of service? “I volunteer because there is still so much work for equality to be achieved. We have so much more work to do to reach equality and feel safe, not just at home in America, but around the globe.” The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – matters because, as she says “in California, we inspire LGBTQ people in other countries that progress is possible.”

Haydee Sam is the 2018 Festival Assistant Manager. She will be leading teams of volunteers to set up the Festival starting on Wednesday, July 11. Help Haydee and her crew get the festival ready for the weekend! Click here to register.

Don Tanner

Don Tanner will volunteer for the first time with San Diego Pride this year, but he experienced his very first Pride about 20 years ago in Northern California in San Francisco. In between those years, he sat on the Board of Directors for San Jose Pride and was involved with running their parade.

A sense of service is his purpose for volunteering. “I enjoy giving back to the community and thought it would be a fun to be involved with the San Diego Pride parade.” Prides in California came of age a while ago, but Don knows that the community still needs Pride. “It’s fun and it shows that the LGBT Community is alive, kicking, and vibrant. Plus, it generates much and well needed funds for the LGBT Community.” The 2018 San Diego Pride theme – Persist with Pride – “is even more relevant than ever,” Don claims, especially “with the ‘Cheeto’ currently in the White House.”

Don Tanner is the 2018 San Diego Pride Parade Set-up Coordinator. Don and his team will be out early on Saturday, July 14 setting up the parade check-in areas and cordoning off the parade route. If you’re an early bird, join Don’s team and get the parade site ready to go! Click here to register.
San Diego Pride Gives Over $100,000 to LGBT Serving Nonprofits
December 14, 2017 1:03 pm Leave a Comment
San Diego LGBT Pride is pleased to announce that due to the success of this year’s Pride event, we are able to donate $104,182 of our proceeds back to 51 LGBT-serving organizations.

Each year Pride works to return proceeds from our annual Pride weekend to the LGBTQ community. Over the years, San Diego Pride’s community contributions have well exceeded 2 million dollars, which have been distributed to dozens of organizations through Pride Community Grants, sponsorships, and event support.

The 2017 Pride grants help fund LGBT youth programs, sobriety services, LGBTQ arts and culture, communities of color, programs that support our transgender community, LGBTQ health and human services, and many more vital resources that our LGBT community relies on and enjoys.

One Pride beneficiary, The San Diego LGBT Community Center, has been gifted $13,150 in total in 2017, including $5,150.00 gifted during their 2 Million 4:1 matching campaign, which turns in to $25,750 thanks to their generous donors, and brings the total impact of Pride gifts to The Center to $33,750!

“Our board, volunteers, sponsors, community partners, and ticket buyers can be proud that the support they’ve given San Diego Pride is now helping to serve our local LGBTQ community and beyond.“ said Executive Director, Eric Heinritz.

List of Grant Recipients:
Bakersfield LGTBTQ, Being Alive San Diego, Binational LGBTQ Task Force, Blindspot Collective, Breakthrough Workshop Theatre, Center for Community Counseling and Engagement, DETOUR, Diversionary Theatre, Elevate Revolutionary Art, Family Health Centers of San Diego, Fraternity House, Free to Thrive, GLSEN San Diego, Greater San Diego Business Association, Imperial Valley LGBT Resource Center, Lambda Archives of San Diego, LGBT & Allies Employee Resource Group, Live Let Live Alano Club, Mama’s Kitchen, Media Arts Center San Diego, Media Heritage Inc., dba FilmOut San Diego, Mental Health America of San Diego County, Mercy Housing, North County LGBTQ Resource Center, PFLAG San Diego County, POZabilities, Recovery Ride, Regional Task Force on the Homeless, San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition, San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, San Diego LGBT Community Center, Sobriety On the Sand, San Diego LGBT Visitors Center, San Diego Unified Council of PTAs, San Diego Unified School District FACE Department, San Diego Unified School District, SEED, South Bay Alliance Association Inc, Special Delivery San Diego, Stepping Stone of San Diego, Inc, Stonewall Citizens Patrol, Strength for the Journey San Diego, The Neutral Corner Inc., The T-Spot, TransFamily Support Services, Transgender Day of Empowerment, University of San Diego Pride, Voices for Children, Wayword, Inc., and Y.E.S. San Diego

See the other ways San Diego Pride has made an impact in our community this year by reading our top 17 of 2017 here. Tickets are now on sale for next year’s Pride Festival on July 14 to July 15, 2018.

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Founded in 1974, San Diego LGBT Pride is a 501(c)3 nonprofit organization whose mission is: Fostering pride in and respect for all lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender communities, locally, nationally, and globally. sdpride.org
Top 17 of 2017
December 12, 2017 6:26 pm Leave a Comment
2017 was full of many victories, celebrations, challenges, and triumphs. We’ve collected our top 17 moments of 2017. To those of you who have volunteered, donated, celebrated, and stood Allied in Action: United for Justice with Pride, we thank you.

1. Pride Youth Art Show

Pride hosted their first LGBTQ+ youth art show titled, We Are here: Reflections of LGBTQ Lives. The event was hosted by Pride youth volunteers as an opportunity for young people in our community to share their stories. 23 pieces were submitted by 21 LGBTQ+ artists from 14 different schools and more than 100 art lovers, youth supporters, faculty, family, friends, and community members visited the art show! The art was such a hit that it made its way to the San Diego County Fair for thousands to see! For more information regarding San Diego LGBTQ+ Youth Programs, click here.

2. OUT at the Park

In 2017 the Padres truly stepped up their support of the LGBTQ community! Our Pride staff took the field with Padre staff, LGBTQ elected officials, MLB Ambassador for Inclusion – Billy Bean, the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus, and the San Diego Women’s chorus to sing the national anthem together in a show of unity. Petco Park even become the first MLB stadium to have a multi stall gender neutral restroom facility! 2018 tickets are on sale now! Invite your friends here!

3. Lunch Bunch – Year 2

Every second Saturday the San Diego Pride office hosts Lunch Bunch, a safe place for LGBTQ youth to hang out, build community, learn new skills, and enjoy a free lunch. This year saw unprecedented growth as our youth program attendance saw a 700% increase over 2016! Learn more about Lunch Bunch here! #YouCanSitWithUs

4. The Equality March: San Diego

After the historic success of the Women’s March, many other issue focused marches began to pop up all over the country. Here in San Diego, San Diego Pride and the LGBT Community Center took the lead in bringing together our community to march for LGBTQ equality! Thousands were in attendance! Marching is great, but we all need to show up and vote if we’re truly going to make a difference! Register to vote now at www.sdvote.com

5. Pride with Prayer

LGBTQ equal protections are coming under attack across the country with so-called “religious liberty” bills. We as the LGBTQ community know that supporting religious freedom and LGBTQ equality can go hand in hand. That is why in 2017 our parade was lead by over 50 LGBTQ equality supportive faith leaders, and we partnerd with St. Paul’s Episcopal Cathedral to host an interfaith service entitled “Pride with Purpose, Pride with Prayer.”

6. Parade Attendance

Our parade is the largest single day civic event in the region, and this year was one for the record books! Over 200 contingents took part in the parade that hosted 230,000 spectators from all around the world!

7. African Delegation

In partnership with the US Department of State and The Diplomacy Council, we met with 25 young African leaders from the Mandela Washington Fellowship Program to share about the global Pride & LGBTQ movement. Some of them even attended the festival and shared their experiences in our blog!

8. United Against Hate!

2017 saw a dramatic rise in hate crimes all across the United States. After the white nationalist and Nazi’s deadly descended on Charlottesville, Virginia, San Diego Pride and the LGBT Community Center brought together over 20 local social justice organizations as our community collectively stood against hate in all its forms at the United Intersections of Justice Rally.

9. EQCA Lobby Day

Part of working with our youth work means connecting them with other organizations and ensuring they have tools to become agents of change. This year we were able to help bring some of our youth to Sacramento for the EQCA lobby day, where they learned more about legislation affecting our community and how to communicate with their elected officials.

10. SheFest

SheFest is an LGBTQ woman-centered event that celebrates and supports the talents and contributions of women while fostering meaningful connections within the LGBTQ and larger San Diego community. This year saw its highest attendance yet! Like us on Facebook to get the last info on upcoming planning and events!

11. #MeToo

Since 2013 San Diego Pride has been working with government agencies and nonprofits and to better serve LGBTQ survivors, and while working with media outlets to create a healthy public dialog around sexual assault and survivor support. In 2017 we helped to lay foundational work to host a #MeTooLGBTQ summit in San Diego in 2018 gear towards survivors and service providers. Here are a few of the stories we shared this year. [1, 2, 3]

12. Sí, se puede!

This year at Pride the Consulado General de los Estados Unidos en Tijuana marched in our Parade for the first time! From there, a partnership grew and we are now working with the Department of State and several other LGBTQ serving organizations on a cross-boarder LGBTQ leadership building Conference in 2018. In 2017 Board members and staff also helped to found the San Diego County LGBTQ Latinx Coalition. Be a part of these new efforts by joining our Facebook group here.

13. Production Team!

San Diego Pride is made possible because over a thousand diverse community volunteers work across nearly 40 different departments to ensure Pride is safe, successful, and represents the community we serve. Professionally skilled volunteers run our entertainment, accessibility, safety, medical, hospitality, marketing and more! We couldn’t be who we are without all of them. Join the Pride Family here!

14. Youth Rising

What could be better than a one day workshop packed with outdoor activities, bonding exercises, and empowering educational discussion for the next generation of LGBTQ leaders? Our Pride Youth Leadership Academy immerses youth in LGBT history, advocacy, and network building. With these tools, our youth learn new skills to engage their own communities and use their voices to inspire others to action.

15. Rally

This year we were thrilled to bring our rally back to he Hillcrest Pride flag where we honored local community members for their hard work and dedication and heard inspiring speakers address the intersectional issues our community still faces today. The Pride Youth Marching band performed Somewhere Over the Rainbow while our Pride flag was raised high to kick off Pride weekend. There wasn’t a dry eye in the house. The Spirit of Stonewall Rally is the only way to start your weekend! Nominate someone from the community for next year’s Stonewall awards here.

16. Toyland Parade

We kicked off the holiday season by marching in the North Park Toyland Parade! It was a fun day of handing out candy canes, waving to the crowds, and ensuring that LGBT families were well represented. Check out our recap video to see our Pride family in action and join us next year!

17. End of Year Giving

Each year Pride works to return proceeds from the annual LGBT Pride weekend to our community. Over the years, San Diego Pride’s community contributions have exceeded 2 million dollars, which have been distributed to dozens of organizations through Pride Community Grants, sponsorships, and event support. This year we’ve been able to give out $104,182!

Support all of these amazing programs by making a donation to Pride today, or by purchasing a ticket to our Pride Festival in July!

Thank you all for making 2017 a success, and cheers to an even better 2018!
Black LGBTQ Coalition 2017 Conference Recap
October 26, 2017 1:42 pm Leave a Comment

On Sunday, October 22, 2017, a much needed conversation took place. Funded through a grant from San Diego LGBT Pride, the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition 2017 Conference, “Claiming Your Seat at the Table,” brought together an audience of Black attendees, who identify as “LGBTQ”, from all ages, walks of life, and experiences. The inaugural conference was held at The World Beat Cultural Center in Balboa Park, a non-profit space which celebrates Black history and achievement.

Opening with a panel of five individuals with experience navigating the field of advocacy, the conversation dived right into how Black LGBTQ women and men identify, claim and maintain access to the “tables of decision”, at which the policies that impact their lives are discussed and decided. Panelists included: India Pierce (QTPOC Colectivo), Pastor Cecilia Caldwell (Unity Fellowship), Tinesia Conwright (Detour Empowers), Dwayne Crenshaw (RISE San Diego), and Dion Brown (San Diego Human Relations Commission). The panel was moderated by Ian Morton, acting Chair of the San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition. Each spoke of their individual journeys, citing barriers experienced, successes achieved, and the ingenuity employed to build their own movements when none encapsulated their mission.

“This event was a beautiful example of the San Diego Black LGBTQ community coming together to support and lift itself up. The Coalition worked diligently to assure the conference’s mission and program were aligned to address a need in our community. Designed for us and by us, we reached within our ranks to discuss the development, importance, and principles of leadership from our unique perspectives. It was truly ‘a seat at the table’ you would not have wanted to miss!” – Dion Brown

The opening panel event was followed by an hour-long facilitated discussion, during which groups of six to eight attendees determined how they could apply the information, experience and advice presented to their own individual journeys. Reporting back to the larger group afterward, participants brought their comments back to the conversation, pledging to increase their vocal and visible presence, actively accepting and providing accountability to their Black LGBTQ brothers and sisters and engaging in stronger outreach tactics.

“I feel so honored to have been able to hold space to hear the voices and concerns of San Diego’s Black LGBTQ community. Not only did the event provide people with an opportunity to speak their truth, it was a much needed opportunity for a community of Black LGBTQ people to get together and center their experiences…a rare opportunity in San Diego.” – India Pierce

“My hope is that this event will kick off a multi-year conversation, during which we will define and implement strategies to support and mentor members of the Black LGBTQ community to assume leadership roles. As was brought up through our conversations, there is often a very small pool of Black LGBTQ folks who are identified as ‘leaders.’ They are too often asked to sit on many boards, committees and coalitions. Such demand on these folks siphons their energy until exhaustion ensues, leaving no ‘redundancy’ to fill the vacuum when they inevitably burn out. The Coalition’s work should help to build a larger pool of Black LGBTQ folks eager, willing, and able to serve.” – Ian Morton

After the attendees regrouped, the formal portion of the event closed with the floor being opened to thoughtful comments, questions and answers. A fun time was had by all, as attendees networked with each other while they played “Human Bingo” with prizes furnished by Sony, donated by San Diego LGBT Pride. The event then progressed to a “family-style” catered meal, with soulful upbeat music provided by our community’s very own, DJ Teal, during which attendees had a chance to decompress and relax!
Accessibility to the Youth Zone!
June 27, 2017 1:54 pm Leave a Comment
San Diego Pride weekend is a time to celebrate our progress as a community while honoring our past. It’s a time to celebrate what makes us uniquely us and to be our most authentic selves surrounded by those whom we love and those who love us. With so many ways to celebrate, we’ve created the top 25 things to do during San Diego Pride weekend! Bring your family and friends as we come together as a community to be Allied in Action: United for Justice!

1. Honor those who served

Now a noted tradition at the San Diego Pride Parade, the military contingent, which includes active duty and veteran service members from all branches of the military, will be marching in the parade. Be sure to cheer them on when the contingent passes by!

When: Saturday, July 15 at 11 am
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

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2. March to the beat!

What’s a parade without a marching band? Over 150 Southern California youth make up the Pride Youth Marching Band, which will perform down the San Diego Pride Parade route. You won’t believe how incredibly talented young LGBTQ musicians are!

When: Saturday, July 15 at 11 am
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

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3. Rev your engines

It wouldn’t be a Pride parade without motorcycles—and lots of them! Listen for the revving of the engines and watch the Motorcycle Contingent cruise by. Ride a motorcycle and want to be a part of the contingent? Registration is just $25.

When: Saturday, July 15 at 11 am
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

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4. Make a sign!

Take Pride in your message! This is an opportunity to share your message with 100,000+ supporters of the LGBTQ community! Everyone’s got something to say, so show off yours with Pride! Rainbows and glitter are highly encouraged.

5. Honor our origins!

Pride celebrations everywhere trace their heritage to the Stonewall Riots. San Diego Pride’s Spirit of Stonewall Rally is a time to recognize and honor leaders who are working hard to preserve our gains and meet the many challenges still facing our community. Come join us on Friday, July 14, as cheering crowds and energetic speakers kick off San Diego Pride Weekend!

When: Friday, July 14 at 6 pm
Where: Hillcrest Pride Flag, Normal St & University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

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6. Dance under the pride flag

The Pride of Hillcrest Block Party kicks off Pride weekend in the heart of Hillcrest! This event for those 21 years and older includes food, drinks, carnival rides, and lots of DJs, go-gos, and dancing!

When: Friday, July 15th from 6 pm – 11 pm
Where: Hillcrest Pride Flag, Normal St & University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

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7. It’s all online!

Everything you need to make Pride weekend a success can be found on our website: our full entertainment and parade lineup, event maps, parking and shuttle info, social media connections, and more. Take a look around!

Buy tickets here.
Entertainment lineup here.
Listen to our artists here.
Check out the Festival map and attractions here!

8. Upgrade your experience!

The best way to experience the San Diego Pride Music Festival is to do it VIP style! This year’s festival has a VIP ticket option, which includes a weekend pass, VIP entrance, VIP lounge, VIP restrooms, catered food, and 4 hosted drinks each day. Tickets and VIP passes are sold here.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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9. Run for it!

The annual Pride 5K is a healthy way to start Pride weekend. The 5K race starts and finishes at University Avenue and Centre Street and features gear check, after-race snacks, high-quality tech t-shirts, ChronoTrack disposable UHF RFID tags to record your time, a fast, flat course along the parade, and a USAT-sanctioned and -certified 5K course.

When: Saturday, July 15 at 9:30 am
Race Start and Finish: University Avenue at Centre Street

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10. Follow the rainbow!

It’s tradition to close out the San Diego Pride Parade with the 300 foot giant rainbow flag! As always, everyone is welcome to join in and help carry the flag to the San Diego Pride Music Festival. Bring your friends, family, and signs of support and join in!

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When: Saturday, July 15 at 11 am
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

11. Fun for the whole family!

Family Services at The Center will host The Children’s Garden. Bring the kids and have a fun day at the park! Enjoy entertainment for parents and kids from infants to preteens, including a toddler play area, face painting, hat making, a balloon artist, a playhouse giveaway, arts & crafts, and more throughout the weekend. Come enjoy hot dogs, popcorn, snow cones, and other snacks in a private, family-only shaded oasis with tables, chairs, and restrooms.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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12. Gay hair don’t care (rainbow hair styles)

Get creative! Show off your Pride with a rainbow hairstyle or whatever other colorful ideas you have. Pride is a celebration of our uniqueness, so show it off!

13. Cheers to your health

The Pride Festival is more than just a party. There are a ton of health and human services located throughout the event: four HIV and STI screening locations, ongoing AA and NA meetings, a rainbow health and wellness zone, senior services and more!

Check out our community partners here.
Look for them on the map here.

14. Eat all the things!

With all the celebrating that will go on throughout the weekend, one has to eat! 50 different food vendors will be serving up deliciously diverse fabulous flavors. Whatever your tastes are we’re sure to have something you’ll enjoy. Who knows, maybe you’ll get adventurous and try something new.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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15. Baila!

It’s musica Latina en español with some of the best emerging artists in live rock, folkloric dancing, y más. Enjoy the musical flavors with a Latin flair. Be a part of the Latino community at Mundo Latino!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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16. Bounce hip-hop area

Celebrate diversity under San Diego’s amazing sky at five phenomenal stages over two days with more than 100 entertainers and thousands of your closest friends. Here at The Movement Hip-Hop Stage, our top notch DJs will be spinning the hottest sounds from Hip-Hop, Soul and R&B. With its own dance floor and beverage garden, this stage will keep you moving and in the zone!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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17. Wave your flag

There are so many different versions of the Pride flag and all are welcome at the event! Whether you’re at the Rally, Parade, or Festival, we welcome you to wave the flag that best represents you!

18. Up close and personal

Pride gives you the opportunity to meet some of your favorite artists! Meet and greet tickets grant you a 1-on-1 meeting and photo op and come with VIP access! These tickets are very limited, so don’t wait!

Purchase meet & greets here!

19. Burritos for Pride

Make eating a selfless act by joining us for a fundraiser to support San Diego LGBT Pride! Just come into ANY SAN DIEGO CHIPOTLE on Tuesday, July 11th, from 10:30 AM to close and mention this fundraiser. 50% of your purchase will go to Pride’s programs.

When: Tuesday, July 11, 10:30 am – 10 pm
Where: Any San Diego Chipotle

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20. For youth, by youth

The Youth Zone at the Pride Music Festival is a fun space for young, queer, middle school through high school youth and their allies to celebrate pride! Youth 14 and under get in free!
Learn more about our Youth Programs here!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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21. Win the “Ultimate Bud Light Party” experience

San Diego Pride is excited to offer the “Ultimate Bud Light Party” experience at San Diego Pride this year! You and a friend will be able to celebrate equality like a true ULTRA VIP at the 2017 San Diego Pride Parade and Festival. To enter the sweepstakes and get more info click here.

22. What the kink?

The San Diego Leather Realm is a large, age-restricted area of The San Diego Pride Music Festival. The Leather Realm opens its doors for education and fun to provide visibility, awareness and communication of Safe, Sane and Consensual play, Leather, BDSM, Fetish, and Kink Life Styles through hands-on demonstration areas, workshops, community organizations, and alternative-lifestyle friendly businesses.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 15 & 16, 2017
Time: Saturday noon – 10 pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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23. Interfaith

As LGBTQ equal protections are coming under attack across the country with so-called Religious Freedom Restoration Acts, we as the LGBTQ community know that supporting religious freedom and LGBTQ equality is not inherently contradictory. At the start of this year’s Parade, LGBTQ open and affirming faith leaders will march together and show their support for LGBTQ equality and justice.

Faith leader are welcome to sign up to participate here!

24. Selfie pride #SDPRIDE

Feel free to be selfie-ish throughout the weekend to show everyone what an amazing time you’re having at San Diego Pride! Be sure to use the hashtag #SDPRIDE for all your social media posts. Your Prideful picture may even earn you VIP access or a meet and greet!

Facebook: Click here
Twitter: @SanDiegoPride
Instagram: @sandiegopride
Snapchat: sdpride365

25. Be PROUD
Let Me Introduce You To…
May 31, 2017 8:56 pm Leave a Comment
LET ME INTRODUCE YOU TO…..

Diedrea Lewis (DL), Pride Festival Dispatch Co-Coordinator

She / Her / Hers

Born and raised in Ennis, Texas, Diedrea has lived in San Diego for the past 27 years. She has one daughter and one granddaughter, as well as a Bachelor’s Degree in Communications from San Diego State University.

AND

Howard Menzer (HM), Pride Festival Dispatch Co-Coordinator
He / Him / His

Born and raised in ‘da’ Bronx, Howard has lived in San Diego for the past 39 years. He was married for 30 years, has 3 children and 5 grandchildren. He holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Public Relations / Marketing as well as a Master’s in Education with an emphasis in Reading and Literature both from Ashford University.

What are your job titles and what do you do at the Festival?
DL / HM – Our titles are Pride Festival Dispatch Co-Coordinators. We are Dispatch at the Pride Festival. If you get a radio at the Festival, you will have gotten it from us. We are responsible for the more than $50,000 dollars worth of radio inventory. We check radios out and then check them back in. We provide radio users with a basic radio tutorial to ensure proper radio etiquette. We make sure the radios are charged and ready for service and monitor radio channels and provide communication support.

How long have you been volunteering with Pride?
DL – This will be my third year with Pride. I started volunteering in 2015 as part of the Dispatch team.

HM – This will be my second year with Pride. I started volunteering in 2016 as part of the Dispatch team.

Why do you volunteer with Pride?

HM – I like to get involved in my community and give back. Whether I am working in my Synagogue, at the LGBT Community Center Cyber (Computer) Center, or with Pride, volunteering allows me the opportunity to serve and meet others.

DL – Volunteering keeps me stay centered. Volunteering helps me ‘keep the fire alive.’ It keeps me hopeful and optimistic.

What are you reading right now?
HM – Lately I’ve been devouring mystery novels, especially supernatural mystery novels.

DL – I don’t read novels, but I do enjoy reading news and current events. I like to read about different perspectives on current events, so on any given day I’m reading three or four newspapers such as the New York Time, the LA Times, and the Washington Post.

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
DL – Oh boy, I’m not a fan of current movies. I like the movies of the 1950s and 60s – the big production spectaculars such as “The Ten Commandments.” I mean the parade of stars in these movies was fantastic, and then the dialogue and acting – I could watch one of these movies every day. Stop by the Dispatch booth during the festival and we can quote Charlton Heston movie lines.

HM – “Snatched” with Goldie Hawn. She just cracks me up. I laughed out loud.

Coffee or tea?
DL – Either. I love lemon / mint tea, but I also love the energy buzz from coffee.

HM – Coffee. Dark and strong.

What are you listening to right now?
HM – I’m listening to 96.5, KYXY adult contemporary music.

DL – Oh, I’m listening to just about a little of everything, from the 1940s to today. I like it all.

What should people know about you?
DL – I sing. I sing RB, pop and jazz. I was in a top 40 cover band called Broad Band.

HM – I am an Eagle Scout and was the National Director of a group called ‘Scouting for All’ that advocated the restoration of unbiased values of scouting to allow full participation for youth and adults regardless of their spiritual beliefs, gender, or sexual orientation.

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
HM – I’m 80 years old, and I try to enjoy each day. I try to get to the gym every day, and I volunteer at the San Diego LGBT Center’s Cyber Center.

DL – Working, singing and enjoying life. I’m an optimist. Life is good.

What advice do you have for someone coming to Pride?
DL – Have fun. Let go, and enjoy yourself. Pride is fun, but be safe and celebrate with a friend.

HM – Take your time. Do the full festival loop. Enjoy the sights, smells, and sounds. Take it all in and don’t judge.

What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
HM – This is only my second year volunteering with Pride, so the festival is all still new to me. I look forward to seeing how the festival works, how it all comes together. Of course I look forward to seeing old friends from last year and to making new friends this year. And by far, my favorite part of Pride, what I most look forward to, is working for two days, side by side with her one and only, her highness, her majesty – Miss Diedrea Lewis.

DL – Oh man. That Howard, he just keeps it real. I look forward to the spectacularness of Pride – the colors, the sounds and the people.

Author’s Note:

While writing about Diedrea and Howard, I was listening to YouTube, and somehow Queen’s song “Radio Ga Ga” came on. I’m struggling to figure out which of these two is “radio ga ga” and which is “radio goo goo.” I think, Diedrea is “ga ga,” and Howard is “goo goo.” What do you think?

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

Be Part of the Pride Family!

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Release from San Diego Pride Board of Directors
May 18, 2017 5:14 pm Leave a Comment
The Board of Directors of San Diego LGBT Pride has announced the selection of Eric Heinritz as its new Executive Director. The selection was made after an extensive search and comprehensive selection process managed by Nonprofit Management Solutions, a San Diego nonprofit management support organization.

“We are very pleased to announce this appointment,” said Bianca Burt, San Diego LGBT Pride Co-Chair. Eric brings leadership, creativity, and a deep sense of commitment to our LGBTQI community. As a Board, we are very confident in our decision and look forward to working together with him to achieve the increased mission impact we’ve identified in our strategic plan.”

Eric comes to San Diego Pride with a breadth of leadership experience and perspective. He was the first executive director of the all-volunteer Milwaukee Pride, helping the organization to establish financial controls and increase revenue. From 2001-2014 he served in a number of executive roles at Milwaukee World Festival, including Admission, Food and Beverage Director where he administered a $2.1 million operating budget and directed a team of 950 employees.

Upon accepting the appointment, Eric remarked, “Pride celebrations are a homecoming, and a safe place for all members of the LGBTQI community and I am excited to be welcomed into the San Diego Pride family.”

Eric was selected by the Board of Directors upon the recommendation of the executive search committee, chaired by San Diego Pride Emeritus, Jeri Dilno. Mama’s Kitchen, Executive Director, Alberto Cortes and former San Diego Pride board member, Dion Brown served on the search committee along with San Diego Pride board members, Bianca Burt, Lynn Barnes-Wallace, and Jim Seal.

The search and selection process, which began in January, included review of more than sixty-five resumes from local, regional, and national applicants. Eric was selected after more than two dozen telephone, skype and in-person interviews were conducted by the search team. “I can’t thank the committee enough,” said Pride Co-Chair Jim Seal, “especially our community members, Alberto and Dion, who gave so much of their personal time to ensure the integrity of the process and the outcome.”
Marcia Wall
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Marcia Wall, Pride Copy Editor
She / Her / Hers

“I’m a Virgo and I’m big on order and organization, so of course being a copy editor is what I like.”

Born in Texas and raised in San Diego, Marcia has a BA in Literature from the University of California Santa Cruz and an MA in English and Writing from New Mexico State University in Las Cruces, New Mexico. Marcia has taught English, literature, and writing at colleges and universities. She has also worked as an employment specialist, a photographer, a writer, and a stand-up comedian.

What does a Copy Editor do?
“As the Pride Copy Editor, my job is really cool because I get to work remotely from my home or wherever I’m traveling to.” As the Pride Copy Editor, Marcia volunteers in the Communication / Marketing department and is a proofreader for Pride. “I’m an extra set of eyes on all Pride’s documents and text.” “Marcia reviews everything” said Alex Villafuerte, the Communications and Marketing Manager: every Pride article, press release, post card, poster, the website, email e-blasts, everything.

Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
Marcia has been volunteering with Pride off and on for the past 20 years. She’s volunteered with Pride in the Volunteer Village, at Volunteer Check-in, at the Children’s Garden, and with the Art of Pride group. “Pride gives me the opportunity to invest in my community. And being a copy editor for Pride allows me to volunteer to my strength.”

What are you reading right now?
“I’m actually listening to podcasts of ‘A Way with Words’, a National Public Radio (NPR) program produced in San Diego.” ‘A Way with Words’ is about language examined through history, culture and family. “I’m a nut for etymology – the study of word origins, and this show is fascinating, fun, and enjoyable.”

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
The last movie I saw in the theatre was Moonlight. I thought it was a very contemplative study in both beauty and pain.

Coffee or tea?
Tea. Anything herbal.

What are you listening to right now?
“I’m kind of old school in that I don’t really listen to music on an iPod, but I have a great collection of New Orleans Brass Band and ukulele CDs. Also Prince, anything and everything by Prince.

What should people know about you?
“Well, Jimmy Carter, the 39th President of the United States, is my fifth cousin twice removed. I’m also into photography, art, travel and family history research / genealogy.”

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
“Volunteering somewhere else. I volunteer at the San Diego LGBT Community Center, as a photographer with the San Diego River Foundation, and in my Tierrasanta community helping out with their Concerts in the Park program.”

What advice do you have for someone coming to Pride?
“Stay hydrated – it’s July after all and the sun can sneak up on you. Pace yourself – it’s a two-day music festival – take it easy and enjoy both two days. Be open to new experiences at Pride, meeting new people, hearing new music, and trying new things.”

What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
“Of course the entertainment. San Diego Pride always has such an exciting line-up on the three different stages. I also like to find a spot to hang out and people watch at the festival as the world passes by me. I love seeing the diversity of people celebrating pride and being themselves.”

Be Part of the Pride Family!

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Let Me Introduce You To…
May 3, 2017 3:45 pm Leave a Comment
Edward (Eddie) Condreay, Festival Entrance Manager
He / Him / His

“Hello, Hi, Welcome to the San Diego Pride Music Festival. Enjoy your day!” “Hello, Hi, Welcome to the San Diego Pride Music Festival. Enjoy your day!” “Hello, Hi, Welcome to the San Diego Pride Music Festival. Enjoy your day!”

Born and raised in San Diego County, Eddie attended Santana High School (Santee, CA) and joined the Marines in 2006. He served nine years in the Marines as a Combat Marksmanship Instructor and as a Flight Deck Coordinator on the USS NIMITZ, the Navy’s oldest aircraft carrier. He is now completing his undergraduate degree in Organizational Leadership from National University and plans to pursue his Master’s to become a Business Analyst.

What does the Festival Entrance Manager do?
My job is fantastic! Seriously, I get to welcome 40 – 50 thousand guests to the Pride Music Festival. I oversee and am responsible for two festival entrances, (the main entrance and the Juniper Road entrance), ten metal detectors, close to 25 security personnel, and more than 150 volunteers to ensure our festival guests are welcomed and enter into the festival in a safe manner. At the Festival Entrance, we focus on customer experience and service. Our guests experience begins with my team, and I want to ensure that we are ready to welcome people to Pride with a warm, friendly, welcoming smile.

Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
This is only Eddie’s second year volunteering with San Diego Pride. In 2016, one of most successful Pride Festival’s ever, Eddie was the Festival Entrance Manager.

After the Marine Corps, I wanted to get more involved in the San Diego LGBT community; Pride is that place that provided me a connection and a sense of purpose and community. I’ve met and worked with some wonderful, dedicated, and funny people at Pride. The 2016 Festival Entrance team did a marvelous job, and I wanted to come back and be a part of the team and lend my talents to helping make Pride 2017 even better than 2016.

What are you reading right now?
The Elephant in the Room: How Relationships Make or Break the Success of Leaders and Organizations by Diana McLain Smith. The Elephant in the Room is a systematic look at how relationships determine the success of leaders and their enterprises. I’m fascinated by organizational relationships and how the two, leaders and relationships, can determine outcomes.

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
Beauty and the Beast. It was date night with my boyfriend Chris Flick, also a Pride volunteer, and Disney provided the magic.

Coffee or tea?
Tea. Earl Grey.

What are you listening to right now?
I’m tuned into ‘Pride’ music on Pandora.

What should people know about you?
I have a curious, very curious nature, and I will ask a ton of questions to learn more. I learned teamwork while in the Marine Corps. I tend to be a little bit sarcastic, but my bark is worse than my bite. Oh and I try to live the Marine Corps motto Semper Fidelis (Always Faithful) every day of my life.

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
School. Library studying. Working at Carl’s Jr (I’m a Shift Lead) or driving for Uber. And sometimes, just hanging out with Chris.

What advice do you have for someone coming to Pride?
Take in Pride. Experience Pride. Experience the full capacity of Pride. You are in a safe place to be who you want to be, so take advantage of all that Pride—the Festival and the Parade—has to offer.

What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
Seeing all my 40 – 50 thousand friends again. Seriously, I enjoy seeing people’s faces light up when they walk through the Festival entrance – a big smile comes over their faces, and you can see them begin to relax and feel like they are home. I’m also looking forward to seeing the festival entrance team and working with them again this year.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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Let Me Introduce You To…
April 19, 2017 10:18 pm Leave a Comment
Ruben Lopez, Volunteer Hospitality Coordinator
He / Him / His
“During Pride weekend, I am your best friend. If you volunteer with Pride, you will love me.”

What does the Volunteer Hospitality Coordinator do?
My job is to feed the 900-plus volunteers at Pride. As the Volunteer Hospitality Coordinator, I work hand-in-hand with the In-kind Sponsor Volunteer, Tamira Benitez, to get the best food, snacks, treats, candy, fruit, and meals possible for Pride’s amazing volunteers.

We start in March reaching out to last year’s in-kind sponsors to see if they will donate again. In April, we start reaching out to new in-kind sponsors asking them to come on board and provide donations for the volunteer village.

An in-kind sponsor may donate pizza, burritos, chicken wings, submarine sandwiches and wraps as well as fruit and snacks. Sometimes, they donate gift cards so we can buy bagels, cream cheese, and Nutella along with Red Vines licorice.

We plan out a menu for Pride week / weekend, and my goal is to keep the volunteers well fed and happy.

This is Ruben’s third year volunteering with San Diego Pride. In 2015, the year of the rain, Ruben worked in the Entertainment Department as the Assistant EDM Stage Manager. Last year, 2016, Ruben was the Volunteer Village Hospitality Supervisor and returns this year as the Volunteer Hospitality Coordinator.

Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
I’ve met so many people because of volunteering with Pride. I moved back to San Diego about five years ago, and getting involved with Pride has opened a lot of doors for me. I am the Director of Events for Clark Realty Management Company, a division of Clark Construction, one of the largest construction companies in the U. S. I oversee all events at the Navy’s Pacific Beacon Towers and Palmer Hall, an approximately 2300 square feet, on-base, residential rental unit on board the U. S. Naval Station San Diego. Pride has given me the confidence to be out on the job around people in construction and people in the military. I appreciate that I don’t have to hide who I am and with whom I volunteer.

What are you reading right now?
The Shredded Chef, 120 Recipes for Building Muscle, Getting Lean, and Staying Healthy
by Michael Matthews. If you want to build a body you can be proud of without starving or depriving yourself of all the foods you like, then you want to read this book.

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
Deadpool. It was stupid, funny, comical and a little gory, and it had that hot guy Ryan Reynolds in it.

Coffee or tea?
Coffee. Black coffee with a splash of milk.

What are you listening to on Spotify?
EDM, Soul and Dance. I like Diplo, Daft Punk, DJ Snake, Zedd ,and Afrojack.

What should people know about you?
I love to cook and I have a small business on the side doing meal preps and cooking. I prepare healthy, nutritious, great tasting meals for clients. I cook weekly dinner packages as well as weekly lunch packages. My meals are deliciously prepared with love and include vegetables, carbohydrates, proteins, and snacks.

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
At a local farmer’s market buying fresh organic items to cook, in my kitchen cooking, or out dancing. I love to dance around the kitchen also.

What advice do you have for someone coming to Pride?
Make this year the year you volunteer with Pride. Give it a shot—you’ll meet great people, probably make a few good friends, and maybe even find Mr. / Mrs. Right. You’ll be doing your LGBT Community a solid by helping San Diego Pride – which has given back almost $2 million dollars to the community since 2000. Plus, volunteer for one 5-hour shift and you get into the 2-day music festival for free.

What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
It’s been said before, but it’s true, I look forward to helping out, being of service. I get to see old friends and making new friends and I love the look on the volunteer’s face when they see what Tamira and I have been able to prepare for them in Volunteer Village. Remember, just like a soldier, a well fed volunteer is a happy volunteer.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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April 5, 2017 5:13 pm Leave a Comment
Randy Pittman, Volunteer Village Manager
He / Him / His
“This will be my 17th year volunteering with San Diego Pride, a fact I am very proud to share.”

Randy began volunteering with San Diego Pride in 2000. He had so much fun his first year that he’s come back every year since. “In my first year, I volunteered for both days of the Festival. On Saturday I worked with Exhibitor Relations, helping to check-in vendors, and on Sunday I staffed an emergency exit.” Since then, Randy has been a Main Gate Supervisor, the Juniper Street Entrance Coordinator, the Volunteer Village Coordinator, and now for the past 5 years, the Volunteer Village Manager.

What is the Volunteer Village and what do you do as Volunteer Village Manager?
Volunteer Village is “Volunteer Grand Central” at the Music Festival. It’s where our most precious asset, our volunteers, come to check-in for their shifts. Volunteer Village is the place at the festival where volunteers can get away from the festival, sit down, rest, relax and recharge. It’s their “volunteer sanctuary” if you will.

As Volunteer Village Manager, I oversee the “tenants” in the village and ensure our volunteers are being taken care of. Inside Volunteer Village you will find the following “tenants”: A-Team, Carts and Communication, Community Partner Check-in, Media Relations, Photography, Volunteer Check-in, and Volunteer Hospitality. My job is to ensure that everyone has what they need to do their job and support the festival.

Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
Volunteering with San Diego Pride is my way to give back to the LGBT Community in San Diego. Since I’ve begun volunteering with Pride in 2000, San Diego Pride has donated almost 2 million dollars back to the San Diego LGBT community. I’m proud of that and proud to help make Pride a place where everyone belongs and everyone is welcome. Whether it’s your first year volunteering with Pride or your 17th – Pride is about having fun.

What are you reading right now?
My psychology textbook! I’m a full-time student at National University completing my degree in psychology. My plan is to graduate with a degree in psychology and then get my master’s degree and then become a Marriage / Family Counselor.

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
Moonlight. I found it incredibly moving how the movie dealt with the whole question of manhood and what it means to be a man.

Coffee or tea?
Tea – any herbal tea.

What’s playing on your iPod?
Old school jazz – Nat King Cole, Ella Fitzgerald and Count Basie.

What should people know about you?
“I’m an easy going guy, born and raised in Rochester New York, who joined the Navy right out of high school and did 6 years in Japan and another 7 years in San Diego.” (I would remove these quotes because none of his other answers has them).

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
I live in Point Loma, and when I’m not volunteering with Pride, or at work, or at school you’ll find me hiking down to the beach and walking the shores around OB with my two dogs.

What advice do you have for someone coming to Pride?
Take it all in. Walk the festival loop and take in the sights, sounds, and smells and then relax, smile and have fun.

What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
I look forward to seeing old friends and making new friends. I look forward to helping make the festival a success – more people attending, more people volunteering, bigger crowds and everyone having a great time.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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Let Me Introduce You To…
March 23, 2017 1:00 pm Leave a Comment
Tanya Raz, Community Partnership Manager
“I am so excited to be working with such a wonderfully diverse and talented group of people at San Diego LGBT Pride and I look forward to helping Pride build strong partnerships with our community non-profit organizations.”

This is Tanya’s first year volunteering with Pride. For the past four years she has been one of Pride’s Community Partners, 211 San Diego. 211 San Diego is an information referral service for San Diegans, connecting people to resources. It was through Tanya’s efforts that 211 San Diego became a partner of Pride and has a presence still at the festival. -Bob Leyh, Volunteer Manager

Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
I loved the past four years being at the festival as a Pride Community Partner and I wanted to take the next step to becoming a Pride volunteer. When I found out the previous Community Partner Manager (Martha Henderson) became a member of the Pride Board of Directors, I jumped at the chance to step up. I am really excited about this opportunity to continue the great work Martha has done in connecting community organizations and non profits with Pride.

What’s your official Pride title and what does it mean?
My official Pride title is Community Partnership Manager and that means I coordinate and oversee the 20 different Pride Community Partners. In February, I reached out to each community partner to review and update their partnership agreements. During the festival, I’ll be onsite to ensure our partners have the resources and support they need to be successful.

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
Well, I could be in class at San Diego State. I’m half way through my course studies. I’m in an Interdisciplinary Studies program that combines Sociology, LGBT and Women’s studies.

Or, I could be at home in Encanto hanging out with my boyfriend and more than likely studying.

Or, I could be with my two teenage daughters.

What are you reading right now?
I’m a full-time student, who has time for recreational reading? For my LGBT studies class, I’m reading ‘Gay Life and Culture; A World History’ by Historian Robert Aldrich.

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
I’m in a relationship, a full-time student at San Diego State and the mother of two teenage girls; who has time for movies?! That said, I did see this year’s Academy Award for Best Picture, ‘Moonlight.’ It was a moving powerful picture that showed how trauma can make people stop loving and how important it is to allow yourself the freedom to love.

Coffee or tea?
Tea. I drink tea all day.

What’s playing on your iPod?
Oh that’s easy – 80’s British Music.

What should people know about you?
How much time do you have?

I was born in London and lived there until I was 9 years old when my parents moved to San Diego. However, my family spent several years driving around the United States, vagabonding, before returning to San Diego.

I have an adventurous spirit that keeps me on the go. I’m a total foodie, poet, art collector and love to cook. I relish the obscure and people who dare to bend norms.

My nickname is “Twister,” because I tend to come into people’s lives like a tornado and then they are never the same as they were before they met me.

What’s the best advice you have for someone coming to Pride?
Have a good time and enjoy the music, but make time to visit the different Pride Community Partners. If you ride your bicycle to the festival, you can park it for free at the Bike Coalition Bike Corral. Before you go into the festival, be sure and visit the Lesbian Health and Wellness and the 211 San Diego tent. Once inside the festival, stop and get a cup of coffee from the Alano Club coffee cart and then browse through the Art of Pride. Be sure to visit the Lambda Archives exhibit and the Leather Realm, and when you get thirsty, look for the Different Strokes Swim Team selling water. Additional Community Partners are FOG (who present the Senior Cool Zones), the T-Spot, Hillcrest Town Council and Bankers Hill Community Group.

What is it about Pride that excites you?
First, I’m excited to be able to connect all these community organizations with Pride and celebrate their diversity. Second, I love it when people are not ashamed or afraid of being different. I love it when we can support nonconformity and diversity because then we can show the world that there are too many of us to try to push down.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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Let Me Introduce You To… the Queer Future
March 8, 2017 3:01 pm Leave a Comment
Edward Estrada, San Diego LGBT Pride Youth Intern
“I identify as Queer. I don’t like to have to divide into LGBT? Queer is much more inclusive”

After meeting Edward (Eddie) Estrada, I can sleep well at night, knowing that the future of the LGBT movement will be in good hands. Eddie, a self-described Queer 16-year-old student at the San Diego School of Creative and Performing Arts (SDSCPA), has no problem claiming the word Queer. Although he does recognize that some in generations preceding him have had a difficult time with the word Queer, he believes that youth have reclaimed the word Queer as an umbrella term that is more inclusive and encompasses the whole LGBTQ+ world. -Bob Leyh, Volunteer Manager

Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
I volunteer because if youth want a Youth Zone at the Pride Festival, then youth need to step up and plan the space. A Pride Youth Zone should be created by out, proud and queer youth.

What’s your official Pride title and what does it mean?
My official title at Pride is Youth Intern. I not only help plan the Youth Zone for the Festival, but I am also involved with the Pride Lunch Bunch group. Lunch Bunch is a gathering of LGBTQ+ junior- and high-school-aged youth that meet the second Saturday of the month from 11am to 2pm at the Pride office. We get to hang out with other queer kids, eat lunch (provided by the Trevor Project; thank you Trevor Project!) and talk about things that are important to queer youth.

What are you reading right now?
Campaign Craft: The Strategies, Tactics, and Art of Campaign Management by Daniel M. Shea, Michael John Burton Jr and Robert E. Denton. “You see, I’m a bit of political junkie. I want to go to college, major in political science and then go into public service/politics.”

Bob: Eddie interned last year for Congressman Scott Peters, and his personal political hero is Assembly member Todd Gloria.

When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might we find you?
At the SDSCPA, where I am a junior studying Creative Writing—with an emphasis in creating queer characters in fiction, poetry and short plays.

You may also find me presiding at the SDSCPA’s weekly GSA meeting—I am the club president.
Bob: I asked Eddie to confirm that GSA stands for Gay Straight Alliance, and he confirmed that while GSA was originally called Gay Straight Alliance, today GSA means Genders/Sexualities Alliance, a much less narrow and more inclusive organization.

You may also find me at GLSEN meetings, where I am a member of the San Diego GLSEN Board of Directors. GLSEN, which originally stood for the Gay, Lesbian, & Straight Education Network, is an organization founded in 1990 in the United States that seeks to end discrimination, harassment and bullying based on sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression in K-12 schools.

You may also find me meeting monthly with the San Diego Unified School District Superintendent Cindy Marten, where I use my GSA and GLSEN experience to advocate for Queer Youth, safe schools and gender-inclusive restrooms.

Bob: For his efforts advocating for Queer Youth, GLSEN named Eddie the 2016/2017 National Student Advocate of the Year!

What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
I’m a 16-year-old kid with no job; who has money for the movies? Though, if someone wanted to take me that would be nice.

Coffee or tea?
Coffee—definitely Starbucks coffee.

What’s playing on your iPod?
I like alternative music. Right now I’m listening to Paramore.

What should people know about you?
I am passionate about advocating for Queer inclusiveness and Queer Youth. I want to create safe spaces for Queer Youth in schools and at the Pride Festival. I was born and raised in the Paradise Hills neighborhood of San Diego.

What’s the best advice you have for someone coming to Pride?
Come with a friend, and make some new friends.

What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
I’m looking forward to an awesome Queer Youth Zone, designed, developed and created by Queer Youth for Queer Youth. I’m looking forward to celebrating Pride with Queer Youth from all over San Diego and Southern California.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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Let Me Introduce You To…
February 21, 2017 9:27 pm Leave a Comment
Tinesia Conwright, Hip – Hop Stage Manager.

“Pride allows me a safe place to be me. I can be LGBT, Black and Urban all at once at San Diego Pride.”

San Diego born and raised, Tinesia has a Bachelor’s Degree in Public Administration from San Diego State University and a Master’s Degree in Nonprofit Management & Leadership from the University of San Diego. Tinesia serves on the San Diego Workforce Partnership Youth Council, the City of San Diego Human Relations Commission, the San Diego Urban League Young Professionals and the SDSU African-American Alumni Association.
1. Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
I volunteer because I found a safe place at Pride and I love sharing hip-hop culture with the San Diego LGBT Pride community. I want to help Pride continue to create a safe place for hip-hop music lovers, where it’s safe and okay to be LGBT and Black. I’ve been volunteering with the Festival Entertainment team for the past five years, and I really look forward to each year.
1. What’s your official Pride title and what does it mean?
My official title at Pride is Hip-Hop Stage Manager. I not only help select the entertainment lineup for the Hip-Hop Stage, I also coordinate and supervise the volunteers who help in the front and back of the stage.
1. What are you reading right now?
Jump – Take the Leap of Faith to Achieve your Life Abundance by Steve Harvey and Tribes: We Need You to Lead Us by Seth Godin.
1. When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
At the San Diego Housing Commission, where I am the Youth Workforce Development Program Director, or at DETOUR, a community-based nonprofit where I am the Executive Director.
1. What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
Hidden Figures. This movie is empowerment cinema at its best.
1. What’s the best advice you have for someone coming to Pride?
Enjoy, have fun, but take care of each other and be safe.
1. Coffee or tea?
Coffee–but I need flavored cream.
1. What’s playing on your iPod?
I listen to inspirational/motivational speakers, and right now I’m listening to Eric Thomas (ET), the Hip Hop Preacher.
1. What should people know about you?
I am passionate about nurturing the growth of girls and developing them into the future leaders of tomorrow, which is why I founded DETOUR – Depositing Empowerment Through Outreach & Urban Redevelopment. DETOUR is a nonprofit organization that provides three youth development programs: The Focused And Naturally Confident Youth (F.A.N.C.Y.) Teen Girls Expo, a Leadership Academy and a Scholarship Program. I am so proud that DETOUR has empowered over 700 girls since 2009, teaching and mentoring teen girls of color in grades 6 – 12 to be themselves by exploring their self-identity, building confidence, participating in career exploration/employment, volunteering/service-based learning, and completing a college education.
1. What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
I look forward to sharing Hip-Hop music with San Diego’s LGBT community. Hip-Hop music has been speaking up for generations and providing a voice for people trying to express their opinions about society and government. Hip-Hop music is an avenue for the Black, LGBT, Urban festival goer to celebrate who they are and the intersection of all three.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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February 7, 2017 12:35 pm Leave a Comment
Larry Sanchez, Festival Front End Manager.

“I remember my first Pride. It was in San Diego in 1985. I felt like a kid in the candy shop, like I had just met my favorite movie star – Mark Hamill of Star Wars – and just won an all-expense paid trip to Disneyland. I knew I was home.”

Larry began volunteering with San Diego Pride in 2005 as the beverage ticket sales Supervisor in the main beer garden. He has since volunteered as ticket sales Supervisor, ticket sales Coordinator, Front Gate Coordinator and has served for the past several years as the Festival Front End Manager. According to Larry, “the great thing about volunteering at San Diego Pride is the opportunity to meet and get to know so many wonderful people.”
1. Why do you volunteer with San Diego LGBT Pride?
I remember my first Pride like it was just yesterday and I want to help others experience their first Pride. I remember the feeling of wonder and awe that I had and I want to ensure that feeling lives on. I love seeing the look on people’s faces as they walk up to the festival. If I can help people coming to the festival feel the wonder and awe of Pride then my job is done.
1. What’s your official Pride title and what does it mean?
My official Pride title is Festival Front End Manager and it means that I coordinate and supervise the volunteers who sell tickets at the main entrance to the festival.
1. What are you reading right now?
For Common Things; Irony, Trust, and Commitment in America Today by Jedediah Purdy.
1. When you aren’t volunteering with Pride, where might you be found?
Petco, I have to pay the bills and anywhere I can take my dog Boo, a spaniel mix.
1. What’s the last movie you saw (DVD or in the theatre)?
A Dog’s Purpose. Hello, I work at Petco.
1. What’s the best advice you have for someone coming to Pride?
Avoid the lines, buy your festival tickets online.
1. Coffee or tea?
Coffee – Latte.
1. What’s playing on your iPod?
Lady Gaga and Psy (the Gangnam Style guy).
1. What should people know about you?
I have a dry, very dry and dirty sense of humor.
1. What are you looking forward to for Pride 2017?
I look forward to Pride every year, but this year I’m looking for our community to come together under the banner of resistance and defiance. We can and should celebrate who we are, but we need to be ready to resist and defy. We need to be ready for the Rainbow Revolution.

Be Part of the Pride Family!

If you’re interested in volunteering with San Diego Pride, we’d love to have you! Please follow the link below to learn more about how you can be involved in your community!

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Top 16 of 2016
December 20, 2016 8:00 am Leave a Comment
2016 was full of many challenges and triumphs. We have collected our top 16 moments of 2016. Thank you for all that you did to help make this all possible.

1. Lunch Bunch This year, we successfully rebranded our LGBT youth program as Lunch Bunch, and have been experiencing considerable attendance. Lunch can be one of the hardest parts of your day when you’re an LGBTQ student, so we’ve created a safe space for LGBT+ middle and high school youth to hang out, eat lunch, and learn! A fun, inclusive program held in partnership with the Trevor Project, Lunch Bunch is hosted at the San Diego Pride office every second Saturday of the month from 11 A.M. to 2 P.M. Come enjoy free lunch with a diverse and open-minded crowd! #YouCanSitWithUs For more information on the Lunch Bunch, click here.

2. Trans Scholarships San Diego Pride was proud to be the fiscal sponsor of the 13th Annual Transgender Day of Empowerment, as well as the 2nd Annual Tracie Jada O’Brien Transgender Student Scholarship Fund. Thanks to donations from the community, the committee was able to give $500 scholarships to eleven students with a variety of sexual orientations and backgrounds. The recipients’ academic interests range from teaching to neuroscience, and they will be studying as close as San Diego City College and as far as Harvard. Good luck, students! If you’d like to help contribute to next year’s scholarships, click here.

3. Stonewall Athletes Award This year, San Diego Pride created The Stonewall Athletic Awards in conjunction with the San Diego LGBT Sports Coalition to support, honor and enhance the San Diego LGBT athletic community by promoting inclusive and healthy competition and activities. Those who exemplify good sportsmanship and represent our community on and off the playing field were honored at this event. To learn more about the Stonewall Athletes Award, click here.

4. OUT at the Park – Mike Dee at Rally, Padres in Parade During our annual OUT at the Park event, the night quickly took a bad turn when the wrong song was played as our partners with the San Diego Gay Men’s Chorus stood in the field prepared to perform the national anthem. This terrible incident led to a powerful dialog between the Padres and San Diego’s LGBT community. During Pride Weekend, that meant none other than Padre CEO Mike Dee speaking at our Spirit of Stonewall Rally on equal opportunities for LGBT people in sports, and the Padres marching in our Pride Parade for the first time! To hear Mike Dee’s speech at the Pride Rally, click here.

5. OUT at the Fair As Pride always works to expand the safe spaces for our community, OUT at the Fair has become an annual favorite for LGBT+ friends and families to express their identities while spending the evening enjoying snacks, rides, and music! This year, the Del Mar Fairgrounds even added gender-neutral restrooms, in addition to receiving trans sensitivity training. For more information on OATF, click here.

6. Beach Clean Up – Civic Engagement Pride is one weekend out of the year, but our volunteers get active 365! This year, 30 volunteers cleaned up the beach at Belmont Park, teaming up with active military servicemen and women. Forty Pride volunteers sorted food at Feeding America San Diego, and even more volunteers took the time to serve food to seniors downtown at Serving Seniors on two occasions. This month, Pride volunteers are serving food, delivering hygiene products, and serving up water to homeless youth. If you’re interested in helping out at Pride, click here.

7. Dio Internacional del Orgullo LGBT La Programa Compañeros (LGBT Community Program of Mexico) celebrated their 30th anniversary on June 28th, hosting an event in collaboration with El Consulado General de Estados Unidos en Ciudad Juárez. The festivities were held not only to commemorate the organization’s anniversary, but also to spread awareness of HIV, domestic abuse, suicide prevention, and discrimination, and to educate attendees on sexual health. San Diego Pride was invited to give a presentation to government officials and LGBTQ activists on LGBTQ Youth policy reform and advocacy. For more information on the diplomatic trip, click here.

8. Pride World Forum In a display of solidarity, LGBT community leaders from 25 countries convened at the San Diego LGBT Community Center in Hillcrest. These leaders shared their experiences with fighting for their rights in their respective countries, and showed San Diego Pride their incredible perseverance and strength through their activism. You can watch the Pride World Forum in its entirety by clicking here.

9. SheFest SheFest is a by LBT women for LBT women event that celebrates and supports the talents and contributions of women while fostering meaningful connections within the LGBT and larger San Diego communities. This one-day festival was FREE to ALL and included music, workshops, games, and more in a safe space where women experienced support, encouragement and empowerment! For more information on 2016’s SheFest, click here.

10. Eric Fanning, Keynote Speaker at Pride Eric Fanning, Secretary of the Army, is the first openly gay person to lead a branch of the military. Because of this monumental achievement, Fanning has become an important figure in the LGBT community, and was invited to be San Diego Pride’s keynote speaker for the Spirit of Stonewall Rally and grand marshal at the Parade. To hear Eric Fanning’s speech, click here.

11. The First Time LGBT Black Coalition Marched in Pride During a time when people in our nation too often ignore the fact that #BlackLivesMatter, San Diego Pride was able to create a welcoming atmosphere for this growing organization. The San Diego Black LGBTQ Coalition made their debut in the San Diego Pride Parade and Festival this year. The LGBT Black Coalition is proud to celebrate their intersectional identities and promote human rights. To learn more about the LGBT Black Coalition’s experience at Pride, click here.

12. Pride Youth Marching Band In the Pride Parade this year, the Youth Marching Band made a lot of noise! The band consists of high school and college-age band or color guard members who either identify with or support the LGBT community. For more information on the Pride Youth Marching Band, click here.

13. Kesha Performed at the Pride Music Festival Kesha, a bisexual pop star and multi-platinum artist, performed during the Pride Music Festival in July this year. Her international visibility provides her a wide audience for promoting acceptance; she feels strongly about LGBT rights and uses her music to call for change. Her star power packed the festival as we all danced and celebrated under the beautiful San Diego sky!

14. LGBT History Curriculum in SDUSD Schools San Diego Pride has worked diligently over the years with our LGBT nonprofit community partners to push for LGBTQ reform within our school districts. This year marked a significant change for the better at San Diego Unified School District schools: LGBT history will be integrated into the curriculum, schools now have support staff for young LGBT students, and real-time bullying reporting has been implemented. For more information regarding SDUSD’s LGBT program, click here.

15. Pride Youth Leadership Academy The Pride Youth Leadership Academy was a smashing success this year! Thirty LGBTQ youth took part in learning about tools for advocacy and our community’s history, and heard first-hand accounts of being out in the workplace, in college, and in government positions. We were even joined by Assemblyman Todd Gloria and Senator Toni Atkins! For more information on the Pride Youth Leadership Academy, click here.

16. Pride Community Grants $80K This year was a great financial success! San Diego Pride is proud to have raised over $80,000 to donate as grants to more than 40 different LGBT organizations and causes. For more information about SD Pride’s grants and beneficiaries, click here.

17. Our top moments are dedicated to the Orlando victims This year was filled with many beautiful moment for our community. However, on June 12th, 49 innocent LGBT lives were cut short in Orlando, Florida’s Pulse Night Club. We helped our community come together to mourn in the following days, and in a show of solidarity, we began our Pride Parade with 49 Latinx individuals holding 49 banners with names, ages, and photos of the fallen, and one banner that read “San Diego United: Orlando Strong. We will never forget.”
2016 Spirit of Stonewall Rally Speakers
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We were honored to have the following speakers address the community about our many progresses and challenges in the 2016 Spirit of Stonewall Rally.

Secretary of the Army, Eric Fanning
Keynote Speaker

On the heels of his historic confirmation by the U.S. Senate as the 22nd Secretary of the U.S. Army, Eric Fanning will take the stage as keynote speaker at Friday’s rally and serve as one of San Diego Pride’s Honorary Grand Marshals for the parade on Saturday.

“I am humbled to be the keynote speaker and an honorary Grand Marshal. As our community moves forward, we strive for full inclusion of all Americans who can do the job, and just want an opportunity to serve the Nation they love.” –Eric Fanning.

For more information about Eric Fanning, please click here.

Mike Dee
Ending Homophobia in Sports

Mike Dee is the President and CEO of the San Diego Padres since July 2013. Since his return to San Diego, Dee has led the effort to revamp the organization’s baseball operations philosophy, overseen ownership’s commitment to renovate and improve Petco Park, spearheaded the club’s successful bid for the 2016 Major League Baseball All-Star Game and focused on transforming Petco Park into a 365-day, year-round facility with a variety of different events beyond Padres baseball.

For more information about Mike Dee, please click here.

Reverend Shane Harris
The Black and LGBT Intersection – Standing Together

Reverend Shane Harris is the founder and organizer of National Action Network San Diego. He works with both the Western Regional Director, Reverend K. W. Tulloss, and the founder and president of the National Action Network, Reverend Al Sharpton. He was born and raised in San Diego, CA, in the southeast region. Like many of the youth in that region of the city, he encountered the challenges of gangs, drug use, denial of self worth, and educational development. He also had the additional challenges resulting from the loss of both parents before the age of 16 and ending up in the foster care system for 13 years.

Jennifer Restle
The Intersection of Disability and Bisexuality

Jennifer Restle lives at the intersection of disability and bisexuality, using her voice to challenge societal beliefs in spaces where both communities often go unseen. She facilitated the San Diego Bisexual Forum and started the first Bi+ Coming Out Group at The Center. Currently, she is a dedicated member of San Diego Pride’s Accessibility Team, writes the blog “People Aren’t Broken” and is the CFO for Disability Rights California’s Board of Directors. In acknowledgement of her contributions, Jen was named one of eight LGBT disability rights activists of note by AfterEllen and was invited to the White House.

Lily Rubenstein
Young, Trans & Powerful

Lily Rubenstein is a 16-year-old transgender activist from San Diego. She has appeared on the Emmy-nominated “This is Me” documentary series, TRANSPARENT, HBO’s LOOKING, People Magazine, CBS, France 24, and “I am Cait.” She also speaks at school staff meetings and diversity trainings, and is on the Mayor’s LGBT Advisory Board. She enjoys advocating for the transgender community and hopes to make positive changes. In her personal life, she plays competitive volleyball, and volunteers for the Friendship Circle and Canine Companions for Independence.

Jen LaBarbera
The History of Pride

Jen LaBarbera is the Head Archivist at Lambda Archives of San Diego, the LGBTQ community archive for San Diego and Northern Baja California. Prior to entering the library/archives field, she spent 6 years working as a political organizer for reproductive justice, and brings that intersectional lens to the work of collecting, preserving, and teaching the LGBTQ history of our region. She has developed LGBTQ history presentations for local schools and community groups, and recently presented at an international information studies conference about connecting social justice activists with the archival records of their predecessors. When she’s not working, Jen can usually be found writing, running, doing yoga, or hanging out in her backyard with her partner, Alex, and their dog.

2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awards

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Spirit of Stonewall Awards

San Diego Pride was honored to recognize the following individuals or organizations as our 2016 Spirit of Stonewall awardees:

	Community Grand Marshal – Michael Moore	An individual who has demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBT community over an extended period of years with consideration to service to San Diego Pride.
	Champion of Pride – Sue Reynolds	An individual who has demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.
	Friend of Pride – Dale Kelly Bankhead	An individual who does not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but who has stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.
	Stonewall Service Award – #BeTheGeneration	A group or organization which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but which has stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.
	Stonewall Philanthropy Award – MARYAH	A group or organization which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but which has diligently raised funds to support the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.
	Inspirational Couple – Denice Williams & Dana Toppel	A couple whose love and commitment embodies the humanity our community.
	Community Service – Tita Viveros	An individual who is recognized as an up-and-coming leader within the community or whose contribution to the community in the past year was of particular significance.

Top 25
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With so many things to do at Pride, we’ve created the top 25 (+1) things to do during San Diego Pride! It’s a weekend celebrating love & happiness within our LGBT community and honoring our past. Bring your family and friends as we come together as a community to celebrate how PRIDE unites the world!

1. Military Contingent

Now a noted tradition at the San Diego Pride Parade, watch for the military contingent, which includes active duty and veteran service members. Be sure to cheer them on at the parade when the contingent passes by!

When: Saturday, July 16 at 11AM
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

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2. Youth Marching Band

What’s a parade without a marching band? Over 200 Southern California youth make up the Pride Youth Marching Band, which will perform down the San Diego Pride Parade route. Be entertained by this talented group of musical youth!

When: Saturday, July 16 at 11AM
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

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3. Pride resources: Free Rainbow Zone

Check out this new free addition to San Diego Pride to connect with community resources, food, music, and information! The Free Rainbow Zone will be located just outside the Pride Music Festival and include many longtime attractions of the San Diego Pride Festival, including Art of Pride, Lambda Archives history area, Senior Cool Zone, Youth Zone by Trevor Project, Pride Family Picnic by The Center’s Family Services, LGBT Black Coalition, South Bay Pride, ShePower – Queer women’s health area by the Lesbian Wellness Project, ongoing sobriety support by Live & Let Live Alano Club, 211 San Diego & County Resources, HIV testing, music all day and more! And no ticket is needed – this area is completely free and open to everyone!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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4. Motorcycles

It wouldn’t be a Pride parade without motorcycles – and lots of them! Listen for the revving of the engines, and watch the Motorcycle Contingent cruise by. Ride a motorcycle and want to be a part of the contingent? Registration is just $25.

When: Saturday, July 16 at 11AM
Where: San Diego Pride Parade

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5. Give us a sign (make a sign)

Show your Pride by making a sign! Posters, signs, and other statements of support are always appreciated along the parade route!

6. Rally

Pride celebrations everywhere trace their heritage to the evening of June 28, 1969, when patrons of the Stonewall Inn in New York City said “No more!” to police harassment. That protest has grown to annual events held in major cities throughout the world. In San Diego, our first rally was held in 1975. San Diego Pride’s Spirit of Stonewall Rally is a time to recognize and honor leaders who are working hard to preserve our gains and meet the many challenges still facing our community. Come join us on Friday, July 15, as cheering crowds and energetic speakers kick off San Diego Pride Weekend!

When: Saturday, July 15 at 6PM
Where: Marston Pt. (Balboa Dr. & 8th Dr.)

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7. Block Party

The Pride of Hillcrest Block Party kicks off Pride weekend in the heart of Hillcrest! This event for those 21 years and older includes food, drinks, carnival rides, and lots of DJs, go-gos, and dancing!

When: Friday, July 15th from 6PM – 11PM
Where: Hillcrest Pride Flag, Normal St & University Ave, San Diego, CA 92103

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8.Kesha

You read that right! Kesha will headline this year’s San Diego Pride Music Festival. Catch her on Saturday night at the main stage!

When: Saturday, July 16 at 7:55PM
Where: San Diego Pride Music Festival

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9. VIP or bust!

The best way to experience the San Diego Pride Music Festival is to do it VIP style! This year’s festival has a VIP ticket option, which includes a weekend pass, VIP entrance, VIP lounge, VIP restrooms, catered food, and 4 hosted drinks each day. Tickets and VIP passes are sold here.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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10. Food Trucks

With all the celebrating that will go on throughout the weekend, one has to eat! Food trucks will be available in the Free Rainbow Zone serving up all sorts of deliciousness all weekend long.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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11. Selfie Pride #SDPRIDE

Take lots of selfies throughout the weekend to show everyone what an amazing time you’re having at San Diego Pride! Be sure to use the hashtag #SDPRIDE for all your social media posts.

Facebook: Click here
Twitter: @SanDiegoPride
Instagram: @sandiegopride
Snapchat: sdpride365

12. Get tested

Knowing your HIV status is an important way to help us end new transmissions of the virus. Free HIV testing is always available at San Diego Pride!

13. Register to Vote

There’s a lot at stake this election season, so make sure you are able to vote in November by registering (or updating your registration)! Voter registration will be available at the San Diego Pride Music Festival.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

14. Dance in the open

San Diego has some of the most beautiful weather in the world, and dancing out in the open in the middle of the summer is one of the best things to do at San Diego Pride. From the Pride of Hillcrest Block Party, to the San Diego Pride Music Festival stages, there’s lots of room to dance!

15. Hold the GIANT Flag – parade

It’s tradition to close out the San Diego Pride Parade with the giant rainbow flag! As always, everyone is welcome to join in and help carry the flag to the San Diego Pride Music Festival, and this year, the flag will have special significance in honor of the victims of the Orlando shooting. Bring your friends, family, and signs of support and join in!

16. Gay hair don’t care (rainbow hair styles)

Get creative! Show off your Pride with a rainbow hairstyle, or whatever other colorful ideas you have. Pride is a celebration of our uniqueness so show it off!

17. Bring the kids – Pride family picnic area

Family Services at The Center will host the Pride Family Picnic Area within the Free Rainbow Zone. Bring the kids, and have a fun day at the park!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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18. Bounce Hip-Hop area

Celebrate diversity under San Diego’s amazing sky at five phenomenal stages over two days with more than 100 entertainers and thousands of your closest friends. Here at The Movement Hip-Hop Stage, our top notch DJs will be spinning the hottest sounds from Hip-Hop, Soul and R&B. With its own dance floor and beverage garden, this stage will keep you moving and in the zone!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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19. Get your latin on – stage

It’s musica Latina en español with some of the best emerging artists in live rock, folkloric dancing, y más. Enjoy the musical flavors with a Latin flair. Be a part of the Latino community at Mundo Latino!

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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20. Skip the ticket line – buy online

Why wait in line? Buy your Pride Music Festival tickets now online. Buy tickets here.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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21. Get your history – lambda

The San Diego region has an incredibly diverse LGBT history and it’s important to share it! Stop by the Lambda Archives history booth at the Free Rainbow Zone on Saturday and Sunday to learn more about the fascinating stories that have helped shape our community to what it is today.

Date: Saturday & Sunday, July 16 & 17, 2016
Time: Saturday 11 am – 10pm; Sunday 11 am – 8 pm
Location: Marston Pt., Balboa Park (6th Ave. & Laurel St.)

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22. Run for it! 5K

The annual Pride 5K is a healthy way to start Pride weekend. The 5K race starts and finishes at University Avenue and Centre Street and features gear check, after-race snacks, high-quality tech t-shirts, ChronoTrack disposable UHF RFID tags to record your time, a fast flat course along the parade, and a USAT& sanctioned and certified 5K course.

When: Saturday, July 16 at 9:30AM
Race Start and Finish: University Avenue at Centre Street

For more information, click here.
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23. Show your True Colors – rainbow outfit

Get decked out in everything rainbow! Rainbow socks, ties, tutus, accessories and more! Show your Pride!

24. Bud Contest

San Diego Pride is excited to offer the “Ultimate Bud Light Party” experience at San Diego Pride this year! You and a friend will be able to celebrate equality like a true ULTRA VIP at the 2016 San Diego Pride Parade and Festival. To enter the sweepstakes and get more info, click here.

25. Uber don’t drive

San Diego Pride weekend is a fun celebration, and for many, includes lots of adult beverages. Celebrate safely and catch a ride using the Uber app. Uber is the official rideshare partner for San Diego Pride. Use code SDPRIDE16.

More info and sign-up is here.

(+ 1) Know your Naughty side – check out the leather realm

The San Diego Leather Realm is a large, age-restricted area of The San Diego Pride Music Festival. The Leather Realm opens its doors for education and fun, to provide visibility, awareness and communication of Safe, Sane and Consensual play, Leather, BDSM, Fetish, and Kink Life Styles through hands-on demonstration areas, workshops, community organizations, and alternative-lifestyle friendly businesses.
Inspirational Couple – Denice Williams and Dana Toppel
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2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees
Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals or groups who contribute significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Spirit of Stonewall Award – Inspirational Couple
2016 Recipient: Denice Williams and Dana Toppel
Awarded to a couple whose love and commitment embodies the humanity our community.

Denice Williams and Dana Toppel share a commitment to do their part to create a world where everyone is happy, healthy, safe and thriving. The couple met 14 years ago while working at the Hillcrest Youth Center, a program of the San Diego LGBT Community Center. Both women (have and continue to) volunteer and work with organizations and initiatives that support the wellbeing of the San Diego community, including LGBT youth, individuals living with HIV and families. Denice serves on the Board of Directors at Christie’s Place, an organization that provides comprehensive HIV/AIDS education, support and advocacy to women, children and families impacted by HIV/AIDS and, as an avid cyclist, has completed the AIDS LifeCycle, a 545-mile bike ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles that raises funds to eliminate HIV/AIDS. Dana is the Chief Operating Officer at Jewish Family Service of San Diego, an organization that provides a wide range of vital human services to empower people of all ages and faiths to reach their goals and build better lives. Being the parents of an energetic, beautiful, loving five-year-old is the couple’s proudest accomplishment to date.
Stonewall Service – #BeTheGeneration
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2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees
Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals or groups who contribute significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Spirit of Stonewall Award – Stonewall Service
2016 Recipient: #BeTheGeneration
Awarded to a group or organization, which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but who has stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

The San Diego LGBT Community Center launched the groundbreaking #BeTheGeneration campaign in October 2014 with the goal of ending new infections of HIV in San Diego County by 2024. In the short time since the campaign’s launch, it has become a well-known brand around town, engaging community members to have conversations about the new hope in HIV, while decreasing the stigma and fear that prevent so many people from accessing testing, prevention tools, and treatment. Center staff members have infused #BeTheGeneration conversations into all of the agency’s programs, and the outreach team has engaged over 100 community members who serve as ambassadors of the campaign, speaking about tools like PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) – the once-daily pill that prevents HIV infection, and the importance of treatment to suppress the virus for those living with HIV. The Center has also trained a team of HIV test counselors who provide client-centered HIV test counseling, encouraging clients to be empowered to take care of their own health. #BeTheGeneration looks forward to seeing an end to new cases of HIV once and for all – and will keep working until the goal is reached.
Friend of Pride – Dale Kelly Bankhead
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2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees
Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals or groups who contribute significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Spirit of Stonewall Award – Friend of Pride
Awarded to an individual or couple who does not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but who has stalwartly supported the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

2016 Recipient: Dale Kelly Bankhead

Dale Kelly Bankhead is the Secretary-Treasurer of the San Diego-Imperial Counties Labor Council, where she leads the over 200,000 working families and 135 affiliated unions of our local labor movement. She comes to this position after many decades working on behalf of equality and social justice, including for the LGBT community.

Most notably, Dale has been active in the fight for marriage equality, serving as statewide manager for the No on 8 Campaign and its predecessor, Equality for All. She has appeared in the media many times, both nationally and locally, to discuss this issue and was instrumental in securing the endorsement of the conservative San Diego Union-Tribune for marriage equality. Dale’s work also includes leading the fight to oust the discriminatory Boy Scouts from their free location in city-owned Balboa Park and serving on the Anti-Bullying Task Force of the San Diego Unified School District.

Dale held a number of senior policy and management positions on the staff of Assembly Speaker Emeritus Toni Atkins and has played a prominent role in legislative successes on behalf of the LGBT community, such as bills which eliminated much of the expense and other hurdles associated with ensuring that a transgender person’s birth and death certificates accurately reflect their gender identity.

Dale has served on the Board of Directors of the San Diego LGBT Community Center since 2003 and held the position of co-chair in 2011 and 2012 and then again in 2014 and 2015.

Dale’s professional background includes eight years as the Public Affairs Director for the ACLU of San Diego & Imperial Counties and numerous political campaigns. She has been honored many times for her social justice work by organizations such as the San Diego Democratic Party, San Diego Democrats for Equality, the Metropolitan Community Church and the Tom Homann Law Association.
Community Champion – Fernando “Junior” Buendia
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2016 Stonewall Athlete Awards
The Stonewall Athletic Awards support, honor and enhance the San Diego LGBT athletic community by promoting inclusive and healthy competition and activities. Each year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community to recognize individuals and groups in their respective categories.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Stonewall Athlete Award – Community Champion
2016 Recipient – Fernando “Junior” Buendia
This award is given to an individual, group, or business that has significantly contributed to the financial well-being of recreational or competitive athletics within San Diego’s LGBT community.

“Junior” first started working with elementary school students in underprivileged neighborhoods for an elective when he was studying biochemistry and playing lacrosse for UCSD. Shortly after graduating, he began playing in recreational leagues such as SDAFFL, SDTF, and SD Hoops.

When he started coaching football with the SDAFFL, he realized that his team really believed in him, so he decided to drag them to do similar projects such as tutoring, school clean-ups, and fundraising at schools that needed help. His team efforts soon became league efforts in helping with collecting backpacks and shoe funds for students in low-income families. He even led a Sports Day at Memorial Prep offering free sports training, and free food was provided for the students and their parents and siblings.

It was in the fall of 2009 Junior realized that the kids simply needed more. Using the community he had created through the SDAFFL, SDTF, and SD Hoops, he began planning an event he called “We Care.” This would be a free event which would serve to do many things: raise money for underprivileged students at Memorial Prep in Barrio Logan and for the youth programs at the LGBT Center, and bring in hundreds of toys for the Imperial Court’s Toys for Kids Drive. In addition to a raffle which gives 100% of the proceeds back to kids in need, the event has now grown to include SD High Rollers Bowling, SD Armada Rugby, SAGA Ski/Snowboard and Different Strokes Swim Team, among other local groups. Lasting just a couple hours on a Sunday night for the last seven years, the event has attracted up to 800 people at a time and in total has raised just short of $30,000 and collected about 4,500 toys for needy children.

Junior has also created his own position with certain LGBT sports leagues as “Community Outreach” board member and gotten the leagues involved with collections of Easter baskets for kids, AIDS walk, SD Food Bank virtual and physical drives, and, more recently, a 5th grade Essay Contest through his brand SDAFFL Cares.
Philanthropist – Mo’s Universe
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2016 Stonewall Athlete Awards
The Stonewall Athletic Awards support, honor and enhance the San Diego LGBT athletic community by promoting inclusive and healthy competition and activities. Each year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community to recognize individuals and groups in their respective categories.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Stonewall Athlete Award – Philanthropy
2016 Recipient – Mo’s Universe
This award is given to an individual, group, or business that has significantly contributed to the financial well-being of recreational or competitive athletics within San Diego’s LGBT community.

In just the past four years, the company’s cash donations to a variety of organizations total $158,348. That figure includes annual, minimum donations of $20,000 to the San Diego LGBT Community Center, which MO’s Universe has actually been making for some years.

MO’s Universe has also committed to supporting several LGBT sports organizations each year, including America’s Finest Softball League, SD Hoops, SDAFFL and, more recently, the Varsity Gay League.

MO’s Universe is also dedicated to providing a safe and fun environment for the LGBT community to be themselves while enjoying delicious eats and colorful libations at one of our four locations: Urban MO’s, Baja Betty’s, Gossip Grill and Hillcrest Brewing Company.
Volunteer – Tom Abbas
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2016 Stonewall Athlete Awards
The Stonewall Athletic Awards support, honor and enhance the San Diego LGBT athletic community by promoting inclusive and healthy competition and activities. Each year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community to recognize individuals and groups in their respective categories.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Stonewall Athlete Award – Volunteer
2016 Recipient – Tom Abbas
This award is given to a volunteer whose invaluable and significant contributions of time and skills have ensured the success of their league, athletic competition, or recreational sport in the San Diego region.

Tom Abbas began volunteering as an accountant for The Center between 1990 and 1992. In 1993, he participated in a benefit for Special Delivery San Diego. That led to service as a member of the board of directors serving from 1993 to the present. Tom’s board positions during these years were either as Treasurer or President. He began playing in America’s Finest City Softball League in 1994. In 1995, Tom became a member of the board of directors for over 10 years, serving first as Treasurer, then as Assistant Commissioner and Commissioner. He was part of the San Diego host committee for the Gay Softball World Series in both 1997 and 2005. Tom’s position as Commissioner included Co-Chairman of the annual Autumn Classic tournament. He has been on the board of directors for Greater San Diego Business Association Charitable Foundation from 2000 to present, serving as both Treasurer and President in different years. His service with the foundation also included serving on the annual Hillcrest Mardi Gras for most of the 12 years it was held.
Stonewall Philanthropy Award – MARYAH
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2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees
Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals or groups who contribute significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Spirit of Stonewall Award – Stonewall Philanthropy Award
2016 Recipient – MARYAH (Metro Area Real Estate Professionals for Young Adult Housing)
Awarded to a group or organization, which may or may not identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender, but who has diligently raised funds to support the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

MARYAH (Metro Area Real Estate Professionals for Young Adult Housing) is a group of local professionals in the LGBT and Allied communities. For the past 11 years, MARYAH has been fundraising for the Sunburst Youth Housing Project – a program of the San Diego LGBT Community Center that provides safe and supportive housing for San Diego’s homeless youth, including LGBT and HIV-positive youth.

MARYAH’s dedicated board of directors, comprised of more than 20 hardworking real estate professionals, produce three fundraising events throughout the year. Their signature David Yoder memorial Casino Royale and Poker Tournament, Summer Solstice and Harvest Howl have not only proved you can put the “fun” in fundraising but also shown how well a professional community can work together to make a difference. The members of MARYAH have raised hundreds of thousands of dollars to help the Sunburst Youth Housing Project and are changing the lives of our youth.

Thank you to all of the past and present MARYAH board members and to every person who has attended one of their events over the past 11 years.
Champion of Pride – Sue Reynolds
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2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees
Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals or groups who contribute significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Spirit of Stonewall Award – Champion of Pride
2016 Recipient: Sue Reynolds
An individual or couple who has demonstrated outstanding leadership in the LGBT community over an extended period of years and/or has made an exceptional contribution in the past year.

Sue Reynolds is the head of Community HousingWorks (CHWorks.org), a leading California nonprofit housing developer and owner of affordable apartments based in San Diego. Under Sue’s leadership, CHW is partnering with The Center in July 2016 to break ground on the construction of San Diego’s first LGBT-affirming affordable senior apartment community. Sue has a personal connection to this apartment project. As a young lesbian in the 1980’s, Sue demonstrated for LGBT civil rights in D.C. by day, and then joked with friends at night about living together when they all got old in “the old lesbians’ home.” Sue doesn’t know which is more surprising – that she did get old herself, or that she is actually getting to build apartments that make real that long-ago dream!

Born in Ohio and educated in New York City, Sue moved to San Diego in 1989 to be with the love of her life and now wife, Allison Rossett, for whom she is always grateful. Sue has been a leading affordable housing advocate and builder of apartments in San Diego ever since. She followed Jennifer LeSar into the leadership of CHW almost 19 years ago, just in time to open CHW’s Marisol Apartments, the county’s first affordable apartment community for people with HIV and AIDS. She is a singer, a hiker and a consumer of much art and theater. Thank you, Pride, for this amazing recognition of me and the team at CHW that is making this LGBT senior community possible, including Anne Wilson, Dave Gatzke and Sylvia Martinez. And hats off to The Center and to the LGBT senior advocates, too numerous to safely name, who held the vision while we all worked to make this haven for our elders possible.
Community Service – Tita Viveros
June 2, 2016 2:45 pm Leave a Comment
2016 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees
Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals or groups who contribute significantly to the LGBT community through their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

For a full list of our awardees, please click here.

Spirit of Stonewall Award – Community Service
2016 Recipient: Tita Viveros
An individual or couple who is recognized as an up-and-coming leader within the community or whose contribution to the community in the past year was of particular significance.

Born in Veracruz, Mexico, to a very conservative family, Tita Viveros reached San Diego in the early 90s, fleeing the violence and rejection that forces many LGBT people to leave their countries of origin.

In her journey to joining a different culture, Tita sought out support groups and community agencies for assistance. In addition to guidance, she found friends who became a new family to help her heal from difficulties in her past. Tita was empowered to help others in similar situations, especially the Hispanic LGBT community living in the Tijuana /San Diego area.

Since 1994, Terry Albritton and Roger Sanchez have trained and given Tita the opportunity to facilitate support groups, and since 1996 she has been involved in community agencies such as Christie’s Place, Pacto Latino AIDS Organization, Bienestar San Diego, The LGBT San Diego Center, COCUT Tijuana and Jardin de Las Mariposas, Tijuana.

Tita has also been part of organizing committees that raise awareness and educate about LGBT topics, HIV and Immigration, such as Transgender Day of Remembrance, Transgender Day of Empowerment, Remembranza Trans Tijuana (Transgender Day of Remembrance Tijuana), Jornada contra la Homofobia Tijuana (Journey against Homophobia Tijuana), and many more that are held on both sides of the border.

In addition, Tita has served as HIV Case Manager and Treatment Educator for Comprehensive Health Center, Housing Coordinator for Pacto Organization Latino AIDS Organization, and Latino Ministry Coordinator at Metropolitan Community Church. She currently works as a Patient Advocate for Pride Pharmacy in Hillcrest.

In her more than 20 years of work in the LGBT community, Tita has learned from such leaders as Tracie O’Brien, Connor Maddocks, Carolina Ramos, Rev. Ramon Flores and others to help people improve their health and quality of life with guidance in their medical treatments, gender transitions and supportive services that benefit our community.
Bisexual Health Awareness Month
March 30, 2016 2:07 pm Leave a Comment
Did you know that March is Bisexual Health Awareness month? For the third year, led by the Bisexual Resource Center, bi+ community organizations have come together to highlight the physical and mental health disparities experienced by those who, by behavior or self-identification, possess the capacity for attraction to more than one gender. We use words like bi, fluid, pansexual, queer and omnisexual to describe ourselves, while some of us eschew labels altogether. Bi+ is emerging as a term used to refer to this multi-faceted community and used here for that purpose.

Bi+ people experience higher rates of obesity and cardiovascular disease than our lesbian, gay and heterosexual peers. We have higher rates of suicide, smoking, substance abuse and mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety and eating disorders. Members of our community experience intimate partner violence at higher rates. Moreover, we are less likely to access health care services, with bi+ adults less likely to have a consistent health care provider and more likely to be uninsured and live below the poverty line.

One way to mitigate the impact of these disparities is to bring bi+ people together. Through social interaction, a sense of community, support, sharing of resources and having fun, we can positively impact our lives. We offer the following groups in the San Diego community in the hopes that the disparities can be lessened by the power of community.

Bisexual Fluid Queer Community in San Diego
http://www.facebook.com/groups/BiFluidQueerCommunitySD/

amBi San Diego
A group that exists to build Bi Community through a variety of events and activities that allows bisexuals to meet, establish meaningful friendships, and have fun!
http://www.meetup.com/amBiSD/

Bi Bar
A fun, social, safe space built intentionally to be 100% accepting of all self-identifications, trans/poly/kink/disability friendly, size-accepting, and culturally diverse.
http://www.meetup.com/Bi-Bar-San-Diego/

Bi/Fluid/Queer Coming Out Group
A supportive space to explore what being out means in our own lives. Meets at 7:00pm the third Wednesday of each month at the LGBT Center.

Bisexual Forum of San Diego
A discussion group with a strong emphasis on social connection. Meets at 7:00pm the second Tuesday of each month in Room #2 at the LGBT Center.
http://www.meetup.com/amBiSD/

Latina Bisexual and Lesbian Group (San Diego)
A group focused on building a stronger queer Latina community through participation in events and activities.
http://www.meetup.com/Latina-Bisexual-Lesbian-Group-San-Diego/

San Diego Bisexual Women Meetup
A place for bisexual women to meet, socialize and connect to celebrate our bisexuality and the wonderful opportunities that come along with it.
http://www.meetup.com/san-diego-bisexual-women/
1st Place Essay: “School is a battle field: gender identity affirmation”
February 16, 2016 11:34 am Leave a Comment
The school feels like a battlefield just before the first shot is fired.

Every day, I walk past the restrooms in the one hundred building. Every day, I have to change in the wrong locker room. Every day, I feel the stares on my back and often hear whispers.

Walking to fourth period PE every day starts a racing in my chest and a sickness in my stomach. The boys’ locker room is a right turn. The girls’ is to the left. My thoughts, taking up the voice of a harsh commander, weigh the options each time I approach. To the left, there are the piercing eyes of the girls. How many would ask about me behind my back? How many would question me upfront? To the right, there is no way to expect what could happen. Would they beat me up? Kick me out? Both? We could turn back and go to the counsellor. We could go to the nurse.

No, we have to change in the girls’ locker room. That’s what we do every day. That’s what everyone wants you to do.

So I take the left turn, and I walk down the small flight of stairs, and I walk to my locker, and I hate every moment of it.

The school offers help, but it feels cold and scripted. The nurse has pulled me out of class to ask me about my gender. I should have been grateful, but I was scared and felt pressured. I nodded at everything she said and tried to listen, but I just wanted to go back to class.

Go back to the class containing the teacher that, for a while, I believed had ruined my life. At Open House, he asked my mother what my gender was. He questioned her and told her things that were none of his business. I want to think positive, but I find it hard to forgive him. Because of him, my mother will never look at me the same way again.

I have no support coming from my friends. At least, I once thought they were my friends. I have no support from home. School offers help, but I find it hard to reach out for help. When I look to myself as a last resort, I find no confidence. Sometimes, school leaves me weary and wanting to give up. Most often, I just want to fast forward to when I turn eighteen.

I want to get away from parents, from people who doubt me and judge me. I want to get away from the image of who everyone thought I was.

Our world has come so far to help people like me. With slight improvements, more education, and safe programs, we can help so many people. Instead of pulling us aside, singling us out, and saying things without our permission, we need to be able to reach out and communicate with each other. Every person deals with things differently. We must understand these differences.
2nd Place Essay: “Definition of gay: stereotypes and the importance of affirming educators”
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As a child, I never really understood what it meant to be gay. I never understood the strict borders between pink and blue, between dolls and race cars, between pretty dresses and sports-related t-shirts. I never understood why these boundaries existed, and why I was on the “wrong” side of the wall. Nonetheless, I kept going, and I became who I am now, someone strong, both mentally and emotionally, and someone who loves himself and who is willing to help others love themselves too.

My name is Daniel. I am fifteen years old and a sophomore at Point Loma High. It’s been two years that I’ve been out of the closet, and eight years knowing I like boys. Though I face challenges at school, I’m still largely accepted in school, which makes me very grateful. The largest challenges I’ve faced are stereotypical judgements like “All gay guys are insanely flamboyant and overly dramatic,” and the occasional peer who uses homosexuality to make jokes. As irritating as these problems are, I know not to take them seriously.

Being gay has never been easy, but my experience has been facilitated thanks to some of my current and previous teachers and counselors who point out anything they believe can help me, like clubs, groups, and books; without them, I wouldn’t be who I am today, and I wouldn’t be writing this essay. My counselors have helped me through problems, from dealing with emotions to finding places where I can be myself. I truly am fortunate to have them.

As open as our school is, it is far from being perfect. Point Loma High is really great, but I believe there are more ways it could support our LGBTQ+ youth. One way is by having more clubs or groups that support the LGBTQ+ youth and community in the school. Another way I think the school could support us is by having an all school Pride day, or Pride week, allowing the students to wear their sexual orientations’ colors and expressing themselves. The last way I think the school could support us is by having assemblies talking about our community, sexual orientations, and to speak out when there is bullying and hate present. This would encourage the students to take us seriously, stop making jokes, and allow us to show not only our own, but the school’s support and dedication to the LGBTQ+ youth of today and the years to come.

At this point, I know that the determination and ambition of others along with my own can change the way schools see the youth of a different sexual orientation, and how that goal isn’t far from becoming a reality. I know that I share this wish with others, and I am eager to find out how high we can go in making this dream take shape. I know that together, we can bring the wall down, I know that together we can speak out. With pride. For pride.
3rd Place Essay: “A discussion: Intersection of ethnicity, nationality, body image, mental health, and LGBTQ issues”
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When I was eight years old and watched the Selena movie for the first time, I immediately identified with her and our shared Mexican-American struggle. It reminded me of kindergarten, where, despite attending a diverse school, I was told by my teacher that I wasn’t allowed to speak Spanish and that my native tongue was filthy. This created a barrier I wasn’t able to climb until middle school where I took my first Spanish class and realized the rich history I was keeping myself from. Prior to then, I believed Spanish and my Mexican heritage was forbidden to speak of. That in turn made my Mexican relatives judge me as I struggled to hold a small conversation when visiting in Baja California.

This ideology also followed me into my adolescence when I first began to discover my queerness. Androgyny depicted in the media was the opposite of my body’s characteristics – I was not a pale, thin, masculine presenting person but rather a brown, fat, more feminine presenting individual. This misconception that “queerness” was defined by how flat I could bind my chest or how well I could fluctuate and “pass” as both male and female made me feel like I would never be transgender enough. My biggest challenge after coming out as genderqueer at school has been trying to create a positive and safe space for other queer students and our allies on campus. Issues arose after attempting to start our first Gay-Straight-Alliance club that led to several board meetings, contact with the ACLU, as well as my hospitalization in a mental health institution and rehabilitation center for several weeks.

While there I realized that my school as well as these health and wellness establishments were lacking in its inclusivity of transgender identities nor did they know how to respond to issues such as body dysphoria, bullying by staff, and abusive relationships within schools and the greater LGBTQIA community. After returning to school, our gender neutral bathroom was set in place which took a very heavy weight off my shoulders as well as the change in my school email to my real name rather than my birthname and staff being informed of my identity and pronouns. Three major steps I believe all schools should take to be supportive of LGBTQIA students are to create safe spaces like GSAs or community groups where youth can come and discuss their gender or sexuality questions without judgement or fear as well as establish gender neutral restrooms and use inclusive language within the classroom (ie “class” instead of “ladies and gentlemen”).

Now, a year after my hospitalization, I’ve made it my goal to educate and advocate for transgender and race issues within my school, workplace, and general public. I’ve come to learn that my Mexican-American experience is different than others’ and as long as I identify as queer, my appearance is “queer enough.” I don’t have to prove myself to anyone. I am always enough.
Champions of Pride- Tracie Jada O’Brien
June 25, 2015 11:25 am Leave a Comment
2015 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals who contribute significantly to the LGBT community though their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

Champions of Pride-Tracie Jada O’Brien

Since surviving the mean streets of San Francisco’s Tenderloin District in the 1970s as a young transgender street kid, Tracie Jada O’Brien has persevered and worked tirelessly to become an outstanding role model within – and a staunch advocate for – the transgender community.

Professionally she has provided decades of life-saving work to the LGBT community as Coordinator of Project S.T.A.R. (Supporting Transgender Access to Resources), as an addictions treatment counselor at Stepping Stone of San Diego — and most recently — as a medical case management worker for Family Health Centers of San Diego, Inc.

Always one step ahead of the movement, she participated in the first consultation forum for trans* individuals with the CDC in 2005. She helped create the first HIV Prevention brochure targeting trans* women of color – and even posed as the cover model. She founded San Diego’s Transgender Day of Empowerment that is now in its fourteenth year and the Tracie Jada O’Brien Student Scholarship Program that gave out three scholarships to deserving trans* and gender-nonconforming youth in its very first year.

She has been a speaker for and active with the Transgender Leadership Summit, The California Office of AIDS Transgender HIV Equality and Party Conferences, Transgender Center of Excellence (San Francisco), and the Center of Excellence for Transgender HIV Prevention and many more.
Champions of Pride- Conner Maddocks
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2015 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals who contribute significantly to the LGBT community though their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

Champions of Pride- Conner Maddocks
Connor Maddocks has been doing advocacy and civil rights work in the San Diego Transgender community for the past 12 years.

He is the lead facilitator of the San Diego FTM-SO Discussion group, and is an active guest speaker to various organizations, businesses and colleges on Transgender issues. He has done extensive trainings on all aspects of the Transgender Community as well as workshops for the community on legal name and gender changes.

He is a member of the Community Leadership Council of San Diego, Chair of the San Diego Day of Remembrance, and planning committee member of the Day of Empowerment. He is a former member of the San Diego Pride Board of directors, and an active volunteer of Pride for the past 11 years.

Connor is also a member of the American Cancer Society California LGBT Diversity team, a Past Co-Chair of TASC San Diego and he also served on the Transgender Leadership Summit planning committee, and the LGBTQ Reducing Disparities Project – TG Advisory Group. His list of community service continues with the Equality Professionals Network (EPN) Steering Committee, San Diego Police Department Chief’s LGBT Advisory Board, as well as the San Diego Department of Veterans Affair’s (VA) LGBTQ Workgroup.

He also works to provide trainings to the San Diego County Sheriff’s Department, and in 2015 he began working San Diego Police Department doing the very first trainings on Transgender issues for the department, training the police officers in every division in the city.

Connor is currently employed by the San Diego LGBT Community Center as the Facilities Manager and Program Coordinator for Project TRANS. He is also the parent of 3 daughters and grandparent to 8 beautiful grandkids.
Grand Marshal
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2015 Spirit of Stonewall Awardees

Every year, San Diego Pride accepts nominations from the community for the annual presentation of the Spirit of Stonewall Awards. The awards recognize individuals who contribute significantly to the LGBT community though their leadership, activism, and/or fundraising efforts.

Community Grand Marshal – Trans Community
Rather than honor a single person, San Diego Pride has named the entire Trans* Community as the Community Grand Marshal for the 2015 San Diego Pride Parade.

From the streets of Greenwich Village to the cover of Time magazine, the trans* community has come a long way.

Since well before the Stonewall Riots of 1969, trans* people have been standing up and fighting for our rights, dignity, and equality, right alongside our LGB siblings. In fact, three years before Stonewall, in 1966, a group of trans* women took a stand against discrimination and police harassment in Los Angeles – an event now known as the Compton Cafeteria Riots.

At Stonewall in ‘69, trans* & gender non-conforming activists like Marsha P. Johnson, Miss Major, and Sylvia Rivera played a huge role in the riots and ongoing movement that rippled forth.

While the trans* community has gained some increased visibility in recent years, we continue to face a disproportionate amount of discrimination, legal inequality, and hate-driven violence. It has never been more important that our entire LGB community stand in solidarity with our trans* siblings in the struggle.

The Community Grand Marshal contingent will include trans* and gender non-conforming individuals from all walks of life standing side-by-side with friends, families, and allies.

Our hope is to highlight the T in LGBT as we continue our shared struggle, honoring the contributions of people who are trans* and gender non-conforming in the pursuit of liberty and justice